How I mentally glowed up (in a few months)

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  • @nishchalskulkarni10
    @nishchalskulkarni10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    Brother. U uploaded this video at just the right moment! Thank you because yesterday something happened in my life which shattered me. I will watch this video for that reason itself. Thanks man!🎉❤

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      dw bro i gotchu

    • @FunnyAmprsar
      @FunnyAmprsar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@ItsMeRuff Ruff always got our back. G

    • @dpkadp935
      @dpkadp935 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@FunnyAmped ngl that sounds wrong lol

    • @busdriver6321
      @busdriver6321 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dpkadp935bro what are you talking about 💀

    • @dpkadp935
      @dpkadp935 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@busdriver6321 🎃🎃

  • @_NightLite_
    @_NightLite_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    "Scroll back up"
    *He caught me*

    • @KALOS_STHENOS0
      @KALOS_STHENOS0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But you ain't Madison from California

  • @lifewjaymi
    @lifewjaymi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Just Solve the ROOT problem, instead of fixing the symptoms.
    - 2:08 - Analyze your life. Notice the causes of your symptoms.
    3:50 - Exercise - Cardio, Social Sports, Gym
    6:24 - Breathwork - Conquer Anxiety
    10:04 - Direction - Set Smaller Goals to Lead Up to the BIG goal.
    - What is your life's biggest constraints? Alleviate them one at a time.
    13:34 - The Spiral
    - Take 1-3 Week to Remove the Weed. (Focusing on Mental Health)
    - Take time to Recover Afterwards.
    Hi, everyone! I just did this to make sure I paid attention!
    RUFF PLEASE DROP THE BREATHWORK V.S. MEDITATION VIDEO.

    • @Netherite0_0
      @Netherite0_0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks! It's good to remember what we learned!

  • @snehamishra7427
    @snehamishra7427 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I've been writing diary entries from the age of 8, when I didn't even know a thing like personal diary existed. And writing things down has always affected me positively. I love writing, just as you said, it makes me understand the real problem, and I get relieved after jotting things down, it's better than sharing your feelings with someone alive. At the end I want to quote Anne Frank's golden words- "Paper has more patience than people".

  • @BasicallyCleve
    @BasicallyCleve 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    finding out what fits you the best on self improvement is so real ngl. I would fall asleep if i watch a 2 hrs podcast, but I can stay 4 hrs reading a book💀.

  • @RedKiimuse
    @RedKiimuse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Ruff, I’ve been watching you for an almost a year now. Before I discovered your channel, I was struggling with depression, grades were shit and I was chronically online.
    But over the course of the year, while applying your advice, stuff seems to have gotten better. Ive quit gaming, I’ve joined my school’s football team, im going outside way more, and I’ve even managed to bike 10 kilometres the other day (which I’ve never done before)!
    My life is wayy better than how it was before. I’d like to thank you for reminding me that you can always make things better & to “take action”.

  • @RobotDude375
    @RobotDude375 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Here are my goals for the summer. I’m writing them down in the comments to solidify them in my mind.
    1. Lock in on my job and make it through training without getting booted
    2. Study for exams over the weekend so I absolutely crushed them.
    3. Get my drivers license and develop friendships by going to the gym and going to get food with my homies
    4. Lock in on RL and smash bros ultimate for the next esports season at my school
    5. Do 10 pushups every day, adding another 5 each week
    6. Keep reading the Bible and get my summer work done

    • @Netherite0_0
      @Netherite0_0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Power through on your awesome goals bro 💪

    • @YurreeZy
      @YurreeZy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yo W Goals, Smash Ultimate player here too but no Esports or tournaments here in the Philippines it blows, there's no drive and competition 😞
      But on the upside, I got my classmates and I'm teaching them the game, they fast learners.
      Who do you Main or play? I play half the roster but I do Main Luigi

  • @lakshyapappu
    @lakshyapappu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You probably don't know but you're making me stronger and stronger with every video you post. Sometimes it gets hard but your videos make me feel like it's all worth it and I just need to keep going

  • @farahisnaini
    @farahisnaini 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I also just realized recently that improving mental health and have clarity in mind are keys to have better life

  • @kamomiru5584
    @kamomiru5584 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you, Ruff.🌼🌿 Your videos helped me to improve my life throughout this year. I picked up the gym, joined yoga, made cycling a solid habit, and started to socialize! Just a year ago I was on the edge of ending it all. I had 9/10 depression. Your videos helped me to get up and just do healthy things, one by one, and now I feel happier than ever before. Thank you, Ruff! You inspired at least one person to fall in love with life again!😄✨️🌱

    • @Ytuser339..
      @Ytuser339.. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good job 🎉🎉🎉

    • @kamomiru5584
      @kamomiru5584 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, guy🙌 I've just reread my comment, and damn, the way I formed it sounds a bit cringe lol

  • @pogzival
    @pogzival 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    2:58 BRO IM THE MADISON FROM CALIFORNIA WTF. But I listened to your advice and now I'm transferring to a different college called UIUC instead of UW-Madison for computer science. I think it'll help me find more like-minded people and a better environment on self-improvement.

