You're right about approaching girls at work. It's a good way to get fired if she takes it the wrong way and accuses you of sexual harassment to the bosses. Just be good toward everybody. If a girl at work likes you, she'll give you signals, and you might then talk to her (verbally) after work. If she doesn't like you, she won't give you signals, and you'll just figure she has a boyfriend or whatever. You won't even feel hurt! Hey, congratulations on getting a job! It'll be good for your self-esteem. Unless they mistreat you, never quit a job until you've found a better one.
Got a friend who met a girl at his workplace and he told me he already invited her over to his place a few times to hang out outside of work, but they aren’t technically a couple. In my opinion, this is an absolute no-no. He’s a great guy, but if things don’t work out she could end up falsely accusing him of sexual harassment which could get him fired from his job and she already knows where he lives so she could end up vandalizing his house, car etc. or cause serious property damage or worse. Never sh*t where you eat. This is exactly why I don’t mess with girls at work no matter how beautiful or physically attractive they may be. I keep all conversations with them to work-related stuff and don’t stray away from that. The risk is just not worth it especially today with how modern-day dating is.
@ How so? All I’m saying is if you try to date a girl from work and it doesn’t work out, it could end up being awkward and potentially create a negative atmosphere in the workplace. Why put yourself at risk of possibly allowing that to happen? Working and dating should be kept separate. They should not be mixed together.
I went thry a similar experience myself. This girl was giving heavy choosing signals, approached her during her lunch break & got the number. I texted her later that day and no response
i have a good stable job so i’m not risking anything. i work with quite a few bad ones too. even if youre at a minimum wage job, being canned for getting at female coworkers isn’t a good resume builder.
I work in optical and am always surrounded by women. They will approach you and if they don’t LEAVE EM ALONE! You should NEVER make the first move and even if they make the first move still move with cation. You hurt her feelings or something and she starts running her mouth now you gotta find a new job
Yes bro I just said that i was like even if she make tye first move be carefull as soon as stuff dont go her way she gone lie on you and 9 times outta 10 they gone believe the woman.
Why date a girl at work? That's just asking for more drama. Then you have to see her at work everyday. Just keep 2 things seperate. Your sex life and your work life.
💯 percent correct, tho I'd like to add if the two were working at the same company but different shifts , or if they were already couples before working there together, that shouldn't be a problem
Ion know bro. Only time I get play is when I’m working or at work. When I’m dressed up , smelling good, and all alone. I RARELY get any type of attention I want. Work forces you to interact with people which increases your conversation and charisma . I see what you saying tho broski 👍🏿
I agree, flirting with women at your job is never a good idea unless you don't care about the job you work. However, cold approaching a woman is effective, but the drawbacks is that you get rejected quicker. The pro about being more direct is that you get faster results. There are women who do like it when a guy knows what he wants and is willing to let her know upfront. Don't give up, bro. It may look like you're losing when girls flake you or abruptly tell you no, but there are women out there that are waiting for a guy like you to say something. Remember, we live in world of polar opposites. One side can't exist without the other. There's always gonna be women that are not interested and there will always be women who are interested.
Best comment on here 👏 theirs ALOOOOT of scary beta males in the comments that's afraid of being a man , an it don't even have to do with talking to women , most just live with their parents .
Appreciate the reminder; this popped up on my feed out of nowhere! I've tried cold approaches at work several times, and you're right-it definitely comes off as try-hard and awkward. It just doesn't feel natural. It's always better when they make the first move or when things happen organically. I usually follow a simple rule: if someone smiles at me, I take it as a non-verbal sign that they’re open to being friendly. If there’s no smile or greeting, I don’t bother trying to engage.
I don’t approach women at all… I find cold approach weird… talking to a stranger and trying to see if there’s chemistry… I prefer sitting at a bar and if I naturally talk to a woman, that’s fine
For cold approaching, depends on the job. For example, my job staffs over 100 people and I don't directly work with everyone, nor do I see everyone, everyday, 50% of which I've never spoken to. Also, people who say never try anything at work don't realize that around 20% of people in relationships meet at work. Some of my cold approaches at work have yielded bad responses but it's okay, I never do anything that could get HR on me because I can read social cues. Just like a cold approach anywhere else, I just move on about my day and never speak to them. I also have cold approaches where it's good and I built up a ton of rapport. Sure the ones where the girl approaches, like you mentioned, are the best bet. Approaching without expectations from it is the way to go.
