@@reborngreatnesss5712women take advantage of that because they can have that man wrapped around their finger when you break it down the game is tough but you gotta play chess
If you are handsome/good-looking, the average girl will hurt your ego before the beautiful woman. As a man, u have to be honest with yourself & know where u stand out here.
Man you telling the truth bro . I found it crazy how beautiful very attractive woman be on me and cool as hell no flaking . But regular chicks will approach me give me their number and later will give an attitude for no reason fr fr .
I tell my friends this. Cute, aiight, girls give me the most attitude, stand offish energy. Only really pretty women are very nice to me. They don’t get that being really attractive makes your dating pool kinda shrink as a man because average is way more common than very above average. And even if you get a girl that’s cute/aight you have to do WAY more work to convince her to give you a shot than very attractive women, atleast in MY experience.
This is the purest facts. Another reason why Rom’s tribe concept is so crucial. The worst dating advice my mom ever gave me was - “you need to leave the fine girls alone and focus on the less attractive girls” Terrible advice, the less attractive ones will treat you like trash. Oddly enough the dimes were the only ones who liked and respected me. Rom is 1000% correct here.
Facts I had one this year tell me she couldn’t date Me because I would make her “insecure & she would think all the girls would want me”. I even had one of the prettiest girls I ever dated tell me she thought I was out of her league when we first met…I was like wtf lol
I can attest to this 💯, I used to think messing w the chicks who aren’t the absolute prettiest would be a lay up. But it’s actually harder in most cases despite their attraction, if you’re that select man their guard is really up. Now I either deal with those on my level or higher ( which is who I want anyway )
In retrospect, there’s been several instances, especially when I was in a relationship, where women have approached me and asked, “Why are you with her, you can do better.” I always thought they were asking either out of jealousy or simply saw what I couldn’t see. But as I’ve matured over the years, I’ve definitely questioned whether or not some women see me as out of their league and have plenty of options, because you can definitely get choosing signals and respond in kind but once you do, they seem to tactically engage or avoid you especially if you frequent the same spaces. Of course this could just be them wanting to play cat and mouse and it’s just for thrills and not anything to do with being intimidated. Great content as usual Uncle Rom! 🙏🏾
@@Donnell-m5x It’s more about a power dynamics. Most of the time, people prefer to be in control of everything. Relationships is also about investment of trust, time and etc. (you can add). People are afraid of being left, cheated on, played. Sometimes they think that to be at least on the same level or higher as you, she’ll need to put extra work (reading, gym and etc.) which still doesn’t guarantee anything. I know a girl who does modeling and her guys were real handsome, fit dudes but when started dating, the guy was a usual dude with an interesting profession, but still usual. Yeah, you can have a great personality, but looks may intimidate, because in her head there are lots pros/cons/scenarios about what can happen if she dates you. Handsome - can leave, cheat, has options. Smart - can’t play games. Self-respecting - will leave if any games or shit will appear. Smart + handsome + self-respecting = a walking threat
Very True. There's a portion of Women. That'll reject you because you're out of her league. Especially if you're handsome and well put together. It's natural for a woman, to want to be the more attractive one. And it's a defense mechanism.
I don’t know my “number ranking” but I’ve had this occur multiple times. Even with girls who I’d look at and think that are good looking, girls who be at minimum a 7. Had girls who look like 8s who’d act standoffish because they think I’d play em. Besides the looks I’ve noticed these women always try and move me into following their own lane. Wanting to be treated like they’re special. Which is why I don’t shoot low or deal with any woman that annoys me with that type of stuff.
I once worked in a call center for a year.. the women talked lol… and this same topic popped up women know their lane they don’t want a guy that looks better than them they want the center of attention. Plus from experience some women will drag a good looking guy down just to make themselves look better in her social circle aka defense mechanism and she can’t compete with other top tier women.
I will say for me I’ve been told that I’m too good for some women and It would throw me for a loop because that’s like saying I know you’re good for me, but I’m not ready for you. And also unintentionally I give off I’m trying to get married type of vibe when in reality I’m just a young man just looking for a good time and whatever happens happens. I’m still trying to find that balance.
