Since a couple people asked for it here's the video that played in the intro drive.google.com/drive/folders/1EID6hxFtIPLf7SGp3s7gGFs9aBvXR-5v?usp=sharing Also the links for the art used in the video, please check them out x.com/DragonRoIlZ/status/1757623076764647713 x.com/Drooling_Demon/status/1801400931952771147
my friend has a dead name and when i accidentally called them by it they were like “hah!- I see you found out my true name heh-! unfortunately i cant let you live! ill finally unleash my true power!” and then they punched me
As a trans person what helped me most is to just be myself and not think about it. Like if I like how E feels Ill be on E, if I want to dress more fem I will, if I want to dress more masc Ill do that too. Ofc passing and safety is a big deal so be carful, people can be so evil :(
it might still insinuate the "fem" part a bit much, when the main focus is kinda in between these aesthetics. So I gotta side with Themboys, since Tomboy is already a term in common use, I think it makes sense to be along the lines of that. A little play on words seems fitting I guess.
I'm agender and go by any/all pronouns. When I stopped identifying as cis, I realized I had no problem with my assigned gender but instead the restrictions and expectations. But then identifying as nonbinary opened up a whole new set of ickiness, more restrictions like no gendered words, and getting misgendered all the time. Now I just identify with my body. Like "yeah, that's what people call bodies like mine" but personality wise, I don't understand gender past fem, masc, and body dysmorphia. One could make the argument I'm bigender, but one identity is a lack of gender and the other I don't actually identify with...
agreed. i wonder sometimes if i could identify with my assigned gender again. like maybe if it lacked such restrictions and expectations as well as the experiences that come with my gender. i don't really understand gender too.. i believe i read something abotu this being called gendervoid or genderblank, where u don't understand it, or your own gender.. like your mind goes blank. anyways, i never had a problem with my gender, but i never fully associated with it and as i said before, i hate the experiences... and i like how they mentioned a themboys being a thing where u are nb but femme leaning. this has always been me.
the going by gendered terms is so real!! im not sure how to describe because like when i found out i was non-binary i ended up feeling like i had to conform to a different binary in an androgynous way like instead of just not being in the binary i thought i had to be genderless like its a 3rd gender?? now i do what i want. i ate all the gender candy. my greed for gender knows no bounds >:3c
that deadname thing speaks to me so hard. my name irl is collin, and whenever i say it out loud its always like a mouthful for me, it's always made me... maybe uncomfortable is the wrong word, but uncomfortable that that's my identity even though i've used it my entire life. i go by mac or macsour (tag) online though and it's just happenstance that mac happens to be my middle name (mackenzie) and it's always felt so much better to identify with. i've always wanted to drop collin but i just can't because so many people know me by it, and it's my legal name so. easier to just call me by my real name instead of the online one when i'm in social situations. but in the back of my mind it's always felt so weird having to explain to everyone my name is collin. maybe this is a wakeup call lmao, but i'll process that later i guess. all the people i care about in my life call me mac anyways so it kinda works out anyways rant over, great video, idk why it was recommended to me but i'm lowkey kinda happy i clicked on it. if you read comments, what made you decide to go nonbinary? i haven't made that leap yet but i am considering using he/any pronouns bc in my personal view i don't really care about mine (but happily will respect others obviously)
im in a similar situation with my first name (now a dead name), one day i just thought "fuck it im (middle name) now!" Alot of people still use my first name when first meeting me or out of habit. But it still feels worth it to me to be comfortable with that piece of my identity even if it's kind of inconvenient sometimes.
I really appreciate this video. It can be a little sketchy to share queer thoughts online because there are always people who are gonna hate, but im glad the comments here are chill, and its all just wholesome
Hi! Since one of your thoughts involved agender individuals, I thought I'll share my personal experience with it! When it comes to me as an agender individual, and be mindful everyone's experience may be different, I see myself as just a person. I don't have that inner gender feeling people keep talking about, and I don't really care what pronouns people refer to me as either, cause it's just language. I don't really care about people deadnaming me either, just like you! And my other identity/identities, aroace/aromantic and asexual, is straight passing as well, so yayy staying in the closet, am I right? But anyway, I'd say I'm pretty indifferent. Like I have my pet peeves, like boobs cause they're annoying, or people assuming or imposing things about me just because I'm a girl in their eyes, but it's not like I get dysphoria out of them! Overall, I'm just a person, and gender is a social construct that I simply don't get, nor abide by. I think the fact I'm also autistic ties into this, with the whole not getting social constructs and stuff. Also when it comes to thinking in gendered terms, I see it in two meanings of the word. First, the one I was taught, the characteristics that can be perceived and categorized by which people look at me and say: girl. Or by which I look at people and think: probably this or that. Second, the inside feeling of gender, the one which I lack. Sometimes the two meanings align, sometimes they clash. Second takes priority though, cause even though I can see the features, I can see the characteristics, I'm still gonna call them by their preferred pronouns, cause I mean c'mon, that's just basic human decency and they're absolutely valid. But, up and foremost, I see people as people. I'm not gonna assume or inpose something on somebody just because they're this or that when it comes to gender. I just wish more people would act the same.
