Very astutely put. I guess that would make me a Warrior. Then I shall try my outmost not to become a tyrant or a coward. Say, has anybody brought some hotdogs to go with those beers? Cheers
Absolutely. Erin is lovely. Makes it easy for me to understand womanhood in all of its spectrum and see the rare rational woman that I so miss to see in the public sphere.
@@f.r.etlingyup because men want to hear that their women are lost today and are doomed!😂. I get the feeling she educates herself before making content from the fact she sources books she read. She admits some information may be anecdotal and not scientific. To say someone blurts shit out just to make another side happy is the laziest shit ever haha.
You're doing good work. You've got me hooked. 27 year old empathetic male who struggles with lonliness ✋️. This stuff resonates with me a lot. Thank you.
If you’re not good looking get good looking. If you’re not funny become funny. If you’re not coordinated get coordinated. All are achievable if you put in the work. I’m casting up on you right now as a magician warrior the go for it ballz to the wall attitude of the 80s . Doing things you don’t want to do builds character and leads to open doors you never knew existed . Anything in life is possible if you make it happen . You got this .
One thing I’d say to those who resonate with more than one, it’s because you are all 4 at once, not just one. We are a plurality of functions and traits, which blend together as the individual soul. To believe you are only one of these is to delude yourself to the rest of your psyche. My recommendation, find which pole you’ve tended towards on each scale. If you are immature in one trait, focus on embodying the positive traits of that archetype. If you are mature in one, don’t take it for granted, and learn to hone that part of yourself even further. Remember to have some confidence in yourself! But remember to truly self reflect as well. I believe in you!
@@Vladimyrful For sure! I’ve been digging deep into a lot of this stuff the past few months, and the main thing I’ve taken from it so far is not to focus on labelling yourself. Labels are fine when you’re putting them on the world, like science does, but when you internalize them, all they do is inhibit growth. So I try not to take any label on as something I am, because it’ll never be fully accurate. Never put yourself in a box, but use these ideas as tools to grow and become the person who can manifest their want and will in the world, and leave it at least a little better than when you got here!
Absolutely correct. The design of the book is to show the Terrain and how to locate yourself on it. Your goal is to balance in the center of it and view the outer corners as the drifting of the shadow. Each quarter has 2 paths up the mountain. You are a manifestation on one of them for each archetype. Maturity is getting up that mountain where you can see the view and have not just perception but perspective. Though folks have to understand that once you make it to the top its a constant check to see where you are. Its slippery up there at the top and easy to fall back down. Its a constant with humans we tend to over correct before we find balance. So you will find that you might identify too strongly then you over correct and move to the opposite pole of the shadow. though each time that you do you will remain closer to center. Just remember to keep moving forward.
I’m an older sister with one younger brother and a somewhat tyrannical single father. My brother was raised in a way that made him spoiled and irresponsible for his age. I’m trying to guide him into becoming a mature, successful person who doesn’t end up a man-child like our father but I lack the wisdom and authority to influence him significantly. I try to be a good role model by doing well in school, joining the military, and studying engineering, but I’m still just a 19 year old girl who’s unable to teach him what it takes to be a good man. Anyway, I think your videos are great and they help me better identify patterns in the lives of people around me. Without a mother figure, I’ve never understood the value of femininity, but thanks to you I’ve learned that being feminine does not make me weak and useless to society
@@rkatpet I hear your concerns. I have a twin sister. And I dare to say if I had a father that didn’t teach me what I needed to know, nobody else will do it for your brother. He has to see it for himself, and make that change for himself. Unfortunately the only real women who have influence on a young man’s decisions is their mother. Everyone else’s advice falls to the wayside comparatively. As a sister you’re doing your job. You’re showing him what it looks like to be successful. And that’s all you can do. Do not stress over doing more for him, because you can’t. And it’s also not your job. Your job is to protect him, no teach him how to be a man. If your father cannot do that, he will have to learn from the world.
@@uzrnwsdrxg9423 I appreciate your advice. My brother and are a similar age difference (7yrs) and I haven’t been home a lot recently so I’m trying to bond with him the best I can. I don’t think he knows how much I miss him. And I’m sorry for your loss. My mom also died at 38 from a drug addiction. I hope my brother never gets into that stuff. Anyway, I’ll be careful not to badger him about anything. I really don’t want him to resent me
@@uzrnwsdrxg9423 I appreciate your advice. My brother and I are a similar age difference (7yrs) and I haven’t been home a lot recently so I’m trying to bond with him the best I can. I don’t think he knows how much I miss him. And I’m sorry for your loss. My mom also died at 38 from a drug addiction. I hope my brother never gets into that stuff. Anyway, I’ll be careful not to badger him about his problems or anything. I really dont want him to resent me
I went into basic training in 2020, I found this book in a pile, it was Warrior, poet, magician, lover, originally I had heard about it through Stefan Molyneux interviewing Gillete and I was instantly hooked, ate the book in a couple of sittings during basic, loved it. It's definetly a book I recommend not just men read but also women. We need this version of a video but for women.
Here's the women version. Be pretty, pleasant, loyal and loving. Done. Its all it takes, men are that simple. The reason the male version is a whole book is women are complicated lovers.
@@bunnieskitties293honestly I think that men having such low standards for women is why so many women are immature right now, and it’s damaging society. If women were pushed to become the greatest versions of themselves, they way men are held to such high expectations, there would be so much less degeneracy in our culture.
