@@kingknowbody6775bro ur suoer funny. Do u edit ur own videos too? Add more special fx, and do wild things, different angles. It will make you more interesting. Also stop bobbling. You won't find girls if u don't get ripped and rich bro and start flexing. It's called marketing. You can get rippled and will be dramatically better. Try looks maxing, and change your diet. Lol, you're so funny bro. Good job posting. Keep doing so.
The difference between being nobody and King Knowbody is self-awareness! Getting into a relationship and having a kid has put me in the undesirable position of not having time to finish the Elden Ring DLC... You live a blessed life sir!
In their dialect they have a term "failed normie" - a person who is or above 5/10 in smv rating, who is not blackpilled but still fail to get a girlfriend.
Dialect is a regional thing that gets honed over time and builds upon a pre-existing language. What you mean is jargon. What incels use are words that only people of the in-group can understand.
You talk about us as if we were bad and we laughed just because we are bad. But we almost always call "failed normie" to someone who laughs at us for our situation, but then goes through exactly the same thing and denies it, that's a failed normie, he tries to seem normal to believe he's better than us, but it's Bs.
I think Scott Alexander gives a reasonably pessimistic but not traditionally "blackpilled" take in _Radicalizing the Romanceless_ . "If you’re smart, don’t drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, and have no criminal history - then you are the population most at risk of being miserable and alone. 'At risk' doesn’t mean 'for sure', any more than every single smoker gets lung cancer and every single nonsmoker lives to a ripe old age - but your odds get worse. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate. But that shouldn’t be too hard to guess…"
Sounds like you have a really healthy mindset, and with the struggles you've overcome, I'm glad you're out here making videos and being a positive role model, not just another doomer. A lot of the lessons here apply not just to relationships, but how to accept yourself, and live a happy life in general.
You ARE NOT an Incel TH-camr. Those people are obviously detractors/trolls. You're the more wholesome inverse of what most people imagine what an Incel is. There are a lot of people who should be as self aware as you are, but are not. Also being humble is a great trait to have.
There used to be a slew of channels making positive incel content, this guy was inspired by one of them to start this. For some reason that movement died as people prefer to hear people complaining and whining than not really caring about being virgins in their 30s and living good lives
@@kingknowbody6775 king nobody. I never had sex with a women ever. I am 45 years old this July. Last time I kissed a girl was jan 11 1998. I am 45 years it's too late. You got until 40 years old . After that it's will be very difficult to attract women. King nobody take advantage before it's too late. Believe you will be stuck a virgin. And you want to avoid that. I am saying with concern.
@@lalosalamanca8574what is embarrassing is that as a society we are so devolved that we place so much pressure on eachother for zero logical reason. Just let people be ffs
Glad to hear you say "Life is pretty good for me right now". I feel you. 30 and single and hate what incels stand for. Thanks for the vid mate! Your hair is fine btw.
@@kingknowbody6775 yes your hair is fine. People only say that sort of thing when they see someone who doesn't follow the latest fashion trend because they recognize that you have the courage to deviate from trends and they don't. It creates insecurity and resentment that you have courage that they don't possess..
Ive only seen 3 vids from you and already love you dawg, we need more representation from people like you for people who are involuntarily celibate, maybe a new term because I hate being associated with those kinds of incels and if you try talking about your issues with being an incel and these people come out of the woodwork with their terrible outlooks/views.
This is the right attitude to have in life imo. . What's the point of going around being bitter about things, hating other men and hating women? Like it's not going to help you going through life having some stupid and bitter view of the world where you hate people for being "Chads", "Staceys" and "Sigmas" or wtf they're called. Great video!
I wish i could stop caring like you have. I regret missing the chances I had. Ive been on a self improvement journey and it hasnt mattered, which bugs me more :(
it’s so hard to not allow the past to infringe on our present, but the future always holds more for us! it may be a long path, but getting urself tot he path of improvement is something to be proud of always, u got this brother
@@youngcurmudgeon2403 it's hard, i know mate. And everyone is going to give you advice on what they did to get a gf, or what they did to get laid. Truth is, everyone is different and what works for others isn't going to work for you. All i can say is, the older we get, the less people in general care for materialistic things and if you keep self improving, you're only improving your chances of finding a women. Good luck mate.
This is so wholesome. Thank you for sharing your story and also for making me laugh way more than I realized was possible in 10m, ESPECIALLY with such a dark topic. Happy to see you where you are today. Keep loving life
You indeed give jestermaxxer vibes. Someone that makes himself the b of the joke so he can get some attention and laughs. The most you can get with that is people feeling pity for you. Being 35, you should have realized how bad that is.
I’m one of the decent guys that labels themselves an incel ( because I’m 21 and still a virgin ). And really the true meaning of the term is just that “ involuntary celibate”, which means you want a girlfriend and sex but you can’t get it because you’re not an attractive looking guy and also a virgin still as well. So yea just wanted to put that out there as to what the word incel actually means in its true form, all the extra weird terminology and beliefs are just what the more edgy incels add to it. And then you have extreme feminist who expand their mean meaning of the definition.
@@multicrogamer But then it doesn’t get the point across in that I’m not happy about my virginity. Using the incel label makes it more noticeable and empowering for me.
Bro, I just glanced at your videos and you are not too unattractive to get a girlfriend. Millions of men uglier than you get laid daily, and you are not even ugly. You are engaged in a negative feedback loop of maladaptive cognition. The normie advice of "focus on the positive" is unironically correct. I was a virgin until 25, after I finally understood that if you bring positivity to others you will get it back -- and that the same goes for negativity.
The older I get, the more I understand the phrase "Idle hands are the Devil's plaything". Guys can get obsessed with such unproductive and even vile stuff when they've got nothing to do and no purpose.
