Yeah! So true. Even if you don't have any reason to suspect anything you can feel when someone lies to you. The energy is sensed by the body. Even through texting. Always trust your gut feeling guys!
I resisted this feeling for 3 years, I knew something was wrong since the beginning, she always pointed the finger at me saying I was insecure, toxic, jealous, Blablabla, that she was a loyal girl and that I should talk about her past Blablabla... Once a cheater, always a cheater, once a lyar, always a lyar... She ended up blindsiding me and she neever looked back, we just moved from Europe to Mexico because she liked the country, we were talking about adopting a dog and buying a car and make a long term rental contract few weeks earlier. I suppressed my feeling for so long, my body was telling me something was wrong. I resisted it and I did hurt my self esteem, I hided from awareness and conciousness, I was hiding. This lack of awareness made me have burst of anger, I will never ever again surrender myself for a relationship, never
Women believe lies. It’s always been that way... “For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” 1 Timothy 2:13-14 KJV
I dont jump from relationship to relationship" is what I was told lol.. Yeah chick, you just f*** most of em but they arent stupid enough to settle with you like I was
Lmao, a women said this to me today when i asked her about something that happened "of course not why will u think that it was me?" Lmaoo, i read your comment and looks exactly the same as she said hahaha
This is too similar of a past relationship. Be objective as possible! I fell for one even though there were millions of signs. Her relationship with her father, constant flirting with other guys, little white lies, no accountability, etc. I Ignored all the signs until one day I looked at her phone and found out she had met a guy while I was out of town for a week. It explained why she wasn't texting me that much, why her phone was on her 24/7 when I got back and why she was placing her phone screen side down on a table everytime I was around. When I confronted her, she came up with every excuse possible, even said I was probably cheating on her! I didn't care whether she was sleeping with this guy or not, I just left her. I was more ashamed of myself for not being smarter. But sometimes you have to live and learn.
My girl was sleeping with her phone under her pillow. She said it was to keep from waking me up..lol. She had no problem waking me for sex when she wanted.
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
@circa blonk - Not at all. You can still have very deep profound feelings for them. You can ratchet up as they do. You exercise your emotional intelligence by taking things slowly and seeing if they give you reciprocity and consistency. All relationships eventually end. My 97 year old cousin recently lost his wife of 80 years. You have to live more for the moments and control yourself. If what you’re getting isn’t what you want or need, you control the only thing you can, and that’s yourself.
@@bigneiltoo - Absolutely!! The comments I made above co-exist with those perfect moments, and do not exclude them. One still needs to go slowly and build trust, through mutual consistency, honesty and respect. If you’re not getting what you need, then you have to be willing to walk away.
"Never mow another man's lawn." I love seeing that, as uncommon as it is, there's still a code of honour among some men not to mess around with another man's girl. I've always had this philosophy as well it's never sat well seeing some men adopt the all's fair in love and war approach.
Along the same lines, a girl I dated for awhile. Would always say, oh I don't play mind games. Shes a very loyal person. She literally turned out to be the biggest mind f roll coaster. I have experienced.... So yeah if a woman says I don't do that, and she's trying to make a point of it. She's trying to mask something she does. Live and learn
tegsar88 when I was with my ex she has us all hanging out together he was just a friend. When she dumped me a week later she moved in with him lol. Bitch. Now she moved in with another dude. But she still wants to keep tabs on me n got jealous when I posted a pic of me and some female
I've lived my life seeing full up close examples of people who will lie until they die and it makes me very distrustful towards almost anyone I meet making me take precautions before speaking.
anonymousmathenge dude, I never thought it was a problem until I asked her to prove to me that she got a certain text message. That’s when she tells me that she deletes all of her messages. BS. Only when I wanted to see something were they deleted.
Had an ex that will put her cell face down all the time when I will ask her why she will say what’s wrong with that it’s normal and I exaggerated and was controlling lol really
lying to anyone about anything is a complete waste of time you will have short term victory however you will have long term grief and a life of unhappiness , one way to happiness and it is hard to achieve not easy is being in reality and talking honestly and openly no matter how hard the subject can be, if you are going to open your mouth and lie you are best to just not say anything
agree with you to 100%..I'm only 36 years old and i found out 3 years ago what women really are and their small "secrets" they always have..they can't help it..it's simply their nature...my dream is to have a family and get married but hey, it's never gonna happend cause to marrie someone needs 100% trust for the women and only idiots and amateurs trusts women..
Stay objective for the first three to six months. Listen to what she says, then watch what she does, and see if her actions line up with her words. People who are truly genuine, their actions will line up with their words. If her actions don't match up with her words, don't ignore it... as you'll be sorry you did! Keep in mind though that everyone is not perfect, and we all make mistakes, so don't judge her the first time it happens. What you are looking for is a pattern of behavior, and if her actions continue to not line up with her words, then that's when you know she cannot be trusted. And in that kind of situation, I personally would just get the hell away from her. And if someone keeps talking about how honest they are, that's when a red flag should go up, because somebody who is truly honest will not feel a need to say so, especially on a constant basis. Same thing if someone says: "I've got nothing to hide", because people who truly don't have nothing to hide will not feel a need to say so.
Coach Corey Wayne it actually sounds like your talking about my girlfriend she is married but I caught her a few days ago in a small lie that she admitted but then try to backup out of it cuz it was kinda a big deal but not a big deal long story but her that lie just set me off but over it and she has 2kids and a husband that makes money she says that she is looking for a 3 bedroom home for us will leave him but my friends and definitely this video gave me a good punch to the face and I realized it also along time ago she says that he is a 3sec wonder and sucks and has pitty sex and hasn't touched him for the 10months we've been dating all but 3 or 4 times and he is a Jehovah Witness but she is not anymore so cuz of the money he makes he will take it out the kids so basically she is just telling me what I want to hear so she doesn't loose a good sex partner but holy crap the sex is the best I've ever had and I listened to your videos and I'm just loosing my mind cuz even though I'm 27 I have seriously never felt anything like this before and now I feel stupid but we both do MMA fighting and that's how we met but awesome sex awesome tits awesome body everything awesome about her well almost everything when she is feeding me that bullshit when he is gone she is just going to pack up and leave I should know better cuz she is just toying with my emotions
Coach Corey if you see this plz reach out to me... wrote a whole page letters to a girl for 90 days... some were front and back.. she drifted off I need help 😪
It's hard to trust women anymore, especially if they use all these social media sites. It's super easy for a woman to message someone online and for a man to message her. Like if she is still using Tinder or things like that, while you are dating, I mean you might as well quit playing detective and just put her in her place. On top of that, if she knows a lot of people or has a lot of guy friends, then you pretty much know what's up.
