Thank you for the video. You asked good questions about Nigerian women in the beginning of the video. 1. In an international poll conducted about a year ago, Nigeria has the highest number of unfaithful women. About 64% of the Nigerian women that responded cheated on their partners (husband or boyfriend), many multiple times. Nigeria was first. The US was about 14%. 2. A doctor that works with many embassies (including Canadian embassy) in paternity cases for visa said that about 25% of paternity tests done for couples showed that the man was not the father of all or some of the children. Of course, we know about Nedu's case. 3. Nigeria is a country where RUNs has been normalized, where girls settle lecturers with you-know-what willingly (I agree that there are cases of harassment, but that's not what I'm talking about here), where young women that have no job (some in the university) send money to their parents and siblings, pay parent's rent, sibling's sch fee, pay her own sch fees, and pay tithe with RUNs money. 4. I took matters into my hands and conducted a poll using my male friends, cousins, relations, old classmates. I asked if they had ever "plucked" a woman from the hands of another man, or if they have dated any woman that had no boyfriend or husband when they started dating or when they had a jigijigi affair or one-night stand. For those that are married, I told them to include during marriage or before marriage. Of the 54 people that responded, only 2 listed one case each when he was sure he could swear on his life that the woman didn't have a boyfriend. Remember that some of these men have had multiple relationships in their lifetimes, so we are talking about men who have had affairs with over 200 women combined. So if men are the cheaters, where do they get these partners? Check No. 1,2, and 3 for the answers.
Very well said. I have been saying this. It didn’t start today, just that social media is making us know more. When we were in the university, we had many runs girls, and those who weren’t were looked down on and called ju girls. Girls followed men to buy gold, like you said some are responsible for their families. Class reps did the assignment of some girls while they were out on runs, and got paid. I know someone who I was told was seen with another man in a booker three days to her wedding. She doesn’t have a child, but if that guy impregnated her, she would pin it on her husband. She was a runs girl in the neighborhood. I personally know someone who wanted to take his two kids abroad and DNA showed only one was his. What of the case of the deacon and or deaconess in RCCG King David’s parish where DNA showed that of a man’s three kids in that parish, only the first one was his and they were all four years apart, and belong to another member or pastor or deacon of the parish. A man living in the UK sometime ago, did a DNA that showed all three kids were not his. His wife was in Nigeria. A guy I used to follow who had many followers carried the story and women started threatening him. He had to leave his home to an unknown hotel for safety. One even asked him if he thinks it’s easy to do just one gbola!!
You are doing well. But it is not all the pastors that don't have what to do. There Alots of pastors you don't even know have good jobs and don't depend on church for anything . Some members just need to wake up and think about business. Enough of praying in tongues, start taking steps. The majority only prayed without taking steps
You don’t know any good women out there because of the types of friends you have and family you came from. There are many better Nigerian women out there.
There's a problem wiith this mentality that a woman isn't entitled to her husband's assets. You're quick to devalue the support you give to the man and the fact that you should be co owners of all assets gained during the marriage. That's why men find it easy to discard you like trash and take all the wealth with them.
Yo this guy grew up in poverty and she’s from a well to do home. Chances are she is a very good drifter. Everything is just hitting the guy now that it has been a sham from the get go
You sound like a fanatic of this so-called Pastor. First, you lied in your title, calling this video a "Documentary". Use your own insults (e.g. "your common sense didn't tell you that this title is clickbait") of the footballer to describe yourself.
@ una go just deh find person story to use creat nonsense content and views up for engagement since he is giving u views and engagement hype him don’t cast him 😂
What is your point really? The Kayode man's story doesnt add up, if all the 3 kids are not his, why should the pastor have the first kid then second kid and finally the third kid. Because of what?. This also doesn't add up lets assume that he did a DNA test and discovered that the kids aint his how did he find out that they are for the pasor?. There are many holes in the man's assertions. He has issues with his wife therefore anyone close to her will be pelleted with mud.
Olorun a ba won yanju e .... I wonder what the true story is... Kidnap is taking a child with both or either of parents consent. It is called kidnapping abroad. So yes she kidnapped the kids.
