I remember this story this man went from bs to giga Chad and the cherry on top he got with the ob's and they're happy. It was so funny the ex wanted to mend things after having an affair for 2 years and the counselor as usual they excuse her behavior
The thing that is obvious is that the ex didn't really change at all. People were in OPs DMs on Reddit asking why he wouldn't take her back if she was showing such improvement, and he said he wouldn't tolerate disrespect. If someone knows they can get away with disrespecting you once, it's harder not to fall back into old habits and do it again, even on a micro level. May not be tomorrow or the next day, but it will happen one day. Ex proved that throughout the story.
What cheaters don't understand is that they betray the partner and the kids. Cheating is an act of pure selfishness that destroys the perception of the cheater and that the betrayed had of themselves.
How can she claim she isn’t that person anymore conveniently when she gets caught, she cheated for 2 years and would have kept doing it she’s sorry she got caught
“People around me are calling me evil for not giving my wife another chance” OP WIFE LITERALLY BETRAYED HER HUSBAND BY SLEEPING WITH HER BOSS, DESTROYING TWO FAMILIES. THE DAY SHE STARTED THE AFFAIR WITH HER BOSS WAS THE DAY THE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER AND THERE’S NOTHING TO DO TO FIX IT.
Let’s see how they get cheated bet they quick to draw up those divorce papers 😂bunch of hypocrites the one the betrayal spouse to forgive and give their cheating spouse a chance but let them get cheated bet they won’t give them a chance
It's good that ex-wife went on and on about OP not having a revenge affair; making him promise. Enough time passed so that OP was able to move on to a real relationship and not just a revenge fling. Ex-wife should focus on her relationship with her kids and herself.
Ppl really piss me off with siding with the Cheater saying oh they made a mistake yadda yadda you should forgive them yaddda yadda yall been together for so long yall can work pass it yadda yadda like shut the fuck up and stay out of other people business let’s see how you guys like it when it’s yall being cheated let’s see you give your cheating spouse a chance
The funny thing is if the roles were reversed those same people would tell the wife to dump him, don't look back, keep the kids from him, and take him for all he's worth. When wives cheat, there is always a collective of people telling the husband to try and work things out. When husbands cheat, *everyone* understands her anger and actively tells her to go scorched earth.
@@lamargordon6017 EXACTLY! and they see why most men won’t marry western women and are stepping outside to marry women from different countries cus they treating their husbands better then our own women out here
Seriously man Ik I’ve heard the reasons why people cheat and it still never makes sense to me I guess it’s cause I’ve never cheated on anyone I’ve dated and don’t plan on compromising my morals like that that I’ll never understand is but if you have everything why throw it away it’s pure stupidity.
2 year affair and he's the bad guy for not giving her another chance. It wasn't a one time thing, it was a whole other relationship and she made the choice to abandon her family and children.
You could potentially make the argument that having sex with someone outside the relationship once is a mistake. I’m not, but hypothetically you could. But two years? That would be over 600 consecutive mistakes with no efforts made to prevent the mistake from happening again. Always assume incompetence over malice I always say, but I also always say that at some point the two become indistinguishable.
Im just saying ... most divorce laywers of people who have cheated will advise their clients to have seggs with the victim ... so its a proof that the victim had kind of 'forgiven' the cheating so it doesn't count in the divorce anymore and can't be used against the cheater in divorce ... so yeah ... don't have seggs when you plan to divorce. And have some freaking self respect tf.
"Don't ask. You need to already know" is poison even in a healthy relationship
Her definetely : What is "communication" ?!?!?!
I remember this story this man went from bs to giga Chad and the cherry on top he got with the ob's and they're happy. It was so funny the ex wanted to mend things after having an affair for 2 years and the counselor as usual they excuse her behavior
I don’t know why some counselors are so biased. Where’d they get their liscences from? A cereal box?
Counselers must be cheated on and feel how it is@@Shuichisaihara5499
@@Shuichisaihara5499 I miss cereal box prizes
The thing that is obvious is that the ex didn't really change at all. People were in OPs DMs on Reddit asking why he wouldn't take her back if she was showing such improvement, and he said he wouldn't tolerate disrespect. If someone knows they can get away with disrespecting you once, it's harder not to fall back into old habits and do it again, even on a micro level. May not be tomorrow or the next day, but it will happen one day. Ex proved that throughout the story.
