@@32starsandsugar thanks for commenting :) and yes no longer hanging around with them which I can start to focus on my life and own happines. I wish the best for you too :)
Blitz -remix Same here. The only ones I have I’ve known since we were 6/7yrs old but despite still all living near each other (we’re now 26/27) I barely see them because they are always too busy or doing stuff with their friends. So I’m at a point where they feel more like acquaintances than friends because I barely know whats going on in their lives only a short summary when we do hang out.
I got tired of being the one who always cares for others while it seems that nobody cares for me. I'm ready for REAL, quality friendships with the same mindset as me, the same loyalty, integrity and honesty as me. Here I am.
The most frustrating thing is having so many ideas, thoughts and passions and no one to share them with. I'm 35 and now just waking up spiritually and I realize that my next thing is working on myself and finding my tribe. Being lonely sucks but I will not give up.
At least you have bunch of ideas..some people don't really have any real good ideas, and feel stuck with no love (or my case living with someone who is totally wrong), no job (some people are not born in the US which can be huge obstacle..) and no real friends.. :(
Hey guys, I just wanted to encourage you both & say that just keep praying for God's best for your lives. He wants us to have life to the fullest, but we must be following Him fully. The friends will come. Sometimes we have to reach out first & be brave _ as we pursue being our best; we'll encounter like-minded people ❣️ Kisses from La🤗
I’ve always dreamed about having real friends. I have a few now, but i don’t feel we connect on the deeper level I’ve always wanted. I’ve experienced bad treatment and I’ve always attributed this to my weight. I love on a deeper level and I really want to see people around me win, but i don’t get that same energy in return. I definitely looked up how to manifest friends (my tribe is definitely better) for this reason. I loved your video. I’m currently working on my goals and it’s not easy, but I’m on a new journey and it’s needed.
Proverbs Belle That’s not necessarily true I know people that will not hang out with you if you are overweight and if they do hang out with you they will only connect a little bit.
Omg yes. I struggle so much with making friends, but I also think it's because I can be socially anxious. But I crave a deep connect with people sooooo much.
Same!!! I want a friend group that I can have a deep connection with, who I can be myself around, with mixed races and mixed genders, with great fashion, so loyal, so fun to hang around with. I want a tribe who is going to be with me always and understand me no matter what. That’s hard to find.
Girl! All the “friends” I currently have are so shallow. I’ve been craving deep relationships because I can’t stand small talk either but I keep feeling like something is wrong with me for craving it. I guess I just gotta keep working on myself. Thank u for this ❤️❤️💕
Unani, there is NOTHING wrong with wanting genuine deep positive relationships with those you deem as friends. That's exactly what I want too, and we're both starving without it. We need to find the people who don't do the negative, weary things we expect, or maybe experienced with other bad types. We need to still leave ourselves open for those good people who just provide goodness because they simply know, and we don't have to lift a finger to initiate anything. We should demand the best for ourselves, in a responsible way of course, because we only want what's right!
affirmation: i will have long-lasting and beautiful friends in my life. they are supportive, loyal, deep and geniune. we will learn so much from each other and we will be together as a soulfulling tribe. we are true to each other and we love each other a lot.
You attract your tribe through this video without realizing it. Every girl in the comment section what that tribe and people who has a deeper meaning of life. Apparently, I’m one of those. I can’t wait to be where you are right now and have that amount of supportive , positive energy around me.
@@ashleyk9328 Have friends! But only when you're ready and someone is finally willing to get over herself and be there beside you through your journey.
After suffering from being bullied my entire life I have social anxiety. I'm socially awkward. I don't know what to say, when to say something. I am tired of even trying. Been praying for genuine friendships.
It gets better! You deserve people who treat you right and respect you and your emotion and traumas. You deserve people who want to connect on a deeper level, you deserve people who love you for who you are!
For years I’ve had friends come and go in my life and it sucks because I always feel like it’s my fault. I’m 24 and still have no one because they either turn out to be toxic or leave me hanging. It would be amazing to have friends to connect with and hangout with and just do things with. This video helps to let me know I’m not the only girl feeling this way.
I just came from one of those "why I have no friends" videos. The comment section was super depressive, and while I can relate with the pain, I am not gonna be okay with putting myself in a victim mindset. You have the power to manifest your own reality. Much love to all of you. And thank you for this video, giving me hope and validating my intuition.
Omg I'm so glad I found someone like me.These past days I told my self that I wanted a connection and deep friendships and I would visualize it and now I'm trying to spread positive energy and be on a high vibration so I can attract amazing friends.
This is something that I've always wanted, but felt like I never had. Here lately, I've been going through a change spiritually. I feel like I'm on the cusp of manifesting truly awesome things in my life.
Affirmation: I am attracting amazing , lifelong friends , beautiful on inside and out -I am on a path of attracting fun and vibrant open minded friends.
Just one word! THANKYOU. Today i realized where was my fault. Now I'm goinh to just focus on myself, improving me, bettering me.And I'm gonna attract those people into my lives for sure. My soulmates, my comforters, people who're actually genuine, kind and supportive like me. Not fake, gold diggers friendships.
This is what I need. Genuine supportive friends that will be there, and I can be there for them, when I need. I’ve struggled with social anxiety, abusive relationships throughout my life. I desperately want this.
I loved this video so much! I’ve always struggled with female friendships. I’ve always felt lonely. I keep praying to God for amazing friends, it’s been years now. This year something in me just keeps saying ‘be your best self, work on you that’s the only way you can attract like minded and amazing people’ That’s the exact thing you just said so i believe God just spoke through you and I’ll keep having faith, working hard and trusting God.❤️❤️❤️
It’s crazy when you’re younger you don’t think of these issues, I’ve been a lone wolf for a while but I truly believe I will find that magical group of people who i just click with. I will find my tribe.
