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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ค. 2024
- Hi guys, welcome to our second channel, which doesn't have a name yet...
So make sure to drop your suggestions in the comment below. Here, we will post all the fun extras that we couldn't fit into our main channel. Let's goooo!
Part 1 video:
• MALE Dating Psychology...
#jbro #dating #nyc
J BRO RAW
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You guys should call it JBro Unfiltered!
That’s a great name!
yessss perfect
Yes!
This is literally what I was thinking... its perfect
I laws thinking that but swapped unfiltered j Bros
It sounds like Jason is tired of chasing people LOOL
I really appreciate John's emotional intelligence and core confidence.
I agree with what John said about “ Chasing women who seem unavailable”
Initially women are more guarded and observant. We don’t want to let loose and become very invested just for the guy to ghost us the next month. Hence why initially we may come across as unavailable
I also think compromise and understanding is necessary while dating. Must times the intentions behind an action can come across differently to the receiver. So we may be going above and beyond (overcompensating) yet we aren’t communicating our intentions in a way the person understands it. That’s where the whole love language thing comes in to play. In the early stage of getting to know somebody you shouldn’t be too dismissive because you both aren’t on the same page yet (except when you notice beaming red flags), give it some time for you both to understand each other
Hey Jason, I wanted to give my opinion. For me, relationships (to an extent) are about compromise. The truth is, you are not going to be on the same wavelength as everyone you date/meet. Like John mentioned, there have been plenty of times where a guy has persisted past the "comfort" stage and got the girl. With that said, there are things that you cannot compromise (your values). There needs to be balance. If you are too stubborn about not compromising anything, then most, if not all of your relationships are doomed to fail. You have to meet each other half way. That may mean loosening up on some of your nonessential values. Hope this viewpoint was insightful!
100% agree with Jason. If someone is interested in you, they will make time. No one is that busy or unavailable. You're just lower on their priority list. So the whole "thank you, next" mentality will save you time and possibly heartache. Just stuff I learned in my early twenties.
agree
Jason sounds like he's very jaded from past failed relationships. Dude, hope you meet someone compatible.
Maybe call it Jbro BTS ( behind the scenes lol)
Nice 1
I learned to never overthink about a relationship. For me I know immediately if a guy is a good match for me and vice versa. It’s a gut instinct. It just comes easy with no games.
"As you get older, you start seeing things that should matter more."
Yeah, actually. 🙂
😂My favorite moments are your facial expressions as you listen to each other hahaha... It's cool how you listen and help each other think differently...
🥰🥰 nobodys pointed that out to us, thank u! Thats a great comment
@@JasonKi0 for sure! That's what makes great friendships! You two are definitely bros!😍
aw Jason, i feel like you might need to watch out for those girls who just open up immediately and put themselves all out there so fast. some of those people are just "on" all the time because it's all about them regardless of who they are with. there's some really good women out there who might be a little quiet at first (without game playing) and you will discover more as time goes on. you said you don't have time but most truly good things in life take time. just like it took time to get your education, you're going to get out of it what you put into it.
John i think your mom may be right, don't get bamboozled by a tight body and a pretty face if she is not honest, kind, hardworking, loyal, and self accountable.
I wonder how you guys became best friends haha. You guys are different in life’s point of view. I love how honest Jason is and how critical and logical John thinks. 😊Always love watching your videos. So entertaining especially in this challenging period. Looking forward to see more!!! ❤️
I love how you guys being 100% honest and be true to yourself.
OOO wow guys i really enjoyed how raw and open and honest you were in this video, even showing your own flaws in the process. It really shows you guys are human at the end of the day. Forreals I can understand where Jason is coming from in his perspective of dating, but John's advice is so good too. Jason pls listen to John's advice (coming from a girl). But it's really interesting to see how your past experiences have shaped your dating philosophy/mindset today and i highkey respeccc that
Jason Jason Jason, I know what you mean. But once you find someone you love, it’s not that black&white. You don’t measure being treated this and that. It goes naturally.
Mature girls won’t expect the chasing anymore as they used to. They just want to find a partner that understand them and spend precious time together.
