Silence is the loudest voice. They can’t stand it and plot your demise nonetheless. Transcend this lovely people and just remember they are only a cardboard cut out of someone who is real and only as significant as you make them. Peace 💕
My ex-narc was trying to silence me. Most of the time I did stick up for myself. I always paid dearly. Sometimes it was worth it. Glad that mess is over. I love trees! 🌳🙏🏻💙🙌🏻
It will take a long time and it will hurt a lot but it’s worth it-YOU are worth it!💕💕 My moto has become: “Live your best life and let go of whatever doesn’t serve you.”
They are very into themselves. They forget your birthday but want you to remember theirs. Holidays sucked last year. I don’t miss that person at all. Doing better each day! 😊 Your videos keep me motivated Andrew. Thank you! 😊
The narcissist never listened to you in the relationship, so walking away and going silent enables you to reclaim yourself. Silence speaks volumes, especially to the narcissist. Speak up about your experience with narcissism, it empowers and helps the healing process. Great video Andrew ,from up a tree !
I always silenced myself for years. Always to keep the peace. Today I silence myself because I love it. I have no need to argue with or provide information to someone who either uses it against me or to start an argument. Silence really can be quite golden. It’s funny when he used to give me the silent treatment it broke my heart. Now silence as I said is golden.
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone it’s the best. I’m 70. I have no intention of becoming homeless at this age. So I stay and live separately under one roof. But can I say, when you pass through the loving them more than you’ve ever loved anyone, more than yourself, to hating them just as intensely as you loved them into not caring about them at all, not even enough to dislike them let alone hate them it’s wonderful. When you get here (and it takes years if your stuck living with them) it’s a wonderful feeling. That is the freedom, not caring if they won lotto and not wanting to push them under a bus. Just happy for the universe to deal with them as it sees fit is freedom. In saying that. If the opportunity for me to get into my own home or should I say when the opportunity arises for me to move into my own home - I’m off. 🤣
I will never look at things the same way... I am a superwoman and no one will ever treat me like a piece of s*** again. I discarded him first after all the ghosting and lies and disrespect he was showing me... I am not the same person I was 14 months ago... I am stronger NOW. Goodnight Andrew and thank you..
Thank you Andrew. I have recently walked away from my relationship and you have helped me in so many ways - everything is making sense and I have the strength to keep going forward - light at the end of the tunnel ❤
Silence is your Super Power ,... Now that you .are left that relationship you are heading towards the Bridge of Abundance and good living!!!stay focused and never look Back,keep moving and Become The beautiful Authentic You,.♥️💚💙☘️🤗🌺🙏🎶
For me, there was no light at the end of the tunnel. I knew it was there, but it was not in sight. And then, one day I saw a pinlight in the tunnel. I fought my way out of the tunnel and now I am shining in the light. ☀🌻🌞
Super power= super insight. No longer giving people a pass, no longer ignoring red flags. Thanks to Andrew and other channels, we have the information and power!
Was silenced by the narc and I silenced myself to avoid arguments to protect our children. I swallowed my pride and let him devalue me and he called me all sort of nasty names. I am thankful to the Almighty for saving me.
You're right. I was silenced. I always found a way around it but it really is a problem. I am empowered now. I guess I was lucky because my narc didn't ever want to do anything, but our street had many block parties and now there are none. His affair really ruined everything on this street. It's a shame I had to go through it. I see so many others in the same predicament. I'm glad I'm through it. I don't ever want to go through it again.
I definitely didn't know anything about narcissist for over 30 YEARS UNTIL I SAW YOUR VIDEO'S AND I CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH!I TRULY APPRECIATE ALL OF YOUR HELP!! GOD BLESS YOU 😊
Thank you Andrew. A year ago I found your channel on here and it was the start of a new beginning after a lifetime of toxic abuse. I just want to say thank you for the time and effort that you put into the content. I hope others that need understanding and support from toxic relationships find you as well. God bless.
Great video❣️ I've heard it said a couple times about the discard around holidays. It didn't sink in until now. On Dec 10th I was discarded. My EXNARC had a fit because I set a boundary. He was driving, stopped the car and walked off. Long story short. When he sobered up the next day he said F you, F your birthday (4 days before Christmas), and F Christmas. I asked for a truce. I left on 1/15. No contact since. I'm finally sleeping through the night for the first time in 10 years. ❤
I was aware of the holiday discard but thought it was because he was too cheap to do anything for Christmas. Said 'there's not going to be any Christmas, we're getting a divorce '. * This, after the big lie he told that left me uninsured Christmas Eve. I changed Insurance companies and his poor driving record took me down with him. I had asked him specifically his current status. He lied. Rest is history..
