Toni Collier: Becoming the Woman God Made You to Be | Better Together on TBN
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2023
- This week on Better Together, Toni Collier speaks about embracing Biblical femininity. Join the conversation as Lisa Harper, Kristi McLelland, Ruth Chou Simons, and Jennie Allen discuss all things women, including your role as the helper, women in leadership and true femininity.
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5:24 Eve Was a Big Part of the Redemption Story
9:34 Using Your Gifts As a Woman
15:24 False Worth
17:28 True Worth of a Woman According to the Bible
26:17 Other People Play Powerful Roles in Our Stories
32:24 How Men Have Played a Positive Role in the Life of Women
35:22 Women in Leadership Roles in the Church
43:12 Choosing Femininity Over Anger - บันเทิง
Today is my 21st bday and I have decided to surrender my life Jesus Christ our Savior. This is my best birthday ever!!
🎉🎉Happy happy birthday, it's the best birthday decision you have made.
Welcome!
Happy belated birthday. I am so excited for you 🤗
Best decision EVER!🎉❤
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you know a talk is spirit filled when it makes you go back to the scriptures with a learning heart
dont be deceived this woman and this show is false
Matthew 7:15
You will know them by their fruit (results) and theirs is money which is obviously bad fruit (results)
@@dawnmcknight3890 For the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows. 1 Timothy 6:10
. Your comment is very much true. But, is that the Holy Spirit speaking or you?
If it's the latter, then it's good to ask the Holy Spirit to help us check our own hearts since he's the Helper right?! All to see the root of these thoughts/emotions we're thinking and feeling?
I say this because God's word says: "How can I know all the sins lurking in my heart? Cleanse me from these hidden faults. Keep your servant from deliberate sins! Don’t let them control me. Then I will be free of guilt and innocent of great sin." Psalms 19:12-13
And the Word of God will NEVER contradict itself: "God is not a man, so he does not lie. He is not human, so he does not change his mind. Has he ever spoken and failed to act? Has he ever promised and not carried it through?" Numbers 23:19.
This is not to condemn you or accuse you but to help you see things from a different perspective through the Word of God, but I also encourage you to test the spirit that's in me right now saying all these things and see if what I am saying is not bearing any good fruit.
If it is bearing good fruit, God is so loving that it doesn't matter how many times we do wrong (externally e.g. Actions, words, conduct etc. Internally e.g. Heart posture etc.) he will forgive us 70 x 70 x 70 times : "If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth. But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. If we claim we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar and showing that his word has no place in our hearts." 1 John 1:8-10
@@dawnmcknight3890 in order for anyone to know if something is legit you have to check it based of the criteria that already exists e.g. Right qualifications for a job, right person to marry, soda or water etc. List is endless.
The same is applied with testing people's spirits and their fruits WITH the word of God.
Tip: To get accurate results when testing a spirit is to check ourselves first. If we can't find anything, STILL ask God to reveal what is in your heart that may cause you to misdiagnose a situation. If what you're thinking or feeling is correct, pray to God to help you pray for that person because it's not an easy thing to do for some people, hence why Jesus said 1. We are to love our enemies and 2. Our mouths are to only speak life, not death (words that destroy and don't build up, gossip, mocking, condemnation etc)
God bless 🥰
The message about not being qualified because of your past experiences and or shortcoming means so much to me. I kept from singing for at church for a while after I had my 2nd daughter and I never went back to singing. It had been a couple of years. I remember the encouraging words that came from my Aunt one day after church. She said to me what she wish someone had said to her as a young woman. She told me to sing again and to never stop using the gift God gave me. It mean so much to me because I carried a lot of shame and I really just wanted to hide behind the scenes. She was basically saying that I'm still qualified and that I still have a lot to offer the world.
Thank you for sharing. I can also relate to this and am in the process of being revived to the gifts God has given me.
