I was wondering why my dude was so familiar, finally realized my man looks like Carl from GTA San Andreas….good content bro I really dislike those mind games those are just attention seekers they hold a carrot in your nose and love watching you trying to reach for it knowing damn well you’ll never get it, best thing to do if you sense that behavior is leaving her alone
One way to leverage cold approach so you never get flakers. Just give your number out and never take theirs. That way when you cold approaching the girls who actually call you are the ones you focus on. I learn this late in life. It also weeds out alot of numbers and takes away your responsibility. I lose so many phone numbers or waited to long to call a girl number I got. Sometimes girls see me again years later and be like you fake..why you never called me. Giving girls your number let them call you. Some might lose your number or something. But that way when they see you again they can ask you for your number. Also the girls who call you have that chasing you energy.
@TheRealZmanWorld That’s like saying in sales all rich people won’t buy your product so that makes them an equal prospect to someone who’s poor. You still have a better chance selling to rich prospects even if not all of them buy.
They always playing mind game. I play my game with them too. I give them a fake sense that they are actually learning so much about me. So women who are just thrill-seeker avoid me after one time conversation. That's how I filter time-wasting women. Lol. That's how those games bite you in the ass when you are not as smart as you think, but you think otherwise.
I only use cold approach as a TOOL i go out to set places, like the mall, the park, the club, the museum or library, zoo or science center to cold approach women ie i call these places hunting grounds. the goal is to get 10 to 20 numbers. An go through them all to see which ones are DTF the soonest. Those who saying something i dont like. i delete her number.
Lmao I used to do that same thing bro, me and my boy would go to the mall and we couldn’t leave until we got a set amount of numbers. It’s fun if you have the time. But I’m curious, on an average day how many girls out of 20 would respond? And then how many would you end up actually smashing?
@MarvOverMatter once or twice a week. My goal is to get one number a week that's it. An that's if i go to store or gas station that's it. But back in the day when I use to do malls and clubs and stuff. The vast majority of numbers I got .I never called. Plus I had a rotation so for me it was all about numbers and getting the girls who was hard to get to say yes. I was operating on hard mode for the thrill of it. I lost more women that way because a lot of them got mad I wouldn't smash right away..if a girl wanted me to smash I would not pursue her. I only went got the girls who were hard to get. I'll say out 10 I cracked like 4 out of 10. Would been more if I was a sucker and did dates and stuff but I never spend money on women..I don't take girls on dates. But that ratio is out of the women who said no. If I only focus on women who wanted to have sxxx right away..they would be scary..it was way too many for me to sleep with. So let's say I got twenty numbers that week it's all 3 to 5 who are hard to get. Those was the ones I focused on. There were maybe two or three I would sleep with. An the others I would put off sleeping with. Out of the ones I put off. When I hit them up 6 months later They phone number be changed or off They tell me they got a boyfriend Some be like who is you I don't remember you Some be holding a grudge and tell me outright And some cuss me out for waiting almost a year to follow through. For me getting numbers cold approach is just to always have an abundance of possibilities. Even now I got a rotation of 5 girls. An I only meet a few women a week because I am only focusing on sleeping with chicks two or three times unless her box is good she may go in my every blue moon rotation. But I don't horde a notebook full of phone numbers. But I see your point..my issue back then was it was easy to get pxxxxsy I wanted women who didn't like me. So that's what I approach the most. If a girl gave me choosing signals I ignored her. I just like the challenge of turning No's into a yes and spending money on them to get in their pants. Some women who said no literally switch up when they seen a chick who like me approaching me.. other times one of they friends would be like I fxxxkrd him and then it go from No to yes Once a girl who number i got when I was in highschool met my ex girlfriend and had her bring her over my house. That same girl wouldn't let me crack in highschool but my ex was like he is a freak girl and he like the energizer bunny..I smashed ole girl one time then gave my cousin her number. He got some and so did his uncle. I lost all respect for a chick when she tell me no so the goal is to smash and dash
