@@att6484 A good cop would listen to both sides of the conflict to get to the bottom of the issue and if at worst take them to the station for more questioning. A good cop would not kidnap a suspect and try to force answers out of them the brutal way. Way too quick tempered to be a good cop. This is why there is a system in place for justice, because if they get the wrong guy then someone innocent gets punished.
@@RusticRonnie Again I agree, I'm just stating what the dude said. I think the moment you assault a member of the public regardless of the reason you should be fired as a cop, at the very least.
If it's a true story, he may have always had a fragile mindset but was highly functional. Suddenly finding out his marriage was a sham broke him. How people handle trauma can depend on their mindset before the trauma occurred. Think about an emergency situation, a car crash, a bank robbery or hearing about an active sh ___ ter. Some people think quickly in those situations and some freeze. Some come out of it determined to make changes in the world and some come out of it with PTSD. Him talking about the numbness and feeling detected and the friends removing his g's and amo was very scary to hear.
Good trick on bob’s part. Let the guy dissociating and on super strong meds, who isn’t allowed to see the Internet… let him decide if Bob is fired. If bob were a real man, or his boss, they agree that even if OP doesn’t raise a stink, Bob needs to go to jail. Assault. Battery. Kidnapping. False arrest under color of office. Intimidation. Conspiring with his sister to do all of the above.
He was out of contact for 6 mths and working odd jobs cash in hand. I an not from USA but is tax not deducted from formal wages and a tax return done annually? If so it is more than possible especially given the mental break he had.
It is, but it's possible to fly under the radar if you take your wages under the table (in cash). No official employment means no W2 (a statement of earned income issued by an employer annually). No W2 means any income would have to be reported directly by the taxpayer. This doesn't mean that the person doesn't OWE taxes, but it does mean that it's possible to avoid having the Internal Revenue Service REALIZE that taxes are owed. OP might have to settle up on the tax issue down the road, but for a while it's possible to avoid the consequences.
Story 2: how come this part didn't click with him ? "I won't be able to enjoy my trip if I *have* to be worried about cheating on you" so "it's better if I can sleep with people ...." Wtf first and foremost, if cheating is your primary worry if your partner isn't litterally next to you, you have serious issues of being a hoe. If you need to make *efforts* to *not* cheat, damn how many times have you cheated already? Second, if you think "not cheating" is "preventing you from enjoying", it tells a lot about your intentions on this trip. third, being "worried about cheating" and saying "i'm opening the relationship" are very different things, in the latter you have absolutely 0 intention of *not* sleeping with some rando. What I think happened is they were discussing the trip with her friend, got hyped up about hoeing themselves, she realized BF would find out about it, and the friend came up with a plan to legitimize. I see no other reason for the sequence of arguments.
Even if it is fake: Op isn't an a-hole, he is broken and mental ill ! and needs help. His got shattered in a way he wasn't able to fight and no one should expect it of him to only to feel better them self. Bc who ever hears that story should see the hell he is in!🙏 sometimes we cant fight anymore if we are broken and just trying to survive BUT the daughter should be begging for forgiveness bc she fucked up not him!
The preface is the reason I like SecretVoices. They only try to publish real stories and if they think it might actually be fake, they let you know up front. The reason I think this is fake: I don't know any psych ward that allows you to access the internet. I've been in one before.
The only Reddit TH-camr that I'd support honestly. The others just like to throw shit in, AI or not. Most even try to change names or gender just to throw us off.
@@KenshiIV reminds me of Telltales. Everyday it seems like people notice how fake a story is. Hell, some people started commenting lists on how to catch the fake stories.
It does seem to be "based on a true story", some of the details are spot-on, others are not as plausible. Definitely not AI generated, and a lot of it tracks with people who have actually been cheated on. It's counter-intuitive, but often the true stories do end in fiction, where the writer gets revenge and lives happily ever after. That's never how it plays out in the real world. True and false are never the perfect binary states we like to believe they are. Nobody writes about their own experiences objectively. It's more like it's written by someone who is in the middle of all this shit, they can give an accurate accounting up until their present time to get it off their chest, then they finish the story with the resolution they actually want to give themselves hope. So I'd call this "True", with an asterisk beside it, which is about as authentic as it gets if not told by an objective third party.