Johnny, listen to your mom. She is right. Maybe because of the past, but you are closing up. It’s not that opposite attract, it’s just interesting at first. But you don’t have to be in the same field and matchy matchy to be perfect for you.
You both chased high maintenance girls in the past and therefore are afraid to run into them again. There are still good girls out there ;) speaking of which, please sing Good Girls by Joe.
I seconded this comment (:
This comment is love! I said just about the same thing on the other video! For John, the matchy matchy 100% compatibility will eventually bore him. He is closing up. He has probably had or seen horrible relationships and he’s trying to protect himself from being hurt.
@@MsNikkiCrucio i think both of them. Ahhahaha.
Maybe @J bros are attracted to physically pretty girls who r therefore naturally high maintainance.. it takes effort n resources to look to pretty... 😄.. mayb they r trapped in a vicious cycle no matter how much they say looks doesn't matter.
@@vh7223 beauty is our downfall🤣
I reached 40 this year, and looking back to the times when we could interact with real people (9 months of quarantine in Argentina), I think that there is no right or wrong approach to chasing or dating (always inside respect guidelines). I personally move fast when I see that there is an imbalance in the investment of time and energy. At the end of the day, what healthy people is looking for, is just a partner for the road. Someone willing to accept the other but also desires to be better, someone that can share activities with us but that also has their own preferences and enjoys to be alone sometimes. Someone caring but not exhausting, someone real. A balance.
I like your raw material better, it feels like been part of the conversation. Congrats
i think you both have very different perspectives on what you want in a partner. I think Jason now has more clarity on what he wants/doesnt want based on previous experiences, which is completely fair!! John also knows what he wants but seems very open to different kinds of people (not saying Jason isnt!) and tries to show Jason the different side of 'xx' topic :)) interesting video tho! keep it up
Love the second channel!! I agree with the less distractions. The content is more relatable and entertaining. This might be just me, I felt like the first channel holds back a lot and aims for a younger target audience. Approaching 30, I really appreciate content that I can relate to
The best and most important qualities in a healthy relationship or marriage is 1. Respect it will feed your love and anchor it 2. Kindness will make you fall in love over and over again. Life is tough and you will need a kind heart to pull you through the tough days. obviously you’ll want other qualities, but marriage of convenience and power couple goals is doomed. Just my experience, good luck 😉
I love John's perspective on things.
Dating is so hard! I'm 25 and been in multiple long-term relationships throughout high school and college, now I've just been traveling and finding myself and building my career. I feel like a lot of people focus too much on trying to change themselves to be more desirable as a potential partner, which is different from self improvement for self improvement's sake. Whenever I catch myself doubting my worth or doubting that there's someone out there for me as I am right now, I just tell myself "you are the perfect partner to your perfect partner". ♡
I understand Jason about his not wanting to overcompensate. I think that is a brave stand. Impressive even. I appreciate both your honesty and being genuine. I hope more guys would think like you two. I enjoyed watching and listening to your ideas. Good job!!!👍
Aww thanks for posting the unfiltered version of the vid and showing us you guys vulnerable side. 🥺 Dating in our early twenties vs late twenties are so different. Just a year or two ago, relationships was all I was able to think about. It wasn't until one of my best friend at the time got together with the guy I was interested that gave me a wake up call. I got so traumatized from that experience that I worry every guy I meet might fall in love with my friend instead.
Except that, we all learn from past experiences and find out the qualities that we want in our partner. I agree that as we get older we have diff priorities in life and we no longer compensate as much as we used to (e.g. time, money).
🥺 The way Jason spoked about dating, maybe he got hurt in the past and afraid to go through it again. I agree to what John was saying about expecting too much from the other person. In most cases, high expectations often leads to disappointment.
We can't always expect the other person to be exactly who we want them to be. Sometimes we just have to go with the flow. During that time, we just keep doing things we love with an open heart ❤️
"If you have the ability to love, love yourself first" -- Charles Bukowski
P.S- sorry for this long ass post 💪keep up with the great (raw) content
Feedback: I felt there were too many transitions and that the transition with the song was unnecessary. I think just keeping the transition simple is best. Other than that love this channel! subscribed.
