Reasons You Aren’t Getting Matches On Hinge (For Guys and Girls)

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  • @Ztama12
    @Ztama12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    1-14 matches a WEEK? I'm lucky if I even get one once a month... On top of that there's basically less than a 10% chance they continue a conversation😓😓

    • @hiroipip
      @hiroipip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      i know, i bought unlimited likes, and i liked like 100+ people in 2 days, not even a single match😂

    • @kyledude7004
      @kyledude7004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same and I feel like my profile is very good to

    • @veotic2728
      @veotic2728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hiroipip maybe ur responses arent good enough??

    • @AZITHEMLGPRO
      @AZITHEMLGPRO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@veotic2728 cmon now. Let’s be better than that

    • @302manman6
      @302manman6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@veotic2728 “blame men because women are picky” is all I really got from that comment.

  • @jayess8714
    @jayess8714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Attention women: how about you actually reply messages with people you match with. It's a dating app.

    • @Ansaphone89
      @Ansaphone89 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men do this all the time.

  • @Kyle-ii4fp
    @Kyle-ii4fp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I swear they made it harder to match in 2023.. when I was younger with a profile that didn't look good in 2014, I'd get matches on sites now, I dont..

  • @radicalraz
    @radicalraz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Lol, I get like 1-2 matches a year.

  • @stephentyree9296
    @stephentyree9296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I feel like my pictures are pretty good but actually look like me, and my profile is pretty genuine as far as the information on it. I have literally gotten 2 likes on Hinge after being on there for like 3 months.

    • @masazondi3282
      @masazondi3282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Sthepen. Where are you from?

    • @stephentyree9296
      @stephentyree9296 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@masazondi3282 Central Virginia in a moderate sized city.

    • @imasavage95
      @imasavage95 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I got no matches I just joined today tho

  • @kbokota1
    @kbokota1 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    For the people in the comments who are not getting any matches: please try to remember that you shouldn't base your self esteem and self worth on the number of matches that you get on a dating app. Some people are just naturally better presented on these apps than others! If you aren't getting many matches on hinge, or tinder or bumble you might want to consider trying to join some clubs or projects in real life where you can meet real people and try to present your full self that you aren't able to present in your profile alone! Just a thought :)

    • @DrCalvinTeach
      @DrCalvinTeach 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This was really kind and I needed it. Thank you.

    • @tomstickland
      @tomstickland 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely. Get off the apps, unless you're in the top 20% by looks you will struggle.

  • @p3memes
    @p3memes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ive been on the app for 5 months and i havent had a single full conversation with anyone.

    • @laurenbatiste8939
      @laurenbatiste8939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I rather not have a convo then to have a convo and the next day .. SURPRISE .. all of a sudden they have been busy all day and the day after that silence

  • @samuelcason0000
    @samuelcason0000 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve been on hinge for almost the entire year and I’ve never gotten a single match.

    • @manosijroy8282
      @manosijroy8282 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I used Hinge for almost 8 months so far and got only 9 matches who all ended up ghosting and that was before me turning 22. I turned 22 just over 3 weeks ago on 22nd December 2022 and ever since then I didn't get a single match and idk why. I usually used to get matches by girls in the 18-23 age range girls. I use the free version btw and give good and decent comments to their prompts and pics so I don't understand why still no matches.

    • @misst7923
      @misst7923 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you get likes though?

    • @samuelcason0000
      @samuelcason0000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@misst7923 nope.

    • @452xi
      @452xi ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same I'm starting to think it doesn't work

    • @TK_Trickster
      @TK_Trickster ปีที่แล้ว +2

      4 years

  • @shermanngjazz
    @shermanngjazz ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can barely get like 1 match per month it's frustrating

  • @backroadbeetle4781
    @backroadbeetle4781 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Even my attractive lady friend has only gotten 3, even after paying for the premium. It's really really odd. I'm all confused, I've had zero on every app for the last 3 months. I used to get 30 a day 😵‍💫

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same here. I get called gorgeous daily (inperson) but no likes on Hinge. I also used to get like much more before (25-35 likes daily) but dunno what happened in last few months

    • @thebowmac
      @thebowmac 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just re-signed up for Hinge and have swiped right the max amount of times per day for about 4 days. No matches. I just came from another (more “hookup” geared) app where I was getting many matches per day. I feel like the algorithm is stacked against free users.