I always catch hell tryna talk to women below my attraction level, they are not receptive to me @ all. I learned this out on the field the finer women are receptive & even when they reject me its very polite.
It’s tough to embrace that but I guess it could be true. We always think a particular woman is out of OUR league. I wonder how many times women thought that about me.
As a professional male model. I only date woman who are in my league. She has to be atleast a 8 or above my preference. Great topic as usual, Rom! #BODYGAMENATION
Had a girl recently call me a player. We were playing a sport together and she was like “I feel like I’ve seen you before.” I replied, “I don’t know… I think I would have remembered a beautiful (her ethnicity) girl.” The she laughed and said “Oh you’re a player” and I think she said “ooo don’t flirt with me” before that. Still tryna make sense of it.
Didn’t realize this until I started talking to women from other countries/not from my hometown. Family really brought me down and so did a lot of women I gave a chance. I look back now and realize the women were insecure … tried to keep me in a box. No women friends allowed. Always gave me attitude. They also bit on any little bone of attention they’d get. This video is nothing but facts…. Word up fellas.
I focused on my body game hard and got to 10% body fat funnily enough women kept making comments like ‘I know you got a roster’ or I ‘look like a player, I break hearts etc’ being good looking can backfire
Yea man it’s wild but I suggest you get a woman who had a good relationship with the lord and like you for you. On the inside looking out you’ll realize they a lot of these women that look at and flirt with you don’t have the long term abilities to be a wife
I had woman tell me that they wish I was medium ugly and they felt a little insecure around me because I was in point with everything no cap lol so I definitely understand what you saying UNK
The crazy thing to me is I’ve like been exclusively attracted to pretty woman all my life even when I was ugly I didn’t want to settle now I look good and attract pretty woman it feels like destiny for me to end up with a pretty woman (with good character)
Unc.....Its validating hear you say that cause I was concerned that maybe I'm the problem.. I see you are getting well....just joined you on Patreon...!!!!!!!! Peace and Blessing Uncle Rom
Man I would say in response to this video about the force giving you hell and so do the nines and tens because for each one of them is feast or famine.
Yeah the intimidation thing well n truly exists. Also the "playa" ting too, met a few girls thay after talking for abit swear that i "could be such a playa you know? But you arent 🤔" yeah no shit good observation sweetie 🤣🤣 no knock on playas n their lifestyle, but im tryna have a family one day but as days go by i find it less and less likely, mostly a feeling of despair. Oh well at least im alive and got all my senses in check and a roof over my head still blessed in my eyes!!
As im nearing 50 but i look 10+ years younger ive had aight, cute, a couple of dimes. Back in my early mid 20s i realized then if she doesn't have some kind of object of desire for you the box is wack and your wasting your time. Im not saying she's wack if theres no desire she can't give you her most desired self to you.
It wasn’t until I started dating again after my divorce that I discovered women will often self-reject rather than risk becoming involved with an attractive man who more than ticks all her boxes but (in her mind) will get bored of her once the novelty wears off. It wasn’t until it this was explained to me point blank by a woman I was seeing that some of the bizarre behaviour i had experienced from women who clearly liked me began to make some sense. The sad thing about it is that I actually quite liked these women, and it is almost entirely their own insecurity that drives it - hence it is impossible to address logically and reassure them. And the brutal truth of the matter is that…..they were probably right. I think women can actually quite accurately perceive their own value realistically enough to protect themselves, and these women perhaps knew that once I saw behind the smoke and mirrors, there just wasn’t enough there to keep me
Gets uncomfortable some times. Scratch that...ALL THE TIME. Lots of feminine men nowadays and its increasing by the day. Which means more stares from both genders. Dear God..
I can sense this energy from some women. I guess it may be because I’m on point or something. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom! By the way love the new trilogy: breastisisisisis, buh-dawnk, and leggys!!
Women are always telling me how handsome I am yet the same women wont have anything to do with me. Its not as easy as you think being considered good looking. Usually most women wont trust you if you look too attractive.
Another perspective is, when she knows she's not good enough for you, she'll treat you as if you're not good enough for her.
this through me off for years !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ive learned to counter this is to literally not ever say much or act insecure lol
@ssic_network yes that's a great approach and technically that approach is called the "gray wall effect".