I believe this is probably real. My father suffered a total mental break and OPs description of his reactions is totally in line with what happened with my Dad. Fortunately after 4 mths in hospital and 12 further months of therapy my Dad slowly recovered and we all had another 45yrs with the best man I have known being very present in our lives. I am grateful I don't live in USA because from what I have seen & heard from my USA based sister, there is no way we would have gotten that level of care without major financial outlay there. My Dad was a self employed farmer and a large part of the lead up to his break was financial pressures.
Yeah i have heard this one before, it's a sad story and he should have filed charges against Bob. Should never have forgiven his daughter, and never had any contact with the people from his past.
@@Censorthisbananahamock y’all keep talking smack on the daughter but keep in mind that when he wrote this he was having a breakdown and extremely depressed. The way he viewed his memories and his daughter aren’t going to accurately reflect reality and the only thing that is clear is she immediately tore into the mother when he revealed the affair.
@RHuipe13 nope, the daughter was part of the problem if you listened to the story, she took her father for granted and only when faced with reality and losing her financial support did she come around. She was part of the problem in being a trash kid, doesn't matter if she tore into her mother she didn't call put her uncle and report him, she didn't try to cut off all contact with mom.
@@Censorthisbananahamock.... Bruh, she's 13. Of course, people at that age are a little self absorbed. What did you want her to do? Get a job? Run away? I can understand if OP's daughter is 17-18 but expecting a 13 year old to react like an adult is insane.
I don’t think that all relationships are like this first story. I know mine isn’t. Husband and I were talking about losing a few pounds and getting back into fighting shape this morning-or rather I was talking while he looked displeased 😂. I’m not sure if he just likes a little junk in the trunk or what, but he doesn’t like me losing weight when I want to slim back down whenever I put on a few. I’m not sure if it’s that or insecurity because men pay more attention to someone really fit. Obviously he wouldn’t want that. When I saw him balking at my suggestion, I was like “you know if five different good looking rich celebrities showed up asking for my hand-I would turn them down flat and stay with you because I love YOU. Really love you. I’m not going anywhere if that’s why you never want me eating less and working out. I would never leave you in a million years.” And I mean that. Not in the token “yeah this ain’t happening anyway so this promise is cheap and easy” sort of way. No, it’s the actual truth. I really WOULDN’T leave him for the most handsome rich man in the world. Walking away from him would be like chopping off my own arm, ripping out my own heart, destroying my own whole world-all combined. I’ve told my kids to not expect me to live long if their father dies. If I go missing I’ll probably have died of a broken heart on top of his grave. Wherever he goes, I will follow. Even into the great beyond, wherever that leads. If he went to Hell, I’d go with him. Heaven would be Hell anyway without him.
Story 2: NTA. As someone in an actual open relationship, its not what she wanted. She wanted to have sex and to have you as a back up. Open relationships are a lot of work and understanding.
I thought bob was divorced 4 months before the incident when he knocked the OP out. Now Bob is feeding the homeless so much his wife divorced him. Did he get remarried and then divorced again?
I'm not sure I believe that first story myself. I mean he could be extremely nentally vulnerable but that reaction is way too dramatic to be believable
Story about girlfriend wanting open relationship, girl friend needs better friends, if she wants a serious relationship with you & good for your not petting up with her open relationship unless it's what you wanted too!
If this first story is real, OP is a POS for abandoning his daughter. It’s all about him, like his kid is absolutely nothing! He deserves to be alone for that.
damn, putting myself in bobs shoes i wouldn’t sign it, as far as he knew you went apeshit and mocked him and his sister, his apologies, confession and consequences are enough
Police are varied by state. Sometimes you'll get the A1 Police that not only are they on their shit, but make sure everyone is safe in the process. However you have the other half that are constantly trying to hurt people, no matter the severity of the crime. You mostly see a lot of bad around than good, hence why the police are despised.
@@RedneckRapturea cop beats the victim of an affair because of hearsay and hand cuffed and arrested him with no reason false imprisonment battery assault and kidnapping 4 crimes he wasn’t charged with bootlicker
1) Op should have went NV permanently, their daughter was also in on it? Bob should be sued for something like abuse of power, battery, assault and such, you should have went dead silent 2) She’s right, leave her, you don’t need to be cheated on
@@tabicat.puccino7425 what makes you think the daughter was in on it? When he reveals the affair the daughter immediately starts tearing into the mother and after that was probably just worried her dad disappeared.