I think the way you summarized gendered terms also reflects how I feel about them. Thanks for sharing your experiences and your thoughts about all this, it's appreciated!
wow, interesting😊! I experience agender-ness in a completely different way. though to be fair I'm not just agender. I'm kinda fluid but mainly agender so yeah
that intro was peak, no better way to start a video than with a fade in to terraria day theme i can also relate to the deadname dilema. I dont enjoy hearing mine but im kinda numb to it, so it doesnt affect me very much. Also my envy is just A2 from NieR: Automata. I dont even know why shes just cool and i wanna be her.
This is so real, like im still figuring myself out and its so wierd when i think about how others think of the me that i present because im a coward and im too scared to talk about myself lol.
Also, i wanna make july an honorary pride month part 2 because im queer and im a july baby and having pride month end like right before my birthday is dumb to me. So happy pride month everyone!
Gender doesn't automatically lead to pronouns; they don't always correspond 1:1. For example, a non-binary person can go by binary pronouns, and an agender person can go by they/them or anything that person wants!
Every time I shower I think of the one Tumblr post that goes something like "If I'm a bi girl and I nail a bi guy that's literally gay sex, pemdas or whatever like it cancels out"
it’s real to feel all the pressure of your relationships when thinking about transitioning. Ultimately though, I feel you should think about your own wellbeing in making this decision rather than the people around you. You’re going to be living with yourself forever after all. I’ve been questioning whether or not to transition for a while now and what I’m doing now is trying out the facets of transitioning that don’t involve surgery or hrt (taking care of my hair and skin and trying out new hairstyles, trying out new names, looking into more femme clothing). But I’m the end I want to make the decision that will make me the happiest. If you want some actual advice on whether or not to transition, Chipflake’s video about the topic was something I really resonated with I highly recommend it. And if you’re in a position to, try finding some friends in the queer space that you I can bounce ideas off of.
And of course if you feel you need to stay in the closet for longer due to personal reasons you should stay. I painted the closet to be absolutely terrible in this video but sometimes it’s necessary.
I think you might be the most relatable enby I've found on this platform so far lmao. Only video of yours I've seen, but I'm left wanting to listen to you ramble more
No matter how closeted you are, you can be 100% what you feel at a pride event any everyone will love you for it. The trick is getting to and from the pride event without running into neighbors.
2:02 i cant tell if he said “i have smash friends who follow me” like he has friends who play smash with him or if he said “i have smashed friends who follow me” 😭
the fact that you put marcy as gender envy.png and I litterally called myself marceline cause bubbline made me realise Im trans... how dare you attack me
Getting rid of the omelette is the best approach I think, but it takes some people a lot of time and life circumstances to align to be able to do that. I'm old as balls and still working on that.
i started using agender after slowly coming to think that i dont experience gender the way most people do. fundamentally cannot grasp the concept. but, since i was raised and interact in such a heavily gendered world, it still is very deeply set in the ways i categorize myself and others and how i experience my gender. in many ways, gender is very deconstructed for me. but i still experience dysphoria (minor and it comes and goes, but i am on hrt) and all pronouns feel a bit uncomfortable to me (inherent associations with gender i think; i will say that she/her always is the most uncomfortable for me due to feeling that people perceive me as a woman as someone who presents very fem, and having any gender tied to me is gross). i also have very strange relationships with various gendered terms. "woman" and "man" are not something i would use or want applied to me, but "girl" or "boy" are fine. the connotations and roles associated with the terms are what it is, i think. im not a woman but i did experience girlhood and still relate to various aspects that are tied with being a girl, and thus "girl" is okay. im not a man but being called "boy" is incredibly funny so its okay. my gender is for the bit and language is strange and convoluted and constantly evolving. loved reading about differing gender experiences in these comments though, really cool :)
im literally in the closet rn i only told one of my friends that i might be trans and then none of my other friends or family despite probably none of them caring if i did and they would be accepting it’s just that i don’t talk about it 🥰🥰🥰🤭🤭🤭
I have vague memories of before becoming trans, where my friend (who’s also trans) sent me an email regarding something, but their email used their deadname. So in a brilliant fucking display of my stupidity, I responded with “okay, ‘DEADNAME’” as a joke without realizing then a year later, I realized I deadnamed them and now it makes me want to throw myself into a pit of angry republicans. we’re cool about it but I still feel really bad.