  • @adecentyoutuber7407
    @adecentyoutuber7407 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Seriously considering deleting these apps and even quitting dating in general. It's possible I may not have it in me or what people are looking for or it's just not a good situation/environment right now. I've used these apps for close to 3 years and have gotten next to nothing from them.

    • @dsds3968
      @dsds3968 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Delete the apps. They are making a parasitic living off you. If you're an average looking man then you won't succeed on them.

    • @FactStorm
      @FactStorm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Only real life experience will do, no app will change that.

    • @nauxsi
      @nauxsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you didn’t pay.

  • @volepadni
    @volepadni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I also got only 1 match every time I create a new profile, the end : (

    • @Phoenix-pm2qr
      @Phoenix-pm2qr ปีที่แล้ว

      I've updated my photos, have taken all this advice from videos, have put so much work into my profile. Sk far, a single like in nearly 2 months 😢

    • @volepadni
      @volepadni ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Phoenix-pm2qr how to see your profile?

  • @Baheieujlsksnen
    @Baheieujlsksnen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think Hinge is better than other popular apps bc on those guys who like me are usually the ones that I wouldn't match anyways. Saves time& I like that Hinge has detailed filters. I'm a female& after liking about 25 guys I only got 2 matches back in 2 days

  • @nauxsi
    @nauxsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Remember guys it doesn’t matter how many matches. It matters how many you meet. Matches can be manipulated by algorithm. Meets can’t. So if value for money is what you’re after and you have not secured 1 meet in 90 days then it’s a bad purchase.

  • @christianhayes694
    @christianhayes694 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just unmatched with all of my matches because they all on bs. 😂 fuck it! 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @ticiao
    @ticiao ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve been on for a few days and I have a-lot of matches and a first date coming up. I have some friends that met there husbands. so I decided to try.

  • @tomstickland
    @tomstickland 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Height, face, hair. You need these, otherwise you are just background noise.

  • @FactStorm
    @FactStorm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm in a decent sized urban area, a male with a filled out, varied profile with humor & some serious notes. My pictures are clear, diverse & show my excursions, life experiences, and hobbies..yet I don't get matches at all. The algorithm is a necessary evil for some, and a blessing for others.

  • @Avusui
    @Avusui 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    TLDR treat hinge like social media, show the things you have done once and act like its normal.

  • @jeremiahbryant123
    @jeremiahbryant123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can tell you why you not getting matches it’s simple :
    Guy : if your average looking or below average looking
    Woman : if your extremely overweight, have children , or unbearable to look at ( hideous in looks department )

  • @crazyry21
    @crazyry21 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Matches don’t mean a thing. I get plenty of them. I have good photos and a great profile. I get loads of compliments on them. No BS. I get maybe 5-7 dates for every 300+ matches. It’s not even worth it. I have good masculine energy and great rizz. Doesn’t matter how good the vibes are or the connection is, 97% of them ghost when you try to setup the date. These women just have way too many options in this day and age and have unrealistic standards.

  • @tiamelancholyjeoncockity
    @tiamelancholyjeoncockity ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My issues is that I can’t see any of my likes at all so the only way I get ppl is to like and hopefully ppl match back 💀 in no way am I gonna pay for a dating app subscription to see my likes. They only release one new one every day but if your current ones you can see is matched or X’ed or not in the ‘likes’ page.

  • @unfairadvantage4134
    @unfairadvantage4134 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Where did you get those stats? These are from 2020: Hinge demographics in 2020 showed a 64% male to 36% female user ratio, which is more equal than other dating apps like Tinder or Ok Cupid. Gender distribution becomes more equal as users’ age increases, with 0% males in the teen age category compared to 4.1% females and 0.8% males to 1.5% females in the 65+ age category.

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A few years ago I was banned from Hinge with no explanation. So a few months ago I used Google Voice to create a new phone number.
    But it will not let me upgrade to premium which makes me think I am shadowbanned. To where my profile isn't showing up for women to see, and the ones I write to aren't seeing the likes/messages.
    I get matches regularly on both Tinder and Bumble so logically I should be getting matches on Hinge too. The only logical explanation is shadowbanning which is why I get an error anytime I try to upgrade.