This is what I've just been through with my ex. Worst relationship I've ever been. 3 times I caught her chatting up blokes on dating sites. Ran to exs when things got bad. Had ex fuck buddies as mates. It's only now that I've escaped and using the no contact rule I've seen things for what they really are.
What I love most about 3% man is that it screens out women that are low-class so you can find the women of your dreams. The women of your dreams won’t use gaslighting, lies, etc to get what they want.
Yup! They think that because most guys don’t listen carefully to them, they’re safe. They also don’t realize that they cannot overcome the subconscious urge to say shit, until after they slip up. All a guy has to do is pay attention. This is a 2 way street, however. Guys sometimes give themselves up the same way.
I appreciate your unsympathetic perspective on this issue. I don't like the idea of being encouraged to sympathize with someone who lies to you about something having to do with an intimate and serious relationship that you gave your heart to. Some may determine that those liars could be cut some slack due to whatever circumstances may be at hand BUT no liar in a serious relationship deserves such courtesy.
Corey, you da man, man... Your advice is straight up on par with what I needed to hear.. Thanks for the help of pulling my head out of my ass and making me see things a little clearer.. Keep up the excellent work!
i had the same women for seven years. always full of drama. finally she left me :) because when ever i tried to leave her then she stared carrying that what i will do without you i will die. ahh thanks to GOD. she is annoying another man now. feeling sorry for him but im sure he did something wrong at his past life. thanks to you couch.
A girl I was dating and ended things with once told me that she had to lie a lot for a past job she had in Cali and that she was really good at it although it eats at her conscious when she lies to someone she cares for. At the end she really didn't care because after I told her I was walking away and left the door open she sent me a text the next day that she met a guy earlier in the week and that she called him for a date that night and he was a great guy and that they were going out the next day. I realize she was lining up my replacement now and that instead of focusing on her it's best I focus on dating other girls that I'm more compatible with appreciate me more.
try marrying one and having a kid with her........total constant nightmare.......wouldnt wish it on my worse enemy (and I have many) thanks for sharing sir.....your very correct
I’m going through the same thing. 9 months and she lies about everything and she’s still stuck on an ex that she lies about communicating with. We fussed about the same dude or other dudes the whole relationship. She just can’t be honest and lies to avoid fussing smh.
I went through the same thing every single EX every time she saw when she give him a big hug then slide into DMs then she looks hot still and she would lie about it say she deleted it when she didn't I finally left her phone found treasure Trove deceit
Also when she left I pawned all her stuff and threw the rest of it away let her start a new life .... Probably was a mistake but blew her file cabinet up with some tannorite which is legal where I live I thinklol
Been there, done that. Twice. Second time there was a kid involved. I honestly think women like this need punched right in the fucking mouth. Fuck the jail time. They need punished, that's why these cunts keep doing this shit. Because they know there will be no repercussions that they can't smile and walk away from.
The point made at 4:50 applies to most people. Anytime a person tells you something and follows it with "trust me", "you can believe me", "I promise", "I swear" or any similar reinforcer, it's because they consciously or more often, unconsciously believe that you don't believe them or that you have doubts. "Dad, can I borrow the car. I promise I'll be careful." There is usually a reason we use reinforcement in our speech.
Caught my wife lying about where she was and confronted her and she lied 2 more times and then I called her out on those lies.. finally she admitted she wasn't at the gym but at her bosses house who was supposedly helping her workout. But at first she tried to say it was a woman trainer from the gyms house.
Thanks corey every time I get my oneitis back I juts look up some videos like this and keep reading your book and it takes me back to reality. Looking forward to write you an email in the near future so you can have another great success story to tell🙏
No one is trust worthy, the secret is not making assumptions of the future without proof. If someone tell you they will run a marathon and they cant even walk up the stairs, its okay to believe in them, but you don't have to believe them. Believe in women, but do not make bets on it. Make your life in such a way it doesn't matter whether they were truthful or not.
In the end you are awsome Corey great advice and that comes from a man that been and met a lot of women and what you speak of in youre videos are so fcn spot on Thanks for everything
This story is in your book, that sexy woman who learned to be manipulative? I've listened to your book on 1.35x speed so far 23 times... Since I've changed MY attitude we are doing good and we are treating each other lovingly. Thanks coach. Your book is amazing and same time I've earned like 25 badges.
She asked me to come and meet her , I v travelled 1200 KM. And she said I m unable to make it , I m sorry , I m crying , and blah blah. She has started talking well smarter that , but I felt like I was deceived.ever since it happened I m not whole hearted
Great video Corey. Its good to see men like you and myself trying to help men open their eyes on women and relationships in todays world. A few little facts that men should comes to terms with before jumping into your next you getting fucked over relationship. Fact. 95% of ALL relationships that end are because the female left him for another guy. Fact. 98%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of ALL divorces are filed by the FEMALE 90% of the time to go be with another man and 8 out of 10 married woman that do stay married to their husbands cheat on them over and over and over again............................Women are VERY VERY SNEAKY and will go to greats lengths to get their side cock..................................... Let all this soak in and take your time and dont ever rush anything if she is trying to make you. Get to know her and feel her out to see what kind of person she really is.............Use your brain and not just your eyes.....................................................
Hey Coach, Love your work even though I have to study it a lot more! Once I had a girlfriend and things weren't going so well. It was on/off for a while, and we were on the point of breaking up again. Then I met an absolute gorgeous lady, sexy as hell and there was chemistry. I could have had her but my moral compas told me otherwise. I didn't cheat because I thought it was more important to be able to look myself in the eye. It is a big principle for me and something I am proud off. However I find it odd that many people don't see it that way. When I am dating girls they often tell me that they cheated on past boyfriends and then go on and tell me how it was basically their own fault, because the guy didn't treat them well enough. It's a red flag for me (multpile red flags actually), but I often get the feeling that I am the outlier in the story. Like cheating is the norm nowadays, something to be proud of even, or that it's a healthy variety to keep them sane/excited or something. I am often dissapointed in that regard because in my book once a cheater, always a cheater. I never tell them that but I tell them the story how my dad cheated on my mum and that I didn't speak to him for 2 years, and hope they get the message. Sometimes stories of chicks get so crazy with escapades and things that I am thinking... do you tell me this shit to mention your social value or do you want to just tell me to stay the f**k away from you because you're such a nutjob?
