Trigger point to decide return to India|how I decided| step by step process for return to India
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- This video and channel is about the my experience as NRI who lived in US, Sweden, Denmark, Philippines and visited couple more countries however finally decided to come back and settle in India with my loved ones. Mostly i am covering my background, Reason for moving back, how did I planned the move, reasons for going abroad again after living in India for 3 years, Career transition, Kids social life, Advice for the future aspirants and finally experience in India.
✅ My Mission.
My mission is to provide support and guidance for Non-Resident Indians (NRIs) who are considering or planning to return to India. I am trying to help people who are in dilemma and provide suggestion based on their situation. We as Indian has shared dream to make our country as best place for their citizens as well as for expats. I share informative and engaging content about frequently asked questions related to finance, culture, job opportunities, real estate etc.,. My goal is to help you make an informed decision about your move to India and to ensure a smooth transition back to your home country.
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Below are Important videos links about my journey from Dilemma then making decision and reaching India which will help audience in making decision about return to India or migrating from India.
NRI dilemma | Regrets in later phases
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NRI respect in India
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NRI depression and Vacuum in life
• NRI depression and Vac...
Trigger point to decide return to India
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Top 10 reasons why I came back to India
• Top 10 reasons why I c...
Kids Thinking About Moving to India?
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Kids adjustment issue after shifting to India and Solutions
• Kids adjustment issue ...
OCI kids education fees and quota in India
• OCI kids education fee...
OCI card benefits and limitations
• OCI card benefits and ...
Retirement Corpus(money) in India at 40 or later
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Retire at 40 and settle in India| retirement for NRI
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Total Monthly expenses in India(conclusion)
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I returned back to India after 15 years stay in USA. Trust me, returning back to India was one of the best decisions I have made. I have not missed USA even for a single minute.
What makes you say that?
Did you find noticeable difference in work culture?
@@sagarkaul08 work culture isn’t much different. Depends from company to company. Moreover work isn’t the only thing which should decide coming back to our own country.
Do you have kids? What grade they were in when you returned?
After coming back from India last month I am keep thinking to come back .
At this position I can't come back bit definitely I will be back in 10 years.
My mom died in 2013 and my dad was alone after that. I left my job and came back to Delhi from Australia. Since didnt even think of returning. Many said why r u doing that. U can keep full time house help. I thought it is very inhumane to even have that sor of mentality.
Bless you
U are very rite Amit...all the respect for you...
You are right. Think your son do same to you, it will be very bad
You owe no one any explanation. You did what you felt was right. There is no 'hired help' substitute that will care for your father the way you will
👍
My hubby and I dint pursue opportunities we got abroad because we knew we didn’t want to leave our parents behind… we may not be financially great like our cousins and siblings but being there for our parents and them seeing their grand children everyday is priceless
True
Yes, family situation is critical.
Very very true.
Who said by going to USA you become rich overnight
Majority of indians are hand to mouth in western nations
Very few are rich in west
Nice
Your videos are so relatable.. 14 years in the US and miss home so much . We visited India last December and in January we decided to return ..now moving back in 2 months.
Thanks and congratulations 🎉🎉
@@hemantaim thank you 🙂
parents are the main reason for me to come back. Some times, i came across few people who didnt care much about the family back in india..
I got Australian PR and moved there last year, however, I realised all the points and moved back to India after 6 months due to all the possible factors mainly because of parents. This is a one way street. Rest is individual and different case for all. It was difficult to leave job in India and then again to leave job in Australia for relocating back to India.
Can you guide me?
Sure
@@hemantaim Here is the thing. My husband got opportunity in Singapore but when he joined the company he realised that his learning curve was being effected and meanwhile I was all excited to shift and start a new life there. Then my husband within 6 months got a good offer from one of the MNC in India.
Although I know his decision is right. But somehow I feel sad and low many times thinking that we failed. My husband does not think so. I haven't shared with him how I feel about our return because I don't want to take away his happiness. But i want to come out of this sad phase as because of this return I feel at times that did we fail? Will we ever get an opportunity again.. These thoughts are messing up my mind. My confidence has gone low and at time over think that will we be able to earn better in India although me and my husband are both from IT sector and both are really hard working
But I want to overcome these thoughts so that I can focus on my current things.. Can you please help me to overcome these sad thoughts and negativeness
Getting better opportunity in India is a sign of success not failure.....that's it..Move on
@@hemantaim hey bro,Can I ask you something?
