JEALOUSY can be a super power...here's how
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- I know, you're probably thinking I've lost my marbles. Hear me out, jealousy is an emotion every human experiences. We could and have demonized this natural human emotion, but rarely do we try to use it in our favor. Due to this, we often feel shame and guilt around jealousy. In my unpopular opinion, there is a way to use this emotion to work in our favor and I'm so excited to share my take on it. Get to the end of this video and let me know what you think.
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Through this video I realized that I was being jealous of you for being able to dress well, keep your house cute and clean, and having the will and skills to just sit in front of the camera and say what you want to say. And then I thought: "Well, I could have that right now." It wasn't the ideal beautiful house, or the good quality camera, or your body. Just the way you are just doing what you want to do.
This comment is really special to me 🤍 even a better point to remember you don’t see the full picture. My apartment was not clean 45 min before filming this, my wardrobe is only possible bc of brands that generously send me pieces, and sometimes it’s hard for me to want to be on camera. I really mean it when I say if I can do these things you all are so capabale too, it’s just a mental game of getting yourself there 🤍
@@BriaJones I literally recorded some videos earlier and then stopped and cried 😭 because I was feeling very down but tried to push. Thank you for your transparency. While I was crying I was literally thinking of your video they sleeping on me. No matter how great I think I am or how much harder I'm working then anyone else who has what I would like to have. Thank you Bria
@@miyiuz I definitely am. I just had to give myself permission to not be ok and let myself know that it's ok to sometimes not be ok.
And here I was thinking I was the only one feeling this way. Yall are beautiful ♥️🥰. Enjoy creating a life you’re absolutely in love with 💕
@@miyiuz Thank you so much for your kindness ❤️ I honestly appreciate it
As a school teacher I was so jealous of parents picking up their kids after school while mine was in childcare so I switched to part time to always pick up my own kids after school. Less $ but nothing I'd rather do than have time with my kids. Jealousy encouraged this necessary change
Most of my jealousy was linked to being single and seeing ppl in healthy relationships......
Same
I really needed this, I kinda felt like a horrible person for feeling jealous, but I understand that I’m at my lowest now so it’s going to be very difficult to be around people that are thriving when I’m not, especially when I’m working so hard to succeed and the results aren’t what I want them to be. For anyone reading this, we’re all gonna be okay!!! ❤️❤️
Girl I relate to you SO MUCH
THIS! instead of being jealous or envious of others, see it as proof that it's attainable for you too. Whatever that thing may be. Don't view it from a perspective of lack where you put more focus on the fact that they have what you don't at that moment. Let it inspire you, motivate you, and clarify that what you want is absolutely achievable for you too, you could desire something but not believe that you could really have it due to the lack of proof of it happening and that is what prevents you from getting where you want. Constantly seeing people do what you'd like to do too is like a sign that you can have it too. Now that you see the proof of it happening, believe it and act on it. You don't need to know how or when it's going to happen, they didn't either but they still tried. So please, trust yourself for once and prepare for it cause it's coming. The power of hope opens so many doors you know.
You get what you give in energy. This concept is only for people who create a detached sense of reality in a negative mindset. Plus jealousy is simply just immature and a waste of personal energy for narcissist. Just reminds me of kids fighting over candy or a cheating partner.
as a fellow scorpio i needed this. i’ve found myself falling down this rabbit hole a lot recently. and like you i hate the feeling of jealousy as soon as i have the thought i instantly feel bad and like a shitty person, leading to jealousy turning to sadness. it’s time for me to really focus on myself and what I want out of life. whatever that looks like
I can relate to that. I am a leo btw!
honestly, I just love when we embrace our dark sides and turn them into our strengths. this video was all about that.
