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I have nothing against socializing with people. Not too often, but from time to time. But...what people always talk about is; 1. Gossiping 2. Complaining 3. Self promotion And then my interest dies in a second.
People don't talk today. They gossip about themselves or especially others. I really resent that kind of trash. That's the number one reason why I ignore people.
@liz blanco Not cringe, but I just don't try talking to them, only because I don't have nothing to talk about with them, If I have, it would be mostly something about work or something similar
How well did you know people of the past? Probably not as well as you think... Atlrast the older I get the more I come to that realization, and its quite common to see other people realize the same
Ppl always associated me with being antisocial,and,I always tell them" No,I'm selectively social",(which also make some wonder am I throwing shade at them),but,the worst was my ex,she always acted as if I was afraid of ppl,often times even stating it to her friends,even though I told her she couldn't be further from the truth,and,tbh,that's something that constantly got on my nerves,plus,me being a private person,I don't like everyone in my business 🤷🏿♂
Talking to a social butterfly about deeper things such as your feelings (most extroverts) is like talking to a wall. They don't get it. You can say exactly what you mean and they still don't get it. I particularly don't like being around them and I will ignore. Ugghhh
Oh yeah my mother use to do that keep telling people I'm quiet and shy. Found most people just so boring at parties and in everyday life. Listen them talk an talk to each other all saying same boring garbage.
@@nreynolds75243if it’s a real conversation talking about your goals and how you’re improving your life I don’t mind, but miss me with gossip, small talk, and the need for validation and we can get along.
Introverts don't have a habit of ignoring people, nether do they want to ignore people. They just avoid social interaction cuz they like being alone in their own space cuz it brings them peace and joy. Extroverts on the other hand, they party & socialize cuz it brings them joy and happiness. Both introvets and extroverts have their own source of happiness and we should respect it
Yes. It really depends on me. I'll listen to music before gathering in a social environment. After work, I'm very mentally tired. I go for a walk sometimes on a break or lunch to ignore certain people. Not bc we are snobs, anti-social like he stated but to recharge my energy & I just like to be alone, peacefully & quietness for a little. I do ignore certain people not intentionally or bc I'm being rude or even bc I don't like that person but some topics I can get bored out. Lol. I'll listen, respond but can't wait for the conversation to be over. However I'm not referring to absolutely everyone. It really depends. & about the conversation. Weird. 🤷♀️ true, facts. Too much noise as well. I like to shut down & be alone especially when I don't "feel like talking" It doesn't mean I'm sad or lonely. It can be unpredictable as well bc if I do isolate myself (wanting to be alone) I COULD be going thru something or absolutely nothing.
As an introvert I think that the word ignore is a bit strong. many times I'm not ignoring you,I'm just a great listener and I know the right times to speak ,especially if you are talking to me about your problems. Although I like to listen and help people with problems in their life.we all have them.maybe after a long session I get drained,then the rest of the day and night I like to be alone,until tomorrow comes.
If you try to tell an extrovert "I want to be alone/not talk" they get hurt and talk even more. Just ignoring them really is the most effective strategy
I always confuse people with silence ....and i rarely talk to people and i have a small circle... Some people always say am not easy to approach and i hate crowds and i always avoid drama ..... Its been long i have been trying to find myself now i know that am a pure introvert
My inner circle is extrovert. I've lost contact with some of them bc of it. It changed after covid was over and honestly I don't really mind. I think I'm better off for it.
I'll ignore when someone sees me as a challenge to be cracked. They aren't really interested in me, just want to see if they can GET me to socialize with them or talk to them. Don't you have something else to do, I do.
Right! I know this lady that's trying to crack me. She asks me what's wrong bc I don't really talk extensively to her. I'm "tired" and hi & bye is enough for me.
@@brownsugar6605 I had a coworker just last week stop by my desk and said I was so quiet. I had my headsets on working. Then proceeds to say that at a past job a coworker died at his desk and no-one recognized until 3 days later. I looked at him and said, what does my quietness have to do with you? I wasn't smiling at all. I had my serious face. This coworker started telling me his life story that I didn't ask about. He proceeds to tell me his 19 yr old daughter was extremely quiet, kept to herself, and he was concerned about her. She spent her time building her online business. I looked at him and said she's spending her time wisely. It's you with the problem. Then he says to me that I don't speak unless necessary. I said yep and I don't have time for office politics, gossip...foolishness. I also let him know because I'm quiet doesn't mean I'm a push over or someone to mess with. If you're not flapping your mouth 24/7 about nothing then extroverts think something is wrong with you. Never stopping to look at themselves. Icky!