Thank you- honestly appreciate your efforts. When my husband and I started discussing the possibility in Dec 2022, we were so skeptical ke bhai aise bhi koi wapas jaata heij kua.. are we stuck for life etc sawal aane lage. That is when I searched TH-cam and found your channel. We are both learning from your content and I wanted to give this shoutout to your efforts 👌
Thanks and just fyi so many NRI's has come back and are in process......it's just that they are not sharing their experience so we don't know if we are alone or other nri also doing it
@@hemantaim but sir nova Scotia power corporation Halifax Canada pays really
My friend is working NS POWER Halifax as BSA since 4 years and is very satisfied
Hi Hemant, You are doing a great job & I echo you! So I am in same boat, 12 years in US. Not able to freeze it but almost decided to leave after this year. I am doing the sane exercise, writing all my fears & guilts- analyzing life in US and India after 10 years. I am 40 now, both working and have a middle schooler kid. Can we all have a whats app group or a meeting place where we can chat about this?
You can follow me and chat on Instagram at hemantdubey79
I married an American(Chinese) and find USA to be closer to my freedom oriented views. In India, freedom is only for the elite politicians, bureaucrats and ultra wealthy
Great video! Thanks for sharing insights.. my husband and I were in same dilemma for long .. so good to watch this video
Thank you hamantbhai aap ka video muje bahot healp full raha I m going back to India 🇮🇳 in 2024 June after 10 years in Canada thanks 🙏
Glad to hear that
Same - 12 years in the west, going back in April 2024, thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Thank God you made this video because We are going through the same phase and this video is like a guiding light for us....
Very good info and I can relate to many of those points. Thanks for taking time and effort to put these videos.
Thank you for sharing; these are all wonderful thoughts and things to consider. Appreciate the effort you put into making these videos
Thanks
Great video and great effort from your end to educate people. All the best!
I was in london in 2006, when i started documenting the expenses in excel and compare to how i used to spend in india i decided to leave London. I realised it in 3 months.
Thanks for sharing your experience
How much did you save or your net worth before you moved back to India?
@@Jam.S. i am sure he have made atleast for next 20-25 years that for a family of 4
So will not be easy for others, if they don't have so much of savings like Hemant did save for 20-25 years ... He is a millionaire!
Good, now we can give your job to a native British person.
Lovely experience!!! All the best! Agreed with you 💯 👍
I am very thankful to you for making a video on this topic.
I'm born and raised in Canada but I love India. I feel at home in India. God bless 🇮🇳
I spent a long time living in Sweden (4 years). Because of the language barrier and the bad weather, I hated it. Then I moved to the US, became a citizen, and moved to a warmer place here. I love it here, but I miss India too. Every year, I spend a month in India.
hated???? that's harsh.
I have lived in Sweden n loved it.
@@cool3884 Hate is a relative term bro. Sunlight is essential for physical and mental well-being. I found it quite depressing and unhealthy to be in the cold and dark for most of the day for approx 4 months. I found the people to be cold, but they were generally nice, once you got to know them. As a vegetarian, I personally did not have many options for eating outside. So it WAS relative. Since I live on the West Coast, moving to the US was great. Warm and sunny.
@@Bandhu241 sorry for misunderstanding your words. Have a good day.
How u got citizenship so fast ?
@@booksquotes948 I immigrated to the US in yr 2000 from Sweden. I worked for Fortune 10 and was approved for the EB1 category. I received my green card in approx 2 years. Citizenship is available five years after obtaining a green card.
Good for you. Still different strokes for different folks as they say. Hope your experiences remain encouraging
Thank you so much for your generosity in sharing your thoughts
mast video bhai! clear cut...
Thank you .. this helped me a Lot.
My opinion is if you plan to go abroad, consider these things-
- DO NOT move with the mindset of living there forever, which brings me to the second point...
- Try to move when you are at the age of 25 max.
- Finally try to go there to study and then work for a few years. That way you can return back to India and still have your whole life in front of you.
In the end it depends on what an individual wants and the drive to achieve. Living in India is getting better but I feel there is still a long way to go with corruption, infrastructure and healthcare.
