I am happily married to an Istj and its sometimes challenging because we are so different, but we make a great team because he complete me in the things I am bad at! I am an Enfp and he helps me so much in being structured and organized and I can help him finding his work life balance and being more open to new things. I can't imagine someone else to be with. He is just a blessing the way he is.
Misunderstanding of a female istj, ISTJ women are independent and self-reliant, more than likely not be sitting at home but building a career and maintaining a family life.
My ISTJ husband wrote down every cent we spend when we were dating. That boy gave me a monthly budget for how much we will spend if we have our first kid on our FIRST WEEK OF DATING! Totally freaked me out but the ESTJ in me appreciates his straight forwardness and efficiency.
I find that the traditional part is interpreted in a way that doesn't suit half of ISTJs. Most of them (I know) don't have conservative views at all. But they like to build their own traditions with their loved ones, as traditions can be considered activities where certain things are to be expected. And when there's expectations, you can manage and uphold them - classic ISTJ-style!
I'm an istj female and this is pretty spot on. I'm happy I came upon learning my personality type. I don't fit the. Typical female when it comes to emotions and I've mentioned this to my husband who is an INTJ. Opening presents in front of people is super rough to me because I'm terrible expressing how happy I am for the item. I truly am happy but I can't put it out for the gift giver to see. I am a traditional house wife and when my husband doesn't play his traditional roles as a husband it actually makes me angry.😅 Also I am the budgeter in the family. Surprise surprise.
I am an ISTJ. I love who I am and the person I have become. Sometimes very exhausting. This is very spot on most points. Don't necessarily agree on the sex comment. We are definitely NOT boring in the bedroom.
When it comes to dating, I am never the initiator but I always end up being the chaser in the relationship. For example, right now I am with a man who I always check up on first through phone/text contact and I drive to visit him 30 min away in his town. He invites me for outings in his town and I always drive out there. It was the same with another relationship with some other man the past. I have never been the traditional woman role when it comes to dating a man.
Watch John Gray interviews . (Mars/Venus)He explains that a man needs to go out of his way for a woman, especially in the beginning of a relationship, to bond with her. The woman just needs to appreciate his efforts. You making most of the effort works against the man growing in love for you. You deserve to be cared for. ✝️👍🙂
It's because you guys act similar! You belong to the same quadra as ISTJs so you're not any better than others. God! The nerve of these ENFPs thinking they're above all.
As a ENFP male married to an ISTJ female, complete understanding of each others type is CRITICAL. Talk about polar opposites in how the mind works. If it was not such a challenge, it would be comical. I am always on guard for types that share some of the same traits as the ISTJ and play act accordingly. Yea, without fully knowing both types, you WILL go nuts. Just remember, both types have their roles to play. And the ISTJ can teach you a thing or two about structure and staying on task. lol
@@egomaniac7230 Acting similar? Only in how are letters flip under stress perhaps. IMO. And i can see how the ENFP thinks they are #1. And for some things we are. But we also have are weaknesses. Remember ENFP gets bored and will bate you to give a reaction just to see what you will do. I hope this helps.
@@DontmesswithJack they're both from the delta quadra. They both use the same sets of cognitive functions. People don't always change under stress but when they become more mature they use their weaker functions as well so all and all from experience and from the theoretical explanation they are very similar once you look past their different outer shells.
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I am happily married to an Istj and its sometimes challenging because we are so different, but we make a great team because he complete me in the things I am bad at! I am an Enfp and he helps me so much in being structured and organized and I can help him finding his work life balance and being more open to new things. I can't imagine someone else to be with. He is just a blessing the way he is.
I'm in love with istj rn. I love your comment. I think I'm enfp aswell
Misunderstanding of a female istj, ISTJ women are independent and self-reliant, more than likely not be sitting at home but building a career and maintaining a family life.
Absolutely true
Absolutely right
My ISTJ husband wrote down every cent we spend when we were dating. That boy gave me a monthly budget for how much we will spend if we have our first kid on our FIRST WEEK OF DATING! Totally freaked me out but the ESTJ in me appreciates his straight forwardness and efficiency.
u sure youre estj lmfao
I find that the traditional part is interpreted in a way that doesn't suit half of ISTJs. Most of them (I know) don't have conservative views at all. But they like to build their own traditions with their loved ones, as traditions can be considered activities where certain things are to be expected. And when there's expectations, you can manage and uphold them - classic ISTJ-style!
Wait! What? ISTJ's can have love and romantic lives? This is news to me. I'm a hardcore ISTJ.
I'm an istj female and this is pretty spot on. I'm happy I came upon learning my personality type. I don't fit the. Typical female when it comes to emotions and I've mentioned this to my husband who is an INTJ. Opening presents in front of people is super rough to me because I'm terrible expressing how happy I am for the item. I truly am happy but I can't put it out for the gift giver to see.
I am a traditional house wife and when my husband doesn't play his traditional roles as a husband it actually makes me angry.😅
Also I am the budgeter in the family. Surprise surprise.
I am an ISTJ. I love who I am and the person I have become. Sometimes very exhausting. This is very spot on most points. Don't necessarily agree on the sex comment. We are definitely NOT boring in the bedroom.
Of course you do. You would.
When it comes to dating, I am never the initiator but I always end up being the chaser in the relationship. For example, right now I am with a man who I always check up on first through phone/text contact and I drive to visit him 30 min away in his town. He invites me for outings in his town and I always drive out there. It was the same with another relationship with some other man the past. I have never been the traditional woman role when it comes to dating a man.
Watch John Gray interviews . (Mars/Venus)He explains that a man needs to go out of his way for a woman, especially in the beginning of a relationship, to bond with her. The woman just needs to appreciate his efforts. You making most of the effort works against the man growing in love for you. You deserve to be cared for. ✝️👍🙂
@@traditionalgirl3943 sharap
@@aur.sanne77, classy. 🙄
This is me somewhat and I have not met someone who suits me/compliment me.
Maybe because you don't compliment people
snow40741 you’re not alone, same for me too.
Yeah that's me, all my weakness been cancelled by being psychopath and all my psychopath weakness been cancelled by being highly functioning.
Isn’t it generally true that those that most need to learn something are usually the least likely to want to?
Thanks❤
Let’s see, nit picky, controlling, irritable....just a guess.
I can’t stand ISTJs. ENFP
It's because you guys act similar! You belong to the same quadra as ISTJs so you're not any better than others. God! The nerve of these ENFPs thinking they're above all.
They can be frustrating for NF types. Very different. INFJ.
As a ENFP male married to an ISTJ female, complete understanding of each others type is CRITICAL. Talk about polar opposites in how the mind works. If it was not such a challenge, it would be comical.
I am always on guard for types that share some of the same traits as the ISTJ and play act accordingly. Yea, without fully knowing both types, you WILL go nuts.
Just remember, both types have their roles to play. And the ISTJ can teach you a thing or two about structure and staying on task. lol
@@egomaniac7230 Acting similar? Only in how are letters flip under stress perhaps. IMO. And i can see how the ENFP thinks they are #1. And for some things we are. But we also have are weaknesses.
Remember ENFP gets bored and will bate you to give a reaction just to see what you will do. I hope this helps.
@@DontmesswithJack they're both from the delta quadra. They both use the same sets of cognitive functions. People don't always change under stress but when they become more mature they use their weaker functions as well so all and all from experience and from the theoretical explanation they are very similar once you look past their different outer shells.