@MarvOverMatter well first off back in the day we didn't have social media until like 2000. So that's pretty much it outside of chat lines over the phone. But I racked up more girls than I could ever talk to. Most girls I never called..I was collecting numbers just to have back ups, for if a girl in my rotation left. Some would want more eventually and phase out. Especially as I got older. My rule was don't have kids and never marry. But I still got a few girls from my rotation still around 20 years later. An a bunch of new girls But for me getting numbers wasn't focused on getting to smash. I had more poonanny than I knew what do with. I literally had ten girls I was smashing. Now I got a rotation of 5. But I still have few others I see every blue moon. For me getting phone numbers was really to make sure I never was in drought.. An I haven't had drought since I was 16 years old. An I'm 47 now. I still meet girls off of tinder, cold approach and I still get approached. Each everyone I rush to clap the cheeks to eliminate those who move slower. Before when I was younger I never brought up sxxxx, which cause more women to bring it up or push it. I had too many women wanting to sleep with me I would literally flake in them or ghost them. I got so many numbers I never called all of them Some I call six months later and forgot what she looked like and she forgot who I was. Or her phone be disconnected or she says she in a relationship now or she say you got the wrong number. Lol an the girls who I put on the back burner months later they be mad I trying to smash because when they was offering at first I played them an went ghost... I just like getting girls numbers who was hard to get. I focused on the girls who weren't easy to get them with rebuttals and finesse them out they cat. It was ego boost. All about the game and mental manipulation.
that happened to me few weeks ago, i meet this girl on her work gave my number, really attractive girl btw, she reached out first , i didnt waste much time to set up the date , i gave her 1 week in advance just to make sure, she said ye, but in later the week to confirm the date , she didnt respond to it . so i let it go, i dont know if the outcome would be the same if i continued persuing but i know that is the wrong approach
Yeah asking her again is never gonna be good. You made the right choice, just move on. A girl is NOT doing that if she wants to spend time with you. Keep your dignity, always. 💯
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 I approach because I was taught that in the beginning of the playa days. It's old school stuff right there. But I like being approached more. The key is to go where women will notice you. If your body is banging the pool, pool parties anywhere you can take your shirt off.. If you are a good dancer and know all the moves go to different clubs til you find one all the girls there are stalking you. If you can sing or write poetry that get girls hot, go to open mics. You need to be a big fish and small pond..and create talents that outshine 80% of others. I used to roller skate and got all the girls from skating..it's so easy.. Girls at my old job used to approach me all the time because I would wear slacks or khakis that made my print show. Plus my thighs are muscular and they could see my shape in them pants. Just do stuff to make girls approach you
This is probably your best video God 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙋. Everything you said was spot on. I recently got this chicks number at the park when she came through asking me if I knew this dude who's name she said, I said "no, I don't know who that is", I asked her " do you have a number?", she said yeah and gave me her math,so I call her a day or two later because my phone died then I spent another day just taking care of my personal business. I called yesterday and immediately she's already playing games LOL 🤣. Responding to texts extra late, I called just one time instead of texting and I got no answer LOL. I'll be deleting her number today. I'm not even gonna call her no more. Mind you this chick is only like a five on a scale of 1-10 too LOL 🤣. It's so bad in the US concerning how women are now that women who aren't even attractive behave as if they're God's gift to the whole entire planet. You literally literally literally cant make this 💩 up LOL 🤣🤨. Great video as always lord. I can't wait to see you make it to having 100K subscribers,you definitely deserve it fam. I'll be waiting for the next vid to drop. Until then, salute 🫡 and much love king 🙋.
Bro that happens to all of us. And yeah the sub 7’s act the worse no lie. You think you gonna pick up something easy but because everybody thinks that they really the one who get approached the most. And get a distorted version of reality about their looks. But yeah if she didn’t answer the text and call. Move on man. Not worth the mental or emotional investment. And man I really appreciate that. The channels growing and I’m just gonna keep my foot on the gas. 🙏🏾 My DAWG!