More power to you Hemant ji. Very inspiring for ppl like me
Thank you for making these videos. I have been living in Germany for 15 years. We are really well "settled" although I always feel so unsettled. .😮😮😢😢
Fluency in English is mandatory for long term stay & future in America and other English speaking countries. Key to integration and a broader job market. Back office work (without interaction with the locals) for example in I.T can sustain only short term. Improve language fluency before attempting immigration. On the job training is available under most western employers provided the language base is adequate. Most people returning to India within a few years are returning because of the job situation. Most have lost their jobs. Have doggy immigration status or have no viable path for visa adjustment.
Doggy immigration status? If we talk about America specifically. There are about 7-8 lack Indians waiting for green cards. Which might take a lifetime. So Immigration status is same for most of the Indians living here.
I wish I had thought about it 30 yrs ago. I am almost retired, kids are doing fine here however researching to find a place in India to live few months initially but finally hope to live more and more until end. Any suggestions of nicely developed locations for senior people would help. You are doing a great service to college graduates who have too much attraction of western living. Your video on Patel family demise is also great. I followed that story from the beginning, how a misguided father took lives of innocent children hurt people like us. Jai Hind🇮🇳
Thanks for appreciation and for senior citizens i would suggest to explore options in Vrindavan
@@hemantaim Are you being sarcastic? Vrindavan is for seniors since Mahabharata time unless they have developed beautiful private living communities. Thanks.
@mefunvdo i am not being sarcastic as i am also from Vrindavan and it has so many good societies from good builder like Ansal etc......not sure why my suggestion sound like sarcasm when I am trying to help....please go and visit once as from many countries foreigners and other rich people are purchasing home in Vrindavan
You can also explore Antara senior living in Dehradun
In each and every city in india, you will find senior living home equivalent to 5 star hotel. They are not cheap but I believe after living abroad for a long time, you can afford it. I am living in one such place.
Hi Hemant, appreciate your right-from-heart videos.
Thanks a lot
Great vlog!!
Your thinking is so clear !
Thanks
Sir, you made things so simple like a fresh whiff of air. But it is not so easy for people with confused state of mind. You are talking like the krishna in the field of kurushetra yudha. People find themselves in the position of Arjuna. All the materialistic luxuries and comfort is like a big battle field of war for them. But their dharma should guide them to do what is right.
Great analogy 👍
Kabhi kisi ko Mukammal Jahan nahi milta. The video maker and a lot of commentors are confused irrational people. Reconciliation to one's surroundings is always essential for overall happiness. So stop running around the world. I migrated to Canada 35 years back. Do I miss India? Yes very much. But as a whole have reconciled well to my life in Canada. So all of you, young and the restless, stop, make one decision and stick to it and reconcile. To have anything you have to give something. So stop attempting to get this or that and reconcile. All of us going through this experience called life and it is transitory. Life is short and make the best of this experience called life and reconcile. Before, you realize, it would be all over. So just live and make life of every person around you as pleasant and pleasurable as possible. I have just crossed 60. Most of you would thinking like me when you reach 60. The younger we are, the more the illusion we are under, and thereby waste a lot of time doing silly things. God bless us all.
Thank Christ! Encourage more to return.
Detailed explanations @hemantDubay....thank you for your video....What I feel is ,if kids are USC or parents have GC/USC, it's little easy to decide .. so that kids have option if they want in future they can go for higher studies or job opportunities. Else it's big dilemma to move... we get emotionally drained out in deciding and months/years pass by.
Thank you
Looks like I am the only one with mid life crisis at 28 years of age, either way I think moving back is worth it.
nice vid.. 23 years in usa for us and now our kid has graduated... so, we're also contemplating returning to india soon...
How’s your experience in usa , do you feel happy here
We are in UK for 5 years but still going back will be difficult. Car I don’t think will run, house needs refurbished, kids school admission and the syllabus is different in Uk and India. And so many things………
Hi Sir …..I really appreciate your videos and your views I respect that hugely…..but here one thing I would suggest or would’ve like to add is that in your case you were lucky that you and your wife was on same page but 99% of cases people who wanted to move back to India were either one of the partner is completely against of that decision and that’s were people fall in dilemma……and one other sad part of This is where Grandparents has to move to America just because to take care of their Grandchildren and only until they grow up to Teenagers than they start feeling lonely and useless but its reality they will still survive or come back to India but live lonely but keep or try to keep smiling
Mostly Patni /wife nahi wapis aana chahti
@@skull8723 rite
No place is perfect. One has to decide themselves what gives them happiness. Har jagah ke apne challenges hain. India ho ya US.