Noted. Keeping it simple will be ideal for us as well. Glad u guys dig the less edited stuff!! 👍👍👍
I side with John. The good guys who are persistent in their chase will finally get the girls to see their true value.
love how honest you two are with each other. piggybacking off some of the other comments: jbro unmasked
Call it “J Space Bro” LOL
Omg yes this is good I like it
Loleddd j space 🚀 bro
J Bro it’s really good, I think u have a winner haha
Really enjoyed this behind the scene video. I like you guys discussed abt relationship in a such realistic way and being so open abt your opinion. 🙂
Relationships ain’t always 50/50 or black and white, Jason. Once you met the right one, nothing really matters.
Jbro love the vids! thanks for being raw and staying true to yourselves. never thought watching two bros challenged each other can be so entertaining! Much love!!
Although after watching “The social dilemma” I shouldn’t follow the algorithm, but I still appreciate the algorithm for showing me the second channel lol
I’m with John with this one, especially knowing myself, it takes time for some women opening up, give them some time Jason especially if you feel it that there could be something there.
Everything John said is so on point. It’s so hard to find a guy who’s so mature, introspective and respectful of others . ❤️
I think when you're starting to date, it's best to be clear and up front about what your priorities are or what your values are. Communication might be the key, but comprehension of what is being communicated should be important as well. We might just be saying stuff with the intention of reading the other person without actually understanding why the other person is saying stuff or doing stuff.
Nice video though. It's insightful to know how different both of you think and yet you're great friends together and listen to each other.
this is nice, hearing two different point of views and all the question asking to eachother. KEEP IT UP GUYS!!! :)
You guys should start a podcast. It’s hard to discuss these topics in a 10 min video! I like the honesty and openness where you guys talk to express your feelings and thoughts rather than to give one answer cause I feel like that’s what life is. You learn and grow to fine tune what you think should be the right answer.
I feel like in dating, both parties have to be honest and open so they can know about each other to see if they would like each other and be compatible. Even if someone is busy, they can and will still show that they care about you and are thinking about you. If you feel like someone is unavailable, they probably don’t care about you and you should move on. You shouldn’t have to convince or work extra hard for someone to like you. Both parties have to put in the effort to try.
LOVED THE EXTENDED TALKSS BOIS
Honestly, i won't mind 10 more channels from you guys💖💖💖
Here from the video on the main channel and wanted to take a minute to maybe talk a bit more about what John said about compatibility and perhaps shared interests being the most important factor.
A few years ago, I too used to think that it all boils down to compatibility and shared interests, that it means being better alignment with the person and potentially less friction in the relationship. But I've now come to realise (with ongoing inner work and reading more about the psychology of loving and healthy relationships) that it's actually not so much about compatibility on the ground of shared interests and similarities alone. They're transient and maybe even temporary at the end of the day as what we like often changes as the world around us changes.
I think I'm now more focused on seeking people who are curious about the world, self-aware and committed to their growth and willing to keep doing the inner work. Love and compatibility is just the first step, the beginning of a chapter but what makes a relationship long lasting, intimate and have depth is when both individuals commit to growing individually as well as together. And along the lines of what Jason said, I think the biggest passion I want to see in someone now is their passion to keep becoming a better and kinder person than they were yesterday.
PS Much love and respect to you both for being open and vulnerable to talk about this.
I think persistence is key with the right amount of balance, it kind of says quite alot of a person's character too. Definitely do you and your authentic self but I guess there will come a point that you also have to eventually find the right tune and be able to adjust to complement your partner - but all boils back to how much you want to be with that person. Just my two cents, lol 😊
Congrats to you two on this new channel!!
Also, this might work? J B-raw / J Bro uncut ext / J Bro IRL / J Bro Reel to Real 😅😅
My vote: JBRO RAW
And I totally agree with Jason. You shouldn't need to overcompensate. Yes, some girls will change their mind or some never will. In that sense gals and guys - we're the same 그냥 싫으면 싫은거야. lol. Harsh but true. I turned 30 this year and man have my priorities changed! most important thing = core value system. Everything else is on the periphery.