06:50 I was in same situation. She is diagnosed BPD and Fearful Avoidant. Think about it, they had a fight and she contacted an ex, she was basically getting a backup Incase these two broke up she would have an instant rebound. This woman is a Daddy's girl and wasn't given proper discipline as a child. She probably strives more for her daddy's approval more than her man's
Sounds like my ex wife and an ex girlfriends😂. Divorce and enjoying open relationships is freedom! It's a prescription for for peace of mind. Thanks for sharing your insight and wisdom as a MAN that i'm sure many of us can relate to and appreciate.👍
All fun until they hit the wall And become bitter towards men because men don't pay attention to them anymore, meanwhile old men are banging these worthless young hoes and treating them like the shit they are
The exact same thing happened to me. The girl was ultra-feminist, alternative type, very sexually liberated, but well educated and smart, very funny and sexy as fuck. I fell in love pretty quickly because of thoses latest traits. She was a full on narcissist, into social medias, needed a lot of attention, but on the other hand she was bragging about her morals, about female empowerement, about how guys treated her like shit in the past, etc...Later on, our relationship was great but still I caught her multiple times flirting with other guys etc... She drove me completely mad to the point I lost my self-esteem and of course I would doubt anything that she would say. In the end I decided that it was enough, I wanted to catch her red handed so she couldnt deny her true nature. I created a fake tinder account, choosing pictures of a guy who was matching her "taste". She matched me maybe 20 minutes after that, she came talking to my fake profile right away, she said that she dumped her bf etc... So "I" said that I was cheating on my gf, and she was completely outraged, she said "how can I trust a guy like you if you have this kind of behaviour". That shit was hilarious and scaring at the same time. Then I just texted her, to come take her stuff and to leave. She blew up my phone and was completely mad, she didnt understand etc... I'm not too proud of myself, but I'm glad it finally ended up.
I'm very proud of you, you are clever and have the balls to kick that piece of crap to the curb, most guys nowadays will let these hoes behave however they want
Spot on! You might say to yourself oh it was only a small lie in the beginning, but you just wait you'll start seeing more little lies and pretty soon more and more get the f*** out of there when you can! Don't even give them the time of day, they have no integrity!
Hold on a moment. Did I hear she was texting another guy and there was more to discuss? No, there is in fact, ZERO to discuss. The first woman I ever gave a chance with... One we were going to get married... Was loyal to me for 10 months. She called me every day. It was exhausting. When a woman is attractive as she was a man will attempt to justify this crazy insecurity as just quirky. Fellas.... Not a man here, would not want to be with this woman from a physical standpoint. You should see her mother! They both live in the Newport Beach area. I personally really like the people in this part of the country. Very respectful, polite and cool to me. I felt "home" for the first time. I had bought this woman a $75,000 4 Carrot ring. She was not even aware of my true worth. However, she knew I was a very successful CEO. I HAD NEVER IN MY LIFE, FELT THE want to make someone else happy. I liked buying her I think 100 roses the first time (first gift) three months in.. She bought me, gave me for valentines day after three weeks of knowing her a really cool box with stuffed animals, cards, chocolates. I thought that was very sweet. I was a little startled to see a $100.oo gift card in there... Oh, I did spend like $500 on a Tiffany's bracelet for her. I forgot... Hands down the most I ever spent on a woman. In fact... Take all that I had ever spent on a women... Minus dinners... and in 39 years it did not equal that. I do not buy a woman's affections. Anyways, a week later.. I found another $100.oo dollar gift card in their... Now, that concerned me. Although, her family is very wealthy... It made me feel like... Is she baiting me so that I spend more? Or did she really love me? Looking back, I was a fool. It was all a show. We both have allot of money. I make it, she comes from it... No women are as wealthy as she is where I am from. Her moms house was in architecture digest the month we met. I did not care about the money. I liked her calmness and what appeared to be a very stable mind. All lies. Anyways, Ill wrap this up... I cared about this woman more than anyone ever. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. However, as fate would have it. I had a prescribed medical reaction to drug that almost killed me. She turned on me... Ignored me. Showed me zero compassion accused me of a life style completely contradictory to my proven success record.. However, I never snoop. I had a dream from the man upstairs, warning me of the deception. I investigated... She simply was talking to a loser. That really shocked me the most. However after learning of the deception.. I instantly started to vomit? I was sickened literally by the betrayal. I called her and told her it was over. Any other man would have tried to make it work. Let me explain something... You as a man and human being will NEVER accept compromising yourself and your worth. She thought because I sold my company I was poor? It was just about money. I almost died. Lost everything... three and a half years later, I am a millionaire now and very content. NEVER EVER SEEK MEDEOCRACY. NEVER EVER COMPROMISE YOUR SPIRIT AND SOUL. BETRAYAL IS REMOVAL. EJECT THE PERSON. THEY ARE BAD PEOPLE AND NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU.
She said she & her husband were separated but while on a business trip when I called she was with her husband, then my basketball buddy said he had a fling with her while she was married.
Deception 101 - The 8 Types of it Fabrication (Liars) - a statement that is known or intended by its source to be misleading, inaccurate, or false. Concealment: the action of hiding something or preventing it from being known. Equivocation / Misrepresentation: It is the misleading use of a term with more than one meaning or sense (by glossing over which meaning is intended at a particular time). Omission: leaving out consequential pieces of information in one’s story. Avoidance: is a maladaptive coping mechanism characterized by the effort to avoid dealing with a stressor. Deflection - Bringing up an unrelated event done by someone else. (A) Implication that there is something wrong in bringing up the subject - Statements like "Here we go again", "You sound like a broken record", "You're beating a dead horse". (B) Changing the subject is a common strategy - "Let's talk about something else". Minimization: downplaying the significance of an event or emotion. It is a common strategy in dealing with feelings of guilt. (Minimization is a type of deception involving denial coupled with rationalisation in situations where complete denial is implausible.) Exaggeration: inflating or overstating information that is true in principle.
