You're teaching is spot on. The Bible teaches that if you divorce you cannot remarry if you're thinking of entertaining the idea of getting remarried it's called adultery it's as simple as that. We want to make the Bible say what we wanted for our convenience. The problem today is there are no two parent families anymore it's children have become solitary there's no attachment to their families the breakdown of the family unit is an abomination itself fathers are not stepping up to the plate. God has assigned them the head of the household and they're not doing their jobs. And the children are suffering for their sins. Amen
Well said. I divorced my wife 2 yrs ago and have been convicted by the holy spirit to remain single and never remarry. I am learning there is a cost to following Christ.
I’m so happy to see more and more preachers speaking on this and on their TH-cam channels more people are seeing the truth and agreeing which is also encouraging
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Appreciate more bold men addressing this very prevalent sin all throughout the church it’s rampant. This is the hardest truth to teach to those who are in this sin of remarriage and it’s often reacted to with disbelief and anger. Pastors of large denominations will not address it nor dare they. Jesus taught that this truth would be hard to receive because of its difficulty. Be prepared to be cut off and ignored by those whom you confront with this sin.
Thanks for that comment. I had to confront the issue out of total conviction after I almost lived it out myself and can see crystal clearly now the truth of what Christ taught, and how His teaching is for our own benefit and greater good. Unfortunately it meant leaving our rather conservative brethren assembly even as we are friendly to those who we know a love there still. We have no regrets even as we have take not shortage of flack.
I was in a second marriage ( adultery) and I was convicted and I have been divorced and remained alone for over a year now. I’ve been okay with it and recently I’ve wondered about my first husband. But I fear the Lord and would rather be alone and safe the wrong and not in his will for my life .
Our situation is very hard. He was then and I was not. He was baptized and even did therapy at the Church without me. After years and years the Lord has kept us some how some way in each other’s lives. At one point I moved him home from Hawaii just in time for the Lord to save his live with a procedure. We definitely have a testimony.
@@pastorshandonevangkimlaellis yes. Marriage is a covenant for both believers and unbelievers. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
You don't want to know what it's like to live or grow up in this state. My mother's been married four times and is now living with another man whilst still married to my 3rd step father. I grew up not knowing my biological father. As an adult I learnt that he too had remarried and had more kids with his new wife. With my upbringing I do all I can not to repeat my mother's mistakes and to follow Jesus instead. My wife, son's and I are all the happier for us doing so.
God bless you brother. We will pray for your parents and learn from their mistakes. You testimony confirms what e talked about in a session.... divorce and remarriage adultery can create a cycle in many cases. The sin repeats itself. Remarriage adultery is illegitimate, people in it need to repent before it it too late and they die in their sin.
2 Why Divorce and Remarriage Is Adultery & Why We Can Not Remarry To Enter His Kingdom 1 Corinthians 7:10 10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. Romans 7 By law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man Luke 16:18 “Jesus said: Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor(reverence) among ALL, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous!!! 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do NOT be DECEIVED!!!!!!! Neither fornicators, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.” John 14:23 Jesus replied, "Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Whoever does not love Me does not keep My words. John 15:6 Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be burned. Matthew 5:31 Jesus said, “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except fornication (porneia/sex before marriage) causes her to commit adultery (moicheia); and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery Matthew 19:8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for fornication (porneia), and marries another woman commits adultery (moicheia).” Matthew 19:10 The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” -This is how serious marriage is! They recognized it by their answer! Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,[a] 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” 10 And in the house the disciples asked him again about this matter. 11 And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, 12 and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” Malachi 2:1 For I HATE divorce says the LORD! The 7th Commandment Thou Shall NOT commit Adultery! The Moral Law (10 Commandments) written on our hearts will Never be done away with. Malachi 2:16 “For the man or woman who does not love their spouse but divorces them, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.” The covenant of marriage is very serious in God’s eyes only broken by death and He does not take it lightly as our culture has & changed it’s views. The LORD does not change - Malachi 3:6. Amen! Thank God He doesn’t sway like we do. Mathew 6:14-15 For if you forgive those who sin against you your heaven Father will forgive you. But if you do NOT forgive others sins your heavenly Father will not forgive your sins! Matthew 7:21-23 Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. MANY will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you (Bible John 1:1 The Word was God); depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness! “Wisdom will save you from the immoral woman, from the seductive words of the promiscuous woman. She has abandoned her husband and ignores the covenant she made before God. Entering her house leads to death; it is the road to the grave. The man who visits her is doomed. He will never reach the paths of life.”Proverbs 2:16-19 James 2:19 19 You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe-and tremble! 20 But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is [h]dead? Matthew 14:3 For Herod had laid hold on John, and bound him, and put him in prison for Herodias' sake, his brother Philip's wife.4 For John said unto him, It is not lawful for thee to have her. I Corinthians 7:39 “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.” I Corinthians 7:27 “Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed (don’t even seek it). Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife.”
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways This girl is AMAAAZZZZIINNNGGGG!! Totally kills OSAS and in one video says remarriage is sin. th-cam.com/video/otMLkzYKgb8/w-d-xo.html
@@LeeLee-2011 It’s in the Greek present continuous tense or state of being same as Romans 7:3. Confirmed from Genesis so they are never again two but one flesh. I would like to answer your question by getting you to question... who made the laws of marriage? In the beginning God made them make and female and a man should leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife as one flesh. SO THEN THEY ARE NO LONGER TWO BUT ONE FLESH! That which GOD has joined together NO man (can) separate. (Greek). Jesus repented Genesis and added any man that MARRIES a DIVORCED woman is committing adultery. But how? She is “divorced” and they are now “married”. God does not recognize divorce if you really think about it because this is clearly what Jesus is saying. So even the innocent party is not free to remarry. The disciples reply to Jesus’s harsh statement showed they recognized how serious the statement was by their answer “if this is the case between a man and his wife it is better not to marry!” If you stand at the alter and say for better for worse til death do us part... Can that vow before God when He supernaturally in the spirit made them one flesh be superseded by another vow? What ends the marriage COVENANT? Well it’s the definition of a COVENANT... Death. The New Testament/ New COVENANT... how was it made? Jesus death.... death to yourself in baptism buried in His death and raised to new life in His resurrection. Death to yourself and your desires you gave your life to your King that one day you will live with Him if you take up your cross and follow Him. But again what ends a marriage COVENANT? Romans 7 and 1 Corinthians 7. Death.
'For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a certain fearful expectation of judgment, and fiery indignation which will devour the adversaries. Anyone who has rejected Moses’ law dies without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. Of how much worse punishment, do you suppose, will he be thought worthy who has trampled the Son of God underfoot, counted the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified a common thing, and insulted the Spirit of grace? For we know Him who said, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. And again, “The Lord will judge His people.” It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.' Hebrews 10:26-31 NKJV I see many who preach against divorce and remarriage shy away from saying what should be done when people are now living in that adulterous remarriage - often happily for many years, with children. John the Baptist did not shy away from saying exactly what should be done - and lost his head via decapitation for it. This is absolutely an issue of salvation - thus not taking a definitive stand is helping people into hell: "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such WERE (note, they did not stay in their sinful acts as repentance requires STOPPING THE SIN) some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God." 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 KJV "But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, SEXUALLY IMMORAL, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Revelation 21:8 NKJV
Julene Eayrs I thought I was clear on what should be done. Sin no more. Stop the adultery. I am just pointing out that I cannot force people to not commit remarriage adultery. The Word does that. The bible says seek peace with all men. That would include adulterers and whoremongers.
@@SaanichtonMinistries Okay, yes, I agree - we cannot (and should not) force anyone to do anything. We can only speak God's Word - they must make the choice to follow God or not. My apologies, sir.
Julene Eayrs keep up in the Truth sister! Remarriage is adultery and ‘’divorce’’ in this case is repentance because it’s not a marriage at first place. Stay blessed!
@Tary Elfers I don't bash gays, and I do not bash those who are in adulterous remarriage. People do not know what the Bible says about divorce and remarriage as the church does not teach it anymore now that they are filled with members who are divorced and remarried and do not want to lose money from those members who will most likely leave after hearing this truth; and much of church leadership are also in adulterous remarriages themselves. Homosexuality is still recognized amongst the church as sexual immorality - there's no need for me to expose that to anyone as they already know it. That being said, your comment was not looking for a response. You are simply mocking and scoffing. Continue as you will. "Knowing this first: that scoffers will come in the last days, walking according to their own lusts, and saying, “Where is the promise of His coming? For since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of creation.” For this they willfully forget: that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of water and in the water, by which the world that then existed perished, being flooded with water. But the heavens and the earth which are now preserved by the same word, are reserved for fire until the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men. But, beloved, do not forget this one thing, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night, in which the heavens will pass away with a great noise, and the elements will melt with fervent heat; both the earth and the works that are in it will be burned up. Therefore, since all these things will be dissolved, what manner of persons ought you to be in holy conduct and godliness, looking for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be dissolved, being on fire, and the elements will melt with fervent heat?" II Peter 3:3-12 NKJV
never before had I occupied myself with the topic adultery until I began to look into the matter more closely, because a family member of mine was involved.I found out that the husband had already married twice.The second wife died. Here he comes and marries a member of my family now married for the third time.Guess what, he is a pastor.He of all people should have known better. A teacher, workshop leader, holding seminars ,20 plus years of experience.After I searched scripture I invited the lady for a meal in a restaurant.Told her what I discovered.She immediately took me to her husbands home were they both lived and told him what I just shared with her on scripture.His answer was, if a woman dies spiritually not physically, then you can remarry.I was stunned to hear this coming from a pastors mouth.The lady said immediately to her husband, honey, we wont separate no matter what.She became restless and went to my home church to meet with the senior pastor.He told her not to worry, you're ok. She rang me up and told me that she's now fine on the matter, her conscience is clear and she will marry that man x times over.He's the best thing that ever happened to her. This pastors daughter from his first wife wanted to kill him.His first wife is still alive married to another man. His church went down from 300 to 20 members.Out of fear of living alone for the rest of her life, status and prestige, she decided to marry this man who is taking her with him to hell. This is what flesh can do.Why can we believe God to sustain us from not fulfilling the lust of the flesh as we walk in the spirit. Is He unable? Is serving God as a Single no more an alternative? Is it a shameful thing to be single? Those who keep pressurizing Singles to get married because time is running out will answer to God when the time comes. I was single for 30 years serving God faithfully.He took away all burning.No problem whatsoever. Let me tell you, God can do any and everything. So sorry for what happened with your wife.They will both end up in hell ,if they stay in that relationship without repenting.Please keep them both in prayers. God knows the pain you are going through.You may be trying to work things out on your own,figuring out how things will end.Let me tell you,God has your best interest at heart.Please keep on trusting in Him.Put your trust in Him.Jesus is your answer,He cares and will continue to provide for you,and will answer all your prayers according to His will.Jesus loves you.
@Douglas who has the right or power to determine when someone dies spiritually.if you are replying to someone who divorced his wife because he said that she has died spiritually and goes on to marry another, then that man is insane and has a mental disorder given to him by satan himself. he is so spiritually blind and has lost all sense of reality. A pastor for that matter. to make it simple, you can never put your first spouse away as long as she is alive and marry another. there is no such thing as a divorce, and no such thing as a remarriage, as long as your husband or wife is alive. period. bible is not complex, was never meant to be. you men confuse your own minds and the minds of others with invalid and unnecessary loopholes to gratify your every whim and flesh. period, end of story!
You were stunned that a man of the cloth understands how to read the Word and how to look up Greek and Hebrew words on his own instead of believing what he was trained to believe? I suppose that's similar to the pediatrician who ignores vaccine damage because his handlers told him too. Why are people so slow to see satan when he is right in their faces? To believe this lie means you believe that God is unjust and unfair. To believe you're going to hell because you are remarried is illogical. LOOK UP THE VERSES YOURSELF INSTEAD OF LISTENING TO LIARS!
@@danawaldrop4930 You need to read your bible better, marriage is a lifelong commitment. Read Romans chapter 7 verses 1& 2!! also1corinthians 7 verse10. you must not divorce, you must not remarry, instead, remain single!! your first husband your covenant spouse is still alive!! the bible calls you an adulteress, and as long as you do not confess and repent, the bible says, there is no forgiveness to the unrepentant and you remain guilty before God. There is nothing like divorce in the bible. absolutely nothing, it is man-made. you cannot remarry if your spouse is still alive. it is also a bad example for children and everyone else associated with you. learn to fear God more than man and the eternal consequences of going to hell. 1corinthians 6.9 says no adulterer shall inherit the kingdom of God, meaning that Hell will be your portion. repent means turning and walking away from your present state of sin as quickly as possible. tomorrow may be already too late. pray and God will direct you on how to about your present situation.