What cheaters don't understand is that they betray the partner and the kids. Cheating is an act of pure selfishness that destroys the perception of the cheater and that the betrayed had of themselves.
That’s now how it works.
How can she claim she isn’t that person anymore conveniently when she gets caught, she cheated for 2 years and would have kept doing it she’s sorry she got caught
“People around me are calling me evil for not giving my wife another chance”
OP WIFE LITERALLY BETRAYED HER HUSBAND BY SLEEPING WITH HER BOSS, DESTROYING TWO FAMILIES. THE DAY SHE STARTED THE AFFAIR WITH HER BOSS WAS THE DAY THE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER AND THERE’S NOTHING TO DO TO FIX IT.
Let’s see how they get cheated bet they quick to draw up those divorce papers 😂bunch of hypocrites the one the betrayal spouse to forgive and give their cheating spouse a chance but let them get cheated bet they won’t give them a chance
Funny how cheaters are willing to do all the hard work after being caught and served divorce papers
Hard prove you're remorseful when you cheated for 2 fucking years
It's hard to prove remorse the second you cheated
"it absolutely floors me that cheaters are this selfish"
it shouldn't. Selfishness is kinda the whole premise of the thing
Usually the person who says the two wrongs don’t make a right is the a third party…
It's good that ex-wife went on and on about OP not having a revenge affair; making him promise. Enough time passed so that OP was able to move on to a real relationship and not just a revenge fling. Ex-wife should focus on her relationship with her kids and herself.
*Ex-Wife and her Boss/AP FAFOed 🔥💯 !!!*
😂😂😂
Ppl really piss me off with siding with the Cheater saying oh they made a mistake yadda yadda you should forgive them yaddda yadda yall been together for so long yall can work pass it yadda yadda like shut the fuck up and stay out of other people business let’s see how you guys like it when it’s yall being cheated let’s see you give your cheating spouse a chance
The funny thing is if the roles were reversed those same people would tell the wife to dump him, don't look back, keep the kids from him, and take him for all he's worth. When wives cheat, there is always a collective of people telling the husband to try and work things out. When husbands cheat, *everyone* understands her anger and actively tells her to go scorched earth.
@@lamargordon6017 EXACTLY! and they see why most men won’t marry western women and are stepping outside to marry women from different countries cus they treating their husbands better then our own women out here
Seriously man Ik I’ve heard the reasons why people cheat and it still never makes sense to me I guess it’s cause I’ve never cheated on anyone I’ve dated and don’t plan on compromising my morals like that that I’ll never understand is but if you have everything why throw it away it’s pure stupidity.
Don’t point fingers at someone unless you want that finger pointed back at you
2 year affair and he's the bad guy for not giving her another chance. It wasn't a one time thing, it was a whole other relationship and she made the choice to abandon her family and children.
*_"Friends"_* who support EX-wife :
Men = SIMPS ; CUCKS
Girls (including OP’s Mother) = 304s just like EX-wife
You could potentially make the argument that having sex with someone outside the relationship once is a mistake. I’m not, but hypothetically you could. But two years? That would be over 600 consecutive mistakes with no efforts made to prevent the mistake from happening again. Always assume incompetence over malice I always say, but I also always say that at some point the two become indistinguishable.
Hood job team's up with the wife two people living yhe betrayal and showing support is a way to control the painful truth 💔 needs to start the healing
Im just saying ... most divorce laywers of people who have cheated will advise their clients to have seggs with the victim ... so its a proof that the victim had kind of 'forgiven' the cheating so it doesn't count in the divorce anymore and can't be used against the cheater in divorce ... so yeah ... don't have seggs when you plan to divorce.
And have some freaking self respect tf.
Any clue what the last m stands for in the user name. I've get the rest stands for "you have got to be kidding me"
“Man” the full name is “you have got to be kidding me man”
Talk is cheap actions aren't.
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