I agree with that shit the extreme side of black pill where “AH IF YOU’RE NOT 6’3 it’s over bro & if your face is not ideal bro it’s OVER!!!” Like come on I’m 5’10 I believe I’m an incel by definition but my face is fucking hideous. I don’t hate women I just realize my inferiority but I do hate being lied to because women DO care about looks but it’s definitely not everything like extremist do. But honestly oofy doofy guys are basically Homer Simpson or Peter griffin type guys. You’re stronger than me I’m a 23 yearold virgin and it sucks completely I’d probably end it by 35.
Isn't height like, an actual insecurity for men? This is why men lie about their height a lot if they're not at least 6'0. And that mostly stems from women preferring tall men, although most married couples date "around their range" and there was this interesting study in 2018 (I think) which concluded that most married couples share distinctive facial features with their partner as well as there being a rounded height ratio between the men and women in the study.
@@WeebSlayer71 hell yeah I’m pretty honest about my height and women will say “nah you’re at least 6ft” Lmao I wish it helped with dating at least most couples are height matched and if they’re a different group where most people are short in their area most of them won’t get a shit about height as long as you’re same height or above and even some really short guys but most don’t care for the 6ft and over I think face is more important honestly
This is a terrible attitude. I'm 6'6 but I still had to work for it in my teens and 20s. It's overrated. Nothing is so bad. Just be yourself and enjoy life
@@Imhereforfun-jz2luI love the humble brag part too being 6’6 is definitely overrated even when you’re attempts aren’t constantly shot down with some generic excuse how people automatically give some kind of respect to tall people I’m 5’10 & I’ve had people compliment me on my height imagine 6’6 so I doubt it’s “overrated”. These type of humble brag things are hilarious “yeah being an attractive guy is so overrated cause you constantly have women fighting over you & you have to decide if you should date a 10/10 or a 4/10 life is so hard being 6’6 & handsome!” Obviously being 6’6 isn’t gonna change a tragic situation but at the end of the day I’d rather have it than not.
@@Imhereforfun-jz2lu you sound like Kim kardashian telling poor people to work hard and to have no excuses oh wait she’s a millionaire & you’re 6’6 both won the genetic lottery & telling guys who didn’t “ah bro just be happy!!”
Genuinely, my favorite history teacher from high school had hair exactly like his. Took AP Euro as an elective just to have that guy a second time because I enjoyed his classes so much.
Ikr. I’ve similar hair Cut as him. And i’ve had multiple girls complementing me for it. Screw that Jack Doherty broccoli hair, trimmed on the sides and standing up on top. Smooth, Half Long is the Way to go!
@mikekatz7980 "Involuntarily celibate" He has tried to have sex and has not. That is the simple definition of an "incel". You do not have to be crazy and hate women. You don't even have to be a virgin
@@mikekatz7980 hey it's not even an insult, he says himself that he has no interest in relationships; so technically he is voluntarily celibate. Which I think is fine, and it's up to him.
You seem like a rad dude with a really healthy outlook. If you do want to get into a relationship eventually, you could definitely do it, although I'm sure past experiences would make it nerve-wracking. Bring Dusty with you, the ladies will love Dusty.
The internet is an extremely toxic place good sir ! I would not take anything in the comments personally really cause these folks do t know you and don’t care
I can't believe it took hearin' about Xanderhal callin' you an incel to find out you were makin' videos again. Subscribed, naturally. Honestly, I dunno where people get the idea; you're way too self-aware. I think you're both better-looking and generally more sociable than I am, and I've got a girlfriend. If you wanted to put in the work to find someone, you totally could, and if you don't, that's totally valid. Either way, you've got a buncha friends who're ride-or-die for ya, and that's more important anyway.
Tip if you still hold the v-card and are insecure about it: Don't obsess over it. Once you do sleep with someone, you'll realize how forgettable and uneventful it is. And your obsession will carry over to something else like body count, the type of girls you sleep with, how you perform, etc. Human satisfaction is never-ending.
Bro I love the fact you're so self aware and are a little too critical of yourself. I wish more people would be like you. World needs more people like you who can introspect. And you're a good looking human being ❤.
its weird how these people see someone who's been single for a long time and just label them an incel, i dont get it. just because we havent been in a relationshop for some time doesn't mean we hate women.. as for me, i can't picture being able to coexist with someone else in that level because you need to engage a lot with each other and you need to have a lot of communication, and that sort of intimacy isnt something i feel like i can give to someone else. its just a lot of work for me and id have to not be myself if i wanted to do that. of course, i love both women and men(no homo). ive been trying to write more often recently since i feel like im not able to articulate my thoughts very well
Bro, don’t be in denial, i know you’re lonely and that’s ok. It’s ok to admit that you like women and want to find someone. That’s absolutely fine. I don’t think of myself as an incel, and similar to you I haven’t had a relationship either. Women are people, but they have some desires for their sex. They want a man that’s a provider, someone that can support them and their kids. A man that is confident, and has a good personality, is social…those are traits of a man that women find attractive. Men like that have higher status in society and women are attracted to that. People like us that are more introverted and socially awkward have it hard haha 😂 End of the day; the world works on supply and demand. You don’t need to find a woman in the west. Go to another country where your dollar goes much further. Women all over the world are looking for providers, so even if your other traits are sub par, as long as you can provide; women will go for you. That’s my advice to you. Live your life, be happy and don’t worry or give 2 shots about what other people think. Just work on yourself and do what you need to do.