Another great video. Hemant ji, will you make a video on how much saving tentatively should be good to pay off major liabilities before taking this bold decision. Thanks for all good work
Sure i will make next video on this topic
Very good decision sir.i like your attitude
Decisions making I coming to India.
Thanks
The Grass is Green on the other Side always!!!
Hi sir I am working in uae and moved back here recently even though I had offer from new zealand..my father is single mom no more even though my brother is married and lives with father...my family is supportive but still I feel regret and think of moving..my father is fit and healthy
But they will get old someday , you take them with you wherever you go if you can
It isn't as easy. And life in India isn't as easy. You need to be ready for a LOT of changes in life. Not just to India but moving to any place when in 40s will be tough. India gives you that community feeling that makes you feel like you aren't alone in this. That's pretty much the only plus point of moving back. Parents will not be the same, they will have their own ways of life, their rituals and habits, and to be honest, unless you are living with them, it is still tough to support them on a daily basis. The traffic, pollution, unruly behaviour of people and the fact that you have to fight for every right of yours makes me wonder if it is worth it.
As I said, only plus point is having a community ( which is also going through same struggles) making one feel like they aren't alone.
What community? Suppose you find yourself caught in a mob frenzy, do you think people will come to save you. Do you think that if you have had an accident and are lying all bloodied on the road, people will take you to some hospital. Or even call an ambulance.
Just a few days back an engineer in Mumbai got hit by a truck. Two ladies took him to two different hospitals and both refused admission. The man died. What will you do and how will you feel if you come back from any developed country and one of your near one gets caught in such an unfortunate incident .
All these things this man is saying are elitist viewpoints and come from a position of advantage.
sirji, can you make a video on a checklist of how to get the house in order financially! like 401k etc . financial things in order. IRS etc before leaving.
Hello sir, how did you transfer all your funds to India?
thank you
You are absolutely right my husband and i moved usa 7 years ago now he wants to go back india for his parents because he is only child but me nd my kids wants to stay here so guilty is 100% true in my case nd my husband is always angry on this point i told him if you want to stay there then why you bring me here nd ruined my carrier in india nd now recently when i started good job here after 7 years and you told me move back so i don't want to go back because i don't want to start again in india now we still don't decide to stay here or move back 2 india
Exact same situation with me. Took 6 years gap in career ..started back and now kid want to be close to grandparents.so thinking of wrapping things here but too skeptical about the job opportunities there. It's not easy!! It's not
I dont think you stay together with your in laws in india as you are not emotionally attached to them as your husband so try to find miidle way like your husband stay 2 months in india with them per year
Awesome Hemant!👏👏you are doing such a noble thing 😊
I am middle aged and we came only 6 years ago to the USA.
Now our parents are aging and since children are graduating soon
Me and my husband are contemplating to move back
But in the even we have started the citizenship process. Mainly to get away with no worry to keep our green card active.
But I am just not sure what will we do in India.
At least here we are doing some job and have a reason to get up and get ready, especially my husband.
Get govt job in USA immediately
You can do many charitable work in india
You can open business even with small amount or franchisee where only supervision needed......also give back to society
Bhai first line about going to each others house was killer ;)
Everything so true 👍I m also in USA
Very helpful video, we are in USA since 2014, we do not have any idea about IT packages in Bangalore having 14 years of experience. Could you please give some light on that. Thank you
Depends on your technology and skill level....on average must be 25 to 40 lpa
हेमंत जी, बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद आपके मार्ग दर्शन का। मैंने आपके दो तीन विडियो देखें उनमें सभी मे ऐसा लगा जैसे आप मेरी कहानी ही बता रहे है। अब भारत वापसी के पथ पर से धिरे धिरे धुँध छट रही हैं। आशा हैं मैं आपके बताये दुसरे बिन्दु में सफल रहूँ
Thanks
Even I m returning plz pray fr me..sab kushal mangal rahe 🙏
Don't worry.....it's your home
Bhaiya sahi kar rahe ho...
