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  • A 31-year-old personal CEO and blogger living in the Financial District in NYC with an income of $150,000-$180,000 shows us what everything in her life costs.
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  • @adobemilligan
    @adobemilligan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3718

    She casually said “My rent is 9000 a month” and I literally screamed

    • @ayanomar1408
      @ayanomar1408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      adobemilligan my brain shut off after she said she has no savings?? I cant understand!!!

    • @hawihawi9260
      @hawihawi9260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      That's my yearly rent. She pays about 100k jst for rent! That's crazy

    • @sabatismail4727
      @sabatismail4727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOOOL

    • @NiaMSnow
      @NiaMSnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@ayanomar1408 omg!!! Mine did to. Made me believe, she lives paycheck to paycheck for sure

    • @marylynezenyi9692
      @marylynezenyi9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They split it, but dang!!

  • @brieferrara7
    @brieferrara7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6860

    I get reinvesting money but 180k a year and no savings... cmon

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      I make more money reinvesting back into my businesses and I also invest in other companies. I have investments and equity in other companies that will probably yield more than a savings account ever will for me. I'm ALL IN.

    • @asyasmith7370
      @asyasmith7370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      THB Marketing House what happens when all of that falls through?you dont have anything to fall back on

    • @pawsnotclaws2772
      @pawsnotclaws2772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Brie Ferrara I don’t get these people lol

    • @skyangelko
      @skyangelko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Hoping she has an roth ira and other non traditional savings....

    • @danyellhenrique
      @danyellhenrique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @jchc VV 2000 crisis, 2008 crisis, the next one is around the corner.

  • @msbockel
    @msbockel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    “In my 20s I struggled so much with finances” 30k in debt with no savings - YOU ARE STILL STRUGGLING.

    • @malakcanvas
      @malakcanvas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Still not too bad 😅. As long as there's money on had she's good. It killed me when she says "in my 30s". M'am you're only 31.

    • @carolannaitken5812
      @carolannaitken5812 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@malakcanvas She's in her early 30's

  • @technoandmemes5916
    @technoandmemes5916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    “I have $30,000 of debt... each month I repay $500”
    *2 minutes later*
    “I spend up to $1000 per month on shoes... I have about $30,000 worth of shoes”
    GURL?!

    • @callmeCANDID
      @callmeCANDID 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Techno and Memes 😂😂😂😂😂😂 GURL

    • @qazqaz3319
      @qazqaz3319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      she has about 3 differnt posters retailing for 30k each and a 49k ring yet girl is in duet?

    • @Frazier16
      @Frazier16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Plus she has 28k patings on her walls

    • @Frazier16
      @Frazier16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And over 40k in paintings

    • @saulgoodman2018
      @saulgoodman2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Personal and business expenses are 2 different things. You never mix the 2.

  • @TuMadre6995
    @TuMadre6995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2450

    she has more windows in her apartment than dollars in a savings account... i... ok

    • @milnalisdiese
      @milnalisdiese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And a ooooop

    • @kaycee376
      @kaycee376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you don't think she can sell her companies for money? why does her money have to go a savings account and just sit there when it can be used to help grow her companies?

    • @scarasluts
      @scarasluts 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kay Cee ..?

    • @yahijracastilloesteves8632
      @yahijracastilloesteves8632 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @valkyriealden4609
      @valkyriealden4609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too girlfriend

  • @divabonitaa
    @divabonitaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3926

    This video was amazing but also stressed me out... that income and no proper savings....

    • @terminologicalinexactitude
      @terminologicalinexactitude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      So much consumer waste. This lady has spent well over $11,000 on just random clothes and dust catching decor! These items honestly have little resale value/will almost always depreciate. Maybe if she spent her money more conscientiously, socking away savings wouldn't be such a stretch. (I'm looking at you $55 dog dish Lol)

    • @jessicanoble2801
      @jessicanoble2801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Terminological Inexactitude jealous much?! I mean come on

    • @lanasa265
      @lanasa265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Jessica Noble Why do you immediately assume that the comment was made out of jealously? It’s evident that this woman is living above her means, this kind of spending would be fine if she could afford it but based on her many defensive comments on the video she clearly can’t

    • @jessicanoble2801
      @jessicanoble2801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lana Sa why do you care? She made a open, honest video and is completely bashed for it. Even your comments are a joke. Everyone is so quick to judge. Jealousy is usually the number one culprit

    • @lanasa265
      @lanasa265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Jessica Noble Your comments are a joke. I am entitled to my opinion, if she doesn’t want to be critiqued than maybe she shouldn’t have posted this on TH-cam for all to see. I’m sharing MY opinion just like everyone else, if it bothers you so much maybe you should get off the internet. Not every negative comment is based on jealously.

  • @denizece3672
    @denizece3672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3815

    I'm 26, I make 36K a year and still have savings, what are these people doing?

    • @Cc-tp8tk
      @Cc-tp8tk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Deniz Ece 36k before or after taxes?

    • @morgansteward1359
      @morgansteward1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      The more you make, the more you spend.

    • @jackspencer9410
      @jackspencer9410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Trying to act rich....

    • @AA13494
      @AA13494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Same here, I make about 45-48k a year and still managed to save about 45% of my income that too in bay area. Not owning a car has made it possible. I use scoop and uber for my daily commute

    • @13cermaka
      @13cermaka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Girl, same!! In my assistant days when I made that in NYC I STILL managed to save. These people blow my mind!

  • @janetnjau9072
    @janetnjau9072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1023

    Her pjs are $299 but she doesn’t have savings and she’s still 30k in debt
    Big lol

    • @callmeosho7792
      @callmeosho7792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're wrong... her pjs were $299, they were 299 euros...