I have Schizoaffective Disorder and PTSD. I have struggled with auditory hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, mania, and depression through my 20's. I am currently 28 and I am at quarter life crisis. I am unemployed, useless degree, lack friend group, and I am single living home with my family. I wouldn't consider myself a gamer I am not your average loner but I am artistic and a writer. My life is filled with tragic stories. The only relationship I had was in my early twenties long distance relationship for 4-5 years. During that time I struggled with addiction (sex and alcohol addiction) and I attempted to run away from home during a psychosis. I remember sleeping underneath truck behind a gas station and wandering the highway in Iowa. My girlfriend left me for a pen pal in prison. After that nothing got better. I never found love again my life has never been normal. I am not incel or blackpilled I am truly alone and depressed. And I have to include being black my experience is non-existent. And secondly I never use the internet and subscribe to these ridiculous racist and dark ideologies
Your such a pozitive person, i really enjoy your content. I'm much different from you and also different life but still i find some connection in your mindset. You are who you are but for me a great guy with who would be fun to hang around. Have a great one😊
It's nice to see a man going on social media for an outlook to express themselves that don't result with them being somewhat awful Hope you have fun and grow with this 👍
EXACTLY why are people so naive it’s so funny how people attach all this other bullshit to it. “Ah it’s you’re mindset brah” obviously personality matters but if you have no redeeming physical qualities you’re done for. It’s like this guy in the video “people told me I have good features” Also him: I don’t agree with any black pill belief’s because he has REDEEMING TRAITS but he’s not a super top tier guy either he’s just normal.
@@TheTiredhermit Ugly people just need to get good at manipulation, and to realize that it's ok to be manipulative if the world is trying to exclude you constantly.
You couldn't even pay me 8 k to go to Chicago lmao but funny story thanks for sharing. I'm trying not to give up after being single for long time too but being at peace is kind of addictive and doing whatever you want on your own time.
I'll comment on this one later because I'm still in the midst of working my way through your videos from oldest to newest. I'm sure this is more great content, as always. Keep it up! Thanks for posting frequently!
I'll be 37 next month and never been kissed yet. I was never an incel but hated myself due to my autism (mild case) and thought I was too flawed to attract a woman. I found out at the age of 33 that women love all types of guys not just the outgoing, neurotypical super confident type. Now I share the same mentality as you as if I happen to attract a women great but if not that's OK as well. I remember hearing about the Toronto van attack on my local radio station and thought it was an attack from Isis or something but was shocked to hear it was an incel attack as Elliot Rodger's case fascinates me. I read the entire 140 page autobiography and it was long winded but It's seriously movie worthy.
If it really bothers you that much, remember that you can always pay for the experience and move on with your life, don't be stuck in this loop of negativity
@@R1Hunter I’m not bothered as much anymore for the last 4 years and. I’m not paying for it as it’s not real love. I want my first time to be special with a woman who sweeps me off my feet.
I'm so glad people like you dispel the 6 feet tall thing: You are definitely not the only person i've ever seen that is over the height of 6 feet who i've seen be a virgin. I would say lonely virgin but you don't seem too lonely. Fact remains: I have observed men about 6'5" who were lonely and never had a gf before. The problem with incels is they don't want to try to improve their life so they instead blame everything on how they were born and what they perceive as biologically disadvantaging and *that right there* is _exactly why_ i hate them as well. Lack of accountability is the number one thing I can't stand
You look great! I like your hairstyle; reminds me of the 90s and early 2000s, which I love, hence I'm a 90s baby. But seriously, who cares? I've never really been interested in being in a relationship, but at the same time, I've wanted to get married and have a family at one point in my life. Now, all I can think about is having a farm and dogs, to be honest. I'd love a husband, but he has to come after I secure my property xD
I think "incel" is just a word for men who want to have relationship and sexual life, but somehow can't manage to find any woman for that purpose. And that's all. It's just a phrase and doesn't have any particular behaviour or ideology associated with it. So a man who is unsuccesful with woman is an incel in my opinion. But there are no negative thoughts attached to this word for me. SO I think i'm an incel because I'm very unlucky wih girls despite I had a girlfriend back in the day. So I'm not a kissless, hugless virgin who whines about women all day, but still I miss a female companion from my life. All I wanted to achive is have a girlfriend who eventually became my wife and have children. Like my father and my grandfather and my great-grandfather etc. had. But somehow this thing door in my life is closed for me and that's very frustrating.
I undertand the mass appeal to make lazy denial to cels/bpillers claims; such group is viwed negatively and people may assume they're utterly wrong by default. But, it is important to approach this topic considering logics and what the scientific method and empirism (data) tells us, because soleny relying onto personal anecdotes might lead to misinterpretations. I've been debating about it with chat gpt-4 and it came to recognize the scientific verifiability of many, if not all, blackpill suggestions, although I recognize many cels tend to make some incredible and dramatic statments, which does not reflects scientific bpill. The blackpill can be, simply, viewed as a set of knowleadges which synthesises human nature, grounded on the scientific method and scientific findings; examples of bpills core beliefs: First: Determinism or behavioristic nuance (behavioral causality), which proposes that our actions are mediated by pre-existing factoria (genetic upbring) and external factors in feedback (environmental triggers); Second: "Some things simply happen to be the way they are (suggesting, unfortunately, we [men] face natural pressures): Selection/sexual selection is shown to be present amid many, if not most, animals, which is often the case to be reflected on females selecting males, specially when it comes to mammals, but also animals in general; Second.2: ... As product of that, we also assume human females to choose the best option they can, which is considered as hypergamy; Third: Data/empirism from sources iike dating apps, mass (people) anecdotes and even evolutionary psychology tend to backup bpill "claims"/suggestions. Also, but not less importantly, most debatators fail to posit any logical insight on why the bpill suggestions are incorrect or flawed, with they many times recurring to things such as subjectivism over objectivism (which is pretty debunkable, even non experts in this topic can tell why true subjectivism is incompatible with what we see in the real world) and personal anecdotes, which are very much prone to biases in general
7:05 Disregard my last comment-I guess you have been introduced to the term “oofy-doofy.” It’s actually not so much an insult as it a term for awkward guys that manage to get romantic partners-hence “oofy-doofy theory,” which has its proponents and its critics.
I read on some brainrot comment section that oofy doofies where just slightly below average dudes who are in a relationship because of companionship or money. I might be wrong but the "doofy" might stand for obliviouness to the situation.