    • @Netherite0_0
      @Netherite0_0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Good luck, and comp sci sounds great!!!

    • @lord_napoli
      @lord_napoli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      UIUC is GOATED! Congrats!

  • @lakshyapappu
    @lakshyapappu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The fact that i just took my phone to watch one of your videos and you just posted!!

  • @cheeseoreos493
    @cheeseoreos493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your always catching us when we slacking and getting us back on trak

  • @ItsMeStarsky
    @ItsMeStarsky 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The message here felt like it was directly written for me. Yesterday I was thinking about all the future "what if's", terrible consequences and what I am going to do in case anything bad happens. I realize now that it all was just useless- I did nothing, but made myself suffer for no reason. Thanks for the video, as always, right message at right time🕊

  • @pasta_eater_
    @pasta_eater_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the sharp inhale part of breathwork makes me die laughing for some reason 😭

  • @remig.7969
    @remig.7969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for helping improving our mental health, it is a such significant topic !!!

  • @Megsz17
    @Megsz17 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yooo ruff perfect timingg

  • @aiyamnot_here
    @aiyamnot_here 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so realistic, thank you. continue being u, i love that you're fuckin authentic in ur videos because sometimes videos like this end up trying too hard and it comes out as ingenuity...

  • @cinderella4286
    @cinderella4286 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    No one :
    Me searching up the comment by Madison from California 😂😂

    • @kaizenyasou6963
      @kaizenyasou6963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here 😂😂

  • @xiaotingale4395
    @xiaotingale4395 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ruff out here changing lives

  • @ItsMeYolan
    @ItsMeYolan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Tbh every ruff video feels like me competing against ruff in a self improvement race at the same time teaching which in turns wanting to be like him which i don't really think is healthy in my situation

  • @iamplayingthis166
    @iamplayingthis166 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Cardio & Team Sports thing is 100% true. Once I joined cross country my mental health skyrocketed. (And this year I might have a shot at Varsity)

  • @dieseltheduck
    @dieseltheduck 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ruff, im not sure if it's cuz i commented smth about being depressed in one of your videos, but thanks
    secondary school sucks :(

  • @sandom.__.2
    @sandom.__.2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When folks feel stuck, in comes Ruff
    to break us free from our rut 🔥

  • @buinyn
    @buinyn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always gives me motivation when you drop a new video 🙏

  • @lavmin589
    @lavmin589 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really need your video Ruff 🖐️ Thank you so much

  • @Peterwithanr
    @Peterwithanr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love your growth not just as a youtube but as a person. proud of you ruff

  • @erickykyk
    @erickykyk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    for me it was as simple as deleting instagram. i didn't realize the impact that just having it on my phone reached to far unrelated other areas of my life that i thought had no connection to instagram. my overall stress, worry, and anxiety was MUCH higher. and go outside a lot more :)

  • @HassanShaikh-mg8lm
    @HassanShaikh-mg8lm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i was low on mindfulness and than i tried to check yt and out of no where u popped up,and I'm feel good now

  • @that_browngirl04
    @that_browngirl04 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please make a video on how you record yourself? And edit stuffs.. Cause the way you elaborate everything, is so comprehensible. Lots of love 🌻❤️

  • @chefrecrafter526
    @chefrecrafter526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks man keep doing this❤

  • @theviper1072
    @theviper1072 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Wow old ruff was ruff get it

  • @Hina_1807
    @Hina_1807 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Me being single n heartbroken being a hopeless romantic n ruff giving kisses at the end of his vidss ahhhhh makes my day n night!!! U make me blush so hard ruffffff ahahagahahhshshsjsdbj

  • @ButtershyWise
    @ButtershyWise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    4:11 bro I am 4 minutes in and I didn't even realise this video is like 18 minutes ago.... TF why am I so early? how do I form my opinions if there are not enough comment.

