Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups
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Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups
Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.
The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life!
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This explains why Will Smith first laughed at Chris Rock's joke.
Hmmmmmmmm
does will smith even age?
Mojo Komodo Don't think so
Black don't crack
Mojo Komodo nah
No
That's the power of being neither White nor Middle-Eastern (the two races that get the most wrinkles when aging - Whites get faaaaaaaar the most).
I watched this vid and then ended up stuck at a party I hadn't planned on attending. Ended up using everything you said and actually had a lot of fun
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Ik it's kinda dick but it'd be super interesting to see character breakdowns from the other side, like people who are coming off as weird or creepy or non charismatic etc. All for the sake of seeing it from the other side, no hate. Good vids bro
No, I agree. And he wouldn't have to use real people. Maybe he could pull clips of fictional characters like, say, SNL's Debbie Downer or that sketch with John Snow on Seth Meyers. It would be really fun to see the comparison.
this channel is TRULY charismatic :) great job
Thanks for the encouragement!
I think his personality helps him.
character analysis of Harvey specter(suits), Sherlock(Sherlock TV series BBC) Dr house(house MD), Dr Cox (scrubs), I would love to see a video from u on these characters.
i mean the crowd is literally having an orgasm upon hearing Will Smith's name and his music. it would actually be weird for him to not acknowledge them and make a show of it. he was obviously the most important man there before the show had even started...
Right? He even had his own music. It certainly helps by being important.
ZeldaFoxEars like people always point to the george clooney's, will smiths and shit when talking about charisma but they're ignoring the most obvious fact. all of this is rehearsed! he's at work right now, entertaining everyone. to be charismatic doesn't mean to be an entertainer or the loudest, most vocal person in the group. charisma is simply the art of making people around you feel important. this can be easily achieved by first keeping your mouth shut and giving your full undivided attention to the person you're interacting with. it's really that simple, that alone will make you a lot more likable than the wittiest narcissist everyone seem point to as charismatic. it all looks good from behind a screen but in real life you might be seen as a fun person to be around sometimes, but ultimately obnoxious and exhausting. Hollywood isn't real life, the people you see on tv are all putting on an act, an act that only works in scripted scenarios, you'll never walk into a room with an audience that's been waiting for your appearance for hours and your theme song on full blast. I'm not saying these people aren't charismatic, they wouldn't be where they are if they weren't, but they most definitely do not act that way when not in front of camera's. a much better example of charisma would be Barack Obama or Bill Clinton, those guys can make a janitor feel like the most important person on earth. and yes those are very powerful men, but you'd have to be blind to not see that their charisma is what got them elected. Michelle Obama is also a great example. she could announce her presidency a week before the election and probably win.
yeah lets not pretend thats not a factor. his charisma has already been established through several first impressions.
damn bro, W for you
Good god, it's nice to see someone stepped in. Of course Will Smith, Bill Clinton etc. are charismatic, but what is completely left out in those CoC videos is the social status these people already have pre-conversation. And this is what partly limits the applicability of these tips. Will Smith seems like a fairly nice guy, albeit a bit "Hollywood exaggerated", but I actually "click" more with the two guys to the right, because - like me - they're a bit more quiet and reserved. Therefore, I - personally - find them to be more charismatic. @Charisma on Command, your videos are very helpful, but please don't leave "social status" out of the equation. It's immensely important and usually wins over charisma in groups, as exemplified by my group of friends, where I could pull of this shit, but others would still end up following the person with the highest social status. Of course, higher charisma tends to give you higher social status, but it's at least equally important.
Initially you're reading a bit too much into Will's introductory behaviors. He lingers because he can; because he knows that the crowd will accept his physical intimations without negative judgement based almost solely on his fame and immediate social relevancy and marketability.
Jay Wilson that's true but his marketability is mainly because of his funny just his persona in general
and a lot of hours of practice and rehearsing
I have to disagree. Celebrities who just play "almost solely on fame, immediate social relevancy, and marketability" are not practically universally loved like Will Smith, many of those other types seem to a lot of people from the outside to have an off-putting attitude about them, but Will doesn't, his particular mannerisms and positive "vibe", as described in detail by [narrator's name here], make all the difference.
Yeah, but the goal of this video is not apoint the things that you can do when youre famous, i mean Tom Jones is famous and the host too, the point of view he was trying to make us see is the smalls things that Will does, that have and absolute impact on other people.