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"Sing again." Powerful itself. Will be praying for you. Your gifts are needed. ❤🙏🏾❤
When Toni said at the 14:32 mark about understanding how to "Access the lies." God tapped me on the shoulder. My confidence is from Him and being restored in real-time. So much work to do on rewriting the narrative I was telling myself. Learning to trust the results with God's intervention. 🙏🏾❤ Praying to rebuild my identity through Christ.
You ladies have transformed my view of femininity I feel so empowered!
God uses a word to described women that He used to describe Himself: Helper. This also reminded me of the Holy Spirit, He helps us and guides us in a manner we cannot help ourselves. This also changed my perspective at work because I am surrounded by men and most of the time, they really do not see the vision the way God has shown me and each time I make a presentation to them a light bulb goes off. I am happy to be a "helper" now because I understand the power behind the word. Thank you for this. Such a powerful conversation. Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me to watch this.
Lisa Harper mentioned something that the Holy Spirit showed me years ago about Adam and Eve and the tree they ate from, that if they had gone back and ate from the tree of life they would be forever stuck in shame and condemnation,so God made a way to protect them and today we have Jesus who hung on a tree to be our bread of life
I watched this on TV few minutes ago and just knew that God was talking to me directly. I couldn't just resist the tears this message brought down my eyes and I'm like i needed to hear it again so i decided to look for it on TH-cam. I've never been so elated,now i can watch and listen over and over again. Thank you so much y'all for reaching me personally❤ I'm stirred up to becoming all that God wants for me.Thank you mamas❤
I am so grateful for these women. When you think you are the only one going through something, they showed me that is a no!
Thank you ladies for this over powerful message because for so long, I believe that women has been stoned for just being. When we, as women, can truthfully begin to see the how much God truthfully love us beyond the eyes, lips, our outer image of who we and others believe that we are, it will then begin to transform our thoughts beyond what we imagine of ourselves. People have taken the mistake, first made in Genesis, and has tortured women for many years, with their laws and their rights and what they believe is appropriate and what is not, who women are and who they're not. When we all are made in the same and equal likeness and image of the one and only perfected. I'm still learning about His love and how to truly embrace it, so that I will grow with that love, to share it and it's true value.
Wow, the explanation of the word for helper! I remember feeling sad and resentful when thinking about being created to help and feeling like it wasn't fair and that nothing else about my desires, etc. mattered but I tried to just accept it as His will. I actually love helping, but knowing that being a woman means much more than that and that we matter to God is life changing. ❤
I suggest my short and free essay on Deborah. Men and women are perfectly equal spiritually. She was a pastor, according to the scriptures. This is how the Judges are described in Chronicles, by God.
A woman could only be given the authority by God to execute a man for his sin, if women are spiritually equal to men. A Judge could judge homicide cases according to Deuteronomy. Therefore Deborah, as a Judge, could execute a man for his sin.
Ms. Lisa Harper is looking SO GOOD y’all 😍😍😍
Is the light in her 👌🏾✨✨😍
I think y’all just set a lot of women free, including myself! Ezer is the missing link needed for purpose birthing. Thank you Jesus!
When God says the harvest is ready and He scans the earth but sees the workers are few. If the men don't raise their hands to lead, will God accept the raised hands of women and children who whole heartedly volunteer to lead and do the work? Of course God will accept and let you work for Him. We were all created in His image. Real talk, thanks for sharing..
This was soooo refreshing and encouraging!! As a woman waiting for God to lead me into my calling, hearing you all so eloquently share about your individual paths to where you are now reminds me that we all start somewhere. Hearing the love, zest, wisdom, knowledge and understanding that you all have for the word of God is so amazing! I just watched in awe and admiration. The new perspective I have gained regarding the garden,femininity and Eve!😩You ladies are truly blessed and please continue walking in your callings. The body needs it! I have to rewatch because there were so many jewels dropped to catch it all in one sitting 🙏🏾🤗💕
Wow what a Eve perspective! Just wow
YALL!! That's all I can say is YALL HELPED ME ON TODAY!! I'm just going to listen to this over and over again. I've needed this for so long
Praise God! I feel like this meant for me to see at work. I often feel that it is hard to embrace my Biblical wiring as a woman. It is especially hard when you walk that road alone. As a woman from the African American community, we are not taught enough how to embrace our femininity and embrace being a woman. I often have dreams of just being a wife, mother, and author. And sometimes it weighs on me to wonder if I am chasing someone else's dream. Not sure but this is something that I needed to see because ministry can start in the home. God knew what He was doing when He created all of us women, according to His purpose.