    • @_astralys_astralys_5958
      @_astralys_astralys_5958 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You don't need others to form your opinion

    • @ButtershyWise
      @ButtershyWise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@_astralys_astralys_5958 thanks, I've heard that before and I also known it's importance, but sometimes when I watch a video and have a opinion it changes immediately upon reaching the comment section.... it's almost involuntary... that's why to combat this problem I started leaving my own comments 💪🎀✨

  • @MaddieFishblob
    @MaddieFishblob 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    2:57 👁-👁
    My name isn’t Madison but my YT and all my other socials are, and I DO freaking live in California so….Ruff ur a creep

    • @Ishmael-Youtube
      @Ishmael-Youtube 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why is your TH-cam Madison even tho you’re not named Madison

  • @cheeseoreos493
    @cheeseoreos493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ruff our lord and saviour

  • @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er
    @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you bro ❤
    I will take action 👊

  • @MxLx-g6n
    @MxLx-g6n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much, I’ve learned so much from you and I just recently discovered your channel. You have a new sub, keep up the good work!❤😆

  • @AtharvaDat2a
    @AtharvaDat2a 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Daily habits
    Breath work
    Nature
    Exercise
    Gratitude journaling

  • @notanonymousperson
    @notanonymousperson 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely incredible advice that I've done and it made my life so much better!!!
    sidenote - 14:54 what are those fingertricksssssssssss

  • @DanielManzo-qf7zf
    @DanielManzo-qf7zf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness, I need this information

  • @YurreeZy
    @YurreeZy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you're competing in a race and there's nothing at the finish line, why run? Running a race that leads to nothing is but a mere empty pursuit and is completely meaningless. Find your purpose in life, assess your goals and achieve what you strive for.
    If you set big goals, set smaller goals along the way that lead up to the big goal. Take it as like this, you are in a RPG Video Game, you vow to finish the Main Quest, but during the journey you collectively complete the Side Quests, building your entire skillset and sharpening your skills is what skyrockets your success to finish your Main Quest.
    Bars.

  • @storytea
    @storytea 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks i really need this , u are the best man

  • @jocysatu1038
    @jocysatu1038 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice handwriting ruff! all i gotta say today.

  • @rikanabilahanum835
    @rikanabilahanum835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're my lifesaver

  • @tajallaqureshi7958
    @tajallaqureshi7958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how he doesnt shame you for the problem cause he has been through it himself it just feels like youre getting free therapy every time he posts

  • @blundfromlondontown
    @blundfromlondontown 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Ruff!You've helped me improve myself a lot and thanks to you I got into self improvement,and i've been watching you before you had 100k subs.I wanted to ask what do you use to record?

  • @remig.7969
    @remig.7969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    During covid lockdown, i could not even have a walk ouside in nature, and it really messed up my mental health to be 24/7 inside

  • @user-ed6ye5zn7s
    @user-ed6ye5zn7s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    exercise
    connect w/ nature and other people
    breathwork
    big goal

  • @jeevan0722
    @jeevan0722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro talking about depression with pop music in background 😂😂

  • @kritikarajput6076
    @kritikarajput6076 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I noticed a fake sunlight, ur editing is good😁😁. Btw what's the name of the book!?

  • @melolyx4317
    @melolyx4317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo keep up the good work I love your videos bro

  • @wa-ver
    @wa-ver 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Next guide: how to fix brainrot (on skibidi)

  • @smratichaturvedi3605
    @smratichaturvedi3605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man please make a full self-improvement guide for beginners video

  • @shaantywantsme3765
    @shaantywantsme3765 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ruff what do you do with breath work instead of meditation? Make a video I’ll be the first one to watch it! 🔥

  • @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er
    @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make video about meditation V/S breathwork ❤

  • @yaminaboub-jo2lb
    @yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent vedio ❤ very informative

  • @blackzuniverse2299
    @blackzuniverse2299 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome brother

  • @micoalternate4526
    @micoalternate4526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The BreathWork advice was the most important ngl

  • @thealienstrawberry
    @thealienstrawberry 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro, this guy REALLY needs to make a podcast on Spotify, there's a fanpage there, but it's really not the same...

  • @squared231
    @squared231 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Btw, meditation isn't just sitting there doing nothing. Literally focusing on your breath counts as meditation, so you are technically mediating throughout your day. Meditation can also be just sitting down and being aware of your thoughts as they arrive. Alternatively, you can also just relax and focus on your surroundings. Basically, anything that gives you mental clarity is meditation.

  • @CivilianOnTOP
    @CivilianOnTOP 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro legit caught me by saying "scroll back up" 😭

  • @funlife_016
    @funlife_016 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you don't like doing meditation, yo might need it the most.

  • @tajallaqureshi7958
    @tajallaqureshi7958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guys smiley eyes look like kim soo hyun

  • @YOUUV
    @YOUUV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ruff uf u r seeing my coment probably not xause am a little late but anyways... I cant do the breathwork properly its just make me feel more suffocated its like the air is not reaching till the pure bottom of my lungs and yeah its makes me angry and the more i do the more its feels suffocated... I dont have any physical lungs condition but yeah... Just wanted an advice...

  • @RyugaSenpaii
    @RyugaSenpaii 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you

  • @talteves
    @talteves 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your such an inspiration ruff! ur explanations are so clear.