Yeah I definitely get that "why even worry about if ... is ..." Probably just me and my strange sexuality and brain but I've always just been with whoever I thought was attractive of both genders, and everything in between. I think it's probably way more stressful to have the "gay panic" or "straight panic" when you're specifically into one thing and find something outside of that norm that's appealing. Although that being said it definitly confuses friends and family when I go from dating bears to twinks to butch women and stereotypical pretty girls, so everyone has their struggles I guess 🤷♂️😅
Since a couple people asked for it here's the video that played in the intro drive.google.com/drive/folders/1EID6hxFtIPLf7SGp3s7gGFs9aBvXR-5v?usp=sharing
Also the links for the art used in the video, please check them out
x.com/DragonRoIlZ/status/1757623076764647713
x.com/Drooling_Demon/status/1801400931952771147
guys im gay is that gay☹☹
no. don't worry. I'm gay too and I'm not gay👍
yes im straight. yes im a boy who likes other boys. we exist.
nah. not unless you play dnd.
No
@@coalminez same, don't worry
just because we're gay doesn't mean we're gay. liking men is completely different!
thought i was a gay guy until i found out i was bi girl.
real
@@Yozuli both me and my girlfriend are trans so its still gay asf :3
I thought I was a bi guy, until i found out im a pan girl
@@alexzacuber real
Ayo same queen
The perk of being an aromantic is that your focused on furthering your fanfictions as apposed to figuring out who to ask out on a date.
I’m aromantic but still haven’t updated in a year 😔
@@Ellie_2810 Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH, but it's the siege of Thunder Bay.
stop calling me out PLEASE
my friend has a dead name and when i accidentally called them by it they were like “hah!-
I see you found out my true name heh-! unfortunately i cant let you live! ill finally unleash my true power!” and then they punched me
that’s pretty cool
My subconscious does a regex replace with deadnames.
damn i didnt know yoshikage kira transitioned
dudes being dudes
the only correct response
currently on the toilet questioning my gender
this is so real
I was doing the same very recently. Decided writing a webcomic would be a better way to make sense of what I was feeling. What a turn of events.
Same except it's sexuality im questioning
I don't question my gender, what's the point, like if I think hard enough I can figure it out?
As a trans person what helped me most is to just be myself and not think about it.
Like if I like how E feels Ill be on E, if I want to dress more fem I will, if I want to dress more masc Ill do that too.
Ofc passing and safety is a big deal so be carful, people can be so evil :(
real, i only think about gender most of the time in reference to how others will perceive mine and how it will cause other people to act
stay strapped my g
@@kiwo579 never leave home wthiout a deagle atleast
“Themboy” no no!
Femby (pronounced as Fem in femboy, and enby, like Fem-BEE)
this
🐝🐝🐝
femby (aka girlby) is actually a gender, it's in between non-binary and female. there is also enboy which is inbetween non-binary and male
it might still insinuate the "fem" part a bit much, when the main focus is kinda in between these aesthetics. So I gotta side with Themboys, since Tomboy is already a term in common use, I think it makes sense to be along the lines of that. A little play on words seems fitting I guess.
Fun fact: You should call dead names "necronyms"
I'm agender and go by any/all pronouns. When I stopped identifying as cis, I realized I had no problem with my assigned gender but instead the restrictions and expectations. But then identifying as nonbinary opened up a whole new set of ickiness, more restrictions like no gendered words, and getting misgendered all the time. Now I just identify with my body. Like "yeah, that's what people call bodies like mine" but personality wise, I don't understand gender past fem, masc, and body dysmorphia. One could make the argument I'm bigender, but one identity is a lack of gender and the other I don't actually identify with...
agreed. i wonder sometimes if i could identify with my assigned gender again. like maybe if it lacked such restrictions and expectations as well as the experiences that come with my gender. i don't really understand gender too.. i believe i read something abotu this being called gendervoid or genderblank, where u don't understand it, or your own gender.. like your mind goes blank. anyways, i never had a problem with my gender, but i never fully associated with it and as i said before, i hate the experiences...
and i like how they mentioned a themboys being a thing where u are nb but femme leaning. this has always been me.
i feel very similarly and identify as agender myself
me fr. I just when with nb cus it was the most common one I heard. and its mine now.