I think usually the issue is communication and understanding, be straightforward about what you want it leaves no room for misunderstandings. A professor of mine once told me assumptions make an ass out of me and you that stuck with me and I try to apply that in every day situations.
OMG when John mentioned about how both parties may be observing each others characteristics and personality, I can totally relate to that cuz I was in that situation before 😭
JbRaw stories..
idk, i'll subscribe regardless to its name. because you guys make me laugh, you're really creative and extremely talented. 🙃🙂 I wish you all the best of luck in both channels. 🤞
I saw JBro Talks or BTS in the comments... those seem good; appreciate u guys taking time outta ur busy careers to make these vids... keep it up! Just know u guys got a +1 subscriber from mois ;P
Nice to be able to see another side of both of you! 😊
Channel name suggestions:
J Bro Life
J Bro BTB (Behind the Bros)
@Helen Zhou🌸2 JBRO-BTB✅
J Broadened! Loved this, keep being yourselves! :-)
Wow..Jbro thanks, from this video I really learn something about relationships (men thinking)..
Luv to watch ur videos..tq
Tell me, how am i supposed to live without you?😂😂😂
Binge watching your videos. Cool, entertaining and relevant😅 keep up JBro🤩
Yess love the extended clips!
Subscribed!
J-Bro Unfiltered ,J-Bro Bloopers or TMI with J-Bro 🤔😂
Hahahah! You read our minds (what about the stuff that didn’t get onto the paid video since there were guidelines, will they be shown 🤔 ). They have been answered! Thank youuu 🙆♀️ for creating this separate channel to post them here.
Also, I got a few suggestions:
1) jbro comics
2) jbro unfiltered
3) jbro raw chats
4) jbro BTS
5) jbro hearts
@Lijie Goh 🌸2 - unfiltered ✅
Hi JBro,
How about:
JBro’s Raw Format
Thanks for the videos thus far!
Agree 100% as you get older the perspective in relationships change and you want more of somebody that helps you grow more and have the opportunity to be comfortable with each other.
i love how open you guys are
I enjoyed seeing the long version and really realized that I should meditate🤔 of how I see a relationship. Although, I'm not
looking for someone 🤣 sometimes it's good to do various reflections about yourself 🤨🧐🙁🤔
I can't wait to see more of your videos🤭😆😁
AH, That background music it's killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 reallyyy😁
If you are into the person never stop Chasing them. Even when you're married people forget to keep "dating" or pursuing their Spouse. But that affection should be reciprocated by both people to make a relationship work Long term. I've been married for 13yrs and I forget to compliment my husband b/c We as people get lazy and comfortable. We can always do better. Yes dating in 20s 30s and 40s are very different. Good Luck
How is it in your 40s (being with the same person for a long time)? My bf has an idea of staying very romantic, forever. His parents are like that, so think he will be. How realistic is that? Do people get too busy for one another? Ps we are 26 and 21.
HOW ABOUT JBRAWWWWW COS JBRO+raw... okay, I’ll see myself out 🏃🏻♀️
#SUBSCRIBEDDDDDD 😻😻😻😻
Are u poet ?????? We don’t deserve u
😂🤣🙃
@@JasonKi0 😂😂😂😂
Finally! A J Bro NSFW channel.