Before cell phones, this guy calls my house asking for my girlfriend i said who's this tells me don't worry about, she trys to tell me this guy got her number from the job, i said HR does not give out phones numbers to sucrity gards who are trying to hook up with nurses, so the point is she looks me right in the face and lies like 99% of them do
Dam just in the first few minute I said dam this is so true after catching my wife cheating and Lying for 2 months straight now the guy is dead and she is silent with me crazy shit
After your fall, if or when you ever get back up on your feet, after weathering the constant storm and barrage of unexpected unwarranted undeserving attacks and defamations, when you make it to a point where you can stop and take that "HOLY SHIT" DEEP breath. You will go into an "analysis" period. You were trying the whole time the horrific nightmarish events were taking place to decipher and understand why it was happening. Being in a state of shock, super charged and distrought with confusion, betrayal, attacks on you emotionally, financially, your reputation and your character, you couldn't deduce any of it and was stuck with that one word that will bury you In a tomb of madness.. WHY?? If we had just known or had someone to tell us to move out of that stage, the WHY stage is dangerous and counterproductive at best. Put a reason on it no matter what it may be, you would and will have some ideas and can make intelligent assessments so you can answer that one word soul decaying question of WHY. That way whether you chalked it to chemical imbalance, won't take bipolar pills, split personalities, she is victim of generations of satanic ritual abuse, or ordinary garden variety run of the mill Demon possession, or she is just plain and simply put, a Bat shit crazy bottom feeding whelp of a slithering double tongued heathen! You will never fully move out of the analysis stage, but it will become a state that is triggered by a memory alert. A song, a place, a smell, any mention of a successful happy marriage, foods, little things that were shared so intimately between two devoted lovers. That's where the problem lies with all disastrous break ups and divorces. Men have things women don't, and they aren't capable of having. At least the vast majority aren't and the few who have these things, only have them because their father displayed these things and she grew up admiring her dad mainly because of these things. So she might, Might I say, exhibit shreds of them. These things men have that they don't, and the reason WHY they can go from most trusted lover and friend to your very worst enemy trying to erase you with lies and attacks. Because Men have instilled in them Inherit gender traits called Moral Code Qualities. The things handed down through example and genetics. LOYALTY! HONOR! COURAGE! INTEGRITY! DIGNITY! CHIVALRY! AND THE CATYLYST WHICH MAKES ALL OTHERS POSSIBLE, TRUTH! Some men don't display the truth many times and that affects his abilities to display other qualities. But it's proven that his reasoning comes from a forced societal mindset which is inflicted on men by evil vindictive women, putting him in a "Do into them before they do into me" state of mind, or for a better term, Survival Mode! Hang in there my brothers, head up, shoulders back, weather the storms and remember where you come from and the battles fought and won to get you where you are. And the most important thing there is, if you have children, especially You with Sons, DO NOT let these demonic feminist swine demasculinate your Man Child!!! Do You Understand?? Read a book., an article, a website, ask Pappaw for help, whatever it takes because our way of life is barely hanging on by a thread, our country is in peril because of Them! Men Helping Men! Men Encouraging Men! Men Raising Men! #MENS-LIVES-MATTER!!
Receiving someone like this causes mental distress orders which you can make lawsuits for you guys should look into it all guys should start looking into it PTSD is not just caused from going to war
Bad advice as a warrior and disabled honorably served veteran you can't be more further from the truth...they target PTSD to take away your freedom and kids every vet that is awake knows this...they are pounding the PTSD thing hard nowadays, it's been known by many different names shell shock battle trauma you name it now they got feminist saying that because they heard veterans stories they have secondary PTSD I am not lying about this had an Indian liberal idiot psychologist tell me that so why I'm getting shot at bomb blown up you know that can be cured but her PTSD we need to give her money in conversation for since she heard all these bad stories give me a break
But what do you do once you've passed that stage of falling in love, and they're all you want to the point that without them you would only take death. But you still know they're deceiving you and everytime she gets caught with evidence the lies flow without care to the point that it's become a part of her personality?
you can tell when someone says something and doesn't mean it. we as men have the GUT feeling. TRUST IT. it's hard when you like someone though. ugh.
Same bro
So hard, you accept getting played hoping things change lol.
Yeah! So true. Even if you don't have any reason to suspect anything you can feel when someone lies to you. The energy is sensed by the body. Even through texting. Always trust your gut feeling guys!
I resisted this feeling for 3 years, I knew something was wrong since the beginning, she always pointed the finger at me saying I was insecure, toxic, jealous, Blablabla, that she was a loyal girl and that I should talk about her past Blablabla...
Once a cheater, always a cheater, once a lyar, always a lyar... She ended up blindsiding me and she neever looked back, we just moved from Europe to Mexico because she liked the country, we were talking about adopting a dog and buying a car and make a long term rental contract few weeks earlier.
I suppressed my feeling for so long, my body was telling me something was wrong. I resisted it and I did hurt my self esteem, I hided from awareness and conciousness, I was hiding. This lack of awareness made me have burst of anger, I will never ever again surrender myself for a relationship, never
I have never met a woman who wasn't full of deceit and lies
Same, I try to go for the good ones and get the bad ones
There are many genuine women out there
@benjianubis Nope all women are the same shit. Difrent artist but same tunes
Women believe lies. It’s always been that way...
“For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.”
1 Timothy 2:13-14 KJV
some women deserve a place in heaven,.maybe you have your issues and you are uncounciously looking for that prototype.. I know because I do the same
If a woman ever says " I don't do that " ......they do.
I dont jump from relationship to relationship" is what I was told lol.. Yeah chick, you just f*** most of em but they arent stupid enough to settle with you like I was
David Mcgrew I agree to 95%
@TheSushiraw what does it mean when a taken lady tells another man she has feelings for him, she wanted him????
@TheSushiraw sometimes it means they hate you. Trust me :)
Lmao, a women said this to me today when i asked her about something that happened "of course not why will u think that it was me?" Lmaoo, i read your comment and looks exactly the same as she said hahaha
When they lie, even with evidence..best thing to do is keep your heart away from her.
Good
@Jesse Carson Are we, men that bad??
You could have a gun to their head and they will die with the lie 😭
Yep, caught her sending pics to a man friend. Claimed she meant to send the to me.
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Caught mine in the desert with a coworker of hers. Met up with him a few weeks later and he stated nothing happened.
This is too similar of a past relationship. Be objective as possible! I fell for one even though there were millions of signs. Her relationship with her father, constant flirting with other guys, little white lies, no accountability, etc. I Ignored all the signs until one day I looked at her phone and found out she had met a guy while I was out of town for a week. It explained why she wasn't texting me that much, why her phone was on her 24/7 when I got back and why she was placing her phone screen side down on a table everytime I was around. When I confronted her, she came up with every excuse possible, even said I was probably cheating on her! I didn't care whether she was sleeping with this guy or not, I just left her. I was more ashamed of myself for not being smarter. But sometimes you have to live and learn.
Sounds exactly like what my ex did to me. Sad af man
same thing to me bro hahaha
My girl was sleeping with her phone under her pillow. She said it was to keep from waking me up..lol. She had no problem waking me for sex when she wanted.
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
@circa blonk - Not at all. You can still have very deep profound feelings for them. You can ratchet up as they do. You exercise your emotional intelligence by taking things slowly and seeing if they give you reciprocity and consistency. All relationships eventually end. My 97 year old cousin recently lost his wife of 80 years. You have to live more for the moments and control yourself. If what you’re getting isn’t what you want or need, you control the only thing you can, and that’s yourself.