Quickest way to get fired 😂 if you in grind mode & need the job. Relax... if you don't care about the job..have at it😂 I won't say don't shoot your shot if your get signals BUT if you get the "come to the managers office" and they ask you questions...don't be surprised... they be on the job 🐀 in
😂😂 women at the job already told me about dudes they consider creeps for tryna talk to them. they double teamed bro with a sexual harassment report and got him outta there.
crazy timing on the vid. a lil while ago i asked out my coworker. i was sure she was going to say yes, but nah she rejected me very nicely. it didnt bother me i was ok with it, but i work with her alot. it ended up with me just avoiding interactions and her not seeking it. akward asf its alot better now, but ye a mistake ill never make again.
How I see it this pick up artist sh* is acting like a snake oil salesman. So it's try hard by default and not natural. I think cold approach should be executed differently, more in a comical sense. You need to tell her something completely random and stupid AF so she's either mindfukked or just starts laughing. Then next time she sees you maybe she will approach you herself and start a conversation. I think this is a better way to do it, cuz like you said you cannot force it, you cannot force a chick to like you, it's either she likes you or she don't.
Bro a woman will never cold approach a man. If you find her attractive at work or anywhere else I wpuld stoll approach her because I'm not a coward or a loser the worst she could say is "I have a boyfriend" or "no".
I’m no lady’s man or player but I have had more than one girl approach me or like be really aggressive in letting me know they like me but usually it’s going to be more subtle and the thing is that it’s too much of a numbers game you waist a lot of time and the best way to get girls in my opinion is to attract them by how you carry yourself first and then looks/ money/status
@@Bakerboy131 nah I know wym tho, I do that in general if a women isn’t staring at me atleast a few times I’m not approaching , I use to make a fool out myself. Won’t happen anymore
@@MelachiDubNation2531 women masturbate more than men. Masturbation makes you antisocial. That's why bro can't even hold a conversation with women, because they're weird. Only want money & celebrities . . .
you r so so rite! i cold aprocaed someoen at work and i was demotexd sued and fired and then my partner divorced me also. i was livign well now im broke an dliving off goya beans every day. i dotn knwo what happend i was given a bedrrom eye look before i apprcoed but i feel i was tricked by a coworker who jus wanted validation.. now im so miserable. why woudl someoen do this why are peopel so bad?
Cold approach gives you some of the most beautiful women, not at work though. Choosing signals girls can 90 percent of the time be ugly as hell. In my opinion cold approach wins because you have to go after what you want as a man
I’m sick of tired of people saying this BS how the hell you think our grandparents met someone had to go up to someone it don’t matter where you at it’s all about the mentality smfh
I agree. This probably only applies to unattractive people who can’t really hold a conversation with women. Or can’t take a rejection and still be charismatic
Our grandparents didn't have social media and dating apps and women didn't falsely accuse men of grape for simply saying "hi" to them and because they're under 6 feet tall and aren't a millionaire.
There is never a "wrong" place to approach a girl. you as a man can set the tone, some types of approaches are off limits though. and the workplace is tricky being fair to the creator
Its not desperate to cold approach. You a man trying to shoot your shot with a girl that you like and theres nothing wrong with that. She accepts you? Thats great. If she reject you, you can move on. But that's the problem. You can't move on from a girl that you work with at work you will see everyday. Keep romance and your Job separate.
@@drewtrulock333 I wouldn’t do it unless she was shooting her shot with me but it could still work if she gave you like a strong choosing signal like if it’s very obvious but at the end of the day if you do it or don’t do it that’s up to you
It depends on who's the cashier and who's the customer. (Your lack of punctuation leaves that unclear.) If you're the cashier, it's probably a bad idea, because one complaint could get you fired. If you're the customer, and she gives you signals, you might as well react. Just be a gentleman, not a hornball.
I see these dudes in the comments. Everybody act so virtuous but lack virtue in this regard. These same dudes would preach " let things come to you " except when its a " woman " huh 🤔?
The fact that you even talking about girls in 2025 it shows how far behind you have fallen, you should’ve have been a dept of 54K left on your 298K dollar house and possibly into many other and growing your future self and maybe maybe later on worry about some ppss that will only cause issues, a woman is just and asset you need to view them as a stock market and try your best to get a dividend from them just the same way they thinking about you, you have zero knowledge and experience of life im on my 6Th house and 1. /3 store 🏬 APT and 32 fully active employees.😪 You need to jump in the other side! Money feels infinitely now its n insane feeling.
To soft. You have to approach with dominance but she should be able to sense that you are a man and can carry on the rest of your life without her. Her catching your eye is something she's lucky to have considering what else you could be doing with your time.