So many people here looking for real friends.. i wished we could all just fit together really well .. but we'll find the right frequency to be in alignment with the right people :)
I’m manifesting more friends that are kind hearted, open minded, outgoing and Adventurous! Being surrounding by positive energy and Meaningful Relationships is a big goal of mine! :) I just got to be patient, I know it’s coming my way! 🙏🏽❤️
I want friends so bad. I always attract the wrong people and I'm so sick of it. I dont want to end up alone like everyone else in my family. I was a fulfilling life filled with hood people. Sometimes I feel like I'm never going to have that and I get jealous of people who do. Why not me?
I am in the process of looking for my own tribe, a tribe that I haven't had like EVER!!! But the point that you made that sticks out to me that is we need to work on ourselves first, being the best version of ourselves before we let anyone new of value in our lives. So thank you for that!! Cheers
I have always struggled with making friends because I'm an introvert. This video gives me so much perspective and guidance. I have always been the sensitive emotional person looking for a best friend or friends who i could relate with. I found a lot of friendships were superficial and not deep. I look forward to find my tribe of friends where all of us support and love each other.
Affirmation: i am manifesting beautiful, loving, loyal, caring, fun, spiritual, reliable friends. A tribe where i will belong, be accepted and loved for who and what i really am. Life-long friendships that will fulfil me in every way possible.
i love how open and honest you are...and there are many people going through this that can relate! me being one of them...i would like to give an extra tip to anyone who wants to manifest their tribe and thats to incorporate the power of gratitude !
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve always felt out of place and I had friends but not the deeper level of connection that I craved. I need to put in the work and this video was swift reminder of that. Here’s to working on myself and manifesting deeper connections 💕
I'm tired of not having someone to hang out or even talk to like its so hard for me especially cause I have social anxiety and I really want to have friends but all I end up finding are fake friends so I let them go and now I'm gonna manifest new friends into my life so wish me luck!!!
The TH-cam algorithm is on some freaky shit cause this just popped up in my recommendations and it’s exactly what I needed to see. Thank you so much for sharing your story! People always say you need to work on yourself before you can attract the people you want and I was starting to give up on that mindset, but you really brought me back
I hate being alone i am going to a new school i got no friends when its christmas or my birthday no one gets me nothing or tells me happy birthday or merry Christmas i feel alone im 13 and being alone in life is scarry and btw i have no family just a dad
I know the feeling. Hang in there, baby girl. Don't let that affect the way that you see yourself 💟. Use this time to get to know yourself and love yourself because you'll need that good energy when you link with your new tribe.💘
So relieved to drop this guilt! I have really great girls in my life. Man we travel together and take care of eachother when needs be. Have a lot of fun but no one touches my heart hey. I don't know who they are or what they want neither do they know me but they are good people. I'm going to write a list of attributes of what I need and want and visualize the great things me and my tribe are going to get up to. Thank you!
I am so happy I came across this video! I felt so alone about this topic and watching this video & reading the comments opened my eyes that I’m not the only one feeling like this! ❤️
Hi Courtney, thank you so much for this video. It's very inspiring. I've felt lonely for many years, no matter how many friend surrounded me. I now realize that I need people who inspire me, who have dreams they're working on, who get enthoused by what I do and visa versa. I feel a lot of my friends are trapped in negativity or the daily struggles. Though I love to help, I feel that I'm seldom the one who's on the receiving end. So thanks for the info on connecting on social media. Love it! All the best of luck to everyone seeking more meaningful friendships :)
I subscribed after hearing this video. So many people have Empty friendships and their not Building anything. One of my favorite quotes I created is “ I’m not waiting for my future, I’m building it. “. And this can apply to friendships too. Luv your drive and determination.
Wow wow wow. So I’ve been listening to affirmations lately. However I’ve been dealing with a lot of disappointment with friendships, but one affirmation says “I have the power to change my life”. so I decided to lookup friendship affirmations. Because I’ve felt hopeless about my friendships. Then I found your video!! Ugh! So many years I’ve been feeling like you described! And I my family often tells me I need better friends...but I haven’t taken it super seriously until the last few months. Today you made me see that I’m not crazy and that I’m simply needing to find my tribe. It’s exciting because I am working on becoming my best self. So much that I feel like my current group of people are often learning off of my growth. I want women around me that are growing and inspiring too. Ugh long story short I’m glad you made this!
I’m so looking forward to meeting amazing people. I can’t fricken wait until it happens. I know it’s going to be amazing and the journey to it will be as well.
Ur complaining which is a form of lack as long as u asked the universe u visualize daily ur order was placed just believe and wait for it the universe doesn’t respond to lack actually when you complain u push it away further I’m no one to speak lol but this is what I’ve learned studying this whole law of attraction as long as u asked u put ur self together u let go it Should eventually come people tend to forget the universe don’t work in our time frame you might get it next week or in five years but to the universe time doesn’t exist if that makes sense it gives u it when it thinks ur ready too sorry so u can get it in 2029 or 2020 but know that time goes fast anyways it’s worth the wait so just wait patiently it’s better for u to receive it in divine timing instead of rushing it and than it don’t last hope you the best 🥰
Wow I feel like you’ve described my situation in the first few minutes of this video exactly! I’ve always had friends growing up and still to this day, but never in the deep level connection that I crave. I’m only a junior in high school and I have a group of girl friends but as you’ve described they are great but not to the extent that I really long for. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that people who share your energy are out there and it makes me feel like I’m expecting too much or that something is wrong with the way I interact with people. This video gives me hope that all I need to do is continue waiting as I too believe that someday I will find these people just as you have.