I avoid those who waste time on small talk and gossip..I don't care how other people live their lives..and I don't enjoy trying to come up with something to say to someone who doesn't interest me ...nosy people who pry into my private affairs and life bore me ..and I don't care to listen to how victimized someone who places themselves in a bad situation feels....if you want to visit with me you better be able to bring something fun and interesting to the table ..I lose interest in senseless babble and can't wait to leave
"daydreaming" sometimes we are reliving a past event, trying to understand what happened and people's motivations then. Other times, daydreaming is us trying to solve a situation by visualizing it ahead of time. Sometimes it's also literally dreaming (visualizing) while awake. Insights come that way sometimes, they hit us as visualizations and we watch them. "Hey, maybe this is what's happening" nudge + a video of sorts showing us what's happening. Some people think visually, it's like going through a movie or a lucid dream; I think extraverts are less likely to do this, instead some have conversations in their heads between different I's who argue about a situation or problem. I have heard extraverts have conversations out loud with themselves when they believe they are alone.
Patrice have you heard that often when a person talks to themselves it is the mark of a genius because they are thinkers.it is when you have a full conversation with yourself, and answer yourself like there is someone else in the room,then one might be crazy.lol
I can totally relate to all the above. I'm a self-contained I enjoyed solitude. I feel wiped out if I've spent too much time in the company of people. We have to be true to ourselves.
I can talk for a long time if it is with the right type of people and the right type of topics. I love talking about politics, psycology and conspiracys. But "get to know you-chitt/chat", no, i get bored so fast. I dont need to talk to people in order to get to know them. I just need to watch them and listen to what they say when they talk to others.
Someone is angry with me now because I have been ignoring everyone. So now they think they will get me back by ignoring me. A dangerous game to play with me. I can close the door completely. I like this person, but I won't play games. That is one reason I like to be alone.
I don't necessarily ignore people,but I'm very observant & with thing's I've been through in my life,I have serious trust issues & yes I love my alone time,but not lonely! I just like being to myself!
Someone asked me what was wrong because I don't interact with them the way I used to. Well, something clicked in my head and I got tired of them asking me personal questions, trying to put words in my mouth, talking about me in front of other people, making remarks about other people, asking me for things and talking out of line when other people are talking. I don't like confrontation sooo I'm cordial and go on my way.
As a lifelong introvert, it boggles the mind how some people see me sitting alone, deeply engrossed in something...and they JUST HAVE to come over & strike up a conversation!! Typical scenario: I'm alone at a table in the Break room, earbuds in listening to a favorite playlist, my head down focussed on a puzzle magazine, food & a drink next to me, fill in a few answers, take a bite or sip, few more answers, sip, repeat. A shadow appears on the page, maybe someone just passing by. Shadow stays there because person is trying to get my attention, but I can't hear person because of the music. So, person reaches out & taps me on the arm or waves hand over the page... I either jump a mile or worse nearly choke on my food because the person scared the @#&% out of me. Needless to say, most people don't do that again! XD
Bro this shit is my super power. I do it to a customers face. They will literally be rude and saying something to me "Excuse me I was talking to you." I'll look them straight in the face and ignore them. People understand this. I *Me* do not have to interact with you. I am not forced to engage with you. If I do not want to associate or interact with you I do not have to. Just because you spoke at me does not mean I feel the need to respond back and no amount of your yelling is going to force me to. I legitimately walk off while your mid sentence. I enforce the same rule everywhere especially in my personal life. Introvert army. Aint going nowhere.
DOC BAINL.i think you are very confused about being a rude snob, and being an introvert.as you eluded to in your comment that they were rude first.introverts and extroverts are likely to give them an attitude just the same also,,but not so much in the workplace,unless your desire is to never keep a job with an attitude like that.we as people encounter assholes all the time in our lives. Not to be meen but seriously you might be emotionally disturbed and were shown no love ,which if true I am truly sorry for,but you might not be an introvert.watch the video again.
@@nelsonvargas2367 You already have the power, bro! We tolerate your "spoiled princess" attitude in society. We do all the hard work in human interaction, as you do absolutely nothing.
I you a female introvert, there are times when it seems everyone wants to fix you. I'm still puzzled why friends and strangers think it is perfectly ok to tell me I need to smile more. Or tell me I need to talk to more people. Or ask me why I'm being hostile when I'm just standing my ground?
When men yell from a distance they like me or when I walk in a room and someone ask me questions infront of ppl or play with me I ignore Im grown. I hate that
My brother is an introvert and often ignores me unless we're discussing something he enjoys, like video games or anime series. Occasionally, I playfully reciprocate by giving him a taste of his own medicine-ignoring him, not making eye contact, checking my phone, and responding with brief yes or no answers. It doesn't take long for him to feel offended, sad, or anxious. At that point, I promptly stop and explain that this is precisely what he does to me multiple times a week. He attributes it to being tired and not wanting to talk due to his introverted nature.
People at work drain me! Seems like ppl just want to talk about themselves. Please don't show me a million photos of your kid at soccer practice, or dump all your girlfriend problems on me. I just don't care these days.
