Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked. Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it! James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them. The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money. Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon. There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually... Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender. 🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain. Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain. And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice. Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked. Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . . Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
"Then, before you get into a relationship, you gonna have to go on you a 3-day fast and be praying and be silent, and be listening to God to hear from God." TG
EVERY single thing Tony has said is 💯 true for me! I sent a break up text to a clown who I knew wasn't right for me. He immediately called me and convinced me to give 'the relationship' another chance, HUGE mistake! Next time I break up with another dude via text I'm immediately blocking him! I value my peace and sanity ✌🏾👋🏾
Dating is super hard these days because a lot of men are looking for help, not mature, or running the streets…I’m 35 & have almost just given up. I feel like majority of the good men are taken or stay in the house.
Wow I needed this. I stopped going on dates bc I felt as if it was a bad thing for me as a woman to go on dates with multiple men. Even though I didn’t sleep with them, I still felt weird bc of how society portrays women who do that. I’m no longer going to hold myself to that & start living life for me. Thanks Tony!
Forget them, they just don’t want us to exercise our options. When I was dating, I multi-dated a lot, even in the same day lol Breakfast dates, lunch dates, dinner dates. That doesn’t mean sex. And there was no one to judge me because no one knew my business. It’s ok to date around and see what’s good for us. I’m newly single, and when I’m ready, I will be back to multi-dating while excluding sex☺️
I had two dates with a dude in a restaurant and that was all. He was not my type, I was not his type, so we never dated again. My cousin, who was divorced three times, because she was cheating on her husbands, assumed that I was sleeping with the dude. I come to understand that because she was sleeping with people she went on dates, she assumed that everyone else was doing what she was doing. So her perspective tells more about her, than about the people she is talking about. We should learn to not assume that everyone is like us...
Had this happened to me only I was 18 and the woman was like 50 I’m like just because you sleep with everyone who says hi to you doesn’t mean everyone does the same…
@@shutit4024 Yes. They assume that what they do, is what everyone else does. But in their case is justified, while we, the others, should be ashamed. 😅. I was a little bit older than you then, 20 and this woman in her late 30s.
I’m glad Tony did a video on this, people using the word dating these days mean so many things. I’m glad to know that dating different people at once is not a bad thing for a female. Because that’s exactly what I did, I’m not the type to put all my eggs in one basket. However, when I went on these dates I went home to my bed or got ready to go on another date 😝. I don’t regret it at all and I had fun doing this and I felt free to explore my options. Now I’m married with 2 boys and when they start going on dates I won’t them to have the same experience.
See Leelee you said the keyword options!!!! Thats the problem with alot of us women we don't keep our options open. That's what hurts alot us out here in the modern dating world. Truly honest alot us don't know how to date. We don't know how to go out socialize and meet people that's another thing.
@Priscilla the woman sets the tone of the dates. The purpose of dating is to do things in various settings to vet a man and learn them. It’s not to get physical or be affectionate. Tell them you move slow. You know when he’s likely going to try to kiss you, so you turn your face when going in for the hug or church hug (one handed, side turned). Men likely have other women they’re dating as well so it makes them no difference if they get to “kiss” you or not. I generally have one person I’m more into than the others and that’s who gets the kiss or whatever else “I” decide. The rest I keep them in a friendly position. Just like going out with my girlfriends except they’re men. It’s really that simple.
@Priscilla you’re welcome and I will also say don’t play games. If you’re not interested in a man don’t just be dating him for months on end because it’s free food or because you’re bored. That’s not fair to them either. In addition to letting them know I move slow, I also tell them that I generally know by the 3rd date but it’s often sooner than that. This also helps set boundaries and buys you some time.
@Priscilla no. I just mention on the first date/conversation that I move slow and I usually know by the third date if there’s real interest. This also allows them to know they’re on borrowed time and have their own gauge for how things are going. If the first date is a disaster or things start happening between dates 1 to 3 then they already know they’re on the way out and they have the option to stop contacting me as well. Don’t want anyone catching feelings or thinking it’s going to be more eventually. I call myself a serial dater…lol. There’s a way to do it respectfully. And don’t take or date within a small circle. Date men from the next town over, the next major city, heck even states away. Everyone doesn’t get to go to your favorite bar, restaurant, church…this one gets them because they ALL try that I wanna go to church with you thing and I have to tell them no off rip. It can be done. I have never been out with a guy and ran into another guy I was also seeing. Yea let’s drive 30 minutes for ice cream lol.