  • @yaminaboub-jo2lb
    @yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a huge overthinking , it's so annoying i over analyse every situation for days

  • @sajidagurfana9688
    @sajidagurfana9688 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wonder why ruff changes the thumbnail including description after every upload
    I guess he wants perfection

  • @unknown-mn9wo
    @unknown-mn9wo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    4:20 anyone know what’s the name of this book? I’ve seen this clips multiple times and every time I wonder the same thing

  • @SafaKhalid-nt3ti
    @SafaKhalid-nt3ti 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pretty sure the other thing is "think time" which he mentioned in a previous video!

  • @riyaanna2756
    @riyaanna2756 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Ruff, can you do a vid about side hustles for a student?
    I searched for them, some were bs, i didnt find any legit websites on which i could work.. is there any way on how i can make my own money as a 16y/o?
    Btw i love u bro🎀thanku.

  • @Akshata-lg4qq
    @Akshata-lg4qq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks bro❤

  • @indy2832
    @indy2832 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When would you usually listen to music? I'm starting to think that the amount I listen to throughout my day is excessive and maybe it limits the time for my brain to be alone with its own thoughts. I would very much love your opinion on this matter

  • @hasrh.m
    @hasrh.m 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was really helpful 🔥🔥

  • @dgo-nu3dn
    @dgo-nu3dn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Ruff, what mic do you use?

  • @Airi_who
    @Airi_who 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Early gang 💀

  • @gramegod759
    @gramegod759 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W Stay healthy and get into the gym 😊

  • @SoulBoyDenz
    @SoulBoyDenz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bars bro

  • @VisionVibe0.1
    @VisionVibe0.1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so true all of my problems i see come from me being changed by my friend group yet its sad for me since i use to have no friends but now I have 1 true friend yet his friends bad habits influence me into doing bad habbits i have experimented with going for like 6 months and i stop doing all bad habits and im happy healthy and everything yet this friend is my business partner so im conflicted in what i should do any help?

  • @extremerandomgamer1238
    @extremerandomgamer1238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother i am very ill and i am absent a lot can u make a video on hw to improve your physical health

  • @iamyunzhiliu
    @iamyunzhiliu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo Ruff, do you want me to make you a sales page for your skool group?

  • @Trzng
    @Trzng 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yoo 200k🔥🔥

  • @shehrozealmas9403
    @shehrozealmas9403 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    bro stop lifting weights wearing a mask. don't kill urself, the world needs u

  • @VidhayaGaikwad
    @VidhayaGaikwad 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK U BRO

  • @Halamashino
    @Halamashino 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg this is so true I love seeing frogs jump 😂

  • @Nintendocenter
    @Nintendocenter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a question for anyone who knows what to do. I am a youtuber who has been on productivity for a few weeks. My parents said I can only record videos on the weekend which was fine at the time because I was lazy, but know I finish most if not all my work by Tuesday or Wednesday. This leads to a problem were I have time through out the day where there is nothing to do. I am doing most of the good habits and I want to know what I should fill this time with.

  • @zyyyieee
    @zyyyieee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks

  • @krishnaagrawal2661
    @krishnaagrawal2661 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    try reading autobiography of a yogi ruff

  • @sugoma8827
    @sugoma8827 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother may I know what book you were reading😅

  • @covypod
    @covypod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hiii, what was the title of the book you're reading at 4:19?

  • @llamacraft6678
    @llamacraft6678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    guys I think this is no bs

  • @DDTear
    @DDTear 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn't there a 1080p choice?

  • @JustDhurb
    @JustDhurb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What's your height boi

  • @ramshapalla3742
    @ramshapalla3742 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👍

  • @ryukshinigami4197
    @ryukshinigami4197 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    dude you have been stuck on the on the same page of the book for 2 weeks and also what are those biceps..

  • @alexei6604
    @alexei6604 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    did i jsut get french kissed by ruff

  • @bunbun20062
    @bunbun20062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what's ur mbti, ruff?

  • @imsaze19
    @imsaze19 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i got a question;
    how do you grow your youtube channel? i tried so many times but got 0 views.
    but other wise nice vid

    • @nia6789
      @nia6789 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not a content creator, but from the perspective of a viewer I can tell you some things. I've watched the video on your channel and what your telling is interesting. I did find the background woth the flashing white lines distracting and I heard some mumbling, which can make it harder to understand what you're saying. But with some work an patience I think you could get far. I would love to follow your journey and I hope you won't give up before you get to your goal :)

    • @imsaze19
      @imsaze19 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nia6789 thank you for the feedback

  • @FootballFinance-xy3np
    @FootballFinance-xy3np 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was recorded when he recorded the green flag video