Same feelings here. It seems everyone just takes advantage of me. No friendship really fully works out for me. Something always goes wrong. I am so ready for a good, reliable, trustworthy group of friends. Tired of this lonely life
Back home in Canada I was a LONER … No friends it was so sad. Then i went to uni for 5 years in England in Leeds for my undergrad and in London for my postgrad. This was the highlight of my social life, so many friends, 2 amazing best friends that I called my sisters, constantly invited to parties I mean I peaked … Then because of my career path I had to go back to Canada … and here I have no friend. It’s a huge slap in the face. I earn a very good wage I work in IT and Cybersecurity so it’s remote and in a very masculine environment … I do rely on travelling to London often since I can work from anywhere but coming back home just felt like going back in time … super hard to accept but I think I took the right decision. I will never forget my time in England, it helped me gain so much confidence in myself and just understand that I’M NOT THE PROBLEM … people I surrounded myself with in Canada are.
I so loved this video. I have friends but I want quality friends. I just want to be around people who dont overthink and dont find it difficult to be transparent. God, send me my tribe!
I used to be surrounded by friends and supporters until I had my spiritual awakening and left my old life behind. I had a phase where I had a good group of spiritual friends, my “tribe” basically but eventually moved away and lost touch with that group. I focused a lot of my own inner well being and healing, eventually manifested a beautiful and loving girlfriend who is on a similar path. But I’ve realized I have like zero real friends besides her. I have gotten so used to living and working from home and doing introvert stuff like reading and meditation and walking in nature that I neglected to build a social life. I did lots of traveling and also deleted my social media for mental health reasons so I have really isolated myself. I’m starting to get that feeling like I miss having friends. People to hang out, work on stuff together, make music, collaborate, inspire each other, and just be a support system that isn’t my girlfriend. So let’s hope that by this time next year I have a thriving social life filled with authenticity, meaning, and wonderful soul brothers and sisters.
Same and exactly the same stuff... I have people around but I don't really feel attached to.. But I know I'm perfectly alright to be alone.. But this vedio gives me real hopes.. We both were the same till sometime and even I want to be a TH-camr someday and I wish the same happens with me.. Loads of love.. And I just realised that working on urself never ends.. Its always getting better at urself
This 2020 I met this girl at Church. I reached out to her & ughh God is so good! I've always wanted that deeper connection as well. Since I live in Switzerland it's harder to meet Godly friendships. When I lived at NYC it was so much easier to make friends.
Hi! I just decided I wanted to surrounded myself with uplifting caring friends in my life and saw your video and it reaffirmed me that my pack is also coming. People who want to make a change and love deep talks and want to grow themselves. ..that's the kind of people I want in my life.
I just wanted to say this. This is my first time seeing you. Here's what I see. I see a beautiful enlightened woman who gets it. Your words resonate strongly with me and your message is both timely and appreciated. Love and Light
WHEN YOU SMILE I AM ALSO HAPPY Here are some helpful tips to help you make some friends. Create an affirmation that goes something like,”I am so happy and grateful now that I have made friends at my college.” Watch some videos on The Law of Attraction and also Manifesting with Scripting. I wish you the best. -Peace, Love & Abundance 💓🌟!
i lost my closest best friends and at school nobody really talks to me cuz im the shy/introverted one. i really hope to find some guy friends i just get along with them way better :)
all my life i have felt like the misunderstood, left out, uninteresting friend. i’m only 17 right now and i barely have any friends.. if it wasn’t for college and work i legit wouldn’t leave the house. i used to have two best friends but i’ve drifted apart from both for legitimate reasons, i’ve tried to reconnect but it feels forced and in all honestly i don’t want to. lately having no real friends who i can call and have meaningful, long conversations with has been getting to me...i feel so lonely and i never imagined i’d feel like this. looking around and seeing everyone go out and socialise and then looking at me staying at home is getting me down... i just crave soulful connections and i feel like no one can give it to me. i hope this is the year of change.
me even worst being in toxic family and affected my mental health im homesick now still dont have occupation am 18yo too graduated and trying hard to make friends near me we can be friends
Wow. I feel the same. I’m very lonely, alone, sad and I don’t have a person in life. I struggle so bad. I miss connection, authenticity and someone showing up at 2am if needed.
So glad I came across your video.....just encouraged and ready to find my tribe. I have so much in me placed by God and waiting to find that tribe that I can share that with. Still working on getting to my best self lol
I’m so looking forward to my tribe, as you describe it. I want my friends to be like family. I want to be that kind of friend. Slowly but surely, my tribe is growing! ✨
First time I've ever commented on TH-cam so I hope this works. This video has touched me and given me so many 'uh-huh' moments that I felt that I HAD to comment. So much of what you said resonated with me that I don't even know where to start. You kept saying that you ramble but I felt like when the video finished I wanted to play the next episode! What a genuine, inspirational and joyful speaker you are. Keep up the videos!!!
Thanks soo much for the video This year i decided that i need to proactively look for new friends to have these deep connections and relationships with. Wish everyone here best of luk
Yes me too..i think my urge to have a deep connection with women comes from the mother wound i have and the loss of friendships i dealt with in high school. My mom was neglectful addicted and damaged from her own mother wounds..am i the only girl that deals with jealousy? Can you do a video about how to deal with jealousy in friendships? Thank you for your videos. Love em. 😊
I have ONE genuine friend these 18 years …the others I tried maintaining either lost interest or betrayed me. Now my family are the friends I will never have
Thank You, wonderful and very helpful message. :) Not just busy people, but more connected people. Supportive, kind hearted, genuine... Thank You for this empowerment.