J8ro (8=infinity, all kinds of possibility)
Some of the contents you guys shared were similar to my personal opinions, but being a listener, hearing it from another person, give me a different perspective. Nice video. Hope to see more :)
WHADUPP!! say hi to new J B-RAW 🥰🥰🥰❤️
Good thoughts guys, this really made me wanna get to know you more haha. And I think it’s the same in dating. Just being you (the best you), share your thoughts and values. If it’s similar with hers, it’s gonna be easy😉 Like light attracts light ✨ and happiness attracts happiness!💕
Omg you guys are too cute I love this 😍❤️☺️ yay jbrofuntimes🙌
How about "Jbroasis"? 😊 You guys are like an Oasis to me..Your Vlogs bring me joy and calm in the midst of chaos..😁😊🥰😇
“Alright guys, ASMR” *child screams* 😂😂 love this
Keeping with COVID times: J Bro Unmasked
A second channel?! Yes the raw moments are the best
I think your ending statement just made my day..."final words, we don't know what we're talking about". How will your brand will change when one or both of you is no longer single? Haha a thought 😂
I would definitely agree as people get older the perspective of dating and who they want as a future partner and to be able to obtain it changes. To speak personally about myself when it comes to dating it's layers . I'll let the person know the basic things about me first before digging deeper into my viewpoints/outlooks . I feel like when someone feels that trust and respect it's easier to open up then to put everything all out their at once. It could be either overwhelming or the other person might feel rushed or pressured .
The difference in my idea of finding a partner from when I was 18 to now 26
Is that at 18 I wanted a romantic guy who could take me to dates and bring me flowers.
Now I check if his family likes me first... Since most asian parents are picky about their future son's wife, and as their son they will always prioritize their parents first.
And I liked jason comment about finding a partner that can find him as of great value.
Like once a male friend told me having a gf is like having a car, the maintenance is expensive but it looks good. 🤓🙂
I prefer a man who check me if I have patience as mother material, respectful as wife material, responsable as an individual to own and take care of my mental and physical health, to avoid blaming others for my unhappiness and affect others.
And I do search for a guy with those same qualities....
Jason has a pretty common mindset for people in their 30s and beyond...Time is precious and you just don't want to waste your time. When you know yourself and know what you can bring to the table, it not selfish to want the other person to some how meet you half way.
Of course there is the need for communication, compromise, understanding and consideration...etc. That's where I see John is coming from. Not the say that Jason way can't include those.
Both views are valided.
Set standards, goals and expectations for yourself and your relationship. Then WORK TOGETHER TO ACHIEVING THEM. Never lose yourself for another person. You/they are their/our partner and cheerleader. This should be the standards for ANY and EVERY relationship.
Long comment...lol...thanks Jbro. Keep doing what you're doing...❤
I think that those that persist in chasing for someone, must not have much self value. Actually, it’s what often draws people away, that kind of unwavering almost irrational dedication. Overcompensating is just making up for the lack of the love the other gives you, it’s like a good indication marker that it’s best to end it. Your time is precious after all, can’t spend it with people who don’t value it :)
Oooof I like this channel concept way more than your original channel 😅😌 meant as a compliment!
Totally agree with Jason. Falling for someone’s potential and being too invested in how things could “potentially” turn out instead of how it is as is has wasted so much of my time and made me lose my self respect to a certain extent, recovering from that was NOT easy.
Hi! Mid 30s female here and married for 8 years altogether 12 years together. I dated my husband for three months and found that he was too much like a friend and almost friend zoned him but I saw the overall potential of him being a committed partner and father and I listened to my gut and I definitely don’t regret pushing through it. Being the nice guy is never a bad thing to demonstrate to a girl. Also one thing to consider in attractiveness is is that men don’t peak until they are in their 30s. My husband is way more attractive in his 30s than he ever was in his teens and 20s :) Something you might want to think about is the level of vulnerability you are willing to offer and take in as well. Finding someone who is willing to ask for forgiveness and offer it as well if a huge factor in relationship longevity. Pride is a relationship killer. Thanks for this content!
I LOVE the idea of "J BRO UNFILTERED" it definitely suits you.
all i do is laugh watching ur vids😂😂 either way i suggest “realoppas” hahhaha
Is it just me that can’t take my eyes off Jason’s arms?! 😯 Gee... someone’s been flexing during quarantine 👌🏻👏🏻
Love u guys video!
I think I prefer this channel over your other channel. 😂 축하해요! I like the earlier suggestion of JBros Unfiltered for your new channel name :)
I think you guys need a podcast! I would definitely listen to you as well!!!
I like how you guys try to incorporate music you like.. because you enjoy karaoke and music it would be cool if you started out your videos with a short singing karaoke session OR do a karaoke playlist! All of the yuhjas would be subscribed 🤣
JBraw would be a good pun!