Never in the workplace. That's where you make your money.
True
And with that being said. Never try to talk to someone like a waitress because she’s being nice to you because that’s her job..
You're right about approaching girls at work. It's a good way to get fired if she takes it the wrong way and accuses you of sexual harassment to the bosses. Just be good toward everybody. If a girl at work likes you, she'll give you signals, and you might then talk to her (verbally) after work. If she doesn't like you, she won't give you signals, and you'll just figure she has a boyfriend or whatever. You won't even feel hurt! Hey, congratulations on getting a job! It'll be good for your self-esteem. Unless they mistreat you, never quit a job until you've found a better one.
Jajajajja. Well, I agree most of what you say, but hey is always good to try before you leave the work place.
@@Bezaliel-wxysimp ahh get money bro
@@idkfrcyz5i you work on yourself while you are trying with girls
@@Bezaliel-wxy true
@idkfrcyz5i " simp"? Lmao I know you stay with yo parents bruh 😂 you've got ALOT of growing up to do young buck. 😁
Always put business before pleasure…
That's literally to the t the words my dad ALWAYS told me growing up "son always remember business before pleasure"
Got a friend who met a girl at his workplace and he told me he already invited her over to his place a few times to hang out outside of work, but they aren’t technically a couple. In my opinion, this is an absolute no-no. He’s a great guy, but if things don’t work out she could end up falsely accusing him of sexual harassment which could get him fired from his job and she already knows where he lives so she could end up vandalizing his house, car etc. or cause serious property damage or worse. Never sh*t where you eat. This is exactly why I don’t mess with girls at work no matter how beautiful or physically attractive they may be. I keep all conversations with them to work-related stuff and don’t stray away from that. The risk is just not worth it especially today with how modern-day dating is.
You're thinking too much on this bruh 🤦
@ How so? All I’m saying is if you try to date a girl from work and it doesn’t work out, it could end up being awkward and potentially create a negative atmosphere in the workplace. Why put yourself at risk of possibly allowing that to happen? Working and dating should be kept separate. They should not be mixed together.
Become a security Guard at a college town look half way decent and chill. Women WILL approach you.
Lmaoo yeah ok
I went thry a similar experience myself. This girl was giving heavy choosing signals, approached her during her lunch break & got the number. I texted her later that day and no response
Damn...
It’s a just a game to see if they can “pull you” or not….oldest trick in the book
i have a good stable job so i’m not risking anything. i work with quite a few bad ones too. even if youre at a minimum wage job, being canned for getting at female coworkers isn’t a good resume builder.
I work in optical and am always surrounded by women. They will approach you and if they don’t LEAVE EM ALONE! You should NEVER make the first move and even if they make the first move still move with cation. You hurt her feelings or something and she starts running her mouth now you gotta find a new job
Yes bro I just said that i was like even if she make tye first move be carefull as soon as stuff dont go her way she gone lie on you and 9 times outta 10 they gone believe the woman.
so true. if something happens, its going to be awkward. not worth it.
i used to cold approach so much few years ago and it’s the worst way to meet woman, Fuck what these influencers be talking about
I regret every single cold approach i committed
😂
Why date a girl at work? That's just asking for more drama. Then you have to see her at work everyday. Just keep 2 things seperate. Your sex life and your work life.
That too
💯 percent correct, tho I'd like to add if the two were working at the same company but different shifts , or if they were already couples before working there together, that shouldn't be a problem
Ion know bro. Only time I get play is when I’m working or at work. When I’m dressed up , smelling good, and all alone. I RARELY get any type of attention I want. Work forces you to interact with people which increases your conversation and charisma . I see what you saying tho broski 👍🏿
this real asf
Right
I agree, flirting with women at your job is never a good idea unless you don't care about the job you work.
However, cold approaching a woman is effective, but the drawbacks is that you get rejected quicker. The pro about being more direct is that you get faster results.
There are women who do like it when a guy knows what he wants and is willing to let her know upfront.
Don't give up, bro. It may look like you're losing when girls flake you or abruptly tell you no, but there are women out there that are waiting for a guy like you to say something.
Remember, we live in world of polar opposites. One side can't exist without the other. There's always gonna be women that are not interested and there will always be women who are interested.
Best comment on here 👏 theirs ALOOOOT of scary beta males in the comments that's afraid of being a man , an it don't even have to do with talking to women , most just live with their parents .
Appreciate the reminder; this popped up on my feed out of nowhere!