Is it advisable to rent out US home and monitor remotely from India (with help of property management company) what about 401k, is it advisable to let it mature? Are you eligible to withdraw after maturity?
i lost my parents rently i have feel so bad . we had been meeting regularly except due to covid . i feel 8ndia 8s naturaly rivh organic cou try , each time i return to US , it looks articial, lifeless country
Sir you have amazing ability to put thoughts into words… as you said in video pls try to post what it would take to retire in India, trying to understand how much money is really sufficient from your perspective
Sure as i promised i will post this video by this weekend
Hello Sir, Thanks for making videos on this topic. Can you also make a video on your experience of office work culture and acceptance of co-workers for NRIs. What were the major challenges you faced with change of work culture as you know work culture is different in both the countries, also were your coworkers supportive or more competitive.
Ok sure...will make video on this topic
Work culture on average is poorer in India. As an NRI, if you’re looking to move to India, it’s better to have a decent cash cushion so that you aren’t bothered much with the politics and other elements of work culture in India. There are some other options as well-research about the few companies in India that really have good work culture and apply to them, or start something of your own to solve the problems that India faces, or retire early with the money that you’ve saved. Good luck. I hope you get what you want.
Nice video sir
4 CR is ideal amount to retire. Because you will get around 20 -25 lakhs a year as dividends just from investments and it will allow you almost to live anywhere in India.
Sir mai ek student hu who is aspiring to go uk for next 7 years but my wifes parents are old
Can we please talk about this situation I am very confused
how to find jobs in India ? what source ?
I got an Intra Company Transfer back to India and did not want to go back. Got the worst rating from HR as Reporting Manager and HR wanted to send me back.
Hello Hemant Bhai,
Apologies, but I came across this video after three years. I am an Indian currently residing in Stockholm, Sweden, for the past nine yrs. I appreciate your decision to highlight certain challenges in Sweden that influenced your move back to India.
I believe individual attitudes play a crucial role in how one perceives life situations. While I agree with some of your points, such as extended hospital waiting times and patriotic sentiments, I differ on aspects like the six-month weather. It varies based on the region in Sweden; for instance, in Stockholm or the south, harsh winters last for a maximum of three months.
Similarly, the issue of dark evenings also depends on the specific location. Regarding depression, it varies from person to person, transcending geographical boundaries. Some individuals, whether in India, the US, or the UK, may struggle with loneliness due to their introverted nature.
I'm sharing my personal experience to assist those considering a move to Europe, particularly Scandinavian countries. This is not against you, just an effort to provide insights.
I love my India and keep doing that even I stay in any part of world.
Totally agreed.....As I lived in US and other countries as well, so my experience was different.....Also my friends are still living in Sweden so it's all about individual experience....if someone is happy then just stay if it doesn't suit then make a choice
inspirational.
आपका यह video देखा मन में जो शंकाये थी उसका समाधान मिला
की बेटा usa से सब कुछ छोड़कर India आ रहा हे तो क्या यह निर्णय योग्य हे ठीक h उसे pashatawa तो नहीं होगा की गलत डिसीजन Leila
Apane उन सभी बच्चों को सही राह दिखाई की India में आने से आपका कोई नुकसान नहीं हो ga बस हिम्मत करो और चल पडो
आने पर स्टेप बाय स्टेप सब काम होता चला जाएगा
Thanks hemant ji
Welcome
Would be much more beneficial if there is an English transcript or subtitles atleast.
good videos
kitne din hue vapas aaye hue?
Very well said. I am in US now. Aged 35. It has been 5 months but could not see myself here. Before coming here we thought of staying for 5 years. Now cannot think beyond 3 years. You are point on in deciding and execution.
Can you tell us what was your experience once you were about to leave USA and how did you feel after coming back to India. How was your experience in an NRI point of view. Can you let us know please
Thanks....I have explained all my experience post coming to India in my previous videos so please watch them....if any questions please contact me on Instagram at hemantdubey79
My kids are in high school. Does anyone has experience returning to India with Kids going to high school?
Sahi kia aapne
Ek wireless mic 🎤 lelo hemant. Voice quality improved hogi. I'm watching your videos regularly In the UK 🇬🇧. They are very good
Thanks brother for sure from next time.....i am just casually making videos without editing and marketing.......so I thought my voice will reach to needfuls..
