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I think social media messed things up as well, more upper tier girls now have less confidence in themselves after comparing with IG models with max filter + AI touch up. I find it easier to make them comfortable at work or wherever I see them often as you can chip away at it without doing too much at once but in a one shot scenario where you only see her once, it's hard for me. Either I don't do enough to break the ice or do too much and come across like a beg and thus become unattractive lol.

bro i experience this all day long

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Good topic because men go through what women go through as well peace

When I had hair, in my 20s..my hair texture was fine.. I remember this pretty.girl.said I was too pretty for her..she said she don't like me who look better than her. She was saying how my hair looks better than hers and how I was a pretty boy

One of my home boys. I mentioned about in highschool, in the story about the girl who was mean to me. Well we were about 19 or 20..he ended up getting a temp job graybar. The same day he started. His manager a female came on to him and tried to get him to have sxxxx with her after work..he declined and said he doesn't commit adultery with another man's wife. The very next day he came to.job site and she told him go on back home your services are no longer needed here. The entire shift the other day she was flirting and hinting at first. But when he was about to get off his shift she literally pressed him. And because he wouldn't sleep with her, she terminated his position as temp..

Was waiting for this one !

What if she’s nervous on a date and doesn’t want to show any affection or anything of that nature….

i recognize that ignoring is not bad sign for handsome man.. but if this behavior repeat... it cause much headache.😂

@Hello123-b7l If she's doing it in a passive aggressive way then she's trying to battle you for the upper hand in hopes that you approach her first so she can always hold onto the fact that you pursued her instead of the other way around. Don't overcomplicate things and get out of your own head, respectfully. Just man up and make the approach with strong frame. Whether she accepts or denies you, doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that you stay strong enough to make the connection appropriately and let the chips fall where they may. If she rejects you, she'll respect the fact that you approached her like a man and may come around again in the future and approach you this time. Don't be surprised. I'm speaking from my own experiences.

Great post on a rarely talked about topic! I’ve discovered 5-10+ years later certain women admitting they liked/crushed on me and I was blown away. It’s a bit frustrating to try and navigate. #2 is a good one, and possibly add in gay guys, LOL. As annoying as that is to deal with, those people live in the most direct reality of everyone. So I try and take it in a positive light when I’ve encountered advances 😅 Great stuff, I immediately smashed like and subscribed. 🫱🏼‍🫲🏿

There’s a couple of pretty girls at my workplace that say hi ocassionally first to me. But when I try to make eye contact to say hi to them on other days, they completely avoid eye contact and just ignore me. So the next time I see them I plan to ignore them they then they say hi to me. They say hi regularly to others but to me they are changing their mind daily. Idk to ignore them or now. Idc if it gets to relationship but I want to be polite at least. It feels rude to ignore people but I don’t want to be disrespected. I’ve had this happen in the past with another girl but she was bad enough that I said hi every time even if she ignored me. But these girls idc that much so I will ignore them if needed. Just wondering what you think. Thank you.

I’ve had a female that likes me sexually, she added me on facebook but on facebook it says she’s in a relationship. I asked who it was and she said her boy bestfriend. I don’t know whether to believe her or not but everytime I try to link up she gives excuses.

Next video, talk about how you deal with the third situation. Of how you can politely reject them.

This is a great video bro. Thank you for this i learned a lot.

what a gentleman! i agree with you😁

I hear you but these girls don’t care when they do guys dirty so neither should we

DUDE I was just thinking bout this last nite while I was out walking and having prayer time. I spoke out, " I want 2 leave others better off 4 having known me" its amazing that u came out with this video, I wish more creators would speak about being responsible. Glad I found u🤙

What if you are meeting a lot of women like say in coffee places or just out and about but they’re not going on dates w/ you? Cause just because you meet a lot of women doesn’t mean they’re interested in you

Go to Boba Tea Hang out Applebee's Trader Joe's Book stores Go walking at the park Running tracks Walmart Costco Fairs and amusement parks Conventions that alot of women go to The black expos The gateway classic Groups of young pretty girls be at sporting events.

I can relate to da 3rd reason as I'm such a mess around women

Yeah, workout classes are full of chicks, but they all know why YOU are there.

I can’t lie number two is exactly how I thought. I always thought. Why are the unattractive girls coming at me? It made me feel like I was unattractive but when you put in this perspective, I’m like OK. This is different. So I appreciate this. Definitely getting like for me.

Ain’t seen you since BHS bro lol. Idk how I ran into this vid😅. Glad you’re also doing TH-cam too bro🔥. Keep it up

You look like African spartacus

Yup , definitely from the trenches 🫡“romantically saying”

Really great information here man. Be the contextual alpha

The mall. It's literally a gold mine.

In high school, I had like 1 of every type of girl like me: Fat, Special Ed, Average looking girl( I actually liked her too but then we stopped talking and it went nowhere cause I guess I wasnt talkative enough; or charismatic and funny like I was in the beginning, Cute black girl(she liked my eyes but it didnt go anywhere cause I didnt talk and it felt awkward). The only group of women that didnt like me were white girls(well, except for the fat ones). With this information, would you say im ugly, or that my personality just sucks because women just want me to be someone I am not? I just want to be with a simple, Christian woman, who is simple like me; who doesnt have to funny all the time to keep the woman interested. It's stupid

Pattaya is the best place to meet women.