@@bigneiltoo - Absolutely!! The comments I made above co-exist with those perfect moments, and do not exclude them. One still needs to go slowly and build trust, through mutual consistency, honesty and respect. If you’re not getting what you need, then you have to be willing to walk away.
Have fun chasing wah-men, I'll be busy chasing trout with my fly rod.
Video was made 10 years ago and it’s still very relevant. The game don’t change, just the players.
amen
Never caught that! Wow
@@Brazen_knighthuh what spunk
The Technical Term is Narcissism.
Only one woman that truly has your best interests at heart and that's Momma. True & Unconditional. No strings attached.
Ever heard of narcissistic parents?
"Never mow another man's lawn." I love seeing that, as uncommon as it is, there's still a code of honour among some men not to mess around with another man's girl. I've always had this philosophy as well it's never sat well seeing some men adopt the all's fair in love and war approach.
Along the same lines, a girl I dated for awhile. Would always say, oh I don't play mind games. Shes a very loyal person. She literally turned out to be the biggest mind f roll coaster. I have experienced.... So yeah if a woman says I don't do that, and she's trying to make a point of it. She's trying to mask something she does. Live and learn
My ex is getting engaged with the guy she cheated on me with. I just want to wish her and that guy all the best. lol
tegsar88 when I was with my ex she has us all hanging out together he was just a friend. When she dumped me a week later she moved in with him lol. Bitch. Now she moved in with another dude. But she still wants to keep tabs on me n got jealous when I posted a pic of me and some female
tegsar88 Don't worry Bro cause Karma will sting em both in the ass real soon.
gblueslover2 don't dwell on all that. Trust yourself and let them destroy themselves. You win if you move on.
You’re hurt.
You're stupid lol
I've lived my life seeing full up close examples of people who will lie until they die and it makes me very distrustful towards almost anyone I meet making me take precautions before speaking.
The girl I loved her Deeply for 6 years , she used to see her Ex behind my back , i never trust any woman this days !
Never date a woman who deletes all her messages....
anonymousmathenge dude, I never thought it was a problem until I asked her to prove to me that she got a certain text message. That’s when she tells me that she deletes all of her messages. BS. Only when I wanted to see something were they deleted.
Girls that delete their messages are the worst and they will gaslight you and make you feel like your going crazy because you don’t have proof.
Had an ex that will put her cell face down all the time when I will ask her why she will say what’s wrong with that it’s normal and I exaggerated and was controlling lol really
Hahaha, never date a guy that reads all your messages too.hahaha
@@nevmcc3884 we don't have to worry about that because no one will date you you and your cats
lying to anyone about anything is a complete waste of time you will have short term victory however you will have long term grief and a life of unhappiness , one way to happiness and it is hard to achieve not easy is being in reality and talking honestly and openly no matter how hard the subject can be, if you are going to open your mouth and lie you are best to just not say anything
"some other dude was farming your lawn while you were away." hahah lol
Sounds helpful 😁😁
What a nice guy ! 😃
I just learned my lesson (after two years) with "THAT" girl!! Thank you! I love your work!!
This video brightens my day! Oh my God I cried laughing at the "what a nice guy"
agree with you to 100%..I'm only 36 years old and i found out 3 years ago what women really are and their small "secrets" they always have..they can't help it..it's simply their nature...my dream is to have a family and get married but hey, it's never gonna happend cause to marrie someone needs 100% trust for the women and only idiots and amateurs trusts women..
There you go old timer you’re so right. Women don’t mean you well and you can never fully trust them
What a Woman says and what a Woman does a two very different things. Great expression
"Another guy was farming your lawn while you were away"😂😂😂😂
I really enjoy Coach Corey Wayne videos even after many years
Stay objective for the first three to six months. Listen to what she says, then watch what she does, and see if her actions line up with her words. People who are truly genuine, their actions will line up with their words.
If her actions don't match up with her words, don't ignore it... as you'll be sorry you did!
Keep in mind though that everyone is not perfect, and we all make mistakes, so don't judge her the first time it happens. What you are looking for is a pattern of behavior, and if her actions continue to not line up with her words, then that's when you know she cannot be trusted.
And in that kind of situation, I personally would just get the hell away from her.
And if someone keeps talking about how honest they are, that's when a red flag should go up, because somebody who is truly honest will not feel a need to say so, especially on a constant basis.
Same thing if someone says: "I've got nothing to hide", because people who truly don't have nothing to hide will not feel a need to say so.
Best advice
Spot on
but you can't control her actions
Glad I could make you laugh :)
Coach Corey Wayne it actually sounds like your talking about my girlfriend she is married but I caught her a few days ago in a small lie that she admitted but then try to backup out of it cuz it was kinda a big deal but not a big deal long story but her that lie just set me off but over it and she has 2kids and a husband that makes money she says that she is looking for a 3 bedroom home for us will leave him but my friends and definitely this video gave me a good punch to the face and I realized it also along time ago she says that he is a 3sec wonder and sucks and has pitty sex and hasn't touched him for the 10months we've been dating all but 3 or 4 times and he is a Jehovah Witness but she is not anymore so cuz of the money he makes he will take it out the kids so basically she is just telling me what I want to hear so she doesn't loose a good sex partner but holy crap the sex is the best I've ever had and I listened to your videos and I'm just loosing my mind cuz even though I'm 27 I have seriously never felt anything like this before and now I feel stupid but we both do MMA fighting and that's how we met but awesome sex awesome tits awesome body everything awesome about her well almost everything when she is feeding me that bullshit when he is gone she is just going to pack up and leave I should know better cuz she is just toying with my emotions
Coach Corey if you see this plz reach out to me... wrote a whole page letters to a girl for 90 days... some were front and back.. she drifted off I need help 😪
You are the truth Corey
It's hard to trust women anymore, especially if they use all these social media sites. It's super easy for a woman to message someone online and for a man to message her. Like if she is still using Tinder or things like that, while you are dating, I mean you might as well quit playing detective and just put her in her place. On top of that, if she knows a lot of people or has a lot of guy friends, then you pretty much know what's up.
This is what I've just been through with my ex. Worst relationship I've ever been. 3 times I caught her chatting up blokes on dating sites. Ran to exs when things got bad. Had ex fuck buddies as mates. It's only now that I've escaped and using the no contact rule I've seen things for what they really are.
What I love most about 3% man is that it screens out women that are low-class so you can find the women of your dreams. The women of your dreams won’t use gaslighting, lies, etc to get what they want.
Are you kidding? The minute they mention anything about someone else, look out.