@@RHuipe13Bruh, the amount of people tearing into a 13 year old who is being left in the dark and is now having her life imploded is just weird. Like, these sound like the people to say "Age is just a number"
To be honest this story is not fake because my sister was in a psych ward and she had internet access, obviously is monitored but she had internet access and plus the part of him being fired for not showing up to work even though that he asked for time off is true from a US standpoint since I live in the US and it happened to me. And to be honest everybody's blaming the daughter is half correct even though that she's a child, following the footsteps of her maternal figure, i bet if the gender were reversed the boy will be more attached to his father, Even thought the kid will feel hurt for both of the parents.
What is with these idiots not reporting assault and abuse in these stories!!!??? You just know this is fake because telling the hospital that your family sent you there would immediately open an investigation.
You don't know, until you've lived it. Hospitals are only required to report abuse in the cases of children, and even then, they tend to drop the ball.
Even if it's fake, I've felt this OP's pain. It also made me treat my dad differently as I was doing what the daughter was doing in the beginning. So even it is fake and old, it helped me
it's sort of mindblowing to me that someone can be like, "I was stone cold silent and said nothing" and then be mad no one notices? (All the rest of the story is wild, but)
I'm thinking how the hell The ops daughter doesn't owe him any apology 🤔 So the op was out off line for leaving his daughter but the daughter wasn't for not bein appreciative and not treating his father like a human bein?
You’re forgetting that this entire saga was written during this guys mental breakdown. Odds are the daughter isn’t nearly as bad as he portrayed but he was in such a dark place after the betrayal of the wife he viewed everything very differently, saw everyone as fake and unappreciative.
@@ChefRye1The kid was 13 and the first thing she did was argue with her mum when he accused her. He then disappeared from her life and she never got to speak to him again
Story 1: Good thing he and his daughter managed to patch things up, a major a-hole move to leave her behind when she did nothing wrong. Idk why the comments are blaming her
2nd Story: yeah open relationships are death to relationships. If you hear open relationship, she is already cheating or has someone in mind. Best to cut ties and move on when open relationships are mentioned.
fun fact: this has nothing to do with an open relationship🥲 she just wants an okay for her to cheat, thats all. no open relationship has a fix time limit of 4 months🥲going in s trip saying she will anyway cheat that is just stupid 😅😂 and entitled
@@hennigadient4265 yeah she just wanted a hall pass to get ran through in Europe. Either way if your partner isn't going to communicate about the problems in your relationship to you, and seeks outside counsel and gets this kind of bad advice, then they aren't mature enough for a relationship.
Open relationships work fine. Its just that it has to actually be an open relationship. What happened in the 1st story is just a cheating partner trying to feel like its ok to cheat. Open relationships work fine if both partners choose it, usually this happens pretty early on before things get serious.
Story 2: The only way you'd be 'worried' you sleep around is if you already know you want to/will if you aren't already stepping out... The bs people will say, and the weaponize psychology slang to gas light and bully people for rightfully setting boundaries because they (OP) won't bend them to their liking. She'd have done better not even bringing it up and treating it like a trip to Vegas when she got back, cuz who seriously thinks "My spouse will totally understand me asking for a hallpass during my holiday trip even though I say I'm happy with them."
As Las Vegan, you're cheating might stay here, but we will talk about it with all our friends and family. The tea I have heard from hotel, restaurant, and private car workers are insane.
Asking for an open relationship is the end of your monogamous relationship. Just walk away. Now the SO can go screw anyone they feel like without someone getting mad at them.
This man treated gis child like crap. Can men stop expecting their children to immediately know what their emotional problems are and therapise them. Yes your kids are selfish but you're the one that raised them that way! Acknowledge you f'ed up and try fix them instead of beefing with a kid
Yeaaaah, nope, this is a complete work of fiction. Lost it right around when he said he triggered an alarm and no one tried to stop him. The rest reads like an edgy high schooler’s writing project.