I grew up in Malaysia. It's an Islamic country with a large Chinese and Indian community and philosophy. The public boys schools train the boys using eastern philosophy of masculinity. The content in this video is correct. I was trained in malay but the teachers did build us to be masculine men. It was part of national education during the 80s and 90s.
I have long thought of what the 4 archetypes for women would be: Wild woman (Warrior) Mother/queen (King) Maiden (Lover) Oracle (Magician) The wild woman would be the masculine aspect of the feminine, opposite what the lover is for men. The oracle would also be pinnacle, as opposed to the queen. Curious what people think about this.
I am legally blind and this makes me feel vulnerable. I weight train to look big and strong, but it is paper armor. I feel small and weak. The thing I want most is to protect people and it breaks my heart that I lack the wherewithal to effectively do so. I know this is an unhealthy mindset, but I feel trapped in a cycle of powerlessness.
Thanks for sharing @unclemikedrop. I admire your nature to protect. People need protection from many threats, physical and non-physical, immediate and long-term. Despite your legal blindness, or perhaps because of it, are there other ways in which you can protect people?
Hey there. I would not presume to know what is the life and struggle of a blind person. But if it's any comfort to you, I would tell you to stay strong and not feed any complex about it, as we all are blind, all of us, one way or another. And if you feel you should be protecting others, then you heart must be at the right place. And if you feel powerless or heartbreak when you cannot do so, then you have a right mind. Just an other fellow's opinion on the net. Take care of yourself UncleMike. Cheers
@@UncleMikeDrop I understand. It sure is a bummer being blind. Sorry if you're into sugars, I was raised in another century (and I’m a warrior, so….) But if I may throw one more easy to say but still true philosophy... I believe it can be turned into something else than just that. I honestly believe so. By not using the frustration from it to feed too much of a complex or resentment, but rather use it to fuel and motivate strategies and actions to find a rightful place for you. Easier said than done, you bet. But coming out of our struggles stronger, is mostly up to us, to our heart and mind. We all got work to do. Never despair. I wish you the best, friend.
This is excellent insight, and makes sense, born from an age where philosophers and thinkers had time to deconstruct male psychology, which appears to be ever more pertinent today and hence every man watching this can resonate with. Will be seeking out part 2. You certainly have your calling Erin.
@@joeAnon796 To be honest, Gym Bros who have a sugar momma are very lucky. I even envy them. I'd love to have the freedom to workout all day and have my expenses covered by my sugar momma.
It's so painful to think about, my suffocating mother and my weak disengaged father, i was constantly implicitly encouraged to be a weak boy and conditioned to believe weakness and victimhood were evidence of supreme and special value
@@iansmith8783 Can't that be a past version of yourself? In my next video, I want to talk about how a man can reach his full potential by accessing the other archetypes to achieve balance in their lives. I am sorry that happened to you.
@@erinbyrd5377 wow, thank you i really appreciate that. It's very meaningful for me to hear that coming from someone who understands the mechanism of how and why this happens to young boys. Your videos bring a lot of clarity and understanding.
@@erinbyrd5377 to think of the boys who are suffering this process on a personal and society-wide scale, is what pains me and encourages me to take greater heed of myself and others
I'd highly encourage you to look into the work of Michael Tsarion, especially his focus on the Dragon Mother and Adultism. You're definitely not alone in what you've experienced.
I cant personally relate to any of these, but its remarkable because for each archetype I can think of a man I look up to that embodies it. Great video
This video is really good. I feel like you did an amazing job and described every male that has been and will come. I didn't know this kind of knowledge existed and we have been that analyzed before.
This video was very informative and very well explained in detail, the whole idea of these different categories of masculine architypes is new to me and i think you just made it so interesting. Thank you!
Keep doing what you do, Ms. Boyd. If you haven't, I really think incorporating biblical themes and topics into these videos regarding masculine and feminine aspects of life would benefit your channel, and the people who enjoy your content Thank you!
Thank you for this, my baseline is the lover archetype and the way you gave clarity to my experience is so relieving. Gives me hope and inspiration that I can develop the other axis of my masculine being the magician and the warrior
@@devinphat9510 I have read a lot of red-pill books and I do plan on making a video talking about the redpill. Are you saying that you no longer feel safe around women? Like, emotionally safe? Do you feel too vulnerable? Has this taken a toll on your ability to form personal relationships? Sorry for all the questions but I like to learn. I think for you, start with the Warrior. That's what will get you through the dark times. Warrior development for a lover type will turn you into a tank that is no longer vulnerable.
@@erinbyrd5377 Yeah all safety and trust is stripped away, emotionality, financially, and physically sexually which manifests as a phobia of STD's because of the hedonism in our cultures.
There's also a intense desire for sexual interaction, so you can imagine a constant cycle of psychologic dissonance and pain, hopefully it can feed into my warrior and things well be better on the other side.
4:35 Class in Session 5:15 King (Devine Child) 8:15 The Bully 9:15 Precocious Child (Magician) 10:45 The Dummy 12:40 The Dreamer 13:20 The King 15:15 🧐🤔 17:00 The Tyrant 17:45 The Weakling 18:25 The Warrior 20:10 The Sadist 20:55 The Masochist 22:40 The Magician 25:10 Detached Manipulator 26:35 Innocent One 27:30 The Lover 30:10 The Addict & Impotent Lover
You are basically talking about DISC. Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness. It's our four types of personality and we can only have 1 of these, but a few features of the other ones. Dominance and Influence are extroverts Steadiness and Conscientiousness are the introvert ones. Dominance - Red Influence - Yellow Steadiness - Green Conscientiousness - Blue I am of the Conscientiousness profile, introvert.