❤️ 🌳- LOVE the tree setting. Andrew you breathe life, wisdom, all truth. Thank you. SILENCE IS A SUPERPOWER ❤❤❤ Thank you so much for all you do ✊ 💪❤️🙌🙏
Due to my ability to comment, one would think it is easy to express my needs to others. I struggle to speak up for myself... I'm learning to do this now. Honestly, regular people don't get offended like a narcissist does. 🤔
I'm practicing speaking up for myself too. I'm pleasantly surprised when I express my opinion to another person who is a kind, non-narc person and mostly they respect my opinion and I don't get a rage fit or get called stubborn or stupid or told my opinion doesn't matter. I say my opinion to others and I'm on guard for a major narc fallout but it doesn't happen a good amount of the time. I guess I was conditioned over the twenty years of the narc marriage say an opinion and then the big narc reaction happened. Trying to get over this connection of expressing my opinion and then wait for overreaction from another person like the narc ex did. Hopefully with enough practice and positive reinforcement this connection will cease and we will both feel more comfortable speaking up. Wishing you all the best with your efforts at speaking up for yourself! 🙏 ❤️
I started to silence myself, specifically to prevent the narc's rage and chaotic and destructive manupilation. My value, my goodness, my honesty, my commitment, me, being a person of high value, was stolen by her. Needless to say, I became an empty shell, drained of all my energy. I was tested to such a level that I nearly gave up. Now, on the healing path, I'm growing to be myself, processing the toxic relationship that only benefited the narc. Education on this topic brings me to understand my abuse and me being devalued for only the benefit of the narc. So i understand that my "silence" is transforming me into a super powered empath. I did get through the darkness and undesrands the promise of inheritance of being a super power, a person of value, a better me. My complete healing is still far from over. However, I enjoy my healing process as I hunger to be that best version of me. Thank you, Andrew. Namaste and God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 💖
I have thanked you before... but truly I am grateful for your great words filled with truth, experience and healing. You're like listening to a real and knowledgeable yet compassionate friend who GETS this insanity... yes, nothing in life could prepare anyone for this journey. Hearing YOUR strength gives me great hope. I'm so sorry ANY OF US have had to go thru this. 😢❤
It has a year that the entity called Narcissistic is gone from my life. I cut all communication, he is blocked on the phone, and all social media. I never looked back. But, I am still recovering from the fear of getting involved and feel safe with a new relationship.
Andrew, I love the setting you chose, the energy of the tree combined with yours. Plus it's a beautiful backdrop. Thank you for all you do for us. Namaste!
Hey everybody 🖐🏾 Blessings 💯 I like the tree, been a while since I climbed one. Andrew this message is right on time. I don't ever want to forget how the enemy came for me in the form of Wolf in sheep clothing. I'm blessed today and now I live my life differently. I'm aware that everyone doesn't have my best interest at heart. I'm stronger wiser better than I was when I was with the Narc. He surely tried to destroy me, but GOD. I give myself too Him and has always trusted Him in the day of my adversity. I've become educated and thankful to you and the community ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
God is Good! Isaiah 12:2 God is my savior; I will trust him and not be afraid. The LORD gives me power and strength; he is my savior. All the Glory is His! 🙏💕😌
Wow Andrew, 2 years 😊 Well done, and thank you for being there..My journey is just over 2 years, so our path has been very similar! Silence..you are so right, what a superpower 😊 The narcissist used the fact i would always fight my corner, and I never got that, it would be used against me constantly, it must have been so easy for them and their crazy making. However, I listened, stepped back from the chaos, took your daily advice, practiced stoicism and quiet reflection, walked, slept, read, breathed slowly. All simple, cost free investment in myself, and guess what, Silence is the only way to defeat the narcissist, it is like removing the oxygen from fire. The inner confidence and strength it nurtures is beyond anything you could ever imagine, I wish everyone to reach that point on their journey. Thank you Andrew and the whole community for the guidance and strength over these past 2 years, it has been invaluable to myself and many others, much love 😊
You are great! Thank you so much for your videos… you have guided me to make some imperative decisions.. and clarified things… to snap me out of denial! All the best to you. You are very strong x
I found being silent and watching patterns became predictable. It got to the point where I could predict how many days out to expect a explosion . No way to live ! FREEDOM 🇺🇸
I have learned that you can trust very few people, since thr narcissistic relationship(s)...I think I am being tested again...but I now know how to protect myself from a new acquaintance. I am prepared for possible red flags. If they appear, I will disappear from their presence...gray Rock/block, etc. Thank you Andrew for teaching about narcissistic abusive relationships. I am hopeful for a healthy friendship, but I am being careful, keeping healthy boundaries up. I am trusting me.✌❤🤓😎🙏💪
Thank you so much for another week of great videos! You have no idea how they help. You are awesome. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. Thank you for always reminding us that “we are not alone” 💞💪🏻
Long time follower here! 👍🙌💪🏼🫶🏼 You’ve helped so many including me. Namaste Andrew. 😇 I’ve started a nourishing habit thanks to you! I put a mix of your videos in my ears while I’m taking back MY space, MY home and MY GARDENS! 💪🏼🙌 I’ll move on to others when I’ve worn yours out. 😁😂👍 Blessings to you for ALL your time and ALL you share 💞💯
I am learning to keep silent.I no longer engage. It was too painful. I did experience the darkest hole/pit that I thought would kill me ....never want to experience that ever again. Thank you Andrew. Heading to Mexico for month of April. Doing this for myself. God bless you and thank you❤
🌈🪶🎶 When they figured out the couldn't duplicate you ,they discard you. Those attached to them.. stand by and watch them do it ;or try to do it.🔥 Thanks again 💜 Andrew 🐦 Grace 🌈🪶
Thank You Andrew so much. I had 8 neighbors led by a retired highway patrolman. So from their TITLES , I expected to be together people. but they blocked anybody from coming into the cul de sac to help me..Gas COmpany technicians included. They told me after they both had been dispatched here three times during a week once in my 30 years I survived them here. I had to call them cause I smelled gas. They said if these were their neighbors they"just throw open their front door and unload their shotgun on them
Thank you Andrew for such a powerful heartfelt video that inspires incentive and courage to separate ourselves and to keep our distance from toxic relationships. You are a powerful empathetic leader empowering and educating the populace on the truth about Narcissism…taking us from a place of being victimized to a position of being VICTORIOUS!! Thank you🙏♥️🙏
Good late afternoon ☀️ Andrew & to everyone here ! Silence is priceless , cause it is freedom stressed free & peaceful . Thank you Andrew for you being here with all your videos & Thank you all survivors for all y'all's comments here . I hoped Andrew & everyone here to have a wonderful blessed 🙏 day.
