Two born-again Christians fell in love. One is single, the other divorced. Could they get married?
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- A born-again Christian single meets and falls in love with another Christian who was previously married. The divorced person is the innocent party; his wife cheated on him and left him to marry her lover. May they get married?
Dr. Leslie McFall on Divorce and Remarriage under Unpublished articles on divorce
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Excellent teaching. My husband divorced me 7 years ago. I remain single-I’ve never dated due to the words in the Bible.
Wow , Never even lusted since then, even thoughts?
He will need to come back and repent or else hell fire awaits
Great example to others may Christ continue to strengthen you in your inner man
God bless be encouraged
@ Helen, same with me. I share your journey. I know this is not a popular stand to take. God strength us and perfect all that concerns us. Amen
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Man millions of believers are living in this sin. Yet look at the comment section it's full of remarried divorcee who are trying to make every single excuse to justify their behaviour.
Yet JESUS CHRIST HIMSELF SAID IT.
Adultery is the biggest accepted sexual sin in the body of Christ, so God bless you for this bold and uncomfortable truth. Please continue to make more as the Spirit leads you.
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Bravo!
"21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father who is in heaven"
Matt 7:21 (ASV)
"Falser brethren/sisters" who divorce and remarry are refusing to do the Will of Christ and his Father.
This video s the truth regarding who may and who may not marry again after divorce:
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In all my years of attending church Pastors rarely preach on this subject due to they will step on others toes and theirs… I agree with you
Churches need to preach this. There are so many in the church who are divorced and remarried and claim God took them out of their first marriage and brought them to a Godly man. Or they believe they are "once saved always saved". I am divorced myself and just finding this out. I guess I will be single forever but if that's God's will then it will be done.
The thought that you'll be single forever is a lie of the enemy of your soul. It's not God’s will for you to be alone if that's not what you desire. He needs the faith of your heart involved in His plan for the restoration of your marriage, not involved in the lies of the enemy. Only God c@n give your husband a new heart and convict him of sin. But at the same time your heart also needs to be faith that God wants to and is able to restore your marriage. Restoration starts in heart of faith of the stander (you) before conviction starts in the heart of the covenant breaker. What's happening in your heart with God is more important than what's happening in your husband heart with the other woman, your faith can move mountains. Praying for you.
You are false and don't understand salvation or sin. Read your Bible.
Only Death can Separate the Husband and wife Marriage...
Amen
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Only death and wife commited sex to other man separate the marriage
Matthew 5 : 32a, 19 : 9a this verse is Jesus words to all married man that if a husband divorces his wife (faithful) then he marries another woman he and the woman live in adulterous (sexual sin)
Except for his wife commits sex to other man, husband does not allow to take her as his wife no more bcz she has been defiled and it causes separate and destroy the marriage. And husband is free from his unfaithful and defiled wife. She is not his wife no more. And he can remarry a woman who never been married (virgin one)
Mark 10 : 12, Romans 7 : 2, 3, 1 Corinthians 7 : 10, 11, 49. These verses are Jesus words to all married woman that :
@if a wife divorces her husband then marries another man, she and the man live in adulterous (sexual sin)
@ wife does not allow to divorced her husband (implicity even though he is adultery, abusive, cruel, left her)
@but if she does divorce, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband (Corinthians)
@ a wife is bound of law (God's Law) to her husband as long as he lives. She will be adulteress if she became wife ot other man.
But if her husband dies she is free to remarry and its not adulterous.
Matthew 5 : 32b, Luke 16 : 18b, these verses are Jesus words to single men, widowed men, broken married man, Jesus says : "Whoever marries a divorced woman he and the divorced woman commit adultery.(but let her remain unmarried or reconciled to her husband)
But many christians women who active in their churches divorce and then remarry other man. and the men marry/remarry divorced women.
They think that they are right that they are not under law but under grace so they do not need to do what God's Word and His Willing.
They had false teaching from their preacher or pastor who allow them remarry another man and marry/remarry divorced woman.
Matthew 7 : 22 in the last day many christians people cry out Lord, Lord we did active in church.
But He answers them I never
Known you, go away, you did not do what My Father's willing
@@evinevlin5124 Wrong. ONLY DEATH of one of the original Covenant spouses breaks the marital Covenant. Your Matthew reasoning is flawed and does not allow divorce for anything other than the jews in a betrothal period. See Matthew 1:18-25, and John 8:41
It's crazy because my husband and I been married for 10 years. This is my first marriage, and my husband 2cnd and his ex wife got a divorce because of their abamdoment and sexual immorality, now years later here i come along get married to my husband only to find out that he must go back and be reconcile to his first wife....ohhhhh how painful that is to my heart......
I pray that GOD will strengthen me in every area of my life.
I pray that he will bless me with a husband of my own, I'm 40yrs of age, I dont want to grow old by myself.
Dear sister in the Lord,
Normally we don't reply to the comments posted under this video; however, I felt compelled to reply to you as we read your desire to repent.
I would encourage you to listen to this testimony which is somewhat similar to your situation:
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The Bible says in Proverbs 28:13 says, "Whoever conceals his sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy."
Be encouraged in the Lord to do his will, repent and abandon an adulterous relationship. Live celibate and clean for the Lord and for His glory. This life time is for a moment, but eternity is forever. You are not alone, Jesus is with you.
Blessings as you seek the Lord and His perfect will for your life.
Be encouraged, if it be the Lord's will to grant you a husband after you repent and leave the adulterous marriage, that husband would have to be a true and genuine follower of the Lord Jesus Christ and either never before married, or a widower whose first covenant wife has passed on. Only death dissolves a marriage, not divorce. Blessings!
@@christiandivorceandremarri3162 yes today I tecieve that n jesus name
@@christiandivorceandremarri3162 thank you for taking the time to listen read and respond to my broken heart
Starr: Please look a the scriptures in the Holy Bible pertaining to MDR&A. It is crystal clear. In the Bible, God did not give woman power over a man, but man over the woman. Woman was made for the man...NOT the other way around. If a woman divorces her husband, NOWHERE THE BIBLE DOES IT SAY THAT A MAN WHOM HIS WIFE LEFT HIM, IS STILL BOUND TO HER AS LONG AS THE WIFE LIVES....that's not even scriptural!!!! This equality of scripture is being taught from a socialistic point of view, that man and woman have equal power and authority spiritually, when it comes down to this subject of marriage, divorce, remarriage and adultery. Both Christ Jesus and God didn't give that binding authority to women, as he did to man. If your husband divorced his wife and then married you....unfortunately the 2nd marriage is adultery. Because Christ Jesus clearly said, "If a MAN divorce his wife and marries another, he commits adultery. But if his first wife divorced her husband and walked away from him and her marital duties to him, THERE IS NOT ONE SCRIPTURE IN THE KJV THAT SAYS A MAN IS BOUND TO THE WIFE WHO LEFT HIM...NOT ONE SCRIPTURE. So if your husband's ex-wife divorced him and then he married you, you are good. Again, a divorced woman does not have the spiritual authority to keep her former husband spiritually bound to her in a marriage union if she walked away. I challenge anyone here to show me a scripture that states otherwise. The laws and the teaching of Christ Jesus on this subject is so plain and clear, if you read the KJV from the gender viewpoint as it is written.
The Word of God clearly states that if a MAN WHO DIVORCES HIS WIFE and marries another, he commits adultery...and a DIVORCED WOMAN (no matter who initiates the divorce) marries another, SHE commits adultery. But if a WOMAN WHO DIVORCES HER HUSBAND and walks away from her marriage, THE EX-WIFE CANNOT KEEP HER EX-HUSBAND BOUND TO HER and restrict him from marrying again....again, nowhere in the Bible state otherwise.....and no one can give a verse mentioning otherwise.
Please do not allow your emotions to override scriptural principles. Go to the KJV Holy Bible, and ask the Holy Spirit (your Comforter) to reveal the Truth of God and to open your eyes. Don't believe me and no one else on this page (not even the maker of this video). Search the scriptures FOR YOURSELF and believe the Word of God. I wish you many blessings in the Name of Christ Jesus.
I’m am soo frustrated and trying to control my anger and give it to God. My ex husband is engaged to a single mum Christian who he met in his new church. He left me neither of us cheated. People in church are making him believe it’s ok and the Christian women is a single mum who knew he was still married when they started talking. He used to be against all of this strongly now it’s like he’s asleep and isn’t waking up from his sin. I till this day am still loyal to him. He was always the stronger Christian then me soo I still never understand how he is being this deceived
Be strong in the LORD, my Sister. I would gently remind you to not compare your faith. The fact that you recognize this is evidence of your spiritual maturity. Whatever is pure and good, dwell on those things (re: Philippians 4:8). GOD's preeminent plan for you includes for you to grow closer to Him. He will reveal to you specifically how if you seek and obey Him (re: Colossians 1:9-14). I'm doing this, and Christ himself has displace those negative feelings (anger, resentment, contempt, etc.) about my ex. My heart goes to you, but our Hope in Jesus overcomes all. Be strong in the LORD.
youreconfused Thankyou, I really appreciate it. The thing i struggle with the most is we have a now 3 year old daughter. As he lives interstate he only sees her on average every 2 months for 3 days or so, meanwhile he is raising the 7 year old daughter of the other Christian woman. I have seen soo much deception lately in the church. I do find it hard sometimes with the pressure of being everything to our daughter, mum, dad, support emotionally, financially, physically. I’m curious on what you would advise if he did actually go ahead with the marriage? I have no desire sexually at all, God removed that but don’t want to be alone for ever. It’s hard I feel as if God has still allowed me to have love for my ex husband some Christians close to me prayed and fasted with and both received confirmation he would bring him back. After almost 3 years though and him being engaged you do lose faith on Gods promises in those sad days
youreconfused Thankyou again for your response. Sorry to hear that you have also gone through something similar. It’s sad the amount of sin in the world. I remember when I was pregnant somedays worrying about bringing my daughter into the world because of the hate, deception and selfishness that exists. I always made sure to not agree to the divorce and have till this stay stayed faithful to both my husband and God and have done anything with any other man, let alone even given my number out. When my husband left our daughter was only 5 weeks old, he believed and said God showed him to leave me. Since then he did try come back very early on maybe 2 months later and I was still angry and told him not to come back that we need to talk first...he still resents me for not just allowing him back then. Since then he has in and off tried to come back however while doing so has had the other woman in his life. He did also tell me a few times to move to the state he moved to but I prayed and feel not to. I don’t know whether it’s because that other woman is there or the risk he could leave me again however If I moved I would have no one at all where he now lives. He was always soo good and loving and strong...sometimes too much as in he corrected others for being divorced and said he knew how wrong it is and soo on. It’s almost as if God made his words true...I sometimes regret before a few weeks before he left he almost physically hurt me and I told him I was going to sell my wedding ring and I was going to live just me and our daughter...I also feel God made my own words come true. I know Satan is playing havoc with many marriages...funny thing is most of our problems even me saying that I was going to sell my wedding ring was after we were both baptised by the Holy Spirit. Looking back I can really see how far the enemy will try everything to make you fight, distance you and cause deception. It’s such a common thing now and I do have to remind myself that we are fighting a spiritual battle not a physical one. Sorry for the long post it’s just feels really nice to be able to find someone who understands. I also forgot to mention he is now put me to go through mediation as he is trying to take our daughter to go and live with him and this other woman.
