Episode 244: How to Start Over in Your 30s
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
- Do you dream of making a big life change, but worry it’s too late? The good news is, it’s never too late to live your dream life, whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond.
In today’s solo episode, I’m sharing practical tips and hacks for rebooting your life in your 30s. Whether you're exploring a new career path, considering a move to a different city, or seeking to transform your habits to achieve your goals, I've got you covered.
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I’m 32 and I’m in tears right now because I’ve been praying to God about wanting to start over. Thank you soo much. ❤❤
Sending you so much love
Girl you and I are on the same boat ❤
Les, I got my notepad ready for this episode. I literally made a decision 3 days ago that I want to move to Dallas, TX. Also.. will be 41 in a few days. Time to make this happen!!
@@Tracey-g8s happy birthday and congrats on the decision to move! Can’t wait to see how things unfold for you 🤎
Settling is a feeling, not an action. Love this statement and such great perspective.
@@motivatedaily8857 glad that resonated!
As a person who moved out of my hometown to a new city at 29, and now 4 years later getting the feeling again that it may be time for me to move on to a new environment- this episode is GOLD. So many thought invoking gems dropped. This is the first video of yours that I have seen - SUBSCRIBED immediately 👏
@@Bre_Inspired_ omg amazing! So so glad you enjoyed this episode 🥰
I just turned 30 in January and I'm starting over like in my 20s I thought I knew myself but clearly I was a kid lol 😂 but I want to become a more goal oriented person, and I'm tried of Procrastination
Yess same! I've said my 30s are the decade I wish my 20s was lol
@@BalancedBlackGirl omg same I was stuch a late bloomer lol 😂
Im not black (im latina) but yet i am here♥️
Doesn’t matter! Welcome 💜
what @braiddbydee said -- welcome!
This couldn’t have come at a better time. I will be 30 in a few months and this is exactly what I needed. Thank you! 💛
@@qveencalise amazing! Thanks for watching
This was so helpful! I’m about to turn 30 and thinking of moving back home from a big city and not considering myself as a failure because I’m moving back home. This is the boost I needed to see what I really want and need to me
I absolutely adore your solo content! You’re smart, well spoken and I appreciate hearing your perspectives ❤
thank you so much!
Omg!!! I’m 29 and my 30th bday is in 4 months and I’ve been doing sooooo much self reflection, it’s crazy! This has me working on some major changes
@@theshaesthetic yessss it’s an amazing time in life!
I’m 28, and I have too. I’m excited for the 30’s. A couple years ago the 30+ age scared me
@@PNAMIRACLES same. but now it feels like im waiting for the first day of school. its a chance at a new beginning with all the wisdom learned in your 20s..
Loved this! I’m 31 and there’s so much I feel behind on and want to accomplish.
You are right on time -- so glad you enjoyed the episode!
My biggest hurdles is keeping momentum , self sabotaging thinking patterns . Almost like survivors guilt. Why am I so different than everyone around me. Who do I think I am ? lol
@@comelyshe4772 is that something you explored with a therapist? They could help you work through and understand those thought patterns
@@BalancedBlackGirl yes definitely! Working through issues of being the blueprint. The first to chart a different path in my family.
the book/audiobook ‘The Mountain is You’ is so good for overcoming the things you mentioned!
@@wistfulbliss love that book!
You are really coming through with the topics I need to hear this month!
@@mial41 🥰💕
I just found this channel. Thoroughly enjoyed this episode and needed to hear this. Thank you ❤
This is my very first episode and I can’t tell you just how impactful this was to me! I also was listening on my first time back to exercising again! What great alignment! ❤
@@torricrowder2754 love that! 🤎 thanks for tuning in
I am so excited and thankful to get into this one...just wanted to say at the top of the episode tho, something I LOVE about your approach is that even though you're clearly super intelligent and wise, you don't share your experiences/lessons in a way to stroke your ego or glorify yourself - you remain empowering to others by acknowledging that everyone is on a unique path and must find these truths for themselves, and will have their own ways/lessons/answers best for them.