*The best places to meet women are those where you share common interests - whether it’s at a fitness class, a bookstore, or a hobby group. Genuine connections start when you’re both doing something you enjoy.*

As a 5'4" guy, I've dated women taller than me because they liked my charm and sense of humor. Style and fitness helped as well.

Bingo - Pilates is a gold mine. I just moved to Dallas and found a lot at Pilates.

When I was in college I worked at a restaurant as a grill cook. All of the servers were female. I dated one long term and had relations with 2 others… all while making about $10.50 per hour haha. Proximity makes a big difference.

Little trick of the trade: try different venues in different locations try different grocery stores. sometimes your aesthetic may not stand out at that side of town. try multiple clubs in different places. The clubs you get the most attention is your pond or hunting grounds try different pools too, the pool where you get the most attention is a target rich enviornment. Even visit different gyms as someone elses guest. An see how many choosing signals or hollas you get. i noticed at certain jobs i worked i get alot more attention than others. Same thing goes for malls. So i try different clubs on different days to see what happens. You be surprised.

GOOD TOPIC: I never tried the group stuff, Most stuff i be into group wise be mostly males. Like kung fu training or skate boarding back in the day. But i did start roller skating in my teens, an let me tell you. You have girls chasing me. Also i have muscular legs. So at work, wearing slacks or khakis two things happen My Quads and Glutes stand out My print shows So at work i get alot of attention from girls like 20 years younger than me. But location is important, One point; The club is great if your dancer. If you know the latest dance moves and alot of oldies. You gonna stand out in the club. I use to go with one or two guys to club and we would just dance, an get tons of attention from girls. The Skating rink: I can do tricks on skates. So i was always getting girls from being able to do spins, dance on skates, crazy legs and other moves. I had tons of girls approaching me and got popular at the rink. The POOL: Having good hair and getting my hair wet in the pool did wonders, But also my print would show in my gym trunks. i remember my home boy had a better body than me and he was taller. But the two girls he was talking started ignoring him when i walked up. Disclaimer: Don't sleep on meeting girls out and about, I meet most girls now when im at the gas station, the grocery store, the mall and the just walking around the neighborhood trying to get my steps. There is this young pretty girl who be flriting with every time i walk down the street. Caveat: Yes if your good at anything it stands out, singers get the most girls from being out, Learn to sing. An join a band and get ready to have groupies every week. 😊

My go to put up numbers and have crazy experiences is the pool parties & the beach. My other favorites I barely go to are the mall & festivals. Don’t sleep on Zumba classes. Literally walkout with all the girls numbers one time.

I’m an actor myself and there was this very attractive girl that gave me her Instagram but she doesn’t engage with my profile

I don't drink coffee but I realized a lot of attractive women go to coffee shops like Starbucks. You can also find women at a grocery store, library, and a workout class like you mentioned.

Can you talk more places to meet women? I need lots of ideas.

I got no talents, im cooked lol. good video!

Most of these women not plumbers but they taking pipe

New sub checking in. 👍🏽💪🏾

I was at work 2day at the gym wen a gym regular ive talked with indirectly shot their shot. A coworker of mine invited me 2 Goth nite at a club downtown, which i thought was super random, just 2 realize that it was the member that was wondering if i was going, and told my coworker 2 invite me cuz she wanted 2 c me. (Proceeds 2 show me the texts on her phone) ive wondered 4 a bit if she was interested, as she would go out of her way 2 talk 2 me, but after 2nite i got the answer i was looking 4

#2 & #3 hit home runs

One Thing i started doing that shift my mentaltity is changing my mindset and on meeting women. 1. Before i would approach women i actually liked or saw value in, or i thought she is the type i could have a future with based off of how attracted i am to her, her personality or how she carries herself in person. This is big NO NO. 2. The mindshift, Is any woman i want just want to FXXXK i will approach. I not approaching her based off anything else but just wanting to FXXX. my only expecations is to get the cheeks. An i am approaching a myriad of girls in one day. Not just approaching that one woman i see something in. If she becomes more than just something to smash, than so be it. But my intentions is just to get a plethora of women i can sleep with. If one chick rejects me i will go an approach 5 more chicks. i stop looking at girls for their value and just start seeing them as quantiy over quality. That way rejection doesnt bother me, because there are so many women i just want to fxxxxk,. Not many women i can really feel a connection with or i really like.

Short Story: i was at the grocery store, i tried to holla at this young slim light skin joint. She was Black American. She was like no thank you, im good, So i walked down the isle away from her and this Eithopian chick walked infront of me, i say Hey pretty girl, she said Hey handsome. An we started talking an she gave her number. Side note: the girl who said No thank you, was like So you just gonna go talk to another gurl after talking to me. My Response: You said NO right? Why would you follow me in the opposite direction that you were walking in if your not interested, stop being a C@CK block...You said NO thank you. She said YES. She was like. "I cant believe you just move that quick to another woman." lol she was mad that african girl gave her phone number.

Those are good signs but also, ppl just can't help but compliment you and ask, "Do you work out?" This makes you wonder just how good looking are you really. Then, once you find out, just don't get a gigantic head, stay chill and relatable. You're a man, not a female.

Fantastic video!! Thank you so much! I didn’t think of rejection in that way.

What happened to first one