Hey girl, and TH-cam. So I’m struggling with this. I’m 21, married and expecting my first born son. Yay! But I’m really depressed. I crave a friendship/sister hood like this. I’ve tried putting myself out there to other girls.. they say “yeah we should hang out!” But then on social media, they’re doing other things with other girls. Which is fine! But they say they’re my friend but don’t include me on anything. Hopefully this doesn’t come out as selfish, but it really hurts. I’m mature for my age, and the only people who like me are elderly people lol. I’m constantly working on myself as a person. I would love feedback what I’m doing wrong. I do have girls in my life who are kind, but we have nothing in common, and they have big mouths. It just sucks. 🙁
Thanks for making this. I also am close with my two sisters, and have had passing friend “groups” but have often encountered a weird jealousy or sense these friends weren’t really supportive and it got uncomfortable. In a world where women should support women, sometimes it sadly doesn’t always happen! I agree that social media is great for forming friendships, you bring up a GREAT point about making friends that you seek out rather than because of proximity and those people just being around you randomly. Such a good video, thank you !
I was the same way. I couldn't connect with most women because they mostly just did small talk. They just talked about shopping or relationship problems. I realized that I need to connect with other entrepreneur women who have a similar mindset as me.
this is powerful and I will be implementing. I'm not strange or awkward in anyways but I've always had a hard time developing and growing friendships. Now that I've built my business I'm ready to make meaningful friendships and focus on that aspect of my life.
Your friends are a direct mirror of where you are at that point in your life. So what she is saying is true. It may sound corny, but work on yourself Mind, Body and Spirit. The healthier you are, the healthier relationships you will attract. You don't have to be really young to be working on yourself. It's a lifetime thing. You can't go around expecting everyone to come to you by the way. Sometimes you have to reach out to others.
I remember watching this video my sophomore year of high school worried about not having any friends. After watching I strengthened the friendship I had with a couple classmates and actually got an exchange student that I bonded with. Senior year I had a great group of friends. Now I am going off to college and am hoping to utilize this for my new atmosphere while also keeping in touch with those same friends I made first time around. Thank you for being so open and honest about your life and how it can be lonely. This video and its sentiment has helped me so much in my life.
Affirmation: I am manifesting beautiful, deep, life-long friendships. I am on a path to finding my soul sisters and brothers
Say it again. I need that
💯
Beautiful!!!
me too deadly
This lady and everything she has said explains where I am at....bless ya....
I'm so tired being always left out and do most of the effort just to maintain friendship. I'm so longing for genuine and uplifting tribe :)
Eu' Ginie I feel like we have had similar experiences! Hope things go well for you :)
@@32starsandsugar thanks for commenting :) and yes no longer hanging around with them which I can start to focus on my life and own happines. I wish the best for you too :)
I can relate
maybe u want to be friends ??
I was like you until the age of 23 then after that I didn't give a fuck
I don’t have friends, I just have people I occasionally hang out with
Blitz -remix Same here. The only ones I have I’ve known since we were 6/7yrs old but despite still all living near each other (we’re now 26/27) I barely see them because they are always too busy or doing stuff with their friends. So I’m at a point where they feel more like acquaintances than friends because I barely know whats going on in their lives only a short summary when we do hang out.
This really hits home
Then feel lucky because I have nobody
That's good
same 😔
I got tired of being the one who always cares for others while it seems that nobody cares for me. I'm ready for REAL, quality friendships with the same mindset as me, the same loyalty, integrity and honesty as me. Here I am.
💙
so it is
Me too.I am done with forcing things
Omgggggg Same
Have you met any new friends since you posted?
The most frustrating thing is having so many ideas, thoughts and passions and no one to share them with. I'm 35 and now just waking up spiritually and I realize that my next thing is working on myself and finding my tribe. Being lonely sucks but I will not give up.
At least you have bunch of ideas..some people don't really have any real good ideas, and feel stuck with no love (or my case living with someone who is totally wrong), no job (some people are not born in the US which can be huge obstacle..) and no real friends.. :(
Hey guys,
I just wanted to encourage you both & say that just keep praying for God's best for your lives. He wants us to have life to the fullest, but we must be following Him fully. The friends will come. Sometimes we have to reach out first & be brave _ as we pursue being our best; we'll encounter like-minded people ❣️ Kisses from La🤗
10 months later did it work for you buddy?
to each at his/her own pace :)
@@wowitsKAYLYN went through a mental breakdown after this but i'm recovering but still as lonely as ever lol. just went through a divorce.
I feel like a side character 😕.
no believe you’re the main character and you will become the main character
Side characters are underrated.
i feel like a main character but from a sad movie.
Same.
I'm not even a side character I'm an extra 😭 literally background
Every “friend” in my life is terrible. they dont involve me, they ignore me.
same
anna k the important thing is we remember it’s not our faults! There is nothing wrong with us
nituko 😓😓
China Laughton yesss for sure!
China Laughton yesss for sure!
I’ve always dreamed about having real friends. I have a few now, but i don’t feel we connect on the deeper level I’ve always wanted. I’ve experienced bad treatment and I’ve always attributed this to my weight. I love on a deeper level and I really want to see people around me win, but i don’t get that same energy in return. I definitely looked up how to manifest friends (my tribe is definitely better) for this reason. I loved your video. I’m currently working on my goals and it’s not easy, but I’m on a new journey and it’s needed.
Ashe Kenyetta same
It's *not* your weight. Rather, *your feelings about* your weight. We're all figuring this life stuff out.
Same... Oml same... Wish you find your tribe soon!
Absolutely. I know exactly what you mean.