He deceived you That's what happened but god will make it alright sister
Pray for your husband and FOR THIS CHURCH. Find a way to present truth to them. I really don't want any church judged with the judgements of Thyatira
Det. 24 says if your ex spouse marries another and they get divorced? You cannot remarry your first spouse again, bec they have been defiled and it’s a abomination to the Lord.
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Not only for she remarried other man she has been defiled but when she does sex to other man, she is defiled. Her husband is forbiden to take her as a wife but only as sister if she repents
You are trying to apply the law of Moses. Read Mat 24 - “From the begining it was not so...
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That law of Moses says that to the Lord, her returning to her first husband is an abomination
Not TRUE. For God does that Himself. You don't know scriptures or you think you do. Don't teach falsehood
It is true. Deut 24 says it is an abomination to the Lord. Yes it says in Jeremiah that the Lord says return to me to a spiritual analogy. But God also divorced and all of you in the marriage cults say that even divorce is evil when it obviously is not always true.
You have been all over spewing your cherry picked gender neutral narrative. If you weren’t a virgin when you wed, you weren’t married anyway if you really wanna go by the words because Paul says in I Corinthians 7 that women can wed if they were virgins or widows. He gives no permission to sinful unvirgins
If I file for divorce from an adulterous husband but I remain single, have I sinned? I am struggling with the fact that *I* filed and not him.
@@pastorshandonellis4682 This makes no sense. Why would anyone who has been cheated on need to ask God to forgive them for divorcing an adulterous spouse? This implies divorce is a sin under these conditions.
@@pastorshandonellis4682 And what happens if you do remarry after divorcing a chronic cheater? Surely a spouse under those conditions has better options than to either put up with an adulterous spouse or be condemned to celibacy for the rest of their lives! Right?
Thank you 🙏🏻 for speaking truth to the lost divorced person straight from The Word. Most pastors are leading people to hell with this populous “exception” belief that is false!
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There's an exception. Mathew 19:9 The scriptures say whoever divorces his wife saving for the cause of sexual immorality and marries another commits adultery. Conversely, whoever divorces his wife for sexual immorality and marries another does not commit adultery. Simple!
Sexual immorality is not adultery, 2 different words that Jesus used.
@@Jaylilo King James says except for fornication not sexual immortality. God used the word fornication because if the woman lied about being a virgin, then divorce was allowed. Married people don't fornicate, it's called adultery instead. Example Joseph would have been allowed to divorce And remarry Mary because he thought Mary lied about being a virgin. Be careful of different translation for the bible.
@@rondalowe8855 So a person can remarry after divorce for fornication (or sexual immorality), but not for adultery? God may not be illogical, but this teaching sure is!
Fantastic teaching. God is pressing his children to get the word out so people do not go to hell
God wants you....to be happy....hmmm.... I wonder how that would relate, to a same sex couple....
Absolutely FABULOUS!!!!!!
"If we SUFFER with him we shall also reign with him, if we deny him, he will deny us"
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@@Jaylilo LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! and besides.....does this fool have no dental insurance???
I really Love this..Thanks so much and God bless you...
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Thank you for making this. This is possibly the most common accepted sin in the body and almost no pastors address it.
Can you please address the excuse..."but I wasn't saved when I married the first time. My second husband and I are both saved."
(edited) _Everything Jesus taught is true. Jesus also taught this..._
Matthew 7:1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
Matthew 7:2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Mat 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
Mat 6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Mark 11:25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
Mark 11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
Saved or unsaved are still subject to Gods rules..John the baptist was imprisoned and killed for telling king herod (a roman unsaved) that it was unlawful for him to be married to his brother Phillip's wife.. it's a truth I learned and it hit me hard because I wanted to remarry but I'm going with what Jesus said..
@@duhg6059 Amen
On top of the gender differences, do you say that only virgin or widowed women can wed?? Paul only gives permission to those women in I Corinthians 7 when he goes over who doesn’t sin if they marry.
I Appreciate this teaching/ those of US that believe that MARRIAGE is till DEATH,dont have the problem, that so many have,trying to find a reason, alibi, loophole, excuse to go against GODS Perfect will for RE-MARRIAGE ./
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@@Jaylilo stop with the pathetic attempts to justify adultery with false teachers using manipulation and Bible gymnastics. Mark 10:7-12, and Luke 16:18 are CLEAR.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 if it was clear, there wouldn’t be so many confused people.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 plus this applies to a man that purposely puts his wife away to marry someone else. “I don’t like my wife, I’ll get another”. Same thing for the wife. It doesn’t say anything about the party that didn’t want the divorce.
@@troyyakel2872 They aren't confused they're rebellious and want to justify thier sin with pathetic false loopholes and embarrassing Bible gymnastics. The Word is Clear. Obeying the Word is a different story. Woe unto those who choose to disobey (Ephesians 5:5-7)
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God bless you.
HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH SEPARATION OR DIVORCE? IF NOT THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING SINCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS. YOU BETTER STOP SAYING THINGS YOU HAVE NO IDEA WITH!
@@richardboaz-mashagospel2346 YES, I HAVE...3X.
IT'S OUR JOB AS CHRISTIAN'S TO SPREAD THE TRUTH OF GOD'S WORD & WARN OTHERS OF SIN THAT LEADS TO DEATH (HELL).
@@proverbs3_5-8 ANOTHER THING IS... WHETHER MIKE OR THE WOMAN GOES TO LAKE OF FIRE BECAUSE OF ADULTERY. QUESTION TO YOU (ARE YOU PURE OR HOLY LIKE JESUS? IF NOT DO YOU AGREE THAT YOU WILL BE IN THE SAME LAKE OF FIRE?) IF YOU WON'T BE IN THE LAKE THEN MIKE WONT BE EITHER!
REMEMBER WHAT JESUS DID TO A WOMAN WHO WAS CAUGHT WITH ADULTERY CASE WHAT HE DECIDED. MY INTENS TO YOU IS (DO NOT BE SELF RIGHTEOUS AND JUDGING OTHERS, YOU HAVE YOUR SINS TOO).
God bless you my sister❤️Thank you for sharing this video
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So let me understand this.. If someone boldly sins in this case willfully committing adultery against you and refuses to repent are you therefor bound by their lack of refusal to repent as long as they live? That makes you forever bound to their refusal to repent... Im afraid its you who’s illogical twisting Gods word making the innocent party responsible for the lack of repentance of the unrepentant persons will. God s not illogical never in the whole Bible is a innocent party bound to the unrepentant party.. So what your basically saying is adultery is greater than the innocent parties salvation?? Thats a very demonic and hopeless gospel to those who have been wronged.
Exactly!! God would not force you to be with a spouse that commits the physical act of adultery (fornication) because it brings disease and death to their spouse. God honors life! And is logical! Adultery could just be lusting after another woman or man in your heart.
Divorce because of fornication makes logical sense.
Remarriage is allowed in OT Deuteronomy 24
Fornication is what people commit against their own body. Whether it is sex with a partner, or masturbation, it is a sin against the body of those who commit it. Adultery is a sin against the one you become one-flesh with, in a covenant of marriage. This is the proper context of these terms.
Those who falsely interpret fornication, as being the same as adultery, cause conflict in Matthew's gospel, by implying that unless adultery is comitted (by the wife during the marriage) then adultery is being caused through a divorce and subsequent remarriage. This hits a wall, when it comes to Matthew 5:31-32, because it would still show that a married wife (if she were not a betrothed wife as shown in Matthew 5:31-32, Matthew 19:9, and also in the case of Mary in Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7) is caused to commit adultery after receiving a certificate of divorce , except it be for (not including) adultery having been comitted previously. So either way, these scriptures still show a wife (during the time of Christ), unless being found guitly of having previously comitted fornication before or during betrothal (Deuteronomy 22:13-21; 23-24,), or found comitting adultery during marriage (Leviticus 20:10, Deuteronomy 22:22), is being caused to commit adultery ("defiled" according to Deuteronomy 24:4) with whosoever marries her after she is divorced.
During the time of Christ, and John the Baptist, it was impossible to give a wife caught in adultery a certificate of divorce, in order to become another man's wife, according to the law in Deuteronomy 22:22 and Leviticus 20:10.
The emphasis should be on the true definition of fornication (sexual immorality/whoredom), as seen in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9, by showing you the context of how it is used in Genesis 38:6-26.
Genesis 38:6-26:
6And Judah takes a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name [is] Tamar; 7and Er, Judah’s firstborn, is evil in the eyes of YHWH, and YHWH puts him to death. 8And Judah says to Onan, “Go in to the wife of your brother, and marry her, and raise up seed to your brother”; 9and Onan knows that the seed is not [reckoned] his; and it has come to pass, if he has gone in to his brother’s wife, that he has destroyed [it] to the earth, so as not to give seed to his brother; 10and that which he has done is evil in the eyes of YHWH, and He puts him also to death. 11And Judah says to his daughter-in-law Tamar, “Abide [as] a widow at your father’s house, until my son Shelah grows up”; for he said, “Lest he die-even he-like his brothers”; and Tamar goes and dwells at her father’s house.
12And the days are multiplied, and the daughter of Shuah, Judah’s wife, dies; and Judah is comforted, and goes up to his sheep-shearers, he and Hirah his friend the Adullamite, to Timnath. 13And it is declared to Tamar, saying, “Behold, your husband’s father is going up to Timnath to shear his flock”; 14and she turns aside the garments of her widowhood from off her, and covers herself with a veil, and wraps herself up, and sits in the opening of Enayim, which [is] by the way to Timnath, for she has seen that Shelah has grown up, and she has not been given to him for a wife. 15And Judah sees her, and reckons her for a harlot, for she has covered her face, 16and he turns aside to her by the way and says, “Please come, let me come in to you,” for he has not known that she [is] his daughter-in-law; and she says, “What do you give to me, that you may come in to me?” 17And he says, “I send a kid of the goats from the flock.” And she says, “Do you give a pledge until you send [it]?” 18And he says, “What [is] the pledge that I give to you?” And she says, “Your seal, and your ribbon, and your staff which [is] in your hand”; and he gives to her, and goes in to her, and she conceives to him; 19and she rises, and goes, and turns aside her veil from off her, and puts on the garments of her widowhood.
20And Judah sends the kid of the goats by the hand of his friend the Adullamite, to receive the pledge from the hand of the woman, and he has not found her. 21And he asks the men of her place, saying, “Where [is] the separated one-she in Enayim, by the way?” And they say, “There has not been in this [place] a separated one.” 22And he turns back to Judah and says, “I have not found her; and the men of the place also have said, There has not been in this [place] a separated one,” 23and Judah says, “Let her take to herself, lest we become despised; behold, I sent this kid, and you have not found her.”