thank you Bria
Yes, self control is absolutely important! Social media has given us the privilege of seeing the good and best others have. The more reason why we have to be mature and genuinely happy for others! If we can’t, for our sanity and happiness we can just unfollow them. I hope I typed what I really have in mind 😂
Alright, I'm totally here for this and it was definitely needed. Jealously is nothing more than an ugly way to say you admire somebody. I like how you were talking about recognizing things that trigger your emotions and using it as a compass to figure out where you want to go in life instead of being jealous. I'm going to adopt that mindset. Thank you!😀
I like this - be inspired, not jealous. Feel jealousy but let it become inspiration❤️🎶
wheww you hit the nail right on the head with this one girl! especially when you mentioned being jealous of people seemingly doing nothing but getting so much. i’ve worked my ass off since like Kindergarten lmao so seeing instances like that triggers me. but i really like your tips on how to turn that around 🥰
OMG thank you! I agree I say it often... "you will get the same energy you put out in the Universe, good or bad so be nice to people." This is such a blessing. Light and Love to all. 💞
I had so many people I high school that seemed successful. But I was always jealous of one specific girl. And then I realized, the Universe is giving me a blueprint of what I need to do and the person I am meant to become.
Because it is said that some random people you had to meet randomly, were also predestined for transformation. It's just souls that influence your indirectly.
Thats so weird u posted this, just yesterday I experienced jealousy i was like omg no way
Thank you soo much. It's a weird feeling, I didn't get that feeling of jalousy very often but when i get it i feel ashamed and a bit guilty. Then i try to understand it and i ask God to help me get rid of it. Your suggestions are very good i will apply it on myself as well. Thank you.
Bria is on early today!! Yay!
We up and at it!
I just went through a break up, going through a crazy emotional season, and am starting a new job and have been binging your videos. Thank you frfr
this has always been my problm...thank you for showing me the brighter side of this
I boosted my confidence, when just was looking for enhance my English skills thanks to yours videos. You inspire a stunning way!🇩🇴
I love that you're real. Also, I wish people would accept their jealousy too. It's a normal human emotion. But, if you acknowledge it, then you can fix it.
Bria, I’m so grateful for these videos. I honestly believe the universe directed me to your page because we literally have soooo many similarities. I’m also a 28 year old Scorpio who has DREAMED of being a full time content creator since about 2017 but never had the courage or will to do it consistently until now. Keep doing what your doing because you are truly an inspiration!❤️
Yes angel, no accidents here! I always pray for the community that I need and that needs me and I’m so glad we found each other 🤍
Gahhh I am also a 28 year old Scorpio that wishes the same and is just about to begin! Her page is so inspiring 💗
Omg 28 year old Scorpio too
Scorpio squad let’s stop procrastinating start it now it’s never too late .
This is superrr helpful! I've never heard anyone talk about jealousy in a positive way. I always feel so bad for feeling jealous. But I'm going to try to accept the feelings of jealousy and transform them into motivation! Thank you so much for this vid!!
Yesss! Learning to turn jealousy (negative emotion) into inspiration/motivation (positive emotion) is key
Omg girl you blessed us within the first few seconds of the video! “Working with my emotions rather than becoming and identifying as my emotions “THIS!!!!!!! Our feelings are things that we experience as people not something that we are. Also when you were saying our emotions are signals/windows that highlight our deeper needs girl you blew my mind🤯😭😂 lol thank you so much for this video
Yes to "working with my emotions" 🧡✨
Truly it's so powerful to align with how you feel and see where the feelings originate. It's a vital self conversation, I feel like a lot of people will benefit from hearing this, great topic.
Happy Saturday 💕✨
Happy weekend beautiful!
the hair is FIRE!
ASKING MYSELF "why not me?" is such a golden nugget, BRIA!!!! Thank you. I get to see what I've been placing as roadblocks for myself...
(Are you by any chance reading Louise Hay?)
Its always videos about removing jealous people out of our lives but never about how we can deal with our own jealousy. I love this video because I feel like we are imperfect humans and we get jealous too so its very important to know how to deal with jealousy we put out there.
I love your videos soo much, discovering your channel was a blessing to me♥️♥️
Thank you for sharing your wisdom! I needed to hear this today! Not only are you filling your cup by creating and living the life you desire, but you are filling so many others cups by sharing your wisdom and knowledge outward 🙌
This needed to be addressed… and nobody could have said it better ❤
I like the idea of using jealousy as a compass. Thank you 😊💓
YOU NEVER MISS👏🏽 I’ve found that all emotion can serve for either good or bad depending on what connotation you put on it even Love, the emotion with the most positive connotation can lead to negativity e.g. toxic relationships. For me it’s mainly Fear because this is what tends to hold me back from propelling myself further into my calling and the life I know God wants for me. So using fear as fuel, not waiting to be without it but action with fear.