@MarvOverMatter She answered my text's,she just replied to them late(as I already knew she would before I even texted her), I've already moved on,she just doesn't know that LOL 😆. I'm 6'2", caramel complexion,slender and fit, look at least 10 plus year's younger than my actual age, bushy/curly thick dark brown hair, handsome face, I have no problem attracting women. Earlier before I watched this video, a black chick walked by me and waved as she whispered "Hi" because I had earbuds in LOL 🤣. I get choosing signals all the time 😎. What's my point in posting all of this?. IT'S HER LOSS FELLAS,NOT MINE. I'M THE PRIZE 😎. Salute king 👑🙋.
@@SIGMAMINDEDMGTOW for the next 90 days every time a girl gives you choosing signals wave her over to you. If she don't walk over to you just ignore her. If she walks to you chat her up like usual and give her your number Every girl you cold approach give them your number..just pick one day out the week to go out and give girls your phone number. That way you don't have a bunch numbers saved in your phone..an you only focus on the ones who call you. Getting girls numbers can be cumbersome especially if you get alot of them. You get good at getting numbers. It's a waste of time.. If a girl approaches you give her your number. Only return calls. let girls call you. I can't be mad at the chicks because I flake on alot girls too. Same thing they be doing..I do to them.. because I'm talking to too many different girls. As for choosing signals. If you well put together you will get those every day
I was wondering why my dude was so familiar, finally realized my man looks like Carl from GTA San Andreas….good content bro I really dislike those mind games those are just attention seekers they hold a carrot in your nose and love watching you trying to reach for it knowing damn well you’ll never get it, best thing to do if you sense that behavior is leaving her alone
LOL He really does look like Carl Johnson from GTA San Andreas I can't unsee it now 😁
Lol, never played gta… but thanks bro 🙏🏾
One way to leverage cold approach so you never get flakers.
Just give your number out and never take theirs.
That way when you cold approaching the girls who actually call you are the ones you focus on.
I learn this late in life. It also weeds out alot of numbers and takes away your responsibility.
I lose so many phone numbers or waited to long to call a girl number I got. Sometimes girls see me again years later and be like you fake..why you never called me.
Giving girls your number let them call you. Some might lose your number or something. But that way when they see you again they can ask you for your number.
Also the girls who call you have that chasing you energy.
Gotta start trying that
@HolisticIz I only take numbers online to avoid possible scammers.
But in real life person to person just give girls your phone number.
Word that makes a lot of sense! 💯
@MarvOverMatter ill share later a good usage for cool approach..if done right. I'm at this chick house now. Finna have me some fun
@genovasquez8361 lmao do ya thing bro
Even when they give you signs they play games.
Not as often.
@ so that makes it a numbers game then. Meaning you have to be as social with women as possible.
@TheRealZmanWorld That’s like saying in sales all rich people won’t buy your product so that makes them an equal prospect to someone who’s poor. You still have a better chance selling to rich prospects even if not all of them buy.
sup man, thx for the vid always on point
Of course man I got yall. And thanks 🙏🏾
They always playing mind game. I play my game with them too. I give them a fake sense that they are actually learning so much about me. So women who are just thrill-seeker avoid me after one time conversation. That's how I filter time-wasting women. Lol. That's how those games bite you in the ass when you are not as smart as you think, but you think otherwise.
@@soloharmonix attention seekers are good tools too
@@genovasquez8361 tools for what?
I only use cold approach as a TOOL i go out to set places, like the mall, the park, the club, the museum or library, zoo or science center to cold approach women
ie i call these places hunting grounds. the goal is to get 10 to 20 numbers. An go through them all to see which ones are DTF the soonest. Those who saying something i dont like. i delete her number.
Lmao I used to do that same thing bro, me and my boy would go to the mall and we couldn’t leave until we got a set amount of numbers. It’s fun if you have the time.
But I’m curious, on an average day how many girls out of 20 would respond? And then how many would you end up actually smashing?
@MarvOverMatter once or twice a week. My goal is to get one number a week that's it. An that's if i go to store or gas station that's it.