    • @mariagabbott
      @mariagabbott 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@callmeosho7792 even more of a LOL

  • @meddafour7289
    @meddafour7289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I think this is like if Carrie Bradshaw was 31 in 2019, this would be her video

  • @bria4561
    @bria4561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1028

    Her: I don't save traditionally
    Also Her: Me and my fiance keep our finances separated. Smart man!

    • @vturner
      @vturner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

    • @nicolek356
      @nicolek356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Haha, but then she relies on her fiance for finances a lot too

    • @AdrienneMint
      @AdrienneMint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Bria I really believe if the boyfriend ever leaves her, she could end up homeless. They are not married so if he leaves, she doesn’t get a settlement. No way she can pay the $9000 rent by herself. Instead of a pair of shoes a month, she should SAVE the 1000 a month for her own security.

    • @cayden3470
      @cayden3470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@AdrienneMint What settlement are you taking about? She's making her own money and their finances are seperate. She doesn't contribute anything to the mans income. You are not entitled to someones assets just because you're dating them. You must be tweakin.

    • @AdrienneMint
      @AdrienneMint 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cayden3470 I think you didn’t read the comment I made correctly. Read it again please. Also, this was around a year ago. I don’t remember much about it right now.

  • @beautybae7156
    @beautybae7156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1799

    You HAVE to save. You could lose everything tomorrow but will have nothing to lean on because you preferred to spend your money on irrelevant things. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @NickOloteo
      @NickOloteo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      She's hoping her man pays for everything

    • @irisxkae
      @irisxkae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Nick Oloteo exactly! But, what happens if they break up?

    • @NickOloteo
      @NickOloteo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@irisxkae she finally enters reality, maybe

    • @sunshinexoxo6107
      @sunshinexoxo6107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I'm saying! craaazy..She says she chooses to enjoy life. I hope she realizes that she can enjoy life even while setting something aside. Reinvesting is great. But what about an emergency fund? What about pension? What about a rainy day?? I hope she knows everyone wishes her well and we're just concerned. God forbid she and her fiance decide to part. What then?

    • @Ndasuunye
      @Ndasuunye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      she has a rich sugar daddy. Why should she bother to save. He's fronting her lifestyle.

  • @chasingdharmaify
    @chasingdharmaify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4001

    This is some stereotypical millennial nonsense right here. Girl, you need to pay off your debt and save.

    • @princessleah187xx4
      @princessleah187xx4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      This chick is honestly insane. I swear millennials all wanna live this Kardashian lifestyle on a Roseanne budget.

    • @anesnt6645
      @anesnt6645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@princessleah187xx4 Roseanne?

    • @eddyawesomes
      @eddyawesomes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      *white millennial.

    • @lindidee
      @lindidee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I get why she and her fiance have separate finances. He is her emergency fund.

    • @LittleMissSunshineHA
      @LittleMissSunshineHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      PrincessLeah187 xx lmao the average millenial BARELY HAS ANY MONEY TO SAVE

  • @ADF200
    @ADF200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1022

    Her lifestyle stresses me out. Sis you’re still struggling in your 30’s and are still irresponsible.

    • @Mf7d89
      @Mf7d89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hardly struggling. She also has a wealthy husband.

    • @_AriDay
      @_AriDay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Her fiance is wealthy, but just hope she gets a savings cause you never know

    • @deonrobinson1360
      @deonrobinson1360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They are making about half a million a year probably. You're struggle not her

    • @kaycee376
      @kaycee376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deonrobinson1360 more than that

    • @Naomi-rf1bl
      @Naomi-rf1bl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah when it comes to people opening up about their finances y'all are so quick to judge exactly what they're doing wrong... Sis you probably don't have room to talk, you're the one not making 180k per year...

  • @KasandraWilliams
    @KasandraWilliams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1702

    The rent alone stressed me out😖! The day I spend $7000 is the day I’m making Oprah money. That alone would cause me constant stress.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      My friend lives in an actual underground apartment and her front door hits the bed when it opens and it costs $2600 in manhattan... so... there’s that option if I wanted to save money there lol Trust me, it’s my least favorite thing about living here but living in this city and the opportunities it brings is really worth the sacrifice.

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @VS Until become homeless. She's blogger, that's not a real career. It's very uncertain. She needs to save some money for emergency or if her earnings go down.

    • @shinx6668
      @shinx6668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 are you actually trying?? theres so many cheaper options.. look! 2 bedroom new york city townhouse for $2,699/mo www.zillow.com/homedetails/2028-Madison-Ave-GARDENSOUT-New-York-NY-10035/2083271113_zpid/
      LOOK! more cheaper options! : www.zillow.com/homes/Manhattan-New-York-NY_rb/
      cheaper options for even 3 bedrooms..
      keep coping... the internet reveals all .

    • @MattSezer
      @MattSezer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@shinx6668 You don't get the full townhome for that price, and it's way up in Harlem. That's comparing apples to oranges. That being said, you could easily do cheaper than what she's doing.

    • @okaysoanyways2645
      @okaysoanyways2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 I really love how you're trying to sell this fantasy . Sweetheart there's more cities out there that give opportunities you don't have to live in a closet in order to get those opportunities. your friend played herself by getting that apartment in the first place

  • @dontesonline
    @dontesonline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    when this girl said i don’t save money bc i like to spend to enjoy my life ... okay clown

    • @CalabarSweetii
      @CalabarSweetii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's your salary, Donte?

    • @dontesonline
      @dontesonline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      CalabarSweetii minimum wage babe

    • @CalabarSweetii
      @CalabarSweetii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dontesonline ok. you are not authorized to call somebody a clown.