Go on date with multiples people BUT set your boundaries. Some men can go on dates without any intentions of wanting to know. I personally , can’t date multiples or keep rotating dates very weekend or other week.
I like texting because it gives me time to conceptualize my thoughts and come up with a firm well articulated position. When you're not an assertive person people tend to overpower your voice during in-person conversations
Today’s way of dating often only leads to situation-ships. Having sex doesn’t equate dating or a relationship. That’s where we’re missing it especially as women.
Self love is no hoax, if you cannot appreciate and love self you cannot holistically love another, I don't date , not that I am not interested ,just until I see the one that is for me , I ain't with none, these dating streets are even more dangerous than before since you don't know even after 50 dates who a person may really be, i appreciate honesty ,I don't appreciate bad manners , The bible is not a marriage rule book . But is a guide, since as time has changed , we must try to apply wisdom, to the shift of mankinds behaviour , God's word will always remain the word, we must apply common sense .
So much is sexualized now that some people will instantly correlate _dating_ with having sexual relations and not just what it is, as you stated, _the act of going on dates._ I like the example of Lori Harvey. I've thought that about her but society presumes she's gone to bed with all the men she's been with. We don't know for sure that's the case and I bet none of those men would tell the world that they didn't sleep with her because in this society's view it would make them look like less of a man for having not bed her down.
That’s same pastor who is saying dating is not in the Bible. Is the same pastor who said it was okay to forgive you husband if he’s physically abusive. Thank you Tony for keeping it real
I love ur idea about go on dates and explore ur options. I been on few dates 😂 I just see few thirsty men out of that. They be like “I’m just chilling or vibing or going with the flow “. I’m just being realistic. I understand ur point honestly , be selective of who u say “yes “ to dates with. Go on 3 dates plus and get to know them.
There are some men and women use exploring options or going on a dates as an excuse to they folks to bed. I’m just being realistic. Some folks even love boomed
Single, never married, no kids so no baby daddy drama, and now 18 yrs into my career. Completely stopped dating about 4 yrs ago. Too many grown boys out here making you feel unsafe to date anyone anymore. Way too much chaos and confusion in the dating scene these days. All due to a lack of accountability and growth. I call it “Peter Pan syndrome”…a complete refusal to grow up.
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked. Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it! James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them. The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money. Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon. There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually... Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender. 🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain. Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain. And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice. Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked. Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . . Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
This video popped up at the right time. I been feeling like I shouldn’t date anybody. Like it don’t even matter what people think it’s just I’ve been to protective over me & I love that but I don’t want to hinder myself from the love of my life.
@Roxy Dee me too…late teens, early twenties, thirties 😳 Thank God I got a revelation and flipped the scrip! Got married early forties to a wonderful man. Wasted way too much time at Bozo circus dealing with clowns.
Thank you so much Tony!! For your advice I’m 40 and been going on dates with one particular person for 30 days I’ve made a subconscious and conscious decision to be abstinent until marriage I haven’t had a chance to mention this to him because sex has never been brought up. fasting and praying is definitely helping me been abstinent for 7 yrs so far. But I will eventually just tell him when the time is right or when he asks me to be his girlfriend 😅😊
This is good. My children and I have these discussions. Some of the things I have seen is crazy without being on social media. When you have sons and there have friends we talk about the things happening in life. It will change your life completely and experience of life.
Sir, if I’m being honest this has been the best video I have ever seen. I appreciate your explanation and transparency. Pointing us always towards God! 🙌🏼 Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏 ♥️ God Bless
This is literally for me! 🙌🏽 I would be stuck dating one person that I may not even see myself being with but trying to force it to work 😩 I’ve been told multiple times to explore my options but didn’t really see the importance of it! Thank you!
What ur saying and the definition of dating u said u are absolutely correct. I know I messed up and didn’t know better and no one told me nothing. But at least we all are growing and learning from our mistakes. Thanks Tony👍🏾👍🏾🥰🥰
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked. Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it! James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them. The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money. Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon. There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually... Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender. 🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain. Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain. And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice. Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked. Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . . Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
I had dated a woman who post on Facebook about her dating scene with other Men I talk to her that I don’t waste time doing this while she dating other men we no longer friends but she still like me 🤦🏽 because I’m a good man who doesn’t play in the other playground, God wouldn’t allowed me go in there. He knows my heart and my intentions.