It’s sure not easy but has given me the courage these last couple of years, undoubtedly the most difficult times in my life!
You look GORGEOUS btw Bria💕
Thank you soo much. I was feeling jealousy towards a girl in my class because everyone loves her and she is good at everything, but I found out that my jealous feelings happened when my old friend liked her more than me, but the truth was I thought I hated her, but it was just jealousy.
Love the hair ❣
Thank you! I love feeling the breeze on my neck, ya girl couldn’t do the long hair game
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You ARE meant to be a light in this world ✨ you are so well spoken and important for the content you put out. I aspire to be like you one day!
Jealousy and anger contain a lot of energy that can be redirected.
Thank you for this video. I’ve not really been a jealous person but recently I’ve had a few encounters with this emotion and I’m so happy that you’ve showed me that I can be happy for someone and still want more for myself. You are truly a light to me.
This is beautiful 🥹 thank you so much for talking about this! I’m so proud to see people in our generation talking about this - especially because I’ve been studying things like this myself but I feel that limiting beliefs can definitely be something passed downed (or something we just heard around the house growing up constantly), but I’m so happy to see people changing that and for sharing it as well. This video was so helpful. Thank you so much Bria! ☺️💖
Girl I NEEDED this video. Thank you for the big sister motivation and advice!
So happy I found your channel ♥️ this video helped a lot as it’s definitely easier to compare/ feel jealous as a stay at home mom 😭
This was a whole therapy session for me
I’m very grateful for channels like this, self reflection is something I struggle with and I’m only recently trying to cope with that fact and see how I can improve that area
You’re a real one for this 🫶🏼
you are so wise. i have been doing this more the older i get simply bc i want to choose how i feel and i’ve realized the choice must be informed. our emotions help us gather so much info and with that info i’m able to give myself what i need so that i can feel how i’d like to ✨
Loved this video scorpio queen! I’m never jealous of other people, I think that’s poisonous. The thing I dislike is when people undervalue me or others in a negative way, when my goal isn’t even fame or success. I will certainly self reflect and the thing that would make me happy is to not be put in anybody’s negativity or outline for me. If you want something then really it is up to you to make yourself happy, but not for anyone else. Others will look at you as weak, but we should know there’s more strength in weakness sometimes when a person struggles. Never compare yourself to others and look out for your own blessings, because we each deserve something and really we should be inspired by other people. Jealousy happens because we feel that we aren’t getting what we deserve and sometimes you aren’t, but know your worth always
Great video sister. Self reflection & accountability will unlock doors to better mindsets & move you up levels in life 🤞🏼
I truly admire how self aware you are.
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i miss this energy being jealous for good i mean i used this as a motivation but the weird thing is that i get jealous of someone i like, used to like
motivation dont last
i may have 3 women (they are all older than me im not sure about the libra? one)
but idk i get lost in my own thoughts
i may have a lot of different ideas but i cannot focus
i have difficulty on being a fan of something or someone for a long period of time i may like one characteristic or two but it will be defeated by the things i don't like
until my curiosity will lead me somewhere again
notice that i can be a fan of something and just dont care about it for good or for the mean time idk
as i grow older i just want or i find myself admiring people more
i don't like myself when im in a low vibe energy or engaging or talking to people in a low vibe conversations
i just want peace, creativity, high vibes success stories, things like that
i may still have anxieties i dont understand why
but yes jealousy is a motivation but mine is a little weird lol
maybe because of my venus? okay nevermind hahaha!
So here for the hair !!!😻
listened to this video while doing my homework, and I'm glad I chose yours out of all 🙌
*blushing* 😘🤍
@@BriaJones omg you replied tysm 💓
Love this so much. Self reflection is usually a good start for everything.