Wow. Maybe this is why my last dynamic looked the way it did.
Truth. If you're a handsome man with sex appeal and charisma most women will think you're a player.
The crazy part that they rather have someone that barely has a haircut, mustache, beard etc is all a mess and some women find that attractive
Looking healthy UNC, immensely proud of your recovery
@@reborngreatnesss5712 the same ones will call them bums and look down to them like they are broke
@@reborngreatnesss5712women take advantage of that because they can have that man wrapped around their finger when you break it down the game is tough but you gotta play chess
That's TRUE bro . Happens to me a lot
It can be frustrating when you notice that a lot of woman are intimidated by you.
As hell!
Not really it’s actually good in your favor would you rather have a woman that’s intimidated by you or one that use you like a rag doll
Now you know how attractive women feel
Factsssss
I know, I have experienced it
If you are handsome/good-looking, the average girl will hurt your ego before the beautiful woman. As a man, u have to be honest with yourself & know where u stand out here.
FACTS…they try to downplay ur attractiveness
@Mrgetdoe777 they want u questioning your confidence u better know
This makes Alot of sense
Man you telling the truth bro . I found it crazy how beautiful very attractive woman be on me and cool as hell no flaking . But regular chicks will approach me give me their number and later will give an attitude for no reason fr fr .
Facts.
I've been told by women that they thought I'd be a certain way because I'm attractive and that deterred them until they got to know me
I tell my friends this. Cute, aiight, girls give me the most attitude, stand offish energy. Only really pretty women are very nice to me. They don’t get that being really attractive makes your dating pool kinda shrink as a man because average is way more common than very above average. And even if you get a girl that’s cute/aight you have to do WAY more work to convince her to give you a shot than very attractive women, atleast in MY experience.
This is the purest facts. Another reason why Rom’s tribe concept is so crucial.
The worst dating advice my mom ever gave me was - “you need to leave the fine girls alone and focus on the less attractive girls”
Terrible advice, the less attractive ones will treat you like trash.
Oddly enough the dimes were the only ones who liked and respected me.
Rom is 1000% correct here.
Facts I had one this year tell me she couldn’t date Me because I would make her “insecure & she would think all the girls
would want me”.
I even had one of the prettiest girls I ever dated tell me she thought I was out of her league when we first met…I was like wtf lol
I get this on a daily and its really frustrating. They couldnt be more wrong.
Facts Unc... I see that plaque in the back too!!! Salute 💯
🫡 Your experience inspired this video.
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If you going off the title this applies but the obvious and most brought up point is stay in ur lane
I can attest to this 💯, I used to think messing w the chicks who aren’t the absolute prettiest would be a lay up. But it’s actually harder in most cases despite their attraction, if you’re that select man their guard is really up. Now I either deal with those on my level or higher ( which is who I want anyway )
Makes sense💯
In retrospect, there’s been several instances, especially when I was in a relationship, where women have approached me and asked, “Why are you with her, you can do better.” I always thought they were asking either out of jealousy or simply saw what I couldn’t see. But as I’ve matured over the years, I’ve definitely questioned whether or not some women see me as out of their league and have plenty of options, because you can definitely get choosing signals and respond in kind but once you do, they seem to tactically engage or avoid you especially if you frequent the same spaces. Of course this could just be them wanting to play cat and mouse and it’s just for thrills and not anything to do with being intimidated.
Great content as usual Uncle Rom! 🙏🏾
I didn't really understand this until I got older
I'm still trying to understand this.
FACTs
@@Donnell-m5x It’s more about a power dynamics. Most of the time, people prefer to be in control of everything. Relationships is also about investment of trust, time and etc. (you can add). People are afraid of being left, cheated on, played. Sometimes they think that to be at least on the same level or higher as you, she’ll need to put extra work (reading, gym and etc.) which still doesn’t guarantee anything. I know a girl who does modeling and her guys were real handsome, fit dudes but when started dating, the guy was a usual dude with an interesting profession, but still usual. Yeah, you can have a great personality, but looks may intimidate, because in her head there are lots pros/cons/scenarios about what can happen if she dates you. Handsome - can leave, cheat, has options. Smart - can’t play games. Self-respecting - will leave if any games or shit will appear. Smart + handsome + self-respecting = a walking threat
Very True. There's a portion of Women. That'll reject you because you're out of her league. Especially if you're handsome and well put together. It's natural for a woman, to want to be the more attractive one. And it's a defense mechanism.