Agreed..dating for relationship is very important and there is proper way to do it..the Bible is very much a relationship book..the first act between the serpent with Adam and Eve was to disrupt their relationship with God. Who we choose can either help disrupt our life or lead us to progress/elevation. Im learning to Get intimate with God first because he can heal my mess and knows whats best for me🙏
I enjoyed this so much! Great information and knowledge. Unfortunately, I am too uncomfortable with dating anyone. At this time in my life I have some things to get in order and I would like to spend the next year working on me. I'm not ready to date now but I will be. ❤ I think it takes just as much wisdom to hold off on this area of life as it does moving forward in it.
I appreciate the transparency Tony. There are a lot of influences out here making us all a little off when it comes to our discretion. Great video. ✨👌🏾
My pastor always says Read the Bible for yourself. Then you can know it for yourself and see if I’m telling you the truth. That’s the key to me! Your own knowledge is what you should go by not what others can tell you.
This guy asked me what I was looking for. I told him I wasn’t into casual dating. His response was “I’m going with the flow…” I then told him we should just be friends and he didn’t seem fond of that
Bro Tony this was truly an eye opener for me because I thought going on a Date as a Christian was a Sin and I was that person that worried about what people said. My pastor with the teaching that was taught had me thinking it's a sin to Date . I felt uncomfortable letting the pastor know I was Dating.i wasn't having sex with the man years ago .but this so sounds like me. Worried about people say.
Thanks, I'm going on a date today and haven't been to your channel for awhile or on a date for awhile, been getting myself together and this helps. TY ❤️
🙋🏽♀️👏🏽🖐🏽🙋🏽♀️Let the church say.....Amen, Amen, & Amen! Tony your car video's should be called "Church Car Chronicles" cause you sho nuff be preachin! Yes I said "sho nuff be preachin!" I'm a 53yr old country girl all the way down south in Biloxi, MS!😊🥰😊🥰🤣🤣
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked. Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it! James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them. The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money. Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon. There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually... Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender. 🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain. Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain. And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice. Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked. Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . . Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
Talked to my blood sister today who I havent spoke to in yrs by choice. We we were both raised in foster care, and i was quoting Tony Gaskins and told her about him, bt apparently she already knows of him and also have watched him 🙌🏾👊😌 She said, "aw yea he funny"😅😂😂😂 She lives in Peoria IL and Im out in Nyc. Its good that his messages be getting out..💜💙
Mr Tony I agree with how you worded the turn down. I've had issues where guys would make excuses to why the date didn't go well or asks for another chance or ask to be friends. They turn it into a negotiation. I don't want to negotiate, I'm not looking for a friend. I'm looking for my best friend, not someone I can tolerate. So I ghost them. I know it's not mature and I should text or talk but they keep pushing me and it's very annoying and screams desperation. Yet these "alpha" males say when 1 says no, 10 say yes. So if that's the case, I'm already replaced so there's no need for a discussion. I hope you and your family are safe during the storm.🙏
Would love if more podcasts discussed the early red flags of dating a narcissistic. (Ie lovebombing, mirroring, triangulation). Just a thought since I’m seeing so many women having their souls crushed... esp by the covert narc.
Great information on this video, right to the point very detailed one the best one i have seen on this platform, I really appreciate and enjoy this. God Bless🙏🏾 and look forward to gettn more content from this channel & U.✊🏾
Hi! I'm late but hopefully I can help!... between Mr. Gaskins, my favorite online pastor & also personal experiences I say the best way to avoid getting emotionally attached in the beginning is to: 1. Avoid late night phone calls (deep conversations late at night tend to create a quick bond that's more than likely built off of lust). 2. Keep your dates limited to 2hrs max. Spending too much time creates attachment fast. 3. Date in public. DO NOT go to their house or invite them to yours. 4. DATE multiple people. Honestly, I don't have the time to date 3-4 men. 2 is good for me lol but everyone is different of course. Hope this helps!!
One thing bout Tony is he gone drop a car chronicle!!
Lol yeah
I love Car Chronicles!
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked.
Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it!
James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them.
The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money.
Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon.
There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually...
Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender.
🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships.
Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain.
Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender.
I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain.
And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice.
Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked.
Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . .
Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
Love the car chronicles! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hahaaa i live for it!
The purpose of dating is to gather data while using decernnent As always Tony G you are right on point!.
