definitely worth it once you find the right person, but man it can take while to get there. Those bad experiences are still important to have to grow. Good luck
Date seriously with the intent of marriage, but also don’t settle for someone who sucks. I was very fortunate and got engaged when I was 20 and married at 23. The right woman is out there, once you find her you’ll know!
I'm in my 30s so I can give some prospective on this. Definitely date around in your early 20s. Why? Because you learn how to deal with women and how to vet them. The more experience you get with them the more you'll know what you want in a partner and how to set boundaries. When you are inexperienced, most guys will be doormats. Also chicks are sleeping around like crazy in their 20s and as seen in this video, marriage in your 20s will likely end in divorce because it's way too easy for them to replace you. Spend your 20s building a foundation for your life and once you hit your 30s, women will come and you'll know how to deal with them; not to mention 20 year old women love older men so you'll have no problem pulling mid 20s in your 30s. Never settle. It's always better to be alone than cleaned out in court or having your image ruined by false allegations. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and over 80% of the time women initiate them. You don't have to be a gambler to not buy into those odds. Take your time.
Kevin samuels was the best man for this kind of advice and I follow his philosophy. Don't get angry at either men or women drop the gender wars aswell. Regardless of your gender and age, make yourself the absolute best version of yourself that you can be for you, and no one else. From there, pick from your best options at that point. If you are the best version of you for yourself, you will be the best version of yourself for your partner. Some people at a young age are ahead of themselves, while some are late bloomers. Its a case by case situation. As for sleeping around and having fun, im pretty sure studies show the more men and women " have fun " with multiple people their pairbonding ability starts to wither away so, enjoy that at your own risk.
I don’t agree on “figuring yourself out” first. Sometimes life happens and you meet the right person who drives you to be the best version of yourself. Hard and fast rules on life are silly.
@@WhereisYunoGasai This Bro. A lot of people on videos like this don't understand it, that's why they keep consuming and consuming without any actual progress. Oneself needs to Just Live.
@@JohnSmith-eo2yx Thats how I personally lived when I was younger, and those relationships blew up in my face. Relationships in most cases are very reflective, and for the majority of people a partner will not motivate you to do anything life changing, all of that comes from with in doing it for yourself, and I've seen that to be true not just in my own relationships but with everyone I've known. There are many people who also get destroyed due to dating people when they just aren't in a good place in life.
@@WhereisYunoGasai Bold assumption, but I agree with someone's philosophy due to how my own life experiances and relationships that have transpired, and what the person said aligns with me and my life experiences, so it all makes sense in my eyes. You can live life how you want to all you want but if there is solid advice and plans to utilize it doesnt make you a sheep for using a template or incorporating someone's ideas.
Your channel is genius - there’s a niche of guys like us who grew up playing these games as kids with no worries in the world. Now it seems like we’re lost in this world and don’t fit in. Great to hear your advice on topics that cross my mind every day!
I believe having a family is more important and fulfilling compared to a career. I realise this is just what I think right now. With new life experiences comes new perspectives and changing opinions.
YT algorithm blessed me up, I was looking for music when I found this. I’m 18 and still deciding what type of man I want to be, your advice has helped me organize stray thoughts surrounding my future. Good video!
Get out there and live life first buddy, stuff might change including your values and ambitions for the future. Go to college or get a well paying job and live on your own and find out what you enjoy in life when you’re on you’re own first
Married with the person I met when I was 20 years old. I am 28 right now and I would say it is worth it to settle if you find the correct person. Dating different woman simply is a waste of time. Especially if you are chasing P*ssy. If you find the right woman who wants to cook for you and do a lot of stuff which nowadays “independent woman’s” don’t want to, I guarantee you she is a keeper. Most women nowadays are a pain. They can’t even cook an egg. These feminist is something careful to be around. If you are together you can build something from there. Maybe it is true I wasn’t able to fully work on things I would like to do, but maybe if I did I would never met the right person.