My husband of 20 years cheated and was verbally and emotionally abusive and was abusing drugs.I divorced him and am raising 3 kids alone.I don't want to be alone forever but feel I can't take him back.Im conflicted.I don't think God would want me with someone that could hurt me but I know divorce is wrong also.
Sorry to hear of your troubled marital experiences. I think forgiveness of sin is required of us a believers. There should always be hope of repentance and reconciliation, even after a divorce which we know God does not recognize in the NT Church age.
I was 19 when I had a child with a divorced man. We later married and had two more children, 3 daughters. Now, we are getting divorced. There's a lot there that I didn't tell. I say more about my situation in the comments of the previous video (7). I have lived in confusion while being with him because of his continual manipulation, lies, deceit, gasligting, intimidation, rage, control, habitual porn use, etc. Now, I am living in confusion and agony over the heavy realization of it all. There is a man that has been married three times and divorcing his 3rd wife. He keeps pursuing me and I have told him we can't be together. He keeps trying to convince me that we can. I have fallen into sin with him by kissing him and him seeing how far he could go. I stopped the ”situation” from going any further. He keeps coming around to help me with my car and bringing me things. I don't have any other friends. He has been there for me for a while since the separation. Also, I feel bad for him because he has a rare blood cancer. Feeling vulnerable and alone makes things harder. Please, pray for me in these situations
What we don't have knowledge about. Had you known you should have never been with that divorce man. Unless, he was divorced because of his wives uncleanness and not for what it sounds like "any and every cause!" So unfortunate for you to have gone through this, it's terrible 😞. Based on scripture you can marry (not remarry) because you were illegally and unknowingly married to a married man.
Sister I perceive that you don't have the infilling of the Holy Spirit... if you're feeling alone it's a trick of the enemy because Jesus said I will never leave you nor will I forsake you and when the comforter is come he will lead and guide you into all truth... The Holy Spirit is a comforter So if you feel that you have no Comfort if you feel alone ask God for the precious gift of the Holy Spirit and you'll never feel alone and comfortless ever again
satan wants you to be vulnerable and alone. satan does not want you to multiply. satan wants you forever in bondage. satan would love it if you would just turn away from the church altogether. Do you not see what satan is doing? Do you know that the scriptures were manipulated by the cult? Do you believe the words of Psalms 118:8?
This was a tough, hard hitting but great video. What is really disturbing is that divorce is never mentioned in the Christian Churches. You only hear about divorce, remarriage and adultery on social media. The Christian pastors ate afraid of the subject.
How to get back. I was born again and fine. Never married. J am tricked. I was in church and I DON'T know what k did to the holy ghost thinking I wanted things in the world. Born again in 1991 and I got into bad sins some destruction b UT spiritually I Didn't mean to. K want heaven. Not thanx this world system. I am so upset as a female to be this way. It like I was not ever in church. I ran and didn't mean this. Why does it seem like no matter what. He want me wicked and !was up. I DON'T understand..... I was in church and feel.I wss never fully converted. J want Christ I would not have done halted this mess. I want curtains now I feel lost and sick for sins nd people SPEAKING AOVER MY LIFE. speaking curses everything happened so fast I DON'T know where it what to do. I have lost everything and THIS SINS WAS NOT WORTH IT... I wanted marriage and family. This is bad.
They’re afraid of losing members…$$$$..I still tell people to gather with believers as iZtbsays in Hebrew 10:25…no church is perfect or no people are perfect. God will know who will be taken up and who will be save in any denoinationlnchurches..🙏🏽❤️That adultery is spreading like diseases…
It's sad that in the Divorce Care ministries in churches....they promote remarriage after you're healed. They even have remarried couples leading the groups. It's very sad. May the Most High help us all to do things His way...not our way. Even when it hurts. Thank you for sharing.
@Douglas I'm a man. My wife was convinced to leave me, and the guy shes with mom coveted my wife, split then marriage and paired my wife up with her son. She said the exception clause includes porn. I looked at porn a few times and got angry a few times. Never hit her though. God told me what his mom was up to, and I was right.
@Douglas I believe that, but will God destroy the people who destroyed my marriage? Will God discipline my wife, because she was cheating on me. Like my wife has no guilt for what she did. Yet she said shes a Christian and her family cut me out of their lives too. Like I believe in the covenant marriage and how it can't be broken, but I dont understand how Gods not destroying them? Another family coveted my wife and turned her against me.
I appreciate you tackling the difficult topic with truth and compassion. You’ve done a wonderful job. I do take issue with you shying away from telling people living adultery that they must divorce, repent, and remain single or be reconciled to their covenant spouse. What other sin can we repent of and continue to do? It’s adultery and continues to be adultery. Just as fornication is a continued behavior. If it was considered marriage after the first night, we would have no classification of fornication. We have no example of a thief repenting (admit it and quit it), and then continuing to steal. Same with any other sin. That’s not repentance. Thank you for the work you’ve done on this topic.
Thanks for your comments. It is a hard subject and has alienated us from a close Brethren fellowship. Taking this position where we were against a divorced woman getting remarried created a division. But we are glad we took it. The best way to look at it is that divorce essentially does not exist in the NT. It is illegitimate as a 3 dollar bill and is associated with sin and adultery. So people do not get divorced from remarriage... They agree repent and stop committing adultery with their adultery partner they call a "2nd husband or wife". They are not married in God's site, even if they got a certificate.
@@SaanichtonMinistriesyes but should they not go through with the legalities and should they not live apart? This LOOKS like sin when they don’t file for divorce and it LOOKS like sin if someone doesn’t move out. Ppl need to be told it’s a salvation issue even though some will hate you and most will not accept it-yet. Me? I just found out and at this point I’m grieving and crying out to God for TRUTH because I’m Not in the place YET where I know EXACTLY what to do. Like EXACTLY not just “seperate”
Ok nvm I listened to the rest. You warned well. Jesus warned. It’s up to each to do what they feel they should. Please pray if you will, that we hear clearly what exact steps to take and peace for both of us. Tysm and God bless you!
@@enna4986 it is best to live celibate and never be in the practice of sin concerning adultery. Seek peace as God has called us to this. So be accommodating yet sin not.
Deuteronomy 24:1-2 1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. 2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
are you under the law of Moses, where this scripture is taken from? are you in the new covenant or the old covenant? are you under Moses or Jesus? what did Jesus say? Matthew 19:7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
@@grantmulletDo you know then, I’m figuring I need to divorce my 2nd husband and just stay single for my 1st husband is still alive. Am I right? Your thoughts please if you can. Thanks in advance 🙏🏻✝️❤️
@@Denise._.820 Hi Denise, greetings in Christ, yes your second marriage is adultery if your first husband is still alive. to truly repent and forsake that sin, the only answer is to put the relationship away. the thief does not say sorry to God and keep the money, or another example would be a homosexual "marriage" upon confession of faith in Christ, there would be an expectation of severing that "marriage" correct? neither the homosexual "marriage" , nor the second "marriage" is truly a marriage in the eyes of God, both are sinful relationships, that must be ended if repentance is true. I realise the consequences are severe, sin brings death. but that is my counsel. God bless you , and my greatest advice is to really seek the Lord in prayer, because i'm just a youtube commenter, but the Lord, He is God, and what He says has far more weight and power than I do, if you search the scriptures, they are clear. God bless you
Can I marry a divorced woman if her spouse is still alive? I turned down a wonderful woman cuz' I don't want to go to hell by disobedience of adultery. I want to make sure I didn't make a mistake and walk away from finally meeting a good woman
You made a wise decision! Never marry a divorced woman period! Stay well clear of her. There are so many decent virgins out there desperately looking for a godly man. That is the safe and sure bet. Encourage her to reconcile with her husband and warn others to stay clear of divorced women.
Please pray for a Godly woman, I mean you don’t want to get married to a woman who will later divorce you because they do not honor a covenant. Even if she is a Christian and never married before please pray to find a woman that fears God. Seek God’s council on this. As there are many men who never believed in divorce but who unfortunately met women who never cared.
you are wimping out....it matters not what anyone would do....what matters is what does the scripture require.....and as a Pastor, you have to prevent your emotions from preventing you from teaching, and requiring the necessary action.....to stay, in line, with the Scripture....
SOOOOOO you can confidently say to people don't fornicate, murder, hate, lie, slander, watch porn, ect... BUT you can't tell people to get out of an adulterous relationship of remarriage? Which Jesus was clear on whosoever marries a divorced person is committing adultery? You did well on this video series though. Plead with them in love to repent and forsake it for marriage is a covenant only broken by death.
I think I more less did tell them they are in danger to choose to remain in sin. Just personally, I am not in a position of majority to tell anyone what to do. In the free world, people can do anything as long as it is not illegal or life threatening. I wish adultery was illegal as it use to be.
Saanichton Ministries You did a wonderful job on this series, May Jesus bless you and your marriage and your children and their marriages for your faithfulness to His Word and not compromising the truth. Have you read Except for Fornication by Daniel R Jennings from our local Liberty University school of theology? I’m sure you have read David Pawson Cambridge and Durham scholar, Dr Leslie McFall Cambridge free PDF, Dr Joseph Webb’s books. These are all wonderful.
@@christopherjordan6237 Pawson was awesome on this study. Dr Piper kind spiked the football, and Pawson really solidified it with scripture. Christians take "intellectual deductions" I have tried to point our more circumstantial evidence which points to the no divorce/exemption position as absolutely wise and true. Thanks for your encouragement. It is a blessing there are so many like minded believers out there! One day we shall all gather together to be with the Lord!
@@SaanichtonMinistries Amen brother. Thank you. Psalm 19 & Psalm 119 All His laws and precepts and commands are good and perfect, they protect us. It is our owners manual, just like a microwave you don't put metal in it because it will destroy it, because it was not designed for that. In the same way we were designed for love, love fulfills the law. But it's not a hippy feeling its action sometimes that love looks like being nailed to a cross, even our own desires, but we have not resisted sin to the point of bloodshed yet as the word says, though some have. "Holiness is true love and fulfillment" - Misty Edwards, Sid Roth ISN.
What do you do about David in the bible. he committed adultery God didnt tell him to leave Bathsheba , though surely their baby was taken from them because of their sin but they stayed in this marriage yet he will one day be Israel's king in the Millenium.
“So then, if while her husband is living she is joined to another man, she shall be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from the law, so that she is not an adulteress though she is joined to another man.” Romans 7:3 NASB1995
Amen. I only heard this 8th bideo. Thank you, I agree 100% , I believe when one really seeks God 's heart wholeheardtedly , they will understand. My question is re: 1 Cor 5 , I do not know any pastor who is willing to do accordingly , at least not re: sin. What is your understanding of 1 Cor 5 ? Pl if I may ask.
If my unbeliever ex wife wants to remarry me. after our divorce she was intimate with another man. She feels no regrats because she is not married. what to do now?, and what about deuteronomy 24 1-4, where God says that the land has been defiled! and what if you marry another and divorce, can i remarry her?
Was she a legitimate bride to begin with? We are called to peace in these situations. 1 Corr 7 15. Previous adultery and sins must be forgiven if we are to be forgiven our sins. If she is your legitimate bride, you must take her back and seek reconciliation. Love her as Christ loved the Church. The OT Det verses on family, marriage are not for NT saints. Jesus upped the bar and does not recognize divorce. Pray for her, communicate, and protect her from other men who want to commit adultery. You may be involved with saving her by your Christian witness! Burn the divorce paper, and take leadership as the man and husband to initial a sound plan. Take it easy and take it slow. Be patient, kind, gentle.... do not bring up sin and keep record of wrongs..... seek good Christian counselling who will be on the side of reconciliation if necessary. I could zoom with you both even :)
My question is why does scripture not say you must divorce if you have remarried. Secondly I ask was Christ speaking on intent? As in if you intend on divorcing to marry someone else that is adultery? What if God didn’t join the marriage?