Good summary.
Wow I’m going through this now man!
Well put bro, defence mechanism that stems from......insecurity. in my opinion anyways!
Facts
And you gotta take that rejection with light heartily
I don’t know my “number ranking” but I’ve had this occur multiple times. Even with girls who I’d look at and think that are good looking, girls who be at minimum a 7. Had girls who look like 8s who’d act standoffish because they think I’d play em. Besides the looks I’ve noticed these women always try and move me into following their own lane. Wanting to be treated like they’re special. Which is why I don’t shoot low or deal with any woman that annoys me with that type of stuff.
Real
I once worked in a call center for a year.. the women talked lol… and this same topic popped up women know their lane they don’t want a guy that looks better than them they want the center of attention. Plus from experience some women will drag a good looking guy down just to make themselves look better in her social circle aka defense mechanism and she can’t compete with other top tier women.
I will say for me I’ve been told that I’m too good for some women and It would throw me for a loop because that’s like saying I know you’re good for me, but I’m not ready for you. And also unintentionally I give off I’m trying to get married type of vibe when in reality I’m just a young man just looking for a good time and whatever happens happens. I’m still trying to find that balance.
They be thinking you're a player and got alot of hoo's. I let them think what they want
I always catch hell tryna talk to women below my attraction level, they are not receptive to me @ all. I learned this out on the field the finer women are receptive & even when they reject me its very polite.
And when you get them...they act brand new
It’s tough to embrace that but I guess it could be true. We always think a particular woman is out of OUR league. I wonder how many times women thought that about me.
My ex gf who was fine herself told me this. I’m trying to help her with her mental health and she told me I was out of her league.
Hey Rom, the thing is even 8s, 9s and 10q dont always think theyre all that unless their instagram or only fans models. Was
Its always the women that i find unattractive that chase me. The unattractive women are usually the most confident i find
They have nothing to lose my dude.
@@ninjadre054😂😂😂 they thirsty for any man who show em the least bit of attention
Insecurity is an interesting thing.
That’s all it is
As a professional male model. I only date woman who are in my league. She has to be atleast a 8 or above my preference. Great topic as usual, Rom! #BODYGAMENATION
Had a girl recently call me a player.
We were playing a sport together and she was like “I feel like I’ve seen you before.”
I replied, “I don’t know… I think I would have remembered a beautiful (her ethnicity) girl.”
The she laughed and said “Oh you’re a player” and I think she said “ooo don’t flirt with me” before that.
Still tryna make sense of it.
I told her later that I’m not a player (this is true, have fun with women but never play them). Don’t like being called that.
Unc this makes Alot of sense, much respect for the gems thanks alot
Didn’t realize this until I started talking to women from other countries/not from my hometown. Family really brought me down and so did a lot of women I gave a chance. I look back now and realize the women were insecure … tried to keep me in a box. No women friends allowed. Always gave me attitude. They also bit on any little bone of attention they’d get. This video is nothing but facts…. Word up fellas.
lol no one talks about this side of the game
I focused on my body game hard and got to 10% body fat funnily enough women kept making comments like ‘I know you got a roster’ or I ‘look like a player, I break hearts etc’ being good looking can backfire
Yeah, I've had that before 6'5 255 active in the gym.
Yea man it’s wild but I suggest you get a woman who had a good relationship with the lord and like you for you. On the inside looking out you’ll realize they a lot of these women that look at and flirt with you don’t have the long term abilities to be a wife
I had woman tell me that they wish I was medium ugly and they felt a little insecure around me because I was in point with everything no cap lol so I definitely understand what you saying UNK
Truth bombs
Truth
💯 Facts Rom . Happened to me a lot and still
Big Rom. The definition on consistent.