I've tried cold approaches at work several times, and you're right-it definitely comes off as try-hard and awkward. It just doesn't feel natural. It's always better when they make the first move or when things happen organically.
I usually follow a simple rule: if someone smiles at me, I take it as a non-verbal sign that they’re open to being friendly. If there’s no smile or greeting, I don’t bother trying to engage.
I'm glad you got something out of the video man!
Smile doesn’t mean anything tbh
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 Sorry no one’s smiling at you, bro.
@@Brand.on18 lmaoo I’ve had women smiling at me and I’m 23 have more women than you lol
@@Brand.on18 you tried to cold approach 🤣🤣 clown
Yea i just did this last month and the girl blocked me before we even ever linked, i dodge where she work at now.
I don’t approach women at all… I find cold approach weird… talking to a stranger and trying to see if there’s chemistry… I prefer sitting at a bar and if I naturally talk to a woman, that’s fine
💯 never 💩 where you eat
Thank you!
cold approaching just doesnt even work for the most part, even if youre "attractive"
It does
I agree we go to work to make money and then we go home and that's how it should be.
For cold approaching, depends on the job. For example, my job staffs over 100 people and I don't directly work with everyone, nor do I see everyone, everyday, 50% of which I've never spoken to. Also, people who say never try anything at work don't realize that around 20% of people in relationships meet at work.
Some of my cold approaches at work have yielded bad responses but it's okay, I never do anything that could get HR on me because I can read social cues. Just like a cold approach anywhere else, I just move on about my day and never speak to them. I also have cold approaches where it's good and I built up a ton of rapport. Sure the ones where the girl approaches, like you mentioned, are the best bet.
Approaching without expectations from it is the way to go.
I always knew this before watching red pill manosphere content videos
Quickest way to get fired 😂 if you in grind mode & need the job. Relax... if you don't care about the job..have at it😂 I won't say don't shoot your shot if your get signals BUT if you get the "come to the managers office" and they ask you questions...don't be surprised... they be on the job 🐀 in
😂😂 women at the job already told me about dudes they consider creeps for tryna talk to them. they double teamed bro with a sexual harassment report and got him outta there.
So True bro I had a girl at my workplace looking at me but nessarily means she likes me But it’s never good to cold approach
He means co workers ! Cause I met my gf at work she was a customer but it wasn’t really a cold approach. It was very unique
crazy timing on the vid. a lil while ago i asked out my coworker. i was sure she was going to say yes, but nah she rejected me very nicely. it didnt bother me i was ok with it, but i work with her alot. it ended up with me just avoiding interactions and her not seeking it. akward asf its alot better now, but ye a mistake ill never make again.
Its used to be cool until everygirl now look at a guy as a creep
She go after her. But if she on some weird shi like giving you the number then don’t text back. She doesn’t exist in your mind anymore
update now i see my ex with that same coworker hanging out!
@@gh-sb1dy damn
It's a cold world, keep your winter coat on through all four seasons, brother.
Why even mess with somebody at work lol. There’s plenty of women in today’s world 😂.
Well I’ve smashed chicks at my job many times and never interfered with work
Facts, women know who to try and not to try, I think these dudes be dorks
@@Kinglion33333 nobody gives a shit what you think !! Stop blaming dudes for some women not liking them !! Clown !! Everyone has a taste
Cold approach is for the streets nuff said
How I see it this pick up artist sh* is acting like a snake oil salesman. So it's try hard by default and not natural. I think cold approach should be executed differently, more in a comical sense. You need to tell her something completely random and stupid AF so she's either mindfukked or just starts laughing. Then next time she sees you maybe she will approach you herself and start a conversation. I think this is a better way to do it, cuz like you said you cannot force it, you cannot force a chick to like you, it's either she likes you or she don't.
I came at a girl at work before the only thing bad that happened were that other chicks got jealous
Bro a woman will never cold approach a man. If you find her attractive at work or anywhere else I wpuld stoll approach her because I'm not a coward or a loser the worst she could say is "I have a boyfriend" or "no".
I’m no lady’s man or player but I have had more than one girl approach me or like be really aggressive in letting me know they like me but usually it’s going to be more subtle and the thing is that it’s too much of a numbers game you waist a lot of time and the best way to get girls in my opinion is to attract them by how you carry yourself first and then looks/ money/status
@@Bakerboy131everyone cant pull that off gang
@@RonStayDolo yeah but they will usually give you more subtle signs like staring at you and I believe that’s more common when a girl likes you
@@Bakerboy131 nah I know wym tho, I do that in general if a women isn’t staring at me atleast a few times I’m not approaching , I use to make a fool out myself. Won’t happen anymore
You're an idiot !!! The worst tging that could happen is you get a sexual harasment charge !!! Just off her not liking you. Foool !!!!