The NT scripture does not recognize remarriage in the first place. So the correct way to look at it is you do not divorce (from remarriage adultery) but you stop practicing adultery with what you call "remarriage" when you're actually bound to someone else. We recall the scripture, "He who divorces his wife causes her to commit adultery..." This proves that divorce is not recognized and that marginalized women (the weaker vessel) especially, could be forced to remarry into adultery for her survival despite a vain divorce paper being issued. So in such a case the husband was guilty of adultery just by the sinful act of divorce, even if he was celibate. See how sinful divorce is, and what a horrible heresy of the lukewarm church (including John McArthur and others) today to affirm it and support it?
John 8:10-12 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” 11 “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
@Douglas David Pawson Cambridge and Durham scholar says this is very accurate for this particular scripture translation. The exception is fornication not adultery though. So the KJV and 60 others have that correct.
@Douglas Dude I don't understand your position at all. Here you CORRECTLY admonish the watered down, falsely translated Niv "bible", but in a response to Glen in the above comment over this one, you claim your wedding was Till Death do you part EXCEPT for fornication and adultery. All original English translated Bibles (Bishop Bible, Geneva Bible, KJV) DON'T say adultery ANYWHERE as grounds for breaking the Marital Covenant! That's what the Niv says!! But those original, correct Bibles DO SAY fornication, which is the Jewish betrothal period BEFORE MARRIAGE, thus there are NO BIBLICAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE AFTER MARRIAGE. So what the heck are you talking about you've Completely contradicted yourself in those 2 posts.....
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 OOOOOOOHHHHHH SNAP ESV BIBLE!!! Don’t trust it! Galations 5:19 (KJV) Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication Galatians 5:10 (ESV) Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, All through the Bible fornication and adultery are listed as separate sins and side by side. So Jesus shows us they are different. NIV published in 1978 by Biblica NLT published in July 1996 ESV published in 2001 by Crossway NKJV published in 1982 by Thomas Nelson Misleading people to hell since 1978 except for sexual immorality / adultery - WRONG JESUS SAID EXEPT FOR FORNICATION KJV DIVORCE RATE IS HIGHER IN THE CHURCH THAN OUTSIDE BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES THE GAYS ARE RIGHT!!!!
Divorce takes a toll on your life but so does remaining with a cruel person. My Christian husband was a jerk to me many times and admitted it. Even mistreating me as a newlywed. No remorse for 13 years.
Everywhere I go I find d&r Christians. I just found another one, a couple, leading a small group. I thought of not going back again. Is this what you might do?
This is false teaching. God does not ordain all marriages. If the small group leaders married and divorced before becoming Christians, and met and married after becoming Christians, therefore marrying to glorify God (which is what God ordained), they are not committing adultery. If they divorced in order to marry each other, yes that is adultery. It is also false teaching to say women in abusive marriages and/or with a man who cheats (also a form of abuse!) are bound to him. Or vice versa. Absolutely not! And if an unbelieving spouse abandons the marriage, the believing spouse is no longer bound! Above all, grace abounds! God blesses Christ centered marriages!
They should hope the spouse gets saved. Remarriage after a death of a spouse is no cakewalk. It can carry challenges too, especially with children involved. By God is at hand to bless legitimate remarriage after the death of a spouse.
let's go to the beginning, in Genesis 2: 20-25 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for man there was not found an help meet for him. And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; and the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. The NT confirms that in 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 For man is not of the woman, but woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man. Going back to Genesis 2: 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one FLESH. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. Unfortunately, many marriages end up in divorce without seeking nor searching the scriptures in the Old and New Testament to find out how unpleasant the answers for loopholes and accommodations to please the flesh will be. We start with Mathews 5:31-32; 19:3-9, Mark 10:1-12; and Luke 16:18 Jesus, commanded man (AND NOT WOMAN) the only grounds to put away his wife was for the cause of fornication. (AND the only scriptural mentioning a wife is found in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 where we have Paul giving adivce and regulations concerning MARRIED CHRISTIANS: And unto the married, I command, yet not I, but the lord, let not the WIFE DEPART from her husband: But if she DEPART, let her remain UNMARRIED or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife) That can easily be understood to mean a caution to the born again husband or wife who would want to depart from the unbelieving husband or wife is further explained in verses 12-16. Going back to what Jesus was answering the Pharisees and scribes was reaffirming the exact law Moses suffered man in the Gospels and to do away with "for any and every cause" man was exercising, but from the beginning it was not so. Sadly, Man was divorcing his wife for many unfounded dissatisfying and unhappy reasons. They had twisted and distorted the truth in Deuteronomy 24:1-3 "When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it came to pass that she hath found no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some UNCLEANNESS in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife:" That was easily misinterpreted by husbands who conveniently believed to mean "for any or every cause." Today, the very same thing is being practice between husband and wife divorcing "for any and every cause." Congregations filled with illegal marriages becuse ministers avoid preaching about divorce to avoid losing pupils; TH-cam, podcasts, and books filled with indept analysis, many assertions are not dogmatic, with plenty of historical perspectives from a variety of differing theologians and scholars who are too confusing filled with doubt, that don't seem to have an answer available to us. However, UNCLEANNESS is well defined in Numbers 5:19, (in fact, read from verses 11-31, The law of jealousy): And the priest shall charge her by an oath, and say unto the woman, If no man have lain with thee, and if thou hast not gone aside to UNCLEANNESS with ANOTHER instead of thy HUSBAND, be thou free from this bitter water that causeth the curse." Although, Moses law of divorce was allowing a wife to remarry to avoid the hardships a wife endured and forced into like committing adultery, cursed, or killed, and not "for any and every cause" man had tempted Jesus with, it was an unpleasant answer for divorcing his wife, that was not originally in God's will. Again, the only biblical ground in the NT for the wife to be put away and allowed to remarry without committing fornication while her husband remains alive is a devoted believing wife's work of faith and labor of love for Jesus, that the unbelieving husband rejects and wants nothing to do with, and decides to divorce her can be found in 1 Corinthians 7: 10-16. Other than that, there are no scriptural grounds [where Jesus gives a wife a right to (if her husband commits fornication) to put him away (nor for abandonment nor for abuse as is in some unfortunate cases today). All we have is If she does depart she must remain unmarried]-not one scriptural. Our Lord Jesus knew a wife is bound to the law of her husband till he dies and her curse; thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee. In fact, there are no provisions for a wife to have the rights to divorce her husband! Reread and search the scriptures. Women don't be deceived! Proverbs 6: 34-35 For Jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou gives many gifts. AND Numbers 5: 29-31 This is the law of JEALOUSIES, when a WIFE goeth ASIDE TO ANOTHER instead of her husband, and is DEFILED; Or when the spirit of jealousy cometh upon him, and he be jealous over his wife, and shall set the woman before the LORD, and the priest shall execute upon her ALL THIS LAW. Then shall the man be GUILTLESS from INIQUITY, and this woman shall BEAR HER INIQUITY. Man is clearly given provisions to divorce his wife if she commits fornication to dissolve the marriage covenant, and the only arguable debate many have is who is endorsed or qualified to remarry without committing adultery. Many argue only the innocent and meaning, the HUSBAND, but not the guilty in this case, the WIFE. Matthew 5: 31-32 and 19:3-12 Jesus said unto them, whomsoever shall put away his wife, (saving for the cause of) or except it be for fornication, (causeth her to) or shall marry another, committeth adultery: and (whosoever shall marry her that is divorced commiteth) or whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Our Lord and Savior meant, except for fornication one must not divorce his wife; except for fornication, if one puts away his wife he causes her to commit adultery; and except for fornication dissolving a marriage, one who marries her that is put away commits adultery. Consequently, avoid divorce "for any and every cause" which is clearly illegal.
The Supposed Perpetual adultery clause (Luke 16:18)(Matt. 5:31-32) a. Herod Philip married Herodias. When Herod Antipas visited his brother, he wanted Herodias for a wife for himself. So Herod Antipas divorced his own wife, and married Herodias. She, of course, had to divorce Herod Philip first. The Jewish law does not permit such behavior (Lev. 18:16; 20:21). John the Baptist continually said this was wrong. When he did this, he made Herodias very angry. So Herod Antipas ordered John's arrest & beheading. (Mark 6:14-28)(Matt. 14:1-11) b. Therefore, the supposed perpetual adultery clause comes from a misunderstanding of Jesus’ words in Luke, who in protest of Herod Antipas, he condemned the relationship as adulterous which means that he rejected the legitimacy of the marriage because he stole his brother’s wife, which violates commandments 6,7, and 9. c. Besides this shameful laxity, the Pharisees had never had the courage to denounce the adulterous marriage and disgraceful divorce of which Herod Antipas had been guilty. d. Jesus was referring to putting/sending away ones wife (Heb.- shalach)(Grk.- apoluo) without the written certificate of divorce (Heb.- sepher kerituth)(Grk.- apostasion) and marrying another causes adultery if one is remarried. God cares more about the needs of people than He does the institution. (Matt. 12:1-8)(1 Cor. 7:1-2, 27-28) *Note, If a person accepts the inspiration and infallibility of the Scriptures, then it cannot stand that what Jesus said in Matthew carries more authority than what Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 or Moses in Deut. 24 . All men spoke from God (2 Pet. 1:21) and each of them complement each other’s teaching in reflecting the Holy Spirit’s inspiration (2 Tim. 3:16-17).
To remarry is adultery the Lord taught. The only exception is death of a spouse. If you reject that, you go down a sinful path of sexual sin, and dysfunctional families which is never God's will. Divorce is also violent when we are called to peace. IE you take another mans wife under some false divorce exemption clause, you could get yourself killed or severely injured never mind go to hell for your error. Never encroach upon another mans wife!
@@SaanichtonMinistries Matt 5 and Matt 19, 1 Cor 7:28 and the Law all say you are a liar. John MacArther is correct on this teaching you are in deep error. Forcing people to destroy families is the work of the devil.
@@mak88119 I think you are working sin and practicing it. NEVER defend divorce positions. You are prejudice and falsely accusing me? God help you! Divorce an exemption clauses destroy families. You have been mislead by professional pastors and celebrities! They and you and others have taken the text out of context and made a pretext to suit your carnal flesh and sexual adultery desires. You have been called out and caught with your pants down! You have been exposed with your cowardly false "exemption clause loopholes." You and the "PT secret rapture, Calvinist , multi million dollar man" JM are wrong! I used to follow JM, NO Longer! Listen, you try and remarry some woman divorced under your fake "exemption clause loopholes" you could get yourself shot by some jealous man, never mind theological dichotomies. This has happened before many times. You want to talk with me directly on this? Any place any time! Don't be sanctimonious and think more highly of yourself than you ought. Listen and learn.... admit your wrong. As if Jesus would sanction divorce and let the other person sin because they have been sinned against! If if that is the Christian calling!
@@mak88119 Look at you cherry pick those stupid exemption loopholes and grasp at divorce and try and build a satanic pretext while you ignore the absolute of Mark and Luke. It is so upsetting to see this and think of all the children split up and broken families as a result.
So it’s not correct to confront a pastor who may be in this that is misleading a whole flock. We are not to show them what they are doing is gross error? I don’t know how you get away from that if you genuinely care for your congregation and division may ensue.
We should confront the pastor about it. We had elders only and after confronting them, they did not change their stance. We departed as we cannot live with the gross error. It is dangerous.
John @-12 New International Version (NIV) 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” 11 “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” (LEAVE!!! NOT say sorry)
Just watching this video it randomly popped in my feed and all I have to say is that divorce and remarriage is are not unpardonable sins, right? (Not that I'm making way for an excuse but theres cases where the man or woman tries to reconcile and the other doesnt want to and moves on with someone else and years pass by, what is that person who was abandoned supposed to do? Stay miserable for the rest of his life with the hopes that the other comes back?? What if that other has kids????) This topic is a hard one....
I believe it is pardonable if you stop the practice of remarriage adultery. I would not want to be living in adultery and die in this sin. Then meet the One who Judge righteously? The one abandoned is not to be miserable, but rejoice, do not judge, and be kind. Present his body as a living sacrifice. Life is short and we will all meet the Judge. Galatians says, not adulterer will inherit the Kingdom of God. You can be good in everything else, get this one wrong and go to hell. You get one chance at family. Never take vengeance on the offending spouse.
