That narrator is brilliant and absolutely right about narcissists. Narcissistic abuse is "Twisted reality meant to hurt you." Guard your feelings and your heart. Don't internalize narcissistic abuse. Your story is more important than theirs.
Since I live with one until I can finally leave, have flying monkeys friends who are stuck in relationships with same people and I will need to interact with those for the sake of them this is hella helpful. Thank you so much for going into details when speaking about tactics.
I've been in your shoes. It's temporary, and ALL about boundaries - as cliché as it might sound. See the light at the end of the tunnel, be firm, and trust your gut! Thanks for being here
Don't let anyone know what your plan is. You never know who is "working" for the Narc. If you are asked what your plans are, make up some beleivable BS and watch who sabotages your fake plans. You never really know how much comorbidity these critters have on board, many of them are psychopaths and will do major bodily harm once they feel justified to do so. Goodluck and once you get free, never engage with those evil critters ever again.
Tell me about it, the trauma in the body lingers. They are demon possessed. Covert is a green snake in the grass, victim and covert, then you have the type who shift
6:44 I love the combination of the Drama Triangle with the narcissistic type. I recently stopped a hoovering attempt by a "flying monkey" when I accused her of playing rescue games on behalf of the narcissist.
I love your content and presentation. I just walked out from a 22 years of toxic marriage. Not easy decision to make but I have to do it before I totally lose my self identity and respect.
"Khirul the Courageous" is now your new name. You've made an incredibly brave choice, and no doubt the quality of your life will thank you for it. The best is yet to come.
Narcs have conditional love and its usually when they want something and they are very envious and jealous of empaths because we have unconditional love. I had to walk away from family because i refuse to accept or tolerate conditional love,much less be their scapegoat.
I'm glad you noticed the differences and transactional dynamic. Empaths are the first to be targeted! It's unfortunate to have this in your family system, but know you're not alone. Guiltless distance is the first step
You don’t have to go through all that give them what they crave give it knowingly but falsely premeditate a drop shot it prepares you/unprepares them they like to think they have you where they want you
Appreciate you both for being here! My favourite of all on this subject is "The highly sensitive person's guide to dealing with toxic people" - Shahida Arabi
This was absolutely tremendous, Thank you so much for this I'm new to your channel, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)
Very well explained and I also like the way you broke down these topics. I would very much like if you could do a topic on Flying monkeys ! I have had a severe smear campaign going for about a year, stalking, spying and car instances where by the will over take me one or two at a time, fast. push me into another lane on the motorway, prity scary, but I won't give up. I'm not in a relationship with the covert narcissists, she was my neighbour and has since moved abroad but still is operating to her flying monkeys, SOCIAL MEDIA !!!!
It's scary how their seductive influence, and faux power position manipulates others to do their bidding. In the instance you mention, it's worth notifying the authorities. I'd also highly recommend confronting the "flying monkeys" with non aggression and assertiveness, as you may start to reason, and help them "see their spell". Hope the video helps
He was just trying to lower you to his level; your value rating belongs only to you! You know the good that you've put out there and they can't stand your empathy and wisdom. It makes them look bad, because they can be such loathsome creatures and they know it.
My problem is apparently everyone is a narcissist when others do not get their own way. I didn't know I was a narcissist until my wasn't getting her way. I am controlling, toxic, etc etc. My wife is a very experienced Psychoanalyst. She learned everything from tiktok. I think she is certified. However, I am also (apparently) a people pleaser. So I don't know.
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That narrator is brilliant and absolutely right about narcissists. Narcissistic abuse is "Twisted reality meant to hurt you." Guard your feelings and your heart. Don't internalize narcissistic abuse. Your story is more important than theirs.
Appreciate your words! Absolutely agree in getting incredibly clear on your own internal story, so it outcompetes theirs. Much love
We all have a hard life , and don’t hurt others. They are selfish, will only do something to take 100 times more.some of them are catered to
I can relate. Thank God i finally let go of him after 30 yrs.
Better late than never. Now I hope your perspective, now makes all the future you have ahead of you, that much richer. Sending best wishes
hi....please lose the noises and overwhelming music.....it competes with your voice....
thanks for the feedback, future uploads will keep this in mind! See you on the next one;)
Then don't watch the video.
@@CarterKid-ft8ev mind your business
Since I live with one until I can finally leave, have flying monkeys friends who are stuck in relationships with same people and I will need to interact with those for the sake of them this is hella helpful. Thank you so much for going into details when speaking about tactics.