Yes....not to be on yo "BYKE" 😂😂😂
"Then, before you get into a relationship, you gonna have to go on you a 3-day fast and be praying and be silent, and be listening to God to hear from God." TG
“Dating is simply collecting Data.” - Ms. April Mason
EVERY single thing Tony has said is 💯 true for me! I sent a break up text to a clown who I knew wasn't right for me. He immediately called me and convinced me to give 'the relationship' another chance, HUGE mistake!
Next time I break up with another dude via text I'm immediately blocking him! I value my peace and sanity ✌🏾👋🏾
Dating is super hard these days because a lot of men are looking for help, not mature, or running the streets…I’m 35 & have almost just given up. I feel like majority of the good men are taken or stay in the house.
Right smh!!
They really do be just sitting in the house, lol!
Wow I needed this. I stopped going on dates bc I felt as if it was a bad thing for me as a woman to go on dates with multiple men. Even though I didn’t sleep with them, I still felt weird bc of how society portrays women who do that. I’m no longer going to hold myself to that & start living life for me. Thanks Tony!
Girl, who cares what people think. They gonna think whatever no matter what you do. It's a lose-lose to even care at this point. 🙂
Forget them, they just don’t want us to exercise our options. When I was dating, I multi-dated a lot, even in the same day lol Breakfast dates, lunch dates, dinner dates. That doesn’t mean sex. And there was no one to judge me because no one knew my business. It’s ok to date around and see what’s good for us. I’m newly single, and when I’m ready, I will be back to multi-dating while excluding sex☺️
Right!!!!
worried that much about society? man these fake rules got y’all in a chokehold
I had two dates with a dude in a restaurant and that was all. He was not my type, I was not his type, so we never dated again. My cousin, who was divorced three times, because she was cheating on her husbands, assumed that I was sleeping with the dude. I come to understand that because she was sleeping with people she went on dates, she assumed that everyone else was doing what she was doing. So her perspective tells more about her, than about the people she is talking about. We should learn to not assume that everyone is like us...
Had this happened to me only I was 18 and the woman was like 50 I’m like just because you sleep with everyone who says hi to you doesn’t mean everyone does the same…
@@shutit4024 Yes. They assume that what they do, is what everyone else does. But in their case is justified, while we, the others, should be ashamed. 😅. I was a little bit older than you then, 20 and this woman in her late 30s.
I’m glad Tony did a video on this, people using the word dating these days mean so many things. I’m glad to know that dating different people at once is not a bad thing for a female. Because that’s exactly what I did, I’m not the type to put all my eggs in one basket. However, when I went on these dates I went home to my bed or got ready to go on another date 😝. I don’t regret it at all and I had fun doing this and I felt free to explore my options. Now I’m married with 2 boys and when they start going on dates I won’t them to have the same experience.
@Priscilla you don’t kiss them. You end the date with a hug not a kiss.
See Leelee you said the keyword options!!!! Thats the problem with alot of us women we don't keep our options open. That's what hurts alot us out here in the modern dating world. Truly honest alot us don't know how to date. We don't know how to go out socialize and meet people that's another thing.
@Priscilla the woman sets the tone of the dates. The purpose of dating is to do things in various settings to vet a man and learn them. It’s not to get physical or be affectionate. Tell them you move slow. You know when he’s likely going to try to kiss you, so you turn your face when going in for the hug or church hug (one handed, side turned). Men likely have other women they’re dating as well so it makes them no difference if they get to “kiss” you or not. I generally have one person I’m more into than the others and that’s who gets the kiss or whatever else “I” decide. The rest I keep them in a friendly position. Just like going out with my girlfriends except they’re men. It’s really that simple.
@Priscilla you’re welcome and I will also say don’t play games. If you’re not interested in a man don’t just be dating him for months on end because it’s free food or because you’re bored. That’s not fair to them either. In addition to letting them know I move slow, I also tell them that I generally know by the 3rd date but it’s often sooner than that. This also helps set boundaries and buys you some time.
@Priscilla no. I just mention on the first date/conversation that I move slow and I usually know by the third date if there’s real interest. This also allows them to know they’re on borrowed time and have their own gauge for how things are going. If the first date is a disaster or things start happening between dates 1 to 3 then they already know they’re on the way out and they have the option to stop contacting me as well. Don’t want anyone catching feelings or thinking it’s going to be more eventually. I call myself a serial dater…lol. There’s a way to do it respectfully. And don’t take or date within a small circle. Date men from the next town over, the next major city, heck even states away. Everyone doesn’t get to go to your favorite bar, restaurant, church…this one gets them because they ALL try that I wanna go to church with you thing and I have to tell them no off rip. It can be done. I have never been out with a guy and ran into another guy I was also seeing. Yea let’s drive 30 minutes for ice cream lol.