I have been called ignorant, miserable, and rude. I have also got the occasional, "There must be something wrong with him. Why doesn't he talk to anyone?" Quite honestly. I find people exhausting. I never knew I was an introvert until recently. I sit back and watch how people interact with one another and frankly it's sickening how some are so pleasant to each other, and then when they leave, the back biting begins. I don't need nor want that. I simply just want to go to work, just to work. Not socialize, not make friends or enemies, but simply to work only. If I want to talk, I'll wait to get home and talk to my wife. Growing up, we weren't allowed to voice ourselves. In our house, it was, "Kids should be seen and not heard." It's possible some of what I experienced growing up is a part of why I am the way I am.
So relatable 😮I choose to live in my authenticity and won't compromise 😊 Like you I go to work to work and Have absolutely no desire to socialize. During my breaks I go for a walk and come back feeling absolutely great 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm an introvert and if I ignore someone it's because I have no interest in that person.Those people who I ignore because I have no interest in them should beware of other people who FAKE an interest in them if they can USE them for something
The first thought to my mind upon seeing the topic: you're boring. I hate meeting new people, almost everybody comes off as boring as the first impression. Some of them may be able to demonstrate otherwise over time, but I hate being in a position where everybody is being boring. Which is ironic, since most people would consider me to be insanely boring, but that's just because we have nothing in common to discuss and I won't do small talk or gossip. If you think I'm boring, I assure you, that's you projecting your own boringness onto me. Look in the mirror, bub.
Yes and almost every Extrovert I meet has a life like a train wreck ...along with 300 problems ..they tend to unload there problems onto the introvert ...hmm
I find people try so hard to make themselves seem interesting that they come off as boring - it's because they have brought into all the marketing and other clichéd stuff that we are supposed to think is interesting to be seen as cool when it's not. There's also the 'fake' being dumb to impress people because being clever is seen as a bad thing, etc, etc... There's also stereotyping and assumptions about your interests based on your gender, age, etc. Folks like that send me to sleep.
I absolutely hate when my friend disturbs me when I'm fricking tired. At class he tried tickling me like wtf bro can't you have some respect I still talk to him tho.
I like a guy that is very introverted and gosh is it hard to communicate with him. The struggles of a more extroverted person like me. I can never understand introverted people..😢
I dont think introverts ignores people. They most likely like a confirmation from others in order for them to feel free to talk to them. If an introvert ignores you, you should talk to them. Introverts ignores people that they really dont know. They dont ignore their family members, because they know them.
I agree with all of these points. Also with anti-social can be seen as an insult since it has multiple meanings. It can mean that introverts hate crowds (which is true...) but it's also used to describe vandalism, and other nuisance behaviours like getting drunk publicly, causing fights, harassing people... It's better so say reserved, reclusive or private instead.
As an introvert, I can attest to how true these things are. One note on an introvert not wanting have anything to do with you when their energy is drained. There is a very good reason why we break off human contact when our energy is low. We get cranky and it is very hard to not be mean when our energy is low and people insist on associating with us. We know this and feel bad for it. So for both parties good, it is best to let the introvert whose energy is drained to be left alone to recharge.
always happens to me where extroverts that I know does not show interest to have talk with introvert people when the introverts start the small talk....I hate it....
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In the modern era, telling someone to avoid being offended is an alien concept when people build their entire world view and identity on being offended about something . . . Anything . . . Everything.
As an introvert, I continue to pick extrovert jobs like administrative assistant, receptionist, etc. because I enjoy working on the computer which is natural for me. Yet by lunch time I need to be by myself for a 30 minute recharge before going back to work of answering phones, talking to strangers, and to multiple co-workers. By the time I get home I feel like I've been to the gym... psychologically.
As soon as I leave my house, someone will manage to annoy me, people are to rude and aggressive these days, I'd sooner not have to deal with people in general.
Funny how people will tell you that they need a mate who is comfortable with themself, but, if you need a lot of time alone, this person assumes that you don't care enough for them It seems that this person is allowed to be clingy, but you are not
From A true INTROVERT; ALL FACTS 100%. I can be in room with 75 people i know and still be the only one in the room, and i don't know if it's just me i don't like to be touched after giving my Dap & Hug hellos and hi's .. Never fails ,Especially Dudes always want to lean, touch, slap backs, Stomachs and Play around ,I can't stand that Crap. That will Drain my energy Hella Quick . and wonder why im so quiet . Or people always think something is wrong everytime and tells me to smile cHEER UP, When i am fine and great ,But now getting annoyed from them telling me to smile . This is just my face and im not fake so im no going fake smile or laugh if nothing is not funny..
We ignore people when we're lost in our own thoughts, not because we're giving them the cold shoulder. If they don't get the difference THEN they should be deliberately ignored.
Sounds like a convenient excuse. "I want to benefit living in society without putting effort in human interaction" also "I want to be courted socially by others as I sit on my ass and do absolutely nothing".