I've been in your shoes. It's temporary, and ALL about boundaries - as cliché as it might sound. See the light at the end of the tunnel, be firm, and trust your gut! Thanks for being here
Don't let anyone know what your plan is. You never know who is "working" for the Narc. If you are asked what your plans are, make up some beleivable BS and watch who sabotages your fake plans. You never really know how much comorbidity these critters have on board, many of them are psychopaths and will do major bodily harm once they feel justified to do so. Goodluck and once you get free, never engage with those evil critters ever again.
Tell me about it, the trauma in the body lingers. They are demon possessed. Covert is a green snake in the grass, victim and covert, then you have the type who shift
keep all of the types in mind! They can be equally as dangerous
Yes they are definitely demon possessed
6:44 I love the combination of the Drama Triangle with the narcissistic type. I recently stopped a hoovering attempt by a "flying monkey" when I accused her of playing rescue games on behalf of the narcissist.
I love your content and presentation. I just walked out from a 22 years of toxic marriage. Not easy decision to make but I have to do it before I totally lose my self identity and respect.
"Khirul the Courageous" is now your new name. You've made an incredibly brave choice, and no doubt the quality of your life will thank you for it. The best is yet to come.
@@josh.campbell Cheers mate. Just what I needed now.
Narcs have conditional love and its usually when they want something and they are very envious and jealous of empaths because we have unconditional love. I had to walk away from family because i refuse to accept or tolerate conditional love,much less be their scapegoat.
I'm glad you noticed the differences and transactional dynamic. Empaths are the first to be targeted! It's unfortunate to have this in your family system, but know you're not alone. Guiltless distance is the first step
You don’t have to go through all that give them what they crave give it knowingly but falsely premeditate a drop shot it prepares you/unprepares them they like to think they have you where they want you
Not a bad tip! Rehearsing the ultimatum is always a good move to avoid the emotional takeover and going back on your decision. Thanks for the add!
Am I hearing bristol or Bath?love that part of the world
Nailed it, Bristol! 'Alreet me lover?
@@josh.campbell 😆 good on ya Pal ,love your content 👏
Thorough, concise & well-said.
Keep-up-the great work(s.)
More to come Ozzie, appreciate your brilliant encouraging energy!
Thank you ! Amazing presentation ! ❤
Absolutely brilliant. Plan to read the books on surviving narcissism and narcissistic abuse.
Appreciate you both for being here! My favourite of all on this subject is "The highly sensitive person's guide to dealing with toxic people" - Shahida Arabi
This was absolutely tremendous, Thank you so much for this I'm new to your channel, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)
Grateful the algo Gods connected us! Thanks for watching, and stay tuned for more to come - especially this weekend!
@@josh.campbell You're very welcome, I really enjoyed your video, God bless you :-)
Very well explained and I also like the way you broke down these topics. I would very much like if you could do a topic on Flying monkeys ! I have had a severe smear campaign going for about a year, stalking, spying and car instances where by the will over take me one or two at a time, fast. push me into another lane on the motorway, prity scary, but I won't give up. I'm not in a relationship with the covert narcissists, she was my neighbour and has since moved abroad but still is operating to her flying monkeys, SOCIAL MEDIA !!!!
It's scary how their seductive influence, and faux power position manipulates others to do their bidding. In the instance you mention, it's worth notifying the authorities. I'd also highly recommend confronting the "flying monkeys" with non aggression and assertiveness, as you may start to reason, and help them "see their spell". Hope the video helps
They are under the leviathan sleep spell.
This is well articulated!
Great info! Everything said was perfect! Thank you!
Glad to be of service! Thanks for watching
Well, i mean, i just had a guy tell me i dont count. 😂❤
He was just trying to lower you to his level; your value rating belongs only to you! You know the good that you've put out there and they can't stand your empathy and wisdom. It makes them look bad, because they can be such loathsome creatures and they know it.
Cannot concentrate on your dialogue with background music's beat.
Future videos will keep this in account! Seems like most are dealing with it - appreciate your feedback
@@josh.campbell Thanks josh and I will continue to return to enjoy your new work.
My problem is apparently everyone is a narcissist when others do not get their own way. I didn't know I was a narcissist until my wasn't getting her way. I am controlling, toxic, etc etc. My wife is a very experienced Psychoanalyst. She learned everything from tiktok. I think she is certified. However, I am also (apparently) a people pleaser. So I don't know.
Thanks for sharing you experiences
you're welcome, thanks for watching - Glad they helped!