Andrew ur angel frum Heavn. Ty for explaining this toxicity I believd I was mentally confused about everything in my heart. Keep sharing Andrew I need ur guidance n commitd.knkwledgr
Thank You Dear One, Much Love. Yes growing, changing, daily getting back to me. This message really struck alot of cords, amazing. Thank God for getting out of the tunnel, but the learning journey was very enlightening. Wow I can breath again. I am so very very proud of all and anyone who dares to run away from the mean narcissist. I think the hardest part, besides they will not ever change.... is that they never really even cared. The entire relationship was all a lie. Much Love Andrew ❤❤❤
Your wisdom is priceless, Andrew. Fortunately my ex is 1300 miles away, living with the snakes he chose. I'm so much stronger, even knowing I'm still healing and practicing self love and care. You're so right... this is not for the faint of heart. I'm now keenly aware of making better decisions with logic instead of emotion.
Andrew I can absolutely relate to this... I think I knew the narcissistic behavior for a while but it wasn't until a few months ago that I totally unleashed war on the narcissists that were plaguing my life... And I have felt that after I totally took them to task my silence actually did feel like a super power... I am financially strong, I am fiercely independent, I live in a magnificent little town and I have a fabulous company car that has the narcissists in aggravating envy... And the more silent treatment I give out to them now and the stronger I become as an individual it is actually 'they' who are at the receiving end of the torture...I am now witnessing a new vibe where I become more and more aggressive and troublesome for them through each day that ticks away in silence... I am truly relishing the payback 🙂 ❤ and my determination to get even stronger is being inspired more and more because of this great feeling...
It's really sad I still am in awe that there are people like this I would of done anything for them they weren't just a narcissist they were crazy why do I miss them it literally made me sick I could of gone my whole life without having this experience OH MY GOODNESS 😢 NO I figured it out I left him he totally lost it I was finally in control as soon as I did I wasn't sick anymore and yet I miss him WHY Andrew thank you for your video's they really are helping but it still hurts
It’s hard to understand how you can have the mixed feelings. It’s a love/hate relationship, but it’s not healthy. Your heart and mind are at war because in one aspect you love and care but then you are being abused/mistreated. You are in love with the narrative/story and the memories, but the relationship is so heavily manipulated. Real love doesn’t hurt. Stay strong. ❤
Steve, don't forget the gray rock and don't look them in the eye. Never! Look at them in the dot on the forehead, if you really have to. Besides, I don't understand why you go among them? Why mess with them unnecessarily? You don't need them ‼️... but they need you. That's your superpower 👉You don't need them ‼️
Trees are known by their fruit . Pruning may not look pleasant but can greatly enhance quality and quantity of fruit . Treat yourself well like you would another ! 🙏♥️🌿🕊️
This tree has an amazing colour.🌳 Thank you Andrew for this and all your so helpful and educational videos. 3 years ago I left the narc marriage. I came with only one suitcase from Hong Kong. I MADE IT and you supported me a lot in the dark and difficult times. Love and hugs, Lio 💓
Hi Lio, glad you made it, Lio, and you got the support you needed from Andrew and his videos. You are very courageous to leave the narc relationship in Hong Kong with one suitcase. All the best to you on your healing journey. ❤️ 🙏
Hi girls, thank you so much for your comments. It was a bretty tough time. I had to rebuild everything. But now the time has come to 😉 Enjoy life! I hope you are all doing well. Have a beautiful Sunday all! 🥰🦋⚘
Another excellent video After 28 years on my own I now fully understand what I was dealing with I was discarded but for 15 years I never gave up I wanted to go back to the good ole days Now I realize it was hopeless from day one The good times were a facade and I was being love bombed I gave it when110% all to no avail But…God rewarded me with an excellent lawyer and a no nonsense judge Today I am happy healthy and prosperous Thank you God Lesson is dis-ease causes disease Get out now before you lose your health Blessings from Canada
Thank you Andrew for a great video filled with compassion, kindness, and hope. The tree is beautiful. Seeing trees always give me peace. Today is a great day. I went through my home room to room. I removed objects that don't serve me. Most of the items were given to me by one of the many narcissists that was once a part of my life. I made 2 piles. One pile I plan on donating. The second pile of items I took the time to break and destroy. It felt very freeing. I ended up throwing out 2 bags of garbage. I feel reborn. You are right, Andrew. With passing day that I'm not being oppressed by being silenced by the narcissist, I am getting stronger and better. God bless everyone on this channel. We all deserve to be loved and valued.❤😊👍
The narcisists I have been dealing with introduced themselves to my family, friends, business clients, neighbours and even my doctors without my participation - hard to believe but it is true. Then the narcisists destroyed all of those relationships and got me totally isolated using those people as flying monkeys who would stalk me, financially abuse me and even damage my property. It felt as If all the people close to me have died in a terrible disaster, the grieving took years and I felt like a fugitive being chased by a pack of wolves. Without prayer and support from your channel and many others I would not have survived, but I did. I have reached the end of the tunnel and I thank God for the Light. Thank you and God bless you❤❤❤
I silenced myself for so long to keep the peace in the relationship… now I willingly silence myself because I went no contact, I blocked him everywhere and I ignored two hoovers (he messaged me and his eMails went to the junk folder) I will neither react nor respond - he wrote that „we need closure“ and need to talk. My closure was him gaslighting me, cheating on me, projecting his anger on me and always making it my fault. I will not respond to any hoovers. And my silence speaks volumes! 🙌🏼💪🏼 Thank you Andrew for your amazing videos. They give me the willpower to move on and to rise, thrive and shine again! 🌷❤️✨
Taking the last of the clothes to my son today. It's good to get that Narcissistic weight from my neck! Even on the phone he's telling me I'm unfit parent! I told him at 29 he need to be an adult and I CannotCarry him through his life, I'm 64 and retired! He's living in a tent( from the girlfriend) now. I am so glad for this stupid agony to end! I am so tired of Crazy. When on my way home I will start a new life again.