I somewhat agree with the sentiment but the thing is a lot of the incel guys are people that genuinely desire relationships/female attention and have tried everything yet had no success so what else are they supposed to blame other than things outside their control? It's easy to not be bothered by it if you're someone who doesn't really care about relationships.
Incel has a lot of baggage attached to the term. I've never heard the term used in a complimentary fashion either. It's also a term that doesn't have a specific meaning because if you ask different people you get different answers. Women seem to be think it means a man who is angry and bitter at women. Men seem to think it even means that or it's just another word for a male virgin. I think people shouldn't f*ck around with words that have no meaning. I think terms like that are to be avoided and you're a smart man for avoiding them. Also the news media seems to use the word interchangeable with serial killer or terrorist so that's another reason to not associate with the community.
Yep, incel or involuntary celibate, used to mean just that, someone who is so undesirable to others that regardless of looks or features are never able to score because they don't know how to interact with people. Now it just seems to be an insult to guys who are strongly opinionated about something or another. I still follow the term to its original meaning.
Real, I’m 24(almost 25) and have never had an actual relationship. Shit I haven’t even had sex in over a year. Ik it’s not bc I’m ugly but I’m extremely socially awkward and I’ve been diagnosed w severe anxiety and cptsd along w some other things. That probly has something to do with it lol. I’ll never understand ppl who blame the entire gender of women for their inability to get laid
There’s nothing at all wrong with the way you look and you seem to have a very pleasant and funny personality. Most “incels” make it very obvious why they have no luck in relationships. Others folks just haven’t been lucky.
Hey dude. You are actually a "normie". You are well spoken, thoughtful, and self reflective. Ironically you talk about abandoning dating or whatever, but you are a charismatic guy. You created a YT channel that is incredibly honest and you refuse to blame anyone around you. I have 100% faith that if you choose to have a partner, there is someone out there for you. Incels exist because they have nothing to offer. You have plenty to offer boss.
I've been labeled an incel by Nick Nobody & many others even though I don't subscribe to their toxic mentalities either. I largely blame where I live for my situation. I live in suburban hell where most people are old around here.
@@kingknowbody6775 I'm sorry to hear that. It is possible that friends will eventually see your channel, but there is literally nothing to be ashamed of. You are just sharing your experiences and emotions. :)
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@@kingknowbody6775bro ur suoer funny. Do u edit ur own videos too? Add more special fx, and do wild things, different angles. It will make you more interesting. Also stop bobbling. You won't find girls if u don't get ripped and rich bro and start flexing. It's called marketing. You can get rippled and will be dramatically better. Try looks maxing, and change your diet. Lol, you're so funny bro. Good job posting. Keep doing so.
The difference between being nobody and King Knowbody is self-awareness! Getting into a relationship and having a kid has put me in the undesirable position of not having time to finish the Elden Ring DLC... You live a blessed life sir!
yeah yeah. those jokes make me always feel worse, dont get why people like them.
@@voicebrosscan you elaborate? What joke do you mean?
Genuine question as i don't understand what joke you dont like.
Cheers
In their dialect they have a term "failed normie" - a person who is or above 5/10 in smv rating, who is not blackpilled but still fail to get a girlfriend.
High tier sub 5
Dialect is a regional thing that gets honed over time and builds upon a pre-existing language.
What you mean is jargon. What incels use are words that only people of the in-group can understand.
You talk about us as if we were bad and we laughed just because we are bad.
But we almost always call "failed normie" to someone who laughs at us for our situation, but then goes through exactly the same thing and denies it, that's a failed normie, he tries to seem normal to believe he's better than us, but it's Bs.
I think Scott Alexander gives a reasonably pessimistic but not traditionally "blackpilled" take in _Radicalizing the Romanceless_ .
"If you’re smart, don’t drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, and have no criminal history - then you are the population most at risk of being miserable and alone. 'At risk' doesn’t mean 'for sure', any more than every single smoker gets lung cancer and every single nonsmoker lives to a ripe old age - but your odds get worse. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate. But that shouldn’t be too hard to guess…"
@@Alex-on8yu We laugh because your entire existence is laughable and we are, in fact, better than you.
Sounds like you have a really healthy mindset, and with the struggles you've overcome, I'm glad you're out here making videos and being a positive role model, not just another doomer. A lot of the lessons here apply not just to relationships, but how to accept yourself, and live a happy life in general.
You ARE NOT an Incel TH-camr. Those people are obviously detractors/trolls. You're the more wholesome inverse of what most people imagine what an Incel is. There are a lot of people who should be as self aware as you are, but are not. Also being humble is a great trait to have.
There used to be a slew of channels making positive incel content, this guy was inspired by one of them to start this. For some reason that movement died as people prefer to hear people complaining and whining than not really caring about being virgins in their 30s and living good lives
Bro, I love your channel. Been subbed for a few weeks but just commenting now. You’re a real cool guy. I Enjoy the humor and the stories.
I enjoy your comment!
@@kingknowbody6775 king nobody. I never had sex with a women ever. I am 45 years old this July. Last time I kissed a girl was jan 11 1998. I am 45 years it's too late. You got until 40 years old . After that it's will be very difficult to attract women. King nobody take advantage before it's too late. Believe you will be stuck a virgin. And you want to avoid that. I am saying with concern.
@@kingknowbody6775 it really sucks bieng a 45 year old virgin. Very demoralizing, it's very embarrassing
@@lalosalamanca8574what is embarrassing is that as a society we are so devolved that we place so much pressure on eachother for zero logical reason. Just let people be ffs
Glad to hear you say "Life is pretty good for me right now". I feel you. 30 and single and hate what incels stand for. Thanks for the vid mate!
Your hair is fine btw.
Thank you! I’m okay with my hair as well.
@@kingknowbody6775 yes your hair is fine. People only say that sort of thing when they see someone who doesn't follow the latest fashion trend because they recognize that you have the courage to deviate from trends and they don't. It creates insecurity and resentment that you have courage that they don't possess..