@@SaanichtonMinistries brother is there a way I could contact you to speak on this matter more privately? I'm really confused about this one.....I'm not sure what to do anymore I've lost hope that my marriage will be restored and I'm so close to giving in
In order to understand what on earth "Divorce" actually means --- we need to have a proper Scriptural understanding of Marriage. 100's of books on how to be a husband or how to be a wife ---- but not ONE book on actually "how" to marry. When does a man become a husband and a woman become a wife??? The Scriptures teach us that only virgin girls and or widowed women can take a husband and it be righteous. When was the last time a "church" denied marriage to a non-virgin girl or a non-widow? Decades! 2 Timothy 4:3 has been fulfilled.
What about Rahab? We live in a broken world. God is able to forgive and redeem those who repent of their former lifestyle, including women or men who are no longer virgins.
@@truthinlovemama Thank you for responding. I actually speak directly to Rahab on my blog under the Post "Did you know" -- see first comment. You make an emotional appeal which I understand. But you have not supported your appeal with Scripture. Just because we live in a broken or fallen world does not mean that God simply ignores His Law(s). Jesus said that the Sexually Immoral -- adulterers and fornicators -- will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven. Should we just chance it and hope that God ignores our sin? And by the way ..... "Virginity" was a big deal in Western Tradition not that long ago. Men went to war over a girl's virginity! Truly pray over this. Please read the article about Rahab. In His Truth. :)
@@truthinlovemama You are calling "marriage" a former sinful lifestyle. Were you aware of that? You say God is able to redeem those who repent of their former lifestyle. When a virgin girl has sex with a man -- this is "marriage" in God's eyes. It is not a sinful lifestyle. Sexual Intercourse is the 'marriage' of two flesh into one. This is undeniable. When a virgin girl has sex with a man, she becomes 'known' by this man. She is now One Flesh with this man. This is Scripture talking, not me. Paul says that only Death can separate this One Flesh union. Unless you can prove to me that marriage is a ceremony. If marriage is a ceremony -- where are the proper procedures and rituals outlined in the Scriptures??? Explain to me Leah and Jacob. Jacob covenanted with Laban for Rachel's hand in marriage. But ended up married to Leah the next morning. Explain Hagar and Abram. Hagar did not have a ceremony with Abram. Explain Genesis 38:8 -- "...and Judah said to Onan, 'go into your brother's wife and marry her....." Explain to me why Tamar was so distraught and tore her robe of Virginity and remained a recluse in her brother's house. Are you telling me that Isaac and Rebekah recited vows in his mother's tent right before intercourse? Read verse 16 of that Chapter. Rebekah was a "Virgin"...no man had known her. The Israelites had a law that required "bloody sheets" be revealed on the Bed Chamber night. Virginity was a requirement for marriage in Israelite Law. I could go on and on and on. Prove to me that sex with a virgin girl is Sin. When Adam and Eve first had sex -- was that Sin? Of course not.
I have tried to respond to you multiple times here on TH-cam, and my comment won’t go through. Trying again… Did my comment on the blog go through? I wasn’t sure if it was waiting for moderation, but now I wonder if it’s a tech issue on my end. Will you let me know if you got my comment on the blog? If not, I’ll retype it.
Why you do NOT want to go to a religious organization which believes and practices divorce and remarriage adultery exemptions. th-cam.com/video/52h_bbOKsYg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=CEfKhb04KQSmvHVI
you teach the Bible...???? then what does it say....it is recorded in Titus 3.10 King James Version A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject....
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3; Luke 16:18 Mark 10:6-12 Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Unless they Confess and Forsake their Sin: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
Listen ,pastor you are accountable, you do not have to know what it feels like.The Gospel is not a matter of feeling.It is a matter of Faith.The Holy Spirit is One. He does not tell one this and that to another.There is only one Truth. There are not many Gospels, there is only one. Do not say ,what ever the Spirit tells you.Tell them simply what the bible says, then it is up to them to decide if they choose life or death. Do not talk around the bush. Be straight forward and the people will thank you for it later.This is no joke.Do not tickle peoples ears or make them feel they can do whatever they like.We are owned by Jesus.He paid for it.Sin stinks.We are all filthy rags, wicked mean and selfish by nature.We all deserve Hell, nothing less. Only by Gods Grace and mercy are we Saved. So how dare we want to rule our own lives on our own terms? Who the heck do we think we are.We need to weep ,get on our knees and repent and even be greatful unto God for every new day He has granted unto us.
I hear you. What if the remarried adulterated man has 4 children with the partner? Can some be "forced into adultery" because the other divorced? It is adultery, but some cases make you forced into it as the Lord taught. If you are not lead by the Spirit, then your not saved, and adultery is not your biggest issue, getting saved and the fact that your going to hell is.
@@SaanichtonMinistries whether or not the adulterous/adulterated man or woman has children from a 2nd or 3rd"remarriage" is irrelevant. I think the brother commenting here at the top is pointing out that the adulterous person needs to Repent from that phony remarriage regardless of the cost. Aren't we told by Jesus Himself to Count up the cost of following Him as a builder does before constructing a building?? How is this sin (no matter how many years the person is illegitimately remarried) different than any other? Isnt Repentance (stopping; turning away from, not continuing in) required in ALL sin (Including this one) how can the person in adultery repent and stay in the adulterous AFFAIR (remarriage??) Can the thief keep the stolen money or property after Repenting of his sin of thievery? 🤔
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 Amen brother. I am with you. But the person who leaves the adulterated marriage is still on the hook to fully provide for the needs of that woman and her children even as the law stipulates! This would be fiscal and shared parenting duties. That is why I argue this sin can carry with it consequences for eternity and life! All for a moment of sinful, scandalous pleasure.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 And the departed one should publicly announce that he will remain celibate for the rest of his life and repudiate his sin and actions.
Why is remarriage adultery? because the one with whom you made a covenant of marriage is until physical death and not spiritual death, and those who do this will be separated from God forever Matthew chapter 19 verse 8 and 9
@@johnborland7865 Jesus came to fulfil law. We do not offer animal sacrifices for atonement of sins anymore, but it is in the bible!! If your heart is hardened to accept JESUS WILL, then you need a certificate that will allow your rebellious heart do whatever you want!! Who said to follow Jesus was easy. are you ready to pay the price, take up your cross and follow Him? Is your flesh out of control that Jesus cannot sustain and help you live a holy life in purity? Is He weak when it comes to your sexual desires? can you believe Him for everything and disbelieve Him when it comes to sex. How many had prayed before getting married to know if God wants them married in the first place or to live a single life and serve Him in celebacy, than ending up in court leaving traces of pain ,hate and anger behind. Did you ask whether you are even mature to be a husband or wife? Is God depriving you of anything sexuality if He says you have been called to singleness? Is it about you or about God? are you still living your own life or has Jesus taken over? Who is in charge, who is in control? Are you ready to live out your flesh and end in Hell!! How honest are human beings, preachers? is there any truth to be found in this world, has there been before? Who can be trusted when it comes to truth? the heart of man is desparately wicked and deceitful!! only the Holy Spirit can bring truth.I would encourage you to please stop living a lie.God hates divorce period!!!! are you living in the old or new testament? no divorce. if so, then reconcile or remain single. if your spouse dies, then remarry if you like. what is difficult there to understand? are you ready to do what Jesus says ,no matter the cost. Hell is real, no adulterer will ever see the face of God. my plea is for you to fear Him.
Glen Dike see that’s the funny thing. I’m not standing for my marriage. I’m single. My ex wife is remarried and it’s her marriage I’m standing for. I’m not interested in marrying or intimacy anymore.
@@johnborland7865 I understand now, thank you and God bless you.Sorry to hear you are going through this. Jesus cares and my prayer is that His perfect will always be done in your life.Be blessed.
you start well, and end, in gibberish.....there is an expression, I think, from the USA....lead, follow, or get out of the way....if you can not, or do not wish to take a stand, on this issue....do yourself, and everyone else, a favor and find a different line of work....after all a teacher is subject to a stricter judgement.....James 3.1 New International Version Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.
if you study the issue carefully, divorce does not exist in God's eyes. He still sees you and your legitimate first wife as married. Divorce is therefore a lie, and fake with no merit. As the Lord taught, it is adultery. So therefore, you and your divorced wife should seek to reconcile, and always leave that option on the table no matter what she does.
@@SaanichtonMinistries We have a unique situation. She wanted a divorce became i cheated, but she didn't want me to touch her and always said she wanted to be alone. I finally committed to God my life and except being alone. I do sometimes still sin with self gratifying and i ask God to forgive me. I know thats wrong and sinful but i wont fornicate with a women. I really admire your truth preaching and may God bless you. I am doing a lot better as time goes on and give God all the Glory!
You not serious? Kids hate divorce and long for mom and dad to be together. They loose security and legitimacy in divorce and the blended family suffers for years and generations as a result of adultery.
@@SaanichtonMinistries In some cases you're correct. In many others it's better for the kids. There are cases of neglect, abuse, detachment, addiction, parental fighting, and the list goes on. Just google it and read the experts.
@@josephscala6707 Abuse and neglect are far more common in adulterated families. Parents who selfishly move onto other partners look at the kids as obstacles to their new happiness and pleasures. The kids are obstacles are they are passed back and fourth with access frustrations, financial support payments, and so on. All parents fight at times. Sometimes neglect, and abuse can happen? Who has not been an abusive in some way in the context of family? That word itself has been abused! Addiction too is prone too many in a nation with legal pot and alcohol never mind perspiration drugs. But you think divorce and remarriage will help this conditions? Somehow, you think you can trade up to a better partner? This mindset is evil and from the self centred entitlement "me" mentality! People with that mindset jump from partner to partner always imagining they will find a better one who is a perfect match when all your doing is fulfilling even and destruction and Satans will. Even the Bible says sin has pleasure for a season... but it ruins in the end. Taking crack cocaine has said to provide unspeakable bliss, joy and human capability, but in the end it slowly takes from you and those around you, Same with the crack cocaine of divorce and adultery
@@josephscala6707 It is not optional is our whole point here. it is not legitimate or recognized by God. That is what matters. There could be literal hell to pay if a man gets this wrong.
You're teaching is spot on. The Bible teaches that if you divorce you cannot remarry if you're thinking of entertaining the idea of getting remarried it's called adultery it's as simple as that. We want to make the Bible say what we wanted for our convenience. The problem today is there are no two parent families anymore it's children have become solitary there's no attachment to their families the breakdown of the family unit is an abomination itself fathers are not stepping up to the plate. God has assigned them the head of the household and they're not doing their jobs. And the children are suffering for their sins. Amen
The Gate is narrow as Jesus proclaimed!!
amen....
Well said. I divorced my wife 2 yrs ago and have been convicted by the holy spirit to remain single and never remarry. I am learning there is a cost to following Christ.
God bless and guide you for your great example, but seek peace and reconciliation as divorce is not recognized
Can you be reconciled?
Thank you for your honesty.
I felt the same conviction
Why did you divorce your wife ?
I’m so happy to see more and more preachers speaking on this and on their TH-cam channels more people are seeing the truth and agreeing which is also encouraging
The church is full of dark unteachable leaders and pastors being lead by pride ego and greed not love. The church is sick.
That should not stop you from remaining steadfast in building your faith and praying in the holy ghost working outyoursalvation. We know that Satan has ministers portraying to be angels of light deceiving you, me, and everyone
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Appreciate more bold men addressing this very prevalent sin all throughout the church it’s rampant. This is the hardest truth to teach to those who are in this sin of remarriage and it’s often reacted to with disbelief and anger. Pastors of large denominations will not address it nor dare they. Jesus taught that this truth would be hard to receive because of its difficulty. Be prepared to be cut off and ignored by those whom you confront with this sin.
Thanks for that comment. I had to confront the issue out of total conviction after I almost lived it out myself and can see crystal clearly now the truth of what Christ taught, and how His teaching is for our own benefit and greater good. Unfortunately it meant leaving our rather conservative brethren assembly even as we are friendly to those who we know a love there still. We have no regrets even as we have take not shortage of flack.
I was in a second marriage ( adultery) and I was convicted and I have been divorced and remained alone for over a year now. I’ve been okay with it and recently I’ve wondered about my first husband. But I fear the Lord and would rather be alone and safe the wrong and not in his will for my life .
God bless you. Was your first husband a believer? Did he remain faithful and loving?
Our situation is very hard. He was then and I was not. He was baptized and even did therapy at the Church without me. After years and years the Lord has kept us some how some way in each other’s lives. At one point I moved him home from Hawaii just in time for the Lord to save his live with a procedure. We definitely have a testimony.
@@BeFilledAfresh seek peace, forgiveness and reconciliation to your legitimate husband as far as it is possible within reason.