24And it comes to pass about three months [after], that it is declared to Judah, saying, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar has committed fornication; and also, behold, she has conceived by fornication”: and Judah says, “Bring her out-and she is burned.” 25She is brought out, and she has sent to her husband’s father, saying, “To a man whose these [are], I [am] pregnant”; and she says, “Please discern whose these [are]-the seal, and the ribbons, and the staff.” 26And Judah discerns and says, “She has been more righteous than I, because that I did not give her to my son Shelah”; and he has not added to know her again.
The context of the scriptures above show that Tamar and Judah are both widowed, and Tamar is the widow of Judah's sons Er and Onan, and is living with her father-in-law Judah. Neither of them are married, and Tamar is not betrothed to Judah's youngest son Shelah. She was not a prostitute, but only pretended to be in order to trick her father-in-law, Judah, into fornication in order to force him into marriage. These scriptures in Genesis 38, along with what is written in the law about a betrothed virgin being unfaithful before her wedding night, in Deuteronomy 22:13-21; 23-24, you see what Jesus meant by "except it be for fornication" in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9, and the clear differences between fornication and adultery in the context of the scriptures.
@@ajlouviere202 ok so fornication includes all sexual immorality involving the body. Adultery can be just lusting after a woman when one is married, correct? A matter of even just the heart... like Jesus said...
@@stephaniesanchez7627 no fornication only includes what is done before two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage. Paul stated, “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband” (1 Corinthians 7:2).
@@ajlouviere202 That is not true. Fornication involves adultery, not to mention its many symbolic meanings... if fornication (the way you mean) were the only exception to getting divorced, then most people these days would have grounds for divorce because it's rare for anyone to wait til marriage.
Excellent video. Thanks for telling the truth about divorce and remarriage adultery.
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HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH SEPARATION OR DIVORCE? IF NOT THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING SINCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS. YOU BETTER STOP SAYING THINGS YOU HAVE NO IDEA WITH!
@@richardboaz-mashagospel2346 I know exactly how it feels from personal experience. God’s word doesn’t change if you have experienced divorce or separation or if you have not experienced divorce or separation. Anyone who divorces a covenant spouse and marries someone else or anyone who marries a divorced person who has a living covenant spouse is committing adultery (Mark 10:11-12, Luke 16:18 and Romans 7:2-3). That is the plain and simple truth.
The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. But when Jesus died on the cross, he caused the Jews to be dead to the law of Moses so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the law of Moses over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the whole law is no longer possible for those in Israel and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned by the unbeliever, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way they word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "15But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not under bondage," which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, when this is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 has the Apostle Paul giving permission to remarry do not understand that the abandoned husband in 1 Corinthians 7:11 is expected to also remain unmarried, in order to be reconciled with his wife. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh in marriage puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, by implying that he has issued an opposing command.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
In the case with the woman at the well women been identified as Samaritan are allowed the freedom of widows to ask any man that is willing to give her a son. Referring to the woman that was caught in the very act, none could condemn her because that is allowed by Jesus. Remember, the woman said I have no husband thou she has been with five men."
@@philologustate4464 this is a question that has been asked before, by other different profiles associated with Standing Strong For Marriages channel, and it is not one that can be validated biblically. The same question still remains and that is why Jesus never mentioned anything about her having been divorced?
This is a great video..I sent to someone before they married a divorcee because they couldn't understand mark 10..but this video really clarified things
Great video sister! I am praying for people to hear this and understand what the Lord has to say. I was humbled by the Lord and praise His Name for showing me...And it is a SALVATION issue!
If anyone divorces and remarries when the spouse is still alive then they commit ADULTERY!
Suzanne Rivera Makes it real easy huh? How about let’s just study what you’re bible says and make correct interpretation. Doesn’t your god suggest that? Doesn’t your god say not all are to be teachers:preachers? Doesn’t your god say he will hold you accountable for misleading? And doesn’t your bible say women shouldn’t teach your Gods word?
Suzanne Rivera: that is not a true statement. That is a typical egalitarian gynocentric response. Learn to understand the social matrix you’ve been taught and come out from under it.
I have watched this three times, and I think it is excellent. The innocent spouse is almost always told by pastors they can get remarried. I know! They have told me this for the last eleven years when I am the innocent spouse. I could substitute the names. We must have compassion for the severe pain that is put on the deserted, innocent party because every day they are having adultery committed against them and God. Permanent celibacy isn't easy to have forced upon you by a spouse leaving, but the Holy Spirit will deliver you and bless you for obedience. Sometimes after much prayer for the wayward spouse, God saves that person and they come back to the marriage. It happens even 5, 15 even 21 years after divorce because nothing is impossible for God. I pray that innocent spouses will be comforted by the Comforter because it is like having your skin ripped off and more painful than someone dying especially when you have children.
@@mikethomas4570
I'm going by the Word of God....I didn't say these things, GOD himself did!
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 New Living Translation (NLT)
10 But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord.[a] A wife must not leave her husband. 11 But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be reconciled to him. And the husband must not leave his wife.
Mark 10:10-12 New Living Translation (NLT)
10 Later, when he was alone with his disciples in the house, they brought up the subject again. 11 He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husband and marries someone else, she commits adultery.”
Romans 7:1-3 New Living Translation (NLT)
No Longer Bound to the Law
7 Now, dear brothers and sisters[a]-you who are familiar with the law-don’t you know that the law applies only while a person is living? 2 For example, when a woman marries, the law binds her to her husband as long as he is alive. But if he dies, the laws of marriage no longer apply to her. 3 So while her husband is alive, she would be committing adultery if she married another man. But if her husband dies, she is free from that law and does not commit adultery when she remarries.
@@victoryasher1729
I go by the Word of God....if you want to dispute then you should take it to the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 New Living Translation (NLT)
10 But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord.[a] A wife must not leave her husband. 11 But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be reconciled to him. And the husband must not leave his wife.
Mark 10:10-12 New Living Translation (NLT)
10 Later, when he was alone with his disciples in the house, they brought up the subject again. 11 He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husband and marries someone else, she commits adultery.”
Romans 7:1-3 New Living Translation (NLT)
No Longer Bound to the Law
7 Now, dear brothers and sisters[a]-you who are familiar with the law-don’t you know that the law applies only while a person is living? 2 For example, when a woman marries, the law binds her to her husband as long as he is alive. But if he dies, the laws of marriage no longer apply to her. 3 So while her husband is alive, she would be committing adultery if she married another man. But if her husband dies, she is free from that law and does not commit adultery when she remarries.
Many argue that the so-called "exception clause" for sexual immorality refers to adultery. The problem is, the punishment for adultery was DEATH, not divorce! Jesus came to fulfill the law (including Lev 20:10), and not to annul it. If the greek word for "sexual immorality" πορνείᾳ refers to adultery, than Jesus is contradicting the Levitical holiness code. As all the Word of God is from the Divine Logos, Jesus is made to contradict Himself. Eisegesis at its best.
Have a listen to David Pawson here th-cam.com/video/0dUeOPL0ZJM/w-d-xo.html
For those who do not understand my comment above, I am NOT for divorce and remarriage. ;) Please read my comment carefully.
The Erasmian view assumes that adultery is part of the "exception clause" in Matt 19. I am telling those who propound this view to reexamine the text with good exegetical principles - 1) Study the context. The Pharisees were the ones asking the question, not Christians in the New Covenant. Stoning or the death penalty was indeed the punishment for adultery under the Mosaic provision, not divorce! 2) Interpret and harmonize difficult passages (like Matt 19:9) with clear ones in Scripture, not vice versa.
The following are clear from Scripture:
It is God’s intention that marriage be an indissoluble union. “What therefore God has joined together let no man separate” (Mark 10:2-9 = Matt 19:3-8).
For a man to divorce a woman is not only for him to sin but to force her to commit the sin of adultery (Matt 5:32a).
For a single or formerly married man to marry a divorced woman is to commit adultery (Matt 5:32b; 19:9b; Luke 16:18b).
For a man to divorce his wife and to remarry is to commit adultery (Mark 10:11; Matt 19:9; Luke 16:18).
For a woman to divorce her husband and to remarry is to commit adultery (Mark 10:12).
If a divorce does take place, whatever the circumstances, both husband and wife must remain unmarried or else be reconciled (1 Cor 7:10-11).
A wife (or husband) is bound in marriage to her husband (or his wife) as long as the other lives. Only the death of one of the spouses gives permissible grounds for the other to marry again (Rom 7:1-3; I Cor 7:39).
Harmonize Matt 19:9 with the above clearer Scriptures, not vice versa!
@@vincentchia3631 I agree with your point and the reason I quoted the scriptures immediately below was to quell those who were misquoting them elsewhere. The practice of remarriage to another, following divorce, particularly among clergy, seems even more heinous, to me, particularly in light of Leviticus 21
Fornication is what people commit against their own body. Whether it is sex with a partner, or masturbation, it is a sin against the body of those who commit it. Adultery is a sin against the one you become one-flesh with, in a covenant of marriage. This is the proper context of these terms.
Those who falsely interpret fornication, as being the same as adultery, cause conflict in Matthew's gospel, by implying that unless adultery is comitted (by the wife during the marriage) then adultery is being caused through a divorce and subsequent remarriage. This hits a wall, when it comes to Matthew 5:31-32, because it would still show that a married wife (if she were not a betrothed wife as shown in Matthew 5:31-32, Matthew 19:9, and also in the case of Mary in Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7) is caused to commit adultery after receiving a certificate of divorce , except it be for (not including) adultery having been comitted previously. So either way, these scriptures still show a wife (during the time of Christ), unless being found guitly of having previously comitted fornication before or during betrothal (Deuteronomy 22:13-21; 23-24,), or found comitting adultery during marriage (Leviticus 20:10, Deuteronomy 22:22), is being caused to commit adultery ("defiled" according to Deuteronomy 24:4) with whosoever marries her after she is divorced.
During the time of Christ, and John the Baptist, it was impossible to give a wife caught in adultery a certificate of divorce, in order to become another man's wife, according to the law in Deuteronomy 22:22 and Leviticus 20:10.
The emphasis should be on the true definition of fornication (sexual immorality/whoredom), as seen in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9, by showing you the context of how it is used in Genesis 38:6-26.
Genesis 38:6-26:
6And Judah takes a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name [is] Tamar; 7and Er, Judah’s firstborn, is evil in the eyes of YHWH, and YHWH puts him to death. 8And Judah says to Onan, “Go in to the wife of your brother, and marry her, and raise up seed to your brother”; 9and Onan knows that the seed is not [reckoned] his; and it has come to pass, if he has gone in to his brother’s wife, that he has destroyed [it] to the earth, so as not to give seed to his brother; 10and that which he has done is evil in the eyes of YHWH, and He puts him also to death. 11And Judah says to his daughter-in-law Tamar, “Abide [as] a widow at your father’s house, until my son Shelah grows up”; for he said, “Lest he die-even he-like his brothers”; and Tamar goes and dwells at her father’s house.