You're a chadcel, someone so cool that no woman can handle your vibes
Cope
@@zes3542 ovver
This is what happens to those of us who have "vibes" not influenced by money and appearance.
i aspire to be a chadcel one day. maybe tomorrow
@noodletribunal9793 Honestly, just be yourself and be a kind heart person who doesn't get laid, and you will be a chadcel
I hate all the bs we put into the definition of incel. It just means that you want sex but actively cant get it. That's all.
You're talking about the media characterization of incels. The truth is very different.
Ive only seen 3 vids from you and already love you dawg, we need more representation from people like you for people who are involuntarily celibate, maybe a new term because I hate being associated with those kinds of incels and if you try talking about your issues with being an incel and these people come out of the woodwork with their terrible outlooks/views.
This is the right attitude to have in life imo. . What's the point of going around being bitter about things, hating other men and hating women? Like it's not going to help you going through life having some stupid and bitter view of the world where you hate people for being "Chads", "Staceys" and "Sigmas" or wtf they're called. Great video!
The bird said some stuff that was a little out of pocket imo but still only spoke the truth. I agree
I agree with the bird as well!
You’ve got a sleeper build
I wish i could stop caring like you have. I regret missing the chances I had. Ive been on a self improvement journey and it hasnt mattered, which bugs me more :(
try journaling. you need to undo the negative pathways you've built in your brain, and that means gratefulness and introspection. you're doing great!
@@onjulraz754 I have been. Its a negativity ive had since i was very very young and its not going away with how the world is working right now
it’s so hard to not allow the past to infringe on our present, but the future always holds more for us! it may be a long path, but getting urself tot he path of improvement is something to be proud of always, u got this brother
@@seakos16 I tried. I really did.
@@youngcurmudgeon2403 it's hard, i know mate.
And everyone is going to give you advice on what they did to get a gf, or what they did to get laid.
Truth is, everyone is different and what works for others isn't going to work for you.
All i can say is, the older we get, the less people in general care for materialistic things and if you keep self improving, you're only improving your chances of finding a women.
Good luck mate.
It makes some people utterly LIVID that other people aren’t absolutely miserable 24/7.
This is so wholesome. Thank you for sharing your story and also for making me laugh way more than I realized was possible in 10m, ESPECIALLY with such a dark topic.
Happy to see you where you are today. Keep loving life
Good
You indeed give jestermaxxer vibes. Someone that makes himself the b of the joke so he can get some attention and laughs. The most you can get with that is people feeling pity for you. Being 35, you should have realized how bad that is.
Funny guys get girls all the time man
Dusty spitting straight facts 💯
@@milkymilk53 you know it!
Don't even touch grass. Touch ANYTHING 😂😂😂😂
@@egg_bun_ 😂
I’m one of the decent guys that labels themselves an incel ( because I’m 21 and still a virgin ). And really the true meaning of the term is just that “ involuntary celibate”, which means you want a girlfriend and sex but you can’t get it because you’re not an attractive looking guy and also a virgin still as well. So yea just wanted to put that out there as to what the word incel actually means in its true form, all the extra weird terminology and beliefs are just what the more edgy incels add to it. And then you have extreme feminist who expand their mean meaning of the definition.
Just call yourself a virgin then, it's much more mild and dosen't imply anything additional.
@@multicrogamer But then it doesn’t get the point across in that I’m not happy about my virginity. Using the incel label makes it more noticeable and empowering for me.
Bro, I just glanced at your videos and you are not too unattractive to get a girlfriend. Millions of men uglier than you get laid daily, and you are not even ugly. You are engaged in a negative feedback loop of maladaptive cognition. The normie advice of "focus on the positive" is unironically correct. I was a virgin until 25, after I finally understood that if you bring positivity to others you will get it back -- and that the same goes for negativity.
Is that you on your pfp?
@@elisavs2588 Yes
The older I get, the more I understand the phrase "Idle hands are the Devil's plaything". Guys can get obsessed with such unproductive and even vile stuff when they've got nothing to do and no purpose.
I agree with that shit the extreme side of black pill where “AH IF YOU’RE NOT 6’3 it’s over bro & if your face is not ideal bro it’s OVER!!!” Like come on I’m 5’10 I believe I’m an incel by definition but my face is fucking hideous. I don’t hate women I just realize my inferiority but I do hate being lied to because women DO care about looks but it’s definitely not everything like extremist do. But honestly oofy doofy guys are basically Homer Simpson or Peter griffin type guys. You’re stronger than me I’m a 23 yearold virgin and it sucks completely I’d probably end it by 35.
Isn't height like, an actual insecurity for men? This is why men lie about their height a lot if they're not at least 6'0. And that mostly stems from women preferring tall men, although most married couples date "around their range" and there was this interesting study in 2018 (I think) which concluded that most married couples share distinctive facial features with their partner as well as there being a rounded height ratio between the men and women in the study.
@@WeebSlayer71 hell yeah I’m pretty honest about my height and women will say “nah you’re at least 6ft” Lmao I wish it helped with dating at least most couples are height matched and if they’re a different group where most people are short in their area most of them won’t get a shit about height as long as you’re same height or above and even some really short guys but most don’t care for the 6ft and over I think face is more important honestly
This is a terrible attitude. I'm 6'6 but I still had to work for it in my teens and 20s. It's overrated. Nothing is so bad. Just be yourself and enjoy life
@@Imhereforfun-jz2luI love the humble brag part too being 6’6 is definitely overrated even when you’re attempts aren’t constantly shot down with some generic excuse how people automatically give some kind of respect to tall people I’m 5’10 & I’ve had people compliment me on my height imagine 6’6 so I doubt it’s “overrated”. These type of humble brag things are hilarious “yeah being an attractive guy is so overrated cause you constantly have women fighting over you & you have to decide if you should date a 10/10 or a 4/10 life is so hard being 6’6 & handsome!” Obviously being 6’6 isn’t gonna change a tragic situation but at the end of the day I’d rather have it than not.