@@pastorshandonevangkimlaellis I’d be glad to help with your questions. Ultimately though ask God directly. He answers
@@pastorshandonevangkimlaellis yes. Marriage is a covenant for both believers and unbelievers. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
You don't want to know what it's like to live or grow up in this state.
My mother's been married four times and is now living with another man whilst still married to my 3rd step father. I grew up not knowing my biological father. As an adult I learnt that he too had remarried and had more kids with his new wife.
With my upbringing I do all I can not to repeat my mother's mistakes and to follow Jesus instead. My wife, son's and I are all the happier for us doing so.
God bless you brother. We will pray for your parents and learn from their mistakes. You testimony confirms what e talked about in a session.... divorce and remarriage adultery can create a cycle in many cases. The sin repeats itself. Remarriage adultery is illegitimate, people in it need to repent before it it too late and they die in their sin.
@@SaanichtonMinistries repent, means to quit the sin.....
This man speaks the Truth.
2 Why Divorce and Remarriage Is Adultery & Why We Can Not Remarry To Enter His Kingdom
1 Corinthians 7:10
10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
Romans 7
By law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man
Luke 16:18
“Jesus said: Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor(reverence) among ALL, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous!!!
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do NOT be DECEIVED!!!!!!! Neither fornicators, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.”
John 14:23
Jesus replied, "Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Whoever does not love Me does not keep My words.
John 15:6
Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be burned.
Matthew 5:31
Jesus said, “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except fornication (porneia/sex before marriage) causes her to commit adultery (moicheia); and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery
Matthew 19:8
Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for fornication (porneia), and marries another woman commits adultery (moicheia).”
Matthew 19:10
The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” -This is how serious marriage is! They recognized it by their answer!
Mark 10:6
But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,[a] 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
10 And in the house the disciples asked him again about this matter. 11 And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, 12 and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
Malachi 2:1
For I HATE divorce says the LORD!
The 7th Commandment Thou Shall NOT commit Adultery!
The Moral Law (10 Commandments) written on our hearts will Never be done away with.
Malachi 2:16
“For the man or woman who does not love their spouse but divorces them, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
The covenant of marriage is very serious in God’s eyes only broken by death and He does not take it lightly as our culture has & changed it’s views.
The LORD does not change - Malachi 3:6. Amen! Thank God He doesn’t sway like we do.
Mathew 6:14-15
For if you forgive those who sin against you your heaven Father will forgive you. But if you do NOT forgive others sins your heavenly Father will not forgive your sins!
Matthew 7:21-23
Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. MANY will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you (Bible John 1:1 The Word was God); depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!
“Wisdom will save you from the immoral woman, from the seductive words of the promiscuous woman. She has abandoned her husband and ignores the covenant she made before God. Entering her house leads to death; it is the road to the grave. The man who visits her is doomed. He will never reach the paths of life.”Proverbs 2:16-19
James 2:19
19 You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe-and tremble! 20 But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is [h]dead?
Matthew 14:3
For Herod had laid hold on John, and bound him, and put him in prison for Herodias' sake, his brother Philip's wife.4 For John said unto him, It is not lawful for thee to have her.
I Corinthians 7:39
“A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.”
I Corinthians 7:27
“Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed (don’t even seek it). Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife.”
Great comment. God's Word is always true. Blessings.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways This girl is AMAAAZZZZIINNNGGGG!! Totally kills OSAS and in one video says remarriage is sin. th-cam.com/video/otMLkzYKgb8/w-d-xo.html
Douglas What are you talking about? Jesus said remarriage is constant adultery and does not break the covenant.
@@christopherjordan6237 can you share the scripture say it's continuous adultery? Thanks.
@@LeeLee-2011 It’s in the Greek present continuous tense or state of being same as Romans 7:3. Confirmed from Genesis so they are never again two but one flesh. I would like to answer your question by getting you to question... who made the laws of marriage? In the beginning God made them make and female and a man should leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife as one flesh. SO THEN THEY ARE NO LONGER TWO BUT ONE FLESH! That which GOD has joined together NO man (can) separate. (Greek). Jesus repented Genesis and added any man that MARRIES a DIVORCED woman is committing adultery. But how? She is “divorced” and they are now “married”. God does not recognize divorce if you really think about it because this is clearly what Jesus is saying. So even the innocent party is not free to remarry. The disciples reply to Jesus’s harsh statement showed they recognized how serious the statement was by their answer “if this is the case between a man and his wife it is better not to marry!” If you stand at the alter and say for better for worse til death do us part... Can that vow before God when He supernaturally in the spirit made them one flesh be superseded by another vow? What ends the marriage COVENANT? Well it’s the definition of a COVENANT... Death. The New Testament/ New COVENANT... how was it made? Jesus death.... death to yourself in baptism buried in His death and raised to new life in His resurrection. Death to yourself and your desires you gave your life to your King that one day you will live with Him if you take up your cross and follow Him. But again what ends a marriage COVENANT? Romans 7 and 1 Corinthians 7. Death.
Okay, so King David, Abraham and Jacob had more than one wife. So they are adulturers. Are they in heaven?
Great question!
They are in heaven and God is forgiving and loving.
'For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a certain fearful expectation of judgment, and fiery indignation which will devour the adversaries. Anyone who has rejected Moses’ law dies without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. Of how much worse punishment, do you suppose, will he be thought worthy who has trampled the Son of God underfoot, counted the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified a common thing, and insulted the Spirit of grace? For we know Him who said, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. And again, “The Lord will judge His people.” It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.'
Hebrews 10:26-31 NKJV
I see many who preach against divorce and remarriage shy away from saying what should be done when people are now living in that adulterous remarriage - often happily for many years, with children.
John the Baptist did not shy away from saying exactly what should be done - and lost his head via decapitation for it.
This is absolutely an issue of salvation - thus not taking a definitive stand is helping people into hell:
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such WERE (note, they did not stay in their sinful acts as repentance requires STOPPING THE SIN) some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God."
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 KJV
"But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, SEXUALLY IMMORAL, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”
Revelation 21:8 NKJV
Julene Eayrs I thought I was clear on what should be done. Sin no more. Stop the adultery. I am just pointing out that I cannot force people to not commit remarriage adultery. The Word does that. The bible says seek peace with all men. That would include adulterers and whoremongers.
@@SaanichtonMinistries Okay, yes, I agree - we cannot (and should not) force anyone to do anything. We can only speak God's Word - they must make the choice to follow God or not. My apologies, sir.
@@steenystuff1075 so if I abort a baby in faith it is not sin - because I did it in faith?
Julene Eayrs keep up in the Truth sister! Remarriage is adultery and ‘’divorce’’ in this case is repentance because it’s not a marriage at first place. Stay blessed!
@Tary Elfers I don't bash gays, and I do not bash those who are in adulterous remarriage. People do not know what the Bible says about divorce and remarriage as the church does not teach it anymore now that they are filled with members who are divorced and remarried and do not want to lose money from those members who will most likely leave after hearing this truth; and much of church leadership are also in adulterous remarriages themselves. Homosexuality is still recognized amongst the church as sexual immorality - there's no need for me to expose that to anyone as they already know it.
That being said, your comment was not looking for a response. You are simply mocking and scoffing. Continue as you will.
"Knowing this first: that scoffers will come in the last days, walking according to their own lusts, and saying, “Where is the promise of His coming? For since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of creation.” For this they willfully forget: that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of water and in the water, by which the world that then existed perished, being flooded with water. But the heavens and the earth which are now preserved by the same word, are reserved for fire until the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men. But, beloved, do not forget this one thing, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night, in which the heavens will pass away with a great noise, and the elements will melt with fervent heat; both the earth and the works that are in it will be burned up. Therefore, since all these things will be dissolved, what manner of persons ought you to be in holy conduct and godliness, looking for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be dissolved, being on fire, and the elements will melt with fervent heat?"
II Peter 3:3-12 NKJV
Thank you for talking on this topic.
never before had I occupied myself with the topic adultery until I began to look into the matter more closely, because a family member of mine was involved.I found out that the husband had already married twice.The second wife died. Here he comes and marries a member of my family now married for the third time.Guess what, he is a pastor.He of all people should have known better. A teacher, workshop leader, holding seminars ,20 plus years of experience.After I searched scripture I invited the lady for a meal in a restaurant.Told her what I discovered.She immediately took me to her husbands home were they both lived and told him what I just shared with her on scripture.His answer was, if a woman dies spiritually not physically, then you can remarry.I was stunned to hear this coming from a pastors mouth.The lady said immediately to her husband, honey, we wont separate no matter what.She became restless and went to my home church to meet with the senior pastor.He told her not to worry, you're ok. She rang me up and told me that she's now fine on the matter, her conscience is clear and she will marry that man x times over.He's the best thing that ever happened to her. This pastors daughter from his first wife wanted to kill him.His first wife is still alive married to another man. His church went down from 300 to 20 members.Out of fear of living alone for the rest of her life, status and prestige, she decided to marry this man who is taking her with him to hell. This is what flesh can do.Why can we believe God to sustain us from not fulfilling the lust of the flesh as we walk in the spirit. Is He unable? Is serving God as a Single no more an alternative? Is it a shameful thing to be single? Those who keep pressurizing Singles to get married because time is running out will answer to God when the time comes. I was single for 30 years serving God faithfully.He took away all burning.No problem whatsoever. Let me tell you, God can do any and everything. So sorry for what happened with your wife.They will both end up in hell ,if they stay in that relationship without repenting.Please keep them both in prayers. God knows the pain you are going through.You may be trying to work things out on your own,figuring out how things will end.Let me tell you,God has your best interest at heart.Please keep on trusting in Him.Put your trust in Him.Jesus is your answer,He cares and will continue to provide for you,and will answer all your prayers according to His will.Jesus loves you.
@Douglas who has the right or power to determine when someone dies spiritually.if you are replying to someone who divorced his wife because he said that she has died spiritually and goes on to marry another, then that man is insane and has a mental disorder given to him by satan himself. he is so spiritually blind and has lost all sense of reality. A pastor for that matter. to make it simple, you can never put your first spouse away as long as she is alive and marry another. there is no such thing as a divorce, and no such thing as a remarriage, as long as your husband or wife is alive. period. bible is not complex, was never meant to be. you men confuse your own minds and the minds of others with invalid and unnecessary loopholes to gratify your every whim and flesh. period, end of story!
You were stunned that a man of the cloth understands how to read the Word and how to look up Greek and Hebrew words on his own instead of believing what he was trained to believe? I suppose that's similar to the pediatrician who ignores vaccine damage because his handlers told him too. Why are people so slow to see satan when he is right in their faces? To believe this lie means you believe that God is unjust and unfair. To believe you're going to hell because you are remarried is illogical. LOOK UP THE VERSES YOURSELF INSTEAD OF LISTENING TO LIARS!
Can you tell us which verse says the remarried will go to hell? No. You can not. Because it does not exist.
@@danawaldrop4930 You need to read your bible better, marriage is a lifelong commitment. Read Romans chapter 7 verses 1& 2!! also1corinthians 7 verse10. you must not divorce, you must not remarry, instead, remain single!! your first husband your covenant spouse is still alive!! the bible calls you an adulteress, and as long as you do not confess and repent, the bible says, there is no forgiveness to the unrepentant and you remain guilty before God. There is nothing like divorce in the bible. absolutely nothing, it is man-made. you cannot remarry if your spouse is still alive. it is also a bad example for children and everyone else associated with you. learn to fear God more than man and the eternal consequences of going to hell.
1corinthians 6.9 says no adulterer shall inherit the kingdom of God, meaning that Hell will be your portion. repent means turning and walking away from your present state of sin as quickly as possible. tomorrow may be already too late. pray and God will direct you on how to about your present situation.
@@glenguitar9465 excatly
My husband of 20 years cheated and was verbally and emotionally abusive and was abusing drugs.I divorced him and am raising 3 kids alone.I don't want to be alone forever but feel I can't take him back.Im conflicted.I don't think God would want me with someone that could hurt me but I know divorce is wrong also.
Sorry to hear of your troubled marital experiences. I think forgiveness of sin is required of us a believers. There should always be hope of repentance and reconciliation, even after a divorce which we know God does not recognize in the NT Church age.
Continue to pray and fast over you husband. God will do miracles.
I believe you did the right thing by divorcing him and God may or may not bring him back to the right path. God cannot overstep his free will.
