Dumping you...discarding you and ending the relationship...is simply one single event and it is fleeting!!! We now get to decide THE REST OF THE STORY!! Zero contact...never talk to them or see them again...for the rest of your life. That’s the bigger story...THATS POWER!!!!!
This resonates loudly with me as I feel your pain. Accept the reality of what is and see it as the will of God. He is the author of New beginnings. When you realize what's in front of you is more important than what's behind you you'll begin to see the big picture. Imma pray for your healing and I ask that you pray for mine!
"She came in my life so that I could learn the meaning of Love" and then "she left, so that I can learn to give all that Love to Myself" ;) Thanks babe for coming (and also for not staying :) )
He came into my life so I could learn the meaning of love AND he left my life so I could learn the meaning of what loving myself will give me and my life ❤️❤️❤️
I'm sorry if you recently experience break up but I hope you read this, if someone left you Get up and go on with your life. It's alright to sit around and be depressed for a minute ,cry about it ,do whatever you have to do but don't stay there too long. This is what I've learned all these years on earth, if somebody want to walk out of your life LET THEM GO. Especially if you know you've done everything you can do, you've sat around, been the best man or best woman you can be and they still want to go LET THEM GO. What ever they running after they see what they had in a minute but by then I'll be too late. Because half of these people crying about it, worry about it 2-3 years from now you won't be remember their last name. Let FolkS Go. Some people came in to your life for a lifetime, some came for a season, you got to know WHICH IS WHICH. One you're gonna mess up when you mix them a season of people up with a lifetime expectation. There are people who been got married with people they were only supposed to be with for a season and wonder why they got so much hell in their life. Nobody said it gonna be easy, but It'll get easy if you learn how to love yourself. No matter how it hurts let them go. I PROMISE YOU everyday it will get easier you just got to make it through. You just need to be by yourself people need to be alone. I don't understand all these people who pray LORD where is my man or LORD where is my waman. That's crazy as hell. IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE BY YOURSELF, WHAT'S YOU GONNA WITH SOMEBODY ELSE?. Stop praying about it shut up and wait, go work on you that's what the time is for ,,to get yourself together. I'd rather sit in the corner by myself with a Dog and be happy that being with somebody in my house and wonder what the hell they there for. I can live in dysfunction I'm sorry. I don't care how attracted you are to them . I don't care what the situation is, BECAUSE YOUR DESTINY IS NOT TIED TO THE PERSON WHO LEFT. YOU GOT TO KNOW WHEN PEOPLE PART IN YOUR STORY IS OVER.
My 10 year relationship has come to an end. I’ve listened to your videos countless times. The fear of completely restarting from scratch is very intimidating. New location, new home, new friends, new job, new everything. But courage does not exist without fear. Strength does not exist without weakness. Joy does not exist without pain. All the hardships and battles we face now in the valley will only make our next mountain top that much more worth it. Keep the videos coming! They’re really helping me keep my head up.
Ryan Ackley my husband left me we were married still are he’s moved on with someone else now there moving in together my heart breaks but I want him to b happy it’s so tough x
Tess Wakefield I’m in the same boat. My wife has been seeing this dude for I’d say 2 years. We’ve been separated for 9-10 months. The past 2 years makes total sense now......I feel stupid for not wanting to let her go..... we have a 5 yr old together. There are 3 other kiddos involved. The oldest (12) doesn’t like this dude at all, or at least didn’t a long time ago, and now had to be around him. She’s been using me by saying she wants to try then not. Completely heart broken but still don’t want to give up...., is that stupid
I loved her I cared for her I tried my possible best to make her happy... But she's doesn't want to be pleased She gets angry at every little argument But I ignored all that because I loved her... Because I wanted the relationship to work.... I even apologized for things I didn't do... I never wanted to lose her but just yesterday she made it clear to me saying I should LEAVE HER LIFE ALONE.... I had no choice but to WALK.......
Abuchi Michael Indeed brother. I tried so hard to show her there is love. She blocked every attempt to receive love, no matter what I did. Some people just want to suffer I suppose. Let them walk. Let them go. It wasn’t meant to be. LOVE YOURSELF.
Abuchi Michael you behaved as a pure blue pill man . take a look at : " 33 secrets " and learn how to be an alfamale . women do not realy love and respect to weak men . BE AN ALFAMALE to make women follow and chase you . let them know that who the boss is .
As a recently divorced man, this advice is spot on. They are doing what they want to do, you must accept this, heal from it, and look forward with an abundance mindset. Don’t hold onto what has died, it’s over. Learn from it but don’t dwell in it. And use this relationship failure to grow into the person you were always meant to be.