@@Imhereforfun-jz2lu you sound like Kim kardashian telling poor people to work hard and to have no excuses oh wait she’s a millionaire & you’re 6’6 both won the genetic lottery & telling guys who didn’t “ah bro just be happy!!”
I can't help but like this dude 👍
your hairstyle f**king rocks!
Thank you!
Genuinely, my favorite history teacher from high school had hair exactly like his. Took AP Euro as an elective just to have that guy a second time because I enjoyed his classes so much.
Ikr. I’ve similar hair Cut as him. And i’ve had multiple girls complementing me for it. Screw that Jack Doherty broccoli hair, trimmed on the sides and standing up on top. Smooth, Half Long is the Way to go!
You’re like the white version of my favourite person at work , always making me laugh, and I don’t even know why .
Man. This is inspiring that you’re still positive
the thing is, he is not realistic, he is living in a delusion
Good on you brother, don't let anyone label you, live freely.
Dude u are the most down to earth guy
Real optimistic thiking, thank you
You aren't an incel brother, and I think most people would agree.
@mikekatz7980 "Involuntarily celibate" He has tried to have sex and has not. That is the simple definition of an "incel". You do not have to be crazy and hate women. You don't even have to be a virgin
I agree, he’s a volcel
@@pointthirteen2234 thanks for sharing your status with us. Nice to learn more about you.
@@mikekatz7980 hey it's not even an insult, he says himself that he has no interest in relationships; so technically he is voluntarily celibate. Which I think is fine, and it's up to him.
@@pointthirteen2234 it's called asexual bud, remember the English language?
I can relate and 100% agree with this video. Thanks for sharing this. Your videos are awesome.
Dusty fucking rules...
Wisdom for the ages right there.
I'm blackpilled cause I love me some darkskinned women 🥰
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You're a king 😎
Your hairstyle doesn't suck, that's the hairstyle I'd have if I had hair.
You seem like a rad dude with a really healthy outlook. If you do want to get into a relationship eventually, you could definitely do it, although I'm sure past experiences would make it nerve-wracking. Bring Dusty with you, the ladies will love Dusty.
You're such a casually funny dude King Knowbody
Big fan of channels for more or less normal people.
For me, it might be less. 🤣
The internet is an extremely toxic place good sir ! I would not take anything in the comments personally really cause these folks do t know you and don’t care
I agree!
So you're telling us you're not heightmaxxed? Lol I kid. Great video
It’s all good! 😂
As a 27 year old virgin, it's quit annoying to see these incel type of guys. Pretty much all of them need some type of professional help.
I agree!
There is no professional help, we are people, not robots.
@Alex-on8yu I mean therapy
Incel =involuntarily celibate. You are one.
If you're a 27 year old virgin you're better of siding with incels since they're the only people who won't make fun of you for it.
I can't believe it took hearin' about Xanderhal callin' you an incel to find out you were makin' videos again. Subscribed, naturally.
Honestly, I dunno where people get the idea; you're way too self-aware. I think you're both better-looking and generally more sociable than I am, and I've got a girlfriend. If you wanted to put in the work to find someone, you totally could, and if you don't, that's totally valid. Either way, you've got a buncha friends who're ride-or-die for ya, and that's more important anyway.
@@SigmAnalog Yeah, I really wish he didn’t call me that and then broadcast it to 100,000 people. But anyway, welcome back!
Tip if you still hold the v-card and are insecure about it: Don't obsess over it. Once you do sleep with someone, you'll realize how forgettable and uneventful it is. And your obsession will carry over to something else like body count, the type of girls you sleep with, how you perform, etc. Human satisfaction is never-ending.
20K posts on a forum is poopyheadpilled.
Right?!
💀💀💀💀💀 O L D C E L
In 4chan days it was oldfeg
Bro I love the fact you're so self aware and are a little too critical of yourself. I wish more people would be like you. World needs more people like you who can introspect.
And you're a good looking human being ❤.
its weird how these people see someone who's been single for a long time and just label them an incel, i dont get it. just because we havent been in a relationshop for some time doesn't mean we hate women.. as for me, i can't picture being able to coexist with someone else in that level because you need to engage a lot with each other and you need to have a lot of communication, and that sort of intimacy isnt something i feel like i can give to someone else. its just a lot of work for me and id have to not be myself if i wanted to do that. of course, i love both women and men(no homo). ive been trying to write more often recently since i feel like im not able to articulate my thoughts very well
this just makes me question even more how i even got married to begin with.
BP is where you go when PUA and RP didn't work for you. Then Inkwell comes after when you have lost all hope.
Your hair is fine.
It’s over
@@Superdestroyer701 OooooovvvER
Bro, don’t be in denial, i know you’re lonely and that’s ok. It’s ok to admit that you like women and want to find someone. That’s absolutely fine. I don’t think of myself as an incel, and similar to you I haven’t had a relationship either.
Women are people, but they have some desires for their sex. They want a man that’s a provider, someone that can support them and their kids. A man that is confident, and has a good personality, is social…those are traits of a man that women find attractive. Men like that have higher status in society and women are attracted to that. People like us that are more introverted and socially awkward have it hard haha 😂
End of the day; the world works on supply and demand. You don’t need to find a woman in the west. Go to another country where your dollar goes much further. Women all over the world are looking for providers, so even if your other traits are sub par, as long as you can provide; women will go for you. That’s my advice to you.
Live your life, be happy and don’t worry or give 2 shots about what other people think. Just work on yourself and do what you need to do.