Kayode kids were born abroad 1 was in Israel and other 2 in Austria so how come? she might started been cheating after. She said Kayode had a kid before, same as her too. Is not strange anyway but both of them have problems😐😐🤗
So don’t people cheat abroad?? It’s even easier, they find each other on apps. They don’t have to meet first before starting. A man just found out abroad that his kids in their 40s aren’t his
It's very possible women and men hide many things,just like my brother's wife to be has children that my brother doesn't know about,the kids that she had before they met three people have confirmed to my sister about it,crazy
So Its a good Video but that part where you said Pastors shouldn't live lavishly because they don't do anything is where you got it absolutely wrong.I don't believe that Pastors should be lavish.I personally believe they should be modest in all things as the Bible admonished us.However saying Pastors don't do anything is Wrong and an Ignorant statement.You might want to do further research on that. Pastors do a whole lot Preaching and Teaching Studying Counselling Visitations Conducting Ceremonies - weddings, burials, birthdays Church Management
Ok so according to you we are still waiting for a clearer picture on this matter. Until then we reserve our comments. Meanwhile I want to correct a notion that pastors have no right to wear expensive clothes or live in luxury because they don’t work. I agree there are fake pastors who manipulate people but there are also genuine pastors who live very well but basically on other people’s voluntary sponsorships. I had a friend who is a fashion designer. He single handed decided to regularly change his pastor’s wardrobe at no cost to the pastor. People who see this pastors dress well will assume he is the one who spends on these clothes whereas they are all gifts. So my point is that many pastors live on gifts. They didn’t use church money to buy those things. People should be careful when accusing pastors. Not all of them are scam.
Dressing well is different from living lavish. Living a very lavish lifestyle does not in anyway depict humility which is supposed to be part of the make up of true Christians
A flamboyant pastor is a fake, period. Kayode did a lot to his wife... He cheated multiple times. But from the audio we heard, Tobi and Dora clearly have/had a romantic relationship.
Lolsss. Trust Christian men and women at your own risk. This is how you all shame victims. He is a footballer, they are busy people. My aunty who is a real lawyer did not work for more than 10 years. If not that she is a real lawyer, the man would just think o she is a housewife not knowing she is not a real lawyer.
While i understand that this is a call for a balanced view, it is very unbalanced in itself. The tone is very much pro-Dora even though it's not expressly said. It goes on to make a lot of assumptions favouring one party and then puts a caveat each time to say it might not be true. Nice try...lol
Continue blaming the victim. You nor wise. I won’t give you any more watch hours with my data. As a woman, even i can see all the lies that woman told, and it is something that is very easy to do. Get off my feed.
You are so biased that no one should even bother to listen to your rambling crap. You are so judgmental of Kayode, it beggars belief. When people get together, do they go about checking each other’s age??? Who does that???? So, it is very easy for someone to lie about their age or other personal matters The responsibility lies with each partner in a relationship to be honest, open and frank. People become lovers, NOT private investigators
She didn't even look into Pastor Tobi before doing this video. There is even a UK documentary on his dodgy activities and pressure he puts on church members to raise money for the church. It is very possible that if she looked up to him as a pastor, he influenced her to get money for him.
The 2 kids on the right clearly resemble their father and the oldest look like his mother. Stop dragging this woman. Once a marriage breaks up, the only thing thean says that can stick to an ex is the kids aren't mine. Sad!
Thank you for the video. You asked good questions about Nigerian women in the beginning of the video.
1. In an international poll conducted about a year ago, Nigeria has the highest number of unfaithful women. About 64% of the Nigerian women that responded cheated on their partners (husband or boyfriend), many multiple times. Nigeria was first. The US was about 14%.
2. A doctor that works with many embassies (including Canadian embassy) in paternity cases for visa said that about 25% of paternity tests done for couples showed that the man was not the father of all or some of the children. Of course, we know about Nedu's case.
3. Nigeria is a country where RUNs has been normalized, where girls settle lecturers with you-know-what willingly (I agree that there are cases of harassment, but that's not what I'm talking about here), where young women that have no job (some in the university) send money to their parents and siblings, pay parent's rent, sibling's sch fee, pay her own sch fees, and pay tithe with RUNs money.