Proverbs Belle That’s not necessarily true I know people that will not hang out with you if you are overweight and if they do hang out with you they will only connect a little bit.
Omg yes. I struggle so much with making friends, but I also think it's because I can be socially anxious. But I crave a deep connect with people sooooo much.
You're not alone hun. Have faith and just be real and work on yourself everyday.
Sameeee
@@Abhishek-WebDev shut up. I hate you
Same!!! I want a friend group that I can have a deep connection with, who I can be myself around, with mixed races and mixed genders, with great fashion, so loyal, so fun to hang around with. I want a tribe who is going to be with me always and understand me no matter what. That’s hard to find.
try mimulus and other bach flowers it works for s.anxiety
Girl! All the “friends” I currently have are so shallow. I’ve been craving deep relationships because I can’t stand small talk either but I keep feeling like something is wrong with me for craving it. I guess I just gotta keep working on myself. Thank u for this ❤️❤️💕
There is nothing wrong with you. It's what a lot of people want.
There's nothing wrong with you. Don't settle. You'll find a real connection with a real person.
Yessss !!!! We can work on us to achieving that vibe and find our tribes
Definitely can relate to this girl
Unani, there is NOTHING wrong with wanting genuine deep positive relationships with those you deem as friends. That's exactly what I want too, and we're both starving without it. We need to find the people who don't do the negative, weary things we expect, or maybe experienced with other bad types. We need to still leave ourselves open for those good people who just provide goodness because they simply know, and we don't have to lift a finger to initiate anything. We should demand the best for ourselves, in a responsible way of course, because we only want what's right!
affirmation: i will have long-lasting and beautiful friends in my life. they are supportive, loyal, deep and geniune. we will learn so much from each other and we will be together as a soulfulling tribe. we are true to each other and we love each other a lot.
You attract your tribe through this video without realizing it. Every girl in the comment section what that tribe and people who has a deeper meaning of life. Apparently, I’m one of those. I can’t wait to be where you are right now and have that amount of supportive , positive energy around me.
I’ve always had friends who became jealous of me. Some even told me.
Ashley k me too!
Girl same! Eventually they just try to bring me down and use what I opened up to them about against me! Like what the hell lol
Nora Idriss so I’ve decided I’m not having friends anymore
@@ashleyk9328 Have friends! But only when you're ready and someone is finally willing to get over herself and be there beside you through your journey.
Same it sucks, because what can you do? Other than dim your light just to make someone else feel secure, but fuuucck that
After suffering from being bullied my entire life I have social anxiety. I'm socially awkward. I don't know what to say, when to say something. I am tired of even trying. Been praying for genuine friendships.
It gets better! You deserve people who treat you right and respect you and your emotion and traumas. You deserve people who want to connect on a deeper level, you deserve people who love you for who you are!
@@finja112 Thank you ♥️
@Anna Clare This brought so much comfort in my heart. I’m doing well ❤️
Same here. You're not alone!
I hate my friends, one is rude and the other is a loner. They never text me and they never wanna hang out. I just want a best friend just for me
lmao felt that but we can be friends if you want? Drop your insta or sc
We can be friends ☺️
Ugh, same.
Relatble ❤
@@mayamani8739 I have no friends currently looking for bffs lol I have the bumble bee app and going to start collage hopping to make friends
the fact that i even had to look this up makes me want to cry
me too:( i hope your ok beautiful
For years I’ve had friends come and go in my life and it sucks because I always feel like it’s my fault. I’m 24 and still have no one because they either turn out to be toxic or leave me hanging. It would be amazing to have friends to connect with and hangout with and just do things with. This video helps to let me know I’m not the only girl feeling this way.
I just came from one of those "why I have no friends" videos. The comment section was super depressive, and while I can relate with the pain, I am not gonna be okay with putting myself in a victim mindset. You have the power to manifest your own reality. Much love to all of you. And thank you for this video, giving me hope and validating my intuition.
I plan to meet & make more creative friends and just foster genuine friendships this year 😁
Me too :) I plan on going to more personal development events so I can meet new people that way!=)
Mee too I need more adventurous and caring ppl
Im creative we can be friends
@@toniechantelh9615 same I’m highly creative lol
yess!!
Omg I'm so glad I found someone like me.These past days I told my self that I wanted a connection and deep friendships and I would visualize it and now I'm trying to spread positive energy and be on a high vibration so I can attract amazing friends.
This is something that I've always wanted, but felt like I never had. Here lately, I've been going through a change spiritually. I feel like I'm on the cusp of manifesting truly awesome things in my life.
Holy smokes Courtney i really REALLY needed this.
GIRL. My heart!! Thank you for saying that! I'm so so happy I could help in any way!
Affirmation: I am attracting amazing , lifelong friends , beautiful on inside and out -I am on a path of attracting fun and vibrant open minded friends.
Just one word! THANKYOU. Today i realized where was my fault. Now I'm goinh to just focus on myself, improving me, bettering me.And I'm gonna attract those people into my lives for sure. My soulmates, my comforters, people who're actually genuine, kind and supportive like me. Not fake, gold diggers friendships.
I’m so happy I came across this video because this is my current situation and I really just want some true friendships!
This is what I need. Genuine supportive friends that will be there, and I can be there for them, when I need. I’ve struggled with social anxiety, abusive relationships throughout my life. I desperately want this.
I loved this video so much! I’ve always struggled with female friendships. I’ve always felt lonely. I keep praying to God for amazing friends, it’s been years now. This year something in me just keeps saying ‘be your best self, work on you that’s the only way you can attract like minded and amazing people’ That’s the exact thing you just said so i believe God just spoke through you and I’ll keep having faith, working hard and trusting God.❤️❤️❤️
Wanna connect?🤗
Hannah Sophie sure!