    • @dontesonline
      @dontesonline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      CalabarSweetii actually sis , I AM ! bc i make minimum wage & STILL SAVE 🤡

    • @d1492ay
      @d1492ay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@CalabarSweetii Just because she makes 180k, doesn't mean she is good with money. You can easily make twice that a year and be broke all the time if you are not careful. 180k isn't a high enough salary to keep up with her life style.

  • @helenadurst5993
    @helenadurst5993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    I did the math. She is spending more than 220.000 Dollars a year

    • @ayarimeriam4497
      @ayarimeriam4497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      witch is more than she makes .

    • @avianna8960
      @avianna8960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Not to say that she’s financially responsible, but maybe she bought some things over the course of several years (such as decorations?)

    • @helenadurst5993
      @helenadurst5993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@avianna8960 In my calculations I didnt include what she already owns, only the sums that are mentioned she spends every month/year on something

    • @mia_2794
      @mia_2794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      she also didn’t mention if somethings a business expense and if her “salary” is net of these expenses

    • @egaupinthisbitch
      @egaupinthisbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And this is why she's in debt

  • @crystalitzamarhernandezest6
    @crystalitzamarhernandezest6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2414

    I love these videos!!! buuuut I wish their were videos with doctor, dentists, and health care workers, not just business.

    • @oblivious0rebellion
      @oblivious0rebellion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      crystal hernandez estrada
      Exactly!! I thought they were going to do the whole spectrum! I’m sitting here waiting for the doctors, dentists, lawyers and first responders to appear and express their lives and income too!! 😒

    • @bdavis6450
      @bdavis6450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I agree. And just people with regular jobs

    • @mabelw7
      @mabelw7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      We r too busy to do these videos

    • @ohhireneexo
      @ohhireneexo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed !

    • @XKrystal
      @XKrystal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Doctors are too busy for these videos lol... too many patients but most importantly too much meaningless paperwork

  • @portraitsalt2143
    @portraitsalt2143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1220

    £9,000 A MONTH
    FOR RENT ALONE????
    SIS I-

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Google - apartments in Manhattan

    • @184rama
      @184rama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 i saw that a lot are less than $6000

    • @lanasa265
      @lanasa265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      ND G yeah I think $9000 is excessive. I get wanting to live in a nicer apartment but yeah. That’s ridiculous. She said she “tries not to think about it” I don’t understand why she doesn’t just get a cheaper apartment. Like you said, they exist. I feel like all these “influencers” try and live this luxurious life but it’s so excessive

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lanasa265 lol of course they exist and my fiance lived here before I moved in so I don't believe it was his "influencer lifestyle" that helped him choose this place. Please take a look at how much it costs to live here - streeteasy.com/for-rent/financial-district/beds:2%7Cbaths%3E=2

    • @nicolesmith9140
      @nicolesmith9140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right! That's crazy and she only makes $180,000. I get it New York is expensive but you can find something more affordable. It might not be your first choice but hey. God forbid they break up.

  • @Eddixon82
    @Eddixon82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    She makes good money but no savings. That’s scary.

    • @NickOloteo
      @NickOloteo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      180k in NYC is broke.

    • @leeklinglesmith3427
      @leeklinglesmith3427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@NickOloteo Not it's not.

    • @Ndasuunye
      @Ndasuunye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@NickOloteo that's so overblown. It's only broke status because people who make it to 6-figures blow it like they're millionaires. Nobody has a proper sense of money. Could live in LES, could not have a car, could have low cost health insurance, could invest and reinvest. But every story you hear about $100+k/yr being broke is the results of bad money habits. Gotta impress the girl or your friends.

    • @NickOloteo
      @NickOloteo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ndasuunye I'm saying 180k is broke relative to New York. Federal, State, and Local taxes will take over half your income, and if she didn't have a man subsidizing her rent she'd probably shell out 2-2.3k minimum a month on rent. Maybe a little less or a little more.

    • @Ndasuunye
      @Ndasuunye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@NickOloteo I know what your saying. I LIVE in NYC buddy. Even with taxes, you will not be broke. People just rapidly increase their cost of living when it doesn't need to be. I made $80K last year and still kept over half my income after taxes and living expenses.

  • @iamwindchakra
    @iamwindchakra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    $300-400 a week. A WEEK. ON GROCERIES. Girl.

    • @tiffanymargaret4644
      @tiffanymargaret4644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Ashleigh Sanders probably shops at Whole Foods 😂😂

    • @Angibbabee
      @Angibbabee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashleigh Sanders Idgi either. HOW?!

    • @ANonyMouse627
      @ANonyMouse627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      well, part of that is eating out at restaurants

    • @SingleLuxury
      @SingleLuxury 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feed my family of 5 with less than that weekly and that includes diapers

    • @cheesecakesmellsgood
      @cheesecakesmellsgood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She buys packed salad leaves, carrots etc. Imagine the cost, let alone waste of plastic.. She really isn't that smart lol.

  • @tammyesco
    @tammyesco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    Is it just me or do the numbers not add up??

    • @ayarimeriam4497
      @ayarimeriam4497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      she spends 220 k a year.

    • @UNYQUE707
      @UNYQUE707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Def does not add up. I’m assuming the fiance pays the difference.

    • @verav2728
      @verav2728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lies 👍😏

    • @tammyesco
      @tammyesco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@verav2728 yup!!

    • @kristinrodriguezrealtordmv3434
      @kristinrodriguezrealtordmv3434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's definitely not adding up!