You can never cold approach a masturbator period.
They'll make YOU feel weird.
Wait what I'm fking stuck lmao
Wym???
@@MelachiDubNation2531 women masturbate more than men. Masturbation makes you antisocial. That's why bro can't even hold a conversation with women, because they're weird. Only want money & celebrities . . .
you r so so rite! i cold aprocaed someoen at work and i was demotexd sued and fired and then my partner divorced me also. i was livign well now im broke an dliving off goya beans every day. i dotn knwo what happend i was given a bedrrom eye look before i apprcoed but i feel i was tricked by a coworker who jus wanted validation.. now im so miserable. why woudl someoen do this why are peopel so bad?
That’s life and things happen the way it happens
Women are inherently evil, real talk!
Everything is business.
When you are at work or when she’s at work ?
Nope. You just don't know what you're doing. And it depends on how serious your job is.
Cold approach gives you some of the most beautiful women, not at work though. Choosing signals girls can 90 percent of the time be ugly as hell. In my opinion cold approach wins because you have to go after what you want as a man
This is facts
I’m sick of tired of people saying this BS how the hell you think our grandparents met someone had to go up to someone it don’t matter where you at it’s all about the mentality smfh
real
I agree. This probably only applies to unattractive people who can’t really hold a conversation with women. Or can’t take a rejection and still be charismatic
Our grandparents didn't have social media and dating apps and women didn't falsely accuse men of grape for simply saying "hi" to them and because they're under 6 feet tall and aren't a millionaire.
There is never a "wrong" place to approach a girl. you as a man can set the tone, some types of approaches are off limits though. and the workplace is tricky being fair to the creator
O hush
Its not desperate to cold approach. You a man trying to shoot your shot with a girl that you like and theres nothing wrong with that. She accepts you? Thats great. If she reject you, you can move on. But that's the problem. You can't move on from a girl that you work with at work you will see everyday. Keep romance and your Job separate.
It is natural !! You just dont do it in the work place. Do it anywhere else.
Facts 💯
What about as a cashier im a handsome dude do you think its weird to shoot my shot at register?
@@drewtrulock333 I wouldn’t do it unless she was shooting her shot with me but it could still work if she gave you like a strong choosing signal like if it’s very obvious but at the end of the day if you do it or don’t do it that’s up to you
It depends on who's the cashier and who's the customer. (Your lack of punctuation leaves that unclear.) If you're the cashier, it's probably a bad idea, because one complaint could get you fired. If you're the customer, and she gives you signals, you might as well react. Just be a gentleman, not a hornball.
It's only shooting your shot if you don't know if she like you, if she like you it's no missing
If you’re fine with never going to this store again, go ahead bro.
dude you’re on the job. congrats you’re handsome. that isn’t going to keep your boss from firing your ass.
Man you yapping Brodie some of y'all need to get off the internet
😂 keep getting rejected play boy we all be here laughing at you everytime
@ you a random Brodie you got nothing on me IRL
@@meSHAelBilal you just a random on the Internet too 😂 I have nothing to prove Brodie
@ okay reptile
Customers as well?
You make that decision for yourself
I see these dudes in the comments. Everybody act so virtuous but lack virtue in this regard. These same dudes would preach " let things come to you " except when its a " woman " huh 🤔?
Facts
The fact that you even talking about girls in 2025 it shows how far behind you have fallen, you should’ve have been a dept of 54K left on your 298K dollar house and possibly into many other and growing your future self and maybe maybe later on worry about some ppss that will only cause issues, a woman is just and asset you need to view them as a stock market and try your best to get a dividend from them just the same way they thinking about you, you have zero knowledge and experience of life im on my 6Th house and 1. /3 store 🏬 APT and 32 fully active employees.😪
You need to jump in the other side! Money feels infinitely now its n insane feeling.
Bruh you let them come to you
That's puh-see
@ better than being called a weirdo
@@828Just You are not a man !!! You puh-see !!! Real men cold approach women. Grow some nuts
To soft. You have to approach with dominance but she should be able to sense that you are a man and can carry on the rest of your life without her. Her catching your eye is something she's lucky to have considering what else you could be doing with your time.
You like guys bro
You have no game.
@@AwakenZen😅😅😅😅
@@versatileduplicity9313Don't need it, I'm handsome.
Im in agreement goodstuff
Scared money don't make no money