Story 2: When your partner asks for an open relationship, unless this is on the first date, it usually means that either they have or are planning to cheat on you. Unless you START in an open relationship, there is no reason to HAVE an open relationship if you're happy with your partner.
So his wife cheated on him and he got mad at his daughter, because? Does he not realize she is her own person not an extension of her mother? Why fucking abandoned her like she didnt matter
Wife is the rule when it comes to women not the exception and her brother is the rule when it comes to cops not exception. Good to know the rule gets proven true time and time again.
I heard this one before. Op should have pressed charges on him. He literally hospitalized him.
I agree. The reason he didn't and didn't get him fired is coz he believes he's a good cop and was lied to. Wouldn't stop me personally but hey ho.
@@att6484 A good cop would listen to both sides of the conflict to get to the bottom of the issue and if at worst take them to the station for more questioning. A good cop would not kidnap a suspect and try to force answers out of them the brutal way. Way too quick tempered to be a good cop.
This is why there is a system in place for justice, because if they get the wrong guy then someone innocent gets punished.
@@att6484well, he clearly is not a good cop if he is using it as a shield to commit crimes.
@@RusticRonnie Again I agree, I'm just stating what the dude said. I think the moment you assault a member of the public regardless of the reason you should be fired as a cop, at the very least.
fake stories dont have really real outcomes
The fact that the daughter immediately went after the mom when she found out says that she actually does care about her dad
Why did op wimp out and let them get away with this? I would have gone scorched earth before ghosting.
Medication
Scorched earth would have been better
Medication and cop would most likely make his life hell since they have no repercussions for his actions
Same! I’d have done the same before ghosting.
If it's a true story, he may have always had a fragile mindset but was highly functional. Suddenly finding out his marriage was a sham broke him. How people handle trauma can depend on their mindset before the trauma occurred. Think about an emergency situation, a car crash, a bank robbery or hearing about an active sh ___ ter. Some people think quickly in those situations and some freeze. Some come out of it determined to make changes in the world and some come out of it with PTSD.
Him talking about the numbness and feeling detected and the friends removing his g's and amo was very scary to hear.
I'm glad op1 is getting the help he needs to get better and is able to rebuild his relationship with his daughter and family.
Good trick on bob’s part. Let the guy dissociating and on super strong meds, who isn’t allowed to see the Internet… let him decide if Bob is fired. If bob were a real man, or his boss, they agree that even if OP doesn’t raise a stink, Bob needs to go to jail. Assault. Battery. Kidnapping. False arrest under color of office. Intimidation. Conspiring with his sister to do all of the above.
I almost kinda believed him until he brought up not paying taxes.
He was out of contact for 6 mths and working odd jobs cash in hand. I an not from USA but is tax not deducted from formal wages and a tax return done annually? If so it is more than possible especially given the mental break he had.
It is, but it's possible to fly under the radar if you take your wages under the table (in cash). No official employment means no W2 (a statement of earned income issued by an employer annually). No W2 means any income would have to be reported directly by the taxpayer.
This doesn't mean that the person doesn't OWE taxes, but it does mean that it's possible to avoid having the Internal Revenue Service REALIZE that taxes are owed. OP might have to settle up on the tax issue down the road, but for a while it's possible to avoid the consequences.
If you ask me, OP in story 1 sounds like a manic depressive
Having dealt with someone with that diagnosis, its eerilly similar
Story 2: how come this part didn't click with him ? "I won't be able to enjoy my trip if I *have* to be worried about cheating on you" so "it's better if I can sleep with people ...."
Wtf first and foremost, if cheating is your primary worry if your partner isn't litterally next to you, you have serious issues of being a hoe. If you need to make *efforts* to *not* cheat, damn how many times have you cheated already?
Second, if you think "not cheating" is "preventing you from enjoying", it tells a lot about your intentions on this trip.
third, being "worried about cheating" and saying "i'm opening the relationship" are very different things, in the latter you have absolutely 0 intention of *not* sleeping with some rando.
What I think happened is they were discussing the trip with her friend, got hyped up about hoeing themselves, she realized BF would find out about it, and the friend came up with a plan to legitimize.