It’s crazy when you’re younger you don’t think of these issues, I’ve been a lone wolf for a while but I truly believe I will find that magical group of people who i just click with. I will find my tribe.
So many people here looking for real friends.. i wished we could all just fit together really well .. but we'll find the right frequency to be in alignment with the right people :)
This is exactly me 😱. Hoping for a similar outcome :)
You'll find it! Good luck 💞
Same here
Lethu Cele heyy wats yo snap doe
Cele right!! I want thar too
I’m manifesting more friends that are kind hearted, open minded, outgoing and Adventurous! Being surrounding by positive energy and Meaningful Relationships is a big goal of mine! :) I just got to be patient, I know it’s coming my way! 🙏🏽❤️
I absolutely love this
I want friends so bad. I always attract the wrong people and I'm so sick of it. I dont want to end up alone like everyone else in my family. I was a fulfilling life filled with hood people. Sometimes I feel like I'm never going to have that and I get jealous of people who do. Why not me?
I feel you so much. Why not me. I dont know the answer. But we just keep hoping and praying that someday it will be different sending love ♥️
I am in the process of looking for my own tribe, a tribe that I haven't had like EVER!!! But the point that you made that sticks out to me that is we need to work on ourselves first, being the best version of ourselves before we let anyone new of value in our lives. So thank you for that!! Cheers
I have always struggled with making friends because I'm an introvert. This video gives me so much perspective and guidance. I have always been the sensitive emotional person looking for a best friend or friends who i could relate with. I found a lot of friendships were superficial and not deep. I look forward to find my tribe of friends where all of us support and love each other.
Hey there! How are you? I'm guessing you're from India (from your username) :D Can we connect on social media? I'm looking for a friend too!
@@ugh123ugh I'm really anti social 😅 although sure tell me your insta handle??? I ll find you.
Affirmation: i am manifesting beautiful, loving, loyal, caring, fun, spiritual, reliable friends. A tribe where i will belong, be accepted and loved for who and what i really am. Life-long friendships that will fulfil me in every way possible.
i love how open and honest you are...and there are many people going through this that can relate! me being one of them...i would like to give an extra tip to anyone who wants to manifest their tribe and thats to incorporate the power of gratitude !
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve always felt out of place and I had friends but not the deeper level of connection that I craved. I need to put in the work and this video was swift reminder of that. Here’s to working on myself and manifesting deeper connections 💕
I'm tired of not having someone to hang out or even talk to like its so hard for me especially cause I have social anxiety and I really want to have friends but all I end up finding are fake friends so I let them go and now I'm gonna manifest new friends into my life so wish me luck!!!
The TH-cam algorithm is on some freaky shit cause this just popped up in my recommendations and it’s exactly what I needed to see. Thank you so much for sharing your story! People always say you need to work on yourself before you can attract the people you want and I was starting to give up on that mindset, but you really brought me back
I hate being alone i am going to a new school i got no friends when its christmas or my birthday no one gets me nothing or tells me happy birthday or merry Christmas i feel alone im 13 and being alone in life is scarry and btw i have no family just a dad
You should try LOA(law of attraction)/subliminals. It’ll help attract more friends to you
I know the feeling. Hang in there, baby girl. Don't let that affect the way that you see yourself 💟. Use this time to get to know yourself and love yourself because you'll need that good energy when you link with your new tribe.💘
Aishah Muhammad i will be your friend
Awww I'm here
i feel u we r similar
So relieved to drop this guilt! I have really great girls in my life. Man we travel together and take care of eachother when needs be. Have a lot of fun but no one touches my heart hey. I don't know who they are or what they want neither do they know me but they are good people. I'm going to write a list of attributes of what I need and want and visualize the great things me and my tribe are going to get up to. Thank you!
I am so happy I came across this video! I felt so alone about this topic and watching this video & reading the comments opened my eyes that I’m not the only one feeling like this! ❤️
I have been feeling this in my gut that I need to become the person I want to attract in my life.... Ty for validating
Beautiful video🙂👌
Hey there, may be this helps our connection too.. dm @mspoojarajput
You become the energy you surround yourself with ❤️ This couldn’t be more true!
Hi Courtney, thank you so much for this video. It's very inspiring. I've felt lonely for many years, no matter how many friend surrounded me. I now realize that I need people who inspire me, who have dreams they're working on, who get enthoused by what I do and visa versa. I feel a lot of my friends are trapped in negativity or the daily struggles. Though I love to help, I feel that I'm seldom the one who's on the receiving end.
So thanks for the info on connecting on social media. Love it!
All the best of luck to everyone seeking more meaningful friendships :)
I subscribed after hearing this video. So many people have Empty friendships and their not Building anything. One of my favorite quotes I created is “ I’m not waiting for my future, I’m building it. “. And this can apply to friendships too. Luv your drive and determination.
Wow wow wow. So I’ve been listening to affirmations lately. However I’ve been dealing with a lot of disappointment with friendships, but one affirmation says “I have the power to change my life”. so I decided to lookup friendship affirmations. Because I’ve felt hopeless about my friendships. Then I found your video!! Ugh! So many years I’ve been feeling like you described! And I my family often tells me I need better friends...but I haven’t taken it super seriously until the last few months. Today you made me see that I’m not crazy and that I’m simply needing to find my tribe. It’s exciting because I am working on becoming my best self. So much that I feel like my current group of people are often learning off of my growth. I want women around me that are growing and inspiring too. Ugh long story short I’m glad you made this!
Amazing ❤ been looking for a tribe for a long time. Your words resonated deep.