It's hard to let go,but for there to ever be a true way of reconnection or maybe having a chance of a lasting relationship we have to let go,I realize that but its hard,over 2 years disregarded like it wasnt nothing,been 8 months and took 6 months to even start making a honest step in letting go,I know God has a plan and in time me and everyone going through a painful breakup will be revealed,I look forward to the day I can look back with clear eyes and be thankful for the hurt
@@myduece7301 it's good to know I'm not by myself,but sorry your dealing with it,its tough but it's gotten alot better,I hope everything works out for you
Y'all will be just fine, my husband I loved for 14 years and trauma bonded to him. (Strongest bond ever) left me. I wanted to die, I couldn't bare to be without him... I was sick, needed him, died a painful death everyday he was gone, but then one day!!!!!!! I.. Said... No... More... I... Am... Done.... NEEDING him!! If he done need me.. BYE!!!!! .. and I changed my mindset and focused every thought on how I would be just fine without him. And then I no longer needed him... A year later, he came back and wanted to be with me and I told him, no I'm done. And never spoke to him since. Days go by that I forget I even knew him.. That was a 14 yr marriage. I convinced my heart to be done
Thank you I so needed to hear this. I must be strong. After a year I wanted my ex back but this has helped me. I have been sad and 😭 crying. God bless my ex. ❤️
Thank you for coming in my life and making me understand the meaning of love, thank you for discarding me and moving on, I don’t know with whom you are but it is painful and our journeys together are over. I thought you were the one but you forgot me in a day, you never messaged me after that day. I am grateful for everything.
I let him walk I'm not completely better but I'm 100 percent better than I was when I was still chasing ! Two weeks no contact and I will never contact him again ! Im more peaceful now !
This video and every detail is so relatable in my circumstance.. my father passed 2 days later I found out the mother of my Child had been cheating ..this video is like a hug I've been seeking for the past 3 years as I can make no sense from the pain I've dealt with in solitude
Wow! This video really hit home. As much as I chase her and chase her, I have to realize sooner than later that Im chasing a closed door. As much as hurts to let her go after 12 years and 3 kids....it will be the best thing. For the both of us. Thanks for the video...
I hung on to someone that i thought the relationship was devine because of a dream i had of him.. now six years later i am realizing that the dream was a warning..if he really loved me then he would be more supportive of me when my daughter passed away,instead of pushing me to get a job that i wasnt happy in,and also to entertain himself with someone else. I now am have accepted a new job in healthcare,was god answering my prayer of deliverance from a toxic relationship.. hallelujah! Amen
My Ex Girlfriend had contacted me after 6 months. However I learned that she was breadcrumbing me. I finally realized that I am no longer in love with my ex girlfriend like I had thought. She injured my Ego when she left me. Just like I injured her Ego when I chose to go no contact with her. I love listening to your videos. You are an inspiration. Thank you!
@@AlkoWasAlreadyTaken No it didn't I made a mistake. I meant that I injured her ego when I went no contact, because she thought that I would Beg and Plead for her not to leave me. When I didn't it injured her ego, which is why she had contacted me. She needed validation or to see if I was still interested in her.
R C i feel you. I got blocked an all social media and when she got her heart broken from the guy she left me for, she tried to add me back and text me like nothing had happened. But I did what she did to me and blocked her. Till this day she calls my family members and tries to catch me after work.
She thought she would be able to walk into my life like she dint hurt me moving on a day after we broke up. She said she made a mistake but I won’t make that mistake in taking her back
@@urielcruz4545 I apologize for replying so late. I love your last name because it's mine also. When you understand female nature or Red Pill knowledge you learn to find happiness within yourself not a woman. I learned that women don't love men for who they are. Women love men for what they can do for them. Women are not biologically wired to love men unconditionally. Focus on your goals and aspirations and don't pedestalize women. Take care of yourself!
Your video did help me because I am going to that right now. I keep finding this person that I truly care for to come back. I constantly think of him I constantly want to contact him again. Knowing he doesn't want nothing to do with me. But after listening to your video I realize that I need to let go and letting walk 4 even though I don't know he is with someone I truly feel he is. Thank you for your video and your thoughts
You spoke right to me with this. This is what I'm going through as I listen to this and even though he left with no excuse and won't face me and continues to treat me like shit when I keep asking or trying.. I'm blocked everywhere but I'm still being pathetic enough to wish things were OK still 😭
Just let go dear.... People who leave you will not feel a thing about you. They walk away so that the right person will come n fill that space u have nw. Thank and pray god it gives me peace
Your wife deserve her ex not you . Because she does not need happiness . Don't worry everything will be okay soon. . Its not your fault . . Let her walk away from you. . She really deserves sadness in her life
I miss my x so dearly but I have to learn how to let him go. Thank you Caandon for loving me and trying your best to help me. I will practice self love and try
5 year long distance relationship in Canada and the U.S. I worked everyday heavy labour running my company. 90% of the money made sent to her and her son. We were best friends one hundred percent. I started to get depressed and angry, drinking and days when we wouldn't talk. Then she had them and it got bad, she didn't drink but her set and setting was horrible, the people whom she was hanging out with were also mad and angry. Over the years her attitude got worse and I had to listen and hear her say that I needed to accept it. I couldn't, I was too far gone emotionally and physically. So I broke it off and explained to her why, (as seen above) Now she hates me and doesn't understand that it is always, always, a two why street. She chooses hate towards me and I still choose love for her and her son. This has been the hardest decision I have ever had to make in my life. But remember that it takes 2 and I will learn to love myself and let her go. Hope this helps someone
It lasted 3 years, I treated her like a shit, I behaved like a bastard with her, today it's been 2 years that I cry almost every day her absence, it's difficult, she made her life and I sink in the dark
Am going through the same thing with this man and right now am focusing on building my self. I gave him every thing i loved him more than myself and i pray to god to let me walk away from a man who don't want me and my daughter anymore
This is my situation. I feel for you. Im going through it right now. Hurts like mad i feel like chasing him but he has no value for me and only hurts me and finds it funny. We are worthy. ❤️
I pray everyday just to make the pain go away. It's super hard to let someone go. Exactly if your with the person for a log time. Or you have kids with that person. I know it's hard but we can do it. I believe we can do it.
