If you are an introvert, display no emotions nor signs of being any type of social demographic. The, "socials," have a way of detecting our introverted lifestyles and preferences and will prey upon us with that knowledge. I have no idea how they do it. Introverts and social people should never mix. The introverted person will always be hurt. Social people delight in cruelty of introverts. Watch your back around them. I learned a painful lesson. I will never attempt any sort of interpersonal, social, relationship again, whether amicable or amorous. Besides, being social has little importance.
@@dorfan3506 Therapy merely made me miserable. It provided no benefits for me. The misery was so pronounced that I dreaded going. However, I did my time, got a certificate of complition and was allowed to return to work. I have no idea why work assigned this to me. I work completely alone, go weeks without seeing another person both at work and at home. I require no assimilation of social customs and protocols because I am always alone. When tickets to an amusement park were being provided and I responded that I required none because I have no friends nor family. That was when human resorces sent an email requiring me to attend mental therapy, whether in group therapy or alone. There is no insecurities. I feel very secure existing alone and doing everything alone. As for the trama, that will not be denied. However, I learned from my error. I disallow any possibility of the events that prompted me to become introverted, reclusive, and antisocial, ever happening again. If this means I never have another amicable nor amorous interpersonal social connection again, so be it. Safety and security are worth any price. There are far more negatives to being social, in the modern era, than positives.
I highly suggest a while jumpsuit, a particle mask, a face splash shield, white rubber board and clack letters on the back saying, "CDC." That will keep everyone away.
This list is outstanding lol I was a interrogater in the army so I'm used to reading someone completely I'm dating my first introvert now and I can't lie it's fun not knowing what they are thinking lol and I realize now that he is definitely into me lol u have helped calm this disabled veteran down because now I know that I am doing well
Not knowing the true intent of others is what terrifies me about interpersonal, social, interactions and why I avoid them. I will not fall a social victim again because I have no idea what others think. Thus, I deleted that aspect of my life entirely. Being social is not important. It provides very few benefits and many negatives. I have been doing well without that aspect of life. This I proof that it is not important.
@@chriscripplercruz1833 haha, yeah, I was messing around. Anyways, what an interesting job. Was it like in the movies where they use violence and stuff like that or was it a whole lot more civil. Sorry if I'm being rude by asking this. You don't have to answer. Only I'm naive and genuinely curious about your experience.
An introvert not entertaining people suddenly becomes friendly childish trusting, even their most intimate space or time, not feeling they have to guard themselves, that means you are lucky, but dont be too comfortable, take it slowly to get to know them while there is a chance, it is not frequent coz they recharge a lot
Introvert or extrovert..for a beautiful loving amazing life u need love,caring,friendhip,mutual understanding..pure love is true happiness which transcends personalites..dont lable urself introvert or extrovert it can be obstacle for uniting a two loving souls..just we need go with flow of heart..
Introverts like, nor dislike, no one. We require no human interpersonal, social, interaction and thus find nobody attractive. We only require to be unacknowledged.
This might be true for some, but many introverts have a close circle of friends and are very capable of love. They are not „dependent“ on others, but they might have friends and even a spouse.
@@kathyh.648 Do you think that perhaps those, you mentioned, may be just shy and not introverts at all? What is the difference between someone shy and an introvert. Since I know nobody, I have never interacted with a shy person. I do know that shy people and introverts are not rare at all, merely a minority in social terms. If they are common, why force them to be social at all? Nothing would be gained my neither the extroverts nor the introverts by assimilation into a social herd together. I could rather understand forcing a rare type to assimilate into a social herd. The social herd may benefit from that type of person. But, introverts are almost as common as extroverts.
@@indridcold8433 no. They are not just shy. In the contrary, many introverts are very confident snd still they reduce their social interactions to the amount they like. For some thats no contacts at all, for some its actually quite a bit of interaction, ie in their workspace. No one could force an introvert to be social, those who try will never be in a close circle of an introvert, right? Its just however one chooses to live.