Yep, they love snitching on themselves.. if they're mentioning another dude, they're thinking about another dude.. and that's enough excuse to dip.
If she brings up a guy more than once that she had never brought up before, good chance she's going after it.
@@johnpatrick3458 she already went after it
Yup! They think that because most guys don’t listen carefully to them, they’re safe. They also don’t realize that they cannot overcome the subconscious urge to say shit, until after they slip up. All a guy has to do is pay attention. This is a 2 way street, however. Guys sometimes give themselves up the same way.
@@BadBarbarian yeah just reflect on what they say
This is eleven years ago and you were almost always on point. Good to have you still here.
I appreciate your unsympathetic perspective on this issue. I don't like the idea of being encouraged to sympathize with someone who lies to you about something having to do with an intimate and serious relationship that you gave your heart to. Some may determine that those liars could be cut some slack due to whatever circumstances may be at hand BUT no liar in a serious relationship deserves such courtesy.
Corey, you da man, man... Your advice is straight up on par with what I needed to hear.. Thanks for the help of pulling my head out of my ass and making me see things a little clearer.. Keep up the excellent work!
i had the same women for seven years. always full of drama. finally she left me :) because when ever i tried to leave her then she stared carrying that what i will do without you i will die. ahh thanks to GOD. she is annoying another man now. feeling sorry for him but im sure he did something wrong at his past life. thanks to you couch.
A girl I was dating and ended things with once told me that she had to lie a lot for a past job she had in Cali and that she was really good at it although it eats at her conscious when she lies to someone she cares for. At the end she really didn't care because after I told her I was walking away and left the door open she sent me a text the next day that she met a guy earlier in the week and that she called him for a date that night and he was a great guy and that they were going out the next day. I realize she was lining up my replacement now and that instead of focusing on her it's best I focus on dating other girls that I'm more compatible with appreciate me more.
Chris you gotta leave her alone as much as it hurts it'll get worse trust me
That's. Y. I hit it and disappear real quick. Before it gets to a certain point
try marrying one and having a kid with her........total constant nightmare.......wouldnt wish it on my worse enemy (and I have many)
thanks for sharing sir.....your very correct
change that man! Life is short...
And you’re very illiterate 🤣.
Your objective point of view is astounding. Much appreciated video brother.
So much wisdom in this. After reading 3% Man 20 times I can see what the guy is doing wrong , needs to stop whining and get his shit together.
this guy is the shit, glad I stumbled upon his videos
I’m going through the same thing. 9 months and she lies about everything and she’s still stuck on an ex that she lies about communicating with. We fussed about the same dude or other dudes the whole relationship. She just can’t be honest and lies to avoid fussing smh.
What did you end up doin?
I went through the same thing every single EX every time she saw when she give him a big hug then slide into DMs then she looks hot still and she would lie about it say she deleted it when she didn't I finally left her phone found treasure Trove deceit
Why didn't she tell me???!!!!....because she wanted to get some bone on the side and still keep you around for the boyfriend thing! DUGH!
Also when she left I pawned all her stuff and threw the rest of it away let her start a new life .... Probably was a mistake but blew her file cabinet up with some tannorite which is legal where I live I thinklol
How I felt , feel like a idiot trying to make a relationship like this work
Preach! They can lie for long periods of time also. Anxiety and fears. You nailed it!
wow I'm living all this right now
I hope I haven't reached you too late... GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THAT BITCH!!!
PaulGreen11 😂😂😂you're too raw my g
PaulGreen11 I am currently getting away now
Been there, done that. Twice. Second time there was a kid involved. I honestly think women like this need punched right in the fucking mouth. Fuck the jail time. They need punished, that's why these cunts keep doing this shit. Because they know there will be no repercussions that they can't smile and walk away from.
Yes bruh
The point made at 4:50 applies to most people. Anytime a person tells you something and follows it with "trust me", "you can believe me", "I promise", "I swear" or any similar reinforcer, it's because they consciously or more often, unconsciously believe that you don't believe them or that you have doubts. "Dad, can I borrow the car. I promise I'll be careful." There is usually a reason we use reinforcement in our speech.
Caught my wife lying about where she was and confronted her and she lied 2 more times and then I called her out on those lies.. finally she admitted she wasn't at the gym but at her bosses house who was supposedly helping her workout. But at first she tried to say it was a woman trainer from the gyms house.
That's when you ruin both their lives...have fun bitch when your boss loose his business and she looses her job and realationshit.
Sounds like she’s 100% a cheater, that’s just crazy man.
She screwed him brooooo
Thanks corey every time I get my oneitis back I juts look up some videos like this and keep reading your book and it takes me back to reality. Looking forward to write you an email in the near future so you can have another great success story to tell🙏
Some other dude was farming your lawn. I love that! Good one Coach! Jajajaja
This is for me. Been with a untrustworthy woman. Lied about cheating.
Keep up the good work sir and protect innocent and good men
yo I'm in 2020 n this shit is like a bible verse right now....thank you fam
Very old video but you're great Corey! You're the part of my father he never showed!!
I freaking love this video! I watch it over and over...lol I'm embarrassed to say I was that guy too.
Thanks for opening up my eyes
No one is trust worthy, the secret is not making assumptions of the future without proof. If someone tell you they will run a marathon and they cant even walk up the stairs, its okay to believe in them, but you don't have to believe them. Believe in women, but do not make bets on it. Make your life in such a way it doesn't matter whether they were truthful or not.
they dont lie, they get their facts confused..I thought everyone knew that? lol
No. They turn the story back around and make you think you are imagining things or blowing things out of proportion
😭
or like my wife, she doesnt lie, she CHANGES HER MIND.
True so they can say they aren't lieing
Your my hero I wish I knew you before I even met my ex I just broke up with lol
Thanks Corey your words are right on track , past behavour ,reflection of presant behaviour
The type of person he describes only lies more they get to know you and less when they don't know you.
Thats deep and very helpful. Thanks!
In the end you are awsome Corey great advice and that comes from a man that been and met a lot of women and what you speak of in youre videos are so fcn spot on Thanks for everything
This man is a hero for real
This story is in your book, that sexy woman who learned to be manipulative? I've listened to your book on 1.35x speed so far 23 times... Since I've changed MY attitude we are doing good and we are treating each other lovingly. Thanks coach. Your book is amazing and same time I've earned like 25 badges.
A person is only as trustworthy as his/her options.
She asked me to come and meet her , I v travelled 1200 KM. And she said I m unable to make it , I m sorry , I m crying , and blah blah. She has started talking well smarter that , but I felt like I was deceived.ever since it happened I m not whole hearted
"Put the Crack pipe down!" LMAOOOO !! Legend l.