I was 19 when I had a child with a divorced man. We later married and had two more children, 3 daughters. Now, we are getting divorced. There's a lot there that I didn't tell. I say more about my situation in the comments of the previous video (7). I have lived in confusion while being with him because of his continual manipulation, lies, deceit, gasligting, intimidation, rage, control, habitual porn use, etc. Now, I am living in confusion and agony over the heavy realization of it all. There is a man that has been married three times and divorcing his 3rd wife. He keeps pursuing me and I have told him we can't be together. He keeps trying to convince me that we can. I have fallen into sin with him by kissing him and him seeing how far he could go. I stopped the ”situation” from going any further. He keeps coming around to help me with my car and bringing me things. I don't have any other friends. He has been there for me for a while since the separation. Also, I feel bad for him because he has a rare blood cancer. Feeling vulnerable and alone makes things harder. Please, pray for me in these situations
Thanks for sharing and warning others. We shall pray for you.
What we don't have knowledge about. Had you known you should have never been with that divorce man. Unless, he was divorced because of his wives uncleanness and not for what it sounds like "any and every cause!" So unfortunate for you to have gone through this, it's terrible 😞. Based on scripture you can marry (not remarry) because you were illegally and unknowingly married to a married man.
Sister I perceive that you don't have the infilling of the Holy Spirit... if you're feeling alone it's a trick of the enemy because Jesus said I will never leave you nor will I forsake you and when the comforter is come he will lead and guide you into all truth...
The Holy Spirit is a comforter
So if you feel that you have no Comfort if you feel alone ask God for the precious gift of the Holy Spirit and you'll never feel alone and comfortless ever again
satan wants you to be vulnerable and alone. satan does not want you to multiply. satan wants you forever in bondage. satan would love it if you would just turn away from the church altogether. Do you not see what satan is doing? Do you know that the scriptures were manipulated by the cult? Do you believe the words of Psalms 118:8?
This was a tough, hard hitting but great video. What is really disturbing is that divorce is never mentioned in the Christian Churches. You only hear about divorce, remarriage and adultery on social media. The Christian pastors ate afraid of the subject.
So true
How to get back. I was born again and fine. Never married. J am tricked. I was in church and I DON'T know what k did to the holy ghost thinking I wanted things in the world.
Born again in 1991 and I got into bad sins some destruction b UT spiritually I Didn't mean to. K want heaven. Not thanx this world system. I am so upset as a female to be this way. It like I was not ever in church. I ran and didn't mean this. Why does it seem like no matter what. He want me wicked and !was up. I DON'T understand..... I was in church and feel.I wss never fully converted. J want Christ I would not have done halted this mess. I want curtains now I feel lost and sick for sins nd people SPEAKING AOVER MY LIFE. speaking curses everything happened so fast I DON'T know where it what to do. I have lost everything and THIS SINS WAS NOT WORTH IT... I wanted marriage and family. This is bad.
They’re afraid of losing members…$$$$..I still tell people to gather with believers as iZtbsays in Hebrew 10:25…no church is perfect or no people are perfect. God will know who will be taken up and who will be save in any denoinationlnchurches..🙏🏽❤️That adultery is spreading like diseases…
It's sad that in the Divorce Care ministries in churches....they promote remarriage after you're healed. They even have remarried couples leading the groups. It's very sad. May the Most High help us all to do things His way...not our way. Even when it hurts. Thank you for sharing.
God's grace if sufficient for this topic.
Do you think if people put their hooks in other people's marriage and split it, there will be consequences for them.
@Douglas
What if the family split the marriage?
@Douglas
What if a family coerced you to leave your spouse.?
@Douglas
I'm a man. My wife was convinced to leave me, and the guy shes with mom coveted my wife, split then marriage and paired my wife up with her son. She said the exception clause includes porn. I looked at porn a few times and got angry a few times. Never hit her though. God told me what his mom was up to, and I was right.
@Douglas
You mean the man who's with my wife?
@Douglas
I believe that, but will God destroy the people who destroyed my marriage? Will God discipline my wife, because she was cheating on me. Like my wife has no guilt for what she did. Yet she said shes a Christian and her family cut me out of their lives too. Like I believe in the covenant marriage and how it can't be broken, but I dont understand how Gods not destroying them? Another family coveted my wife and turned her against me.
Thank you Amen!!
I appreciate you tackling the difficult topic with truth and compassion. You’ve done a wonderful job. I do take issue with you shying away from telling people living adultery that they must divorce, repent, and remain single or be reconciled to their covenant spouse. What other sin can we repent of and continue to do? It’s adultery and continues to be adultery. Just as fornication is a continued behavior. If it was considered marriage after the first night, we would have no classification of fornication. We have no example of a thief repenting (admit it and quit it), and then continuing to steal. Same with any other sin. That’s not repentance. Thank you for the work you’ve done on this topic.
Thanks for your comments. It is a hard subject and has alienated us from a close Brethren fellowship. Taking this position where we were against a divorced woman getting remarried created a division. But we are glad we took it. The best way to look at it is that divorce essentially does not exist in the NT. It is illegitimate as a 3 dollar bill and is associated with sin and adultery. So people do not get divorced from remarriage... They agree repent and stop committing adultery with their adultery partner they call a "2nd husband or wife". They are not married in God's site, even if they got a certificate.
@@SaanichtonMinistriesyes but should they not go through with the legalities and should they not live apart? This LOOKS like sin when they don’t file for divorce and it LOOKS like sin if someone doesn’t move out. Ppl need to be told it’s a salvation issue even though some will hate you and most will not accept it-yet. Me? I just found out and at this point I’m grieving and crying out to God for TRUTH because I’m
Not in the place YET where I know EXACTLY what to do. Like EXACTLY not just “seperate”
Ok nvm I listened to the rest. You warned well. Jesus warned. It’s up to each to do what they feel they should. Please pray if you will, that we hear clearly what exact steps to take and peace for both of us. Tysm and God bless you!
@@enna4986 it is best to live celibate and never be in the practice of sin concerning adultery. Seek peace as God has called us to this. So be accommodating yet sin not.
@SaanichtonMinistries so you take the position a divorced woman can never remarry but sometimes a divorced man can?
Deuteronomy 24:1-2
1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
are you under the law of Moses, where this scripture is taken from? are you in the new covenant or the old covenant? are you under Moses or Jesus? what did Jesus say?
Matthew 19:7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
@@grantmulletDo you know then, I’m figuring I need to divorce my 2nd husband and just stay single for my 1st husband is still alive. Am I right? Your thoughts please if you can. Thanks in advance 🙏🏻✝️❤️
@@Denise._.820 Hi Denise, greetings in Christ, yes your second marriage is adultery if your first husband is still alive. to truly repent and forsake that sin, the only answer is to put the relationship away. the thief does not say sorry to God and keep the money, or another example would be a homosexual "marriage" upon confession of faith in Christ, there would be an expectation of severing that "marriage" correct? neither the homosexual "marriage" , nor the second "marriage" is truly a marriage in the eyes of God, both are sinful relationships, that must be ended if repentance is true. I realise the consequences are severe, sin brings death. but that is my counsel. God bless you , and my greatest advice is to really seek the Lord in prayer, because i'm just a youtube commenter, but the Lord, He is God, and what He says has far more weight and power than I do, if you search the scriptures, they are clear. God bless you
Can I marry a divorced woman if her spouse is still alive? I turned down a wonderful woman cuz' I don't want to go to hell by disobedience of adultery. I want to make sure I didn't make a mistake and walk away from finally meeting a good woman
You made a wise decision! Never marry a divorced woman period! Stay well clear of her. There are so many decent virgins out there desperately looking for a godly man. That is the safe and sure bet. Encourage her to reconcile with her husband and warn others to stay clear of divorced women.
Please pray for a Godly woman, I mean you don’t want to get married to a woman who will later divorce you because they do not honor a covenant. Even if she is a Christian and never married before please pray to find a woman that fears God. Seek God’s council on this. As there are many men who never believed in divorce but who unfortunately met women who never cared.
I really need this message because I want to be right in God and not to conform into this world.
you are wimping out....it matters not what anyone would do....what matters is what does the scripture require.....and as a Pastor, you have to prevent your emotions from preventing you from teaching, and requiring the necessary action.....to stay, in line, with the Scripture....
SOOOOOO you can confidently say to people don't fornicate, murder, hate, lie, slander, watch porn, ect... BUT you can't tell people to get out of an adulterous relationship of remarriage? Which Jesus was clear on whosoever marries a divorced person is committing adultery? You did well on this video series though. Plead with them in love to repent and forsake it for marriage is a covenant only broken by death.
I think I more less did tell them they are in danger to choose to remain in sin. Just personally, I am not in a position of majority to tell anyone what to do. In the free world, people can do anything as long as it is not illegal or life threatening. I wish adultery was illegal as it use to be.
Saanichton Ministries You did a wonderful job on this series, May Jesus bless you and your marriage and your children and their marriages for your faithfulness to His Word and not compromising the truth. Have you read Except for Fornication by Daniel R Jennings from our local Liberty University school of theology? I’m sure you have read David Pawson Cambridge and Durham scholar, Dr Leslie McFall Cambridge free PDF, Dr Joseph Webb’s books. These are all wonderful.
@@christopherjordan6237 Pawson was awesome on this study. Dr Piper kind spiked the football, and Pawson really solidified it with scripture. Christians take "intellectual deductions" I have tried to point our more circumstantial evidence which points to the no divorce/exemption position as absolutely wise and true. Thanks for your encouragement. It is a blessing there are so many like minded believers out there! One day we shall all gather together to be with the Lord!
@@SaanichtonMinistries Amen brother. Thank you.
Psalm 19 & Psalm 119 All His laws and precepts and commands are good and perfect, they protect us. It is our owners manual, just like a microwave you don't put metal in it because it will destroy it, because it was not designed for that. In the same way we were designed for love, love fulfills the law. But it's not a hippy feeling its action sometimes that love looks like being nailed to a cross, even our own desires, but we have not resisted sin to the point of bloodshed yet as the word says, though some have. "Holiness is true love and fulfillment" - Misty Edwards, Sid Roth ISN.
What do you do about David in the bible. he committed adultery God didnt tell him to leave Bathsheba , though surely their baby was taken from them because of their sin but they stayed in this marriage yet he will one day be Israel's king in the Millenium.
David is not Israel's king in the Millenium. See Psalm 72.
Uriah was sent to be killed…. So Bathsheba was technically a widow before David married her.
WHAT IF THE FIRST HUSBAND DIED WHILE I'M IN THE SECOND MARRIAGE, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
“So then, if while her husband is living she is joined to another man, she shall be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from the law, so that she is not an adulteress though she is joined to another man.”
Romans 7:3 NASB1995
Amen. I only heard this 8th bideo. Thank you, I agree 100% , I believe when one really seeks God 's heart wholeheardtedly , they will understand.
My question is re: 1 Cor 5 , I do not know any pastor who is willing to do accordingly , at least not re: sin.
What is your understanding of 1 Cor 5 ? Pl if I may ask.
If my unbeliever ex wife wants to remarry me. after our divorce she was intimate with another man. She feels no regrats because she is not married. what to do now?, and what about deuteronomy 24 1-4, where God says that the land has been defiled! and what if you marry another and divorce, can i remarry her?
Was she a legitimate bride to begin with? We are called to peace in these situations. 1 Corr 7 15. Previous adultery and sins must be forgiven if we are to be forgiven our sins. If she is your legitimate bride, you must take her back and seek reconciliation. Love her as Christ loved the Church. The OT Det verses on family, marriage are not for NT saints. Jesus upped the bar and does not recognize divorce. Pray for her, communicate, and protect her from other men who want to commit adultery. You may be involved with saving her by your Christian witness! Burn the divorce paper, and take leadership as the man and husband to initial a sound plan. Take it easy and take it slow. Be patient, kind, gentle.... do not bring up sin and keep record of wrongs..... seek good Christian counselling who will be on the side of reconciliation if necessary. I could zoom with you both even :)
Where in the Bible does it say that?
My question is why does scripture not say you must divorce if you have remarried. Secondly I ask was Christ speaking on intent? As in if you intend on divorcing to marry someone else that is adultery? What if God didn’t join the marriage?