I'm gettin' out of a ten year relationship. How can I cope with it so far. She already made her decision without talkin' to me? So I'm at a stage of "what's goin' on" or "I don't know what to do" help.
My mom lived with us our whole married life she passed away and my ex left a couple months after he was caught cheating .. 30 years.. I just can't shake it.. I have prayed for his return but it hasn't happened it was 3 years in June..I think of him all the time every day.. Lord why but he yelled and screamed at my kids my mom and me he was controlling and narcissist.and complusive it was toxic..I prayed for it to stop and it did...but I didn't want it to be like this..please pray for me every day is a struggle....
I did cry and mourn for my ex 1 and half months ago for 15 days after she dumped me ... now I'm feeling much relief and learning to love myself and accepting the fact that its over. Prayer is all that helps
Currently heartbroken over a man who left me for another woman. It is so hard. But 5 years ago I went through an even more traumatic heartbreak where I was on my hands and knees crying my soul out, it took me 3 years to fully heal from that. Now I know if I can heal from THAT, I can heal from THIS.
I love this girl she was amazing i loved her since i were 17 we were classmates, i make the move after 3 year i professed to her it took me a year and half to convince her that i love her than we things seems to be good, she disappeared i tried to reach her but she was nowhere one day i got a text . She said i should move on i requested her to explain but all she did was ignoring my every single question. I broked but i set her free . After three month my friend inform me she have settled out with some boy from her's academy. Then after few days she texted me and asked me to forgive her i was very disappointed i was crying like some 10 year old kid. But then i forgave her she gave me promise and beg me to forget what happened . I forgave her then everything is going good she loved me or perhaps it is just a thought of mine. I gave her my hundred person we are like partners like husband wife, our morning starts togather and ends together but then i dont know what happened after 3 years she starts ignoring me again i start forcing her to love me and she gets further and further away one day at night i ask her some question to ask about whats wrong in our relationship. She did not gave reply i waited cried and slept i was very upset but then at mid night i wokeup i saw her online i text her but she ignored again i waited next morning i ring her and she talked the first question i asked
Your new boyfriend needs your love. . Please give him 100 percent of yours . . Be proud . .and forget about your ex. . He left you that's it . Your ex don't deserve you. .
If she loved yu she'd be still there yu don't deserve this come on let it go its a lesson iv been trew this not goid and very pain full calma comes back two us all god has ended this for reason good one yu will see be strong amen
Truth is that rock and roll has a meaning😉🎶...if you live in the worst place on earth?? BRIDGWATER SOMERSET...there is NOT A OUNCE OF PASSION..& the only thing that is real is rock roll & loyalty..godbless all of you who have been betrayed trust me stick with the truth of who you are 💣💥💞💞🎶
Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick
Your the only person I chase... Remember me when I trying my best to fix our relationship, remember me when I really want to fight for u, remember me when u reject me when u already have all u wants in life... Just remember this stupid girl knows how to love u more sje love herself, "cdx" 2017-2020
For some reason after being with someone for over 10 years and u think that you're going to be forever, cause you both shared of being together forever then they leave you and walk away like they never loved you as they changed into someone u never knew them. They post pictures a week later being with some drunk woman, it's like they want to hurt u in the worse way possible by shoving their new lover in your face. I would never hurt someone in this way that loved me. Why is it that the person that claimed every single day how much they loved you turn out to be the one who they suddenly hate like you are nothing and never were to them, now that hurts, and tares a person apart from the inside out? All I do is pray and hope that Jesus Christ comes soon to take me away from this world that has caused me more pain and hurt than one person can keep on going through. I believe there's just plain hateful evil people that get off on hurting others...how is it that it doesn't bother the one who claim they once loved you to turn on you like an enemy and do hurtful things towards you to make you hurt even worse, for there's no need to rub it in where they know you will see another person in their life and post how bloody happy they are, as they left you behind with nothing and barely making it as they show they things they are doing with someone else. How is it another woman would jump into a relationship or a bed with someone that just a few days walked away from a relationship like it was nothing. How do I not hope for him to get his day and wish him nothing but bad luck, when I know Jesus don't want anyone to with bad on someone that hurts you or revenge for your pain, what im I supposed to do now?