It's absolutely insane how many women my age have absolutely zero idea how to cook. They may know how to bake sweets but they have zero idea how to cook a proper meal.
I’m 25 and have never had a real relationship, I gave up in high school. Haven’t been with one since. I go to work, go to the gym, play some video games, play some basketball or go skate 🛹
Risk reward ratio on causal dating is probably the worst return. Instant gratification is the only “reward”, while the risks range from small like wasting time, and large like STDs and even false accusations.
yo just wanna say i love this old school feel you're bringing back to call of duty, if you ever want a guest for a dual comm at some point i'd be really down :)
You dont find someone. You do your daily life de best you can, and when you dont expect someone is in your life. Not being in a relationship concerned to be heartbroken, is the most coward thing in this life. It is easer to cope with videogames, isnt it? Been there. Done that. Playing videogames as you keep aging, will make you heartbroken with yourself. I got heartbroken countless times. Until I mature enough and learned painful lessons. Now I have the best wife I could possibly asked for. Quit videogames, be a better and mentally stronger man. We have a biological need to reproduce and a spiritual need to find a partner for life. Talking about this while playing call of duty is just like a drug that numbs your mind while being kinda hyppocrite. You have the Duty as a man to do the best you can in real life, not hiding yourself in video games.
Stay single till your 30s. If for one reason only: discernment. Cultivate a propensity for non-attachment. Women come and go. The most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself.
You’ve already posed the wrong question. You should not focus solely on career, you should put the focus on YOU. Career is simply part of the process, because you need a realistic strategy to survive. Understanding your desires, fears, passions, defects etc. is what helps you the most to shape your life path. So although your discussion is relatable, you’ve missed the ballpark trying to pose and answer a life altering question.
It's hard to find a girl who's set apart, especially with all of the propaganda that has been going around. I went career route in my 20s and ended up setting with someone older than me.
Wow, I had the same question because of a horrible breakup and now with the B4 or is it 4B movement threatening to withhold all dating or intimacy why would I try? I know I can only speak for myself but it’s a valid point in this day and age
Those girls will not be looking for a partner anyways, so chances are you will not have to deal with them. There are plenty of good girls out there despite all the cynicism on the internet. The cynics are the ones who are too scared to try.
@@baore2422THIS! THANK YOU MAN because imma be real it’s just scary the idea of dating like this but why not throw myself out there. I’ve dated a Mormon chick who was pan sexual who dyes her hair and she and I dated for 11 months and in those months I learned a lot about myself and am just now getting back into the game! Thank you man
Finding someone is hard for some people. Personally I wouldn't settle but if I found someone that's worth finding I'm definitely keeping that woman!
definitely worth it once you find the right person, but man it can take while to get there. Those bad experiences are still important to have to grow. Good luck
the best part about your channel, you're playing the REAL MW2
I refuse to play any other version of it!
Straight facts. Dating around unseriously is one of the dumbest things one can do.
It usually leads to a path of unhappiness
Date seriously with the intent of marriage, but also don’t settle for someone who sucks. I was very fortunate and got engaged when I was 20 and married at 23. The right woman is out there, once you find her you’ll know!
I'm in my 30s so I can give some prospective on this. Definitely date around in your early 20s. Why? Because you learn how to deal with women and how to vet them. The more experience you get with them the more you'll know what you want in a partner and how to set boundaries. When you are inexperienced, most guys will be doormats. Also chicks are sleeping around like crazy in their 20s and as seen in this video, marriage in your 20s will likely end in divorce because it's way too easy for them to replace you. Spend your 20s building a foundation for your life and once you hit your 30s, women will come and you'll know how to deal with them; not to mention 20 year old women love older men so you'll have no problem pulling mid 20s in your 30s. Never settle. It's always better to be alone than cleaned out in court or having your image ruined by false allegations.
Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and over 80% of the time women initiate them. You don't have to be a gambler to not buy into those odds. Take your time.
Kevin samuels was the best man for this kind of advice and I follow his philosophy.
Don't get angry at either men or women drop the gender wars aswell. Regardless of your gender and age, make yourself the absolute best version of yourself that you can be for you, and no one else. From there, pick from your best options at that point.
If you are the best version of you for yourself, you will be the best version of yourself for your partner. Some people at a young age are ahead of themselves, while some are late bloomers. Its a case by case situation.
As for sleeping around and having fun, im pretty sure studies show the more men and women " have fun " with multiple people their pairbonding ability starts to wither away so, enjoy that at your own risk.
I don’t agree on “figuring yourself out” first. Sometimes life happens and you meet the right person who drives you to be the best version of yourself. Hard and fast rules on life are silly.
Life isn’t black and white, swim in the grey and live life how YOU want not how everyone else tells you how to.
@@WhereisYunoGasai This Bro. A lot of people on videos like this don't understand it, that's why they keep consuming and consuming without any actual progress. Oneself needs to Just Live.
@@JohnSmith-eo2yx Thats how I personally lived when I was younger, and those relationships blew up in my face. Relationships in most cases are very reflective, and for the majority of people a partner will not motivate you to do anything life changing, all of that comes from with in doing it for yourself, and I've seen that to be true not just in my own relationships but with everyone I've known. There are many people who also get destroyed due to dating people when they just aren't in a good place in life.
@@WhereisYunoGasai Bold assumption, but I agree with someone's philosophy due to how my own life experiances and relationships that have transpired, and what the person said aligns with me and my life experiences, so it all makes sense in my eyes.
You can live life how you want to all you want but if there is solid advice and plans to utilize it doesnt make you a sheep for using a template or incorporating someone's ideas.
Hey man I asked the question and you did a great job answering. Very comprehensive and well thought out. Thanks!
Your channel is genius - there’s a niche of guys like us who grew up playing these games as kids with no worries in the world. Now it seems like we’re lost in this world and don’t fit in. Great to hear your advice on topics that cross my mind every day!
I appreciate that. You basically outlined the reason I made the channel, because i felt//feel that same way during my 20s!
I believe having a family is more important and fulfilling compared to a career. I realise this is just what I think right now. With new life experiences comes new perspectives and changing opinions.
TGOD hits at 7:38 n you got weddingskink on your team lol
YT algorithm blessed me up, I was looking for music when I found this. I’m 18 and still deciding what type of man I want to be, your advice has helped me organize stray thoughts surrounding my future. Good video!
Get out there and live life first buddy, stuff might change including your values and ambitions for the future. Go to college or get a well paying job and live on your own and find out what you enjoy in life when you’re on you’re own first
Dude, something about your content scratches an itch I’ve had since the OG Mw2 days. Keep it up!
This reminds me of Mail Monday from Woodysgamertag. I love these old school life commentary cod videos.
Don’t let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat, when you feel the heat around the corner.
Timeless quote from a timeless movie
20s is crazy broad. Focus on yourself until a woman comes along the way. Don’t avoid taking to women, but don’t seek it as your only purpose
Married with the person I met when I was 20 years old. I am 28 right now and I would say it is worth it to settle if you find the correct person. Dating different woman simply is a waste of time. Especially if you are chasing P*ssy. If you find the right woman who wants to cook for you and do a lot of stuff which nowadays “independent woman’s” don’t want to, I guarantee you she is a keeper. Most women nowadays are a pain. They can’t even cook an egg. These feminist is something careful to be around. If you are together you can build something from there. Maybe it is true I wasn’t able to fully work on things I would like to do, but maybe if I did I would never met the right person.
It's absolutely insane how many women my age have absolutely zero idea how to cook. They may know how to bake sweets but they have zero idea how to cook a proper meal.