I can normally do 2-3 hours of family gatherings, or any other social gathering, before I'm so tired by it all that I just want to find a quiet corner to sit by myself. Or make it to the exit... If whoever invited me to the gathering seems to be happy to be chatting with everyone, I will take that as a signal that I'm not of personal interest to her, and as such I can 'disappear' without anyone knowing about it. So I will! 😇
I don't talk at work ,are at the gym . However at the supermarket are family BBQ I love too talk. Bars and restaurants also am very talkative. Am I a introvert? I think I just talk at are where it's required.
Introverts should stay home then. Everyone stays busy and doesn’t care about someone unless it’s to their benefit. If they want to be alone stay home and work remotely
Pretty much simple..others = troubles..because introvert tend to stay out of trouble..and what they did him/herself for fixing trouble mostly far better from mostly anyone, if only without intervention..helping introvert seldom make they feel helped, instead of only giving him more trouble because every one (mostly) lacking something on truly fixing trouble esp if helping others, its good intention though, but maybe not for introvert..you better just stay where you are or simply following he/she said or just quiet, do nothing..thats a lot more feel introvert helped, weird isnt it..but its the most wanted isnt it..helping by doing nothing, introvert already giving you best option, why choose something else then
I am not igonr but i want logical and practical i want to talk to them i accept any one but come forward for me alone and personal i will talk to her why she not talk to me in personal way why i am logical and practical person thats i want if someone logical and loyal i will be onarabal why they cant understand to me why i give respect to all of them but they ignore me how can i understand woh their for me woh is personal person i waiting for me .ok
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The Saalome Peace Meditation:
Saalome gam naan ben uurda, gan njjber asaala hesporoona!
Friede sei auf der Erde, und unter allen Geschöpfen!
Peace be on earth, and among all creatures!
¡Paz en la tierra y entre todas las criaturas!
Que la paix soit sur la terre et parmi toutes les créatures !
Fred være på jorden og blandt alle skabninger!
Que a paz esteja na terra, e entre todas as criaturas!
Ειρήνη στη γη και σε όλα τα πλάσματα!
Да будет мир на земле и между всеми существами!
Мир на землі та між усіма створіннями!
Confuse them with your silence and shock them with your action...
Yes I usually use actions
I have nothing against socializing with people. Not too often, but from time to time. But...what people always talk about is;
1. Gossiping
2. Complaining
3. Self promotion
And then my interest dies in a second.
If it’s a real conversation I don’t mind but miss me with the small talk and validation seeking.
Not needing our personality "fixed" is spot on.
Yup. Being an introvert is just that-- how we are. It is that simple.
I ignore people because i find people ignorantly boring, irritating, and untrustworthy.
Not boring so much, but iritating and or trustworthy , most definitely!! 🧐🤔😬😬
Me too and you find extroverts are drowning in problems be it social or otherwise ..extroverts live on some strange planet .
People don't talk today. They gossip about themselves or especially others. I really resent that kind of trash. That's the number one reason why I ignore people.
Untrustworthy is number 1 for me.
I am at my best when alone .
People in general irritate me , i prefer to be alone .
Same
Same
same, I just like being alone and hate talking to others when in reality I just don't care what they have to say, it may sound bad but that's it
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@liz blanco Not cringe, but I just don't try talking to them, only because I don't have nothing to talk about with them, If I have, it would be mostly something about work or something similar
We have a quiet strength 🤗
“You bore us to death…” True statement.
💯
I've become more introverted because to be frank people these days are getting more toxic and are just not worth my time.
I absolutely agree.
I completely agree. Particularly this young generation in how they have no morals. They feel entitled to their desires instead of working for them.
THAT IS EXACTLY MY FINDINGS..
PEOPLE ARE MORE STUPID THESE DAYS...
How well did you know people of the past? Probably not as well as you think... Atlrast the older I get the more I come to that realization, and its quite common to see other people realize the same
Yeah stupid...they just don't get it why you don't talk to them 😂
Ppl always associated me with being antisocial,and,I always tell them" No,I'm selectively social",(which also make some wonder am I throwing shade at them),but,the worst was my ex,she always acted as if I was afraid of ppl,often times even stating it to her friends,even though I told her she couldn't be further from the truth,and,tbh,that's something that constantly got on my nerves,plus,me being a private person,I don't like everyone in my business 🤷🏿♂
Talking to a social butterfly about deeper things such as your feelings (most extroverts) is like talking to a wall. They don't get it. You can say exactly what you mean and they still don't get it. I particularly don't like being around them and I will ignore. Ugghhh
Oh yeah my mother use to do that keep telling people I'm quiet and shy.
Found most people just so boring at parties and in everyday life.
Listen them talk an talk to each other all saying same boring garbage.
People often conflate antisocial with asocial same as they conflate introversion with shyness/ social anxiety. Pick up a dictionary for once.