I see no other reason for the sequence of arguments.
nicely said
Even if it is fake: Op isn't an a-hole, he is broken and mental ill ! and needs help. His got shattered in a way he wasn't able to fight and no one should expect it of him to only to feel better them self. Bc who ever hears that story should see the hell he is in!🙏 sometimes we cant fight anymore if we are broken and just trying to survive
BUT the daughter should be begging for forgiveness bc she fucked up not him!
How did the daughter mess up?!
The preface is the reason I like SecretVoices. They only try to publish real stories and if they think it might actually be fake, they let you know up front.
The reason I think this is fake: I don't know any psych ward that allows you to access the internet. I've been in one before.
The preface adds a bit of character to the channel as a whole which I really appreciate
The only Reddit TH-camr that I'd support honestly.
The others just like to throw shit in, AI or not. Most even try to change names or gender just to throw us off.
@@KenshiIV reminds me of Telltales. Everyday it seems like people notice how fake a story is. Hell, some people started commenting lists on how to catch the fake stories.
It does seem to be "based on a true story", some of the details are spot-on, others are not as plausible. Definitely not AI generated, and a lot of it tracks with people who have actually been cheated on.
It's counter-intuitive, but often the true stories do end in fiction, where the writer gets revenge and lives happily ever after. That's never how it plays out in the real world.
True and false are never the perfect binary states we like to believe they are. Nobody writes about their own experiences objectively. It's more like it's written by someone who is in the middle of all this shit, they can give an accurate accounting up until their present time to get it off their chest, then they finish the story with the resolution they actually want to give themselves hope.
So I'd call this "True", with an asterisk beside it, which is about as authentic as it gets if not told by an objective third party.
I believe this is probably real. My father suffered a total mental break and OPs description of his reactions is totally in line with what happened with my Dad. Fortunately after 4 mths in hospital and 12 further months of therapy my Dad slowly recovered and we all had another 45yrs with the best man I have known being very present in our lives. I am grateful I don't live in USA because from what I have seen & heard from my USA based sister, there is no way we would have gotten that level of care without major financial outlay there. My Dad was a self employed farmer and a large part of the lead up to his break was financial pressures.
Yeah i have heard this one before, it's a sad story and he should have filed charges against Bob. Should never have forgiven his daughter, and never had any contact with the people from his past.
@@Censorthisbananahamock y’all keep talking smack on the daughter but keep in mind that when he wrote this he was having a breakdown and extremely depressed. The way he viewed his memories and his daughter aren’t going to accurately reflect reality and the only thing that is clear is she immediately tore into the mother when he revealed the affair.
@RHuipe13 nope, the daughter was part of the problem if you listened to the story, she took her father for granted and only when faced with reality and losing her financial support did she come around. She was part of the problem in being a trash kid, doesn't matter if she tore into her mother she didn't call put her uncle and report him, she didn't try to cut off all contact with mom.
@@RHuipe13daughter only cared about the money OP could provide, not OP himself as a typical woman is known for
@@ChefRye1The fact you called a 13 year old girl a 'woman' as if they're in a fully developed mental state is ewww...
@@Censorthisbananahamock.... Bruh, she's 13. Of course, people at that age are a little self absorbed. What did you want her to do? Get a job? Run away? I can understand if OP's daughter is 17-18 but expecting a 13 year old to react like an adult is insane.
I don’t think that all relationships are like this first story. I know mine isn’t. Husband and I were talking about losing a few pounds and getting back into fighting shape this morning-or rather I was talking while he looked displeased 😂. I’m not sure if he just likes a little junk in the trunk or what, but he doesn’t like me losing weight when I want to slim back down whenever I put on a few. I’m not sure if it’s that or insecurity because men pay more attention to someone really fit. Obviously he wouldn’t want that. When I saw him balking at my suggestion, I was like “you know if five different good looking rich celebrities showed up asking for my hand-I would turn them down flat and stay with you because I love YOU. Really love you. I’m not going anywhere if that’s why you never want me eating less and working out. I would never leave you in a million years.” And I mean that. Not in the token “yeah this ain’t happening anyway so this promise is cheap and easy” sort of way. No, it’s the actual truth. I really WOULDN’T leave him for the most handsome rich man in the world. Walking away from him would be like chopping off my own arm, ripping out my own heart, destroying my own whole world-all combined. I’ve told my kids to not expect me to live long if their father dies. If I go missing I’ll probably have died of a broken heart on top of his grave. Wherever he goes, I will follow. Even into the great beyond, wherever that leads. If he went to Hell, I’d go with him. Heaven would be Hell anyway without him.