E AZ Y Exactly, nothing cames easy
this channel is charismatic
°LOL, true that. Thanks!
@@Charismaoncommand stop
On command
he smacked a guy with more charisma than I have in my whole body
love your channel man. we need more of this in humanity.
Happy to hear that!
Bruce Sprague YESSSSSS I just discovered this channel and I love it.
That breakdown was amazing! I love that tip on giving equal amounts of eye contact to everyone when you're sharing a story. My eyes dart too quickly to everyone, and I plan to use that tip in my next meeting.
Rocky Kev Awesome, it can feel like a long time, but a just a few seconds per person is plenty
Will Smith's entrance was SAVAGE
This channel , along with the 92 little tricks book, have added such an exciting new dimension to my daily life.
I'm so glad I found your channel. Nothing like it on youtube. It's just what everyone needs. :)
Your channel has my favorite TH-cam video series right now.
Can we all just take a moment to thank charlie for these outstanding videos
I looovveee this channel, iv learned so much from you and my social skills have REALLY improved
~ Awesome! Glad to hear it :-)
Hi Charlie, I just want to say, you are a true professional. Keep up the great work.
+Golf Marketing Group Thanks so much - I really appreciate that!
This is one of the most phenomenal channel i have ever come acros
Will Smith could weaponize that charisma and use it for good OR evil. And people would follow him. He's THAT good. Graham Norton is incredible with the people on his show. He could interview the dullest human being on Earth and make that person seem fascinating.
Great video! love how you guys actually show exemples of the advice you give
i absolutely love your channel! your videos have been so helpful and have had a huge impact on my life! thanks and keep up the good work!
Will Smith is the definition of a movie star. He is genuinely enthusiastic about everything he does, he makes jokes and has no qualm about making jokes at his own expense, and he cheers for everyone around him because he recognizes the passion it takes to be a success and sees that passion in the people around him. He is the personification of hard work+passion=success and even at his worst he effortlessly excels because he gives everything 150%
I've just stumbled across your channel - LOVE it so much, been watching for 2 hours! ...and I love Will Smith...thanks for the break down, it makes sense now why we all love him ! :)
amazing channel! loving how this channel adds to its other videos!!!
He doesn't just tentatively/politely offer his hand, he embraces the host from the beginning. He firmly grips the hands of others on the couch as a sign of camaraderie and its visible enough that it translates through our screens. He always owns his space. He engages with the audience as if they only came to see him, and he's not subtle about it as the second guest was with the slight bow. He's deliberately dramatic, says "wow" as if its completely new and wondrous to him to be in front of an audience, even though he's Will Smith. He then turns his attention completely away from the audience, and addresses the man next to him for a very short time - but his body language is clear: it says I'm here to be interviewed but no matter what, I'll do it my way.
I love these. Happy to see another one in my subscription box! Now this is just me spit balling ideas but what about a breakdown of different late night show hosts and what they do that makes them successful? So not so much as a lead speaker like a Will Smith, but more so as a charismatic inquisitor.
TheOriginalCP9 I thought about Craig Ferguson actually! I think this could be a good direction :-)
Dude, great channel. Your charisma breakdowns are changing my relationships for the better, thanks a lot! 👏👏👏
~ Glad they're making an impact Pedro!
your video is great. i love how you have examples for everything you talk about.
This is probably my new favorite channel. The video on The Rock brought me to your channel much appreciated!
+Stan Edwards Jr. Glad the video brought you in - Welcome onboard :-)
Awesome video man, great break down, I really like the material and comments, keep it up!
At first I thought this was going to be a boring video. But, it turns out to be very interesting and informative. I really like how you dissected and explained Smith's actions. Very few people can do that. Brilliant. Keep them coming!
+Marra Virtudes Appreciate the feedback :-)
In something between 2:28 , watch how Will Smith gave hand shake to others. His hand is above of their hand and it indicates that he is going to dominate them. I think its correct ;) ( sorry for my bad english)
That is a friendly 'bro-for-life' kind of handshake( you would have seen it in sports). NO it is not a 'dominating' sign.
Dashing Young Man it is a dominating sign. From where the cameras stand and the audience is sitting, he had the upper hand. If you watch politicians, they always try to be on the left of the cameras, so when they shake hands with other politicians, they seem to be the dominant one. If you would just see the couple of seconds of them shaking hands, you would unconsciously think of Will Smith being the alfa
There are other factors that make him appear more dominant least of all is that his hand was over the other persons hand. It's a tv show not politics.