I resonate with this mindset and have been doing inner work for the better of my mental health. Thank you for sharing your light and truth, I really needed this encouragement xxx
The video I didn’t know I needed today. The spirit of jealousy and envy isn’t good but I feel that if you use that energy to be productive and focus on your goals makes a difference. Thanks for this
this video got me out of a panic attack. and genuinely helped shift my perspective. thank you so much💚
Thank the Lord i stumbled across your page. such a blessing💞
This video made me cry. Thank you girl. Wishing you all the best & more abundance💕
Love love love the hair queen. X
Edit* Love and agree with your video.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK. X
I just love how realistic and humble you are, yet can turn your dreams into your reality. Thank you for sharing life through your eyes.
Thank you for this video!! It’s so vital and should go viral because the message behind it is just key to life. Like I like to say: There is more than enough space for everybody to shine. Someone else’s success in whatever is never going to take away from your own but yourself.
Bria girl lemme just say I'm 16 and you've helped me oh so much with my mindset I just found you recently and you motivate me so much! ❤❤ plzz never stop creating! I literally found you through wanting better insta pics but who knew coming across tha 1 video would bless me with the opportunity to hear so much wisdom!
i just loveeeee how authentic you are
This is so insightful, thank you so much will definitely be reflecting on my negative emotions as opposed to just brushing them off.
Yaaay! Scorpio Gang ♏️ 🎉 I knew iiiit! Lol but yesss ! Thank you for talking about this topic …jealousy! I hate that it’s so taboo to admit when you’re feeling envious/jealous of someone when it honestly normal to feel especially with social media. It’s true it’s like people can’t talk about being jealousy without making it a bad thing. I’ve recently made a video talking about my own jealousy but I never ever wish any of my friends /peeps anything bad. I just really want that success for myself. I can celebrate and be happy for others & also want that for myself! 🎉but yeah like you said there is always a deeper meaning to jealousy and I’m definitely working on myself and trying to do the inner work so I can get to level of success I can be! Thank you sooo much for these videos! We need more blunt and taboo convos without sugarcoat. It’s refreshing and nice to see! Wish you happiness and even more success my love! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I'm currently 20 now and my third year of studying law, I'm in deep depression and it got fucking worse since I go out to parties so I can forget( I don't engage in sex and stuff) but I smoke a lot because of stress and constant critical thinking of life and long term and my future when I have non supportive parents who have controlling tendencies, even the dreams I use to have seen like a waste as if I'm old now and my opportunities are gone since they made me feel resented towards them and the world. Sometimes I feel horrible how negative I see others success specially privilege people ( pretty, ethnicity, country, parents) life is unfair I know, I don't want sugarcoating people telling I can be who I want without realest advice. I'm missing everything at this point feeling like travel , have the confidence to start from the bottom. Btw I'm from Africa so solution for things I wanna do I should probably travel to USA
Fellow African .Please start loving yourself more and stop blaming other people and convincing yourself that they are the reason you are unhappy. You have all the power within you to make your dreams come true. Once you stop blaming your parents.rich people etc and smoking and partying.Research on how you can make your dreams come true with the little that you have. Eventually everything you need will fall into place.
At 20 you are pretty young with Opportunity after opportunity. Life has has just started. Sucess takes hardwork patience and years. Plan your goals track your progress say every 6 months and assess where you get to.
Thank you for posting this video, this topic of jealousy is a big one.
This was an amazing message Bria. So insightful with a great take away from both perspectives. Being self aware helps you understand that sometimes people aren’t jealous of you per se but what they don’t have. Ppl even project jealousy to hide the embarrassment. My biggest tell is when ppl seek validation because they secretly value you but can’t admit it.
The last sentence 🙌🏾 their validation seeking is draining too.