12And the days are multiplied, and the daughter of Shuah, Judah’s wife, dies; and Judah is comforted, and goes up to his sheep-shearers, he and Hirah his friend the Adullamite, to Timnath. 13And it is declared to Tamar, saying, “Behold, your husband’s father is going up to Timnath to shear his flock”; 14and she turns aside the garments of her widowhood from off her, and covers herself with a veil, and wraps herself up, and sits in the opening of Enayim, which [is] by the way to Timnath, for she has seen that Shelah has grown up, and she has not been given to him for a wife. 15And Judah sees her, and reckons her for a harlot, for she has covered her face, 16and he turns aside to her by the way and says, “Please come, let me come in to you,” for he has not known that she [is] his daughter-in-law; and she says, “What do you give to me, that you may come in to me?” 17And he says, “I send a kid of the goats from the flock.” And she says, “Do you give a pledge until you send [it]?” 18And he says, “What [is] the pledge that I give to you?” And she says, “Your seal, and your ribbon, and your staff which [is] in your hand”; and he gives to her, and goes in to her, and she conceives to him; 19and she rises, and goes, and turns aside her veil from off her, and puts on the garments of her widowhood.
20And Judah sends the kid of the goats by the hand of his friend the Adullamite, to receive the pledge from the hand of the woman, and he has not found her. 21And he asks the men of her place, saying, “Where [is] the separated one-she in Enayim, by the way?” And they say, “There has not been in this [place] a separated one.” 22And he turns back to Judah and says, “I have not found her; and the men of the place also have said, There has not been in this [place] a separated one,” 23and Judah says, “Let her take to herself, lest we become despised; behold, I sent this kid, and you have not found her.”
24And it comes to pass about three months [after], that it is declared to Judah, saying, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar has committed fornication; and also, behold, she has conceived by fornication”: and Judah says, “Bring her out-and she is burned.” 25She is brought out, and she has sent to her husband’s father, saying, “To a man whose these [are], I [am] pregnant”; and she says, “Please discern whose these [are]-the seal, and the ribbons, and the staff.” 26And Judah discerns and says, “She has been more righteous than I, because that I did not give her to my son Shelah”; and he has not added to know her again.
The context of the scriptures above show that Tamar and Judah are both widowed, and Tamar is the widow of Judah's sons Er and Onan, and is living with her father-in-law Judah. Neither of them are married, and Tamar is not betrothed to Judah's youngest son Shelah. She was not a prostitute, but only pretended to be in order to trick her father-in-law, Judah, into fornication in order to force him into marriage. These scriptures in Genesis 38, along with what is written in the law about a betrothed virgin being unfaithful before her wedding night, in Deuteronomy 22:13-21; 23-24, you see what Jesus meant by "except it be for fornication" in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9, and the clear differences between fornication and adultery in the context of the scriptures.
Wow very well explained.
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How often do Christians lose there salvation? Does any Christian including this woman talking know that she won’t sin right before dying and end up in hell ? Do only some sins strip you of your salvation? It seems that the message of a Christian losing their salvation should be be taught in absolutely every sermon ever given no matter what the subject. Ok here is how to be saved but remember it can be very easily lost at any moment so walk on eggshells the rest of your life. Also can’t help but wonder how many single Christians are lead toward sin by ministries pressuring them to remain single when they have no such desire to stay that way and God hasn’t impressed on them to stay single are some ministries doing more harm than good?
There is a sin that leads unto death and there is a sin that leads not unto death.
I Jn 5
I see by this teaching that if I am married to my second wife, no matter how successful the marriage, regardless of our shared ministry I am in an adultness relationship. My question is do I divorce her. Is that divorce allowed? But my greatest concern is how do you suggest I explain this to our three kids in grade school? I know I must dissolve my family and can no longer be in this marriage. I'm not sure how to proceed-can you help? My children are very happy children who love the Lord and love our family life. The children are a product of sin-how should I approach custody?
Stay in your marriage, brother. Two wrongs don’t make a right. A second divorce isn’t going to make your first divorce okay. That’s backward thinking. These people preaching this are seriously disturbed and in bondage. Divorce isn’t the unpardonable sin. Blaspheming the Holy Spirit is. Taking scripture out of context is what many on this subject do best.
@@abby_stewart I'm interested to see what the proponents of this have to say. Interesting that I have not seen any replies...
@Donald Frazier you may get a very bold individual tell you that YES, you are to leave your family in order to “carry your cross” and follow Christ. I just don’t think God is out to destroy families. Your children would not benefit from the dissolution of your marriage, I can tell you that. As a divorced woman myself, it’s very very hard on children. I know God isn’t in the home wrecking business.
@@abby_stewart God bless you-to be honest-there was an ulterior motive for my post. I wanted to hear an honest reply from those who propagate this position. Based on their logic, a person who has remarried is doomed either way-they can't stay married or commit the sin of another divorce. And if they have an intact family their children by default are illegitimate. I want to hear someone of that point of view provide an answer for what now would be the dilemma of perhaps millions. It is noteworthy that no one has offered cut and dried answers as readily as the condemnations to hell they profess.
@@abby_stewart
Jesus Lord says : Whoever marries a woman who is divorced, he commits adultery (Matt 5 : 32b, Luke 16 : 18b)
Lord command : if a wife does depart/divorced from her husband let her unmarried or reconciled to her husband ( 1 Cor 7 : 11)
as long as her husband lives, she is called adulteress if she become wife of other man but if her husband dies (being widow) she is free to remarry any man she wants but only in Lord (1 Cor 7 : 39)
Hello I have a question to ask. If someone married a divorcee, and finds out that he is in adulterous marriage with her, should he stay or leave and after divorcing her, is he free to marry or he has to stay unmarried?
Simple answer NO
So many christians try to lawless the God's laws with his/her will. The God's laws never change, when you love someone, you never try to hurt her/his by your ego. If you love God, you don't do something against Him. If you love someone, you must take God first before him/her.
Very well done. Thank you. As a warrior for marriage permanence and the Holiness of the marriage covenant, I appreciate this and hope more material like this comes out.
I would like to add that including the teaching of Holiness, and the reflection of God that marriage is to emulate would be a good addition to something like this. It would provide a bigger picture as to "why" covenant marriage, and disprove the loopholes people try to create.
Yes they can get married. There isn’t even anything in scripture that says it is a sin to marry a married man let alone a man divorced by his wife!
There are verses saying it is a sin for man to divorce his wife, a woman to divorce her husband and that it is sin to marry a divorced WOMAN. Nothing about it being a sin to marry a divorced man.
Pronouns matter
Or do you think it’s all gender neutral?
We follow the pronouns in the Old Testament. We need to apply the same logic and truth to the New Testament
@@seiliwennam do you have any scripture to support your claims?
@@seiliwennam Mark 10:11-12; 11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”
This seems pretty clear does it not? It's adultery one way, and it's adultery the other...
Read them all. Read the words. Write down who is in sin. The man who divorces. The woman who divorces. The man who marries a divorced woman
@@seiliwennam it is proposterous to assume that this doesn't apply to a woman remarrying as well. See Romans 7:2-3. It is clear that the law of marriage applies to both men and women equally. Sin is not allowed on the basis of sex. A woman is not dismissed from the same sin that a man is capable of.
You cannot go to hell if you've been saved. You can only suffer the consequences of desobedience on earth. Nobody earns their salvation.....
Not true..I didn’t see a single verse quoted
@@someoneofgods2620 We were saved by grace not by works so how can you "keep" something you never earned or deserved? If Jesus is not enough what is the point of his sacrifice?
But here goes : VERSES ON ETERNAL SALVATION
Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9 *Not of works* , lest any man should boast
John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, *but have everlasting life* (..... it doesn't say "everlasting life if you don't divorce and remarry")
Titus 3:5 - Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy *he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost*
Ephesians 1:13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, *ye were sealed with that holy Spirit* of promise
John 6:37 All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out. (.... Jesus does NOT cast us out if we come to him)
Luke 15:11-32 Story of the Prodigal son.... clearly here for a reason.
Of course all sins lead to consequences : VERSES ON THE CONSEQUENCES OF SIN ON GODS CHILDREN
Colossians 3:25 But he that doeth wrong *shall receive for the wrong which he hath done* : and there is no respect of persons.
Isaia 57:21 There is no peace, saith my God, to the wicked. (.... Christians who live in sin have no peace)
Hebrew 12:6-7 6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? (..... God chastises us, he doesn't "remove" our salvation)
1 Corinthians 11:30-31 30 For this cause *many are weak and sickly among you* , and many sleep. 31 For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. (.... God can make you sick because of sin)
1 Corinthians 3:16-17 16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? 17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. (...... God will destroy your saved body aka HIS TEMPLE if you live in sin)
God bless.
You teach heresy. No ADULTERER will enter (inherit) the Kingdom of God and heaven..
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Galatians 5:19-21
Hebrews 5:5
Revelation 21:8
Matthew 7:21-23 🔥🔥
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 I wrote a whole post with far most verses than you. The reason Christ died for us is not for us to "deserve" entering heaven. He did what we couldn't do : entering heaven through our own works and good deeds. This is what all MAN MADE false religions teach. God bless.
@ Purple, does this apply to homosexuals in same sex marriage? They stay in the marriage becus they are saved, and it’s not the unpardonable sin? Just curious...
Leslie McFall wrote an excellent paper. We must look at the progression of thought in church history to understand the current compromise that has so permeated the church’s thinking and actions( and inaction!).
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Leslie McFall knows the truth now. He would instruct to take this video down.
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Yes they can get married. There isn’t even anything in scripture that says it is a sin to marry a married man let alone a man divorced by his wife!
There are verses saying it is a sin for man to divorce his wife, a woman to divorce her husband and that it is sin to marry a divorced WOMAN. Nothing about it being a sin to marry a divorced man.
Pronouns matter
Or do you think it’s all gender neutral?
We follow the pronouns in the Old Testament. We need to apply the same logic and truth to the New Testament
Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7 say so
Those say women are bound
"Husbands dont divorce your wives"~ Paul
Thank God for this sister.
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HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH SEPARATION OR DIVORCE? IF NOT THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING SINCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS. YOU BETTER STOP SAYING THINGS YOU HAVE NO IDEA WITH!
Praise GOD,
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From Leo: David had 20 plus wives after he left his first wife, Michal, Saul's daughter. Then he married Bathsheba, after adultery and murder. G-D was willing to forgive him. Many men in the bible had more then one wife, often at the same time. Then there is the whole book of Hosea. No doubt, this is all VERY serious business, but G-D will forgive the repentant sinner. Divorcing a 2nd, or 3rd spouse does not seem to be the answer.
Well can you explain how divorcing a first spouse is the answer but divorcing a 2nd or 3rd spouse isn't the answer? Sounds like flesh talking to justify instead of hearing God's truth.
