I'm not giving up on love, and it was never me to throw in the towel. True love doesn't leave you alone, nor does it put you in 3rd parties to compete. No thank you... 👋 My true love will know where to find me. ❤
Day 25 of being no contact, 3 year relationship ended, she called me the next day after the break up and asked to take it slow and work on the relationship, the next day we had an argument again and the day after we settled on breaking up. Dude I never wanted someone back in my life so bad, Coach Lee is a blessing for giving me hope and working on myself :)
Coach Lee! I love this msg! It's been the second weekend in a row we've had an amazing time together, just being playful and having fun! I thought it was over for real, but last night he broke through my walls and we cried together in deep intimacy. We're growing beyond past negative dynamics and our attachment wounds! This is amazing. He isn't giving up on me, I've only ever met guys who get bored and give up or can't handle it... But my guy fights hard for me, and is teaching me to do the same. I'm glad we did 45 days of no contact, it worked well for us both, we really see the value of what we have now. ❤
It would be good for once to have someone stick by me and not give up. Makes me sometimes feel like I’m not good enough. Not talking down on myself just expressing how it looks
I have that with my wife my issue is with friends I can’t seem to find the ones who prioritize me not what I offer that’s why I decided to stop believing in friends and start believing in brotherhood that’s why I decide to become independent and free and that’s why I don’t trust people who don’t trust me and as far as I can tell nobody wants brotherhood everybody wants to be friends with benefits 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I started online dating in 2022 after the end of a long term relationship. I found an amazing girl but there were so many other people on there I kept looking. Once I realised how special she was it was too late. She moved on.
...i fought in the beginning...11 years ago....and she said to me before..."...I'm so glad you fought for us and our relationship.."...now...all I get from her is...crickets...tumbles weeds...and breadcrumbs....
Wouldn't you think your spouse would come and say, "I want things to get better.".Rather than destroy a 20 year marriage and everything you've worked for. But she chose to run off with internet flame.
While I agree with your video, it just makes my resentment and hurt worse ha ha. These instinctive "I can get better" are so strong in women, more than in men, once in a relationship (while strong for men when in the beginning phases). And now with the perceived unlimited options from social media, work, dating apps, plus no societal constraints to stay in relationships, I fail to see how a man can ever be "good enough" for couples to last. It's instincts most of the time, not even malicious. But yeah, I felt that. It's exactly what I felt and told my ex. And what dumpers fail to see, is that even IF they do find that amazing partner after, which is unlikely, it takes at least 2 years to build something significant again. All discarded for a temporary and vague drop in attraction levels... As for gratefulness, most of the woke mob, and feminists too, are always bitter while they have is so good. The victim mindset is the antithesis to gratitude.
That isn't a trait that is exclusive to men. The majority of divorces are initiated by women. Let's focus on what needs to be done and not finger point.
I had it and I fucked it up I don't know if you have a degree in Psychology or counseling or not I have a fearful avoidant attachment Style it's time to work on myself
This message needs to become a societal meme and go viral...it could transform a generation from swipers to stayers.
I truly hope it does. We are a sick society and need a return to stable, loving, respectful relationships, marriages, and families.
I agree. However it was prophecy that the love of many will grow cold. It appears its in our midst
I'm not giving up on love, and it was never me to throw in the towel. True love doesn't leave you alone, nor does it put you in 3rd parties to compete. No thank you... 👋 My true love will know where to find me. ❤
I did but he didn’t . His loss
This guy is a legend he got me through so many tough times when a girl has left me. Thank you Coach Lee
So true. Some will never miss it until it is gone.
Dam Coach, spot on!!!!
That's what women do all the time. While in a relationship, they are always looking for someone better.