AMEN. 🙏🏾
Girl yes!!! Captivating changed my whole relationship with Jesus, the Holy Spirit, God the Father, the trinity. Truly life changing and i loved hearing your perspectives on this. Thank you for sharing your understanding 🩵 so affirming.
This EPISODE RIGHT HERE?!?!?! JESUS! THANK YOU LORD!
Look at God
I've been questioning myself lately about women ministry since most people quote the bible and say the only office that was given to women is prophesy, and we can't be teachers of the word, evangelists and apostles. We are only allowed to be Sunday school teachers, but this engagement was an eye opener
I suggest my short and free essay on Deborah. Men and women are perfectly equal spiritually. She was a pastor, according to the scriptures. This is how the Judges are described in Chronicles, by God.
A woman could only be given the authority by God to execute a man for his sin, if women are spiritually equal to men. A Judge could judge homicide cases according to Deuteronomy. Therefore Deborah, as a Judge, could execute a man for his sin.
Complementarianism is a false doctrine that is in opposition to what God actually did.
God appointed a woman as a Judge over Israel.
There was no gender qualification to be a Judge, in the scriptures.
I really needed this today. Even though I haven't been able to fulfill my callings in the way I thought, because of the beliefs of the leadership of our church, God will bring me to fulfill His callings in His timing and way.
Ruth, you just told my exact thoughts 🥹🫶🏼🙏🏽
All I can say is I thank God for Jesus & His endless grace & mercy.
@Toni, I can totally relate to being uncomfortable with my femininity. I too grew up w/a terminally ill mother who passed when I was 11. I grew up with my father and brother and learned everything about life from them. There were times they shamed me for being emotional. Just yesterday I thought, I wonder how my mom would have handled life at my age, she never made it that far and growing up without that feminine gentleness has been a struggle for me to embrace in myself. God's grace is teaching me to soften up and not be "Ford Tough". Thank you for your transparency.
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I needed this so much 😭❤️🩹 Thank you Jesus for my sisters around the world! Sending love from Brazil.
I love it all. You are all wise women. Thank you for your insight in the Bible that we are not afterthoughts we are full of potential and we are uniquely made. Thanks for sharing!
this woman are false
Matthew 7:15
You will know them by their fruit (results) is money which is bad fruit
Thank you for sharing your lives. It has opened my mind to be strong in the word. ❤❤❤❤❤
Dropping gems! Thank you for the wisdom.
Also just wanted to say Lisa Harper is absolutely glowing!
Thank you for this beautiful description of how God sees women. All of my life I have been made to believe I was 2nd best or was to be unseen. I’m sure I will watch this many times so I can meditate on the message.
Thank you for the truth. Can you provide scriptures I can review?
Just subscribed today atleast even when am not home I will be watching so blessed just from watching this on tbn
This message is so powerful. Thank you so much.
Wow. This changed how I see the terms "helper" and "helpmeet". Holy Spirit is our Helper. The fact that I, as a woman, am a helper even without a husband... absolutely makes sense but I just never connected the dots that way.
We are not last, we are completion. Wow!
This message was very encouraging and eye opener
This is one of your absolute best , I’ll have to listen a few times and take notes about Eve. Thankyou so much
A period comes after a sentence & it completes the sentence.
Beautiful, Thank you.