17:53 That woman does not deserve a relationship with her father, nor does she deserve a single apology, OP was better off without her
*Where's The Video With The Updates To The 2nd Story!?!*
It hasn't been updated
I appreciate the clarity on it possibly being fake.
Story 2: NTA. As someone in an actual open relationship, its not what she wanted. She wanted to have sex and to have you as a back up.
Open relationships are a lot of work and understanding.
I thought bob was divorced 4 months before the incident when he knocked the OP out. Now Bob is feeding the homeless so much his wife divorced him. Did he get remarried and then divorced again?
Title: I abandoned my family and I'm okay with it
I'm not sure I believe that first story myself. I mean he could be extremely nentally vulnerable but that reaction is way too dramatic to be believable
Story about girlfriend wanting open relationship, girl friend needs better friends, if she wants a serious relationship with you & good for your not petting up with her open relationship unless it's what you wanted too!
If this first story is real, OP is a POS for abandoning his daughter. It’s all about him, like his kid is absolutely nothing! He deserves to be alone for that.
Lmao. Did you even pay attention? He wants to be alone, so you're saying he deserves what he wants as a punishment? Doesn't make much sense to me.
Its very possible to be real.
Please cover the post by stupidtest_
I'll upload it as a short
4:55 congratulations, you found out you re a male
12:17 congratulations you became a man
damn, putting myself in bobs shoes i wouldn’t sign it, as far as he knew you went apeshit and mocked him and his sister, his apologies, confession and consequences are enough
Why the police are despised
Police are varied by state. Sometimes you'll get the A1 Police that not only are they on their shit, but make sure everyone is safe in the process. However you have the other half that are constantly trying to hurt people, no matter the severity of the crime. You mostly see a lot of bad around than good, hence why the police are despised.
Exactly. For cases like this one
Plenty of reasons.
Did you not listen to the whole story?
@@RedneckRapturea cop beats the victim of an affair because of hearsay and hand cuffed and arrested him with no reason false imprisonment battery assault and kidnapping 4 crimes he wasn’t charged with bootlicker
2nd story. Do not take her back. That was a very big red flag and you made the right decision.
Cheating is always a choice, normal people don't worry about "accidentally" cheating on a vacation.
@@joshuawells7415 this! Friend is a narcissist.
1) Op should have went NV permanently, their daughter was also in on it? Bob should be sued for something like abuse of power, battery, assault and such, you should have went dead silent
2) She’s right, leave her, you don’t need to be cheated on
@@tabicat.puccino7425 what makes you think the daughter was in on it? When he reveals the affair the daughter immediately starts tearing into the mother and after that was probably just worried her dad disappeared.
@@RHuipe13Bruh, the amount of people tearing into a 13 year old who is being left in the dark and is now having her life imploded is just weird. Like, these sound like the people to say "Age is just a number"
@@calico_queen8976 I think most people missed the age and were thinking at least five years higher.
Also 13-year-olds can be pretty damned cruel too.
To be honest this story is not fake because my sister was in a psych ward and she had internet access, obviously is monitored but she had internet access and plus the part of him being fired for not showing up to work even though that he asked for time off is true from a US standpoint since I live in the US and it happened to me.
And to be honest everybody's blaming the daughter is half correct even though that she's a child, following the footsteps of her maternal figure, i bet if the gender were reversed the boy will be more attached to his father, Even thought the kid will feel hurt for both of the parents.
What is with these idiots not reporting assault and abuse in these stories!!!??? You just know this is fake because telling the hospital that your family sent you there would immediately open an investigation.
OK TV expert. 😂😅
You don't know, until you've lived it. Hospitals are only required to report abuse in the cases of children, and even then, they tend to drop the ball.