The NT scripture does not recognize remarriage in the first place. So the correct way to look at it is you do not divorce (from remarriage adultery) but you stop practicing adultery with what you call "remarriage" when you're actually bound to someone else. We recall the scripture, "He who divorces his wife causes her to commit adultery..." This proves that divorce is not recognized and that marginalized women (the weaker vessel) especially, could be forced to remarry into adultery for her survival despite a vain divorce paper being issued. So in such a case the husband was guilty of adultery just by the sinful act of divorce, even if he was celibate. See how sinful divorce is, and what a horrible heresy of the lukewarm church (including John McArthur and others) today to affirm it and support it?
Will please pray for Edward Rydell Anderson
What would you like us to pray for him about... generally? Thank and God bless!
John 8:10-12
10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
@Douglas David Pawson Cambridge and Durham scholar says this is very accurate for this particular scripture translation. The exception is fornication not adultery though. So the KJV and 60 others have that correct.
@Douglas Dude I don't understand your position at all. Here you CORRECTLY admonish the watered down, falsely translated Niv "bible", but in a response to Glen in the above comment over this one, you claim your wedding was Till Death do you part EXCEPT for fornication and adultery. All original English translated Bibles (Bishop Bible, Geneva Bible, KJV) DON'T say adultery ANYWHERE as grounds for breaking the Marital Covenant! That's what the Niv says!! But those original, correct Bibles DO SAY fornication, which is the Jewish betrothal period BEFORE MARRIAGE, thus there are NO BIBLICAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE AFTER MARRIAGE. So what the heck are you talking about you've Completely contradicted yourself in those 2 posts.....
@Douglas I AGREE KJV ALL THE WAY. THE NEW VERSION ARE MISLEADING PEOPLE TO HELL SINCE THE 80S.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 I AGREE KJV ALL THE WAY. THE NEW VERSION ARE MISLEADING PEOPLE TO HELL SINCE THE 80S.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 OOOOOOOHHHHHH SNAP ESV BIBLE!!! Don’t trust it!
Galations 5:19 (KJV) Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication
Galatians 5:10 (ESV) Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality,
All through the Bible fornication and adultery are listed as separate sins and side by side. So Jesus shows us they are different.
NIV published in 1978 by Biblica
NLT published in July 1996
ESV published in 2001 by Crossway
NKJV published in 1982 by Thomas Nelson
Misleading people to hell since 1978
except for sexual immorality / adultery - WRONG
JESUS SAID EXEPT FOR FORNICATION KJV
DIVORCE RATE IS HIGHER IN THE CHURCH THAN OUTSIDE
BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES THE GAYS ARE RIGHT!!!!
Divorce takes a toll on your life but so does remaining with a cruel person. My Christian husband was a jerk to me many times and admitted it. Even mistreating me as a newlywed. No remorse for 13 years.
Everywhere I go I find d&r Christians. I just found another one, a couple, leading a small group. I thought of not going back again. Is this what you might do?
This is false teaching. God does not ordain all marriages. If the small group leaders married and divorced before becoming Christians, and met and married after becoming Christians, therefore marrying to glorify God (which is what God ordained), they are not committing adultery. If they divorced in order to marry each other, yes that is adultery. It is also false teaching to say women in abusive marriages and/or with a man who cheats (also a form of abuse!) are bound to him. Or vice versa. Absolutely not! And if an unbelieving spouse abandons the marriage, the believing spouse is no longer bound! Above all, grace abounds! God blesses Christ centered marriages!
Imagine someone hoping for spouse to die so they can remarry
They should hope the spouse gets saved. Remarriage after a death of a spouse is no cakewalk. It can carry challenges too, especially with children involved. By God is at hand to bless legitimate remarriage after the death of a spouse.
Wow how evil
let's go to the beginning, in Genesis 2: 20-25 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for man there was not found an help meet for him. And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; and the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. The NT confirms that in 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 For man is not of the woman, but woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man. Going back to Genesis 2: 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one FLESH. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. Unfortunately, many marriages end up in divorce without seeking nor searching the scriptures in the Old and New Testament to find out how unpleasant the answers for loopholes and accommodations to please the flesh will be. We start with Mathews 5:31-32; 19:3-9, Mark 10:1-12; and Luke 16:18 Jesus, commanded man (AND NOT WOMAN) the only grounds to put away his wife was for the cause of fornication. (AND the only scriptural mentioning a wife is found in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 where we have Paul giving adivce and regulations concerning MARRIED CHRISTIANS: And unto the married, I command, yet not I, but the lord, let not the WIFE DEPART from her husband: But if she DEPART, let her remain UNMARRIED or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife) That can easily be understood to mean a caution to the born again husband or wife who would want to depart from the unbelieving husband or wife is further explained in verses 12-16. Going back to what Jesus was answering the Pharisees and scribes was reaffirming the exact law Moses suffered man in the Gospels and to do away with "for any and every cause" man was exercising, but from the beginning it was not so. Sadly, Man was divorcing his wife for many unfounded dissatisfying and unhappy reasons. They had twisted and distorted the truth in Deuteronomy 24:1-3 "When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it came to pass that she hath found no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some UNCLEANNESS in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife:" That was easily misinterpreted by husbands who conveniently believed to mean "for any or every cause." Today, the very same thing is being practice between husband and wife divorcing "for any and every cause." Congregations filled with illegal marriages becuse ministers avoid preaching about divorce to avoid losing pupils; TH-cam, podcasts, and books filled with indept analysis, many assertions are not dogmatic, with plenty of historical perspectives from a variety of differing theologians and scholars who are too confusing filled with doubt, that don't seem to have an answer available to us. However, UNCLEANNESS is well defined in Numbers 5:19, (in fact, read from verses 11-31, The law of jealousy): And the priest shall charge her by an oath, and say unto the woman, If no man have lain with thee, and if thou hast not gone aside to UNCLEANNESS with ANOTHER instead of thy HUSBAND, be thou free from this bitter water that causeth the curse." Although, Moses law of divorce was allowing a wife to remarry to avoid the hardships a wife endured and forced into like committing adultery, cursed, or killed, and not "for any and every cause" man had tempted Jesus with, it was an unpleasant answer for divorcing his wife, that was not originally in God's will. Again, the only biblical ground in the NT for the wife to be put away and allowed to remarry without committing fornication while her husband remains alive is a devoted believing wife's work of faith and labor of love for Jesus, that the unbelieving husband rejects and wants nothing to do with, and decides to divorce her can be found in 1 Corinthians 7: 10-16. Other than that, there are no scriptural grounds [where Jesus gives a wife a right to (if her husband commits fornication) to put him away (nor for abandonment nor for abuse as is in some unfortunate cases today). All we have is If she does depart she must remain unmarried]-not one scriptural. Our Lord Jesus knew a wife is bound to the law of her husband till he dies and her curse; thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee. In fact, there are no provisions for a wife to have the rights to divorce her husband! Reread and search the scriptures. Women don't be deceived! Proverbs 6: 34-35 For Jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou gives many gifts. AND Numbers 5: 29-31 This is the law of JEALOUSIES, when a WIFE goeth ASIDE TO ANOTHER instead of her husband, and is DEFILED; Or when the spirit of jealousy cometh upon him, and he be jealous over his wife, and shall set the woman before the LORD, and the priest shall execute upon her ALL THIS LAW. Then shall the man be GUILTLESS from INIQUITY, and this woman shall BEAR HER INIQUITY. Man is clearly given provisions to divorce his wife if she commits fornication to dissolve the marriage covenant, and the only arguable debate many have is who is endorsed or qualified to remarry without committing adultery. Many argue only the innocent and meaning, the HUSBAND, but not the guilty in this case, the WIFE. Matthew 5: 31-32 and 19:3-12 Jesus said unto them, whomsoever shall put away his wife, (saving for the cause of) or except it be for fornication, (causeth her to) or shall marry another, committeth adultery: and (whosoever shall marry her that is divorced commiteth) or whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Our Lord and Savior meant, except for fornication one must not divorce his wife; except for fornication, if one puts away his wife he causes her to commit adultery; and except for fornication dissolving a marriage, one who marries her that is put away commits adultery. Consequently, avoid divorce "for any and every cause" which is clearly illegal.
Hosea
Jerm 3
The Supposed Perpetual adultery clause (Luke 16:18)(Matt. 5:31-32)
a. Herod Philip married Herodias. When Herod Antipas visited his brother, he wanted Herodias for a wife for himself. So Herod Antipas divorced his own wife, and married Herodias. She, of course, had to divorce Herod Philip first. The Jewish law does not permit such behavior (Lev. 18:16; 20:21). John the Baptist
continually said this was wrong. When he did this, he made Herodias very angry. So Herod Antipas ordered John's arrest & beheading. (Mark 6:14-28)(Matt. 14:1-11)
b. Therefore, the supposed perpetual adultery clause comes from a misunderstanding of Jesus’ words in Luke, who in protest of Herod Antipas, he condemned the relationship as adulterous which means that he rejected the legitimacy of the marriage because he stole his brother’s wife, which violates commandments 6,7, and 9.
c. Besides this shameful laxity, the Pharisees had never had the courage to denounce the adulterous marriage and disgraceful divorce of which Herod Antipas had been guilty.
d. Jesus was referring to putting/sending away ones wife (Heb.- shalach)(Grk.- apoluo) without the written certificate of divorce (Heb.- sepher kerituth)(Grk.- apostasion) and marrying another causes adultery if one is remarried. God cares more about the needs of people than He does the institution. (Matt. 12:1-8)(1 Cor. 7:1-2, 27-28)
*Note, If a person accepts the inspiration and infallibility of the Scriptures, then it cannot stand that what Jesus said in Matthew carries more authority than what Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 or Moses in Deut. 24 . All men spoke from God (2 Pet. 1:21) and each of them complement each other’s teaching in reflecting the Holy Spirit’s inspiration (2 Tim. 3:16-17).
To remarry is adultery the Lord taught. The only exception is death of a spouse. If you reject that, you go down a sinful path of sexual sin, and dysfunctional families which is never God's will. Divorce is also violent when we are called to peace. IE you take another mans wife under some false divorce exemption clause, you could get yourself killed or severely injured never mind go to hell for your error. Never encroach upon another mans wife!
@@SaanichtonMinistries Matt 5 and Matt 19, 1 Cor 7:28 and the Law all say you are a liar. John MacArther is correct on this teaching you are in deep error. Forcing people to destroy families is the work of the devil.
@@mak88119 I think you are working sin and practicing it. NEVER defend divorce positions. You are prejudice and falsely accusing me? God help you! Divorce an exemption clauses destroy families. You have been mislead by professional pastors and celebrities! They and you and others have taken the text out of context and made a pretext to suit your carnal flesh and sexual adultery desires.
You have been called out and caught with your pants down! You have been exposed with your cowardly false "exemption clause loopholes." You and the "PT secret rapture, Calvinist , multi million dollar man" JM are wrong! I used to follow JM, NO Longer!
Listen, you try and remarry some woman divorced under your fake "exemption clause loopholes" you could get yourself shot by some jealous man, never mind theological dichotomies. This has happened before many times.
You want to talk with me directly on this? Any place any time! Don't be sanctimonious and think more highly of yourself than you ought. Listen and learn.... admit your wrong. As if Jesus would sanction divorce and let the other person sin because they have been sinned against! If if that is the Christian calling!
@@mak88119 Look at you cherry pick those stupid exemption loopholes and grasp at divorce and try and build a satanic pretext while you ignore the absolute of Mark and Luke. It is so upsetting to see this and think of all the children split up and broken families as a result.
@@mak88119 1 subscriber? Very good!
So it’s not correct to confront a pastor who may be in this that is misleading a whole flock. We are not to show them what they are doing is gross error? I don’t know how you get away from that if you genuinely care for your congregation and division may ensue.
We should confront the pastor about it. We had elders only and after confronting them, they did not change their stance. We departed as we cannot live with the gross error. It is dangerous.
It's better never to get married in the first place.
The disciples asked Jesus the same question. If you go into marriage equipped and ready, it can work and be the best of things.
John @-12 New International Version (NIV)
10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” (LEAVE!!! NOT say sorry)
Jesus said LEAVE! -John 8:12
there is no divorce and remarriage in Gods will found anywhere in the bible.NO DIVORCE NO REMARRIAGE.1cor.7
does the knowledge that we are all sinners, excuse sin.....
Not at all.
Just watching this video it randomly popped in my feed and all I have to say is that divorce and remarriage is are not unpardonable sins, right? (Not that I'm making way for an excuse but theres cases where the man or woman tries to reconcile and the other doesnt want to and moves on with someone else and years pass by, what is that person who was abandoned supposed to do? Stay miserable for the rest of his life with the hopes that the other comes back?? What if that other has kids????) This topic is a hard one....