Great video Andrew. Yes I've definitely had some dark days, feeling alone and hurt and at my lowest after being discarded. Now I'm better it's not perfect but it's a lot better than being in the narcissistic relationship. I taking it day by day and improving myself for myself. My ex narcissist is still trying to contact me, but I still haven't responded. It's difficult but I just can't do it. Thanks everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew.
God! All you crew. I'm praying that I am going to meet Andrew In the Fareal! I have alot of thanks to give him in person so he can see in my Eyes just how much his guidance has saved and is saving my life. These M*"+#@er f'ers are mean and dangerous devils! Like white on rice! 🤝🤞
andrew being adventurous did you climb the tree lol andrew i hear water in the background are you by a pond have a peaceful night andrew happy saturday my friend yes silence and superpower are very powerful words
Let's be real. Thank you Andrew. What happened to my mind? It's something I had to go through. If I should be anywhere else I would be there. God doesn't make mistakes. I've put my faith in god. In his hands. Footprints. My glow. That can't be taken away.
Thank you for this video…. You have helped me so much… it’s been about 5 months since I’ve left my narrissist husband.. I couldn’t take anymore! But I’m doing much better now and loving life with my family again!!! You have helped me so much and also a book I have read it’s called the Gratitude Power Workbook. Love your beautiful smile too
GM , thank you for helping me understand all I went thru ,it's making sense I learned Lessons and it's time to LIVE and BE ☺️ Healing daily, appreciate your guidance. 🌈💫⭐☀️🙏🏽🕊️
Wonderful, Valuable message; Love it The practice of Silence allows us to deprive narcissists and toxic people in or around our lives the dramatic attention they crave consistantly to feel important. The Power of Silence allows enables us to deal with them with clear set boundries, that we learn through education learning what type of tactics they use against us. The benefits of Silence is empowering for us because we are transforming and implementing our control to protect ourselves. To maintain our mental health silence can help us quiet our minds, improve and increase clarity in making decisions, compassion and awareness of ourselves. Thank you, Andrew Love and Light to all in this community.
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First.😊😊.Silence is super power. Taking back your mind, body, and soul. Never letting anyone steal your joy no more. 💯💙🤚😊
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Silence is the loudest voice. They can’t stand it and plot your demise nonetheless. Transcend this lovely people and just remember they are only a cardboard cut out of someone who is real and only as significant as you make them. Peace 💕
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My ex-narc was trying to silence me. Most of the time I did stick up for myself. I always paid dearly. Sometimes it was worth it. Glad that mess is over. I love trees! 🌳🙏🏻💙🙌🏻
I love trees too. 😂
Absolutely informative!!!! THANK YOU!
It will take a long time and it will hurt a lot but it’s worth it-YOU are worth it!💕💕
My moto has become:
“Live your best life and let go of whatever doesn’t serve you.”
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They are very into themselves. They forget your birthday but want you to remember theirs. Holidays sucked last year. I don’t miss that person at all. Doing better each day! 😊 Your videos keep me motivated Andrew. Thank you! 😊
Exactly 💯- it’s allll about THEM
They take everything. And our voice.
The narcissist never listened to you in the relationship, so walking away and going silent enables you to reclaim yourself. Silence speaks volumes, especially to the narcissist. Speak up about your experience with narcissism, it empowers and helps the healing process. Great video Andrew ,from up a tree !
I always silenced myself for years. Always to keep the peace. Today I silence myself because I love it. I have no need to argue with or provide information to someone who either uses it against me or to start an argument. Silence really can be quite golden. It’s funny when he used to give me the silent treatment it broke my heart. Now silence as I said is golden.
Beautiful empowerment 🙌😌😊
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone it’s the best. I’m 70. I have no intention of becoming homeless at this age. So I stay and live separately under one roof. But can I say, when you pass through the loving them more than you’ve ever loved anyone, more than yourself, to hating them just as intensely as you loved them into not caring about them at all, not even enough to dislike them let alone hate them it’s wonderful. When you get here (and it takes years if your stuck living with them) it’s a wonderful feeling. That is the freedom, not caring if they won lotto and not wanting to push them under a bus. Just happy for the universe to
deal with them as it sees fit is freedom.