Thank you for this video Ms Byrd, which is as always, well researched and nicely exposed. It is refreshing, in these particular times, to see women having interests in men’s realm and contemporary reality. Thank you for that and your excellent work. Like many, I have seen and felt, the dichotomy between most adult men, raised with values entrenched in the past century, and further back, against the recent years of misguided feminism and unchecked capitalism, resulting in the gender debacle unfolding nowadays. As sadly shown by most metrics, may it be natality rates, divorce rate, loneliness, etc. The sense of having lost the simple common sense and natural tools to share interactions, and lives, between women and men, in such a short time, is baffling to me. Well, in the Western world mostly at least. Which is probably saying more about the culture I belong to than I’d like to admit. Poor Marguerite Duras she must be spinning in her grave. Thank you for your work. Cheers
Very interesting, I think the archetypes I most closely aligned with as a child was a precocious dreamer, as an adult the magician lover. Never was well balanced, but am content and well liked
Amazing video! I love Jungian psychology and archetypes. I definitely resonate with the magician, I'm a robotic welding technician. A lot of my job has warrior like aspects, enjoying the labor, getting dirty, working fast, hard and with skill. But it also takes a mix of knowledge and intuition. I also often find myself giving my friends life advice. I see all the archetypes in myself though. I'm a very loving father and husband, I love weight lifting and work.
This is great content, I kind of wish I could have a copy of the essay (or whatever it may be called lol) you wrote for this video as it is so informative. Again, great content, thanks for taking the time to make these videos!
Thank you Erin. Keep making this content. The one you made about archetypes of women was so insightful as it helped me to see women in a different light.
I have really strong intuition, creativity, intellect and intensive emotions. The description of an undisciplined/chaotic lover felt fairly applicable to me. I also love fighting (mutually agreed upon fighting like sparring, not malice, in real life I actually prefer to keep the peace/dislike being combative/bad blood) and physical challenges, I resonate with intensely warrior-like characters in fiction too. I think it's part of that intensity and being intense in all aspects. I think I need to work on my discipline and self control of negative emotions the most.
Miss, I am a student and I just had to say I love your content. It is so very well thought out and you are an extremely good speaker. Peace and love to you.
I'm looking forward to watching the next part of it. I'm in love with this channel. Thank you Erin for your effort to bring these so important subjects.
yeah - look at divorces and how men are treated. what are warriors fighting for? they realised that's not much to fight for in the modern age and most have walked away
masculine men take accountability. if you got divorced 1) you failed to pick a good life partner or 2) you failed to maintain the relationship. both of these are the key elements in your control. effeminate men shake their fists from the sidelines and opt-out of the game. they're either unable to attract a high caliber mate, or unable to keep them.
12:38 Someday. My world is all that I have, but someday I could share it with someone, maybe when I grow up some. It's either that, or I become a headcase!
Wait for me I am looking for you Jewel, angel, friend I look for you when I get out of bed I look for you in my coffee I look for you when I walk in the morning sun And all through the day For as long as today is And until tomorrow comes But I can’t find you - I can’t find you I am not smart enough Strong enough Fast enough Or may be I am just not good enough I am not a magician I am not a soldier, a strong man or a hero I am not rich I am not young or pretty, I am not famous But I feel you in every snow flakes I see you in every colours And in all that is pure and beautiful And I know I will have found you- Not in my coffee Or in the morning sun I know I will have found you When in your eyes I can see me I know I will have found you When I can wish upon a fairy To one day die in your arms And be reborn To go on looking for you again Wait for me
By knowing and embodying these archetypes, men can achieve a fuller understanding of themselves and live in a way that aligns with their true values and purpose.
Very educational. And very fair in your analysis. I have often observed with same sex couples a feminine and masculine . What's interesting is gay men who look very masculine but are in fact very feminine in nature. Or heterosexual men who are feminine and usually are left wing. The arty type. Great video
Great video! I think splitting this into 4 chapters would make it more convenient to watch and youtube algorithm friendly as well. I bet you would’ve literally made x10 more views and spread your observations and ideas better
I have been in each. I wont go into each role. Approaching this video, I thought, yup. Im the Warrior. Always been a do-er, etc. Was suprised how the King role resonated so much. Obvious about the Warrior one resonating, but even the Magician. I have had careers in each, as a leader in the military, intel in couter drug ops, and even teaching at a university, with patents, discoveries etc. The lover...maybe, in how I try to preserve cars, tools, and see the work that was put into them. Though, this was the least resonant. I wonder how many of you guys felt the same. Going in with one thought, and see how much you identify with each role. Time goes by quick and we mature fast...particularly in hard times. As far as hyper extending. Yup...Warrior, sadistic side. Wont go into that, but its there...Definitely will be getting this book
To anyone whose struggling in todays world, historically speaking, this is 100% normal and it will end soon. Its a common pattern where we are all divided and fighting. We will either fight each other or we will all unite to fight an external issue (Example: World war 2 united the Americans who were even more radical than we are now). If history is correct for the 12th time now, we are projected to be in a sort of golden age around the 2030's. My point is to hang in there. I would do LITERALLY anything for a wife & children and it kills me that it seems like I'll never get there. I'm at least going to hold on for a bit longer because it gives me hope. Long story short, bad times create good people. Good people fight for a good life.