Me too!! I still id as agender tho-
It’s a shame that people insist that your personality and lifestyle has anything to do with what’s between your legs.
"Is [BLANK] gay?" should always be followed up with "what, are you a cop?"
🧱 -> 👮♂️
You put the A’s in Gay!
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fellas, is it gay to be gay and queer and gay? cuz i sure am
“Costo free-sample” 💀
I fucking love this video :3
the going by gendered terms is so real!! im not sure how to describe because like when i found out i was non-binary i ended up feeling like i had to conform to a different binary in an androgynous way like instead of just not being in the binary i thought i had to be genderless like its a 3rd gender?? now i do what i want. i ate all the gender candy. my greed for gender knows no bounds >:3c
That's my queer cat boy champion right there! :D
You know someones been watching dungeon meshi when they compare themselves to an omellette
1:16 it’s not gay to do it, it’s gay to enjoy doing it
We're reaching levels of based once thought impossible
im glad im not the only one having gender envy for izutsumi
its so real,….
I'm so glad you decided to use my shower for this
no problem
Clarification: link is all types of trans at once
5:08 "In a cis way" that is thee most egg thing I have heard in a while
Best moment in the video for me lmfaoooo
"this drawing specifically"
mood
"new trend called themboys" i hate to be the one to break the news that fraxiom music did this 4 years ago
Dana Terrace is God. Dying on this hill.
Wrong.Daisuke is
>nonbinary
>bisexual
how daring
...the images, no -the sensation- you put in my head when you say the word zesty after the word swallow
i'm gay
no wayyyyyyyy
this guy’s gay!
being gay is kinda gay IMO
Woooooow
that deadname thing speaks to me so hard. my name irl is collin, and whenever i say it out loud its always like a mouthful for me, it's always made me... maybe uncomfortable is the wrong word, but uncomfortable that that's my identity even though i've used it my entire life. i go by mac or macsour (tag) online though and it's just happenstance that mac happens to be my middle name (mackenzie) and it's always felt so much better to identify with. i've always wanted to drop collin but i just can't because so many people know me by it, and it's my legal name so. easier to just call me by my real name instead of the online one when i'm in social situations. but in the back of my mind it's always felt so weird having to explain to everyone my name is collin. maybe this is a wakeup call lmao, but i'll process that later i guess. all the people i care about in my life call me mac anyways so it kinda works out
anyways rant over, great video, idk why it was recommended to me but i'm lowkey kinda happy i clicked on it. if you read comments, what made you decide to go nonbinary? i haven't made that leap yet but i am considering using he/any pronouns bc in my personal view i don't really care about mine (but happily will respect others obviously)
im in a similar situation with my first name (now a dead name), one day i just thought "fuck it im (middle name) now!" Alot of people still use my first name when first meeting me or out of habit. But it still feels worth it to me to be comfortable with that piece of my identity even if it's kind of inconvenient sometimes.
hi mac
IZUTSUMI MENTION
I really appreciate this video. It can be a little sketchy to share queer thoughts online because there are always people who are gonna hate, but im glad the comments here are chill, and its all just wholesome
Your so basedmaxxing
Hi! Since one of your thoughts involved agender individuals, I thought I'll share my personal experience with it!
When it comes to me as an agender individual, and be mindful everyone's experience may be different, I see myself as just a person. I don't have that inner gender feeling people keep talking about, and I don't really care what pronouns people refer to me as either, cause it's just language. I don't really care about people deadnaming me either, just like you! And my other identity/identities, aroace/aromantic and asexual, is straight passing as well, so yayy staying in the closet, am I right? But anyway, I'd say I'm pretty indifferent. Like I have my pet peeves, like boobs cause they're annoying, or people assuming or imposing things about me just because I'm a girl in their eyes, but it's not like I get dysphoria out of them! Overall, I'm just a person, and gender is a social construct that I simply don't get, nor abide by. I think the fact I'm also autistic ties into this, with the whole not getting social constructs and stuff.