@@nreynolds75243if it’s a real conversation talking about your goals and how you’re improving your life I don’t mind, but miss me with gossip, small talk, and the need for validation and we can get along.
Introverts don't have a habit of ignoring people, nether do they want to ignore people. They just avoid social interaction cuz they like being alone in their own space cuz it brings them peace and joy.
Extroverts on the other hand, they party & socialize cuz it brings them joy and happiness. Both introvets and extroverts have their own source of happiness and we should respect it
I am a combination of those so I am ambivert. But I am slightly more extroverted overall.
Introvert hate fake people but if you're genuine we love endless conversation, we hate gossip talking other people, we're optimistic in life.
we ignore people for a variety of reasons, but the most is because we don't want to waste our energy in social settings
Yes. It really depends on me. I'll listen to music before gathering in a social environment. After work, I'm very mentally tired. I go for a walk sometimes on a break or lunch to ignore certain people. Not bc we are snobs, anti-social like he stated but to recharge my energy & I just like to be alone, peacefully & quietness for a little. I do ignore certain people not intentionally or bc I'm being rude or even bc I don't like that person but some topics I can get bored out. Lol. I'll listen, respond but can't wait for the conversation to be over. However I'm not referring to absolutely everyone. It really depends. & about the conversation. Weird. 🤷♀️ true, facts. Too much noise as well. I like to shut down & be alone especially when I don't "feel like talking" It doesn't mean I'm sad or lonely. It can be unpredictable as well bc if I do isolate myself (wanting to be alone) I COULD be going thru something or absolutely nothing.
I just like being alone and hate talking to others when in reality I just don't care what they have to say, it may sound bad but that's it
I think the title should be "why introverts ignore extroverts"
hahahaha exactly ,😍
She breaks her promises and told me lies, after that, she broke up with me now texting me but im ignoring her 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahah too funny. So true.
Yes 😀
Im not lonely or sad . Im lonely and sad when surrounded by losers .
mood. as an introvert I agree 😍
@@juancarlovillanueva Have a nice day introvert .
@@nelsonvargas2367 likewise ☺️
YES
so you're lonely and sad all the time?
As an introvert I think that the word ignore is a bit strong. many times I'm not ignoring you,I'm just a great listener and I know the right times to speak ,especially if you are talking to me about your problems. Although I like to listen and help people with problems in their life.we all have them.maybe after a long session I get drained,then the rest of the day and night I like to be alone,until tomorrow comes.
Great point
If you try to tell an extrovert "I want to be alone/not talk" they get hurt and talk even more. Just ignoring them really is the most effective strategy
You can watch this video together with an extrovert 10 times in a row, and five minutes later he will ask, "Why are you ignoring me?"
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I always confuse people with silence ....and i rarely talk to people and i have a small circle... Some people always say am not easy to approach and i hate crowds and i always avoid drama ..... Its been long i have been trying to find myself now i know that am a pure introvert
My inner circle is extrovert. I've lost contact with some of them bc of it. It changed after covid was over and honestly I don't really mind. I think I'm better off for it.
I'll ignore when someone sees me as a challenge to be cracked. They aren't really interested in me, just want to see if they can GET me to socialize with them or talk to them. Don't you have something else to do, I do.
I feel the same way
Right! I know this lady that's trying to crack me. She asks me what's wrong bc I don't really talk extensively to her. I'm "tired" and hi & bye is enough for me.
@@brownsugar6605 I had a coworker just last week stop by my desk and said I was so quiet. I had my headsets on working. Then proceeds to say that at a past job a coworker died at his desk and no-one recognized until 3 days later. I looked at him and said, what does my quietness have to do with you? I wasn't smiling at all. I had my serious face. This coworker started telling me his life story that I didn't ask about. He proceeds to tell me his 19 yr old daughter was extremely quiet, kept to herself, and he was concerned about her. She spent her time building her online business. I looked at him and said she's spending her time wisely. It's you with the problem. Then he says to me that I don't speak unless necessary. I said yep and I don't have time for office politics, gossip...foolishness. I also let him know because I'm quiet doesn't mean I'm a push over or someone to mess with. If you're not flapping your mouth 24/7 about nothing then extroverts think something is wrong with you. Never stopping to look at themselves. Icky!
I avoid those who waste time on small talk and gossip..I don't care how other people live their lives..and I don't enjoy trying to come up with something to say to someone who doesn't interest me ...nosy people who pry into my private affairs and life bore me ..and I don't care to listen to how victimized someone who places themselves in a bad situation feels....if you want to visit with me you better be able to bring something fun and interesting to the table ..I lose interest in senseless babble and can't wait to leave
I love the personalization of this, don't feel sorry for us when we are alone/isolated, we really prefer it that way, leave us alone.
