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John, you are so DECENT, humane and mature in the way that said that you resolve issues. You understand relationships very well and keep asking questions, to have better relationships. You also have meaningful relationships already which shows that you value relationships a lot. You also value friendship which negative people don’t. Negative people don’t trust their friends and advise against trusting people. You said that you don’t like things to linger on. That means that you can move on and let go when needed which is healthy 👍🏻 You are so right about breakups. I never told anyone I was dating mr ex due to cultural reasons so I didn’t tell them about my breakup either, but there were friends who knew. My friend and I never shared details because we were young then. We just knew who was dating who. That’s it. I’ve never had negative feelings towards my ex. But a psycho who I stalked and harassed me, is more obsessed with my ex and everyone’s ex, than the people who were in those relationships. Some people can’t digest a relationship breaking apart. They think that people have to be together forever, even if they’re miserable. Not everyone is capable of being civil after a breakup. My ex wasn’t. He wouldn’t respect boundaries. He’d crack sexual innuendos or talk about the past. He didn’t understand that that wasn’t ok after a breakup. Very immature and self centred. He wouldn’t respect the stage I was in at the time. Nor did he respect that I had to move on. He’d interfere in any guy who liked me and try to ruin my chances at love. It was awful. That was 13 years ago. You are so right about sore losers who call girls names when they get rejected or broken up with. When I broke up with my ex, and he called me a bitch in front of his friend, on the phone. Jason, you mentioned men in Yorker 30’s and how they mature. Below is a story of a 38 year old, who’s never had his first job. Never worked. Year by year, he regresses and doesn’t learnt anything new. People who learn new ways and grow overtime, don’t repeat mistakes that don’t work for them. Their approach and actions change as they grow. His don’t.

I rejected a random stranger, who started group chats, gossiped about me and took my name in front of many people, but NEVER approached me to talk to me. He was so FURIOUS that he contacted all my friends and told them not to see me I haven’t seen them for 7 years. I was upfront and honest. I don’t play games. I told him to F off when he told the girls not to invite me to the wedding, for which he started the group chat. But unlike most guys, he doesn’t like straight people. He wanted his delusions to be acted out in real life. He felt like I owed him something. Mind you, he had NEVER approached me but gossiped about me and played games from the first day. The psychopath sexually harassed, stalked, bullied and locked me in my house for 7 YEARSSS! He intruded in my privacy. Watched, listened, commented, reacted and offers unsolicited advice. I haven’t had privacy in my own home for 7 years. He hacked my mobile. He watches me from a microscopic lens everyday 👓 He intruded in every tiny and big aspect of my life including my love life, social life and job prospects. He harassed me in court, for 4 years, when I told him to F off 💔 Because he’s a bitter, single and lonely 38 year old psycho, who’s never had his first job. He’s been unemployed since graduation. His entire routine involves around ruining my life. What he has done is a crime. He’s a TERRIBLE person. You have no idea how LOW he can stoop 💀 He’s completely insincere. Sincere men don’t waste their own time or anyone else’s. Sincere men don’t pay empty backhanded compliments only to put you down afterwards. Sincere men don’t force unemployment on you, by contacting your employer. Sincere men don’t take away love, friends, attention and potential boyfriends/husband from your life. It’s been a living hell. I can’t imagine that someone can have so much hatred for me. So much hatred for a STRANGER. Imagine what he’s like with a girlfriend 💀😵‍💫🤮 he was a nightmare without me ever knowing him platonically or romantically. He doesn’t even know the definition of F OFF or “girlfriend”. Harassing a girl everyday doesn’t make her your girlfriend. Being rejected doesn’t make her your girlfriend! He’s not an alpha. He’s a beta procrastinator with no testosterone in his body. Alphas make moves and take charge. They approach the girl, ask her out and move on if they get rejected. Alphas don’t sulk, whine or get angry for years. Alphas don’t let anything weigh them down. If their habits or attitude is the reason for unfavourable results, they change themselves to get favourable results. Alphas have a track record of making moves and persevering 👍🏻 An alpha wouldn’t waste his own time or anyone else’s. Alphas don’t delay. Alphas don’t intrude in peoples lives watching, listening, commenting, reacting or procrastinating 🤮 He hasn’t f’ed off for 7 years yet he says that he’ll F off next month. It’s been 7 years already. An alpha would’ve f’ed off in 2015. An alpha wouldn’t make it to 2024 and still do the same thing, expecting different results. If he can do this to a girl who doesn’t want him, then imagine what he’s like with a girl who’s dumb enough to accept him 💀 Sane men move on. They don’t linger or show their fury to the girl who rejects them. No guy has ever done this to me before. They all moved on. I’ve been single for 13 years. No hugs. No kisses. No romance. No affection. No one texting me good night or good morning. No Valentine’s Day. I feel so lonely. Every girl my age is married with kids. But 7 years of my life were wasted for nothing 😢 No dating. No friends. No social circle. No support system 💔 When people say that they’re single, they mean they had their last relationship this year or last year. They don’t mean that their last relationship was 13 years ago. It’s ABNORMAL to be single without dating or meeting guys. I’ve done none of that. I feel useless 💔