That is the old testament we are in the newtestament
That is the old testament we are in the newtestament
@@truthpill1404 So Jesus changed the rules regarding divorce? Is that what Matthew 5:17 says?
Thank you so much for this teaching. You are one of the few who gets this right. Does anyone have any recommendations as to a church that I can attend in the greater Phoenix area who preaches this truth??? I really desire to be under the leadership of a pastor who preaches this truth. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.
We're sorry but at this time we can't recall of any churches that uphold this truth, that marriage is only dissolved with the death of a spouse. Just be faithful and obedient to Jesus until the end.
Please let me know if you found a church in Phoenix that preaches this doctrine. I too am longing for a truth preaching pastor who takes a stand.
My church is a good church that does believe what this video illustrates. But, like most churches, won't discuss it through the pulpit.
Thank you for this teaching. I’m sending this to my family.
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HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH SEPARATION OR DIVORCE? IF NOT THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING SINCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS. YOU BETTER STOP SAYING THINGS YOU HAVE NO IDEA WITH!
@@richardboaz-mashagospel2346Jesus didnt go though them either yet he and Paul were steadfast in their teaching.
We understand how hard the pain and struggles must be but let us not forget how Jesus told us thow we must carry our cross and hate our own life that we may be his followers.
Blessings.
God says my grace is sufficient for thee
According to these people, Jacob, the patriarch, is going to hell. He lived in a polygamous relationship his entire life because he wanted to pursue his heart. Obviously God forgives us if we have righteous desires. If not, Jacob is going to hell for marrying Rachel.
This is absolutely amazing teaching, thank you my sister
HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH SEPARATION OR DIVORCE? IF NOT THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING SINCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS. YOU BETTER STOP SAYING THINGS YOU HAVE NO IDEA WITH!
@@richardboaz-mashagospel2346 There is so much pain in separation and divorce. The Lord tells the priest who divorced the wife of his youth (his covenant wife) that divorce is violence! It really is. Only the comfort of the Holy Spirit dwelling within you can give you the peace that surpasses understanding in these situations. I have been through it and the Lord Jesus is faithful. The pain of my first divorce was excruciating, unspeakable. The pain of quitting a 19 year adulterous remarriage was true death to my flesh, yet my spirit was at peace! Held fast by Jesus, standing on His word. I was at peace, while my natural self was crying and dying. We must crucify our flesh daily if we are truly disciples of Jesus. Meanwhile, after obeying Hinm in this matter, Jesus has taken away the pain and I live in peace, praise God! Are you going through these things right now? I will pray for you.
Suppose Mike's wife had committed fornication before he met her, but he loved and married her anyway. Years after Mike marries his wife he finds out that behind his back she is cheating with her former lover. Is Mike right or wrong to divorces his wife?
In divorce there is no such thing a Guilty Party its has to be a Guilty Wife.
Men and Women can divorce now for any reason, but its what happens after the divorce that can get you killed. If we marry another person after being divorced, and we were not divorced because the woman committed fornication before she married her husband then the woman committing whether it were her or the husband who did the divorcing, and the man would be committing adultery against his wife if he is the one doing the divorcing.
You are my hero. Please let this be published in ALL OF THE CHURCHES
Unfortunately, the majority of Christians reject this teaching of the Lord. The rest of us must remain faithful and obedient to the Lord Jesus until the end. Thank you and God bless you.
What happens if two people who love each other and either are divorced wanna come to God, they really love each other and have children together as well. Do they divorce and she stay single forever or go back to her other husband?
The man and woman married need to separate even though they both want God and desire his will and etc?
So break up a perfectly good home with children that are happy? I don’t understand?
excellent video.....thanx....
A fault with this video is that women are forbidden to teach in public or in the church.
"Let us do evil that good may come"....
Why have you not used a man?
"11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression".
1 Timothy 2:11-14 (KJV)
Work based salvation here
Jesus Christ or the apostles have never permitted a Marriage after a Divorce .................
Why at minute #9:25 do you use a sexual immorality instead of the KJV fornication? You failed to mention Jewish espousal in regards to that verse. This is so sad. I am also not a fan of how you don't use the KJV in your other videos in the verses that scroll on the video. How you don't understand the loopholes heretics use and why one needs to be in the KJV on this subject is beyond me. Really sad cause the videos are so good.
I agree 100%!!! Other translations have changed the wording, which the children of disobedience use to justify their adultery.
FORNICATION is when an unmarried person has sex with another unmarried person.
ADULTERY is having sex with another while YOU are in a legit marriage covevnant, and/or if an unmarried person has sex with another who is in a legit marriage covenant.
Man's divorce laws do not disanul God's marriage law. A covenant marriage ends when one or the other dies.
Yes!! Great points
@@MoonPhaze5 I agree with you 100% on all comments I've read of yours on other similar type videos. Any way I could email you?
What if someone didn't know and got remarried and had a child. What should they do then? Can they repent?
Excellent!
Hey brother. I have been thinking about you. Hope all is well.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Hey Terry, bless you. I will email you. 🙏
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Matthew 19-9
The term Christ Jesus used was "fornication."
He was referring to the Jewish custom of the betrothal or engagement period.
He didn't use the term adultery because He was not speaking about marriage.
There's no justification for divorce.
You can not remarry another.
Be reconciled or stay single praying for your ex spouse salvation if they divorced or walked out.
A pastor must be the husband of one wife.
Great video - great delivery and the voice is clear and easy to understand.
Thank you LORD. How much more clear do we need his word to be. But I hear people say to me oh mija u can get married again. Yes if I want to burn for ever. I’m good I want to follow the LORD I’m perfectly good not perfect yet but one day we will all be. By the GRACE OF GOD I was saved and by his Righteousness right hand he will lead me in all my ways as PROVERBS 3:5,6 states . Jesus please continue to lead my ways. Thank you LORD because ur ways are not my ways 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️ bless my brothers and sisters who walk with you and you with them. 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️ the truth will set us free Amen 🙏
Read Deuteronomy chapter 24
No, the marriage of the divorcee before he new Christ wasn’t a sin, the divorce was. Please don’t enter in adultery remarriage. Marriage is universal, between a man and a woman. Cry out to the Lord. The person that ‘’married’’ a divorcee is not married.
Lol uh huh... sure... scripture to back that up?
Brother Grimaldus Luke 16:18, Mark 10:11, Romans 7:3, Mark chap 6 (John the Baptist telling the truth about the unlawful marriage of Herod to Herodias), Matthew 19(a humanist priest named Erasmus changed the passage and but a false exception) . There’s nothing to laugh about, by the way. Other reference: 'THE BIBLICAL TEACHING ON DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE' by Dr. Leslie McFall. Testimony of Jeremiah S Rose. Stay blessed! ✨Never forget the best teacher: The Holy Spirit ✨
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Pastors use 1 Corinthians 7:15
If the UNBELIEVING partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the BROTHER or SISTER is not enslaved/bound.
Why does Paul call an unbeliever a brother or a sister? If only believers are called or considered Brothers and Sisters in Christ.
Pastors state that a partner who abandons the marriage is released. Then the Pastor reads into the passage that “remarriage” is now ok
The brother or sister is the believing spouse
A divorced christian can't remarry someone else as he's bond to his first wife until death. He can stay single or reconcile with first wife. The same for the woman.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
1 Corinthians 7:39
Romans 7:2-3
Mark 10:11-12
Luke 16:18
Do not play with your salvation! Heaven is cheap at any cost! God bless you all!
Same for the non believer
Please stop using it as an excuse...
I hateth putting away sayeth the Lord...
Staying unmarried even after divorce is not what God had in mind in Malichi... or what Jesus said in Matthew and Mark... if you've divorced, you've already tried to separate what God joined together...
Does 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 Grant Permission For Divorce?
Absolutely not!
1 Corinthians 7:10,11: “Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.”
There are many people who wrongly conclude from 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 that this text grants permission for marital couples to divorce for any reason provided they do not remarry while their former partner remains living.
Please re-read 1 Corinthians 7:10,11. Take note that these are the commands of the Lord. These are not strong suggestions. Any spouse who divorces his/her spouse is sinning against God. Why? Because you are separating what God designed and joined (Matthew 19:6). God designed marriage to help prevent aloneness (Genesis 2:18-25), and bring two persons (male and female) into a one-flesh union, enabling the procreation of mankind (Genesis 1:22, 28). By divorcing for unscriptural reasons, sexual temptation and/or the need for companionship may become strong, leading one or both spouses to become stumbling blocks of one another (study Matthew 5:31,32, “causes her to commit adultery”).
1 Corinthians 7:10,11 plainly states that these are commands of the Lord which apply to both the wife and the husband (“a wife is not to depart from her husband…a husband is not to divorce his wife.”).
Doesn’t 1 Corinthians 7:11 imply that divorce is permissible as long as remarriage does not occur?
No. 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 instructs persons on what their scriptural options are if they sin by departing/divorcing. If a spouse disobeys the divine instructions of 1 Corinthians 7:10 (“not to depart/divorce”), then to receive forgiveness, they must repent and forgive as well.
@@brothergrimaldus3836 yes, divorce is also a sin against God. I never said divorce is not a sin. I just talked about remarriage, because there are many christians who are divorced and thinking to remarry someone else. God bless you!
@@robydany8749 it's not about staying single. Please stop using that. People assume that that's an out.... Please don't use it.
@@brothergrimaldus3836 i don't understand what you're saying. Be more clear, please.
What about 1 Corinthians 7: 15 if the unbeliever spouse leaves, you are not bound in such circumstances.
4 He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” 7 They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce and to send her away?” 8 He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” Matt 19:4-9 (ESV)
2 And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” 3 He answered them, “What did Moses command you?” 4 They said, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away.” 5 And Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. 6 But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” 10 And in the house the disciples asked him again about this matter. 11 And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, 12 and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” Mark 10:2-12 (ESV)
15 And he said to them, “You are those who justify yourselves before men, but God knows your hearts. For what is exalted among men is an abomination in the sight of God. 16 “The Law and the Prophets were until John; since then the good news of the kingdom of God is preached, and everyone forces his way into it. 17 But it is easier for heaven and earth to pass away than for one dot of the Law to become void. 18 “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery. Luke 16:15-18 (ESV)
1 Or do you not know, brothers -for I am speaking to those who know the law-that the law is binding on a person only as long as he lives? 2 For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage. 3 Accordingly, she will be called an adulteress if she lives with another man while her husband is alive. But if her husband dies, she is free from that law, and if she marries another man she is not an adulteress. Romans 7:1-3 (ESV)
15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never! 16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” 17 But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, 20 for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. 1 Cor 6:15-20 (ESV)
8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. 9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 10 To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband 11 (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife. 1 Cor 7:8-11 (ESV)
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Pressing On get lost with your pharasaical lies. Anything to perpetuate adultery. May God strike you and that lying devil in that video for promoting sin amongst His Children
@@womanatwellworshiptheFather Amen! This "pressing on" character is doing everything possible to promote remarriage and encourage divorce when the Lord Jesus CLEARLY forbids it. God bless you
Amen, this is going to put millions in hell, as this is rampant in the church...
wonderful video thank you.