"put the Fu(#ing crack pipe down right now" hahaha, well said Corey.
i love the comment section sometimes.
Great video Corey. Its good to see men like you and myself trying to help men open their eyes on women and relationships in todays world. A few little facts that men should comes to terms with before jumping into your next you getting fucked over relationship. Fact. 95% of ALL relationships that end are because the female left him for another guy. Fact. 98%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of ALL divorces are filed by the FEMALE 90% of the time to go be with another man and 8 out of 10 married woman that do stay married to their husbands cheat on them over and over and over again............................Women are VERY VERY SNEAKY and will go to greats lengths to get their side cock..................................... Let all this soak in and take your time and dont ever rush anything if she is trying to make you. Get to know her and feel her out to see what kind of person she really is.............Use your brain and not just your eyes.....................................................
The minute you hear "the nice guy" run like a quarerback!! That means you are qualified for her B/S.
Hey Coach, Love your work even though I have to study it a lot more! Once I had a girlfriend and things weren't going so well. It was on/off for a while, and we were on the point of breaking up again. Then I met an absolute gorgeous lady, sexy as hell and there was chemistry. I could have had her but my moral compas told me otherwise. I didn't cheat because I thought it was more important to be able to look myself in the eye. It is a big principle for me and something I am proud off.
However I find it odd that many people don't see it that way. When I am dating girls they often tell me that they cheated on past boyfriends and then go on and tell me how it was basically their own fault, because the guy didn't treat them well enough. It's a red flag for me (multpile red flags actually), but I often get the feeling that I am the outlier in the story. Like cheating is the norm nowadays, something to be proud of even, or that it's a healthy variety to keep them sane/excited or something. I am often dissapointed in that regard because in my book once a cheater, always a cheater. I never tell them that but I tell them the story how my dad cheated on my mum and that I didn't speak to him for 2 years, and hope they get the message.
Sometimes stories of chicks get so crazy with escapades and things that I am thinking... do you tell me this shit to mention your social value or do you want to just tell me to stay the f**k away from you because you're such a nutjob?
WHAT A NICE GUY!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
06:50 I was in same situation. She is diagnosed BPD and Fearful Avoidant. Think about it, they had a fight and she contacted an ex, she was basically getting a backup Incase these two broke up she would have an instant rebound. This woman is a Daddy's girl and wasn't given proper discipline as a child. She probably strives more for her daddy's approval more than her man's
Sounds like my ex wife and an ex girlfriends😂. Divorce and enjoying open relationships is freedom! It's a prescription for for peace of mind. Thanks for sharing your insight and wisdom as a MAN that i'm sure many of us can relate to and appreciate.👍
All fun until they hit the wall And become bitter towards men because men don't pay attention to them anymore, meanwhile old men are banging these worthless young hoes and treating them like the shit they are
The exact same thing happened to me. The girl was ultra-feminist, alternative type, very sexually liberated, but well educated and smart, very funny and sexy as fuck. I fell in love pretty quickly because of thoses latest traits. She was a full on narcissist, into social medias, needed a lot of attention, but on the other hand she was bragging about her morals, about female empowerement, about how guys treated her like shit in the past, etc...Later on, our relationship was great but still I caught her multiple times flirting with other guys etc... She drove me completely mad to the point I lost my self-esteem and of course I would doubt anything that she would say. In the end I decided that it was enough, I wanted to catch her red handed so she couldnt deny her true nature. I created a fake tinder account, choosing pictures of a guy who was matching her "taste". She matched me maybe 20 minutes after that, she came talking to my fake profile right away, she said that she dumped her bf etc... So "I" said that I was cheating on my gf, and she was completely outraged, she said "how can I trust a guy like you if you have this kind of behaviour". That shit was hilarious and scaring at the same time. Then I just texted her, to come take her stuff and to leave. She blew up my phone and was completely mad, she didnt understand etc... I'm not too proud of myself, but I'm glad it finally ended up.
I'm very proud of you, you are clever and have the balls to kick that piece of crap to the curb, most guys nowadays will let these hoes behave however they want
Spot on! You might say to yourself oh it was only a small lie in the beginning, but you just wait you'll start seeing more little lies and pretty soon more and more get the f*** out of there when you can! Don't even give them the time of day, they have no integrity!
This resonates more then you could know
6:25 What A Nice A Guy !!! LMFAOOO
Timmydahitman Beats dead
Hold on a moment. Did I hear she was texting another guy and there was more to discuss? No, there is in fact, ZERO to discuss. The first woman I ever gave a chance with... One we were going to get married... Was loyal to me for 10 months. She called me every day. It was exhausting. When a woman is attractive as she was a man will attempt to justify this crazy insecurity as just quirky. Fellas.... Not a man here, would not want to be with this woman from a physical standpoint. You should see her mother! They both live in the Newport Beach area. I personally really like the people in this part of the country. Very respectful, polite and cool to me. I felt "home" for the first time. I had bought this woman a $75,000 4 Carrot ring. She was not even aware of my true worth. However, she knew I was a very successful CEO. I HAD NEVER IN MY LIFE, FELT THE want to make someone else happy. I liked buying her I think 100 roses the first time (first gift) three months in.. She bought me, gave me for valentines day after three weeks of knowing her a really cool box with stuffed animals, cards, chocolates. I thought that was very sweet. I was a little startled to see a $100.oo gift card in there... Oh, I did spend like $500 on a Tiffany's bracelet for her. I forgot... Hands down the most I ever spent on a woman. In fact... Take all that I had ever spent on a women... Minus dinners... and in 39 years it did not equal that. I do not buy a woman's affections. Anyways, a week later.. I found another $100.oo dollar gift card in their... Now, that concerned me. Although, her family is very wealthy... It made me feel like... Is she baiting me so that I spend more? Or did she really love me? Looking back, I was a fool. It was all a show. We both have allot of money. I make it, she comes from it... No women are as wealthy as she is where I am from. Her moms house was in architecture digest the month we met. I did not care about the money. I liked her calmness and what appeared to be a very stable mind. All lies. Anyways, Ill wrap this up... I cared about this woman more than anyone ever. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. However, as fate would have it. I had a prescribed medical reaction to drug that almost killed me. She turned on me... Ignored me. Showed me zero compassion accused me of a life style completely contradictory to my proven success record.. However, I never snoop. I had a dream from the man upstairs, warning me of the deception. I investigated... She simply was talking to a loser. That really shocked me the most. However after learning of the deception.. I instantly started to vomit? I was sickened literally by the betrayal. I called her and told her it was over. Any other man would have tried to make it work. Let me explain something... You as a man and human being will NEVER accept compromising yourself and your worth. She thought because I sold my company I was poor? It was just about money. I almost died. Lost everything... three and a half years later, I am a millionaire now and very content. NEVER EVER SEEK MEDEOCRACY. NEVER EVER COMPROMISE YOUR SPIRIT AND SOUL. BETRAYAL IS REMOVAL. EJECT THE PERSON. THEY ARE BAD PEOPLE AND NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU.
this guy killing it
She said she & her husband were separated but while on a business trip when I called she was with her husband, then my basketball buddy said he had a fling with her while she was married.