  • @jenvega8070
    @jenvega8070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    This is a joke. Her fiancé should be the one being interviewed, not her. She privileged by him. I want to have his point of view not hers. Thank you

    • @siya4ful
      @siya4ful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Allyson Fournier it’s not hard to find out who he is, and he is very wealthy. Not saying that that means he’s responsible, but established wealthy people are generally a lot better with money than “new money” rich ppl, aka rich millennial s.

    • @99brammero.z.11
      @99brammero.z.11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@allysoncaron8405 Did you not see the the ring on her finger that said "GIFT" (49K). She's having a sugar daddy called hubby.

    • @mariyadikova
      @mariyadikova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      God forbid a guy wants to provide for his woman 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @homodeus8713
      @homodeus8713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jen Vega He's letting a woman pay his bills

    • @kaycee376
      @kaycee376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @jchc VV $180k plus owner of several businesses that she can sell is definitely financially independent.

  • @Lenaturnsgreen
    @Lenaturnsgreen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When I saw she spends 9K on rent alone I assumed she makes 180K a month, not a year! Now I know why her boyfriend wants to keep his money to himself and not share a bank account ...

  • @HB-rr4ht
    @HB-rr4ht 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I’m happy that they’re showing someone with no savings or without a squeaky clean financial situation. It’s honest. Thanks Glamour! 💕 love these!

    • @ArminIsKobe
      @ArminIsKobe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Its sad and stupid.

    • @francie9239
      @francie9239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      really? this is probably the least relatable video I've ever seen lol

    • @SJ-qd7hm
      @SJ-qd7hm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@francie9239 But why would you click on a video about a person making a $180,000 salary with an expectation it would be relatable to a common person? Regardless of whether or not you agree with her financial decisions, these videos are simply meant to be a realistic portrayal of how people amongst a range of incomes spend.

    • @frannypie.
      @frannypie. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      thank GOD for a positive and mature comment among this swamp of salt lol jesus

    • @iriemonmon
      @iriemonmon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@frannypie. Trust me... we're not salty. This is atrocious.

  • @orchidsixtyfour
    @orchidsixtyfour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    She is called a "personal blogger," but what she really is is a spokesperson/salesperson. I wish the video didn't label the products that she receives to incentivize positive exposure in social media "gifts." Gifts are something people give for social reasons. These are business transactions in which she gets something in exchange for promoting the items. It's worth noting that such items are taxable on their fair market value as income. If she's not declaring their value (and I bet she isn't), she's inviting a future tax problem. Nothing is truly "free," whether it's labeled as a "gift" or not, in these transactional relationships. Since she doesn't save any money, an audit would be a huge problem for her.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      As you saw, we didn’t cover taxes, which is very complicated as you’ve stated for the type of business that I do. The term in the industry is actually “gifted” not “gifts” and they are recognized as income in my accounting.

    • @ladym4209
      @ladym4209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      THB Marketing House I like how you are actually here responding comments. It’s a WOW to see your life style. Everyone has her own experience with financials, but not so many people can be open and listen to disagreement. Respect for that! It would be VERY interesting if you post on TH-cam about your business. I will definitely watch it.

    • @itsamodernmess
      @itsamodernmess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THB Marketing House I would love it if you could expand on that “gifted income”... Does that increase your taxes excepting gifts? Is this a downside to “influencing”?

    • @dominiquefriday9509
      @dominiquefriday9509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wasn’t her engagement ring marked as gift too? It’s not that deep, just means she didn’t pay out of pocket for it.

    • @ahumanaperson
      @ahumanaperson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This video made me realise that in order to be a successful salesperson you have to be irresponsible/ delusional with money. Which is why I hate dealing with customers “yes the dress is nice Sharon but you just said you have two like it, don’t like the length, can’t afford lunch and don’t have an event to wear it to but since you want to be an idiot, sure buy it.” I need a different job

  • @Maria89_
    @Maria89_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    She makes a lot even for NYC and has a rich bf. Save even a little geez

    • @user-sx6eu4rg2x
      @user-sx6eu4rg2x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly...imagine if they break up...what is she going to do with no backup

  • @kadiren11
    @kadiren11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    She’s leads an incredibly beautiful yet financially stressful life

  • @hkjennylee
    @hkjennylee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    can you please do a money tour with a recently graduated graduate student?! that would be super interesting!! (preferably medical school)

    • @itsamodernmess
      @itsamodernmess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jenny Lee or a psychologist! PhD preferably! With Private practice costs...

    • @TheBohodiva
      @TheBohodiva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Or law school

    • @Livluvdance1404
      @Livluvdance1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes please!

  • @ThisIsTechToday
    @ThisIsTechToday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    Grahams going to be pissed about that coffee, lol
    Scratch that, BOTH GRAHAM AND I ARE PISSED THAT YOU DON'T SAVE WTHHHHHHH!
    This is a freaking disaster.

    • @radhikapatil1986
      @radhikapatil1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Who's Graham?

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Saving is relative in my situation, I do not have a proper savings plan but I don’t get a steady paycheck as I am self employed. So, some months I make a lot of money and then I can go three months without making any money so I have money “saved” so I can operate my business and live. I just don’t have a proper savings account and savings plan. I’ve also invested a lot of my money back into my business and other businesses which I value as a part of my savings and my future.

    • @ThisIsTechToday
      @ThisIsTechToday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 I have my own business and I still save, invest, and can afford to buy a house in Los Angeles. You are just choosing to invest in the now and on items you find value in now, but you lose sight of what happens if your business ends tomorrow. If your business income is inconsistent, you need to budget as if you won't have it again the next day and ever again. That's the reality of owning your own business. You have very little backup plan which is terrifying.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have equity in other businesses and I’m really not that big of an idiot with my spending, it’s a little more than what is shown here but thanks for the concern.

