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Lmao extreme manlet cope

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When I improved my looks I realized I would get signals from girls that would make me nervous from how fine they were Part of me was like no way It’s pretty good feeling that they see me in that light But since my identity wasn’t that I could pull those type I was too insecure and that made them leave

On a scale of 10 what do you rate yourself in terms of attractiveness?

But the signs are the same, thats why i always take my chances

Jesus man. So much is discussed on how to chat with women!! I've solved it 100% - I don't talk with women full stop anymore.

LMFAO no.3 is so true, goin through it currently

this girl who likes me really bad she somehow got my number and always texts me but i never really reply

Bro you should do some reaction content. Pull up vids of Handsome mens struggle in dating and comment id watch.

Could you further explain the radio silence?

do a video on the minimum amount of interest she should show to get you to approach? i think cold approach is good to build confidence either way but i feel like id rather not just give out free attention if she hasn't given me enough signs to warrant an approach

Question: how do you know?

When you are at the top, and im saying not only goodlooking….hoolywood looking, intelligent etc, no women ever will come to you my guy hahah. Even men have it difficult to talk to you, even when they know you, just because youre superior and on a different wave lenght, youre very intimidating to people. Women always staring, talk about you with her friends, giggwling, walking past you etc…but they never ever talk at first, and thats because when youre a real 10, you have to choose who you want, because you attract almost every beautiful girl. Why? There sre at leadst 10x more 10s or 9s wlmen than guys on my lvl…

Been waiting on this one. Appreciate you for coming through with it Marv! Going to be hitting you up very soon about a personal situation similar to this for some advice

Drop your skincare routine I keep trying shi and I need something that’s for black melanin skin

Unrelated comment to this video but felt the need to tell you, I don't know if you know your biggest selling point for me is you hit a lot of topics no one else has covered, or in a particular super specific way, like the signs of levels of attractiveness and your take on them. Saying this so you keep finding those and making them

It don't mean nun for me I get told allat bullshxt and still get rejected

You should offer face call calls as a paid option so you can see mannerisms and maybe so look max ing advise

I prefer cute guys than handsome guys. I find them more attractive.

Well I got one of the three (#3).

Hi key been waiting for this one, and with that last point made on this you just put me on Game I'm laughing hysterically bro like it's obvious.

Nah man. Ladies do that for their own entertainment. Even if you don’t follow thru, ultimately it’s like ishtting where you make money. Will end horribly

No fraternizing at work is the only rule that really makes sense lol it’s terrible having a woman mad at you at work they can’t hide it