In saying that. If the opportunity for me to get into my own home or should I say when the opportunity arises for me to move into my own home - I’m off. 🤣
I agree
Silence is golden 💞🙋
You are so correct. I love the quiet. When you wrap yourself in quite time you become at peace
Thank you Andrew!!!❤❤❤
Welcome 😊🙌
❤superpowers 🧜♀️🧞♀️🧚♀️. All you talk about is 🙀True xx
I thought I could fly the other day ,although I know I can't, just that feeling it was brilliant ,namaste
Silence is wisdom. Wisdom is silent. Thanks Andrew. namaste
Namaste 🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone great work Andrew. Peace my friend and blessings
I will never look at things the same way... I am a superwoman and no one will ever treat me like a piece of s*** again. I discarded him first after all the ghosting and lies and disrespect he was showing me... I am not the same person I was 14 months ago... I am stronger NOW. Goodnight Andrew and thank you..
Brilliant ,me to 🙏 namaste
2 years woo!!!!!!!!!!!🎉
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Thank you Andrew. I have recently walked away from my relationship and you have helped me in so many ways - everything is making sense and I have the strength to keep going forward - light at the end of the tunnel ❤
Silence is your Super Power ,... Now that you .are left that relationship you are heading towards the Bridge of Abundance and good living!!!stay focused and never look Back,keep moving and Become The beautiful Authentic You,.♥️💚💙☘️🤗🌺🙏🎶
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For me, there was no light at the end of the tunnel. I knew it was there, but it was not in sight. And then, one day I saw a pinlight in the tunnel. I fought my way out of the tunnel and now I am shining in the light. ☀🌻🌞
Super power= super insight. No longer giving people a pass, no longer ignoring red flags. Thanks to Andrew and other channels, we have the information and power!
Yes, knowing now what we did know, before, is priceless.
Was silenced by the narc and I silenced myself to avoid arguments to protect our children. I swallowed my pride and let him devalue me and he called me all sort of nasty names. I am thankful to the Almighty for saving me.
The worst pain was inflicted upon me two years ago during/after the passing of my mother. It was horrible...
You're right. I was silenced. I always found a way around it but it really is a problem. I am empowered now. I guess I was lucky because my narc didn't ever want to do anything, but our street had many block parties and now there are none. His affair really ruined everything on this street. It's a shame I had to go through it. I see so many others in the same predicament. I'm glad I'm through it. I don't ever want to go through it again.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏😌🙌💪
Thank you so much.
Accurate and thank you
I definitely didn't know anything about narcissist for over 30 YEARS UNTIL I SAW YOUR VIDEO'S AND I CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH!I TRULY APPRECIATE ALL OF YOUR HELP!! GOD BLESS YOU 😊
Welcome 🙏😌🙌
29 years for me. What a waste of time.
Thank you Andrew. A year ago I found your channel on here and it was the start of a new beginning after a lifetime of toxic abuse. I just want to say thank you for the time and effort that you put into the content. I hope others that need understanding and support from toxic relationships find you as well. God bless.
Thanks for another great video❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🤍
Welcome 😌🙌😊
What an awesome testament! Thanks Andrew ❤
Welcome 🙌😌
❤Andrew a beam of light and hope in the world
Great video❣️ I've heard it said a couple times about the discard around holidays. It didn't sink in until now. On Dec 10th I was discarded. My EXNARC had a fit because I set a boundary. He was driving, stopped the car and walked off. Long story short. When he sobered up the next day he said F you, F your birthday (4 days before Christmas), and F Christmas. I asked for a truce. I left on 1/15. No contact since. I'm finally sleeping through the night for the first time in 10 years. ❤
Thank you 😌🙌🙏💪😊
I was aware of the holiday discard but thought it was because he was too cheap to do anything for Christmas. Said 'there's not going to be any Christmas, we're getting a divorce '. * This, after the big lie he told that left me uninsured Christmas Eve. I changed Insurance companies and his poor driving record took me down with him. I had asked him specifically his current status. He lied. Rest is history..
Happy for you 🎉
Yess!! I’m glad you’re doing well. 😊
❤️ 🌳- LOVE the tree setting. Andrew you breathe life, wisdom, all truth. Thank you. SILENCE IS A SUPERPOWER ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for all you do ✊ 💪❤️🙌🙏
Good evening Andrew and everyone ❤️💪
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Hi Ruby sending joy and peace ♥️💚💙☘️☘️
@@flowerpower4944 thank you Flower 🌼
Right back to you 💞💞💞🙏☀️
Due to my ability to comment, one would think it is easy to express my needs to others.
I struggle to speak up for myself... I'm learning to do this now.
Honestly, regular people don't get offended like a narcissist does. 🤔
I'm practicing speaking up for myself too. I'm pleasantly surprised when I express my opinion to another person who is a kind, non-narc person and mostly they respect my opinion and I don't get a rage fit or get called stubborn or stupid or told my opinion doesn't matter. I say my opinion to others and I'm on guard for a major narc fallout but it doesn't happen a good amount of the time. I guess I was conditioned over the twenty years of the narc marriage say an opinion and then the big narc reaction happened. Trying to get over this connection of expressing my opinion and then wait for overreaction from another person like the narc ex did. Hopefully with enough practice and positive reinforcement this connection will cease and we will both feel more comfortable speaking up. Wishing you all the best with your efforts at speaking up for yourself! 🙏 ❤️
@@hollylorn131 Thank you. Amazing to continually find others..who actually get what we are sharing. Blessings to you ❤️
@@carolprivate418 I'm glad you posted your message. I definitely understand what you're going through. Blessings to you too! ❤️ 🙏
Silent is golden!
Yes is true and I’m experiencing it now, thank you!