Thank u, thank u for this conversation! I pray we have a part 2. This brought so much healing and exposed the lies of the enemy
This conversation is one of five conversations on how God empowers women. You can watch every episode on the TBN app or our website. www.bettertogether.tv/watch 💜
Woe “stop running with someone holding your shirt from behind” Thank you Jesus for wonderful mentors placed in my life Christ is so loving and powerful in leading people to help one another Proverbs 18:34 A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
Holy Spirit help us show up and serve in His purpose 🙏🏾
I'm so grateful to God for bringing me to this content. It's blessed me tremendously over the past few months. I didn't see myself being this strong and feeling this whole so soon after divorce, but here I am closer to God than I've ever been in my life. Thank you ladies. 💜💜💜
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Thanks again 👌
I’m reading Captivating now and it’s just beautiful. Highly recommend!
Hallelujah! Glory to God thank you Father you are so good to us blessings in spirit and in truth amen! ❤🙏🏼 Very Relatable! Blessings lovely woman of the most high God!
Amen. Glory to God Almighty
Aww Jennie Allen is so pretty ✨
Wow Toni such a good share from all y’all, but I can so much relate to your story of thinking of If can be as tough as a man or like behave like a man and look like a man, I have made, and god made a mistake with me, but now I understand that I don’t have to do this anymore, because I am made in an image of God good and perfect! 🙏🏼
Antoinee!!! You are still amazing after all these years! I love to see you still living for Jesus🎉 what a journey you've had! ❤
I don’t even know how this video appeared on my feed but I am SO GLAD it did. I have subscribed. I have learnt so much and got a better understanding of God’s perspective and intention on the conversations and stories in the Bible through you ladies, so THANK YOU GOD for using these ladies to elaborate on you and your stories. Beautiful jobs ladies.
Welcome to our community! We are so happy God led you here. God bless you 💜
Studying Hebrew now… and ezer in the Hebrew the last letter in Hebrew is zayin it’s number is 7 and means completeness 🎉
I'm willing to learn 😌
We should bring Sarah Jakes Roberts on to talk about Eve. The relationship and revelation she has is 🤯🤯🤯
Ooooooo wee! Praise God for this episode.
Amazing
Lisa Harper ain't lying about the open toe shoes. I was told to get out the sanctuary because my pastor at the time okay for the sister's to wear open toe shoes. This stuff is real. Still exist in 2023. A lot of man made rules. I can go on and on.
Emet (Truth) cannot be stifled in any era when both She and He understand their Divine Fire 🔥
Just because someone or something told you that you could not share the gospel or use your gift or do something that the Bible tells us to do or do something that the Bible tells us to not do that is not an excuse and God still deserves us asking for forgiveness to him about that ❤
Amen 💙 💝 💗 💕 🙏 🙌
Can Lisa Harper please make a video of her bible how she turned it into notes/journal I see the many sticker notes on it I could use her strategy to study my bible thanks
god loves u
God forgive us and has forgiven Eve. Love you all keep up the good work ❤.
Cool 😎
Does anyone know what Bible Toni is using?
What is the name of the Bible that Professor Kristi McClelland had?
It is good to tell males they are beautiful.God made all things beautiful.
hi ! thank you for your show ! I do not have any friends who would help me or guide me towards walk with Jesus but i watch your show everyday ! am encourage and really helps me a lot. Please pray I would find one or two people that would help me grow in my spiritual journey with Christ. Am married to unbeliever and got one 8 year old boy. life is hard and I do need second job to pay of mortgage . thank you
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Mrs Lisa, you are really beautiful 😭🤭💖
Do you think that its possible to know God to the degree Adam knew God?
Lisa getting skinny! Looking good!
Just because someone or something told you that you could not share the gospel or use your gift or do something that the Bible tells us to do or do something that the Bible tells us to not do that is not an excuse and God still deserves us asking for forgiveness to him about that ❤
Just because someone or something told you that you could not share the gospel or use your gift or do something that the Bible tells us to do or do something that the Bible tells us to not do that is not an excuse and God still deserves us asking for forgiveness to him about that ❤
Just because someone or something told you that you could not share the gospel or use your gift or do something that the Bible tells us to do or do something that the Bible tells us to not do that is not an excuse and God still deserves us asking for forgiveness to him about that ❤