Absolutely 😂😂😂😂
"daydreaming" sometimes we are reliving a past event, trying to understand what happened and people's motivations then. Other times, daydreaming is us trying to solve a situation by visualizing it ahead of time. Sometimes it's also literally dreaming (visualizing) while awake. Insights come that way sometimes, they hit us as visualizations and we watch them. "Hey, maybe this is what's happening" nudge + a video of sorts showing us what's happening. Some people think visually, it's like going through a movie or a lucid dream; I think extraverts are less likely to do this, instead some have conversations in their heads between different I's who argue about a situation or problem. I have heard extraverts have conversations out loud with themselves when they believe they are alone.
Patrice have you heard that often when a person talks to themselves it is the mark of a genius because they are thinkers.it is when you have a full conversation with yourself, and answer yourself like there is someone else in the room,then one might be crazy.lol
I caught myself laughing during daydreaming, oh man i was so embarrassed 😂 imagining how other people see me laughing without reason 😂
@@Titan8976I do that too from time to time. Oh well.
I can totally relate to all the above.
I'm a self-contained I enjoyed solitude.
I feel wiped out if I've spent too much time in the company of people.
We have to be true to ourselves.
You a great type of people. My type of people never change.
Introverts by and large are streets ahead with intellectual ways as opposed to the "in the square box "extroverts ..
Love being an Introvert 🎶 TH-cam, is a great place for me 🎶🎶🎶..
I can talk for a long time if it is with the right type of people and the right type of topics. I love talking about politics, psycology and conspiracys. But "get to know you-chitt/chat", no, i get bored so fast. I dont need to talk to people in order to get to know them. I just need to watch them and listen to what they say when they talk to others.
Someone is angry with me now because I have been ignoring everyone. So now they think they will get me back by ignoring me. A dangerous game to play with me. I can close the door completely. I like this person, but I won't play games. That is one reason I like to be alone.
My number 1 reason is I hate small talk🙄 texting me “funny” videos all day and expecting a response is draining 🤦🏾♀️
A group session of introverts is where we all gather together and spend time ignoring each other.
This is like a map to my personality
I don't necessarily ignore people,but I'm very observant & with thing's I've been through in my life,I have serious trust issues & yes I love my alone time,but not lonely! I just like being to myself!
Protecting my inner peace without involving others doesn't mean I ignore someone, just don't want to be distracted by noise.
I listen to music while daydreaming
exactly me. fake scenarios. waaaaah
sameee
I always listen to music and imagining badass scenarios all the time
I've been uncomfortable since elementary school
Being alone is my comfort zone and happiness,,but sometimes I'm trying to getting out my zone ..
Someone asked me what was wrong because I don't interact with them the way I used to. Well, something clicked in my head and I got tired of them asking me personal questions, trying to put words in my mouth, talking about me in front of other people, making remarks about other people, asking me for things and talking out of line when other people are talking. I don't like confrontation sooo I'm cordial and go on my way.
I. like my own company. Plain and simple ❣️
Im like Marina in Thunderbirds. Im highly intuitive, can speak, bt have been misunderstood my whole life.
As a lifelong introvert, it boggles the mind how some people see me sitting alone, deeply engrossed in something...and they JUST HAVE to come over & strike up a conversation!!
Typical scenario: I'm alone at a table in the Break room, earbuds in listening to a favorite playlist, my head down focussed on a puzzle magazine, food & a drink next to me, fill in a few answers, take a bite or sip, few more answers, sip, repeat. A shadow appears on the page, maybe someone just passing by. Shadow stays there because person is trying to get my attention, but I can't hear person because of the music. So, person reaches out & taps me on the arm or waves hand over the page...
I either jump a mile or worse nearly choke on my food because the person scared the @#&% out of me. Needless to say, most people don't do that again! XD
Bro this shit is my super power.
I do it to a customers face. They will literally be rude and saying something to me
"Excuse me I was talking to you."
I'll look them straight in the face and ignore them.
People understand this. I *Me* do not have to interact with you. I am not forced to engage with you. If I do not want to associate or interact with you I do not have to. Just because you spoke at me does not mean I feel the need to respond back and no amount of your yelling is going to force me to.
I legitimately walk off while your mid sentence.
I enforce the same rule everywhere especially in my personal life.
Introvert army. Aint going nowhere.
More power to us introverts !!!!
DOC BAINL.i think you are very confused about being a rude snob, and being an introvert.as you eluded to in your comment that they were rude first.introverts and extroverts are likely to give them an attitude just the same also,,but not so much in the workplace,unless your desire is to never keep a job with an attitude like that.we as people encounter assholes all the time in our lives. Not to be meen but seriously you might be emotionally disturbed and were shown no love ,which if true I am truly sorry for,but you might not be an introvert.watch the video again.
@@nelsonvargas2367 You already have the power, bro! We tolerate your "spoiled princess" attitude in society. We do all the hard work in human interaction, as you do absolutely nothing.
Extrovert: why don’t you talk
Introvert: why don’t you shut up.