I’m so looking forward to meeting amazing people. I can’t fricken wait until it happens. I know it’s going to be amazing and the journey to it will be as well.
Where is my job? Where is my money? Where is my victory? Where is my confidence? Where is my tribe....come on 2019?
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Z V I feel the same way. None of those things have come for me either. 😩😢
Good things don’t magically happen.. don’t wait for them, go after them.
I felt this
Ur complaining which is a form of lack as long as u asked the universe u visualize daily ur order was placed just believe and wait for it the universe doesn’t respond to lack actually when you complain u push it away further I’m no one to speak lol but this is what I’ve learned studying this whole law of attraction as long as u asked u put ur self together u let go it Should eventually come people tend to forget the universe don’t work in our time frame you might get it next week or in five years but to the universe time doesn’t exist if that makes sense it gives u it when it thinks ur ready too sorry so u can get it in 2029 or 2020 but know that time goes fast anyways it’s worth the wait so just wait patiently it’s better for u to receive it in divine timing instead of rushing it and than it don’t last hope you the best 🥰
Wow I feel like you’ve described my situation in the first few minutes of this video exactly! I’ve always had friends growing up and still to this day, but never in the deep level connection that I crave. I’m only a junior in high school and I have a group of girl friends but as you’ve described they are great but not to the extent that I really long for. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that people who share your energy are out there and it makes me feel like I’m expecting too much or that something is wrong with the way I interact with people. This video gives me hope that all I need to do is continue waiting as I too believe that someday I will find these people just as you have.
Same feelings here. It seems everyone just takes advantage of me. No friendship really fully works out for me. Something always goes wrong. I am so ready for a good, reliable, trustworthy group of friends. Tired of this lonely life
Seeing how happy you are makes me excited for the future😁
I crave real friendships so badly! Something that’s just pure and uplifting you know?
I’ve never had a true friend but hopefully I can find that person
Back home in Canada I was a LONER … No friends it was so sad. Then i went to uni for 5 years in England in Leeds for my undergrad and in London for my postgrad. This was the highlight of my social life, so many friends, 2 amazing best friends that I called my sisters, constantly invited to parties I mean I peaked … Then because of my career path I had to go back to Canada … and here I have no friend. It’s a huge slap in the face. I earn a very good wage I work in IT and Cybersecurity so it’s remote and in a very masculine environment … I do rely on travelling to London often since I can work from anywhere but coming back home just felt like going back in time … super hard to accept but I think I took the right decision. I will never forget my time in England, it helped me gain so much confidence in myself and just understand that I’M NOT THE PROBLEM … people I surrounded myself with in Canada are.
I so loved this video. I have friends but I want quality friends. I just want to be around people who dont overthink and dont find it difficult to be transparent. God, send me my tribe!
I used to be surrounded by friends and supporters until I had my spiritual awakening and left my old life behind. I had a phase where I had a good group of spiritual friends, my “tribe” basically but eventually moved away and lost touch with that group. I focused a lot of my own inner well being and healing, eventually manifested a beautiful and loving girlfriend who is on a similar path. But I’ve realized I have like zero real friends besides her. I have gotten so used to living and working from home and doing introvert stuff like reading and meditation and walking in nature that I neglected to build a social life. I did lots of traveling and also deleted my social media for mental health reasons so I have really isolated myself. I’m starting to get that feeling like I miss having friends. People to hang out, work on stuff together, make music, collaborate, inspire each other, and just be a support system that isn’t my girlfriend. So let’s hope that by this time next year I have a thriving social life filled with authenticity, meaning, and wonderful soul brothers and sisters.
Same and exactly the same stuff... I have people around but I don't really feel attached to.. But I know I'm perfectly alright to be alone.. But this vedio gives me real hopes.. We both were the same till sometime and even I want to be a TH-camr someday and I wish the same happens with me..
Loads of love..
And I just realised that working on urself never ends.. Its always getting better at urself
It sucks when you feel like you can’t find people that match your energy
This 2020 I met this girl at Church. I reached out to her & ughh God is so good! I've always wanted that deeper connection as well. Since I live in Switzerland it's harder to meet Godly friendships. When I lived at NYC it was so much easier to make friends.
Hi! I just decided I wanted to surrounded myself with uplifting caring friends in my life and saw your video and it reaffirmed me that my pack is also coming. People who want to make a change and love deep talks and want to grow themselves. ..that's the kind of people I want in my life.
i haven’t hung out with people in months. i don’t feel i have meaningful friendships right now and i feel lonely. i hope this will work
I legitimately CRAVE THE TYPE OF FRIENDSHIPS YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT
You literally explained what close friendships are in a 9 minute video xD
U just put me on a WHOLE different frequency!! Love it
I just wanted to say this. This is my first time seeing you. Here's what I see. I see a beautiful enlightened woman who gets it. Your words resonate strongly with me and your message is both timely and appreciated.
Love and Light
Starting college tomorrow. Hope ill be able fo make friends
WHEN YOU SMILE I AM ALSO HAPPY Here are some helpful tips to help you make some friends. Create an affirmation that goes something like,”I am so happy and grateful now that I have made friends at my college.” Watch some videos on The Law of Attraction and also Manifesting with Scripting. I wish you the best. -Peace, Love & Abundance 💓🌟!
A T how is it going??