    • @brieferrara7
      @brieferrara7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Graham is the man

  • @alliepcalderon
    @alliepcalderon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    HER: "my rent is $9K"
    me: *died of a WTF attack"
    lmao

  • @stephaniewaring7209
    @stephaniewaring7209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I was flabbergasted within the first minute. 9k for rent🤯🤯

  • @brittney1950
    @brittney1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    no savings account on her salary?? 🙄. Come on lady!! Winning as the CEO also
    Means having the emergency savings account & 401k. Lower that debt. Sell the shoes!!!
    Graham please react to this video!

    • @kaycee376
      @kaycee376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      isn't the equity in her companies her savings account though? why does it have to be in a savings account making almost zero interest?

    • @brittney1950
      @brittney1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kay Cee she can place her money in a high yield savings account (2.00% apy and above ) . Most savings accounts these days do not have a zero interest rate.

    • @namratapai3021
      @namratapai3021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe because she depends on her fiancé ?? Like I think she knows he will save her if she falls into debt or sumn?

  • @jujubees
    @jujubees 4 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    A blogger makes up to 180K. I don't think teachers make half that. Let that sink in...

    • @gwendalynnalvarado8277
      @gwendalynnalvarado8277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Julie IK it’s ridiculous

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I don’t make 180k blogging, I own a marketing agency 👂🏼

    • @jujubees
      @jujubees 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@gwendalynnalvarado8277 Especially since "influencers" are the cancer of society

    • @gwendalynnalvarado8277
      @gwendalynnalvarado8277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      THB Marketing House are you the lady in the video?

    • @prabhsangha1639
      @prabhsangha1639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      But she's a CEO too 😂

  • @sa5624
    @sa5624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    This is so concerning. Shes so smart that she has been able to build multiple businesses. BUT how can you not have savings or a safety net with that income especially when you get fashion items for free. Also she could get rid of that debt in a year easily. This is really irresponsible, just hoping that everything keeps going good for her so she can sustain this. Glad shes trying to change tho!

    • @frannypie.
      @frannypie. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      she's aware of her mistakes and how reckless she's being which is the first step! i loved this video cuz most of us have been in the "feast or famine" lifestyle as she put it and she's honest enough to admit it so i can see some progress for her soon :)

    • @monteaenglishbr
      @monteaenglishbr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y’all she has a super rich fiancé. He would bail her out. Like any good man would do for the financially irresponsible one he loves ❤️

    • @carnival30
      @carnival30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@monteaenglishbr he’s not a man that’s gonna bail her out. He is a mega millionaire and has her paying half the rent all the subscriptions and all the groceries. Financially she is on her own and not because he can’t help but because he just doesn’t want to.

  • @accord215
    @accord215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    This video is nothing more than a 10min flex on how amazing her life is....love that they had to spotlight her 50K engagement ring...what happened to humble brags. Can't wait to see what Graham has to say about this.

    • @frannypie.
      @frannypie. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they spotlit all the gifts but go off lol

    • @erinwilliams3351
      @erinwilliams3351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omar O I might be a bit...late or something but who is graham?

    • @thisyearsgrl88
      @thisyearsgrl88 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erinwilliams3351 Graham Stephan. He's great!

  • @benlewis7499
    @benlewis7499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    Her: 'I don't actually spend a lot on clothes'.
    Me: sees $200 trousers... 'wtf'

    • @yahlitzahernandez8785
      @yahlitzahernandez8785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think maybe they are gifted to her by companies, that way she can recommend them to her readers.

    • @ayarimeriam4497
      @ayarimeriam4497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yahlitzahernandez8785 if it is a gift they would say it is

    • @nnankebassey
      @nnankebassey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i just got a 7 dollar Tommy Hilfiger jeans at the thrift store and this 200 dollars jean killed me

    • @SK-mr6ov
      @SK-mr6ov 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ayari meriam sugar daddy

    • @DearDesCo
      @DearDesCo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or the $650 sandals !!! Like dude....

  • @ShanaGreen
    @ShanaGreen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    $30K of debt on $150k income, but only paying $500/mo. I paid $20k plus of debt in one year with half her income. She needs to watch my videos on budgeting! $9,000 for rent? Only 2 bedrooms at that? Wow! She said she relies on her fiancé financially but she makes $150k. I wonder what’s his income?

    • @chaz3196
      @chaz3196 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probs a lot

    • @korinaordaz9609
      @korinaordaz9609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed! I just subscribed to you! Looking forwards to watching your videos.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed!!! I’ve never had a positive relationship with budgeting... looking for tips!

    • @korinaordaz9609
      @korinaordaz9609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And no savings at all 😩 whyyyy!!?

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THB Marketing House
      Saving is relative in my situation, I do not have a proper savings plan but I don’t get a steady paycheck as I am self employed. So, some months I make a lot of money and then I can go three months without making any money so I have money “saved” so I can operate my business and live. I just don’t have a proper savings account and savings plan. I’ve also invested a lot of my money back into my business and other businesses which I value as a part of my savings and my future financial plan.

  • @asliyase
    @asliyase 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    No savings was the most shockşng part

  • @emmyems5171
    @emmyems5171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    The apartment was amazing but Penny stole the show ☺️

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      always

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 Your house is amazing. I admire that you followed your passion. You need to save for emergencies and the future. I still have a lot respect for what you have done at 31.