So, if adultery, as you say, is defined by someone having sexual relations with a person other than their spouse, then what if someone marries another and remains celibate in the marriage? But Jesus taught that if a divorce person marries another besides his or her wife, they commit adultery. Does that mean marriage has to have a sexual union in order to be marriage? If not, if people can be married without having sexual intercourse, then adultery has to mean something broader than sexual relations outside of your own marriage. Now, if marriage has to involve sexual relations, say, a consummation, then could a couple get out of marriage vows before consummation, because they're not actually married until they have sexual relations? If they're married regardless of their sexual relationship, then adultery has to mean something other than a sexual relationship with someone other than your spouse, because Jesus said that if you marry someone after a divorce you're committing adultery. Either marriage requires sex or it doesn't. If it does, then people can get out of unconsummated marriages without sinning. If it doesn't, then adultery has to be redefined to a much broader view.
Divorce is wrong loves it’s not worth going to hell for
A colorful life you won't go to hell for divorce but remarriage is an adulteress sin and can send you to hell. Also if your spouse divorces and doesn't get remarried but sleeps around or have a live in mate that's still adultery on the spouse part so therefore hell is there home if it doesn't stop and be brought to true repentance.
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You’re forgetting that Jesus forgives
No adulterer as eternal life,
yes Jesus forgives, but we must also forsake, give up our sin. This includes our unlawful marriages. GRACE DOES NOT EXCUSE SIN.
Adultery is not covered under the blood we must go and sin no more
Jesus said to the woman court in the very act of adultery go and sin no more, not don't worry God understands .
victor then God has created a rock too large for him to carry
@@thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 to give up an adulterous marriage is hard with man,but when you give your life to christ, nothing is impossible. (God through the Holy spirit enable's you with grace to perform his will)
@@thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 a standard fallacy....
Yes JESUS do forgives when we confess and repent and turn from our sins
Great visual teaching.
1st Timothy 2:12 12 through 15, and Isaiah 5:21. This is exactly why you must seek the Lord God between the pages of his holy word KJV, and be led of his spirit. People like this are very dangerous!!
How are they dangerous brother?
I’m in full agreement with this teaching but hope you will consider redoing it without so much up-and-down voice changes it’s very difficult to listen to and annoying to the senses- at least mine :-)
The road to Hell is broad indeed. And given the prevelance of the Jezebel spirit these days, the apostles might be on to something when they say marriage is a bad idea.
Also note: the penalty for adultery used to be stoning...to /death/. Since death is the only way the marriage covenant is dissolved, they solved the problem in the old days through the death penalty of throwing rocks at her till she dies.
Good video
The man or woman who divorces their spouse commits adultery. That is equal. BUT THEN it is not equal. Then it only says that it is adultery to marry a divorced WOMAN! So the gender differences still stand. A single woman who marries a divorced man does not sin. And a man divorced BY his does not sin if he marries.
If I file for divorce from an adulterous husband (ongoing, unrepentant, sent me away) but I remain single, have I sinned? I am struggling with the fact that *I* filed and not him, since it seems that women were not allowed to file.
A single woman who marries a divorced man sins as an adulterer. She shares in the divorced man's sin. She sins with him against the man's original wife.
what you say is trulley gods word,and so very very difficult to obey.however our savior said he will never leave you nor forsake you .there is victory over sin of all kinds ,even over the one that has broken your heart. the lord will never fail yuu in your time of need and in your time of rejoicing.
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Genesis 2:24
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
1 Corinthians 6:16
16 Or do you not know that he who is joined[a] to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.”
Matthew 19:9
9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.
Wow. I will just chalk it up to babies in the lord. Was the marriage really a covenant? Under who? What about the old testament. Does the new testament have us be more strict under the law? I cannot even begin to say how this is so wrong.
This video is not wrong Jesus raised the bar on marriage
What God has joined let not man seperate.
@P11247 Please do explain. Just saying it's wrong doesn't make the teaching wrong at all. It just seems to upset you, probably because the truth offends people.
But the Bible is very clear about this topic and God writes His truth on His children's heart. Only His true children will follow His teachings, because they are more interested in obeying Him, no matter how hard it is, than in following their own fleshly desires.
Besides, as Victor says above, Jesus did raise the bar, and not just when it comes to marriage, but also in many other topics.
@@pam6610 Enough judgement on what you interpret the bible to say. You are all self-righteous bigots and I am done with it. Jesus never raised the "bar" about marriage. Where does he say that specifically. Paul wrote about it, but Jesus didn't discuss it. Jesus DID NOT RAISE THE BAR. He showed the way.
@@victor-hn1bh So, when God does join a couple, no one can tear them apart. A lot of marriages were not ordained by God. Think about the scriptures, go to the original texts and scriptures.
@@P11247 Ok 😚 whatever
What Paul teaches that a man or woman who chooses to celibate does better doesn't fits well with the scriptures that says it is not good to be alone, and suffer the little children to come unto me and forbid them not, and go and multiple and fill the earth .Enoch does that and God took him to heaven where we are all hoping to be
_(__3:19__) "'Whoever', in this case Mike, 'divorces his wife', which he did..."_
This is false. Mike did not put away his wife. His wife put him away in order to be joined in adultery to another man. It's true that Mike's wife is his wife for as long as the two live. However, nowhere does scripture condemn the act of a man, whose wife has put him away, marrying a second woman. It's the only type of polygyny that scripture never condemned. Scripture condemns polygyny in every other scenario though. "You" (Mike's second wife) should understand that if Mike's first wife ever repents, he will have to offer to take her back into his home. He wouldn't have to sleep with her, but he would at least have to provide for her basic needs (food, clothing, shelter, etc).
DanielJohn2300: Perfectly stated.
Does the bible state that if women comes back the man has to provide her everything?
@@promlapresleyjohn6853 When the bible was written, the man was the provider. Today, most women are able to provide for themselves. But, if a woman, who leaves her adulterous marriage, is not able to provide for herself, and her husband is a Christian, then he will provide for her (even if he has a second wife); because Christians are forgiving (Mat. 6v14-15).
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Is there Scripture to back this up?
Or how does what YOU claim agree with what Jesus says:
Mark 10:10-12
10 Later, when he was alone with his disciples in the house, they brought up the subject again. 11 He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husband and marries someone else, she commits adultery.”
@@Glory.To.God.In.The.Highest Those are two of the four MDR scenarios, and our Lord forbids both. A third scenario is a man marrying a woman whose husband put her away, and our Lord also forbids that (Mat. 5:32, Luke 16:18). But nowhere in scripture does our Lord forbid a woman from being married to a man whose wife put him away. That's the fourth scenario. Our Lord never approves it; but he never forbids it either, and that's why I dare not call that one adultery, lest I run the risk of bearing false witness against my neighbor.
Not unless the divorced ones spouse has died since divorced
And by the way the word “EXCEPT”; that you stated in Matthew 19:9 this isn’t there in the original Greek ....
Is actually there the word is “mē” ........ Your videos have a Lot of holes
You're right there does seem to be a Greek idiom going on there with "me epi", but I think she was citing Dr. McFall on that one who was much more of a Greek scholar than me! I haven't read his work yet, have you happened to have seen how he treats that translation?
Benny Halbert
Another way of looking at it is most scholars disagree with Dr. McFall translation.... Has it been rebuttals .... why has every single Bible committee has agree with the translation of “except-mē” ....
The original shows it....
@@idiotaiapologetics1401 I'm sorry I'm not quite sure I'm tracking with ya! Are you thinking something like: "If "me" isn't really supposed to be translated as "except", then why haven't all the major Bible committees (full of scholars like Dr. McFall) changed their translations to reflect that?"
Benny Halbert
My bad bro; I was using “voice texts “ and it said so many whacking things ......
The lady in the video quoted Dr. McFall as a source to back up her calm ...... the word “EXCEPT” isn’t in the original ..... I look it up and the word “EXCEPT is in the original it’s translated MĒ” ....that means by logic; what she said to down play Matthew 19:9 should be regarded as inaccurate.....
Every bible committee has a large board of TOP OF THE LINE translator .... And none of them would agree with McFall translation..... Nevertheless, to say that if your spouse cheats on you you can’t break up with them .... is foreign to the Old Testament ..... if your spouse cheat she was put to death ..... To say if my spouse cheated on me and I was to remarry I’m living in sin of course not .... in the o/t the cheat spouse gets death to death ..... In the n/t the cheat spouse either reconcile or divorce .... this was look upon in the 1 century as something GRACEFUL .... since no one had to die ....
The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. But when Jesus died on the cross, he caused the Jews to be dead to the law of Moses so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the law of Moses over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the whole law is no longer possible for those in Israel and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned by the unbeliever, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving permission to remarry do not understand the command, that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, is that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh in marriage puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
if a man was married before civil marriage and his wife left him because he bacame a believer can he marry again with believer in Christ for this reason ?
No.
Romans 7:1-3
1 Corinthians 7:39
Mark 10:7-9
i found out what God consider marriage is DOWRY where no dowry no marriage. Who said that need to get marriagevlike this or like that? Human? What did people do in biblical times? they payed dowry! God bless you all in Jesus name dont get lost in this false worl where good becomes bad and bad good!
The message seems good but the voice is a real turnoff, so bad, in fact that I had to turn it off at 2 minutes
Norman Appleton: Sounds like she is trying to teach kindergarten children.
Norman Appleton: On top of that....the message has some false in it.
@@victoryasher1729 which part is false? Please, I must know.
Jesus is Lord: Where she claims “if Mike’s wife divorces him, he has to remain single or return to her”. Please read the Word of God. THIS IS NOT SCRIPTURAL.
The Bible say “if a MAN divorces his wife, she is bound to HIM as long as he lives”. NOT the other way around. I used to think the equality way also, as man and woman having equal authority. But when I began to read the Bible word for word everything was there in plain sight. I was stuck in society’s matriarchal teaching mindset.
This fact is because God did not give Mike’s wife (woman) the spiritual authority to keep him bound to the laws of marriage if she divorces him. He can remarry. But because man has the authority as a husband, a wife who is divorced under any circumstances is NOT free to remarry until the husband dies. SHE (not he) must remain single or reconcile to her husband.
The spiritual authority belongs to the MAN....and has been given to man since the beginning. Ever since God defined Eve’s role by telling her, “your desire (her lust to control or to be equal to)shall be for your husband, but he (Man) shall rule (have authority) over you (woman)”. Therefore a wife does not have the authority to keep a her husband bound if she divorces him.
However, the Bible does say that a husband must not (initiate) divorce his wife. If he divorces her and be with another, he commits adultery.
Women in this society today strive so much for equality to men (egalitarianism), that they to read the Bible as if God did not give man a greater responsibility here in the earth. Women want the Bible to be read as if both men and women are equal, and that’s just nuts so spiritually.