    • @Sbannmarie298
      @Sbannmarie298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why did you get banned?

    • @ryandeffley7652
      @ryandeffley7652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sbannmarie298 - They don't offer any sort of explanation. But all dating apps are basically the same. So I've managed to survive without Hinge. 👍

    • @manosijroy8282
      @manosijroy8282 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryandeffley7652 Did you send any creepy messages to girls? BTW I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I had been using tinder and Hinge for 5 months and got only 3 matches on tinder and 8 matches on Hinge so far. My tinder matches never replied to me whereas my Hinge matches do reply a bit and end up ghosting me. Most of my matches are 18-22 year old girls and idk why they all ghost me. I just got matched today by a girl on Hinge who is also 21 and really pretty but she only replied to my comment on her prompt and after that no reply to my last message.

  • @Phoenix-pm2qr
    @Phoenix-pm2qr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Apperciate the video, but most guys hardly get any likes and girls seemingly get hundreds even if their profile is basic. It is so frustrating and really hurts your spirit. Ive gotten 1 like in nearly 2 months....😢

    • @nauxsi
      @nauxsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s why is losing money. The women can’t be bothered. So much for female power.

  • @lespy.mp4257
    @lespy.mp4257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to get a lot of matches but recently got banned from binge and made a new account with the same phone and haven’t got any could I be shadow banned?

  • @purposeful03
    @purposeful03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tips for plain janes?

  • @zenahLoves
    @zenahLoves ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know if this is a fluke! I started watching the video @ 11:30pm last night (I haven't finished watching it yet) I decided to make some of the changes you recommend in this video. I woke up to 10 new likes on hinge. That's over night while I was asleep. I'm writing this comment @ 8:45am.
    Ladies this advice really works, I swapped out a few photos that were too "done up" to more candid type pics and added 1 answer which was quite detailed it's the "what's your typical Sunday" prompt.
    I'm on the free plan, so I used all my likes last night before 12am. I maxed out so today I get the refresh. I haven't had any matches from the men I liked but the day is still young..
    Anyway thank you for the advice, I'm going to finish watching your video now 😂

  • @jessicastewart5789
    @jessicastewart5789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think guys are judging me based on the facts that I’m a wheelchair user and I don’t want children. I want to be honest upfront!
    In my profile, I’m honest, funny, and I’m serious (filled my profile 100%)! I used pictures to show my interests and personality! I don’t have any negativity, told no demands, and I ask questions at the end of my prompts to get responses from my profile!
    I have received matches (a total of 9), but they either ghosted me or just looking for friends.
    I have a preferred membership, have boosted my profile, and sent roses. I sent likes with comments, but don’t get much back. The only dealbreakers I have set up are “don’t have children” and “50 miles distance.”
    I don’t know what else I can do to find someone. I feel like my profile is set up for success and my friends say, “I’m kind, funny, and outgoing.” Got any tips for me since I’m disabled (looking for men)?
    Thank you for your help and time! 😊

    • @backroadbeetle4781
      @backroadbeetle4781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A man irl wouldn't care at all about you being wheelchair bound. If anything it makes you more unique. I have other lady friends in your exact situation and they're a physically "normal" pretty, and nice (absolutely no offense meant; just to squash the assumption on your end). I think there's something odd happening behind the scenes, some sort of manipulation.

  • @trophy8174
    @trophy8174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I been on for about 2 weeks now and I got ghosted 3 times so far

    • @Killerlizzerd97
      @Killerlizzerd97 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only got ghosted once. It's bs cause women be picky as fuck. Like no wonder they don't want yall.

  • @Unchartedvlogs
    @Unchartedvlogs ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven’t gotten even a single match

    • @manosijroy8282
      @manosijroy8282 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used Hinge for almost 8 months so far and got only 9 matches who all ended up ghosting and that was before me turning 22. I turned 22 just over 3 weeks ago on 22nd December 2022 and ever since then I didn't get a single match and idk why. I usually used to get matches by girls in the 18-23 age range girls. I use the free version btw and give good and decent comments to their prompts and pics so I don't understand why still no matches.