  • @Sindee209
    @Sindee209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Did she say $9k per month on rent?! And no savings?! I’m getting anxiety for her 🥴

  • @User-to7nb
    @User-to7nb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    Waiting for graham to react
    . .
    -

  • @FSAbu
    @FSAbu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I had to rewind that $776 for bed covers part. Phew 😅 what a life! So many things in this video I can’t even 😶

    • @user-yo3io3nt3f
      @user-yo3io3nt3f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s rent money 😂😂😂😂

  • @emmamartin514
    @emmamartin514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She's living like a multi-millionaire out here

    • @knowyourkismat
      @knowyourkismat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because her fiancé is one

  • @vedasardeshpande123
    @vedasardeshpande123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    30k debt but 30k worth of shoes?? Oh come on ! 🤦‍♀️

    • @Rubarb84
      @Rubarb84 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veda Sardeshpande sell those shoes and pay off that debt.

  • @heatherwiniger
    @heatherwiniger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    This stresses me out. I can’t fathom these expenses and that salary, but no savings?! I suddenly feel so much better about my less than $35,000 income. 😳

    • @paulaaquino5847
      @paulaaquino5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      no savings....and a debt good lawd

  • @JessicaLeichter
    @JessicaLeichter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    She is spending $700/week on food. $2,800 a month! That's more than my entire paycheck!

    • @alannahhill2684
      @alannahhill2684 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Leichter that really shocked me too...

    • @melvina628
      @melvina628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      7:37 Where does it say 700?

  • @Whatsyourproblem99
    @Whatsyourproblem99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    180k as a ceo isn’t really a lot of money. There’s a lot of jobs she could do and still make this amount

    • @Charlotte-bv6hl
      @Charlotte-bv6hl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Posh Spice like a corporate lawyer

  • @rileyj5491
    @rileyj5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Her favorite hobby is decorating, yet her apartment couldn't more impersonal...I'm freezing just looking at it.

    • @Ndasuunye
      @Ndasuunye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PennyWise-eu9nz eh I love it. Because when the truly poor become the truly wealthy and stay responsible, the entitled will crash and burn and it's fun to see their ego deflated a lot.

    • @okaysoanyways2645
      @okaysoanyways2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Her apartment just gave me " I'm trying my best to live the Instagram life"

    • @robo9876
      @robo9876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's called she basic

    • @brunofbneto
      @brunofbneto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It could be any instagrammer apartment. Not a book she read on sight. No old object, no hobbies. It's sad in my opinion.

  • @maggie6078
    @maggie6078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    her fiancé literally met the pope, she doesn’t have to worry about money.

    • @Thtisha22234
      @Thtisha22234 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maggie who is she?

    • @makayladotts7694
      @makayladotts7694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kaptivating Kesha Alyssa Melendez

    • @brunofbneto
      @brunofbneto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can't expect to be married until you die in this century

    • @carnival30
      @carnival30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t understand how people are saying this. It is clear she’s financially on her own. Her husband met the pope but yet he has for paying half the rent.

  • @aishwaryanatesh5563
    @aishwaryanatesh5563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This was a very honest and interesting video to watch. Opening up about her grays in financial choices was very brave on the lady’s part.

  • @sfab5039
    @sfab5039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This is Alyssa melendez. Her fiancé is crazy rich.

    • @demon66685
      @demon66685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea no surprise.

    • @puellaenaturalioasis
      @puellaenaturalioasis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks!

    • @leilakennedy7736
      @leilakennedy7736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      SD W ahh, thank you. I was like, what is this blogging business she’s talking about? She’s an influencer selling a lifestyle she can’t afford.

    • @rachellaine4904
      @rachellaine4904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Insta: thehautebrunette

    • @scoobie8amg
      @scoobie8amg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I just looked her up. She looks way older than 31.

  • @madgyal
    @madgyal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    However one may feel about her spending habits, this was still a great video. I like it because it was so honest.

    • @personallyjoua
      @personallyjoua 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      JovannaNicole yes I appreciate the honesty of her blogging life...it painted the hard truth: no matter how much money you make, gotta manage it right (401k, savings, emergency fund, in addition to investing)

  • @ScreamingAirborne
    @ScreamingAirborne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Says she has “I have 30K in personal debt” like it’s nothing
    Me: 😭😭😭 I have 10K in personal debt. My soul left for a moment when I heard that.

  • @adamseddon1847
    @adamseddon1847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    *how this blogger and rich husband spend their massive salaries

    • @okaysoanyways2645
      @okaysoanyways2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And I love how she tries to say that she's independent but let's be honest her sugar daddy is what's keeping her afloat

  • @denverelle
    @denverelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a perfect example that everything you see on IG isn’t always what it seems- it’s about perception.

  • @carriebrown2108
    @carriebrown2108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “My dog prefers elk antlers” 🙄 somehow this is the least ridiculous thing she’s said the whole interview

  • @thelifepouredout
    @thelifepouredout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "my rent is about nine thousand dollars a mo--"
    skip

  • @ibissantos9832
    @ibissantos9832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love the raw and sincerity i felt while hearing her talking about her struggles and success. I think is very important to hear more stories like hers. Success is never a straight-upwards line that could only happen in a "perfect world". I like that she talked about the "quitting" thoughts that sometimes crosses her mind because we all have those; but that even then she decide to continue her journey. that shows character. I like her and would love to hear more.

  • @rosedouge2955
    @rosedouge2955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's refreshing to see such a successful businesswoman talking about her struggles and debt. Nobody is Perfect.

  • @emziegirl1977
    @emziegirl1977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this format, it's a fun way to hear what other people are doing with their money. Thank u Glamour 👍

  • @budgetkat6022
    @budgetkat6022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Sipping my tea, waiting for Graham.