Please, before you go off and accused me of teaching Satan’s doctrine and I need to repent, I’m misleading people, I am destined for hell, etc., please look up what I am saying in the Bible for yourself. It’s all there if someone read the scriptures pertaining to marriage word for word and not based on their own interpretations of how they wanted to form to their mindset.
In closing, these are the facts:
If a man divorces his wife and marries another he commits adultery and if a woman who is divorced from her husband marries another, she commits adultery.
If a wife divorces her husband and marries another she commits adultery.
But no where in scripture does it prohibit a man whose wife divorced him from getting another wife. He can remarry, because at the point of her divorcing him, she is refusing to be the helpmeet that God mandated her to be.
@@victoryasher1729 wow, that actually makes so much sense! You're so smart to have realized it all by studying!!
okay, I have a serious question that Ive been pondering on for a while, I was hoping someone like you, would know the answer to.
What are the exact steps (in the eyes of God) to when two NON believers are OFFICALLY married? (both were never married)
And what if the marriage is a sham like signing a marriage license with someone just to obtain a green card?
In this case, It was the woman who approached the man and asked him for help so that she can obtain a green card.
Does God consider them truly married (WHEN), they did NOT have ANY intentions of commitment to eachother in their hearts to eachother AND didn't exchange any vows, DID NOT have a wedding, NO witnesses, NO judge, OR pastor, NO ceromony what-so-ever but was ONLY required to fill out paper work and turn it in for a marriage license to obtain the green card.
Were they ever truly married in the sight of God even when their marriage ALL A SHAM to begin with?
Doesn't marriage start with a promise between two people and man and woman both whom want to be together forever through marriage and wedding ceremony, and the covenant begins at the end of the wedding but is official when they get into bed?
Of course they go through all the devorce papers sooner than later.
And so, Are they free to marry someone the RIGHT WAY with intent in the heart to be committed to someone forever and with wedding ceremony and everything?
That's my question, well questions. Lol sorry it's kinda long with a few questions pertaining to the same situation. I have many friends who have went through this, that's why. I was wondering if you knew the answer?
MY QUESTION TO YOU! *HAVE YOU BEEN DIVORCED? HAVE YOU BEEN IN SEPARATION?. IF NOT TRY ONCE AND SEE WHETHER WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT CAN BE APPLICABLE!*
You are wrong in many ways and this video is very loaded towards your eisegesis (the way YOU PERCIEVE/ASSUME what you are reading), egalitarian, and gynocentric society viewpoints. You are following a society’s viewpoint which tells you to study the Bible scriptures with a mindset of women and men gender roles are spiritually equal....I’m here to tell you in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ, they are not. God made man as the head on the Earth. I used to believe this same spiritual equality theory, because “society” has taught me to view the Bible from an egalitarian and eisegesis view. But when I learned to read the Bible from an EXEGESIS view (understanding the words in the Bible the way it is written), the mandates of God in marriage became so plain and clear....and I came out of society’s teaching matrix.
First of all, God does not see man and woman as being equal in all things...and especially when it comes to roles of spiritual authority in marriage. Marriage, all throughout the Holy Bible, scriptures are very detailed and GENDER specific. Marriage was made for the man. The wife’s main purposes are to be a HELPMEET for the man, to provide support, as he establishes the purpose of God here on the Earth, and to bare the husbands children....those are the woman’s primary and priority purposes in a marriage, which are to be an aide to her husband/bare children. There is no egalitarian spiritual equality in God’s gender roles for marriage...NONE. God made woman to be a helpmeet for the man, not man being a helpmeet for the woman. That primary purpose alone, coming from the voice of God, should tell you that men and women are NOT 100% equal in the eyes of God.
Now with that being said, the Holy Bible does allow a man whose wife left (divorced) him, to get another wife. But Christ Jesus stated, a divorced woman, under no circumstances, can ever get married, while the first husband is alive , without it being adultery. But for a man their is an exception for remarriage.
You are correct in pointing out the following factors:
1. If a man divorces (initiates divorce from) his wife, he can never remarry without it being adultery .
2. A woman who the husband (he initiates) divorce, can never remarry.
3. The woman (who initiates) divorce from her husband, she can never remarry
So as you can see. A man who divorces his wife and married another commits adultery. And the woman who divorces her husband and married another commits adultery. Either way, a divorced woman (under no circumstances) can ever get married while the first spouse is alive, without it being adultery.
But if a man is divorced by his wife (his wife initiate the divorce) decides to marry another, he is free to marry. There is no where in scripture that says otherwise. Because the woman was formed for the man and not the man formed for the woman. If you search the Scriptures using an exegesis point of view , you will see what I’m saying is very true. The Bible says that the woman is bound to the laws of her husband as long as her husband lives. It does not say that the man is bound to the laws of his wife as long as his wife shall live.
Victory Asher , your analysis of this issue will fall apart if from God' perspective---- man and woman are created equal but this is definitely not the case. So to add some dimension to what you said and to support your analysis ( I believe your analysis is the correct interpretation of what God expects from "us" ), I look at the results at what God did on this issue: -------
(1) re: Moses. There were some attempts of reconciliation by Moses' father in law and by the time they parted, the 1 st wife took the 2 sons with her and she left Moses. Numbers 12 then detailed this issue--- Moses remarried when the 1st wife was still alive. If Moses committed adultery, why would God back Moses on this issue when there was a dispute.
(2) re Abraham. Genesis 17 --- at 99 years old, God told Abraham: -- " I will make you exceedingly fruitful " " I will make you the father of a multitude of nations". (Impossible to produce children without having sex ) . Why would God encourage/ tell Abraham to have a lot of sex ( remember recorded in v.17 Abraham laughed ) after this . Genesis 25 detailed what happened-- by this time , Abraham had 6 sons and we don't know how many daughters. When Sarah died when Abraham was 136 years old, Sarah was not living with Abraham anymore. So Abraham remarried when Sarah was still alive. Why would God blessed Abraham when he was committing adultery ?????? . Thank you for your analysis and interpretation on this issue. Regards. Daniel CT Goh
I like your comment. But everything that God wanted to say, He said it. You dont find in the Bible “and the husband can remarried when the wife left him”.....if is not in the Bible, we can not assume that is the result. For the contrary, God calls the man to love his wife the same way Christ loves his church. Christ never remarries another church even when we leave him over and over and over. Even when the “unfaithful” “unbeliever” (so many translations) wants to leave, we have to let them go, because God tell us to be at peace. But doesn’t say “now you are free to remarry” . Corinthians also reads “and a man can not divorce his wife”, so if can not divorce his wife, obviously he can not remarried. I think everything boils down to “what God joined together, no man can separate”. Now, there is another study about “did God join my marriage?”......but again, boils down to what we promised God with our vows “and i will love this man/woman until death do us part”.....so, if i do less than death, im breaking my pact to God. Even if the other part broke his pact. And is better not to make a pact to God than breaking it. I’ve been studying for a long time this issue and im trying to find a loophole in this situation. Looking for the “innocent part” or “who left who”. But if I go deeper and deeper, I find more and more studies where is no innocent part and marriage is forever. There is a group of international pastors that there worried about the rate of divorces and remarriages inside the church. They are called Hosea Group (obviously for the story of Hosea and Gomer). They made videos and letters about marriage. That helped me understand a lot about why God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16. This is the link....I hope you can enjoy them...... th-cam.com/channels/xN7-jaU4JtzOHTsUrVKCwQ.html
roxan1974: In reference to your “if it’s not in the Bible, we cannot assume that is the result” statement, 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 KJV should sum it up for you. Read it and let me know what you think.
By the way, that whole chapter is gender specific (as I’ve said previously). Just like the rest of the scriptures in the Holy Bible concerning MDR. But read those two aforementioned verses. They specifically tell you if a man is loosed (divorced) by his wife, although it is suggested that a man does not get another wife (because of his freedom to serve the Lord without restrictions), he has not sinned if he marries another while his first wife is still alive. But nowhere in the Bible does it say the same thing for a divorced woman. It’s right there in the Bible, hidden in plain sight.
By the way, thank you for the video upload suggestion, I will check it out in its entirety (if I haven’t already done so). By the same token, I would like for you to do the same with these videos as well.
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Victory Asher I read three different versions of the same 1 Corinthians 7 27:28 (also in Spanish, im latina 😄) and on all of those reads instead of loose : unmarried, single, free....in spanish : libre.....only in KJV and ASV you can read the word loose....so, if we put together all those words, doenst read “divorce”, reads “single”.......i’ve been studying this topic for so long because im “Mike” in the video (without mixing the genders, im a woman) and im trying to look for a loophole for me, but there is no any. I have to stay alone. No second chances. It is hard and sad, for the ones who stays behind.
roxan1974: What are the versions you are reading and what version origin do you think your versions are getting them from? Get back with me on that and we can break them down. Thanks.
Most of the christians and pastor's won't accept that remarriage is adultery, at least all of them that i'v met and the last pastor prayed for me to meet and marry someone, I thought the same as these people untill a couple of years ago. . . . I have a husband already, but he is in an adulteres marriage, i am his covenant wife, and i love him very much, i would love for a reconcilliation.
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@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 , amen
Really good
Matthew 5 : 32, 19 :9 Jesus says to all married men : if Mike divorces his faithful wife then he marries another woman he commits adultery.
Except for his wife commited sex to another man.
Mike allows to divorce her bcz she has been defiled and separated from her marriage, she died against her marriage.
Mike is forbidden to take her back as his wife (compare to Deutr 24 : 4 )
Only man allows to remarry after divorced from his unfaithful and defiled wife, but he has to marry virgin woman or neverbeen married one.
But in 1 Corinthians 7 : 11 Lord commands to all married women : if a wife is divorced from husband (he is unfaithful, adultery, abusive ) Let her remain unmarried or reconciled to her husband.
a divorced woman does not allow to remarry, except her husband or ex husband dies, she is free to remarry another man she wants (Romans 7 : 2,3, 1 Corinthians 7 : 39)
Another man is not allowed to marry divorced woman bcs it's adulterous (Matthew 5 : 32b, Luke 16 : 18b )
No Exception for sex immorality or Fornication in Mark and Luke bcs they only wrote about Faithful wife
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Jacob married Lea first then he married Rachel, was he adultery? ? NO.... bcs he did not divorce Lea.
Then Jacob married Zilpa and Bilha. Was he adultery? ?? NO bcz he did not divorce Lea and Rachel.
He had four wife or he is in polygamy. Did it cause him sin? ??
Scripture never said that polygamy is sin.
Good job. I would only suggest eliminating the designation "ex" and using "husband" and "wife". Also, it is best to avoid "sexual immorality"; use "fornication" instead and explain the specificity of its Greek root "porneia".
Yes they can get married. There isn’t even anything in scripture that says it is a sin to marry a married man let alone a man divorced by his wife!
There are verses saying it is a sin for man to divorce his wife, a woman to divorce her husband and that it is sin to marry a divorced WOMAN. Nothing about it being a sin to marry a divorced man.
Pronouns matter
Or do you think it’s all gender neutral?