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To day you look so cute both of you.😊🌷🫰😺🧶

우리말 잘하시는데 왜 할줄 모른다고 하시지? 준오빠 부몸님 뭐하시는분인지 현명하시네요

I watched the video comfortably^^ [Laughing] I usually read subtitles, so I can't see John and Jason's expressions well. But in this video, I can see John and Jason's expressions

한국말을 한국말로 자막 을 왜 넣은거지요ㅋㅋ다틀려ㅋㅋ재밌네요^^

Ok its clear Jason is Redpill n fees as a high value man he has to be chased after but NOT do the chasing.. (tho true, but understand ur living in liberal side of world, where women are taught to believe they are the PRIZE n most 80% of men chase women) so to go against the norm is a lil too high of expectaton n John is Bluepill, bought into romantic lies where men hav to bend the kneee to women n chase them or he is more pragmatic to situation aforementioned that we are living in liberal/feminized part of world where WOMEN are the prize, men are to pursue them n they will be lucky if a girl picks them.. But I side w/ Jason, men who chase women n even after winning them, girl will NOT respect them n treat them horribly because in their mindset, they are the princess, the prize, n he is the lucky one. Where-as this mentality is what brings distance between 2. Both parties should be looking to serve the other. So Jason is right here.. never chase, if you have to chase then she is just the wrong mentality woman n will sooner or later expose that side of her by neglecting the man because may be she is pretty n understand pretty girls have 100s of guys DM-ing her n adding to her false validation. Hence her entitlement mindset. Note to such girls those 100 DMing guys are also NOT the most high quality of men most likely. SO value a man you see in real life honoring you, before he loses respect for your neglectful attitude n moves on..

저는 하국어를 공부해요. 그래서 I LOVE that you did most of this in Korean. 아직도 beginner이에요. But I was able to pick out some words. I’m looking forward to returning to this video in the future when my Korean is better to see how much more I understand. And I’d love to see more videos in Korean, but I’m probably biased since I’m trying to learn everything I can, including the culture. 😅 Also, although Dr. John didn’t state it directly, I think his responses to Jason’s answers actually gives clues as to how he might answer the questions. For some of them, at least.

와우 한국말 정말 잘하시네요~^^

Dr.JohnYoo：...你為什麼不理我😥😥😥?。

Dr. Ki please have a vlog about career.

Jika sudah memutuskan untuk menikah dengan seseorang berarti sudah siap menerima semua yg ada di pasangan kalian apapun itu. Jangan dijadikan beban, Jika belum siap jangan menikah, memang menikah adalah keputusan besar. Bukan untuk berbeda tapi menyatukan.

I loved how deep your thoughts about that topic❤

Just started following this channel and really surprised to hear John spoke Korean🤣

Thank you for your content

What about Dr John?can you get married to non Korean lady?????

I think just have to be ready to communicate , compromise , and commit and yes marriage isn’t for everyone , I think you should have somewhat of stability before you get married ! Going to Korea in September alone and staying until November let’s go eat !haha trying to make as much friends as I can before I go 😂😂

please take more Korean challenge and speak more in Korean :) I know many people learning Korean because their other half is Korean; when there's a will, there's a way.

Can't stop watching your videos 💕💕💕💕

3:34 but what if they are asian, but japanese - surely you wouldn't have that much more in common with a japanese american person than a caucasian american person? I guess there would be some things like lunar new year - but if they are asian but not americanized (i.e. fully japanese) you would surely have less in common with them than a non-asian person who is americanized, because both of you are americanized? So is it really 'asian-ness' or is is 'korean-ness' or 'american-korean-ess' that you like having in common?

I think that friendship groups need to be more diverse, so that you surround yourself with people from different backgrounds. Only then do you get a natural attraction towards other people without fetishizing them. I think it's great when people find friends that they share cultural things in common with etc., but if you don't have any friends outside of what you know, you will always be a little bit ignorant to other people and always have that barrier to making connections with the rest of humanity (people who might be a soulmate to you). (And btw when I say 'you' I don't mean you specifically, I mean the general term 'you'/anyone).