Day 25 of being no contact, 3 year relationship ended, she called me the next day after the break up and asked to take it slow and work on the relationship, the next day we had an argument again and the day after we settled on breaking up. Dude I never wanted someone back in my life so bad, Coach Lee is a blessing for giving me hope and working on myself :)
You fight fir love and love fights for you...❤ what a great quote. Coach Lee is the best, so inspiring, wise and conforting
Coach Lee! I love this msg! It's been the second weekend in a row we've had an amazing time together, just being playful and having fun! I thought it was over for real, but last night he broke through my walls and we cried together in deep intimacy. We're growing beyond past negative dynamics and our attachment wounds! This is amazing. He isn't giving up on me, I've only ever met guys who get bored and give up or can't handle it... But my guy fights hard for me, and is teaching me to do the same. I'm glad we did 45 days of no contact, it worked well for us both, we really see the value of what we have now. ❤
So wise and beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It would be good for once to have someone stick by me and not give up. Makes me sometimes feel like I’m not good enough. Not talking down on myself just expressing how it looks
I have that with my wife my issue is with friends I can’t seem to find the ones who prioritize me not what I offer that’s why I decided to stop believing in friends and start believing in brotherhood that’s why I decide to become independent and free and that’s why I don’t trust people who don’t trust me and as far as I can tell nobody wants brotherhood everybody wants to be friends with benefits
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I tried to fight for it. Told him he was giving up too easily . 😢 I did appreciate him even with his flaws.
Well said. I got dumped. Her loss. 8 months later I detached. I have found new love. ❤
Went from no contact for 8 months to minimal contact now. Mixed signals from her, but then not texting for days
This.....truer words have never been spoken!!!
I started online dating in 2022 after the end of a long term relationship. I found an amazing girl but there were so many other people on there I kept looking. Once I realised how special she was it was too late. She moved on.
Serves you right 😂
💯 Coach Lee • hittin’ real hard!!! ❤
That's absolutely true, coach Lee
...i fought in the beginning...11 years ago....and she said to me before..."...I'm so glad you fought for us and our relationship.."...now...all I get from her is...crickets...tumbles weeds...and breadcrumbs....
I like your videos. Love the shorts. Thank you, coach.
Thank you! I’m glad you’re enjoying them. Remember my long-form videos too at youtube.com/@realcoachlee
Wouldn't you think your spouse would come and say, "I want things to get better.".Rather than destroy a 20 year marriage and everything you've worked for. But she chose to run off with internet flame.
So true but this message unfortunately doesn’t reach those that really need to see it and understand it.
Absolutely true
I loved my ex girlfriend more than anything but apparently she didn't feel the same way😢
Thanks. I like your shirt. Good color on you.
This was so beautifully said.
True Indeed. Amen 🙏🏽
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT SIR!!!!!❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍✌️✌️✌️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Well said!!!
The story of my life.
Coach Lee with that drip drip
Very true!
Yeah...
While I agree with your video, it just makes my resentment and hurt worse ha ha. These instinctive "I can get better" are so strong in women, more than in men, once in a relationship (while strong for men when in the beginning phases).
And now with the perceived unlimited options from social media, work, dating apps, plus no societal constraints to stay in relationships, I fail to see how a man can ever be "good enough" for couples to last. It's instincts most of the time, not even malicious.
But yeah, I felt that. It's exactly what I felt and told my ex. And what dumpers fail to see, is that even IF they do find that amazing partner after, which is unlikely, it takes at least 2 years to build something significant again. All discarded for a temporary and vague drop in attraction levels...
As for gratefulness, most of the woke mob, and feminists too, are always bitter while they have is so good. The victim mindset is the antithesis to gratitude.
I a grateful a few days ago you said I was staying in a bad relationship ,?????
It only applies to reasonable situations with two people who operate as teammates and family.
But about men who dont want to work it out
That isn't a trait that is exclusive to men. The majority of divorces are initiated by women. Let's focus on what needs to be done and not finger point.
Amen
Hey.... I'm not the one who folded lol
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I had it and I fucked it up I don't know if you have a degree in Psychology or counseling or not I have a fearful avoidant attachment Style it's time to work on myself
AMEN
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Amen