Go on date with multiples people BUT set your boundaries. Some men can go on dates without any intentions of wanting to know.
I personally , can’t date multiples or keep rotating dates very weekend or other week.
My Gosh. This all I've been saying.🤷🏽♀️
Dating is ...going on a date.
I like texting because it gives me time to conceptualize my thoughts and come up with a firm well articulated position. When you're not an assertive person people tend to overpower your voice during in-person conversations
Today’s way of dating often only leads to situation-ships.
Having sex doesn’t equate dating or a relationship.
That’s where we’re missing it especially as women.
Self love is no hoax, if you cannot appreciate and love self you cannot holistically love another, I don't date , not that I am not interested ,just until I see the one that is for me , I ain't with none, these dating streets are even more dangerous than before since you don't know even after 50 dates who a person may really be, i appreciate honesty ,I don't appreciate bad manners ,
The bible is not a marriage rule book . But is a guide, since as time has changed , we must try to apply wisdom, to the shift of mankinds behaviour , God's word will always remain the word, we must apply common sense .
I agree. This is wise counsel. Dating is necessary in this day and age.
So much is sexualized now that some people will instantly correlate _dating_ with having sexual relations and not just what it is, as you stated, _the act of going on dates._
I like the example of Lori Harvey. I've thought that about her but society presumes she's gone to bed with all the men she's been with. We don't know for sure that's the case and I bet none of those men would tell the world that they didn't sleep with her because in this society's view it would make them look like less of a man for having not bed her down.
That’s same pastor who is saying dating is not in the Bible. Is the same pastor who said it was okay to forgive you husband if he’s physically abusive. Thank you Tony for keeping it real
What is the pastor’s initials?
@@candidlycamille MT
Amen, they give a mans bad behaviour a free pass and blame the women saying you chose him.
I love ur idea about go on dates and explore ur options. I been on few dates 😂 I just see few thirsty men out of that. They be like “I’m just chilling or vibing or going with the flow “. I’m just being realistic.
I understand ur point honestly , be selective of who u say “yes “ to dates with. Go on 3 dates plus and get to know them.
Set boundaries and think twice before u sleep around.
There are some men and women use exploring options or going on a dates as an excuse to they folks to bed. I’m just being realistic. Some folks even love boomed
Be wise in ur dating decisions and be safe about it
Single, never married, no kids so no baby daddy drama, and now 18 yrs into my career. Completely stopped dating about 4 yrs ago. Too many grown boys out here making you feel unsafe to date anyone anymore. Way too much chaos and confusion in the dating scene these days. All due to a lack of accountability and growth. I call it “Peter Pan syndrome”…a complete refusal to grow up.
You're talking right Min. Gaskins! Discernment is key, but it takes fasting and praying to be that in tuned. Good stuff!
I'm ready to date and I really needed this updated messages bc I have no clue how to date. I jump into a relationship fast
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked.
Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it!
James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them.
The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money.
Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon.
There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually...
Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender.
🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships.
Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain.
Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender.
I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain.
And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice.
Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked.
Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . .
Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
These Car Chronicles are becoming the best!
This video popped up at the right time. I been feeling like I shouldn’t date anybody. Like it don’t even matter what people think it’s just I’ve been to protective over me & I love that but I don’t want to hinder myself from the love of my life.
I cannot tell you how much I wish someone had shared this information with me when I was in my late teens!!
@Roxy Dee me too…late teens, early twenties, thirties 😳
Thank God I got a revelation and flipped the scrip! Got married early forties to a wonderful man.
Wasted way too much time at Bozo circus dealing with clowns.
Same!!
Me too.
Noone needs to know every time you go on a date. Tell 1 friend for safety thats it
Tony always on time. You can’t settle & you can’t sleep around. YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST🙏🏽💙
This is absolutely dead on Tony. Everything is resonating with me and I appreciate you taking the time to deliver this!
Yes . Some details but make sure u set boundaries. I’m from Toronto and when it comes to dating. Some men in my city be pushing to the bedroom.