I identify with the magician, the warrior and the lover in that order as a 27 year old man. I really couldn’t find any king (in its either extremes too) because I don’t feel like I have people around me that I would desire to rule. I also admit I have a tendency towards the sadist but I’m trying to temper that with the lover. So as A Warrior: Trying to improve myself constantly in discipline A Magician: Trying to learn more ans reach the intellectual peak A Lover: To do these for the benefit of humankind (at least in theory)
The word "Shakti" is a synonym for Force. Also, Shakti is the name of the Goddess and your description is pretty accurate. Shiva, however, along with all the things you described, is a symbol of patience. Because, he is one of the few Gods, who is typically shown in a meditation position (which is the best) With a third eye on his forehead and a cobra curled around his neck. Shiva is also the part of Hinduism's holy trinity: Shiva the destroyer. His 3rd eye is supposed to have destructive powers like Superman's laser vision. But, I think Shiva's identity as a "destroyers" is highly misunderstood. According certain reads. Shiva represents the duality of man, Shiva has done is Shadow work. And Shiva is aware that if we are unhappy then we spread unhappiness around (which is destructive), therefore we need to look inside of us (much like Buddha, but he was a monk, Shiva represents everyday man)... Meditation is the key to look inside, and realise that the world isn't good or bad, it is our response to it that makes us perceive that way. The world is indifferent. Therefore we must learn to be equanimous. The snake around his neck tells us that, he is fearless, and calm, even at the face of death. Shiva is a warrior. Because it is better to be a warrior in a garden than to be a gardener in a war. And, the 3rd eye is actually, the eye of wisdom, like someone really seeing beyond.
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King - buys beer
Warrior - Brings beer
Magician - makes beer
Lover- writes reviews on beer
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Very astutely put. I guess that would make me a Warrior. Then I shall try my outmost not to become a tyrant or a coward. Say, has anybody brought some hotdogs to go with those beers? Cheers
Who drinks the beer?
@@deepfrieddeals All four of them!
Sigma - Orders a glass of water
We're making it out of the basement with this one boys.
Bro I'm scared
@@jimhendericks it's a brave new world brother
Boys? Were mature men now lol
lmao
Like pale goblin-like creatures emerging from their cavernous habitat lol
This woman is the bridge between genders we didn’t know we needed
Absolutely. Erin is lovely. Makes it easy for me to understand womanhood in all of its spectrum and see the rare rational woman that I so miss to see in the public sphere.
She’s not bridging any of the feminists over. Just says what men want to hear
@@f.r.etlingyup because men want to hear that their women are lost today and are doomed!😂. I get the feeling she educates herself before making content from the fact she sources books she read. She admits some information may be anecdotal and not scientific. To say someone blurts shit out just to make another side happy is the laziest shit ever haha.
lacking of nuance but useful to a degree
@@f.r.etlingthat’s all a woman needs to do to be successful on TH-cam today - just tell
Men what they want to hear .
You're doing good work. You've got me hooked. 27 year old empathetic male who struggles with lonliness ✋️. This stuff resonates with me a lot. Thank you.
If you’re not good looking get good looking. If you’re not funny become funny. If you’re not coordinated get coordinated. All are achievable if you put in the work. I’m casting up on you right now as a magician warrior the go for it ballz to the wall attitude of the 80s . Doing things you don’t want to do builds character and leads to open doors you never knew existed . Anything in life is possible if you make it happen . You got this .
Being an empath is a very effeminate trait. Its going to cut down your options with women by 95%.
@@lalaboardsok. How the hell do you suggest people get good looking 😂😂
@@darkones4370 C'mon bro, fight a little
@@darkones4370 Dress well, get in shape, take care of your hygiene, etc.
One thing I’d say to those who resonate with more than one, it’s because you are all 4 at once, not just one. We are a plurality of functions and traits, which blend together as the individual soul. To believe you are only one of these is to delude yourself to the rest of your psyche.
My recommendation, find which pole you’ve tended towards on each scale. If you are immature in one trait, focus on embodying the positive traits of that archetype. If you are mature in one, don’t take it for granted, and learn to hone that part of yourself even further.
Remember to have some confidence in yourself! But remember to truly self reflect as well. I believe in you!
I was wondering about that, thank you for clarifying!
@@Vladimyrful For sure! I’ve been digging deep into a lot of this stuff the past few months, and the main thing I’ve taken from it so far is not to focus on labelling yourself.
Labels are fine when you’re putting them on the world, like science does, but when you internalize them, all they do is inhibit growth. So I try not to take any label on as something I am, because it’ll never be fully accurate.
Never put yourself in a box, but use these ideas as tools to grow and become the person who can manifest their want and will in the world, and leave it at least a little better than when you got here!
@@Vladimyrful Indeed, thanks!
Absolutely correct. The design of the book is to show the Terrain and how to locate yourself on it. Your goal is to balance in the center of it and view the outer corners as the drifting of the shadow. Each quarter has 2 paths up the mountain. You are a manifestation on one of them for each archetype. Maturity is getting up that mountain where you can see the view and have not just perception but perspective.