Yeah. This is really annoying when people do that in day-to-day life and whenever somebody introduces themselves to me this way, I immediately lose respect for them.
@@AsatorIV You might need to work on your confidence then.
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@@codpov7700 dunno how this cracked me up
Love your breakdowns man.. fantastic!
What an insightful video analysis! LOVE IT. Keep doing you man :))
you could probably do some of Steve Jobs's interviews or product launches. He used to kill those!!
Just found your channel. THIS IS GOLD!! Thanks a lot.
Subscribed :)
Oh man this may be my biggest sticking point. I never did figure out why people cease to listen to me sometimes and other times they hang over every word. I thought I had to choose more interesting topics. But this and the Kevin Hart video are things I will be more concious of in the future. Thanks
Maybe this is why people are surprised whenever I swear. Even though I swear a lot, since I laugh at everything and try to be supportive, swearing seems out of character for me. It's rather funny the responses I get. I got surprised reactions from people who I just met and one person stopped a conversion just to find out why I swore because they thought me swearing meant something major happened.
same here
I know exactly how you feel. To be fair I do limit my "surprising" behavior especially in professional environments. Not everyone is prepared for the uncensored me.
Charlie, could you do a video on how to fix up mistakes when you're telling an exciting story? I sometimes mispronounce or stutter while I'm telling a cool story. I know that this throws people off, but what is the best way to quickly fix up the conversation and get people's attention again?
Thanks for this great video by the way. I really love this channel.
I loooove this channel!
Thanks so much - I really appreciate that!
Jamie Foxx please
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Yes, pleasssseeee!
where have you been all my life
Thanks!
I know you’ve done at least one video on Keanu Reeves. More would definitely be welcome! I know you said he didn’t really want movie characters but John Wick. That character is fascinating and I think we all have a lot to learn from his gravitas and charm, despite not speaking that much. I love your content! So yeah Keanu Reeves, more videos about him would be amazing! Johnny Depp and Jackie Chan. Honestly, all three of these gentlemen really are very unique and really stand out more than a lot of celebrities. All highly underrated in my opinion.
Charly, I cannot belive the way you analyze these videos, awesome!
I have noticed it takes major social intelligence to be able to detect and pick up on peoples' behaviours and character traits like this. It further takes some discipline to incorporate these attributes into your own actions. However once making the effort it is always very well worth it.
You help people do that and the loose way of doing so with people we all enjoy is a great method to clarify your points. I am quiet certain you will be one of the next youtube stars so keep up the great work!
Further a recommendation:
Eric Thomas - Motivational Speaker (Great Charisma). Maybe you could include tonality and pace of speech as a means of tranfering emotions.
Go get'em Charly!
+Nils Schneider Thanks so much Nils! I am going to try and look up Eric Thomas now. I also have a motivational guy planned for Monday's breakdown :-)
I'm new to your channel and came because someone posted on reddit. I'm so engaged with what you have to say and it's a unique concept. I enjoy your tips and please continue as I am definitely following you. :)
+Cassie Cheng Glad you like them. Taking a short break, but lots more coming in the new year
he was cued to do that entrance.. they played his song and people responded then he responded.. no one else had that cue..
Awesome info brother. Respect from India
I love these videos!
Love the channel. Awesome work!
First person who comes to mind is Muhammad Ali. Changed the boxing game, 3 time world champion and was nick named Louisville Lip because of his psychological warfare in and outside the ring. Not to mention, a massive humanitarian who refused draft to fight the Vietcong war.
so much charisma she has!
I love your channel. How about a video on conversation topic selection. Especially after meeting new people.
Man I love your videos
Love this stuff I need to learn learn learn!
+Roland De Aragon Haha, that makes two of us!
This is real learning.
Great channel man!
This is actually a very important lesson. To some it comes more naturally, to others, like me, there needs to be effort.
+TransfixedBunnies Yup, I'm in the effort camp as well
he's the only one I know that can do this as he came out and stood there looking at the only answer without seeming conceited
GREAT channel!
There is nothing I hate more than people who are placing other people out of a conversation by not looking at them when they are talking, sharing a joke or story etc.
To me it always seems disrespectful, unfriendly and impolite. I always switch between everyone after a few seconds. I think that makes you appear exactly the opposite. Caring, that no one feels left out (especially people you maybe just met), polite, friendly, open, and charismatic.