  • @claudiahazlewood511
    @claudiahazlewood511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She literally needs to get it together!!! $9000 in rent is more than 3 mortgages !!!

    • @anesnt6645
      @anesnt6645 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      u are talking about NY!!!

    • @ellax325
      @ellax325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@anesnt6645 I live in New York and the average for a NICE 2bd2bth is $4000 grand. $9000 for an apartment and it isn't even a condo is ridiculous.

    • @teneisharobinson9423
      @teneisharobinson9423 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her fiance had this apartment already. She moved in and assumed half the rent.

    • @okaysoanyways2645
      @okaysoanyways2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@teneisharobinson9423 which makes the situation even more sad because it shows how dependent she is even though she tried so hard in the video to prove that she's independent

    • @michelleandreya7208
      @michelleandreya7208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@okaysoanyways2645 my thought exactly

  • @Jule03747
    @Jule03747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "I don't save money traditionally" lmao

  • @ashleyhoffarth3389
    @ashleyhoffarth3389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love how honest you were..i hope you learn to save and have a blessed life

  • @TJ-tb2ky
    @TJ-tb2ky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Ha apartment decent asl but 9000 a month wild asl

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      NYC is very expensive

    • @paulaaquino5847
      @paulaaquino5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Nope, getting that apartment is just beyond her means lol she should get a 2500-3k at best

    • @betelasfaha3640
      @betelasfaha3640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      chicago

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They live in FIDI. Depending on neighborhoods, the prices vary but this apartment is tip top.

    • @princessleah187xx4
      @princessleah187xx4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 for a couple plus a tiny dog you don't need a 1200 sq ft 2 bedroom apartment. You can't live a Kardashian lifestyle on a Roseanne budget.

  • @FunandBudget
    @FunandBudget 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Wait - I make about the same income as her and something is not adding up. She hasn't mentioned taxes. But at this rate it looks like she spends every single penny she gets in (I did the math compared to my own budget) to include some of the money she should be setting aside for taxes (and I didn't even deduct the $6K in inventory because I'm assuming she recoups in throughout the month otherwise she'd be in the hole according to my calculations). This is a little scary. Love her apartment tho.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Income / business expenses are two different pools of money which wasn’t mentioned in the video and figured that would be a question. The amount that I mention for business expenses is not coming out of my “income”.
      Those are business expenses that come out of my business accounts, not personal. Additionally the interview was over an hour and this was condensed into a few minutes so it’s very difficult to break down the ins and outs of multiple business in a short conversation 💕

    • @FunandBudget
      @FunandBudget 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 totally understand...so I didn't deduct the business expenses but it still seemed the numbers were very tight. But I did mention how much I love your decor tho...so dope 🙂

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you! My reply was really just for everyone reading. I overspend, not ashamed to admit it. It was a very long interview and I wish we could have included more of it! I did add a piece about how I will be changing my ways to set google examples for my children, but for my now I’m still young and want to enjoy the fruits of my labor even if it is seemingly irresponsible.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good*

    • @aberdeen0107
      @aberdeen0107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Cerulean Blue wow how about you don’t tell people how to live their life? And 31 is pretty young in todays standard

  • @itsonlyme271
    @itsonlyme271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the honesty

  • @CaptainKMorganx
    @CaptainKMorganx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's TheHauteBrunette if anyone wants to see what she does with all the money she isn't saving lmao

  • @rubymars5493
    @rubymars5493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Wow it’s nice not to stressing about money 💰

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am actually very stressed about money all the time, little snippets of someone’s life can be difficult to fully understand the real picture. Nothing in life came easy for me, I don’t get a steady paycheck and even though I have a fiancé that helps pay my living expenses I support myself 100% and I own 3 companies to make that happen. I love every minute of it, but it’s no walk in the park.

    • @lanasa265
      @lanasa265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      THB Marketing House if you’re that stressed about money...find a cheaper place in NYC (they exist)... find cheaper alternatives to Whole foods...sell some of your shoes...etc. You don’t need the best of the best all of the time. This is just so excessive.

    • @meaghanwood1844
      @meaghanwood1844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THB Marketing House I cant imagine how hard it is for people to critique you like this. I’m interested in personal finance but few are perfect. Your dog is adorable and I hope you don’t read these comments too much and stress. ♥️

    • @ItsNickFox
      @ItsNickFox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@meaghanwood1844 Math is not a critique, it's fact. It's not subject to opinion. These are her own numbers.

    • @meaghanwood1844
      @meaghanwood1844 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nick Fox true, but if she wants actual advice maybe she can just wait until Graham’s video? I saw her responding to the harsher comments about her and I’m worried that’s not healthy for her. 🙂 I don’t expect everyone to be as crazy as I am about a budget but she’s doing better than most millennials right? 😅

  • @TheBemused
    @TheBemused 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    3:18 That engagement ring cost though 😩

    • @vee9043
      @vee9043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thats what I noticed omg!

    • @Rubarb84
      @Rubarb84 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Bemused: Making Sense of Money 💰 more than I make in a year.😭😭😭

  • @JermaineDemetrius
    @JermaineDemetrius 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely LOVED this!!

  • @LaviniaCS18
    @LaviniaCS18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Her flat is very beautifully decorated. I have seen many expensive apartments and interiors but she really does make it look amazing and luxurious in a more intelligent way, like a connoisseur. So much attention to detail too. She is a clever girl but is not at the point where she can say that she is completely financially responsible. I hope she reads these comments and takes the advice to start saving and making herself more financially independent to match her lifestyle expenses.