@@kathyh.648 I believe I my be an introvert with an inferiority complex. That just makes me avoid everyone so as not to let anybody know me. I have had some approach me with a smile on their face. Even if they genuinely wanted an amicable or amorous relationship with me, I can not know that. How do they know they want to have an amicable or amorous relationship with me? Thus, I concluded is not possible for the beautiful woman with a gorgeous smile on her face, or the man with the kind sounding voice cannot possibly have a genuine interest in me. This leads me to believe that they have a nefarious, reason for approaching me. Sometimes I pretend I can not speak the language they use to address me. Sometimes I give a fake name. Sometimes, I move away before any kind of closer proximity can begin. I can not fathom anybody wanting to be close to me.
@@indridcold8433 this makes me wonder, if there is a specific reason behind that or if thats just your personality. I know from myself that I try not to send false signals to men who show interest, but because I am very picky and most people are just way too shallow for what friendship means to me and even less fitted as partner. I rather be alone than with anyone who is a true friend and a deeply interesting man who likes me on that deep level to - so chances are it will stay that way…. Its rare to get to know an introvert 😉, but we will only know once we do find get to know someone, if they might fit into our live somehow… if not, its not worth thinking about it. I know of a few who hoped to have a family some day, but than tried to get that thought out of their mind because they think they will never find someone who could love them as they are and not try to change them. In fact, one of them is a good friend and definitely introverted. I think its not good to deny that desire just because chances are small…. But I would not force myself to any relationship if I just don’t have the desire to have one… For some the desire only arises when they meat that person that they get to value over a long period of getting to know them…
@@nood1leYup and people often confuse being shy with introversion which is not necessarily always the case. Just like people think shy people are timid which is not true. My man is very shy and introverted but he knows what he wants and goes for it.
You are wrong and I know many introverted people but if they like anyone, they go for it. They are nothing like you said. Being introverted and shy does not mean you are timid.
Introvert here trying to find out what signs I need to display lol
If you are an introvert, display no emotions nor signs of being any type of social demographic. The, "socials," have a way of detecting our introverted lifestyles and preferences and will prey upon us with that knowledge. I have no idea how they do it. Introverts and social people should never mix. The introverted person will always be hurt. Social people delight in cruelty of introverts. Watch your back around them. I learned a painful lesson. I will never attempt any sort of interpersonal, social, relationship again, whether amicable or amorous. Besides, being social has little importance.
@@indridcold8433 you have some serious trauma and insecurities, i reccomend therapy.
@@dorfan3506 Therapy merely made me miserable. It provided no benefits for me. The misery was so pronounced that I dreaded going. However, I did my time, got a certificate of complition and was allowed to return to work. I have no idea why work assigned this to me. I work completely alone, go weeks without seeing another person both at work and at home. I require no assimilation of social customs and protocols because I am always alone. When tickets to an amusement park were being provided and I responded that I required none because I have no friends nor family. That was when human resorces sent an email requiring me to attend mental therapy, whether in group therapy or alone. There is no insecurities. I feel very secure existing alone and doing everything alone. As for the trama, that will not be denied. However, I learned from my error. I disallow any possibility of the events that prompted me to become introverted, reclusive, and antisocial, ever happening again. If this means I never have another amicable nor amorous interpersonal social connection again, so be it. Safety and security are worth any price. There are far more negatives to being social, in the modern era, than positives.
I highly suggest a while jumpsuit, a particle mask, a face splash shield, white rubber board and clack letters on the back saying, "CDC." That will keep everyone away.
@@indridcold8433 you are hopeless about life, well, i can't do anything about it, you look like a really sad person.
This list is outstanding lol I was a interrogater in the army so I'm used to reading someone completely I'm dating my first introvert now and I can't lie it's fun not knowing what they are thinking lol and I realize now that he is definitely into me lol u have helped calm this disabled veteran down because now I know that I am doing well
Not knowing the true intent of others is what terrifies me about interpersonal, social, interactions and why I avoid them. I will not fall a social victim again because I have no idea what others think. Thus, I deleted that aspect of my life entirely. Being social is not important. It provides very few benefits and many negatives. I have been doing well without that aspect of life. This I proof that it is not important.
Why are you saying he if you're a dude?