  • @mathewrichards7309
    @mathewrichards7309 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All im trying to achieve is finding my future wife. Why is it so hard. It's not rocket science. This info I've heard a thousand time.

  • @ventromanable
    @ventromanable 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Basically what you have to do as a man is cosplay as a rich successful man filter your pics and pretend your living that life, and some of the women that also cosplay with all those filters and heavy makeup on, will start too like you.

  • @QuantumEntanglement-xu2it
    @QuantumEntanglement-xu2it ปีที่แล้ว

    I get 5 matches daily and 4 likes. Only one or two of them in the whole month want to continue talking and I am not that excited about them. Those I like most don’t want to talk

  • @Shegoestomovies
    @Shegoestomovies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get 1 match a month

  • @Ansaphone89
    @Ansaphone89 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get a lot more matches on Bumble but still shit quality

  • @pointmaker8833
    @pointmaker8833 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never had a like on hinge, average guy

  • @Kyle-ii4fp
    @Kyle-ii4fp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get 0 matches even with an interesting profile. Oh well.. on so many apps no luck

    • @DudeHack
      @DudeHack  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Take my quiz and we can see what we can improve with your profile, might even be an algorithm issue: dude-hack.com/profile-quiz/

  • @charlescaldwell2596
    @charlescaldwell2596 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I litteraly got a match within an hour of using the app. So far so good.

    • @jaySin37
      @jaySin37 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too dude… installed it 3 hours ago and have had almost two dozen matches so far. Only replied to one though. My profile is balls too lol

    • @cece826
      @cece826 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​​@@jaySin37that how they get you , then it slows down

    • @DeadCat-42
      @DeadCat-42 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol, fell for it.
      Wait two weeks, the first matches are the algorithm manipulating you.
      You swallowed it hook, line and sinker .

    • @TheFoolTohru
      @TheFoolTohru 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@cece826Yo! I thought I was the only one who noticed the deliberate slowdown!
      I knew something was up, it's easy to tell when things don't move as fast at first. So blatant.

  • @thepurpleturnip534
    @thepurpleturnip534 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just made a profile two hours ago, I’ve never made one before so I was curious of the usual amount of likes and matches , so far I have 15, maybe the location has something to do with it,

  • @queenallen269
    @queenallen269 ปีที่แล้ว

    Luckily, I would have to say I get a lot of matches on Hinge. Most times double digit.

  • @jayess8714
    @jayess8714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The like limit I understand, but the app needs to introduce a MATCH limit. Especially for women - if they are limited to only say three matches, they won't get overwhelmed with all the guys trying to talk to them and actually be bothered to fucking reply messages.

  • @mbank3832
    @mbank3832 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if I have like 7 matches on first day then no matches later ?

    • @lillon6083
      @lillon6083 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same is your better now ?

    • @mbank3832
      @mbank3832 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lillon6083 no. i have to asked a mutual friend to introduce me to someone....

  • @dytahgyth1380
    @dytahgyth1380 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You said women are looking START interesting conversations...wow im just a dickhead then because i start and finish them

  • @letechnicaljames
    @letechnicaljames 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eh... not sure about if I should go Premium but I have some goals I want to hit while single. Maybe later on?

  • @lespy.mp4257
    @lespy.mp4257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to get a bunch now I don’t

    • @lespy.mp4257
      @lespy.mp4257 ปีที่แล้ว

      @dawsonjesse.69 who’s that? I always got a lot of matches but I recently got banned and now that I made a new account I get no matches at all

    • @lespy.mp4257
      @lespy.mp4257 ปีที่แล้ว

      @dawsonjesse.69 how do I get him to fix my hinge acxount does he have like a discord or something

  • @priestlygarments4004
    @priestlygarments4004 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey is it safe to pay for Hinge? Like when I pay for it using my App Store will they get my real name and personal information? I wanted to pay for a month. Let me know

    • @Killerlizzerd97
      @Killerlizzerd97 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not worth the money. I never do.