What they said
Even if it's fake, I've felt this OP's pain. It also made me treat my dad differently as I was doing what the daughter was doing in the beginning. So even it is fake and old, it helped me
it's sort of mindblowing to me that someone can be like, "I was stone cold silent and said nothing" and then be mad no one notices? (All the rest of the story is wild, but)
Its shock, i've been there
idk, if they talked all the time before that then he went absolute silent one day, i would have definitely noticed
I'm thinking how the hell The ops daughter doesn't owe him any apology 🤔 So the op was out off line for leaving his daughter but the daughter wasn't for not bein appreciative and not treating his father like a human bein?
she is a terrible daughter and doesn't deserve her dad .
You’re forgetting that this entire saga was written during this guys mental breakdown. Odds are the daughter isn’t nearly as bad as he portrayed but he was in such a dark place after the betrayal of the wife he viewed everything very differently, saw everyone as fake and unappreciative.
@@RHuipe13is the guy who believes women shouldn’t be held accountable for their actions 😂
@@ChefRye1The kid was 13 and the first thing she did was argue with her mum when he accused her. He then disappeared from her life and she never got to speak to him again
Man, when Bob showed up and beat him unconscious, that part really hit hard. What a messed up situation all around.
Story 1: Good thing he and his daughter managed to patch things up, a major a-hole move to leave her behind when she did nothing wrong. Idk why the comments are blaming her
Story 1 sounds like what a psychotic break might be like
2nd Story: yeah open relationships are death to relationships. If you hear open relationship, she is already cheating or has someone in mind. Best to cut ties and move on when open relationships are mentioned.
fun fact: this has nothing to do with an open relationship🥲 she just wants an okay for her to cheat, thats all. no open relationship has a fix time limit of 4 months🥲going in s trip saying she will anyway cheat
that is just stupid 😅😂 and entitled
An open marriage is simply a divorce in waiting.
@@hennigadient4265 yeah she just wanted a hall pass to get ran through in Europe. Either way if your partner isn't going to communicate about the problems in your relationship to you, and seeks outside counsel and gets this kind of bad advice, then they aren't mature enough for a relationship.
Open relationships work fine. Its just that it has to actually be an open relationship. What happened in the 1st story is just a cheating partner trying to feel like its ok to cheat.
Open relationships work fine if both partners choose it, usually this happens pretty early on before things get serious.
My guess is that she and her friend expected OP to be a simp only to learn he's not a pushover .
JFC. The title. 😮
Story 2: The only way you'd be 'worried' you sleep around is if you already know you want to/will if you aren't already stepping out... The bs people will say, and the weaponize psychology slang to gas light and bully people for rightfully setting boundaries because they (OP) won't bend them to their liking.
She'd have done better not even bringing it up and treating it like a trip to Vegas when she got back, cuz who seriously thinks "My spouse will totally understand me asking for a hallpass during my holiday trip even though I say I'm happy with them."
As Las Vegan, you're cheating might stay here, but we will talk about it with all our friends and family. The tea I have heard from hotel, restaurant, and private car workers are insane.
Story 2. Nta. What in the hell has happened that has made young women become so proud to turn into garden tools. 🙇
Asking for an open relationship is the end of your monogamous relationship. Just walk away. Now the SO can go screw anyone they feel like without someone getting mad at them.
I appreciate the disclamer.
Sounds to human to be fake
boy that was NOT intresting to read 😭
This man treated gis child like crap. Can men stop expecting their children to immediately know what their emotional problems are and therapise them. Yes your kids are selfish but you're the one that raised them that way! Acknowledge you f'ed up and try fix them instead of beefing with a kid
Yeaaaah, nope, this is a complete work of fiction. Lost it right around when he said he triggered an alarm and no one tried to stop him. The rest reads like an edgy high schooler’s writing project.
Story 2: When your partner asks for an open relationship, unless this is on the first date, it usually means that either they have or are planning to cheat on you. Unless you START in an open relationship, there is no reason to HAVE an open relationship if you're happy with your partner.
So his wife cheated on him and he got mad at his daughter, because?
Does he not realize she is her own person not an extension of her mother?
Why fucking abandoned her like she didnt matter
Great description of depression.
Sounds like a real life Creepypasta
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It’s so tragic. OP was finally seeing the truth of this sick society, but they pulled him back in.
Wife is the rule when it comes to women not the exception and her brother is the rule when it comes to cops not exception. Good to know the rule gets proven true time and time again.
Thank you for sharing your story! I'm so glad you found a way to express yourself. I hope you're doing okay now.