I'm planning to move back to India and searching for videos like this. Me & my husband came to Ireland when we were around 22. After more than a decade living here, we still miss India badly. The good thing is that good chunk of our earnings was spent on buying properties in India from the beginning. So the properties that we bought earlier for decent price are very expensive now. Some of our friends want to go back now but didn't invest in any property in India and its very expensive to buy now, so they are saying they cannot go back. They are also thinking about their kids future. It sometimes creates dilemma in us. We are planning to move to Bangalore. We have a house there. I am thinking of ways which can make our transition easier especially for our kids. Wanted to hear from people who already experienced this. Thank you for sharing your opinion.
Your welcome.....watch my other video and u might get some more answers
@@hemantaim I surely will watch them. Thanks again.
ನೀವು ಕನ್ನಡಿಗರೇ ? ಶೇತಾವರೇ..?
@@Sagarpawar-ix7ky ಹೌದು, ಸಾಗರ್.
@@ShwetaKGowda ನಮ ಬೆಳಗಾವಿಗರು ಬಹಳ ಜನ ಐರ್ಲೆಂಡಲ್ ಇದ್ದಾರೆ...ನಿಮ್ಮೂರು.?
Hello Hemant , i really like your video. I have a question about kids education. My daughter is 9 year old and how easy or difficult it would be for her to adjust to Indian education system. We are living in London for 3 years now and I am thinking of moving back to India.
Thanks....i already made a video on this topic so please check my previous videos
Go there. Make your millions. Come back. Perfect situation
Can you make this video in English as well please? I don’t understand hindi and it would be very helpful thank you😊
👍
Sahi hai
Sir, Aap ka ye video aur ek isse 5 months pehle ka video dekha..........me ne suna aap ko ,samjha aur socha ...tab apne ko dhyaan se dekha ki are ye to me hi hu. Kitni sacchai aur imaandari se aap ne wo sab samjha diya jo me pichle 4-5 salon se aur isi situation me hu . Samajh nahi a raha tha ki mere saath kya ho raha h jese khushi nahi h sab hone par bhi . Par kya karu I missed the train already as I am 68 now . Ye to aap ne bata diya aur warn bhikar diya par ab kya ? Jinki train miss ho gai h unko bhi to kuch solutions dijiye please. Thanks and Godd Bless !!!
Sir you are my father's age so please please don't call me sir......i can understand your situation and pain .... isliye ye video bana Raha hoon taki baki logo ki help ho sake...they should not miss the train
How to handle our superannuation any idea
Let it grow. Another nest egg
Why no one speaks about Air pollution levels in India. The AQI is above 300 for major cities.
Hemant sir could you please share which city do you live in india ? My husband is in IT and we are considering to move back after living here for 12 years . Thank you for sharing your experience
I live in Noida
Mera man nhi laga rha hai yaha UK mai, I really want to come back to India, but I have little children 5 n 2 years old. My husband never want to come back to India. He likes to be here. Aapke video jab bhi dekhti hu, I'm like...ye mujhe India bulakar hi rahenge..but sometimes choice nhi hoti. Aane ko to aa jaun, lekin bachche, family toot jayegi..so have to live here only with my kids amd husband...no choice to come back..I have my mom dad (old) there, I really want to be with them, but neighbours, relatives in India are like, ki parents ke paas aakar rehne lag gayi hai..n all that stuff..so all these things are making me feel ki jaise bhi raho yahi raho..India mai girls mai girls apne ghar mai nhi reh sakti..strictly no to them..chahe unka motive kuchh bhi ho, shadi ho gayi, means they are no more belong to their own family...so there is lot to think..its not easy for women like me..coz kahi na kahi parents bhi wahi sochne lagte hain, ki yaha hoti tab bhi to humse dur hi hoti (they mean in in laws n all). For girls it's totally a different story..for boys they can take decision whenever they want...but girls like me, its not easy..
Hi , to answer your question - as you cannot be with family back in india for long , you have 2 choices
1. Speak to your better half and see if you could spend sometime in india ( May be - 1 full year ) , this way you will spend some good moments with your parents and vice versa and it’s possible in your case bcoz kids are very young , 2 year kid gets to engage well and more socialize in India which is good for their growth, 5 age kids is still very small so his/her schooling wouldn’t have impact.
This helps in these things
1. More socialization for kids, better growth. I have seen impact on kids stuck to screens and growing, and those socializing and growing.