  • @statusquoreject
    @statusquoreject ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I get 3-5 matches per day on hinge. Even then the truth is online dating is a waste of time. A lot of women today are flaky and entitled; and men have become simps. Men never take advice on dating from women, they have no clue what they want & their minds change like the direction of the wind. Dating apps create the illusion of having too many options and a false sense of vanity. This video is a waste of time. If you want the best odds of finding a partner do it in person. Join meet up groups, take some classes, join outdoor activity groups, go to social events and parties. Practice your conversation skills by being out in public. Don’t waste time on fluff videos like this. Good luck.

    • @imasavage95
      @imasavage95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fax

    • @Eg-jd9zt
      @Eg-jd9zt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just proved my point. So I tested this theory I’ve heard and changed my city then went back to my city. Got 9 matches in 5 minutes wth lol. And they were all unattractive as sin so was a delete delete lol

    • @vileproductions8511
      @vileproductions8511 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we’ll said! id like to add that the data is out , why average men are even wasting time on these apps is beyond me , GET OFF them ! women are aiming for the top 5-10 percent of men .

    • @user-kr2ty9vk5n
      @user-kr2ty9vk5n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men like you won't find someone in real life either. Women don't want men who don't respect them or think highly of them. We want a relationship with a decent person, not an alpha bro incel.

    • @Kyle-ii4fp
      @Kyle-ii4fp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hard when you live in a small town and only have a bike. I hate spanaway Washington lol

  • @gonewthworld7055
    @gonewthworld7055 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you're a dude googling why no matches and landed on this video. Let's be honest if you're like me it's probably because we are ugly.

    • @leescuderi8331
      @leescuderi8331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude.its not your looks. I get called cute/handsome all the time and hardly get matches from women I find attractive or even close to the women Ive dated. No problem getting ugly women to match but getting someone decent. Even a decent looking dudes struggles these days. Its just women and their insane list of demands.

    • @TheFoolTohru
      @TheFoolTohru 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@leescuderi8331This is actually quite true. I look very handsome apparently, yet a lady that looked just as decent decided to unmatch me as soon as I said I just got out of a job, and was looking 4 more.
      I guess because she had a job, and assumed I was gonna be a leech or not meet her halfway which is somewhat understandable I guess? Or just flat out didn't want a man with no job, but why not communicate that first?

  • @vileproductions8511
    @vileproductions8511 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lol the data is out , women are going for the top 5-10 percent of men … LOOKS are everything on dating apps … If you’re average in looks on dating apps do your self a favor and get off .. Dating apps are geared toward highly attractive males , and most women The highly attractive males and most females don’t need to buy the premiums or anything like that, they get tons of likes . The group that is losing is the average man.

    • @Lola-by6cx
      @Lola-by6cx ปีที่แล้ว

      Personally for me as a woman, yes looks matter but you can also work with what you've got and take better pictures, look well dressed and groomed in them, have nice backgrounds and lighting. Show that you're well traveled and have a unique personality. Something i've noticed with guys on dating apps in London specifically, is that a bunch of guys start blending as 1 person with every swipe because not enough sets them apart. So even if a guy appears conventionally attractive on an app, I won't budge if they appear boring.

    • @Phoenix-pm2qr
      @Phoenix-pm2qr ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the exact same for guys - most women's profiles are super boring and bland. However, women get hundreds of likes while guys only get a few just because that's how it works.

    • @b4byheart726
      @b4byheart726 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s not true haha, there’s a lot of very attractive men on hinge that I don’t like because they give off major red flags or fuck boy energy. I’d much rather match with an average/decent looking guy with a good personality that I can actually see myself in a relationship with than with a very attractive one who just wants to hook up lol.

  • @theasianinvasionmma
    @theasianinvasionmma ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @sebby5700
    @sebby5700 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had about 8 in a week as a guy? Not sure if that’s too great haha

    • @mattc7005
      @mattc7005 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's very good

    • @sour3000
      @sour3000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I haven't even had 8 since since I got the app and it's been months now... 🙃

  • @never_andy
    @never_andy ปีที่แล้ว

    Womansplaining is getting tiresome

  • @thevikingsock8527
    @thevikingsock8527 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The fn app only shows me fat people.. the algo hates me. Ends up in nothing, but left swipes

    • @chemberleenodira9236
      @chemberleenodira9236 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happened to me at the beginning. I kept swiping left and change my preference a bit. Then I started getting regular and slim girls' profile.