Subscribed. I appreciate your style and clarity.
Deception 101 - The 8 Types of it
Fabrication (Liars) - a statement that is known or intended by its source to be misleading, inaccurate, or false.
Concealment: the action of hiding something or preventing it from being known.
Equivocation / Misrepresentation: It is the misleading use of a term with more than one meaning or sense (by glossing over which meaning is intended at a particular time).
Omission: leaving out consequential pieces of information in one’s story.
Avoidance: is a maladaptive coping mechanism characterized by the effort to avoid dealing with a stressor.
Deflection - Bringing up an unrelated event done by someone else.
(A) Implication that there is something wrong in bringing up the subject - Statements like "Here we go again", "You sound like a broken record", "You're beating a dead horse".
(B) Changing the subject is a common strategy - "Let's talk about something else".
Minimization: downplaying the significance of an event or emotion. It is a common strategy in dealing with feelings of guilt. (Minimization is a type of deception involving denial coupled with rationalisation in situations where complete denial is implausible.)
Exaggeration: inflating or overstating information that is true in principle.
That's the definition of the modern toxic female
Corey you are brilliant. The way you present your message funny as fuck. Not on this topic but others you helped a lot. Cheers. (Scotland)
My ex Stephanie was my biggest downfall! But I admit I kind a brought it on myself!
This is a fantastic video and you differently know what you are talking about.
They all deceptive
This guys brutal...lol.
Love it!!
In my limited experience they're all playing tricks. It's becoming more common in males too. People believing their own lies.
Coach is a relationship guru.
well.. I tell people I'm honest and I am.
Before cell phones, this guy calls my house asking for my girlfriend i said who's this tells me don't worry about, she trys to tell me this guy got her number from the job, i said HR does not give out phones numbers to sucrity gards who are trying to hook up with nurses, so the point is she looks me right in the face and lies like 99% of them do
nice Gerald Celente name drop and quote
This is very very good info and yes I many ways I agree.
"I can be trusted, I'm a Christian!!" 😂
You are awesome man
This hits home.
No such thing as a women with integrity it’s just not in their DNA I have never seen it in my entire life
agree
Trust any woman at your own peril
Dam just in the first few minute I said dam this is so true after catching my wife cheating and Lying for 2 months straight now the guy is dead and she is silent with me crazy shit
After your fall, if or when you ever get back up on your feet, after weathering the constant storm and barrage of unexpected unwarranted undeserving attacks and defamations, when you make it to a point where you can stop and take that "HOLY SHIT" DEEP breath.
You will go into an "analysis" period. You were trying the whole time the horrific nightmarish events were taking place to decipher and understand why it was happening. Being in a state of shock, super charged and distrought with confusion, betrayal, attacks on you emotionally, financially, your reputation and your character, you couldn't deduce any of it and was stuck with that one word that will bury you In a tomb of madness..
WHY??
If we had just known or had someone to tell us to move out of that stage, the WHY stage is dangerous and counterproductive at best. Put a reason on it no matter what it may be, you would and will have some ideas and can make intelligent assessments so you can answer that one word soul decaying question of WHY.
That way whether you chalked it to chemical imbalance, won't take bipolar pills, split personalities, she is victim of generations of satanic ritual abuse, or ordinary garden variety run of the mill Demon possession, or she is just plain and simply put, a Bat shit crazy bottom feeding whelp of a slithering double tongued heathen!
You will never fully move out of the analysis stage, but it will become a state that is triggered by a memory alert. A song, a place, a smell, any mention of a successful happy marriage, foods, little things that were shared so intimately between two devoted lovers. That's where the problem lies with all disastrous break ups and divorces.
Men have things women don't, and they aren't capable of having. At least the vast majority aren't and the few who have these things, only have them because their father displayed these things and she grew up admiring her dad mainly because of these things. So she might, Might I say, exhibit shreds of them. These things men have that they don't, and the reason WHY they can go from most trusted lover and friend to your very worst enemy trying to erase you with lies and attacks.
Because Men have instilled in them Inherit gender traits called Moral Code Qualities. The things handed down through example and genetics. LOYALTY! HONOR! COURAGE! INTEGRITY! DIGNITY! CHIVALRY! AND THE CATYLYST WHICH MAKES ALL OTHERS POSSIBLE, TRUTH! Some men don't display the truth many times and that affects his abilities to display other qualities. But it's proven that his reasoning comes from a forced societal mindset which is inflicted on men by evil vindictive women, putting him in a "Do into them before they do into me" state of mind, or for a better term, Survival Mode!
Hang in there my brothers, head up, shoulders back, weather the storms and remember where you come from and the battles fought and won to get you where you are. And the most important thing there is, if you have children, especially You with Sons, DO NOT let these demonic feminist swine demasculinate your Man Child!!! Do You Understand?? Read a book., an article, a website, ask Pappaw for help, whatever it takes because our way of life is barely hanging on by a thread, our country is in peril because of Them!
Men Helping Men! Men Encouraging Men! Men Raising Men! #MENS-LIVES-MATTER!!
6:50 "Farming your lawn" LMAO! Never heard that one before
Receiving someone like this causes mental distress orders which you can make lawsuits for you guys should look into it all guys should start looking into it PTSD is not just caused from going to war
Bad advice as a warrior and disabled honorably served veteran you can't be more further from the truth...they target PTSD to take away your freedom and kids every vet that is awake knows this...they are pounding the PTSD thing hard nowadays, it's been known by many different names shell shock battle trauma you name it now they got feminist saying that because they heard veterans stories they have secondary PTSD I am not lying about this had an Indian liberal idiot psychologist tell me that so why I'm getting shot at bomb blown up you know that can be cured but her PTSD we need to give her money in conversation for since she heard all these bad stories give me a break
But what do you do once you've passed that stage of falling in love, and they're all you want to the point that without them you would only take death. But you still know they're deceiving you and everytime she gets caught with evidence the lies flow without care to the point that it's become a part of her personality?
You’re a pussy bro holy shit… grab your balls and be a man