Though folks have to understand that once you make it to the top its a constant check to see where you are. Its slippery up there at the top and easy to fall back down. Its a constant with humans we tend to over correct before we find balance. So you will find that you might identify too strongly then you over correct and move to the opposite pole of the shadow. though each time that you do you will remain closer to center. Just remember to keep moving forward.
@@vaddick Right. Dancing on the head of a pin requires precise footwork
I’m an older sister with one younger brother and a somewhat tyrannical single father. My brother was raised in a way that made him spoiled and irresponsible for his age. I’m trying to guide him into becoming a mature, successful person who doesn’t end up a man-child like our father but I lack the wisdom and authority to influence him significantly. I try to be a good role model by doing well in school, joining the military, and studying engineering, but I’m still just a 19 year old girl who’s unable to teach him what it takes to be a good man. Anyway, I think your videos are great and they help me better identify patterns in the lives of people around me. Without a mother figure, I’ve never understood the value of femininity, but thanks to you I’ve learned that being feminine does not make me weak and useless to society
@@rkatpet may God bless you with a good and strong man and blissful children.
My goodness you're inspirational! 19 year old? Way ahead of the curve...
@@rkatpet I hear your concerns. I have a twin sister. And I dare to say if I had a father that didn’t teach me what I needed to know, nobody else will do it for your brother. He has to see it for himself, and make that change for himself. Unfortunately the only real women who have influence on a young man’s decisions is their mother. Everyone else’s advice falls to the wayside comparatively. As a sister you’re doing your job. You’re showing him what it looks like to be successful. And that’s all you can do. Do not stress over doing more for him, because you can’t. And it’s also not your job. Your job is to protect him, no teach him how to be a man. If your father cannot do that, he will have to learn from the world.
@@uzrnwsdrxg9423 I appreciate your advice. My brother and are a similar age difference (7yrs) and I haven’t been home a lot recently so I’m trying to bond with him the best I can. I don’t think he knows how much I miss him. And I’m sorry for your loss. My mom also died at 38 from a drug addiction. I hope my brother never gets into that stuff. Anyway, I’ll be careful not to badger him about anything. I really don’t want him to resent me
@@uzrnwsdrxg9423 I appreciate your advice. My brother and I are a similar age difference (7yrs) and I haven’t been home a lot recently so I’m trying to bond with him the best I can. I don’t think he knows how much I miss him. And I’m sorry for your loss. My mom also died at 38 from a drug addiction. I hope my brother never gets into that stuff. Anyway, I’ll be careful not to badger him about his problems or anything. I really dont want him to resent me
I went into basic training in 2020, I found this book in a pile, it was Warrior, poet, magician, lover, originally I had heard about it through Stefan Molyneux interviewing Gillete and I was instantly hooked, ate the book in a couple of sittings during basic, loved it. It's definetly a book I recommend not just men read but also women. We need this version of a video but for women.
@@thegunslinger8806 Agreed
Here's the women version.
Be pretty, pleasant, loyal and loving. Done. Its all it takes, men are that simple.
The reason the male version is a whole book is women are complicated lovers.
@@bunnieskitties293becoming a well rounded, mature woman includes learning about what men value in us, but there’s much more than that.
You were allowed to READ??!?!?
@@bunnieskitties293honestly I think that men having such low standards for women is why so many women are immature right now, and it’s damaging society. If women were pushed to become the greatest versions of themselves, they way men are held to such high expectations, there would be so much less degeneracy in our culture.
Your channel provides real value to its listeners
I humbly second this annoucement! o_0
Forgot to add, i actually look forward to your uploads. Unique and insightful. You have an eager audience member here.
I grew up in Malaysia. It's an Islamic country with a large Chinese and Indian community and philosophy. The public boys schools train the boys using eastern philosophy of masculinity. The content in this video is correct. I was trained in malay but the teachers did build us to be masculine men. It was part of national education during the 80s and 90s.
To teach the child how to be is way more valuable than teaching them a skill
I have long thought of what the 4 archetypes for women would be:
Wild woman (Warrior)
Mother/queen (King)
Maiden (Lover)
Oracle (Magician)
The wild woman would be the masculine aspect of the feminine, opposite what the lover is for men.
The oracle would also be pinnacle, as opposed to the queen.
Curious what people think about this.
@@jsea56 I like it
Where is the mother, idi0t? It's basic, no?
@@herethere5637lmao
I am legally blind and this makes me feel vulnerable.
I weight train to look big and strong, but it is paper armor.
I feel small and weak.
The thing I want most is to protect people and it breaks my heart that I lack the wherewithal to effectively do so.
I know this is an unhealthy mindset, but I feel trapped in a cycle of powerlessness.
Thanks for sharing @unclemikedrop. I admire your nature to protect. People need protection from many threats, physical and non-physical, immediate and long-term. Despite your legal blindness, or perhaps because of it, are there other ways in which you can protect people?
@@jamesfranciswoods I am not sure, but I hope there are other ways.
Hey there. I would not presume to know what is the life and struggle of a blind person. But if it's any comfort to you, I would tell you to stay strong and not feed any complex about it, as we all are blind, all of us, one way or another.
And if you feel you should be protecting others, then you heart must be at the right place. And if you feel powerless or heartbreak when you cannot do so, then you have a right mind. Just an other fellow's opinion on the net. Take care of yourself UncleMike.
Cheers
@@goergeskaplan I appreciate the kind words.
It just gets to me sometimes.