But back in the day when I use to do malls and clubs and stuff.
The vast majority of numbers I got .I never called.
Plus I had a rotation so for me it was all about numbers and getting the girls who was hard to get to say yes.
I was operating on hard mode for the thrill of it.
I lost more women that way because a lot of them got mad I wouldn't smash right away..if a girl wanted me to smash I would not pursue her. I only went got the girls who were hard to get.
I'll say out 10 I cracked like 4 out of 10. Would been more if I was a sucker and did dates and stuff but I never spend money on women..I don't take girls on dates.
But that ratio is out of the women who said no.
If I only focus on women who wanted to have sxxx right away..they would be scary..it was way too many for me to sleep with.
So let's say I got twenty numbers that week it's all 3 to 5 who are hard to get. Those was the ones I focused on.
There were maybe two or three I would sleep with. An the others I would put off sleeping with.
Out of the ones I put off.
When I hit them up 6 months later
They phone number be changed or off
They tell me they got a boyfriend
Some be like who is you I don't remember you
Some be holding a grudge and tell me outright
And some cuss me out for waiting almost a year to follow through.
For me getting numbers cold approach is just to always have an abundance of possibilities.
Even now I got a rotation of 5 girls. An I only meet a few women a week because I am only focusing on sleeping with chicks two or three times unless her box is good she may go in my every blue moon rotation.
But I don't horde a notebook full of phone numbers.
But I see your point..my issue back then was it was easy to get pxxxxsy I wanted women who didn't like me. So that's what I approach the most. If a girl gave me choosing signals I ignored her.
I just like the challenge of turning No's into a yes and spending money on them to get in their pants.
Some women who said no literally switch up when they seen a chick who like me approaching me.. other times one of they friends would be like I fxxxkrd him and then it go from No to yes
Once a girl who number i got when I was in highschool met my ex girlfriend and had her bring her over my house. That same girl wouldn't let me crack in highschool but my ex was like he is a freak girl and he like the energizer bunny..I smashed ole girl one time then gave my cousin her number. He got some and so did his uncle.
I lost all respect for a chick when she tell me no so the goal is to smash and dash
@MarvOverMatter well first off back in the day we didn't have social media until like 2000.
So that's pretty much it outside of chat lines over the phone.
But I racked up more girls than I could ever talk to. Most girls I never called..I was collecting numbers just to have back ups, for if a girl in my rotation left.
Some would want more eventually and phase out. Especially as I got older.
My rule was don't have kids and never marry.
But I still got a few girls from my rotation still around 20 years later. An a bunch of new girls
But for me getting numbers wasn't focused on getting to smash. I had more poonanny than I knew what do with. I literally had ten girls I was smashing. Now I got a rotation of 5. But I still have few others I see every blue moon.
For me getting phone numbers was really to make sure I never was in drought..
An I haven't had drought since I was 16 years old. An I'm 47 now.
I still meet girls off of tinder, cold approach and I still get approached.
Each everyone I rush to clap the cheeks to eliminate those who move slower.
Before when I was younger I never brought up sxxxx, which cause more women to bring it up or push it. I had too many women wanting to sleep with me I would literally flake in them or ghost them.
I got so many numbers I never called all of them
Some I call six months later and forgot what she looked like and she forgot who I was. Or her phone be disconnected or she says she in a relationship now or she say you got the wrong number. Lol an the girls who I put on the back burner months later they be mad I trying to smash because when they was offering at first I played them an went ghost...
I just like getting girls numbers who was hard to get. I focused on the girls who weren't easy to get them with rebuttals and finesse them out they cat. It was ego boost. All about the game and mental manipulation.