Also when it comes to thinking in gendered terms, I see it in two meanings of the word. First, the one I was taught, the characteristics that can be perceived and categorized by which people look at me and say: girl. Or by which I look at people and think: probably this or that.
Second, the inside feeling of gender, the one which I lack. Sometimes the two meanings align, sometimes they clash. Second takes priority though, cause even though I can see the features, I can see the characteristics, I'm still gonna call them by their preferred pronouns, cause I mean c'mon, that's just basic human decency and they're absolutely valid.
But, up and foremost, I see people as people. I'm not gonna assume or inpose something on somebody just because they're this or that when it comes to gender. I just wish more people would act the same.
I think the way you summarized gendered terms also reflects how I feel about them. Thanks for sharing your experiences and your thoughts about all this, it's appreciated!
This sounds like commie
wow, interesting😊! I experience agender-ness in a completely different way. though to be fair I'm not just agender. I'm kinda fluid but mainly agender so yeah
triple As unite... i love how this comment section is bringing us all together.
If I posted a zesty tweet, and my homies at the local liked it, I would be the happiest 0-2 on the planet
that intro was peak, no better way to start a video than with a fade in to terraria day theme
i can also relate to the deadname dilema. I dont enjoy hearing mine but im kinda numb to it, so it doesnt affect me very much.
Also my envy is just A2 from NieR: Automata. I dont even know why shes just cool and i wanna be her.
i love the guilty gear references all of them make me happy
I’m gay
This is so real, like im still figuring myself out and its so wierd when i think about how others think of the me that i present because im a coward and im too scared to talk about myself lol.
Also, i wanna make july an honorary pride month part 2 because im queer and im a july baby and having pride month end like right before my birthday is dumb to me. So happy pride month everyone!
Izutsumi thumbnail already hooked
Gender doesn't automatically lead to pronouns; they don't always correspond 1:1. For example, a non-binary person can go by binary pronouns, and an agender person can go by they/them or anything that person wants!
"themboy" is also known as "femby"
1:42 spitters are quitters
Every time I shower I think of the one Tumblr post that goes something like "If I'm a bi girl and I nail a bi guy that's literally gay sex, pemdas or whatever like it cancels out"
You are so real, love hearing your thoughts.
it’s real to feel all the pressure of your relationships when thinking about transitioning. Ultimately though, I feel you should think about your own wellbeing in making this decision rather than the people around you. You’re going to be living with yourself forever after all.
I’ve been questioning whether or not to transition for a while now and what I’m doing now is trying out the facets of transitioning that don’t involve surgery or hrt (taking care of my hair and skin and trying out new hairstyles, trying out new names, looking into more femme clothing). But I’m the end I want to make the decision that will make me the happiest.
If you want some actual advice on whether or not to transition, Chipflake’s video about the topic was something I really resonated with I highly recommend it. And if you’re in a position to, try finding some friends in the queer space that you I can bounce ideas off of.
I really recommend looking for some more resources, plenty of people are in the same boat as you and can offer some insight.
And of course if you feel you need to stay in the closet for longer due to personal reasons you should stay. I painted the closet to be absolutely terrible in this video but sometimes it’s necessary.
@@Yozuli Thank you for this response!
I think you might be the most relatable enby I've found on this platform so far lmao. Only video of yours I've seen, but I'm left wanting to listen to you ramble more
i’m gay
"agen-by" OHHH OK. OKAy. this has opened up my eyes
(agender + non-binary) cuz for me neither were 100% but both felt right so combining the two is purrfect
No matter how closeted you are, you can be 100% what you feel at a pride event any everyone will love you for it. The trick is getting to and from the pride event without running into neighbors.
the terraria music in the intro punched me in the face and then continued to distract me for the rest of the video lol
i don’t know why i keep forgetting terraria isn’t some niche game from my childhood but one of the best selling games of all time
i hope all you young people find what you’re looking for. gather ye rosebuds
I'm gay
I endorse this video whole wholeheartedly in it's entirety >:3
I went from a lesbian to a gay man. Life is weird like that!