4. I took matters into my hands and conducted a poll using my male friends, cousins, relations, old classmates. I asked if they had ever "plucked" a woman from the hands of another man, or if they have dated any woman that had no boyfriend or husband when they started dating or when they had a jigijigi affair or one-night stand. For those that are married, I told them to include during marriage or before marriage. Of the 54 people that responded, only 2 listed one case each when he was sure he could swear on his life that the woman didn't have a boyfriend. Remember that some of these men have had multiple relationships in their lifetimes, so we are talking about men who have had affairs with over 200 women combined. So if men are the cheaters, where do they get these partners? Check No. 1,2, and 3 for the answers.
Agree to a large extent
Very well said. I have been saying this. It didn’t start today, just that social media is making us know more. When we were in the university, we had many runs girls, and those who weren’t were looked down on and called ju girls. Girls followed men to buy gold, like you said some are responsible for their families. Class reps did the assignment of some girls while they were out on runs, and got paid. I know someone who I was told was seen with another man in a booker three days to her wedding. She doesn’t have a child, but if that guy impregnated her, she would pin it on her husband. She was a runs girl in the neighborhood. I personally know someone who wanted to take his two kids abroad and DNA showed only one was his. What of the case of the deacon and or deaconess in RCCG King David’s parish where DNA showed that of a man’s three kids in that parish, only the first one was his and they were all four years apart, and belong to another member or pastor or deacon of the parish. A man living in the UK sometime ago, did a DNA that showed all three kids were not his. His wife was in Nigeria. A guy I used to follow who had many followers carried the story and women started threatening him. He had to leave his home to an unknown hotel for safety. One even asked him if he thinks it’s easy to do just one gbola!!
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You are doing well. But it is not all the pastors that don't have what to do. There Alots of pastors you don't even know have good jobs and don't depend on church for anything .
Some members just need to wake up and think about business. Enough of praying in tongues, start taking steps. The majority only prayed without taking steps
You appear to be tacitly supporting the wife. Your analysis is suspect.
Yeap, she did
She will probably do the same.
This just feels like blaming a victim. It's like blaming a girl who is raped for going to visit her rapist in his house.
Documentary???
You don’t know any good women out there because of the types of friends you have and family you came from. There are many better Nigerian women out there.
Nice one
This i know: It is not easy for any man to come out openly to admit he is being cockholded by his wife..
Watching from South Africa
Please, some pastors have businesses.Creflo dollar, for example, have rental properties in atlanta.
The same Creflo that wanted others to donate to his private jet fund?😮😮😮
Your diction is top notch
Mrs Kayode has come out almost a week ago to explain her own side of the story
Taking the children gives me the impression that indeed the kids are either not his (footballer) or she is trying to protect the kids.
So what is the wife too called. Just aski😢
There's a problem wiith this mentality that a woman isn't entitled to her husband's assets. You're quick to devalue the support you give to the man and the fact that you should be co owners of all assets gained during the marriage. That's why men find it easy to discard you like trash and take all the wealth with them.
I fear!
Yo this guy grew up in poverty and she’s from a well to do home. Chances are she is a very good drifter. Everything is just hitting the guy now that it has been a sham from the get go
You sound like a fanatic of this so-called Pastor. First, you lied in your title, calling this video a "Documentary". Use your own insults (e.g. "your common sense didn't tell you that this title is clickbait") of the footballer to describe yourself.
You are holding brief for the woman just as daddy freeze held for the husband 1- 1
Everyone just deh use this innocent man deh create content deh gather views n followers it’s well😂❤❤❤ one mheeen
Innocent man?
@ yes no be accuse una deh accuse am e sure for u? U get evidence on him? Stop casting nonsense stone on a man like u man
@ una go just deh find person story to use creat nonsense content and views up for engagement since he is giving u views and engagement hype him don’t cast him 😂
Give it a rest…
how can he nor know her age before marriage?What is the standard of marriage nowadays?
What is your point really? The Kayode man's story doesnt add up, if all the 3 kids are not his, why should the pastor have the first kid then second kid and finally the third kid. Because of what?. This also doesn't add up lets assume that he did a DNA test and discovered that the kids aint his how did he find out that they are for the pasor?. There are many holes in the man's assertions.
He has issues with his wife therefore anyone close to her will be pelleted with mud.