We were together for skittle more than four months and I fell for him so hard and I thought he did too. He said he just wants to be alone but idk what that means like why’d you give up
Thank you. Yes I same as everyone here . Just breakup with my gf last month. But worst of all she is with someone now after we breakup less than a month. I did the contact rule but I did stalk a social media sometimes. She post how happy she is right now with her new boyfriend, going on holiday trip, cooking food for each other. Going out special night dinner. But for me I see is a rebound relationship. She is trying to proof that she is happy without me. I did say something hurtful when we break up. So now she is trying to proof me wrong. Like revenge. Also I see that my ex with this new boyfriend because he can provide her want she really needs... money. This guy can provide her financial. Most of my friends say that my ex with this guy mostly for money. In her Facebook, she post how much she love in , how lucky she is now . From what I see, she is trying to let everyone know that she with him for love not for money. She is trying to hide it and trying to proof that she is not for the money.. But I know she and I can’t be together because have a lot of problem issue if we are together
I still love her, 8 months ago when she left me. Its so much painful while im watching her walked away. till now i am suffering from her. i always hurt myself but i wont to forget her... Its hard for me to forget the girl like her. :( She left me for his ex. And now i dont know how to fix myself...
If only she hadn't cheated on me. If only she had stayed faithful and loyal to me. We could've been so happy together. I would've been a Good Husband to her. I just want the pain to stop. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
my girlfriend left me...i m depressed right now😓....i really wanna die and i tried to sucide this morning and i failed i tried for 3times i failed and even i failed in my life though 😓... don't know what to do right now... because of my mistake she left me...and i accepted that and still she didn't understand my pain and its hard to live...😓
Killing yourself solves nothing because all that would do is leave your loved ones a lifetime of pain. Don't punish them and don't punish yourself. We all go through painful breakups. You say you don't know what to do right now, so I advise that you reach out for help. 1(800)273-8255 is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. Call and talk to them. They are there to listen. If you are unable to, reach out to a professional in your area or a loved one that you trust. You will someday thank yourself for doing so. Sending you love and peace.
hmmm, are you sure she got new boyfriend you not ask if maybe its only his friend i only love one person the person i have comfortable with and sharing promises together .I sacrifice every thing to him even my life but .He just selfish he can't even share his struggle and pain to me even my life i give to him many times.
Dumping you...discarding you and ending the relationship...is simply one single event and it is fleeting!!! We now get to decide THE REST OF THE STORY!! Zero contact...never talk to them or see them again...for the rest of your life. That’s the bigger story...THATS POWER!!!!!
Lord please help me to forget him... It's hard.. I struggle everyday.. I want this pain go away.. I want to move on.
Methuselah Quiroquiro you are not alone
Same here!
Same here! It's been almost a year!
This resonates loudly with me as I feel your pain. Accept the reality of what is and see it as the will of God. He is the author of New beginnings. When you realize what's in front of you is more important than what's behind you you'll begin to see the big picture. Imma pray for your healing and I ask that you pray for mine!
Keep strong
"She came in my life so that I could learn the meaning of Love" and then "she left, so that I can learn to give all that Love to Myself" ;) Thanks babe for coming (and also for not staying :) )
He came into my life so I could learn the meaning of love AND he left my life so I could learn the meaning of what loving myself will give me and my life ❤️❤️❤️
“Trust the closed doors in your life”
What ive learned from life is, relationships are temporary. You are forever. I dont take relationships seriously anymore.
I'm sorry if you recently experience break up but I hope you read this, if someone left you Get up and go on with your life. It's alright to sit around and be depressed for a minute ,cry about it ,do whatever you have to do but don't stay there too long. This is what I've learned all these years on earth, if somebody want to walk out of your life LET THEM GO. Especially if you know you've done everything you can do, you've sat around, been the best man or best woman you can be and they still want to go LET THEM GO. What ever they running after they see what they had in a minute but by then I'll be too late. Because half of these people crying about it, worry about it 2-3 years from now you won't be remember their last name. Let FolkS Go. Some people came in to your life for a lifetime, some came for a season, you got to know WHICH IS WHICH. One you're gonna mess up when you mix them a season of people up with a lifetime expectation. There are people who been got married with people they were only supposed to be with for a season and wonder why they got so much hell in their life. Nobody said it gonna be easy, but It'll get easy if you learn how to love yourself. No matter how it hurts let them go. I PROMISE YOU everyday it will get easier you just got to make it through. You just need to be by yourself people need to be alone. I don't understand all these people who pray LORD where is my man or LORD where is my waman. That's crazy as hell. IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE BY YOURSELF, WHAT'S YOU GONNA WITH SOMEBODY ELSE?. Stop praying about it shut up and wait, go work on you that's what the time is for ,,to get yourself together. I'd rather sit in the corner by myself with a Dog and be happy that being with somebody in my house and wonder what the hell they there for. I can live in dysfunction I'm sorry. I don't care how attracted you are to them . I don't care what the situation is, BECAUSE YOUR DESTINY IS NOT TIED TO THE PERSON WHO LEFT. YOU GOT TO KNOW WHEN PEOPLE PART IN YOUR STORY IS OVER.