I started to silence myself, specifically to prevent the narc's rage and chaotic and destructive manupilation. My value, my goodness, my honesty, my commitment, me, being a person of high value, was stolen by her. Needless to say, I became an empty shell, drained of all my energy. I was tested to such a level that I nearly gave up. Now, on the healing path, I'm growing to be myself, processing the toxic relationship that only benefited the narc. Education on this topic brings me to understand my abuse and me being devalued for only the benefit of the narc. So i understand that my "silence" is transforming me into a super powered empath. I did get through the darkness and undesrands the promise of inheritance of being a super power, a person of value, a better me. My complete healing is still far from over. However, I enjoy my healing process as I hunger to be that best version of me. Thank you, Andrew. Namaste and God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 💖
JB, That's exciting to hear. You are so on track. I wish you a fantastic journey ahead. I know it will be successful
L O V E to You❤ Andrew ❤Namaste 🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Great video Andrew!!! I also like your videos out in nature.
Thank you so much. I was ruminating on this all day. Your videos are like an understanding friend
I have thanked you before... but truly I am grateful for your great words filled with truth, experience and healing. You're like listening to a real and knowledgeable yet compassionate friend who GETS this insanity... yes, nothing in life could prepare anyone for this journey. Hearing YOUR strength gives me great hope. I'm so sorry ANY OF US have had to go thru this. 😢❤
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Hi Andrew! Hope you are having a great Spring.
It has a year that the entity called Narcissistic is gone from my life. I cut all communication, he is blocked on the phone, and all social media. I never looked back. But, I am still recovering from the fear of getting involved and feel safe with a new relationship.
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I never had a voice try & stop me talking now 😊 Totally agree taking them to your favourite places 💃🏼🎸🎶.bless you for all that you’re doing 🙏
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Thats just wonderful...keep on shining!!!💞💞💞
Andrew, I love the setting you chose, the energy of the tree combined with yours. Plus it's a beautiful backdrop. Thank you for all you do for us. Namaste!
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Hey everybody 🖐🏾 Blessings 💯 I like the tree, been a while since I climbed one. Andrew this message is right on time. I don't ever want to forget how the enemy came for me in the form of Wolf in sheep clothing. I'm blessed today and now I live my life differently. I'm aware that everyone doesn't have my best interest at heart. I'm stronger wiser better than I was when I was with the Narc. He surely tried to destroy me, but GOD. I give myself too Him and has always trusted Him in the day of my adversity. I've become educated and thankful to you and the community ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
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Blessings to you, Ruthie! ❤️ ✌️ 🙏
God is Good!
Isaiah 12:2
God is my savior; I will trust him and not be afraid. The LORD gives me power and strength; he is my savior.
All the Glory is His!
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Wow Andrew, 2 years 😊 Well done, and thank you for being there..My journey is just over 2 years, so our path has been very similar!
Silence..you are so right, what a superpower 😊
The narcissist used the fact i would always fight my corner, and I never got that, it would be used against me constantly, it must have been so easy for them and their crazy making.
However, I listened, stepped back from the chaos, took your daily advice, practiced stoicism and quiet reflection, walked, slept, read, breathed slowly. All simple, cost free investment in myself, and guess what, Silence is the only way to defeat the narcissist, it is like removing the oxygen from fire.
The inner confidence and strength it nurtures is beyond anything you could ever imagine, I wish everyone to reach that point on their journey. Thank you Andrew and the whole community for the guidance and strength over these past 2 years, it has been invaluable to myself and many others, much love 😊
You are great! Thank you so much for your videos… you have guided me to make some imperative decisions.. and clarified things… to snap me out of denial! All the best to you. You are very strong x
I found being silent and watching patterns became predictable. It got to the point where I could predict how many days out to expect a explosion . No way to live ! FREEDOM 🇺🇸
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Rock on Andrew.
We should have a national thank you source day.
I have learned that you can trust very few people, since thr narcissistic relationship(s)...I think I am being tested again...but I now know how to protect myself from a new acquaintance. I am prepared for possible red flags. If they appear, I will disappear from their presence...gray Rock/block, etc. Thank you Andrew for teaching about narcissistic abusive relationships. I am hopeful for a healthy friendship, but I am being careful, keeping healthy boundaries up. I am trusting me.✌❤🤓😎🙏💪
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Thank you for everything. You are always welcome in our home in Connecticut. You have been an inspiration. To me. And my family.
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Thank you so much for another week of great videos! You have no idea how they help. You are awesome. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. Thank you for always reminding us that “we are not alone” 💞💪🏻
Keep going warriors
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Long time follower here! 👍🙌💪🏼🫶🏼 You’ve helped so many including me. Namaste Andrew. 😇 I’ve started a nourishing habit thanks to you! I put a mix of your videos in my ears while I’m taking back MY space, MY home and MY GARDENS! 💪🏼🙌 I’ll move on to others when I’ve worn yours out. 😁😂👍 Blessings to you for ALL your time and ALL you share 💞💯
Great idea, Paula!
