Especially if your monogamous, I’m poly so I talk about it before a relationship gets serious so that the other party(s) know and can back out if it’s not for them, or we can discuss boundaries
If they ask you to try it (poly/open relationship/marriage) it's time for you to move on. Because she already has. By the time they bring it up, they've already done ALL the planning. They either have a specific person in mind or they're already hooking up with them. It's over. Get out.
That's why you drop such partners off when they want to open the marriage. From a monogamous to a poly relationship is always a huge excuse to cheat without guilt. You're either poly from the beginning or not. Opening your relationship is the end of your relationship if it started as a monogamous one.
Yup. It's over the same second the question is even asked. There's no coming back from that. Even if the person asking accepts and respects the "no" you will forever know that they don't consider you enough. Who the eff wants to be with someone who doesn't think you're enough? That's humiliating. Plus in almost all cases when someone brings up opening up a relationship they're already cheating or have someone already lined up which means they've almost certainly already emotionally cheated.
Guys, please get this through your head! If she wants an open relationship and you never shown that you wanted that. She is already cheating either physically or emotionally but wants it to turn physical. Just end it! She will sleep with that person even if you say no or has already done it. Save yourself the misery because trust me, you will be miserable for the first 3 to 4 months, and then you will feel nothing, no love or hate. That love will die and you would have gone through horrible misery for nothing!
Poly/open relationships are a disaster waiting to happen, a ticking time bomb. Whoever claims to be in a functional one is either lying, or hasn't reached the fallout yet.
If someone even brings up an open relationship while in a monogamous one, it’s over. Yes, they’re already banging someone or have someone picked out and ready. Most likely they’re already cheating. Just break things off and go for a better partner.
Again we have the armchair experts spewing their mantra "if she asks for an open relationship she's already cheating" Just remember if you are in this situation it's your relationship follow your instincts. If you have the let's open the relationship question then make your position clear so there can be no confusion. They have given you a heads up so start digging discretely and get evidence. If like this example they ask again me? I'd involve families letting them know the situation and saying "we already had this conversation and I said 'I'm not into that but they won't let it go" That way if or when the shit hits the fan they can't blame shift you. Your relationship your choice do what's right for you. Would you take investment advice from a complete stranger? Then why would you take relationship advice? DO WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU!
@@i_am_funny and? It’s still a woman hurting their SO. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or not, a woman can still break your heart. Now they’re ruin other women as well
Parent. The baby will have an immature parent. That dude will ghost her before she gives birth.
Open relationship = End of present relationship.
Especially if your monogamous, I’m poly so I talk about it before a relationship gets serious so that the other party(s) know and can back out if it’s not for them, or we can discuss boundaries
People always give themselves the stupidest excuses to be in a toxic relationship
Why would someone continue to love someone else with terrible morals?
In lesbian couple the open relationship thing are usually normal (not all) and one of the main reason is to get sperm donor
If they ask you to try it (poly/open relationship/marriage) it's time for you to move on. Because she already has.
By the time they bring it up, they've already done ALL the planning. They either have a specific person in mind or they're already hooking up with them.
It's over. Get out.
Just tell her to " hit the bricks"😂
Hit the wall
That's why you drop such partners off when they want to open the marriage. From a monogamous to a poly relationship is always a huge excuse to cheat without guilt. You're either poly from the beginning or not. Opening your relationship is the end of your relationship if it started as a monogamous one.
Yup. It's over the same second the question is even asked. There's no coming back from that. Even if the person asking accepts and respects the "no" you will forever know that they don't consider you enough. Who the eff wants to be with someone who doesn't think you're enough? That's humiliating. Plus in almost all cases when someone brings up opening up a relationship they're already cheating or have someone already lined up which means they've almost certainly already emotionally cheated.
She should have ended it at the beginning the EX wanted open relationship from the start, so she shouldn't be surprised were it ended up.
If anyone asks for an open relationship that is your sign to run.
Most honorable woman
Guys, please get this through your head! If she wants an open relationship and you never shown that you wanted that. She is already cheating either physically or emotionally but wants it to turn physical. Just end it! She will sleep with that person even if you say no or has already done it. Save yourself the misery because trust me, you will be miserable for the first 3 to 4 months, and then you will feel nothing, no love or hate. That love will die and you would have gone through horrible misery for nothing!
"So many would be OK with" no they wouldn't.
Poly/open relationships are a disaster waiting to happen, a ticking time bomb. Whoever claims to be in a functional one is either lying, or hasn't reached the fallout yet.
If someone even brings up an open relationship while in a monogamous one, it’s over. Yes, they’re already banging someone or have someone picked out and ready. Most likely they’re already cheating. Just break things off and go for a better partner.
Wow she smacked op with a red flag in the very beginning of the relationship.😂 silly fool
i just can't believe he didn't even suspect anything in the first place
Who is “he”? This is a lesbian couple.
Again we have the armchair experts spewing their mantra "if she asks for an open relationship she's already cheating"
Just remember if you are in this situation it's your relationship follow your instincts.
If you have the let's open the relationship question then make your position clear so there can be no confusion.
They have given you a heads up so start digging discretely and get evidence.
If like this example they ask again me? I'd involve families letting them know the situation and saying "we already had this conversation and I said 'I'm not into that but they won't let it go"
That way if or when the shit hits the fan they can't blame shift you.
Your relationship your choice do what's right for you.
Would you take investment advice from a complete stranger?
Then why would you take relationship advice?
DO WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU!
It's not armchair psychology when someone tells you to not be a cuck.
Stupid gameplay int background is beyond annoying.
And women wonder why there aren’t any good men. Y’all ruined them
Bro op is a girl they are a lesbian couple
@@i_am_funny and? It’s still a woman hurting their SO. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or not, a woman can still break your heart. Now they’re ruin other women as well
Females just ruin things 😂😂😂
He shouldn't have started the relationship from the beginning.
She ! they were in a lesbian relationship
i just can't believe he didn't even suspect anything in the first place
They were a lesbian couple.