*Sorry for the essay lol, your video just gave me a new, nuanced revelation (It is an insightful read though lol). As a new subscriber I enjoy and appreciate the nuance/intricate perspective that your videos expound upon* Great Work! ************************************* Yea, number 3 threw me at my last job. I actually ended up leaving because they were all treating me poorly/being distant to the point of all interactions being received as rude and unpleasant (that was how I received it, which they WERE, but now I understand it was because they ALL did like me, though I still found their actual behaviors still unpleasant). I've always thought I've had a good read, in and out of the work place, to whether girls were overtly fond, covertly, trying to act uninterested but really interested, etc., but I never (previously) really experienced them being uninterested/cold ALL OF THE TIME, for no apparent reason. Usually, in the past, when they were overdoing the "coldness" it was still blatant to me they they were interested and overcompensating. At my last job however, they were all acting overly disinterested to the point I would say hello and they would just ignore me, even if we were actively working/stationed together. No hello, no good morning, nothing (even out of general courtesy). They'd all exclude me out of all downtime conversations, and be really, kind of, rude to even general courtesy behavior. Or even the few of those conversations i was briefly apparent of, I had even made it blatant that I was just a chill, still quirky, yet competent person.... they were still cold. I did, always see them staring at me when they were excluding me from general conversation, while I was helping customers, or going about my business. Playing with their hair, the whole nine (they just ain't know I see everything, cus I again, I ain't really new to the game, but I suppose I hadn't reached this current level of social interpretation) Eventually I just quit cus, 1. all the guys and managers, and security were just as rude to me (though nothing new) but 2. even if they (and they did like me), if someone (me) is working the most hours (40) than the rest but everyone ACTIVELY never talks to me, or are cold when they do, regardless of their attraction, I'm just alone and left to 40 hours of internal monologue, and the few minutes of conversation, am met with cold responses. Now that having stepped away, reinforced by this video, I understand that they were STILL so intimidated regardless of how chill i was, and the fact that I was content with my quirks actually unsettled them more, because, I am more a dynamic/nuanced than most "attractive guys" THEY are usually familiar with. I think because I was so chill and considerate(not "nice" or pushover, just not exaggeratedly f boy e either, which is what I deduce they are more familiar with) I was more "unreadable" by virtue of ACTUALLY being cordial (not overtly "f boy" sexual, and just interested by their general hobbies (just in a regular way, not a "nice" guy way either"). Which resulted in them ALL being distant and rude, because they both could not get their usual "read" so they teetered between confused and self-disqualifying by way of me being too comfortable having regular conversations with women. In hindsight, they did give some "signals" of possible interest, but they presented themselves to me as just regular "happenings" because their delivery was more muted, i suppose in preemptive fear of rejection, to the point that if they could see themselves from my perspective, the "smoke/signal" they thought they were giving, by delivery, would be 0% indicated as opposed/compared to the more (not completely overt but) clear signals they usually give other ACTUALLY attractive men. I guess it didn't help that I had been job searching for 7 months straight and didn't understand that I improved even more in my attraction to the point of a level of intimidation I had not yet been subjected to as an already attractive guy. They looked distraught as I walked out, as if to understand that it was in direct reaction to their behaviors not how they thought they did. Oh well, lol. Glad that you helped me improve my understanding.

Talking with a woman my age (45-55) is easy. We’re more direct. The younger people either talk in excessive slang or use too many syllables, and only pause long enough to talk another 5 mins. Like there’s two diff conversations. Young ppl know how to send, but not receive and process.

Im like 80% sure im in the pretty girl category and I can confirm what you say as my lived experience. Shit is so confusing over here. im going to try approaching men more often. Not in a masculine chasing type of way but just in a natural way where I show my interest and allow them to respond if the interest is reciprocal. Thoughts?

You are dead right! I started getting attention from men, ppl calling me beautiful, getting stared at, etc. when I was 15. I honestly felt self-conscious for the next few years because people were staring at me. In highschool, boys would blatantly stare but few would ask me out. I didn't have the experience to know that I didn't have reason to be intimidated by them. I was friends with guys who I wasn't attracted to, but eventually they would let me know they had feelings, or they'd have a gf would didn't like him being friends with me. Meanwhile, i was painfully shy around the boys I found attractive. It took a LOT of life experience but i finally realized that I'm not going to be rejected because of my appearance. As you said in a comment, some ppl just don't fit. But I've never been rejected because of my looks. Even with these experiences, i used to freeze when i was attracted to a new person. The trick is to talk and be friendly with everyone! At the grocery store, your neighborhood, wherever you are. I understand if you're an introvert this is probably more difficult. But once I realized, "Hey, I talk to everyone, so, just talk to a good looking guy the same way!" Then it became pretty effortless.

oh please, normally never happens and normally never will, men will always be stuck with this role

Hey Marv, I'm talking to this lady atm, she's 26, I'm 38. I think she's cute as hell. I met her and her sister (together) the other day - it wasnt a date. The gurl, lets call her Debbie, is sweet but quiet. I feel like I connected with her sister a lot more (lets call her Monique). Monique was drunk but funny; she's closer in age to me, 31 to be precise. I like to speak my mind and I get on better with women who are confident and have opinions. I'm a dominant guy like yourself. Monique said I'm tall and handsome and that her 1st impressions of me are good, so she's cool with me taking Debbie out. I just feel as if maybe our personalities dont connect. Perhaps its her age, although I've met younger women like 22 yrs old (who I've just conversed with) who come across as more strong-willed and unreserved. When thats the case i can fully be myself and not worry about anything. When I spoke to Monique Debbie was there. It felt like we were discussing Debbie in front of her. Debbie's definitely more reserved but I said I'd take her out on a date. What would you do in this situation? P.S. Didnt realise I'd written so much. Btw, I approached Debbie initially cos she has the ideal physique for me (thick as hell). Its just the awkward silences and the fact she seems kinda clingy to her sister and mates.