Yeah. Especially when they turn their backs away from you and it's so rude. But I noticed that when someone is telling a story, they tend to look at people who are reacting to them. Like nodding their head, saying yes, and making small comments. They make less eye contact to the person who just stands there without giving them any feedback as they tell their story
Excellent breakdown!
+trading2 Thanks!
That was an awesome job man!
Dennis Leyton Thanks!
TUPAC SHAKUR (Charisma breakdown) (Most charismatic Person of all Time-proberly)
Russell Brand is phenomenal.. I was watching tons of his interviews last week because of his energy and how quick witted he is. He is very likeable, especially to women since he flirts with them 99% of the time, so it'd be nice to see a breakdown of him.
Kode Vic He's def one of my favorites, right up there with Will Smith. I have some videos of his lined up, but we also did a couple a while back if you look through our channel :-)
I looked through, I don't find them in the videos
Same for me, it's not the first time that you talks about videos that I can not find on your channel. Is there like a private section or something like that?
Mdairr Yeah my mistake, looks like I made those for a private group a while back. Will definitely do some more on Russell for everyone
Charisma on Command Command
I'll be honest, as fascinating as I find this channel, I feel like it's more for robots barely learning human communication than for people who already do many of the things talked about innately.
most People are robots, and to them this channel is hugely helpful.
Your videos are so amazing! Could you make more about femininity in our society? Like the James Bond video, but for a female archetype? Thanks so much!!
Can you do more breakdown videos of female actors and characters? Love this channel btw
Hey Charlie!
Great channel, totally love it.
Charisma breakdown: Joey DeMaio, Eric Adams members of Manowar.
Charisma breakdown suggestion: Lucy Worsley
I watch all her history documentarys just because she hosts them. She always connects with people who are used to be the expert and are used to be very serious. That's why it's so great that she can get these people to tell a different story, most of the time with much more fun :) I recognise in her the 'fun' thing that you explained in your video about Ellen! To start I would suggest you watch "History of the Home"
Will smith in an extrovert person, it would be a good idea to make a video to explain how to develop your charisma when you are introverted and to complete it by analyzing a personnality that has charisma while being introverted, Apart from this I realy like your channel and I wish you a good continuation, cordially.
Awesome channel 😍
Plz never stop to produce this type of content 😍
You've got urself a subscriber 😉
+Aadil Hasan Haha, I'm glad to have you!
I would love to see a video displaying two dominant characters in a group conversation. Like Will Smith and The Rock. Would they "fight" or how would they go about?
After watching so many videos on charisma on command, I shall focus on one style of charisma, can't probably do all, it makes me feel not myself.
1:30 to 1:50... I get it now. That was... That was enough to really make you think about how you carry yourself.
Great channel. Please make more videos about bruce lee.
He inpired so many people and made this world a better place
Dude will is aweasome.
Pretty awesome dude! Thanks
Do an interview of the characters in SUITS! the confident, the charisma, how people listen to advices, how to be the center of the attention.
Wow, this is GREAT Video! Anyway, in my opinion Bo Eason is one of the most charismatic & magnetic person.
GREAT BREAKDOWN!!! Thanks for the email
Charisma Breakdown Mark Hamill. That man is legit the definition of charisma.
+Charisma on Command Really helpful channel! Thank you for making these! Not sure if you only analyze interviews but if you don't there are many many good scenes in TV show "Mentalist". The main character is absolutely charming! It would be amazing if you analyzed how exactly does he do that :D Thank you!
Graham Norton, please!
cool
happy times.
Do one on Jay Z! Most charismatic man in hip hop, i swear.... I love watching his interviews purely based off his charisma!
I Need more videos on this topic.
you're awesome !!
This was really helpful
~ Glad to hear you're finding it helpful Dianna!
Wow really amazing.!!
Ima go to class and scream yeeess yeees omg yess how lovely are you guys.
try Real Social Dynamics especially rsd tyler. this guy is a bomb ;)
russel brand!
Gal Gadot, she's very charismatic in my opinion I would love to see a video description of her
Really enjoyed this! For the best charismatic presentation ever, see Carla Harris ("Carla's Pearls" a TED talk)
Goodd work !! Keep it up (:
Everyone likes Will Smith, I almoust fell asleep than I just heared his name and I am not feeling sleep at all
Me looking for the updated will smith Chris Rick comments when I click on an old video😂
I really love your content and are and inspiration to start my own TH-cam Channel. I was wondering though how you manage copyright issues? Don't these videos have copyright? Awesome stuff, and keep it up.