My 10 year relationship has come to an end. I’ve listened to your videos countless times. The fear of completely restarting from scratch is very intimidating. New location, new home, new friends, new job, new everything. But courage does not exist without fear. Strength does not exist without weakness. Joy does not exist without pain. All the hardships and battles we face now in the valley will only make our next mountain top that much more worth it. Keep the videos coming! They’re really helping me keep my head up.
Ryan Ackley my husband left me we were married still are he’s moved on with someone else now there moving in together my heart breaks but I want him to b happy it’s so tough x
Tess Wakefield I’m in the same boat. My wife has been seeing this dude for I’d say 2 years. We’ve been separated for 9-10 months. The past 2 years makes total sense now......I feel stupid for not wanting to let her go..... we have a 5 yr old together. There are 3 other kiddos involved. The oldest (12) doesn’t like this dude at all, or at least didn’t a long time ago, and now had to be around him. She’s been using me by saying she wants to try then not. Completely heart broken but still don’t want to give up...., is that stupid
Turn to Jesus my friend he will help you through any challenges in our lives. Take care and God bless.
I loved her
I cared for her
I tried my possible best to make her happy...
But she's doesn't want to be pleased
She gets angry at every little argument
But I ignored all that because I loved her...
Because I wanted the relationship to work....
I even apologized for things I didn't do...
I never wanted to lose her but just yesterday she made it clear to me saying I should LEAVE HER LIFE ALONE....
I had no choice but to WALK.......
Abuchi Michael
Indeed brother. I tried so hard to show her there is love. She blocked every attempt to receive love, no matter what I did.
Some people just want to suffer I suppose. Let them walk. Let them go. It wasn’t meant to be. LOVE YOURSELF.
Abuchi Michael sorry
Abuchi Michael you behaved as a pure blue pill man . take a look at : " 33 secrets " and learn how to be an alfamale . women do not realy love and respect to weak men . BE AN ALFAMALE to make women follow and chase you . let them know that who the boss is .
When she wants to leave nothing will please her. whatever you do, she wont like. I feel your pain bro.
Same here dude... Just let go
As a recently divorced man, this advice is spot on. They are doing what they want to do, you must accept this, heal from it, and look forward with an abundance mindset.
Don’t hold onto what has died, it’s over. Learn from it but don’t dwell in it. And use this relationship failure to grow into the person you were always meant to be.
It's hard to let go,but for there to ever be a true way of reconnection or maybe having a chance of a lasting relationship we have to let go,I realize that but its hard,over 2 years disregarded like it wasnt nothing,been 8 months and took 6 months to even start making a honest step in letting go,I know God has a plan and in time me and everyone going through a painful breakup will be revealed,I look forward to the day I can look back with clear eyes and be thankful for the hurt
David, I'm going through this just like you! Same timeline and everything!
@@myduece7301 it's good to know I'm not by myself,but sorry your dealing with it,its tough but it's gotten alot better,I hope everything works out for you
@@YT-DAD-BASS-ASSASSIN same here fellas. It ain't easy but we'll make it
Y'all will be just fine, my husband I loved for 14 years and trauma bonded to him. (Strongest bond ever) left me. I wanted to die, I couldn't bare to be without him... I was sick, needed him, died a painful death everyday he was gone, but then one day!!!!!!! I.. Said... No... More... I... Am... Done.... NEEDING him!! If he done need me.. BYE!!!!! .. and I changed my mindset and focused every thought on how I would be just fine without him. And then I no longer needed him... A year later, he came back and wanted to be with me and I told him, no I'm done. And never spoke to him since. Days go by that I forget I even knew him.. That was a 14 yr marriage. I convinced my heart to be done
@Tinamarie You go girl
Amen
That's really motivating me, thanks for sharing
Thank you I so needed to hear this. I must be strong. After a year I wanted my ex back but this has helped me. I have been sad and 😭 crying. God bless my ex. ❤️
Thank you for coming in my life and making me understand the meaning of love, thank you for discarding me and moving on, I don’t know with whom you are but it is painful and our journeys together are over. I thought you were the one but you forgot me in a day, you never messaged me after that day. I am grateful for everything.
I let him walk I'm not completely better but I'm 100 percent better than I was when I was still chasing ! Two weeks no contact and I will never contact him again ! Im more peaceful now !