Oh my God - Totally relate to this!! Didnt know there people out there who felt like me. Thanks Court - this was amazing.
i lost my closest best friends and at school nobody really talks to me cuz im the shy/introverted one. i really hope to find some guy friends i just get along with them way better :)
That’s such a beautiful intent. Manifesting your tribe. I love that.
all my life i have felt like the misunderstood, left out, uninteresting friend. i’m only 17 right now and i barely have any friends.. if it wasn’t for college and work i legit wouldn’t leave the house. i used to have two best friends but i’ve drifted apart from both for legitimate reasons, i’ve tried to reconnect but it feels forced and in all honestly i don’t want to. lately having no real friends who i can call and have meaningful, long conversations with has been getting to me...i feel so lonely and i never imagined i’d feel like this. looking around and seeing everyone go out and socialise and then looking at me staying at home is getting me down... i just crave soulful connections and i feel like no one can give it to me. i hope this is the year of change.
me even worst being in toxic family and affected my mental health im homesick now still dont have occupation am 18yo too graduated and trying hard to make friends near me we can be friends
True Dream i’m so sorry you had to go through that, i hope things get better for you💕
of course we can be friends! i’d be more than happy to.
Wow. I feel the same. I’m very lonely, alone, sad and I don’t have a person in life. I struggle so bad. I miss connection, authenticity and someone showing up at 2am if needed.
i wish i had friends who are supportive i’m distant to mine because they’re toxic but they’ve been in my life
So glad I came across your video.....just encouraged and ready to find my tribe. I have so much in me placed by God and waiting to find that tribe that I can share that with. Still working on getting to my best self lol
girl. i want you to be in my tribe.
I’m so looking forward to my tribe, as you describe it. I want my friends to be like family. I want to be that kind of friend. Slowly but surely, my tribe is growing! ✨
Well I love having myself.
First time I've ever commented on TH-cam so I hope this works. This video has touched me and given me so many 'uh-huh' moments that I felt that I HAD to comment. So much of what you said resonated with me that I don't even know where to start. You kept saying that you ramble but I felt like when the video finished I wanted to play the next episode! What a genuine, inspirational and joyful speaker you are. Keep up the videos!!!
Got me thinking differently about social media which I’m a bit stand offish with.
Thanks soo much for the video
This year i decided that i need to proactively look for new friends to have these deep connections and relationships with. Wish everyone here best of luk
Yes me too..i think my urge to have a deep connection with women comes from the mother wound i have and the loss of friendships i dealt with in high school. My mom was neglectful addicted and damaged from her own mother wounds..am i the only girl that deals with jealousy? Can you do a video about how to deal with jealousy in friendships? Thank you for your videos. Love em. 😊
I think the words you’re looking for are; we desire something meaningful.
I just have a few, toxic friends, I love them but they always put me down, I really want to meet my people :(
Same here, that's why i left them.. now i'm alone... but if we dont remove the wrong people in our life, we'll never meet the right people in our life
@@stayhungry1241 same here and you did the right thing ☺️ especially for your mental health, hoping you can meet your people & so can I. Good luck!
I have ONE genuine friend these 18 years …the others I tried maintaining either lost interest or betrayed me. Now my family are the friends I will never have
I want this for myself🥺
Thank You, wonderful and very helpful message. :) Not just busy people, but more connected people. Supportive, kind hearted, genuine... Thank You for this empowerment.
Hey girl, and TH-cam. So I’m struggling with this. I’m 21, married and expecting my first born son. Yay! But I’m really depressed. I crave a friendship/sister hood like this. I’ve tried putting myself out there to other girls.. they say “yeah we should hang out!” But then on social media, they’re doing other things with other girls. Which is fine! But they say they’re my friend but don’t include me on anything. Hopefully this doesn’t come out as selfish, but it really hurts. I’m mature for my age, and the only people who like me are elderly people lol. I’m constantly working on myself as a person. I would love feedback what I’m doing wrong. I do have girls in my life who are kind, but we have nothing in common, and they have big mouths. It just sucks. 🙁
Thanks for making this. I also am close with my two sisters, and have had passing friend “groups” but have often encountered a weird jealousy or sense these friends weren’t really supportive and it got uncomfortable. In a world where women should support women, sometimes it sadly doesn’t always happen! I agree that social media is great for forming friendships, you bring up a GREAT point about making friends that you seek out rather than because of proximity and those people just being around you randomly. Such a good video, thank you !
OMG I crave this too. I feel so lonely!!!
Same!!
I was the same way. I couldn't connect with most women because they mostly just did small talk. They just talked about shopping or relationship problems. I realized that I need to connect with other entrepreneur women who have a similar mindset as me.
this is powerful and I will be implementing. I'm not strange or awkward in anyways but I've always had a hard time developing and growing friendships. Now that I've built my business I'm ready to make meaningful friendships and focus on that aspect of my life.
Your friends are a direct mirror of where you are at that point in your life. So what she is saying is true. It may sound corny, but work on yourself Mind, Body and Spirit. The healthier you are, the healthier relationships you will attract. You don't have to be really young to be working on yourself. It's a lifetime thing. You can't go around expecting everyone to come to you by the way. Sometimes you have to reach out to others.
I love this girl!! I can relate to this so well!
Thanks for the advice! Seriously, I am exhausted on half-ass friendships!
3:04 I thought my audio broke
I just feel like everything and everyone is against me,no friends and very depressed is there an easy magic I can do ,thank you
That is me right now
Preach sista! 🙏
I remember watching this video my sophomore year of high school worried about not having any friends. After watching I strengthened the friendship I had with a couple classmates and actually got an exchange student that I bonded with. Senior year I had a great group of friends. Now I am going off to college and am hoping to utilize this for my new atmosphere while also keeping in touch with those same friends I made first time around. Thank you for being so open and honest about your life and how it can be lonely. This video and its sentiment has helped me so much in my life.
Are you a water sign ( like a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces )?
I'm a pisces
She is a gemini
Cancer why?
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Pisces ♓