Working towards this now
I must not be attractive cuz I get the exact opposite treatment 4s nice to me and 7+ mean to me
No woman will ever think I'm in their league. So less trouble.
Congrats on the Playbutton 🔥
The crazy thing to me is I’ve like been exclusively attracted to pretty woman all my life even when I was ugly I didn’t want to settle now I look good and attract pretty woman it feels like destiny for me to end up with a pretty woman (with good character)
It's so frustrating to like a woman that thinks you are out of her league, she will try and sabotage the relationship, to prove her assumption, damn
This is true, I had woman tell me 1 time “you look like you ain’t shit.” Being a good looking man don’t mean everything always is perfect
Great one Rom 🔥🔥⭐️😈😈😋😋😎😎❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾💯🌎🌎💪🏾💪🏾🏆🏆🤞🏾🤞🏾🌪️🌪️😊😊
YOU BEEN COOKIN LATELY ❗️🔥
Unc.....Its validating hear you say that cause I was concerned that maybe I'm the problem.. I see you are getting well....just joined you on Patreon...!!!!!!!! Peace and Blessing Uncle Rom
Man I would say in response to this video about the force giving you hell and so do the nines and tens because for each one of them is feast or famine.
Thank you, Rom💯
Yeah the intimidation thing well n truly exists. Also the "playa" ting too, met a few girls thay after talking for abit swear that i "could be such a playa you know? But you arent 🤔" yeah no shit good observation sweetie 🤣🤣 no knock on playas n their lifestyle, but im tryna have a family one day but as days go by i find it less and less likely, mostly a feeling of despair. Oh well at least im alive and got all my senses in check and a roof over my head still blessed in my eyes!!
As im nearing 50 but i look 10+ years younger ive had aight, cute, a couple of dimes. Back in my early mid 20s i realized then if she doesn't have some kind of object of desire for you the box is wack and your wasting your time. Im not saying she's wack if theres no desire she can't give you her most desired self to you.
It wasn’t until I started dating again after my divorce that I discovered women will often self-reject rather than risk becoming involved with an attractive man who more than ticks all her boxes but (in her mind) will get bored of her once the novelty wears off.
It wasn’t until it this was explained to me point blank by a woman I was seeing that some of the bizarre behaviour i had experienced from women who clearly liked me began to make some sense.
The sad thing about it is that I actually quite liked these women, and it is almost entirely their own insecurity that drives it - hence it is impossible to address logically and reassure them.
And the brutal truth of the matter is that…..they were probably right. I think women can actually quite accurately perceive their own value realistically enough to protect themselves, and these women perhaps knew that once I saw behind the smoke and mirrors, there just wasn’t enough there to keep me
Often wondered why this seems to happen to me...
I've had this a lot
2:35 💯💯💯
5:00 Stay ya lane
Lol this may explain why a lot of women see me as a player😂now it all makes sense. This was a dope joint Unc🫡
Well.....if u met me with a house 🏠 a car and a decent job,and u live with yo mama or sister no car nothing ummmmm well I guess so.
this is happening to me right now
Unc giving some tips…some of yal need to lock in to that untapped market. They can loose the weight
What's the name of the video on the Patreon?
I'm a straight guy and get a lot of attention from homosexual men....I see it as plus and good thing. It means the ladies feel you as well
Gets uncomfortable some times. Scratch that...ALL THE TIME. Lots of feminine men nowadays and its increasing by the day. Which means more stares from both genders. Dear God..
That s true for exemple I see man that didn't want to approach woman because he think that woman is out of their league
Im Not a Fan of listening to older people about womens but unc is Always right!
I can sense this energy from some women. I guess it may be because I’m on point or something. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
By the way love the new trilogy: breastisisisisis, buh-dawnk, and leggys!!
Women are always telling me how handsome I am yet the same women wont have anything to do with me. Its not as easy as you think being considered good looking. Usually most women wont trust you if you look too attractive.
Shonuff😎
💪🏿
I agree with your assessment of women doing hypergamy. Most of the advice coming from alpha-wanna-bes in YT are just wrong.
Yup the mannosphere needs more nuance. Redpill advice is too black and white. Wise man right here
No cap
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Ive also noticed that the better looking you are the more unattractive girls like you.