I believe it is pardonable if you stop the practice of remarriage adultery. I would not want to be living in adultery and die in this sin. Then meet the One who Judge righteously? The one abandoned is not to be miserable, but rejoice, do not judge, and be kind. Present his body as a living sacrifice. Life is short and we will all meet the Judge. Galatians says, not adulterer will inherit the Kingdom of God. You can be good in everything else, get this one wrong and go to hell. You get one chance at family. Never take vengeance on the offending spouse.
@@SaanichtonMinistries brother is there a way I could contact you to speak on this matter more privately? I'm really confused about this one.....I'm not sure what to do anymore I've lost hope that my marriage will be restored and I'm so close to giving in
@@JohnVelez-7 I am sure we can chat sometime. Sure brother.
@@SaanichtonMinistries but how brother? Email? Video? Do you want my email?
@@JohnVelez-7 sure a zoom or the like.... what’s your email?
In order to understand what on earth "Divorce" actually means --- we need to have a proper Scriptural understanding of Marriage. 100's of books on how to be a husband or how to be a wife ---- but not ONE book on actually "how" to marry. When does a man become a husband and a woman become a wife??? The Scriptures teach us that only virgin girls and or widowed women can take a husband and it be righteous. When was the last time a "church" denied marriage to a non-virgin girl or a non-widow? Decades! 2 Timothy 4:3 has been fulfilled.
What about Rahab? We live in a broken world. God is able to forgive and redeem those who repent of their former lifestyle, including women or men who are no longer virgins.
@@truthinlovemama Thank you for responding. I actually speak directly to Rahab on my blog under the Post "Did you know" -- see first comment. You make an emotional appeal which I understand. But you have not supported your appeal with Scripture. Just because we live in a broken or fallen world does not mean that God simply ignores His Law(s). Jesus said that the Sexually Immoral -- adulterers and fornicators -- will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven. Should we just chance it and hope that God ignores our sin? And by the way ..... "Virginity" was a big deal in Western Tradition not that long ago. Men went to war over a girl's virginity! Truly pray over this. Please read the article about Rahab. In His Truth. :)
@@truthinlovemama You are calling "marriage" a former sinful lifestyle. Were you aware of that? You say God is able to redeem those who repent of their former lifestyle. When a virgin girl has sex with a man -- this is "marriage" in God's eyes. It is not a sinful lifestyle. Sexual Intercourse is the 'marriage' of two flesh into one. This is undeniable. When a virgin girl has sex with a man, she becomes 'known' by this man. She is now One Flesh with this man. This is Scripture talking, not me. Paul says that only Death can separate this One Flesh union. Unless you can prove to me that marriage is a ceremony. If marriage is a ceremony -- where are the proper procedures and rituals outlined in the Scriptures??? Explain to me Leah and Jacob. Jacob covenanted with Laban for Rachel's hand in marriage. But ended up married to Leah the next morning. Explain Hagar and Abram. Hagar did not have a ceremony with Abram. Explain Genesis 38:8 -- "...and Judah said to Onan, 'go into your brother's wife and marry her....." Explain to me why Tamar was so distraught and tore her robe of Virginity and remained a recluse in her brother's house. Are you telling me that Isaac and Rebekah recited vows in his mother's tent right before intercourse? Read verse 16 of that Chapter. Rebekah was a "Virgin"...no man had known her. The Israelites had a law that required "bloody sheets" be revealed on the Bed Chamber night. Virginity was a requirement for marriage in Israelite Law. I could go on and on and on. Prove to me that sex with a virgin girl is Sin. When Adam and Eve first had sex -- was that Sin? Of course not.
I have tried to respond to you multiple times here on TH-cam, and my comment won’t go through. Trying again… Did my comment on the blog go through? I wasn’t sure if it was waiting for moderation, but now I wonder if it’s a tech issue on my end. Will you let me know if you got my comment on the blog? If not, I’ll retype it.
@@truthinlovemama I received and published ONE comment from you on my blog. I would sure enjoy hearing from you again. :)
I doubt it my ex wife is living a good life smiling on her fb page new child still have everything even after 4 yrs
Why you do NOT want to go to a religious organization which believes and practices divorce and remarriage adultery exemptions. th-cam.com/video/52h_bbOKsYg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=CEfKhb04KQSmvHVI
What does the word adultery mean? Much more than a sexual act. See our latest video here th-cam.com/video/MB-azTX6JOQ/w-d-xo.html
you teach the Bible...???? then what does it say....it is recorded in Titus 3.10 King James Version
A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject....
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery*
Romans 7:2-3; Luke 16:18 Mark 10:6-12
Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Unless they Confess and Forsake their Sin: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
repent....admit the sin, quit the sin....eh????
Listen ,pastor you are accountable, you do not have to know what it feels like.The Gospel is not a matter of feeling.It is a matter of Faith.The Holy Spirit is One. He does not tell one this and that to another.There is only one Truth. There are not many Gospels, there is only one. Do not say ,what ever the Spirit tells you.Tell them simply what the bible says, then it is up to them to decide if they choose life or death. Do not talk around the bush. Be straight forward and the people will thank you for it later.This is no joke.Do not tickle peoples ears or make them feel they can do whatever they like.We are owned by Jesus.He paid for it.Sin stinks.We are all filthy rags, wicked mean and selfish by nature.We all deserve Hell, nothing less. Only by Gods Grace and mercy are we Saved. So how dare we want to rule our own lives on our own terms? Who the heck do we think we are.We need to weep ,get on our knees and repent and even be greatful unto God for every new day He has granted unto us.
I hear you. What if the remarried adulterated man has 4 children with the partner? Can some be "forced into adultery" because the other divorced? It is adultery, but some cases make you forced into it as the Lord taught. If you are not lead by the Spirit, then your not saved, and adultery is not your biggest issue, getting saved and the fact that your going to hell is.
@@SaanichtonMinistries whether or not the adulterous/adulterated man or woman has children from a 2nd or 3rd"remarriage" is irrelevant. I think the brother commenting here at the top is pointing out that the adulterous person needs to Repent from that phony remarriage regardless of the cost. Aren't we told by Jesus Himself to Count up the cost of following Him as a builder does before constructing a building?? How is this sin (no matter how many years the person is illegitimately remarried) different than any other? Isnt Repentance (stopping; turning away from, not continuing in) required in ALL sin (Including this one) how can the person in adultery repent and stay in the adulterous AFFAIR (remarriage??) Can the thief keep the stolen money or property after Repenting of his sin of thievery? 🤔
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 Amen brother. I am with you. But the person who leaves the adulterated marriage is still on the hook to fully provide for the needs of that woman and her children even as the law stipulates! This would be fiscal and shared parenting duties. That is why I argue this sin can carry with it consequences for eternity and life! All for a moment of sinful, scandalous pleasure.
@@SaanichtonMinistries very good, responsible point. Thanks for the dialogue and for preaching the Truth of God's Holy Word.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 And the departed one should publicly announce that he will remain celibate for the rest of his life and repudiate his sin and actions.
Why is remarriage adultery? because the one with whom you made a covenant of marriage is until physical death and not spiritual death, and those who do this will be separated from God forever Matthew chapter 19 verse 8 and 9
Choose the fear of the Lord which leads to friendship and wisdom th-cam.com/video/ebMnHXasXfU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=ZKAajwzS2q7r-cOP
Fear God who is so much higher than us th-cam.com/users/shortst4Ni5hhleXI?si=YOJCL8kl9-Ko5nUW
I henthe man abuse abuse for life time I try every thing easy to but is not 2 adult
there is no divorce and remarriage in Gods will found anywhere in the bible.NO DIVORCE NO REMARRIAGE.1cor.7
Glen Dike Deuteronomy 24 isn’t part of the Bible?
I agree with you, bit try explaining that to your wife who leaves.
@@johnborland7865 Jesus came to fulfil law. We do not offer animal sacrifices for atonement of sins anymore, but it is in the bible!! If your heart is hardened to accept JESUS WILL, then you need a certificate that will allow your rebellious heart do whatever you want!! Who said to follow Jesus was easy. are you ready to pay the price, take up your cross and follow Him? Is your flesh out of control that Jesus cannot sustain and help you live a holy life in purity? Is He weak when it comes to your sexual desires? can you believe Him for everything and disbelieve Him when it comes to sex. How many had prayed before getting married to know if God wants them married in the first place or to live a single life and serve Him in celebacy, than ending up in court leaving traces of pain ,hate and anger behind. Did you ask whether you are even mature to be a husband or wife? Is God depriving you of anything sexuality if He says you have been called to singleness? Is it about you or about God? are you still living your own life or has Jesus taken over? Who is in charge, who is in control? Are you ready to live out your flesh and end in Hell!! How honest are human beings, preachers? is there any truth to be found in this world, has there been before? Who can be trusted when it comes to truth?
the heart of man is desparately wicked and deceitful!! only the Holy Spirit can bring truth.I would encourage you to please stop living a lie.God hates divorce period!!!! are you living in the old or new testament? no divorce. if so, then reconcile or remain single. if your spouse dies, then remarry if you like. what is difficult there to understand? are you ready to do what Jesus says ,no matter the cost. Hell is real, no adulterer will ever see the face of God. my plea is for you to fear Him.
Glen Dike see that’s the funny thing. I’m not standing for my marriage. I’m single. My ex wife is remarried and it’s her marriage I’m standing for. I’m not interested in marrying or intimacy anymore.
@@johnborland7865 I understand now, thank you and God bless you.Sorry to hear you are going through this. Jesus cares and my prayer is that His perfect will always be done in your life.Be blessed.
you start well, and end, in gibberish.....there is an expression, I think, from the USA....lead, follow, or get out of the way....if you can not, or do not wish to take a stand, on this issue....do yourself, and everyone else, a favor and find a different line of work....after all a teacher is subject to a stricter judgement.....James 3.1 New International Version
Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.
I been divorced over 5 years and been alone. Its hard but i dont want to get in a marriage and cause my new wife eternal damnation.
if you study the issue carefully, divorce does not exist in God's eyes. He still sees you and your legitimate first wife as married. Divorce is therefore a lie, and fake with no merit. As the Lord taught, it is adultery. So therefore, you and your divorced wife should seek to reconcile, and always leave that option on the table no matter what she does.
@@SaanichtonMinistries We have a unique situation. She wanted a divorce became i cheated, but she didn't want me to touch her and always said she wanted to be alone. I finally committed to God my life and except being alone. I do sometimes still sin with self gratifying and i ask God to forgive me. I know thats wrong and sinful but i wont fornicate with a women. I really admire your truth preaching and may God bless you. I am doing a lot better as time goes on and give God all the Glory!
@@redeemedforever9614 seek deliverance, you can pray it yourself. Make sure you’re reborn as well.
In many cases divorce will have a much better impact on the children. Think of that.
You not serious? Kids hate divorce and long for mom and dad to be together. They loose security and legitimacy in divorce and the blended family suffers for years and generations as a result of adultery.
@@SaanichtonMinistries In some cases you're correct. In many others it's better for the kids. There are cases of neglect, abuse, detachment, addiction, parental fighting, and the list goes on. Just google it and read the experts.
@@josephscala6707 Abuse and neglect are far more common in adulterated families. Parents who selfishly move onto other partners look at the kids as obstacles to their new happiness and pleasures. The kids are obstacles are they are passed back and fourth with access frustrations, financial support payments, and so on. All parents fight at times. Sometimes neglect, and abuse can happen? Who has not been an abusive in some way in the context of family? That word itself has been abused! Addiction too is prone too many in a nation with legal pot and alcohol never mind perspiration drugs. But you think divorce and remarriage will help this conditions? Somehow, you think you can trade up to a better partner? This mindset is evil and from the self centred entitlement "me" mentality! People with that mindset jump from partner to partner always imagining they will find a better one who is a perfect match when all your doing is fulfilling even and destruction and Satans will. Even the Bible says sin has pleasure for a season... but it ruins in the end.
Taking crack cocaine has said to provide unspeakable bliss, joy and human capability, but in the end it slowly takes from you and those around you, Same with the crack cocaine of divorce and adultery
@@SaanichtonMinistries Don't want a divorce? Then don't get one.
@@josephscala6707 It is not optional is our whole point here. it is not legitimate or recognized by God. That is what matters. There could be literal hell to pay if a man gets this wrong.
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