I have Schizoaffective Disorder and PTSD. I have struggled with auditory hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, mania, and depression through my 20's. I am currently 28 and I am at quarter life crisis. I am unemployed, useless degree, lack friend group, and I am single living home with my family. I wouldn't consider myself a gamer I am not your average loner but I am artistic and a writer. My life is filled with tragic stories. The only relationship I had was in my early twenties long distance relationship for 4-5 years. During that time I struggled with addiction (sex and alcohol addiction) and I attempted to run away from home during a psychosis. I remember sleeping underneath truck behind a gas station and wandering the highway in Iowa. My girlfriend left me for a pen pal in prison. After that nothing got better. I never found love again my life has never been normal. I am not incel or blackpilled I am truly alone and depressed. And I have to include being black my experience is non-existent. And secondly I never use the internet and subscribe to these ridiculous racist and dark ideologies
Your such a pozitive person, i really enjoy your content.
I'm much different from you and also different life but still i find some connection in your mindset.
You are who you are but for me a great guy with who would be fun to hang around.
Have a great one😊
Love your intro. Youre cool bud, keep this up and youll have women calling you.
Don’t let em get you mate. We appreciate you, keep your focus on the ones who care for you.
I get called young and old. It’s a matter of perspective. Mostly people who call you old hasn’t matured yet.
It's nice to see a man going on social media for an outlook to express themselves that don't result with them being somewhat awful
Hope you have fun and grow with this 👍
Incel is a set of circumstances, not a mindset. You're either realistic about your situation in life or you aren't.
EXACTLY why are people so naive it’s so funny how people attach all this other bullshit to it. “Ah it’s you’re mindset brah” obviously personality matters but if you have no redeeming physical qualities you’re done for. It’s like this guy in the video “people told me I have good features”
Also him: I don’t agree with any black pill belief’s because he has REDEEMING TRAITS but he’s not a super top tier guy either he’s just normal.
@@TheTiredhermit Ugly people just need to get good at manipulation, and to realize that it's ok to be manipulative if the world is trying to exclude you constantly.
@@TheTiredhermit words have connotations
Must admit for me personally it's the opposite
I think of incel of a vibe /personality rather than just somebody who hadn't sex
@@ik1149 Life is much less subjective than you think.
You couldn't even pay me 8 k to go to Chicago lmao but funny story thanks for sharing. I'm trying not to give up after being single for long time too but being at peace is kind of addictive and doing whatever you want on your own time.
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I'll comment on this one later because I'm still in the midst of working my way through your videos from oldest to newest. I'm sure this is more great content, as always. Keep it up! Thanks for posting frequently!
Thanks for commenting!
dude you are a cool person, there are a lot of bad people telling what you are but only cares what you think about yourself.
I'll be 37 next month and never been kissed yet. I was never an incel but hated myself due to my autism (mild case) and thought I was too flawed to attract a woman. I found out at the age of 33 that women love all types of guys not just the outgoing, neurotypical super confident type. Now I share the same mentality as you as if I happen to attract a women great but if not that's OK as well. I remember hearing about the Toronto van attack on my local radio station and thought it was an attack from Isis or something but was shocked to hear it was an incel attack as Elliot Rodger's case fascinates me. I read the entire 140 page autobiography and it was long winded but It's seriously movie worthy.
I’m glad you were able to make it out of that incel headspace!
If it really bothers you that much, remember that you can always pay for the experience and move on with your life, don't be stuck in this loop of negativity
@@R1Hunter I’m not bothered as much anymore for the last 4 years and. I’m not paying for it as it’s not real love. I want my first time to be special with a woman who sweeps me off my feet.
I'm so glad people like you dispel the 6 feet tall thing: You are definitely not the only person i've ever seen that is over the height of 6 feet who i've seen be a virgin. I would say lonely virgin but you don't seem too lonely. Fact remains: I have observed men about 6'5" who were lonely and never had a gf before. The problem with incels is they don't want to try to improve their life so they instead blame everything on how they were born and what they perceive as biologically disadvantaging and *that right there* is _exactly why_ i hate them as well. Lack of accountability is the number one thing I can't stand
Ive improved my life way more than many people who use this same argument and still never kissed a girl XD
The “Yeah words of wisdom right there” had me dying 😂😂
I think your mind is straight, your doing fine, don't let anyone tell you how to live.
My dude, you're a decent fellow. Can't let people get you down. You need to come to Coolhole and be among friends.
Dusty is so right on
You look great! I like your hairstyle; reminds me of the 90s and early 2000s, which I love, hence I'm a 90s baby. But seriously, who cares? I've never really been interested in being in a relationship, but at the same time, I've wanted to get married and have a family at one point in my life. Now, all I can think about is having a farm and dogs, to be honest. I'd love a husband, but he has to come after I secure my property xD
Your content reminds me of early TJ Kirk Amazing Atheist work.
We both have a fondness of bananas!
dusty spitting straight facts man
dusty's monologue brought me to tears
Me too!
You're definitely an Internet celebrity. What i thought an 'incel' was for years.
O always knew that the Paul brothers were Incels!
I don't know, I think you pull off the hair. Makes me think of "Marvel Director" look for some reason and I like it. Hope you keep up the good work.
Thank you!
These videos remind me of a tame version of old school Amazing Atheist videos
You’re awesome ahahahah never in my wildest dreams I would have pictured you as a incel
Don’t feed the trolls
If I would live in your area or neigbourhood, we would be friends. I appreciate you. You are self-conscious.
I think "incel" is just a word for men who want to have relationship and sexual life, but somehow can't manage to find any woman for that purpose. And that's all. It's just a phrase and doesn't have any particular behaviour or ideology associated with it. So a man who is unsuccesful with woman is an incel in my opinion. But there are no negative thoughts attached to this word for me. SO I think i'm an incel because I'm very unlucky wih girls despite I had a girlfriend back in the day. So I'm not a kissless, hugless virgin who whines about women all day, but still I miss a female companion from my life. All I wanted to achive is have a girlfriend who eventually became my wife and have children. Like my father and my grandfather and my great-grandfather etc. had. But somehow this thing door in my life is closed for me and that's very frustrating.
It used to mean that, but now it's become an identity.