I'm subbing for the intro alone.
i love the oakland A's
no you dont
i love the oakland A's
@@clouds-videos NO NO, I DONT BELIEVE IT
@@Change24 believe it baby
2:02 i cant tell if he said “i have smash friends who follow me” like he has friends who play smash with him or if he said “i have smashed friends who follow me” 😭
The railgunner from ror2 is so real 🗣️💯
"Cosco free sample" HHHHHHHGEEEELKKPOKGHAAAHAAH
3:35 TESTICLE MENTIONED
the fact that you put marcy as gender envy.png and I litterally called myself marceline cause bubbline made me realise Im trans... how dare you attack me
izutsumi dungeon meshi giving gender envy is so real lmao
I'm not even gonna lie, Testament is what made me realize I was nb yk
Getting rid of the omelette is the best approach I think, but it takes some people a lot of time and life circumstances to align to be able to do that. I'm old as balls and still working on that.
IZUTSUMIII MY BELOVEEDDDDD (my envy for her is insane)
No because the Izutsumi gender envy is so real but if I admit that to my friends I will not be beating the cat accusations 💀
3:32 "Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah...
Ok that's it, stop being so relatable."
some lowkey relatable queer experience
i started using agender after slowly coming to think that i dont experience gender the way most people do. fundamentally cannot grasp the concept. but, since i was raised and interact in such a heavily gendered world, it still is very deeply set in the ways i categorize myself and others and how i experience my gender. in many ways, gender is very deconstructed for me. but i still experience dysphoria (minor and it comes and goes, but i am on hrt) and all pronouns feel a bit uncomfortable to me (inherent associations with gender i think; i will say that she/her always is the most uncomfortable for me due to feeling that people perceive me as a woman as someone who presents very fem, and having any gender tied to me is gross). i also have very strange relationships with various gendered terms. "woman" and "man" are not something i would use or want applied to me, but "girl" or "boy" are fine. the connotations and roles associated with the terms are what it is, i think. im not a woman but i did experience girlhood and still relate to various aspects that are tied with being a girl, and thus "girl" is okay. im not a man but being called "boy" is incredibly funny so its okay. my gender is for the bit and language is strange and convoluted and constantly evolving. loved reading about differing gender experiences in these comments though, really cool :)
Thembois is amazing, I'm using that to describe myself now
i just wanted to say your shower looks freakishly similar to my shower
I'm nonbinary and I dress femininely so I've come to like the term 'femby' (feminine + enby)
Based. Same here! Also use "themboy". And refer to other enbies as "frenby". :DDD
Holy shit i could use this ty
Great video, 10/10, hell yeah
marth shower thoughts
Drooling Demon mentioned. I must now recommend Star Impact the webcomic
why you so pretty 😭
im literally in the closet rn i only told one of my friends that i might be trans and then none of my other friends or family despite probably none of them caring if i did and they would be accepting it’s just that i don’t talk about it 🥰🥰🥰🤭🤭🤭
Crush or gender envy for me if Jeffery Combs. Being covered in blood can be a part of gender expression.
Omg its kbity in the thumbnail
this is great
you seem like a cool person
This is quite a queer video.
the izutsumi obsession is real, not sure if you called it “obsession” in your video but that’s what i have rn
I have vague memories of before becoming trans, where my friend (who’s also trans) sent me an email regarding something, but their email used their deadname. So in a brilliant fucking display of my stupidity, I responded with “okay, ‘DEADNAME’” as a joke without realizing
then a year later, I realized I deadnamed them and now it makes me want to throw myself into a pit of angry republicans.
we’re cool about it but I still feel really bad.
Izutsumi is awesome
im also an hour from san fran where?
Is it gay to like when bro bites me? Asking for a friend.
yes!
insightful
3:20 omg yes that is such a mood
IZUTSUMI MENTIONED
Hell yeah.
i dont subscribe to a lot of super small creators but I really like this!
Railgunner from ror2 is funny af
this video is so real. Almost toooo real... anyways have a good day
Putting W in weird and winning [when I say ‘weird!’ I mean just fun and strange, I don’t mean it in a bad light]
Poggers video
banger, please cook some more!
clicked because i also have Izutsumi brainworms
I am very much behind the idea of themboys, up 'till now I'd just been calling myself an enby femboy or sometimes femby but that is so much better
Yeah I definitely get that "why even worry about if ... is ..."
Probably just me and my strange sexuality and brain but I've always just been with whoever I thought was attractive of both genders, and everything in between. I think it's probably way more stressful to have the "gay panic" or "straight panic" when you're specifically into one thing and find something outside of that norm that's appealing.
Although that being said it definitly confuses friends and family when I go from dating bears to twinks to butch women and stereotypical pretty girls, so everyone has their struggles I guess 🤷♂️😅