How about J BrOppas? ☺️ Looking forward to watching many more videos! ❤️
As for me I hope I find someone with similar values, and an adventurous side to them who isn't trying to change me but is willing to grow with me. Though I would need to be attracted, and I have never been big on looks, it seems almost impossible to find.
John is very mature... and the balance strike between self and love is well angled. May luck and smile be w you always 💛
"J Raw" would be best for this channel!
Lmaoo tbh i like this channel better, just because we get to see the more unfiltered side of you guys haha
I began to understand life that nature might make us alone, I have read a book that wrote. “Love is a matter of everyone who can possess it. But when love will bend over Love will bow to only certain things. ”And I think so, love is in the air. Love doesn't even have a cost. And love for me, whether it comes in the form of a couple, family, friend or someone from the world. There is always a good thing I believe that Thanks Jason and John made this video clip It gives me a view of love what you guys think of it. Nice to meet you. P.S. I’m sorry if my English is bad. But I still want to talk you guys. Hahaha 😁😁😁
J Bro Doppelganger!
Oh boy already apologizing in the first video LOL (시작하자마자 사과하다니ㅋㅋㅋ)
On a more serious note, it seems like both of you have had rough experiences with your exes in the past, but I'm super glad that you've learned to love and value yourself first. ❤ Hopefully once you're ready to start looking for someone again, you'll meet a significant other that's genuinely looking to spend time with you and potentially interested in starting a family with you in the future. 😊😊 (Sorry I have no dating experience so I don't know if I'll be able to offer any realistic advice haha)
Edit: My vote is for "J Bro Unfiltered"!
Bro. What you say at 6:06 hits home. I've seen guys just disappeared. I use to think it's my fault cause I'm doing A LOT. I use to take it against myself.
That meant alot coming from a guy. 😎👍
since this is where you share your realities and rawness, i would say "'best of the J-bros"'..anyway whatever you decide try give it a name that connects and links it to the main channel especially that you only showing extended version of your main ....
Just watched 2 of your clips! Love the clips . I feel theres a distinct ‘male’
‘ and a ‘female’ 🧠 here between the 2 of you . Anyways the channel just got a new add for a subscriber 😆!
JBro Extraordinary 2.0/JBro Uncut haha Physical traits isn't important these days, it would be just an icing of the cake. I think, I'd go for someone who will accept the flaws and fulfill what's lacking and viceversa like if he doesn't cook then I would be the one to cook for him kinda thing. I could say that God will not give you something you want but he'll give you the one you need and what's best for you. If it isn't meant to be then it won't really work no matter how hard you fight for it. Kudos to you both. Let's get it! 😍😍
J BRAW is honestly the best I can think of (it sounds like J Bruh too)
Thanks for the video Jbro! On the note about guys chasing girls, what are your guy's opinion about the opposite situation - where its the girl chasing the guy or when girl being more interested and persisting overtime? Does it just come off as clingy or will her efforts pay off in the end? Thanks! 😀
Good question! Usually women get called clingy #fivestageclinger - I would love to see what they think
i understand jason, overcompensating as a girl has never got me anywhere either. now i only go for guys who overcompensate and chase me a lot lool. also i used to think opposites attract but now anymore. now i need a guy just as ambitious and loyal as I am, preferably a software engineer like me so we have more interests that we can talk about and grow our skills and careers together.
Also.. I'm pretty sure u guys will find the right one.. She will make her intentions known if she's on the same page as well.. No matter the age.. If u are serious about someone u will naturally try to make things work. True that u won't know if the other party is looking out for a long term relationship at the start of "dating" phase but from the responses that u receive it will tell u a lot even without mentioning marriage..
JBro IRL. Also I feel people over complicate dating. It’s really simple. You like someone and they like you, usually there is no push and pull games. So if you are showing clear Interest in the other person and they feel the same they will reciprocate that attention. But then again I married my HS boyfriend 😂 so maybe my perception is lacking since it was from my teenage years. Love this second channel so far.