@@UncleMikeDrop I understand. It sure is a bummer being blind. Sorry if you're into sugars, I was raised in another century (and I’m a warrior, so….) But if I may throw one more easy to say but still true philosophy... I believe it can be turned into something else than just that. I honestly believe so. By not using the frustration from it to feed too much of a complex or resentment, but rather use it to fuel and motivate strategies and actions to find a rightful place for you. Easier said than done, you bet. But coming out of our struggles stronger, is mostly up to us, to our heart and mind. We all got work to do. Never despair. I wish you the best, friend.
Hello Erin, thank you for your work on your channel
@@BoostedPastime You are welcome!
I love Robert Moore’s lectures (many recordings available on TH-cam) and the “King Warrior Magician Lover” book with Douglas Gillette is amazing
I’m glad to have found this video! Thank you for making and posting this; I believe knowledge is power and I’m always looking to improve where I can
This is excellent insight, and makes sense, born from an age where philosophers and thinkers had time to deconstruct male psychology, which appears to be ever more pertinent today and hence every man watching this can resonate with. Will be seeking out part 2. You certainly have your calling Erin.
Super analysis. Forgot to sub when I watched the matriarchy video a while back. Hit the notification bell now!
I don't know if I believe in archetypes, but I love your presentations. You pick such interesting topics. Looking forward to Part II.
The 4 archetypes
Gym bros
BBQ with a beer
You off yourself
Career man
Dont forget, getting kicked out/leaving the workforce archytype
@@CyberPunkBadGuy homelessmaxxing
@@CyberPunkBadGuy thats BBQ with a beer guy. Gym bros either have a job or a sugar momma, and theres not that many sugar mommas trust me I looked
@@joeAnon796 To be honest, Gym Bros who have a sugar momma are very lucky. I even envy them. I'd love to have the freedom to workout all day and have my expenses covered by my sugar momma.
im stuck between the last two hjahahaha
It's so painful to think about, my suffocating mother and my weak disengaged father, i was constantly implicitly encouraged to be a weak boy and conditioned to believe weakness and victimhood were evidence of supreme and special value
@@iansmith8783 Can't that be a past version of yourself? In my next video, I want to talk about how a man can reach his full potential by accessing the other archetypes to achieve balance in their lives. I am sorry that happened to you.
@@erinbyrd5377 wow, thank you i really appreciate that. It's very meaningful for me to hear that coming from someone who understands the mechanism of how and why this happens to young boys. Your videos bring a lot of clarity and understanding.
@@erinbyrd5377 to think of the boys who are suffering this process on a personal and society-wide scale, is what pains me and encourages me to take greater heed of myself and others
I'd highly encourage you to look into the work of Michael Tsarion, especially his focus on the Dragon Mother and Adultism. You're definitely not alone in what you've experienced.
Thanks for all your work telling it like it is for both genders, and dispelling a lot of myths that abound.
You're an A+ quality lady, for sure.
I cant personally relate to any of these, but its remarkable because for each archetype I can think of a man I look up to that embodies it. Great video
Then what are you
Thanky you so very much for the effort. I wish you further success, health and happiness!
I have this book on my nightstand right now. Its really cool to see how these things are kind of written out.
My grandfather was a B17 tail-gunner in ww2 and he passed away this week. RIP Corporal E.T. Flood and bless you for your service.
All men, protect this woman at all costs!
This video is really good. I feel like you did an amazing job and described every male that has been and will come. I didn't know this kind of knowledge existed and we have been that analyzed before.
Thank you! This was an awesome video. Looking forward to part two!!
This video was very informative and very well explained in detail, the whole idea of these different categories of masculine architypes is new to me and i think you just made it so interesting. Thank you!
Keep doing what you do, Ms. Boyd. If you haven't, I really think incorporating biblical themes and topics into these videos regarding masculine and feminine aspects of life would benefit your channel, and the people who enjoy your content
Thank you!
The unabashed, deadpan, matter-of-fact shade thrown at the life coaches around 26:16 oh LAWD. I'm glad I stuck around for the whole video
This was such a good video thank you for posting. I really enjoyed it!
Love your channel Erin.
This is very insightful, and I can see a lot of myself in all these.
Your channel is a hidden gem!
I always enjoy your content, I’m constantly learning new things about myself and others that make more sense now. Can’t wait for the next video!
Thank you for this, my baseline is the lover archetype and the way you gave clarity to my experience is so relieving. Gives me hope and inspiration that I can develop the other axis of my masculine being the magician and the warrior
@@devinphat9510 I have read a lot of red-pill books and I do plan on making a video talking about the redpill. Are you saying that you no longer feel safe around women? Like, emotionally safe? Do you feel too vulnerable? Has this taken a toll on your ability to form personal relationships? Sorry for all the questions but I like to learn. I think for you, start with the Warrior. That's what
will get you through the dark times. Warrior development for a lover type will turn you into a tank that is no longer vulnerable.
@@erinbyrd5377 Yeah all safety and trust is stripped away, emotionality, financially, and physically sexually which manifests as a phobia of STD's because of the hedonism in our cultures.
There's also a intense desire for sexual interaction, so you can imagine a constant cycle of psychologic dissonance and pain, hopefully it can feed into my warrior and things well be better on the other side.