  • @2000nc
    @2000nc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    wakes up at 10 am but makes 180k a year? ok teach me

    • @hansmueller3145
      @hansmueller3145 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You better dont listen...she is overspending every month BIG WAY🙈

    • @2000nc
      @2000nc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hansmueller3145 hahaha true

    • @joyebriggs
      @joyebriggs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She blogs for a living so she is not on a time clock.

  • @domiee05
    @domiee05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “its a blonde thing” that her mindset guys

  • @christinam81
    @christinam81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Oh the irony to be living in the Financial District 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @francescal.badaro3944
    @francescal.badaro3944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    why is nobody talking about her dressing up her dog??is THE BEST part of the role video

  • @gilbertnicholas1582
    @gilbertnicholas1582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She's basically broke Her very successful fiance should expect a divorce in his future

  • @area51alien43
    @area51alien43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Who else loves this channel?
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  • @butterbrown100
    @butterbrown100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t believe I I stayed this long and listened to this video 😂😂 she literally said she’s financially irresponsible

  • @alliec3483
    @alliec3483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Feast or Famine” .... this was such an honest interview. kudos!

  • @SuperSamijr
    @SuperSamijr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I feel like she should understand the importance of saving because unexpected things happen all the time. Someone could get sick, your business could fail, or the San Diego thing could happen again and you could have more debt. I don’t know she can do whatever she wants but that kind of stresses me out.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mentioned that I don’t save traditionally - there are things in place to help me get through life’s pitfalls so that I don’t fall into the same hole I did before but they don’t include a traditional savings account. I have emergency resources and I’ve also built 3 different businesses to protect me in case one or even two of them fail. Not for nothing, it does help that I have a partner that can pick up the slack if there is ever an emergency.

    • @lanasa265
      @lanasa265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YoshiPeach Mario yeah having a partner as a safety net is the worst financial plan ever.

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lanasa265 He's not.

    • @SJ-qd7hm
      @SJ-qd7hm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thbmarketinghouse1443 I'm sorry that people are being so harsh on you. I do believe that some of their advice is worth taking though. A savings account is something that is universally recommended by financial advisors, regardless of the net worth of the assets/businesses you own. If you ever want to learn more about managing finance, I've found r/personalfinance to be an invaluable resource.

  • @elanacarter1787
    @elanacarter1787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    180k in New York City is REALLY not a big deal.

    • @palmshoot
      @palmshoot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's more than thrice the city's median, which is $50,711.

  • @CassieDePecol
    @CassieDePecol 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her IG: instagram.com/thehautebrunette/
    instagram.com/cassiedepecol

  • @kriscshops4580
    @kriscshops4580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How are you going to say you are financially independent and dependent on your fiancé to live in the apartment in the same sentence? 🤔

  • @Isaac2.
    @Isaac2. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn’t expect her to have a Supreme phone case lol 😂

  • @LucielleSalomon
    @LucielleSalomon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loved your honesty, girl! It takes a lot to do this. I enjoyed the video.

  • @vidyakrishnan4542
    @vidyakrishnan4542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this ! More please !

  • @aliyaanderson
    @aliyaanderson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This girl is living my goal life , thank you for a motivation. 💗

  • @scareglare
    @scareglare 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is a good example of what not to do with your money, at whatever income. Good lesson learned.

  • @eimearoflaherty9242
    @eimearoflaherty9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Bet she’s sorry now, no savings to buffer her in the imminent recession.

  • @beatricelim1545
    @beatricelim1545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Graham’s gotta see this & post that reaction video ASAP

  • @autumnkim2756
    @autumnkim2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "500-900 dollars on shoes...1000 is my limit..." SISSSSSSSSSSSS...just looking at 30 dollar shoes make my eyes water...X'D

  • @investary0
    @investary0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    this is unbelievably sad

    • @aaliya5996
      @aaliya5996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      investary0 why? Because she has enough money to spend it how she wants to?

    • @investary0
      @investary0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      shes making great money but she is spending way beyond her means. apartment cost, 30k worth of shoes and no savings plan

    • @thbmarketinghouse1443
      @thbmarketinghouse1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But I’ll be wearing really pretty shoes in my grave

    • @aquagamer1212
      @aquagamer1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      THB Marketing House That’s a mood 💙

  • @nivedlaxsea8114
    @nivedlaxsea8114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Kind of tacky to include the retail cost of her engagement ring...

  • @lulun3724
    @lulun3724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Rent is super high, no savings ???
    $ 180k is really good money, should probably invest in buying a condo or house

  • @sa5624
    @sa5624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Glamour is where its at Graham!!! Those CNBC videos are really tame compared to these.

  • @AmoraLili
    @AmoraLili 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Graham is gonna love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Bee_Mari
      @Bee_Mari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      EverythingWith Lili who is this GRAHAM!!!?

    • @reenavalecha159
      @reenavalecha159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Bee_Mari Stephen Graham.. he reacts to such videos. Look him up. He is amazing.

    • @SouthernSara23
      @SouthernSara23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I came here to anticipate what Graham was going to say too! Haha

    • @itsamodernmess
      @itsamodernmess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He deleted his video reacting to this video!! Did anyone catch why?

    • @mohamedabdourahman9845
      @mohamedabdourahman9845 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsamodernmess th-cam.com/video/zFz201eKTB0/w-d-xo.html just watched this today

  • @screwcollege8474
    @screwcollege8474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Who’s here after Graham Stephan’s video?

  • @curiouse
    @curiouse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    making $180k a year. no saving.
    have debt $30k, paying $500 a month.
    i don't understand!

    • @vv-fd7dv
      @vv-fd7dv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This woman is ridiculous.

  • @camshannon7952
    @camshannon7952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People are tearing her apart!! Look at the positives people omg.