I see a really genuine integrity in your work, and can see that you are super integrated and not just jumping on hot buzz words or giving meme guru energy - which can have a seeking validation/importance charge to it sometimes - which you DO NOT have. You come off very grounded. Lots of admiration from me for the PURNESS to your work and msg.
@@hanaroseofficial thank you so much! I really appreciate the kind words. Always striving to share from a place of authenticity
I needed to hear this. I have been wanting to move to DC but the jump has controlled me and that's why I am in PA still. I having finally decided to move to Baltimore to at least get out of this space. I have a job where I am in office minimally but will sacrifice and take the 1.75 hour drive to be able to move so I can find my forever place. I also turn 30 in September :)
So excited for you!
Congratulations on 6 years 🥳 I’ve been a supporter of Balanced Black Girl for years; I’m glad that you’re taking on more solo episodes, they were always my favorite!
I haven’t finished the video but this has been on my mind so I’m excited to see what this episode brings!
Amazing, so well said. So comforting and reassuring. Can’t thank you enough for this video!
@@briannadickson8507 🤎🤎🤎
This is my second episode, definitely subscribing. Good content ❤
@@lebogangmokaila4945 thank you!
I needed this 31 with 4 kids.. definitely needed to run across this video
New subcriber here from phil. One of your content I watch is full of input that makes me motivate to watch more about your content,I just want say thank you 😢❤❤❤❤
@@Beingme_gretchen thank you so much 🤎
This is my first time seeing your channel and i am so happy i found it ! Your perspective on “ right and wrong answer “ was golden !!
@@Trynafindmyniche thank you, so glad you found me!
New here!!! Love love love love this episode!!! Such good insight and tips!!! Thank you!
@@dajamidwest so glad you found me!
I resonate so much with this! thank you!
So glad it resonated!
This was really helpful thank you , this real authentic and real raw
Thanks so much for watching
This episode was amazing, thank you for searing your experience 💖
@@gracemariesimmons23 thanks for watching 🤎
This was packed with so much valuable insight and info! Soooo good 🤍
@@trenaejxo thank you so much 🥹
Skin is glowing!!!
Wonderful episode as always.
@@TallahasseeTonya so glad you enjoyed it!
This was definitely needed ❤ thank you so much
Thanks for watching 🤎
Thank you for an inspirational and informative podcast, as per usual.
I love seeing your beautiful face❤
@@DJJalRae thanks for watching!
This is right on time
So glad it was timely!
Amazing, as always!
Thank you so much love, appreciate you!
Waoo this was just in time hard to poss to ask my self a question if I will be ok to be in the same place 10yrs from now , felt terrible
definitely understand, I felt the same way. It's such good reflection to do!
Your story sounds exactly like mine omg!
Omg! We must have a lot in common
Mahalo for this!!
@@emmalove808 you are so welcome 🤎
Love that ❤
I’m 31 and I been thinking about moving since I was 20 😢 every year I just want to leave
Washington girly here ❣️😊 7:09
@@aneesa_renae 🤎🤎🤎
New subbieeee!
welcome!
Currently I’m reaallllly thinking about breaking up with my bf…
So good 🤎
@@kirsyxi 🤎🤎🤎
What is your name?.
34 and a half. i can do this
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Enjoying your content #newsubbie
@@bewell.rochellemg5668 thank you!
I really needed this🥹 Thank you!
So glad it resonated!
I just found this channel. Thoroughly enjoyed this episode and needed to hear this. Thank you ❤
Congratulations on 6 years 🥳 I’ve been a supporter of Balanced Black Girl for years; I’m glad that you’re taking on more solo episodes, they were always my favorite!
I haven’t finished the video but this has been on my mind so I’m excited to see what this episode brings!
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it!