4:35 Class in Session
5:15 King (Devine Child)
8:15 The Bully
9:15 Precocious Child (Magician)
10:45 The Dummy
12:40 The Dreamer
13:20 The King
15:15 🧐🤔
17:00 The Tyrant
17:45 The Weakling
18:25 The Warrior
20:10 The Sadist
20:55 The Masochist
22:40 The Magician
25:10 Detached Manipulator
26:35 Innocent One
27:30 The Lover
30:10 The Addict & Impotent Lover
*Divine
You are basically talking about DISC. Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness. It's our four types of personality and we can only have 1 of these, but a few features of the other ones. Dominance and Influence are extroverts Steadiness and Conscientiousness are the introvert ones.
Dominance - Red
Influence - Yellow
Steadiness - Green
Conscientiousness - Blue
I am of the Conscientiousness profile, introvert.
Thank you for this video Ms Byrd, which is as always, well researched and nicely exposed. It is refreshing, in these particular times, to see women having interests in men’s realm and contemporary reality. Thank you for that and your excellent work.
Like many, I have seen and felt, the dichotomy between most adult men, raised with values entrenched in the past century, and further back, against the recent years of misguided feminism and unchecked capitalism, resulting in the gender debacle unfolding nowadays. As sadly shown by most metrics, may it be natality rates, divorce rate, loneliness, etc.
The sense of having lost the simple common sense and natural tools to share interactions, and lives, between women and men, in such a short time, is baffling to me. Well, in the Western world mostly at least. Which is probably saying more about the culture I belong to than I’d like to admit.
Poor Marguerite Duras she must be spinning in her grave.
Thank you for your work. Cheers
@@goergeskaplan It's baffling to me too.
This is fascinating and very useful. Thank you very much!
Erin, this video was extremely inspiring. You're very thorough and clear. I'm going to read the book you recommended.
That's very interesting, I'm waiting for part 2. I'll buy the book tomorrow.
Thank you so much❤
I can’t talk in words how grateful I am
@@evodevo420 you're welcome
Excelent video! I can't help but notice I have the same dresser as the one you have on the left of the screen, truly a great piece of furniture.
25:50 OHHHH SHIT THE CALL OUT LMAO, I know EXACTLY who you’re talking about
Another great video! I can't wait for the next one!
Thank you for making this video ❤❤❤
Very interesting, I think the archetypes I most closely aligned with as a child was a precocious dreamer, as an adult the magician lover. Never was well balanced, but am content and well liked
Love your work, keep it up!!
All I have to say is thank you, you are the best and all your efforts are appreciated 😄
It is interesting how much attention this book is getting lately. Very nice.
1st trait: Aye thats me 😆
2nd trait: Aye thats me too 😅
3rd trait: Hey thats.. also me 🙂
4th trait: Uhh yeah 🙁
5th trait: I NEED HELP 😫😭
Thank you for your work Erin. I look forward to learning more from you. Keep up the excellent content.
Great video, excited for part 2, I feel I can breathe better, ty🙏
Thank you for the video
I know i need to mature, and the assistance in these videos helps
I love your videos. So much information
I'm the warrior-type man to a T. Great video very interesting.
Do you want a cookie
@@kiaadams104I want one but my diet..
Thank you for this. Im currently writing a story wherein everyone is extremely immature and this will help me make sure I do it right.😅
Very interesting video, your channel is a goldmine
Enjoyed this video, great ideas to reflect on.
Damn, I might be doing better then I thought I was. Looking forward to the next video. :)
Amazing video! I love Jungian psychology and archetypes. I definitely resonate with the magician, I'm a robotic welding technician. A lot of my job has warrior like aspects, enjoying the labor, getting dirty, working fast, hard and with skill. But it also takes a mix of knowledge and intuition. I also often find myself giving my friends life advice. I see all the archetypes in myself though. I'm a very loving father and husband, I love weight lifting and work.
This is great content, I kind of wish I could have a copy of the essay (or whatever it may be called lol) you wrote for this video as it is so informative. Again, great content, thanks for taking the time to make these videos!
Thank you Erin. Keep making this content. The one you made about archetypes of women was so insightful as it helped me to see women in a different light.
She is back!
I have really strong intuition, creativity, intellect and intensive emotions. The description of an undisciplined/chaotic lover felt fairly applicable to me.
I also love fighting (mutually agreed upon fighting like sparring, not malice, in real life I actually prefer to keep the peace/dislike being combative/bad blood) and physical challenges, I resonate with intensely warrior-like characters in fiction too. I think it's part of that intensity and being intense in all aspects.
I think I need to work on my discipline and self control of negative emotions the most.
@@johnq4061 You're definitely on the warrior/lover axis. Great job
Nice! I've always wanted to know more about giga Chad.
Miss, I am a student and I just had to say I love your content. It is so very well thought out and you are an extremely good speaker. Peace and love to you.
Excellent work, looking forward to seeing the next video!
I'm looking forward to watching the next part of it. I'm in love with this channel. Thank you Erin for your effort to bring these so important subjects.
yeah - look at divorces and how men are treated. what are warriors fighting for?
they realised that's not much to fight for in the modern age and most have walked away
masculine men take accountability. if you got divorced 1) you failed to pick a good life partner or 2) you failed to maintain the relationship. both of these are the key elements in your control.
effeminate men shake their fists from the sidelines and opt-out of the game. they're either unable to attract a high caliber mate, or unable to keep them.
This was great
Enjoyed the video, thanks!
Great book. Read it several times! It's a must read for every woman who desires to be in my life!