We follow the pronouns in the Old Testament. We need to apply the same logic and truth to the New Testament
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@@Jaylilo This is not new information; I don't find it in agreement with a careful historical study of Porneia nor in keeping with God's love and forgiveness.
@@donjohnson352 there is forgiveness for the wayward wife who was divorced even if the husband took another wife may return. We have forgotten that no where in the entire bible is polygany condemned or criticized. If you take that into consideration then you can plainly read Mathew 19:9 and realize it says what it means and it means what it says. Simple! Investigate and be free from Christian feminists who distort the scriptures! Amen for the glory of GOD ALMIGHTY!
@@Jaylilo we disagree.
Excellent explanation. Straight unbiased logical from the biblical perspective. It is indeed unfortunate that so many professing and declared practicing Christian, distort the explanation to justify the union of divorce Christian with the approval and consent of their Pastors as if he was God's representative approving the adulterous union.
God bless you. Continue to be faithful and obedient to the Lord Jesus until the end.
I have to say this video was very horrible. You did not fully explain Matthew 19:9 accurately.....
Matthew 19:9
“Except for sexual immorality“........there’s an exception if someone cheats then you are off and the bond is broken.....
Then you say “do you really want to go to hell for eternity????? “
Yuck such horrible teaching
A Christian cannot lose his/her salvation. The Bible is very clear that once we are SAVED we have eternal salvation. Not in less you’re trying to tell me you don’t believe in the word “ETERNAL” for its literal meaning???
This is truly horrible teaching.... This whole entire video ;you made the fallacy “begging the question” you assumed something to be true without even proving it .....
There’s so many fallacies in here I don’t know where to start
You must be willing to examine all scriptures relating to divorce and remarriage, without other men's influence or commentary. If you seek the truth on the matter, God will reveal it to you as you seek from a pure heart toward him.
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I agree.... The same thing could be said for those who believe in what this video is saying ....
They’re influenced by what other has said
Fornication.. The term is porneia. Fornication is not adultery... Try again.
Brother Grimaldus
Who were you addressing ?
The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. But when Jesus died on the cross, he caused the Jews to be dead to the law of Moses so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the law of Moses over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the whole law is no longer possible for those in Israel and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned by the unbeliever, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving permission to remarry do not understand the command, that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, is that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh in marriage puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
So, if a bad husband beats and abuses his wife and on top of that goes astray with other women, she has never a chance for a happier marriage with a better husband? Or the other way around? That is hard to hear and a recepy for many unhappy people.
Thank you and God bless you, Tami. Continue to be faithful and obedient to the Lord Jesus until the end.
The Bible speaks about separation but you got to think about it is it the first or the second husband that's the abuser because if you wasn't supposed to be married to the second husband then you opened yourself up for all kind of violence
All adulterers will dislike this message bc they want to justify their sin and stay in it. Remarried people are going to hell unless they repent and leave that sin. Yall will regret not listening to this message. But by then it will be too late. God will tell you depart from me I never knew you🔥🔥🔥
Because you are still reading it like a cliff notes version. You are making it gender neutral. When really both Jesus and Paul (by command of the Lord in verses 10-12 of I Cor 7) give gender differences!
Jesus lists:
A man who divorces his wife is in adultery if he remarries
And equally-
A woman who divorces her husband is in adultery if she remarries
But then he only says;
The man that marries a divorced WOMAN is in adultery
There is NO equivalent: “the woman who marries a divorced man”
Because there have always been differences regarding many sins in the Bible. (Like women not being able to teach men.)
Likewise, in I Corinthians 7 when Paul speaks by command of the Lord, he states gender differences! -
A woman is to remain unmarried or reconcile
A man is simply not to divorce
Two very different commands
If I file for divorce from an adulterous husband (ongoing, unrepentant, sent me away) but I remain single, have I sinned? I am struggling with the fact that *I* filed and not him, since it seems that women were not allowed to file.
If a man is not to divorce then how would he get married again to a new woman? In order for him to be eligible to marry another woman he would have to be divorced or I suppose have a polygamous marriage. Then there is the fact that marriage God's way is between ONE man and ONE woman so how would this work?
Is he a believer? For one, he is not pleased to dwell...
His might be the one that divorced him.
Technically the Bible never condemns a man having more than one wife. It simply doesn’t exist as a sin. However God’s best is always one man and one woman. And that includes marrying as virgins. So we can’t just pick and choose what to enforce.
But back to the question, technically a man can biblically have mire than one wife if he is not a leader. Paul tells us that
Typo: His wife might have divorced him
Amen
Asking for 2 colleagues (female). They were single and married Divorced men 8 yrs ago, whose wives already remarried.
Must they leave this second marriage? And if their partner’s 1st marriage is still valid, then is divorce permitted for the 2nd marriage, and they can remarry again since they were not the “real wives in God’s eyes,”. So they can find their approved husband? And is annulment or divorce of this 2nd marriage allowed by God? There is a verse in the Bible that God finds unAcceptable for the remarried husband to go back again to his former wife whom he has divorced and then has been widowed or divorced by a 2nd husband.. My friend is asking🙏🏻. Must she stay in the 2nd marriage or leave actually this present marriage-- and have another marriage?
Now, we must abide by and obey the commandment of the Lord Jesus. In the eyes of the Lord, a marriage is only valid if a never-before-married single man marries another never-before-married single woman. If one marries a divorced person, whose original, first-time spouse is still living, then one is entering into a union with another person's spouse, as far as God is concerned. If one remains in such union, regardless of how long he or she has been in it, such person is committing adultery. If the person were to die, then he (or she) would not see the kingdom of God. One would be dying in sin.
If you wish to repent and please the Lord, you must stop living is such adulterous union. You must leave the union and repent to the Lord. If reconciliation with your original spouse - the first spouse you ever married - is impossible, then the Word of God says to stay single. You must live holy if you wish to see God after you die. If you already brought children as the result of living in an adulterous "marriage," then, you are still responsible for them, spiritually, emotionally, financially, etc., because you are their parent. It will be very difficult, but at some point you would have to confess, repent to them and explained that you conceived them as the result of your sin of ignorance, but nonetheless, they are forever precious in the sight of God and that now you are repenting of the adulterous life you have had and that now you are turning from sin and living to please the Lord as a single person, living in obedience and in holiness in order to please God. You must do so with the wisdom. Sin always comes with a huge price, especially when children are brought into it.
God bless you and may His Holy Spirit guide you unto repentance.
So wrong! So unbiblical! So twisted!
@ 9:38, Matthew 5:32 Adultery is also turning away from your lover. The only way Mike can force his wife to commit adultery is to divorce her without sexual immorality grounds. Mike's forcing her to turn her love away from him, leaving her with no choice other than to find another lover (which then is adultery)!
BUT, if Mike's wife already turned her heart away from Mike, of her own choice, toward another lover, THEN Mike is not guilty of forcing adultery upon his wife because she did that herself. SHE is now guilty of adultery. And if she marries another, both she and the new lover are guilty of adultery. Matthew 5:32, Part "b" ONLY applies if Mike divorced wife without her first committing adultery.
As you said, God IS NOT illogical.
@ 10:40 Why is the new marriage adulterous? No, not because she's still married to Mike. That's your conjecture, not stated in the Bible! You said God considers ex-wife and Mike to still be married. But that completely contradicts and overrides Matthew 5:32 Part "a" that a divorce event happened. Mike PUT HER AWAY! So, they're no longer married. Remember, this is Jesus Christ Himself making this statement.
The new marriage is adulterous BECAUSE the new man married an adulterous woman. Mike's wife is the one who committed adultery. She's guilty of adultery. Mike divorced her on the grounds of adultery in accordance with Matthew 5:32. Mike's not guilty of anything. Mike's wife is guilty of adultery. Therefore, SHE and not Mike, is the adulterous person. So whoever marries Mike's now divorced adulterous wife also becomes an adulterer.
THAT'S Matthew 5:32.
There's more that's unbiblical about this, I just don't have time. This video IGNORES many other NT scriptures regarding marriage, and sin, and God's grace that it's impossible to address here.
And by the way, I am not divorced and remarried. I stand with God: I too, HATE divorce. But we can't twist God's truth and explain away things that are clearly written in the Bible. It's not necessary to browbeat people into obeying God's Word. Prayer, fasting and intercessory prayer avails much to the righteous. We don't need to use fear to move someone toward God or bring spouse back home. God's LOVE is greater than all fear!
Remarriage is adultery period.
Jesus Of Nazareth The Only True Living God... So a widow cannot remarry?
@@Genesisapple5 Not so.
The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. But when Jesus died on the cross, he caused the Jews to be dead to the law of Moses so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the law of Moses over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the whole law is no longer possible for those in Israel and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned by the unbeliever, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving permission to remarry do not understand the command, that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, is that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh in marriage puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
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Jesus Christ Himself said it clearly and plainly:
If anyone divorces their spouse FOR ANY REASON OTHER THAN adultery/infidelity, that person causes their divorced spouse to commit adultery.
Jesus Christ also made it abundantly clear that He HATES divorce. God and Jesus Christ PREFER the one spouse to forgive the adulterous spouse, so the marriage can continue! That's grace.
You can choose to accept what Jesus Christ said, from His own mouth, or not.
There's this guy courting me but he already has a kid but not married. He's a nice guy. I asked him why broke your previous relationship? He then told me that his ex partner left him then just informed him later on thru chat that they have a kid and blocked him. What should I do? Been praying for wisdom my mind and heart doesnt coincide. I like him but...this hinders my feelings for him
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Be careful, he could actually be married.
@@MrsYoung-in9ov yeah im looking to that possibility. I've already decided to not complicate things. Thanks!
If you are single and have never been married before, then - if you wish to please God - you must only marry another single, never-before-married man who obeys faithfully the Word of the Lord Jesus. Don't go by your feelings, but live as a faithful and obedient child of God.
You missed a lot of scriptures such as Deuteronomy that when the law of bill of divorcement was given and the woman was free to marry and in fact was an abomination to return to her first husband . These New Testament scriptures need to be read in light of the law of God to have better understanding. You also missed scripture about the unbelieving or (unfaithful) wanting to depart that you are no longer bound to that marriage. Please if you are going to give such a strong teaching that brings those who are already remarried back unto bondage at least be a little more exhaustive
This topic is really not easy
Following Jesus is not easy. That is why the Holy Spirit is here to help us, if we are willing and humble. Those who remain faithful and obedient to the Lord Jesus until the end will see Him after death.
If this be true, why doesn't God destroy this adulterous union?
He does more times than not. Most who remarry end up divorced again.
He gives rain to the just and the unjust
This is misleading at best.
Matthew 19: 9
9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immortality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Are you saying adultery was lawful under the Mosaic Law? See Deut 24:1-4.
Please I beg for you to reply so I know if I am doing the right thing. My now husband was divorced. They were not born again Christians. I am a born again Christian and got married to him. Is he still bound to his first wife? Please answer me.
According to the Bible , yes he is still married to her.