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Do you think that a girl can turn into a beautiful woman? Like a pretty girl can turn into a beautiful one

I dont know to be honest. For someone like me 6'5 beard and muscles and work more of an introverted IT job with not much face to face interaction with people besides the gym and "dating apps" I get told I'm handsome and I get looks from everyone; I think cold approaching is what I think I need to do. Or get better pictures on the apps. I just get too much in my head.

watched this first thing waking up lets go 🤙🏼

When you talk about attractiveness from a woman’s perspective it’s more complicated. We don’t care only about ur looks and that’s not the first thing we care about. Women especially very attractive women care about financial stability. Most men who have beautiful wives have a big bank account. These women ur talking about that u assume cares about ur looks would most likely be college age girls, and even then if she’s very attractive again a woman mainly cares about status. A cute guy is cool but from what I’ve seen and experienced women who are really young would mess around with a “handsome guy” for fun or a cougar.

I think a better question to answer is why do they act like they aren’t feeling you. For me it boils down to these reasons: 1. They are taken 2. They think you are a player or arrogant and they don’t want to give your ego a boost. 3. They are just shy and don’t want to be rejected. 4. You are not their type, but they still find you very attractive.. they don’t want to mess around and be seduced by you because of your race, or your financial prospects or your lack of popularity. 5. They can’t pigeonhole you into a certain style.. women like guys they can pigeonhole… surfer, athlete, thug, player, fashionable etc.. but if you don’t fit any of these archetypes it throws them off and they don’t know how to take you/how to accurately assess you since you aren’t assessable via known criteria. These are the biggest ones I know of. The race one is the one that makes me the most upset. @marvovermatter You should make a video about this and what your thoughts are..

Haha the first one, first time it happened i didn't really understand what was going on, until a couple of weeks later a male co worker just said "there he is the pretty boy" then it clicked, i knew some women where feeling me but also it clicked why pretty much all the women at the warehouse went the route where i worked when they had lunch, which is actually a detour 😂

I like how you explained the root of charisma, that's exactly what it is. When you have accepted yourself, flaws and all (comfortable in your own skin), then charisma just flows naturally.✌

😂Most men are a 5 or less on the attractive side. They have magic mirrors or their mommies puffed them up ego wise.

love this man. thank you!

There’s days at the bars where girls will approach me and other days I don’t get approached at all

Hi! Great video! I'd really appreciate a deep dive into the levels of attractiveness for beautiful women. I would learn a lot. Thank you!

This means i gotta work harder

In nowadays, with all this plastic surgery and every procedure, how do you even determine who is more beautiful and who is not?

As a woman, what I witness so far only below average woman chasing man Or woman who have too much masculine energy Cause the beautiful one already have a lot of man line up want to marry her, she doesn't care about approaching/chasing anyone Maybe it's different depends on the country, my country still part of asian, people still have traditional mindset about gender role here

Also, I’m wondering, beautiful with or without makeup. Guys tell me a lot they cannot tell what a woman actually looks like and are shocked when the makeup comes off.

Weeding out the BS is not a game for beautiful women. It’s an act of self preservation. I am told often I’m beautiful and I maintain my physique. I don’t play games and I also DO NOT have premarital sex. This has gotten me plenty of marriage proposals, most of which obviously I turned down.

Can you make a vid on how to better develop that flow and push through that anxiety and awkwardness when talking to them?

he is so spot on

so im attractive since girls positioned themself close to me and i feel some energy but girls dont do anything else, its so akward, they dont even look at me so i cant look them and nod or smth i though cause i intimidate them but now i think im not as attractive as i though

In the end of the day, any woman can f*uck any man they want, while men f*ck what they can. It has nothing to do with being average or a 10.