Absolutely incredible.
I understood many things about me who i am ? Where I have been . I am a 21 years old male this helped me a lot ❣️ thank you
12:38 Someday. My world is all that I have, but someday I could share it with someone, maybe when I grow up some. It's either that, or I become a headcase!
Subbed. The second video in a month that I've really enjoyed.
Erin, please read Bhagavd Gita to understand about four archetypes of humans itself upon their karma and intellect.
This is so cool. Very relevant for parenting.
Awesome video!
Good seeing you again Erin. Thanks for the Vids and Blessings to you and your fam.
The most underrated video I’ve seen in a long time.
Wait for me
I am looking for you
Jewel, angel, friend
I look for you when I get out of bed
I look for you in my coffee
I look for you when I walk in the morning sun
And all through the day
For as long as today is
And until tomorrow comes
But I can’t find you - I can’t find you
I am not smart enough
Strong enough
Fast enough
Or may be I am just not good enough
I am not a magician
I am not a soldier, a strong man or a hero
I am not rich
I am not young or pretty, I am not famous
But I feel you in every snow flakes
I see you in every colours
And in all that is pure and beautiful
And I know I will have found you-
Not in my coffee
Or in the morning sun
I know I will have found you
When in your eyes I can see me
I know I will have found you
When I can wish upon a fairy
To one day die in your arms
And be reborn
To go on looking for you again
Wait for me
About to go on a long drive and who drops me something to educate me with!
im the bing chilling sigma toilet rizz archetype
Go into the woods and throw your phone away for a year
@ ok thank for the advice!
This was fantastic, it really helped me clarify some stuff about where I am in life and where I've been.
@@leo5961 I'm very happy to hear that 😊
By knowing and embodying these archetypes, men can achieve a fuller understanding of themselves and live in a way that aligns with their true values and purpose.
Very educational. And very fair in your analysis. I have often observed with same sex couples a feminine and masculine . What's interesting is gay men who look very masculine but are in fact very feminine in nature. Or heterosexual men who are feminine and usually are left wing. The arty type. Great video
Great video! Huge W learning
Erin, you would probably enjoy checking out what Kabbalah says about male and female attributes of the soul and the ideal balancing of them.
Great video! I think splitting this into 4 chapters would make it more convenient to watch and youtube algorithm friendly as well. I bet you would’ve literally made x10 more views and spread your observations and ideas better
I have been in each. I wont go into each role. Approaching this video, I thought, yup. Im the Warrior. Always been a do-er, etc. Was suprised how the King role resonated so much. Obvious about the Warrior one resonating, but even the Magician. I have had careers in each, as a leader in the military, intel in couter drug ops, and even teaching at a university, with patents, discoveries etc. The lover...maybe, in how I try to preserve cars, tools, and see the work that was put into them. Though, this was the least resonant.
I wonder how many of you guys felt the same. Going in with one thought, and see how much you identify with each role. Time goes by quick and we mature fast...particularly in hard times.
As far as hyper extending. Yup...Warrior, sadistic side. Wont go into that, but its there...Definitely will be getting this book
women are queens?
yes IF and only if she
honors her man
as her KING
To anyone whose struggling in todays world, historically speaking, this is 100% normal and it will end soon. Its a common pattern where we are all divided and fighting. We will either fight each other or we will all unite to fight an external issue (Example: World war 2 united the Americans who were even more radical than we are now). If history is correct for the 12th time now, we are projected to be in a sort of golden age around the 2030's. My point is to hang in there. I would do LITERALLY anything for a wife & children and it kills me that it seems like I'll never get there. I'm at least going to hold on for a bit longer because it gives me hope.
Long story short, bad times create good people. Good people fight for a good life.
I identify with the magician, the warrior and the lover in that order as a 27 year old man. I really couldn’t find any king (in its either extremes too) because I don’t feel like I have people around me that I would desire to rule. I also admit I have a tendency towards the sadist but I’m trying to temper that with the lover.
So as
A Warrior: Trying to improve myself constantly in discipline
A Magician: Trying to learn more ans reach the intellectual peak
A Lover: To do these for the benefit of humankind (at least in theory)
King comes with age.
You’re a very talented writer
The word "Shakti" is a synonym for Force. Also, Shakti is the name of the Goddess and your description is pretty accurate.
Shiva, however, along with all the things you described, is a symbol of patience. Because, he is one of the few Gods, who is typically shown in a meditation position (which is the best) With a third eye on his forehead and a cobra curled around his neck.
Shiva is also the part of Hinduism's holy trinity: Shiva the destroyer. His 3rd eye is supposed to have destructive powers like Superman's laser vision. But, I think Shiva's identity as a "destroyers" is highly misunderstood.
According certain reads. Shiva represents the duality of man, Shiva has done is Shadow work. And Shiva is aware that if we are unhappy then we spread unhappiness around (which is destructive), therefore we need to look inside of us (much like Buddha, but he was a monk, Shiva represents everyday man)... Meditation is the key to look inside, and realise that the world isn't good or bad, it is our response to it that makes us perceive that way. The world is indifferent. Therefore we must learn to be equanimous.
The snake around his neck tells us that, he is fearless, and calm, even at the face of death. Shiva is a warrior.
Because it is better to be a warrior in a garden than to be a gardener in a war.
And, the 3rd eye is actually, the eye of wisdom, like someone really seeing beyond.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!