😭😭😭😭😭 I feel completely connected to this message,, Thank You
I really needed to hear this.....AMEN
This video and every detail is so relatable in my circumstance.. my father passed 2 days later I found out the mother of my Child had been cheating ..this video is like a hug I've been seeking for the past 3 years as I can make no sense from the pain I've dealt with in solitude
Wow! This video really hit home. As much as I chase her and chase her, I have to realize sooner than later that Im chasing a closed door. As much as hurts to let her go after 12 years and 3 kids....it will be the best thing. For the both of us. Thanks for the video...
I hung on to someone that i thought the relationship was devine because of a dream i had of him.. now six years later i am realizing that the dream was a warning..if he really loved me then he would be more supportive of me when my daughter passed away,instead of pushing me to get a job that i wasnt happy in,and also to entertain himself with someone else. I now am have accepted a new job in healthcare,was god answering my prayer of deliverance from a toxic relationship.. hallelujah! Amen
Stop chasing a shadow it is a waste of time and energy because a shadow is meant to be a shadow nothing can change it...great motivation indeed 💚
You are wise...sounds like you’ve learned a lot of lessons...take care
This is as real as it is ,who told you about my life ... thanks so much 😇
My Ex Girlfriend had contacted me after 6 months. However I learned that she was breadcrumbing me. I finally realized that I am no longer in love with my ex girlfriend like I had thought. She injured my Ego when she left me. Just like I injured her Ego when I chose to go no contact with her. I love listening to your videos. You are an inspiration. Thank you!
R C How did it injure your ego to go no contact?
@@AlkoWasAlreadyTaken No it didn't I made a mistake. I meant that I injured her ego when I went no contact, because she thought that I would Beg and Plead for her not to leave me. When I didn't it injured her ego, which is why she had contacted me. She needed validation or to see if I was still interested in her.
R C i feel you. I got blocked an all social media and when she got her heart broken from the guy she left me for, she tried to add me back and text me like nothing had happened. But I did what she did to me and blocked her. Till this day she calls my family members and tries to catch me after work.
She thought she would be able to walk into my life like she dint hurt me moving on a day after we broke up. She said she made a mistake but I won’t make that mistake in taking her back
@@urielcruz4545
I apologize for replying so late. I love your last name because it's mine also. When you understand female nature or Red Pill knowledge you learn to find happiness within yourself not a woman. I learned that women don't love men for who they are. Women love men for what they can do for them. Women are not biologically wired to love men unconditionally. Focus on your goals and aspirations and don't pedestalize women. Take care of yourself!
Your video did help me because I am going to that right now. I keep finding this person that I truly care for to come back. I constantly think of him I constantly want to contact him again. Knowing he doesn't want nothing to do with me. But after listening to your video I realize that I need to let go and letting walk 4 even though I don't know he is with someone I truly feel he is. Thank you for your video and your thoughts
Truth sets us up in freedom with truth 😇💫
Amazing message and soothing music. The music of truth, it helped carry your message perfectly.
We deserve better !! We are amazing and worthy
You spoke right to me with this. This is what I'm going through as I listen to this and even though he left with no excuse and won't face me and continues to treat me like shit when I keep asking or trying.. I'm blocked everywhere but I'm still being pathetic enough to wish things were OK still 😭
Just let go dear.... People who leave you will not feel a thing about you. They walk away so that the right person will come n fill that space u have nw. Thank and pray god it gives me peace
My 15 years relationship with my wife has ended and she left me for her ex I feel alone
Damn. 15 years and the Ex never died or moved on. Gezs
Sorry, that happen to you "
Your wife deserve her ex not you . Because she does not need happiness . Don't worry everything will be okay soon. . Its not your fault . . Let her walk away from you. . She really deserves sadness in her life
Rafael Starks I’m sorry to hear that....
man thats hurt i feel it even i only 4 years and not married yet, i feel my problem was nothing in front of you
I feel your pain guys. Some things are meant to happen just not meant to be. We can do this.
I miss my x so dearly but I have to learn how to let him go. Thank you Caandon for loving me and trying your best to help me. I will practice self love and try
5 year long distance relationship in Canada and the U.S. I worked everyday heavy labour running my company. 90% of the money made sent to her and her son. We were best friends one hundred percent. I started to get depressed and angry, drinking and days when we wouldn't talk. Then she had them and it got bad, she didn't drink but her set and setting was horrible, the people whom she was hanging out with were also mad and angry. Over the years her attitude got worse and I had to listen and hear her say that I needed to accept it. I couldn't, I was too far gone emotionally and physically. So I broke it off and explained to her why, (as seen above)
Now she hates me and doesn't understand that it is always, always, a two why street. She chooses hate towards me and I still choose love for her and her son. This has been the hardest decision I have ever had to make in my life. But remember that it takes 2 and I will learn to love myself and let her go.
Hope this helps someone
You've been through a lot. You help me. Thank you.