2. Your parents would also feel happy , that you are there with them for Atleast a year.
3. Kids will have memories with grandparents ( your in-laws and your parents) and vice versa )
3. Plan it such that you spend some time in uk as well ( eg: go to india In June 2023 , go back to uk for a month in dec 2023, then come back in Jan 2024, request your better half to come to india For a month or 2 in 2024 if possible more , then finally you both can go back )
Note: talk to your better half and see if this works .., one might not agree if one wants to completely shift , but a stopgap shifting one might agree .
Not just your parents, but your better half parents might also might want to spend time with kids .. you can juggle between your home and in-laws home places when you are in india..
Dodnt think about what ppl around your home/ relatives say , it’s your life your decisions . Some might think that what you are doing is a wise decision,Since you juggle between in-laws home and parents home spending time with kids , some of them might feel jeouousy as well.
Also set the expectations to both your family and your in-law family beforehand so that there is no miscommunication later.
Once Time Passes , it will never come back
Give time to your better half to think through the decision, and eventually both stick to same decision, dodnt have regrets later .
Parents should be with family. Hope you find solution
Jab tak achese kama rahe he india mat ao yaha utni earning nahi hogi to fir pachtava hoga
@@vishwareddy7335 Hi, I just checked your answer now. Kitna easily advise kiya na aapne ki 6 months India and 6 months UK, but think practically, is it possible with school going Kid (5 year old one), also, we both (my husband and me) works here in UK, which employer will keep giving us so many leaves and take us back on the work. And my son's schooling with this gap (coming and going back)..but again, I'm not sure, what's going to be happen in future, may be after settling my kids here, on my retirement, I'm definitely going to spend time in India..until then, no choice..I've thought about it in each and every prospect, just found this best solution for me..
Sir i am in same dilemma, can u share ur experience after moved back in india
I have shared my experience after moving to India in my previous videos....please watch them all
Very nice 👍
Hi Hemant - how did you manage your money from US earnings in India? You must have had a good chunk of money with savings after you sold your house and car etc. I would like to know how did you manage that money in India.
english translation???? why are all the comments in English?
bhai hemant , aap kitne saal se Sweden meen thee ? I agree to a number of your views / thoughts.
3.5 year in US and 2.5 in Sweden
Hello Hemant ji, I live your videos. I saw your life cycle of NRI video and I totally agree with it. I dont want to be in abroad forever. The problem is my husband is a scientist/he has his own lab and doing some amazing research here in USA. He thinks he will have to struggle a lot if we move back to India. We are GC holder. Can you make a video for this kind of situation. How would it work if we move back as an US Citizen and rent our property here in US.
Sure I will try to make one however there are many Indians who came back after GC or citizenship
@hemantaim thanks for your quick response. My husband is afraid he wont have an opportunity in India as our country is way behind in Biotech industry. Also, How would it work to live there as us citizen from the tax purpose?
@toshijain1812 tax is same for OCI holder and can't comment on job opportunities as it depends on your rigorous search and passion to migrate
The best thing I find after coming back to India is "I AM NOT AN IMMIGRANT ANY MORE."
Dear sir when you moved to India ? How to switch the child’s citizenship ? Please advise. Thanks
I moved back in 2020.....you may contact me on Instagram at hemantdubey79
Bro have you purchased home at onsite?
Nope...in India only
looks like there will be huge Ghar Wapsi in next two years ...the action is in lndia next 100 years
Agree
In india you need to work from morning 10 to night 8 in most companies .. did you think about work life balance ??
Not true in all cases
Hi, did you take citizenship of Sweden before returning to India or do you still have Indian citizenship
I dint took the citizenship and still Indian .....hope will be always
@@hemantaim thank you! I have been following your videos and I am on the same stage of how to come back to India.
From last few days l m struggling from same problem.....hi I m from canada...we are citizens.....but now I m done with this.....want to go back but still confuse...
Don’t wait..Try to listen to your soul..we have to go back to our roots..
In canada life is monotonous and it’s depressing..why you want to loose your integrity for some extra dollars..
Suppose if you have 1 yr of life left,what will you do?..do you pray to god that I want to stay in canada or want to live with family and create some memories..
True
What will be effect of impending recession ?
In Indian job market it would be less as some onshore job may shift here and can balance
Hemant bhai chad video
I’m going back to India after 31 years in USA and all western countries kids don’t care parents my father in law same problem and now I have same problem I knew it’s going to with me but thought maybe be different,my friends same problem after age 16 they teach them all western countries
Kudos to your bold decision