Agreed with Jason, no need to waste time with girls who don't invest equally. If they don't meet you in the middle then they're just looking for a simp, so just walk away and stop wasting your time and just find a new girl

I think everyone is open to date and marry with ppl from the same or different race as long as u have the same feeling,can understand, accept each other and vice versa..like youtuber Jenn Im who is a korean born American and her husband who is a British..now they live in the State and have a baby boy together❤😍

（You.，好帥喔❤帶眼鏡的某人）。

Jason you are more attractive than you think. I am Blasian and my husband is Korean. There are plenty of Asian mixed ladies that might not look overly Asian but culturally they are. I am sure you guys will find your loves☺️

Tell me, how am i supposed to live without you?😂😂😂 Binge watching your videos. Cool, entertaining and relevant😅 keep up JBro🤩

I will totally date Jason or someone like Jason. His way of thinking is very attractive.

Envogue said in their song: "Free your mind and the rest will follow"Happiness is very important. Love what's up. I believe if you care for each other, respect, protect, have some things in common, know how to make up after a fight, be responsible, help others, love animals and kids, and can be romantic, like old music and TV shows, I'm interested in that guy. Race, skin color material things aren't important.

I would as a married person say whether its love or arranged when you stop being kind and understanding the person you are living with you start questioning whether marriage is really required . marriage is a lotta adjustment its not "love" as they say when you are living in 2 separate houses or maybe proper communication of what common interests and goals exist and what does not should be properly exchanged to avoid future confrontations ..,,

John is very mature... and the balance strike between self and love is well angled. May luck and smile be w you always 💛

I swear to everything as a Hispanic woman. I can hear you guys speak Korean all day - Very sexy language. Ok. I’m done!

Jason, I listened to this a couple of times. I KNOW - unequivocally, no doubt - that attractive, intelligent non-Asian women would love to have a chance for a relationship with you. You’re a completely appealing guy. But, you don’t really sound open to non-Asian women. Would you agree?

I am more attracted to the food on the table than what is being discussed here... 🤩

I am a perfect example for this. I am An American born Chinese who married a international student from China after college. We moved to his hometown in China and have been living here for 10 years now. Honestly, even though I’m Chinese it was a huge culture shock for me. I never been to China before as well lol. ( super naive ) His family is also very traditional compared to mine. After all this time of trying to make it work, I still feel more comfortable and happy in the states. Now with 3 kids I am still considering moving back. We might just have to make it work long distance. It has been too hard. He understands the culture differences we have and understands there is no perfect solution for us. This is really something I will teach my kids as well. Culture difference can affect a marriage. Especially if in laws are involved in your life. Something for you both to think about. 🤔

Westerners will never know how cute they are when they speak Korean.😍

So you mentioned here that you prefer Asian than White or Black-American. So if it's a non-Korean, which Asian would you most likely be attracted and get along well (knowing that Asian has similar culture)?

Instead of J BRO call it J BRUH

Love u guys video!

I agree with John. Don't ever talk about ur ex went u meet someone..

I don't know how i am in this videos .it's that a brothers youtubers .or gay !! Sorry if not .I'm psychologist i think that not . Ok we see more videos than we talk .😂😂😂 shift work all 3 night i feel like a 🤯🤯

Please stop saying non Asian women are not interested in you . That is not true and never has been true. The ones who told you that did it to control you from being a threat to them getting with non Asian women. Open your mouth and Say hello and smile. Treat us with same respect you treat Asian women. But please don’t waste our time unless you desire a non Asian life partner. Remember to date non Asian women who want you. You must open your mouth He who finds a wife. Not she who finds a husband. Is the non Asian way

You both are great catches and should have no insecurities. As for Asian men not being a top priority K drama and culture has gone along way to changing that. I hope you open up your minds and hearts to welcoming a wider circle of friends. If my daughter brought home either of you I would be thrilled.

great convo - would be interesting to see how you guys evolve/unfold/progress w/ your views as you grow older biologically and experientially (w/ meeting more different people etc)

hope you both find the love of your life soon.

Wow..Jbro thanks, from this video I really learn something about relationships (men thinking).. Luv to watch ur videos..tq

as an asian guy in the US I have never been in a relationship with an asian women. But, I guess that's just how the odds played out. Not a gripe but kind of not what I expected as kid to now as an adult.

I'm Mexican American but i'm more Americanized and I feel that as a "westerner" although I would love to have the opportunity to date a korean man, the insecurities Jason was talking about goes both ways. Growing up I felt that an asian man wouldn't be attracted to me because of me not being asian. So there was always this barrier like i'm not even going to try going there. You know?

I didn’t like what that guy said about like “I’ve given enough,” I think that shows the woman that you’re not willing to give that much in a relationship. It comes across as a bit… like you have no finess. Nobody’s gonna like you so much right off the bat, and if they do it’s probably not healthy. You should be able to interact with her without constantly thinking “when am I gonna get mine?” His whole point was a huge turn-off to me, selfish guys are terrible lovers