😭😭😭 Thank you so much!! This made me feel better!! Thank you!! thank you!! thank you!!😭😭😭❤
It lasted 3 years, I treated her like a shit, I behaved like a bastard with her, today it's been 2 years that I cry almost every day her absence, it's difficult, she made her life and I sink in the dark
I get you . If you want to talk about it . We can share .
Let them walk away no one is worth it
Am going through the same thing with this man and right now am focusing on building my self. I gave him every thing i loved him more than myself and i pray to god to let me walk away from a man who don't want me and my daughter anymore
This is my situation. I feel for you. Im going through it right now. Hurts like mad i feel like chasing him but he has no value for me and only hurts me and finds it funny. We are worthy. ❤️
I'm sorry for what you ladies are going through but I'm on the same boat.
Thank you for this video it helped me gain more perspective!!
Remove your expectations from people and you'll remove their power to hurt your feelings.
I pray everyday just to make the pain go away. It's super hard to let someone go. Exactly if your with the person for a log time. Or you have kids with that person. I know it's hard but we can do it. I believe we can do it.
I'm gettin' out of a ten year relationship.
How can I cope with it so far. She already made her decision without talkin' to me? So I'm at a stage of "what's goin' on" or "I don't know what to do" help.
I closed the books yesterday on my ex I need to move on I was trying for 8 months but I couldn't take it anymore so I needed to do this.
My mom lived with us our whole married life she passed away and my ex left a couple months after he was caught cheating .. 30 years.. I just can't shake it.. I have prayed for his return but it hasn't happened it was 3 years in June..I think of him all the time every day.. Lord why but he yelled and screamed at my kids my mom and me he was controlling and narcissist.and complusive it was toxic..I prayed for it to stop and it did...but I didn't want it to be like this..please pray for me every day is a struggle....
Praying for you..The screaming, etc in front of you, your mom (my condolences) and kids..soooo NOT RIGHT..Keep ya head up! God got you!
Thank you this really helped
God bless you.
Awesome message
Thank you so much for this!
Please Lord help me to forget about him.... my heart cant take it anymore.
19 years and it's over........please help
Thank you,I feel your video,i Follow your advice thank you so much
O God please help me to for get him i can't leave like this the whole year I cry for him
Let yourself cry over him. That's apart of the self-love.
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I did cry and mourn for my ex 1 and half months ago for 15 days after she dumped me ... now I'm feeling much relief and learning to love myself and accepting the fact that its over. Prayer is all that helps
Currently heartbroken over a man who left me for another woman. It is so hard. But 5 years ago I went through an even more traumatic heartbreak where I was on my hands and knees crying my soul out, it took me 3 years to fully heal from that. Now I know if I can heal from THAT, I can heal from THIS.
Your videos are so inspiring ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙
I love this girl she was amazing i loved her since i were 17 we were classmates, i make the move after 3 year i professed to her it took me a year and half to convince her that i love her than we things seems to be good, she disappeared i tried to reach her but she was nowhere one day i got a text . She said i should move on i requested her to explain but all she did was ignoring my every single question. I broked but i set her free . After three month my friend inform me she have settled out with some boy from her's academy. Then after few days she texted me and asked me to forgive her i was very disappointed i was crying like some 10 year old kid. But then i forgave her she gave me promise and beg me to forget what happened . I forgave her then everything is going good she loved me or perhaps it is just a thought of mine. I gave her my hundred person we are like partners like husband wife, our morning starts togather and ends together but then i dont know what happened after 3 years she starts ignoring me again i start forcing her to love me and she gets further and further away one day at night i ask her some question to ask about whats wrong in our relationship. She did not gave reply i waited cried and slept i was very upset but then at mid night i wokeup i saw her online i text her but she ignored again i waited next morning i ring her and she talked the first question i asked
Wow
thank you 😥
I have a new amazing boyfriend and I love him but my ex it’s hard to walk away from him I know I have to let go but it hurts 😞
Your new boyfriend needs your love. . Please give him 100 percent of yours . . Be proud . .and forget about your ex. . He left you that's it . Your ex don't deserve you. .
Needed this
Is true amnv🌹🔝
Wow thank you
Ty
Thank you so positive of a message.
Every dog has his day
If she loved yu she'd be still there yu don't deserve this come on let it go its a lesson iv been trew this not goid and very pain full calma comes back two us all god has ended this for reason good one yu will see be strong amen
Keep yo' head up
Ty for your giving me that thumbs up
This is my exact situation... The only thing I don't understand is why?
We never really understand why. The important thing is to just move forward.
This had to be heard
I’m pregnant so it hit me harder than anything
@She's NaturallyDope I'm so sorry sweetie
Truth is that rock and roll has a meaning😉🎶...if you live in the worst place on earth?? BRIDGWATER SOMERSET...there is
NOT A OUNCE OF PASSION..& the only thing that is real is rock roll & loyalty..godbless all of you who have been betrayed trust me stick with the truth of who you are 💣💥💞💞🎶
My baby girl left me 2 weeks ago n I’m still in pain but I’m slowly moving on I can tell But I’m still hurting
Its 9months running i cnt forget him can u plz hlp me to forget him.coz i need peace.
Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick
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Your the only person I chase... Remember me when I trying my best to fix our relationship, remember me when I really want to fight for u, remember me when u reject me when u already have all u wants in life... Just remember this stupid girl knows how to love u more sje love herself, "cdx" 2017-2020
1 year later and I’m back here 😞
For some reason after being with someone for over 10 years and u think that you're going to be forever, cause you both shared of being together forever then they leave you and walk away like they never loved you as they changed into someone u never knew them. They post pictures a week later being with some drunk woman, it's like they want to hurt u in the worse way possible by shoving their new lover in your face. I would never hurt someone in this way that loved me. Why is it that the person that claimed every single day how much they loved you turn out to be the one who they suddenly hate like you are nothing and never were to them, now that hurts, and tares a person apart from the inside out? All I do is pray and hope that Jesus Christ comes soon to take me away from this world that has caused me more pain and hurt than one person can keep on going through. I believe there's just plain hateful evil people that get off on hurting others...how is it that it doesn't bother the one who claim they once loved you to turn on you like an enemy and do hurtful things towards you to make you hurt even worse, for there's no need to rub it in where they know you will see another person in their life and post how bloody happy they are, as they left you behind with nothing and barely making it as they show they things they are doing with someone else. How is it another woman would jump into a relationship or a bed with someone that just a few days walked away from a relationship like it was nothing. How do I not hope for him to get his day and wish him nothing but bad luck, when I know Jesus don't want anyone to with bad on someone that hurts you or revenge for your pain, what im I supposed to do now?
We were together for skittle more than four months and I fell for him so hard and I thought he did too. He said he just wants to be alone but idk what that means like why’d you give up
Alittle*
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Oh no all ur links have this sad background. .. well it hit me hard ... but sad
How come these readers make it sound So Simple it's not possible to Go on without pain if you are in heartache.
Wht if they refuse to leave me alone n
Flaunt their love in my face.
Homie it'll get better
16 years of marriage ends
You are not alone. Keep going. Life goes on. Close the chapter. Love yourself more and more as much as possible.
Thank you. Yes I same as everyone here . Just breakup with my gf last month. But worst of all she is with someone now after we breakup less than a month. I did the contact rule but I did stalk a social media sometimes. She post how happy she is right now with her new boyfriend, going on holiday trip, cooking food for each other. Going out special night dinner. But for me I see is a rebound relationship. She is trying to proof that she is happy without me. I did say something hurtful when we break up. So now she is trying to proof me wrong. Like revenge. Also I see that my ex with this new boyfriend because he can provide her want she really needs... money. This guy can provide her financial. Most of my friends say that my ex with this guy mostly for money. In her Facebook, she post how much she love in , how lucky she is now . From what I see, she is trying to let everyone know that she with him for love not for money. She is trying to hide it and trying to proof that she is not for the money.. But I know she and I can’t be together because have a lot of problem issue if we are together
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Why God i wish i did know him 😔
I still love her, 8 months ago when she left me. Its so much painful while im watching her walked away. till now i am suffering from her. i always hurt myself but i wont to forget her... Its hard for me to forget the girl like her. :(
She left me for his ex. And now i dont know how to fix myself...
If only she hadn't cheated on me. If only she had stayed faithful and loyal to me. We could've been so happy together.
I would've been a Good Husband to her.
I just want the pain to stop.
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I wish mine would've cheated. I threw mine away and everyday realise ill never get her back. This is my fault.
@@oldcunt574, I'm sorry for your pain. I hope you can heal and find your happiness, friend. I hope that for us both.
@@HarYet:
~I'm sorry you are hurting as well. May you find your happiness again soon.
@@dannyarnold4201 thanks brotha yea only thing i can donis give it time.
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my girlfriend left me...i m depressed right now😓....i really wanna die and i tried to sucide this morning and i failed i tried for 3times i failed and even i failed in my life though 😓... don't know what to do right now... because of my mistake she left me...and i accepted that and still she didn't understand my pain and its hard to live...😓
Killing yourself solves nothing because all that would do is leave your loved ones a lifetime of pain. Don't punish them and don't punish yourself. We all go through painful breakups. You say you don't know what to do right now, so I advise that you reach out for help. 1(800)273-8255 is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. Call and talk to them. They are there to listen. If you are unable to, reach out to a professional in your area or a loved one that you trust. You will someday thank yourself for doing so. Sending you love and peace.
if your talking about women,,,,,,tell them to not let the door hit them in the ass on their way out,,,,
hmmm, are you sure she got new boyfriend you not ask if maybe its only his friend i only love one person the person i have comfortable with and sharing promises together .I sacrifice every thing to him even my life but .He just selfish he can't even share his struggle and pain to me even my life i give to him many times.