Western world , when it comes to date multiples or get to know multiples. Be wise about it and set boundaries
TONY!!! You are preaching!!!! A 5 star message ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Thank you so much Tony!! For your advice I’m 40 and been going on dates with one particular person for 30 days I’ve made a subconscious and conscious decision to be abstinent until marriage I haven’t had a chance to mention this to him because sex has never been brought up. fasting and praying is definitely helping me been abstinent for 7 yrs so far. But I will eventually just tell him when the time is right or when he asks me to be his girlfriend 😅😊
This is one intelligent man I wish we had more like him.
This is one of the REALEST videos EVER!!!!!!!
That's why I love your videos. You keep it all the way REAL!
This is good. My children and I have these discussions. Some of the things I have seen is crazy without being on social media. When you have sons and there have friends we talk about the things happening in life. It will change your life completely and experience of life.
Sir, if I’m being honest this has been the best video I have ever seen. I appreciate your explanation and transparency. Pointing us always towards God! 🙌🏼 Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏 ♥️ God Bless
This is literally for me! 🙌🏽 I would be stuck dating one person that I may not even see myself being with but trying to force it to work 😩 I’ve been told multiple times to explore my options but didn’t really see the importance of it! Thank you!
What ur saying and the definition of dating u said u are absolutely correct. I know I messed up and didn’t know better and no one told me nothing. But at least we all are growing and learning from our mistakes. Thanks Tony👍🏾👍🏾🥰🥰
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked.
Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it!
James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them.
The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money.
Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon.
There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually...
Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender.
🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships.
Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain.
Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender.
I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain.
And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice.
Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked.
Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . .
Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
Ready for the lesson!!!! Hello, Blessed tribe☺️🌼
The Bible speaks of Courtship, but that is for people intending to get married. This IS an AWESOME MESSAGE 🤎❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I really appreciated this video and definitely will be applying and reapplying some rules and boundaries in my dating season . 💯
I had dated a woman who post on Facebook about her dating scene with other Men I talk to her that I don’t waste time doing this while she dating other men we no longer friends but she still like me 🤦🏽 because I’m a good man who doesn’t play in the other playground, God wouldn’t allowed me go in there. He knows my heart and my intentions.
This video will help me be a better Coach. Thank you@Tony Gaskins
Key words- dating intentionally.
Agreed..dating for relationship is very important and there is proper way to do it..the Bible is very much a relationship book..the first act between the serpent with Adam and Eve was to disrupt their relationship with God. Who we choose can either help disrupt our life or lead us to progress/elevation. Im learning to Get intimate with God first because he can heal my mess and knows whats best for me🙏
I enjoyed this so much! Great information and knowledge. Unfortunately, I am too uncomfortable with dating anyone. At this time in my life I have some things to get in order and I would like to spend the next year working on me. I'm not ready to date now but I will be. ❤ I think it takes just as much wisdom to hold off on this area of life as it does moving forward in it.
Thanks!
I appreciate the transparency Tony. There are a lot of influences out here making us all a little off when it comes to our discretion. Great video. ✨👌🏾
It’s a blessing to listen to you as God directs you. Thank you🙏🏾
This was absolutely amazing advice!!!! Thank you for all this!!!!
My pastor always says Read the Bible for yourself. Then you can know it for yourself and see if I’m telling you the truth. That’s the key to me! Your own knowledge is what you should go by not what others can tell you.
This is good!
Amen to that 🙌🏾
Thank for that God given wisdom.🙏🏾
This guy asked me what I was looking for. I told him I wasn’t into casual dating. His response was “I’m going with the flow…” I then told him we should just be friends and he didn’t seem fond of that
WOW! This was a whole teaching! Thank you for this wisdom shed Tony!
Bro Tony this was truly an eye opener for me because I thought going on a Date as a Christian was a Sin and I was that person that worried about what people said. My pastor with the teaching that was taught had me thinking it's a sin to Date . I felt uncomfortable letting the pastor know I was Dating.i wasn't having sex with the man years ago .but this so sounds like me. Worried about people say.
I needed to see this today. Thank you.
Tony Gaskins great programme thanks for the Wisdom .
Thanks, I'm going on a date today and haven't been to your channel for awhile or on a date for awhile, been getting myself together and this helps. TY ❤️
🙋🏽♀️👏🏽🖐🏽🙋🏽♀️Let the church say.....Amen, Amen, & Amen! Tony your car video's should be called "Church Car Chronicles" cause you sho nuff be preachin! Yes I said "sho nuff be preachin!" I'm a 53yr old country girl all the way down south in Biloxi, MS!😊🥰😊🥰🤣🤣
Really needed this message. Thank you!