I feel really blessed to find you B ! Thank you ❤ you're changing a life in South Africa 🫂
Trying to figure out something genuinely special to say cause man did I started 😭while watching this vid when you touched on desires. Bria you are in alignment. You’re beautiful,intelligent and inspiring. I feel that through the camera hunny🥰this video was very pivotal for me. YOU ARE AMAZING AND WALKING POWERFULLY IN YOUR PURPOSE Thank u for being exactly who your supposed to be! This is what we are all here for. 🫶🏽🌎
So I asked myself questions and I got these answers : “I don’t deserve it” , “My mom won’t allow me to have it…” . Now how can I replace these limiting beliefs with new positive affs? 😅
say the opposite of these affirmations n "feel " them ,n believe them full heartedly n you will feel positive about it❤e.g. i am worthy of all the happiness in the world" and" my mom will allow me to have it", we attract what we think of ourselves n our wants
Continue to ask questions and listen to motivational podcast and TH-cam vids to start embedding positivity in your mind. Why do you feel you don’t deserve it?
Yes, jealousy is realizing that other people have things that you don't have but you want. It can be useful to help you get that motivation to actually start working to get it, what's not helpful is whining to other people but not doing anything to change your situation.
YES! God gave us all of these beautiful emotions for a reason. God Himself gets JEALOUS! ;) I am inspired to do a WORD STUDY about this because I know that "coveting" is a sin (which I always USED TO think was the same as jealousy), but I've never seen that Jealousy was a sin. They must not mean the same thing. Hmmmmm. Thanks for the inspiration, Bria! ♥
Omg yes!!! The energy you put into the universe is the energy you will receive back. And when people hate, it is NOT a reflection on you it is a reflection on them. People who judge others so harshly are the ones who judge themselves even more harshly.
Even if I don’t like a video or picture I scroll past it, I don’t troll. I never want to bully anyone, because I know what that feels like and it’s an awful feeling.
And I love everything you said about transmuting your energy from jealousy into something positive, creative, and proactive. Keep up the amazing work. 💖
good morning
Good morning angel!
I legit dropped everything for this video! love you Bria Jones
Omg LOVE YOU, thanks for being in the family!
more then once or twice I think im jealous every day. I agree with all this everything you said.
ugh yes i really needed this 😪 the ugly green monster of jealous is not so big and bad anymore after this video 🫢
Thanks for being truthfully transparent. You are absolutely right, acknowledging the truth helps to set you free!
thank you so much! this video really pushed me to reflect on so many limitations and blocks I was facing in my life because of my unwillingness or lack of courage i guess to face what was beneath that.
I'm so grateful for your content from the bottom of my heart. I feel like I'm hanging out with a positively healthy person that gets me out of rock bottom. Even though I do not get to see you in real life, I feel the vibration and the energy you're distributing through the internet.
Well said. You're such a great teacher. Thank you Bria!
Bria you are absolutely right .. I truly love your content... Thank you for being a true positive light for your viewers Beautiful. You are amazing🤩
Girl no words !! Thank you so much for this 💕✨
You don’t know how much I needed this Bria✨ thank you❤️
For sure
I wasn’t sure I was gonna relate to this and then you said “I’m a Scorpio” and I was like yeaaaaah this message is for me then 😅😂 🦂❤
This advice is encouraging mindfulness. It can be applied to any negative emotions, and if you struggle with mental illness this can be a game changer
I love the bob and I also loved your long hair. You look good.
I love your TH-cam channel. I'm striving to create good content. I feel you are my role model.
you are amazing creator!
Thank you for putting the perfect words in my mouth! You have such a positively contagious vibe 😁
society needed this video
OOOOFFF this is something I've been practicing recently and coming across this vid made me just feel way better. Just being reminded that we ALL go through this as human beings.
These videos are so helpful. Love that you give practical steps to take in order to make a change. Loving the hair ❤
Bria said I came to snatch wigs today lol!
I love this necessary content. You are truly such a light. Thank you Bria.
I absolutely love these videos that Bria does. I always get new insights to these topics. Thanks a lot!❤️
same
Love this! Definitely keeping myself in high vibrational emotions only!
Great Points Bria! Thank you
So glad you thought so! 🤍🤍🤍
oh girl i'm in love with your hair💙
It’s incredible how grown people don’t know about stuff like this, no wonder why the world is going to the shitter. But o well hopefully everyone matures and does something positive in the world
I love your hair 💕✨🌟
THIS HELPS SO MUCH, thanks Bria love you lots !!❤
Love you 😘