I undertand the mass appeal to make lazy denial to cels/bpillers claims; such group is viwed negatively and people may assume they're utterly wrong by default. But, it is important to approach this topic considering logics and what the scientific method and empirism (data) tells us, because soleny relying onto personal anecdotes might lead to misinterpretations. I've been debating about it with chat gpt-4 and it came to recognize the scientific verifiability of many, if not all, blackpill suggestions, although I recognize many cels tend to make some incredible and dramatic statments, which does not reflects scientific bpill. The blackpill can be, simply, viewed as a set of knowleadges which synthesises human nature, grounded on the scientific method and scientific findings; examples of bpills core beliefs: First: Determinism or behavioristic nuance (behavioral causality), which proposes that our actions are mediated by pre-existing factoria (genetic upbring) and external factors in feedback (environmental triggers); Second: "Some things simply happen to be the way they are (suggesting, unfortunately, we [men] face natural pressures): Selection/sexual selection is shown to be present amid many, if not most, animals, which is often the case to be reflected on females selecting males, specially when it comes to mammals, but also animals in general; Second.2: ... As product of that, we also assume human females to choose the best option they can, which is considered as hypergamy; Third: Data/empirism from sources iike dating apps, mass (people) anecdotes and even evolutionary psychology tend to backup bpill "claims"/suggestions. Also, but not less importantly, most debatators fail to posit any logical insight on why the bpill suggestions are incorrect or flawed, with they many times recurring to things such as subjectivism over objectivism (which is pretty debunkable, even non experts in this topic can tell why true subjectivism is incompatible with what we see in the real world) and personal anecdotes, which are very much prone to biases in general
7:05 Disregard my last comment-I guess you have been introduced to the term “oofy-doofy.”
It’s actually not so much an insult as it a term for awkward guys that manage to get romantic partners-hence “oofy-doofy theory,” which has its proponents and its critics.
I read on some brainrot comment section that oofy doofies where just slightly below average dudes who are in a relationship because of companionship or money. I might be wrong but the "doofy" might stand for obliviouness to the situation.
its just a zoomer term for a redpill term, beta bux. NOT a good thing
I somewhat agree with the sentiment but the thing is a lot of the incel guys are people that genuinely desire relationships/female attention and have tried everything yet had no success so what else are they supposed to blame other than things outside their control? It's easy to not be bothered by it if you're someone who doesn't really care about relationships.
Just like 70 is the new 50, 35 is the new 34 and 1/2
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Jesus Christ I can’t be the only one that finds the incel lingo being used in this comment section goofy as hell.
I agree. Personally, I’ve been keeping up my mew streak and edgemaxxing + jelqmaxxing daily.
Incel has a lot of baggage attached to the term. I've never heard the term used in a complimentary fashion either. It's also a term that doesn't have a specific meaning because if you ask different people you get different answers. Women seem to be think it means a man who is angry and bitter at women. Men seem to think it even means that or it's just another word for a male virgin. I think people shouldn't f*ck around with words that have no meaning. I think terms like that are to be avoided and you're a smart man for avoiding them. Also the news media seems to use the word interchangeable with serial killer or terrorist so that's another reason to not associate with the community.
Yep, incel or involuntary celibate, used to mean just that, someone who is so undesirable to others that regardless of looks or features are never able to score because they don't know how to interact with people. Now it just seems to be an insult to guys who are strongly opinionated about something or another.
I still follow the term to its original meaning.
Nice video, King.
It’s so funny how the incel forums will complain about certain things like getting judged for shit they can’t control then start going at blacks 🤣
Real, I’m 24(almost 25) and have never had an actual relationship. Shit I haven’t even had sex in over a year. Ik it’s not bc I’m ugly but I’m extremely socially awkward and I’ve been diagnosed w severe anxiety and cptsd along w some other things. That probly has something to do with it lol. I’ll never understand ppl who blame the entire gender of women for their inability to get laid
The amount of idiotic brainrot terms tossed around today just makes it easier to see the people you should avoid.
keep coping, the blackpill is real. Looks = everything in life
@@zes3542 Projection
@@GoronCityOfficialnormies ruined the blackpill.Blackpill is way older than all these mewing ,Sigma bullshit
@@GoronCityOfficial it's not.
Earned yourself a sub there bud. Love your vibe shit is hilarious
@@mikeyfoulke Thank you!
There’s nothing at all wrong with the way you look and you seem to have a very pleasant and funny personality. Most “incels” make it very obvious why they have no luck in relationships. Others folks just haven’t been lucky.
Your somebody bro❤️
im pretty sure if i woke up attractive and tall my life would do a complete 180
but i guess ill never know cause thatll never happen🤷♂
Hey dude. You are actually a "normie". You are well spoken, thoughtful, and self reflective. Ironically you talk about abandoning dating or whatever, but you are a charismatic guy. You created a YT channel that is incredibly honest and you refuse to blame anyone around you. I have 100% faith that if you choose to have a partner, there is someone out there for you. Incels exist because they have nothing to offer. You have plenty to offer boss.
Huge "Oofy Doofer" here. She let me hit it BECAUSE I'm goofy 🤣
This man is mad hilarious! He coooked until he saw smoke. He is too funny! Omg😂
I've been labeled an incel by Nick Nobody & many others even though I don't subscribe to their toxic mentalities either.
I largely blame where I live for my situation.
I live in suburban hell where most people are old around here.
Ur a good dude. I always come back to your videos from time to time to see how ur doing. It seems you have gained a lot of followers, lately?
Yeah, my channel is blowing up so much that I’m a bit uncomfortable about it, honestly!
@@kingknowbody6775 I'm sorry to hear that. It is possible that friends will eventually see your channel, but there is literally nothing to be ashamed of. You are just sharing your experiences and emotions. :)
I just saw a youtube vid praising you for not being incel. It was about the 35 year old virgin one.
Concert in chicago was great. Got my seats upgraded
It really was an amazing concert!