You speaking something some kinda real Tony!🙌🏾
Very transparent and truthful message. Thank Youuuu ❤️
Always learning something new as I listen to Tony.
This is good, ppl go from single to marriage . No one ever talk about dating/courting and how to be a good bf/gf
Thank you Tony again for another great video.
Thanks Tony! You always come out with a clear thinking and understanding of any subjects. ♥️
I have a big decision to make, thanks Tony for showing me how I shall proceed. Be blessed!
Love and light 💫Ty for this enlightening info,highly favored 💫☝🏾
Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked.
Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it!
James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them.
The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money.
Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon.
There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually...
Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender.
🏳️🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships.
Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain.
Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender.
I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain.
And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice.
Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked.
Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . .
Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.
Thank you Tony for the wonderful message 😊
Thank you for teaching us.
This was such great advice Tony! Thank you for all you do!
One of ur best videos hands down
The best free advice ever
Drop those gems Tony!!
Yes yes Tony so true…Love this🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Talked to my blood sister today who I havent spoke to in yrs by choice. We we were both raised in foster care, and i was quoting Tony Gaskins and told her about him, bt apparently she already knows of him and also have watched him 🙌🏾👊😌 She said, "aw yea he funny"😅😂😂😂 She lives in Peoria IL and Im out in Nyc. Its good that his messages be getting out..💜💙
Mr Tony
I agree with how you worded the turn down. I've had issues where guys would make excuses to why the date didn't go well or asks for another chance or ask to be friends.
They turn it into a negotiation.
I don't want to negotiate, I'm not looking for a friend. I'm looking for my best friend, not someone I can tolerate.
So I ghost them. I know it's not mature and I should text or talk but they keep pushing me and it's very annoying and screams desperation.
Yet these "alpha" males say when 1 says no, 10 say yes. So if that's the case, I'm already replaced so there's no need for a discussion.
I hope you and your family are safe during the storm.🙏
Dating = Gathering Data
I got good Wisdom. Because I realized everything Tony said in this video I learned from experience
Such a helpful video …. 👏🏾👍🏽👊🏽 thank you x🙏🏽
I found Tony 6 years ago doing car chronicles!
Thanks Tony for your videos, They have truly blessed me and gave me guidance. God bless you 🙌🏾🙏
Thank you, Tony!
Fasting and Prayer 🙏🏽❤ 😇
When you date like this you see the red flags and listen to your intuition ladies it’s always right whew 😅 thank you Tony you saved me !
Amen Tony
👋🏾 I plan to finally, date again this year… re-watch. Ty Tony!🎉
Would love if more podcasts discussed the early red flags of dating a narcissistic. (Ie lovebombing, mirroring, triangulation). Just a thought since I’m seeing so many women having their souls crushed... esp by the covert narc.
Have you watched his Grown Boy University vids? (playlists) They address some of what you've asked about here 🙂
What’s mirroring?
Great information on this video, right to the point very detailed one the best one i have seen on this platform, I really appreciate and enjoy this. God Bless🙏🏾 and look forward to gettn more content from this channel & U.✊🏾
This is Good Tony 👍🏾 u r alright with me, great job 👏🏽 ❤
Hi Tony! Can you make a video about discerning who to give your number to when you’re approached out in the wild?
Another great video
I can admit to getting in a relationship before dating.... Completely backwards..
How does a man maintain a relationship without getting too emotionally attached especially in the beginning?
Hi! I'm late but hopefully I can help!... between Mr. Gaskins, my favorite online pastor & also personal experiences I say the best way to avoid getting emotionally attached in the beginning is to: 1. Avoid late night phone calls (deep conversations late at night tend to create a quick bond that's more than likely built off of lust). 2. Keep your dates limited to 2hrs max. Spending too much time creates attachment fast. 3. Date in public. DO NOT go to their house or invite them to yours. 4. DATE multiple people. Honestly, I don't have the time to date 3-4 men. 2 is good for me lol but everyone is different of course. Hope this helps!!
I Just love this guy...
Amazing!
Lovely video
THANK You for your understanding about Dating 🙏❣️
Collecting data
This video is right on time!! Thank you for sharing these thoughts!! Definitely a word!! So true too much noise
Let's not forget the drug and alcohol use that impacts discernment. Nothing beats fasting, talking to God, and listening to Him for yourself.
This was right on time