I you a female introvert, there are times when it seems everyone wants to fix you. I'm still puzzled why friends and strangers think it is perfectly ok to tell me I need to smile more. Or tell me I need to talk to more people. Or ask me why I'm being hostile when I'm just standing my ground?
So relatable 😮I choose to live in my authenticity 🎉
I sit back and observe first, and if it is someone i cannot trust then i ignore.
I ignore rude disrespectful people its a waste of time n energy
When men yell from a distance they like me or when I walk in a room and someone ask me questions infront of ppl or play with me I ignore Im grown. I hate that
My brother is an introvert and often ignores me unless we're discussing something he enjoys, like video games or anime series. Occasionally, I playfully reciprocate by giving him a taste of his own medicine-ignoring him, not making eye contact, checking my phone, and responding with brief yes or no answers. It doesn't take long for him to feel offended, sad, or anxious. At that point, I promptly stop and explain that this is precisely what he does to me multiple times a week. He attributes it to being tired and not wanting to talk due to his introverted nature.
People at work drain me! Seems like ppl just want to talk about themselves. Please don't show me a million photos of your kid at soccer practice, or dump all your girlfriend problems on me. I just don't care these days.
Explains me quite well :)❤
Ok. Fair enough. Thank you for speaking your mind.
Introvert meme: I'd like to ignore you now, but I'm busy. Can I ignore you some other time?
Basically its saying they're ignoring you Because they'd rather not be around you overall lol
I have been called ignorant, miserable, and rude. I have also got the occasional, "There must be something wrong with him. Why doesn't he talk to anyone?" Quite honestly. I find people exhausting. I never knew I was an introvert until recently. I sit back and watch how people interact with one another and frankly it's sickening how some are so pleasant to each other, and then when they leave, the back biting begins. I don't need nor want that. I simply just want to go to work, just to work. Not socialize, not make friends or enemies, but simply to work only. If I want to talk, I'll wait to get home and talk to my wife. Growing up, we weren't allowed to voice ourselves. In our house, it was, "Kids should be seen and not heard." It's possible some of what I experienced growing up is a part of why I am the way I am.
Oh yes, the rudeness accusations are real.
So relatable 😮I choose to live in my authenticity and won't compromise 😊 Like you I go to work to work and Have absolutely no desire to socialize. During my breaks I go for a walk and come back feeling absolutely great 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm an introvert and if I ignore someone it's because I have no interest in that person.Those people who I ignore because I have no interest in them should beware of other people who FAKE an interest in them if they can USE them for something
people and activities drain my energy. Nothing like alone time
The first thought to my mind upon seeing the topic: you're boring. I hate meeting new people, almost everybody comes off as boring as the first impression. Some of them may be able to demonstrate otherwise over time, but I hate being in a position where everybody is being boring. Which is ironic, since most people would consider me to be insanely boring, but that's just because we have nothing in common to discuss and I won't do small talk or gossip. If you think I'm boring, I assure you, that's you projecting your own boringness onto me. Look in the mirror, bub.
Yes and almost every Extrovert I meet has a life like a train wreck ...along with 300 problems ..they tend to unload there problems onto the introvert ...hmm
I find people try so hard to make themselves seem interesting that they come off as boring - it's because they have brought into all the marketing and other clichéd stuff that we are supposed to think is interesting to be seen as cool when it's not. There's also the 'fake' being dumb to impress people because being clever is seen as a bad thing, etc, etc... There's also stereotyping and assumptions about your interests based on your gender, age, etc. Folks like that send me to sleep.
I absolutely hate when my friend disturbs me when I'm fricking tired. At class he tried tickling me like wtf bro can't you have some respect I still talk to him tho.
I think the best thing is for u to cut out ur friends in that way u can be alone forever and thrive
then they can't be your friends.
Lmaoooo BRUH
I ignore them permanently. Their attitude is hurting a lot
I like a guy that is very introverted and gosh is it hard to communicate with him. The struggles of a more extroverted person like me. I can never understand introverted people..😢
Every single statement listed is completely true.
I dont think introverts ignores people. They most likely like a confirmation from others in order for them to feel free to talk to them. If an introvert ignores you, you should talk to them. Introverts ignores people that they really dont know. They dont ignore their family members, because they know them.
Very accurate info👍🏼
Because most people are not worth it. I don’t care how you feel about that too.
I agree with all of these points. Also with anti-social can be seen as an insult since it has multiple meanings. It can mean that introverts hate crowds (which is true...) but it's also used to describe vandalism, and other nuisance behaviours like getting drunk publicly, causing fights, harassing people... It's better so say reserved, reclusive or private instead.
Loved it....a virgo introvert🙏..
Sometime I fell boring walking with people
As an introvert, I can attest to how true these things are. One note on an introvert not wanting have anything to do with you when their energy is drained.
There is a very good reason why we break off human contact when our energy is low. We get cranky and it is very hard to not be mean when our energy is low and people insist on associating with us.