@@MarvOverMatter my comments ain't posting for some reason
that happened to me few weeks ago, i meet this girl on her work gave my number, really attractive girl btw, she reached out first , i didnt waste much time to set up the date , i gave her 1 week in advance just to make sure, she said ye, but in later the week to confirm the date , she didnt respond to it . so i let it go, i dont know if the outcome would be the same if i continued persuing but i know that is the wrong approach
Yeah asking her again is never gonna be good. You made the right choice, just move on. A girl is NOT doing that if she wants to spend time with you. Keep your dignity, always. 💯
I don’t approach at all
My boys like that, and he does perfectly fine. You don’t have to.
@ where does he?
Where does he what?
@@MarvOverMatter what does your boy do? And how does he attract women?
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 I approach because I was taught that in the beginning of the playa days. It's old school stuff right there. But I like being approached more.
The key is to go where women will notice you.
If your body is banging the pool, pool parties anywhere you can take your shirt off..
If you are a good dancer and know all the moves go to different clubs til you find one all the girls there are stalking you.
If you can sing or write poetry that get girls hot, go to open mics.
You need to be a big fish and small pond..and create talents that outshine 80% of others.
I used to roller skate and got all the girls from skating..it's so easy..
Girls at my old job used to approach me all the time because I would wear slacks or khakis that made my print show. Plus my thighs are muscular and they could see my shape in them pants.
Just do stuff to make girls approach you
This is probably your best video God 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙋. Everything you said was spot on. I recently got this chicks number at the park when she came through asking me if I knew this dude who's name she said,
I said "no, I don't know who that is", I asked her " do you have a number?", she said yeah and gave me her math,so I call her a day or two later because my phone died then I spent another day just taking care of my personal business.
I called yesterday and immediately she's already playing games LOL 🤣. Responding to texts extra late, I called just one time instead of texting and I got no answer LOL. I'll be deleting her number today. I'm not even gonna call her no more.
Mind you this chick is only like a five on a scale of 1-10 too LOL 🤣. It's so bad in the US concerning how women are now that women who aren't even attractive behave as if they're God's gift to the whole entire planet. You literally literally literally cant make this 💩 up LOL 🤣🤨.
Great video as always lord. I can't wait to see you make it to having 100K subscribers,you definitely deserve it fam. I'll be waiting for the next vid to drop. Until then, salute 🫡 and much love king 🙋.
Bro that happens to all of us. And yeah the sub 7’s act the worse no lie. You think you gonna pick up something easy but because everybody thinks that they really the one who get approached the most. And get a distorted version of reality about their looks.
But yeah if she didn’t answer the text and call. Move on man. Not worth the mental or emotional investment.
And man I really appreciate that. The channels growing and I’m just gonna keep my foot on the gas. 🙏🏾 My DAWG!
@MarvOverMatter
She answered my text's,she just replied to them late(as I already knew she would before I even texted her), I've already moved on,she just doesn't know that LOL 😆. I'm 6'2", caramel complexion,slender and fit, look at least
10 plus year's younger than my actual age, bushy/curly thick dark brown hair, handsome face, I have no problem attracting women. Earlier before I watched this video, a black chick walked by me and waved as she whispered "Hi" because I had earbuds in LOL 🤣.
I get choosing signals all the time 😎. What's my point in posting all of this?. IT'S HER LOSS FELLAS,NOT MINE. I'M THE PRIZE 😎. Salute king 👑🙋.
@SIGMAMINDEDMGTOW Word. Yeah you good then bro. It’s funny how they be acting though. That’s how you gotta see it, her loss!
@@SIGMAMINDEDMGTOW for the next 90 days every time a girl gives you choosing signals wave her over to you. If she don't walk over to you just ignore her.
If she walks to you chat her up like usual and give her your number
Every girl you cold approach give them your number..just pick one day out the week to go out and give girls your phone number.
That way you don't have a bunch numbers saved in your phone..an you only focus on the ones who call you.
Getting girls numbers can be cumbersome especially if you get alot of them. You get good at getting numbers. It's a waste of time..
If a girl approaches you give her your number.
Only return calls. let girls call you.
I can't be mad at the chicks because I flake on alot girls too. Same thing they be doing..I do to them.. because I'm talking to too many different girls.
As for choosing signals. If you well put together you will get those every day