Things Dey occur 💀💀
Why are you supporting the woman
Olorun a ba won yanju e .... I wonder what the true story is... Kidnap is taking a child with both or either of parents consent. It is called kidnapping abroad. So yes she kidnapped the kids.
Is the same thing people jumped into conclusion that Afiba and Celine are hookup girls
What were they?
Were they not? Mtcheew!!
Kayode kids were born abroad 1 was in Israel and other 2 in Austria so how come? she might started been cheating after. She said Kayode had a kid before, same as her too. Is not strange anyway but both of them have problems😐😐🤗
So don’t people cheat abroad?? It’s even easier, they find each other on apps. They don’t have to meet first before starting. A man just found out abroad that his kids in their 40s aren’t his
It's very possible women and men hide many things,just like my brother's wife to be has children that my brother doesn't know about,the kids that she had before they met three people have confirmed to my sister about it,crazy
Those kids look like kayode am not saying the wife is innocent but he will be the loser if care is not taken the way they handle this issue
So Its a good Video but that part where you said Pastors shouldn't live lavishly because they don't do anything is where you got it absolutely wrong.I don't believe that Pastors should be lavish.I personally believe they should be modest in all things as the Bible admonished us.However saying Pastors don't do anything is Wrong and an Ignorant statement.You might want to do further research on that.
Pastors do a whole lot
Preaching and Teaching
Studying
Counselling
Visitations
Conducting Ceremonies - weddings, burials, birthdays
Church Management
Ok so according to you we are still waiting for a clearer picture on this matter. Until then we reserve our comments.
Meanwhile I want to correct a notion that pastors have no right to wear expensive clothes or live in luxury because they don’t work. I agree there are fake pastors who manipulate people but there are also genuine pastors who live very well but basically on other people’s voluntary sponsorships. I had a friend who is a fashion designer. He single handed decided to regularly change his pastor’s wardrobe at no cost to the pastor. People who see this pastors dress well will assume he is the one who spends on these clothes whereas they are all gifts. So my point is that many pastors live on gifts. They didn’t use church money to buy those things. People should be careful when accusing pastors. Not all of them are scam.
Dressing well is different from living lavish. Living a very lavish lifestyle does not in anyway depict humility which is supposed to be part of the make up of true Christians
A flamboyant pastor is a fake, period. Kayode did a lot to his wife... He cheated multiple times. But from the audio we heard, Tobi and Dora clearly have/had a romantic relationship.
This channel is a about rumours and gossip and people who have no time to do something constructive waste of time
This presenter is so ignorant lol😅. Must be living under a rock
Lolsss. Trust Christian men and women at your own risk. This is how you all shame victims. He is a footballer, they are busy people. My aunty who is a real lawyer did not work for more than 10 years. If not that she is a real lawyer, the man would just think o she is a housewife not knowing she is not a real lawyer.
The pastor lifestyle is sponsored by tithes and gifts from friends and members. So Mrs. Olarenwaju could have been one of the pastor mugu.
He is the biggest crook.
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Your analysis is so biased. You support the wife
While i understand that this is a call for a balanced view, it is very unbalanced in itself. The tone is very much pro-Dora even though it's not expressly said. It goes on to make a lot of assumptions favouring one party and then puts a caveat each time to say it might not be true. Nice try...lol
Continue blaming the victim. You nor wise. I won’t give you any more watch hours with my data. As a woman, even i can see all the lies that woman told, and it is something that is very easy to do. Get off my feed.
You are so biased that no one should even bother to listen to your rambling crap. You are so judgmental of Kayode, it beggars belief.
When people get together, do they go about checking each other’s age??? Who does that???? So, it is very easy for someone to lie about their age or other personal matters
The responsibility lies with each partner in a relationship to be honest, open and frank. People become lovers, NOT private investigators
Hope you know you sound biased
Not a balanced reporting, and of course, there are evvil women in History who's done worse.
She didn't even look into Pastor Tobi before doing this video. There is even a UK documentary on his dodgy activities and pressure he puts on church members to raise money for the church. It is very possible that if she looked up to him as a pastor, he influenced her to get money for him.
The 2 kids on the right clearly resemble their father and the oldest look like his mother. Stop dragging this woman. Once a marriage breaks up, the only thing thean says that can stick to an ex is the kids aren't mine. Sad!
Extremely biased analysis
What a biased analysis
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