We know this and feel bad for it. So for both parties good, it is best to let the introvert whose energy is drained to be left alone to recharge.
One thing about us is we pour out what we want to say through text mostly
I don’t ignore people. Everyone deserves to be acknowleged. But I won’t hang with you long when you have nothing to say.
always happens to me where extroverts that I know does not show interest to have talk with introvert people when the introverts start the small talk....I hate it....
In the modern era, telling someone to avoid being offended is an alien concept when people build their entire world view and identity on being offended about something . . . Anything . . . Everything.
Introverts don’t ignore we protect our energy.
As an introvert, I continue to pick extrovert jobs like administrative assistant, receptionist, etc. because I enjoy working on the computer which is natural for me. Yet by lunch time I need to be by myself for a 30 minute recharge before going back to work of answering phones, talking to strangers, and to multiple co-workers. By the time I get home I feel like I've been to the gym... psychologically.
As soon as I leave my house, someone will manage to annoy me, people are to rude and aggressive these days, I'd sooner not have to deal with people in general.
Or are they just jealous that we can be enough on our own?
Funny how people will tell you that they need a mate who is comfortable with themself, but, if you need a lot of time alone, this person assumes that you don't care enough for them
It seems that this person is allowed to be clingy, but you are not
From A true INTROVERT; ALL FACTS 100%.
I can be in room with 75 people i know and still be the only one in the room,
and i don't know if it's just me i don't like to be touched after giving my Dap & Hug hellos and hi's ..
Never fails ,Especially Dudes always want to lean, touch, slap backs, Stomachs and Play around ,I can't stand that Crap.
That will Drain my energy Hella Quick . and wonder why im so quiet .
Or people always think something is wrong everytime and tells me to smile cHEER UP, When i am fine and great ,But now getting annoyed from them telling me to smile . This is just my face and im not fake so im no going fake smile or laugh if nothing is not funny..
We ignore people when we're lost in our own thoughts, not because we're giving them the cold shoulder. If they don't get the difference THEN they should be deliberately ignored.
Sounds like a convenient excuse. "I want to benefit living in society without putting effort in human interaction" also "I want to be courted socially by others as I sit on my ass and do absolutely nothing".
@@rosomackus69 Says you. Courted socially ? Haha that one made me laugh.
Thank you for replying.
This video cracked me tf up 😂😂
I can normally do 2-3 hours of family gatherings, or any other social gathering, before I'm so tired by it all that I just want to find a quiet corner to sit by myself. Or make it to the exit...
If whoever invited me to the gathering seems to be happy to be chatting with everyone, I will take that as a signal that I'm not of personal interest to her, and as such I can 'disappear' without anyone knowing about it. So I will! 😇
I want to socialize with people but my problem is I don't have the confidence to talk to them
Just go for it :)
Be kind
Also true.
I really love it
I believe that some ppl who choose to be introverts are very antisocial beings by choice.
Thank you
I don't talk at work ,are at the gym . However at the supermarket are family BBQ I love too talk. Bars and restaurants also am very talkative. Am I a introvert? I think I just talk at are where it's required.
I give you a like for that video ! its perfect discribe a introver person😃 !!!
my mother calls me anti-social.
Don’t worry I won’t ever try to scare you freaks by trying to be friends. You want people not to like you? You’re doing a great job.
Thank God!
3:07 me to them : there's a door, leave.
@6:40 & 7:00 - true.
People are a pain in the ass. That's why we avoid them.
This reads out like the Chris rock skit I just watched. How not to get your ass kicked by the police lol
Introverts should stay home then. Everyone stays busy and doesn’t care about someone unless it’s to their benefit. If they want to be alone stay home and work remotely
we are sorting out our thoughts and feelings without yalls energy mixing in and interupting us. its self love, if you get offended then be offended
Pretty much simple..others = troubles..because introvert tend to stay out of trouble..and what they did him/herself for fixing trouble mostly far better from mostly anyone, if only without intervention..helping introvert seldom make they feel helped, instead of only giving him more trouble because every one (mostly) lacking something on truly fixing trouble esp if helping others, its good intention though, but maybe not for introvert..you better just stay where you are or simply following he/she said or just quiet, do nothing..thats a lot more feel introvert helped, weird isnt it..but its the most wanted isnt it..helping by doing nothing, introvert already giving you best option, why choose something else then
Now I know who I am🥲🥲
I have no idea .. when I stay around the people is not only drian my energies but I felt like something force my feet to go and letf the people there🤔
I am not igonr but i want logical and practical i want to talk to them i accept any one but come forward for me alone and personal i will talk to her why she not talk to me in personal way why i am logical and practical person thats i want if someone logical and loyal i will be onarabal why they cant understand to me why i give respect to all of them but they ignore me how can i understand woh their for me woh is personal person i waiting for me .ok
Ha!! Giving wrong information! Omg! He is reading my mind lol!