I’m 25 and have never had a real relationship, I gave up in high school. Haven’t been with one since. I go to work, go to the gym, play some video games, play some basketball or go skate 🛹
Sounds cool bro. If u find a girl hope she enjoys the same things Fr bro. She might!
Risk reward ratio on causal dating is probably the worst return. Instant gratification is the only “reward”, while the risks range from small like wasting time, and large like STDs and even false accusations.
Are you a fan of Black Ops 1 at all? Would love to see more commentaries with that game 😁
yo just wanna say i love this old school feel you're bringing back to call of duty, if you ever want a guest for a dual comm at some point i'd be really down :)
nah bro lowkey i be watching your vids everyday
That woman that wanted you to make $200,000 could never make that
Most women have more realistic expectations, it’s just the delusional girls they interview outside nightclubs who think that way.
You dont find someone. You do your daily life de best you can, and when you dont expect someone is in your life. Not being in a relationship concerned to be heartbroken, is the most coward thing in this life. It is easer to cope with videogames, isnt it? Been there. Done that. Playing videogames as you keep aging, will make you heartbroken with yourself. I got heartbroken countless times. Until I mature enough and learned painful lessons. Now I have the best wife I could possibly asked for.
Quit videogames, be a better and mentally stronger man. We have a biological need to reproduce and a spiritual need to find a partner for life. Talking about this while playing call of duty is just like a drug that numbs your mind while being kinda hyppocrite. You have the Duty as a man to do the best you can in real life, not hiding yourself in video games.
Cool perspective. Ya video games can be one issue amongst many.
Settle down in your 30s, trust me… enjoy your remaining 20s and early 30s, have fun…
You can still have fun with one partner yk
If you are going to say "trust me", your perspective would matter more with some context. Share your story, if it doesn't dox you..
If you want a family settling down in your 30s is an objectively awful idea
Stay single till your 30s. If for one reason only: discernment. Cultivate a propensity for non-attachment. Women come and go. The most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself.
Stay single till your 30s? What? No that's a horrible idea especially if you want to have a family.
When you find the right one, it's worth it bros.
Dating around does NOT allow you to focus more on your career. In my experience, casually dating took up way more time, energy and effort.
Yeah, it didn't work for you and your career which is understandable. Everything varies by approach, and individuals have different approaches.
great advice
You’ve already posed the wrong question.
You should not focus solely on career, you should put the focus on YOU.
Career is simply part of the process, because you need a realistic strategy to survive.
Understanding your desires, fears, passions, defects etc. is what helps you the most to shape your life path.
So although your discussion is relatable, you’ve missed the ballpark trying to pose and answer a life altering question.
It's hard to find a girl who's set apart, especially with all of the propaganda that has been going around. I went career route in my 20s and ended up setting with someone older than me.
great video
Wow, I had the same question because of a horrible breakup and now with the B4 or is it 4B movement threatening to withhold all dating or intimacy why would I try? I know I can only speak for myself but it’s a valid point in this day and age
That movement isn't serious broski
you actually think the 4B movement is a thing? The vast majority of girls don’t care who you voted for
Those girls will not be looking for a partner anyways, so chances are you will not have to deal with them. There are plenty of good girls out there despite all the cynicism on the internet. The cynics are the ones who are too scared to try.
@@lookatmyzombies9377thank you broski
@@baore2422THIS! THANK YOU MAN because imma be real it’s just scary the idea of dating like this but why not throw myself out there. I’ve dated a Mormon chick who was pan sexual who dyes her hair and she and I dated for 11 months and in those months I learned a lot about myself and am just now getting back into the game! Thank you man
Thanks
What if im unemployed
I sent 70 application --> got 3 interviews --> and now got first offer. You just have to be active and you will get rewarded eventually.
@petteri5439 what job ? No fast food please
@@pierren___ Automation engineer
@petteri5439 damn, you american?
@@pierren___ I am from Finland 😄
dont do either
lol why mw2 footage for this 😂