Beautiful empowering message of inspiration and encouragement 😌🙌🙏😊
❤ 100% agreed
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I am learning to keep silent.I no longer engage. It was too painful. I did experience the darkest hole/pit that I thought would kill me ....never want to experience that ever again. Thank you Andrew. Heading to Mexico for month of April. Doing this for myself. God bless you and thank you❤
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🌈🪶🎶 When they figured out the couldn't duplicate you ,they discard you. Those attached to them.. stand by and watch them do it ;or try to do it.🔥 Thanks again 💜 Andrew 🐦 Grace 🌈🪶
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Mine thought he COULD duplicate me but found out he couldn't lol I tried to warn him lol
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Thank You Andrew so much. I had 8 neighbors led by a retired highway patrolman. So from their TITLES , I expected to be together people. but they blocked anybody from coming into the cul de sac to help me..Gas COmpany technicians included. They told me after they both had been dispatched here three times during a week once in my 30 years I survived them here. I had to call them cause I smelled gas. They said if these were their neighbors they"just throw open their front door and unload their shotgun on them
Love and light Andrew. Namaste 🌎🎶👍💫❤️
Oh wow 🥰 I love trees , ♥️ this is beautiful 🥰 setting
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Thank you Andrew for such a powerful heartfelt video that inspires incentive and courage to separate ourselves and to keep our distance from toxic relationships. You are a powerful empathetic leader empowering and educating the populace on the truth about Narcissism…taking us from a place of being victimized to a position of being VICTORIOUS!! Thank you🙏♥️🙏
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Hey, Andrew.
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Good late afternoon ☀️ Andrew & to everyone here ! Silence is priceless , cause it is freedom stressed free & peaceful . Thank you Andrew for you being here with all your videos & Thank you all survivors for all y'all's comments here . I hoped Andrew & everyone here to have a wonderful blessed 🙏 day.
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Andrew ur angel frum Heavn. Ty for explaining this toxicity I believd I was mentally confused about everything in my heart. Keep sharing Andrew I need ur guidance n commitd.knkwledgr
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Thank you Andrew. Good to see you look so well. Congratulations! 🌟🔥👏🌺👍🏾💐🎊😊🌼
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Thank You Dear One, Much Love. Yes growing, changing, daily getting back to me. This message really struck alot of cords, amazing. Thank God for getting out of the tunnel, but the learning journey was very enlightening. Wow I can breath again. I am so very very proud of all and anyone who dares to run away from the mean narcissist. I think the hardest part, besides they will not ever change.... is that they never really even cared. The entire relationship was all a lie. Much Love Andrew ❤❤❤
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Your wisdom is priceless, Andrew. Fortunately my ex is 1300 miles away, living with the snakes he chose. I'm so much stronger, even knowing I'm still healing and practicing self love and care. You're so right... this is not for the faint of heart. I'm now keenly aware of making better decisions with logic instead of emotion.
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Andrew I can absolutely relate to this... I think I knew the narcissistic behavior for a while but it wasn't until a few months ago that I totally unleashed war on the narcissists that were plaguing my life... And I have felt that after I totally took them to task my silence actually did feel like a super power... I am financially strong, I am fiercely independent, I live in a magnificent little town and I have a fabulous company car that has the narcissists in aggravating envy... And the more silent treatment I give out to them now and the stronger I become as an individual it is actually 'they' who are at the receiving end of the torture...I am now witnessing a new vibe where I become more and more aggressive and troublesome for them through each day that ticks away in silence... I am truly relishing the payback 🙂 ❤ and my determination to get even stronger is being inspired more and more because of this great feeling...
It's really sad I still am in awe that there are people like this I would of done anything for them they weren't just a narcissist they were crazy why do I miss them it literally made me sick I could of gone my whole life without having this experience OH MY GOODNESS 😢 NO I figured it out I left him he totally lost it I was finally in control as soon as I did I wasn't sick anymore and yet I miss him WHY Andrew thank you for your video's they really are helping but it still hurts
It’s hard to understand how you can have the mixed feelings. It’s a love/hate relationship, but it’s not healthy. Your heart and mind are at war because in one aspect you love and care but then you are being abused/mistreated. You are in love with the narrative/story and the memories, but the relationship is so heavily manipulated. Real love doesn’t hurt. Stay strong. ❤
Thank you Andrew I needed this I'm going bowling tomorrow and there are two people who are a narcissist but I'm going to do my best to ignore them
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Steve, don't forget the gray rock and don't look them in the eye. Never! Look at them in the dot on the forehead, if you really have to.
Besides, I don't understand why you go among them? Why mess with them unnecessarily?
You don't need them ‼️... but they need you.
That's your superpower 👉You don't need them ‼️
Trees are known by their fruit . Pruning may not look pleasant but can greatly enhance quality and quantity of fruit . Treat yourself well like you would another ! 🙏♥️🌿🕊️
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Thanks Andrew.
This tree has an amazing colour.🌳
Thank you Andrew for this and all your so helpful and educational videos.
3 years ago I left the narc marriage. I came with only one suitcase from Hong Kong.
I MADE IT and you supported me a lot in the dark and difficult times.
Love and hugs, Lio 💓
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Lio, you are so strong and brave to leave the narc with only one suitcase! I admire you 🎉
Hi Lio, glad you made it, Lio, and you got the support you needed from Andrew and his videos. You are very courageous to leave the narc relationship in Hong Kong with one suitcase. All the best to you on your healing journey. ❤️ 🙏
I admire you, Lio, so much!❤
Hi girls, thank you so much for your comments. It was a bretty tough time. I had to rebuild everything.
But now the time has come to 😉 Enjoy life!