@@nood1le that should be obvious lol
@@chriscripplercruz1833 haha, yeah, I was messing around. Anyways, what an interesting job. Was it like in the movies where they use violence and stuff like that or was it a whole lot more civil. Sorry if I'm being rude by asking this. You don't have to answer. Only I'm naive and genuinely curious about your experience.
An introvert not entertaining people suddenly becomes friendly childish trusting, even their most intimate space or time, not feeling they have to guard themselves, that means you are lucky, but dont be too comfortable, take it slowly to get to know them while there is a chance, it is not frequent coz they recharge a lot
Introvert or extrovert..for a beautiful loving amazing life u need love,caring,friendhip,mutual understanding..pure love is true happiness which transcends personalites..dont lable urself introvert or extrovert it can be obstacle for uniting a two loving souls..just we need go with flow of heart..
6:05 Chick on the left lookkin like Velma LOL
I think thousand words but I only spoke 😊
Me being introvert wants the center of attention hha
why is this video describing me as an extrovert?😅
Introverts like, nor dislike, no one. We require no human interpersonal, social, interaction and thus find nobody attractive. We only require to be unacknowledged.
This might be true for some, but many introverts have a close circle of friends and are very capable of love. They are not „dependent“ on others, but they might have friends and even a spouse.
@@kathyh.648 Do you think that perhaps those, you mentioned, may be just shy and not introverts at all? What is the difference between someone shy and an introvert. Since I know nobody, I have never interacted with a shy person. I do know that shy people and introverts are not rare at all, merely a minority in social terms. If they are common, why force them to be social at all? Nothing would be gained my neither the extroverts nor the introverts by assimilation into a social herd together. I could rather understand forcing a rare type to assimilate into a social herd. The social herd may benefit from that type of person. But, introverts are almost as common as extroverts.
@@indridcold8433 no. They are not just shy. In the contrary, many introverts are very confident snd still they reduce their social interactions to the amount they like. For some thats no contacts at all, for some its actually quite a bit of interaction, ie in their workspace.
No one could force an introvert to be social, those who try will never be in a close circle of an introvert, right?
Its just however one chooses to live.
@@kathyh.648 I believe I my be an introvert with an inferiority complex. That just makes me avoid everyone so as not to let anybody know me. I have had some approach me with a smile on their face. Even if they genuinely wanted an amicable or amorous relationship with me, I can not know that. How do they know they want to have an amicable or amorous relationship with me? Thus, I concluded is not possible for the beautiful woman with a gorgeous smile on her face, or the man with the kind sounding voice cannot possibly have a genuine interest in me. This leads me to believe that they have a nefarious, reason for approaching me. Sometimes I pretend I can not speak the language they use to address me. Sometimes I give a fake name. Sometimes, I move away before any kind of closer proximity can begin. I can not fathom anybody wanting to be close to me.
@@indridcold8433 this makes me wonder, if there is a specific reason behind that or if thats just your personality.
I know from myself that I try not to send false signals to men who show interest, but because I am very picky and most people are just way too shallow for what friendship means to me and even less fitted as partner.
I rather be alone than with anyone who is a true friend and a deeply interesting man who likes me on that deep level to - so chances are it will stay that way…. Its rare to get to know an introvert 😉, but we will only know once we do find get to know someone, if they might fit into our live somehow… if not, its not worth thinking about it.
I know of a few who hoped to have a family some day, but than tried to get that thought out of their mind because they think they will never find someone who could love them as they are and not try to change them. In fact, one of them is a good friend and definitely introverted. I think its not good to deny that desire just because chances are small….
But I would not force myself to any relationship if I just don’t have the desire to have one… For some the desire only arises when they meat that person that they get to value over a long period of getting to know them…
No your wrong usually we don't find any attractive person. If we do we can't even talk with them and excuses to talk is very rare and impossible.
That isn't introversion then: That's shyness.
@@nood1leYup and people often confuse being shy with introversion which is not necessarily always the case. Just like people think shy people are timid which is not true. My man is very shy and introverted but he knows what he wants and goes for it.
You are wrong and I know many introverted people but if they like anyone, they go for it. They are nothing like you said. Being introverted and shy does not mean you are timid.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjBeing timid it's exactly the same as being shy. You're so full of sh*t. I'm an introvert myself BTW.