I hope you are all doing well. Have a beautiful Sunday all! 🥰🦋⚘
Thank you, God bless you, Andrew- ❤❤❤🙏
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Andrew I wonder if you could build a treehouse for you to film videos in! ❤ love your green backgrounds ❤🌴🌳🏝️
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Another excellent video
After 28 years on my own I now fully understand what I was dealing with
I was discarded but for 15 years I never gave up
I wanted to go back to the good ole days
Now I realize it was hopeless from day one
The good times were a facade and I was being love bombed
I gave it when110% all to no avail
But…God rewarded me with an excellent lawyer and a no nonsense judge
Today I am happy healthy and prosperous
Thank you God
Lesson is dis-ease causes disease
Get out now before you lose your health
Blessings from Canada
FOREVER grateful for ANDREWS daily dose 🙏 Namaste 🌸
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Thank you Andrew, namaste 🙏🏼☀️
Thank you Andrew for a great video filled with compassion, kindness, and hope. The tree is beautiful. Seeing trees always give me peace.
Today is a great day. I went through my home room to room. I removed objects that don't serve me. Most of the items were given to me by one of the many narcissists that was once a part of my life.
I made 2 piles. One pile I plan on donating. The second pile of items I took the time to break and destroy. It felt very freeing. I ended up throwing out 2 bags of garbage.
I feel reborn. You are right, Andrew. With passing day that I'm not being oppressed by being silenced by the narcissist, I am getting stronger and better.
God bless everyone on this channel. We all deserve to be loved and valued.❤😊👍
The narcisists I have been dealing with introduced themselves to my family, friends, business clients, neighbours and even my doctors without my participation - hard to believe but it is true. Then the narcisists destroyed all of those relationships and got me totally isolated using those people as flying monkeys who would stalk me, financially abuse me and even damage my property. It felt as If all the people close to me have died in a terrible disaster, the grieving took years and I felt like a fugitive being chased by a pack of wolves. Without prayer and support from your channel and many others I would not have survived, but I did. I have reached the end of the tunnel and I thank God for the Light. Thank you and God bless you❤❤❤
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I silenced myself for so long to keep the peace in the relationship… now I willingly silence myself because I went no contact, I blocked him everywhere and I ignored two hoovers (he messaged me and his eMails went to the junk folder) I will neither react nor respond - he wrote that „we need closure“ and need to talk. My closure was him gaslighting me, cheating on me, projecting his anger on me and always making it my fault. I will not respond to any hoovers. And my silence speaks volumes! 🙌🏼💪🏼
Thank you Andrew for your amazing videos. They give me the willpower to move on and to rise, thrive and shine again! 🌷❤️✨
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Taking the last of the clothes to my son today. It's good to get that Narcissistic weight from my neck! Even on the phone he's telling me I'm unfit parent! I told him at 29 he need to be an adult and I CannotCarry him through his life, I'm 64 and retired! He's living in a tent( from the girlfriend) now. I am so glad for this stupid agony to end! I am so tired of Crazy. When on my way home I will start a new life again.
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@@flowerpower4944 thank you. I'm tired, long trip, but all went well.
Thanks Andrew for educating us every day and sharing your experience
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Great video Andrew. Yes I've definitely had some dark days, feeling alone and hurt and at my lowest after being discarded. Now I'm better it's not perfect but it's a lot better than being in the narcissistic relationship. I taking it day by day and improving myself for myself. My ex narcissist is still trying to contact me, but I still haven't responded. It's difficult but I just can't do it. Thanks everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew.
I am so happy for you that you love and respect yourself enough to stay the course and steadily get better! The rewards are great❤
Hold fast Carlos. Do NOT give in to the Hoover. It will only be worse the next time around. Keep it moving forward, AWAY FROM THE NARC.
Stay strong Carlos. All blessings to you.🙏🕊️🌈
Dear Andrew you are a great encouragement to us all. We appreciate you very much. Thank you . Bless you. 🌟🕊️🙏
God! All you crew. I'm praying that I am going to meet Andrew In the Fareal! I have alot of thanks to give him in person so he can see in my Eyes just how much his guidance has saved and is saving my life. These M*"+#@er f'ers are mean and dangerous devils! Like white on rice! 🤝🤞
andrew being adventurous did you climb the tree lol andrew i hear water in the background are you by a pond have a peaceful night andrew happy saturday my friend yes silence and superpower are very powerful words
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Nice to see the green trees and yes between silent treatment and all that we are pretty much a ghost partner
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Let's be real. Thank you Andrew. What happened to my mind? It's something I had to go through. If I should be anywhere else I would be there. God doesn't make mistakes. I've put my faith in god. In his hands. Footprints. My glow. That can't be taken away.
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Thank you for this video…. You have helped me so much… it’s been about 5 months since I’ve left my narrissist husband.. I couldn’t take anymore! But I’m doing much better now and loving life with my family again!!! You have helped me so much and also a book I have read it’s called the Gratitude Power Workbook. Love your beautiful smile too
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I want the highest level of pleasentless in my daily life for me and for all sentient beings❤
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It is soul destroying.
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GM , thank you for helping me understand all I went thru ,it's making sense I learned Lessons and it's time to LIVE and BE ☺️ Healing daily, appreciate your guidance. 🌈💫⭐☀️🙏🏽🕊️
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The only way I can be is myself,if my guy doesn’t like it here’s the door,I’m not worried about anything else,silence is golden😎
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Wonderful, Valuable message; Love it
The practice of Silence allows us to deprive narcissists and toxic people in or around our lives the dramatic attention they crave consistantly to feel important.
The Power of Silence allows enables us to deal with them with clear set boundries, that we learn through education learning what type of tactics they use against us.
The benefits of Silence is empowering for us because we are transforming and implementing our control to protect ourselves.
To maintain our mental health silence can help us quiet our minds, improve and increase clarity in making decisions, compassion and awareness of ourselves.
Thank you, Andrew Love and Light to all in this community.