Why you can't just "choose" to be happy

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @ItsMeRuff
    @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +127

    YOU DIDNT HAVE TO CUUUUT ME OFF MAKE OUT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED AND THAT WE WERE NOTHIN'... CUZ YOU TREAT ME LIKE A STRANGER AND I FEEL SO *RUFF*
    join the discord: discord.gg/hC6jtyRned

    • @SheWhoLoves_
      @SheWhoLoves_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OMG A PLACE TO JOIN THE CULT

    • @Abcubiegaming.69
      @Abcubiegaming.69 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OMG A PLACE TO JOIN THE CULT

    • @parneetkaur-pg5kl
      @parneetkaur-pg5kl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG A PLACE TO JOIN THE CULT

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Not me waiting for the 'OMG BABE RUFF UPLOADED' guy

  • @s_xm1z
    @s_xm1z ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I got up to do push ups and my cat woke up and decided to do push ups with me, you are truly inspiring, even for the animal kingdom

    • @djan71
      @djan71 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      awww

    • @soupy7714
      @soupy7714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Even my goldfish out here dropping and giving 5

  • @Marsh-ml5hr
    @Marsh-ml5hr ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Ruff chooses the best music and mixes it with banger content and the grind is paying off happy for you bro

    • @33nvyy_
      @33nvyy_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      REALL

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thanks rly appreciate it (:

  • @gravetunes
    @gravetunes ปีที่แล้ว +56

    the immense growth on his channel in this short period of time is craaaazy

  • @aaronjohnson5182
    @aaronjohnson5182 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just learn gratitude. I'm learning too. Be grateful for what you're given, and life becomes a brighter world.

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      making a video on that separately because thats a whole different thing

    • @aaronjohnson5182
      @aaronjohnson5182 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeRuff Okay good, I only just learned it and it's definitely helped tremendously. The path to enlightenment is such a rewarding one. More people deserve to know the key

  • @mrjamfrog3286
    @mrjamfrog3286 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    bro when he mentioned my posture I feel like he could see me through the screen

  • @kaydenfoo-zv7wh
    @kaydenfoo-zv7wh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ngl I was abt to clap my hands when he said”if your happy and you know it..”

    • @Takeawayjustin
      @Takeawayjustin หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣☠️⚰️🪦

  • @jinsflsg
    @jinsflsg ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah i agreeee! A year ago or smtng i wrote in my notes app "i wonder if happiness is a choice or a consequence of our choices" i feel like this video explains it

  • @ifrah392
    @ifrah392 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "you look like a question mark" took me off guard lmao

  • @wasd-ut1qw
    @wasd-ut1qw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love so much those old Ruff videos

  • @justarandomgirl7960
    @justarandomgirl7960 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love this kind of person

  • @shempthedog8923
    @shempthedog8923 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You earned a new sub, this is some the realest stuff I’ve ever heard. You deserve a lot more recognition

  • @bobityskopyas
    @bobityskopyas ปีที่แล้ว +27

    you told us to do 5 push ups and that turned into 10 then 20 30 i am so motivated right now thanks

    • @JesseIgulot
      @JesseIgulot ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i did 10 but after reading this ima do 31

    • @_hazemwasel_7920
      @_hazemwasel_7920 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JesseIgulot saw this and did 32

    • @will-ik4kc
      @will-ik4kc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@_hazemwasel_7920saw this and did 50 😎

    • @user-zl2ie7yn5u
      @user-zl2ie7yn5u ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if ur reading this drop 20 now

    • @bobityskopyas
      @bobityskopyas ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-zl2ie7yn5u just did

  • @mamounebouabidii
    @mamounebouabidii ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude you give gerbert, Hamza vibes but with a very unique style, glad i discovered this gem

  • @swordofcronus0
    @swordofcronus0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy is literally therapy

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ur choices that you choose can you lead to more happiness.
    you cannot just switch mindset and be happy. you need to do something positive, productive and fulfilling to be happy.
    childlike happiness (yipee) is a lie.
    which is why alot of people think they cannot get happiness, they conflate happiness with childlike happiness.
    which is wrong.

  • @lilwateru7186
    @lilwateru7186 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your growth has been so damn rapid
    watching people like you just remind me that individuals still exist

  • @lihinib2997
    @lihinib2997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @axtr998
    @axtr998 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    happy 9K man

  • @theytis
    @theytis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i subscribed to you 2 days ago and you were at around 8K and youre at 9.73K today
    the growth is INSANE

  • @dosilebanana5087
    @dosilebanana5087 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been loving your a- videos very much, they've helped me understand some thoughs I didn't comprehend while going through some bad times.

  • @moosman4217
    @moosman4217 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you make amazing content fr

  • @eternitytech9079
    @eternitytech9079 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of your best videos

  • @huda..
    @huda.. ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i would be euphoric if i could spend life as a cat ngl

  • @Ali-fx6jd
    @Ali-fx6jd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man I thank the youtube algorithem. I found ur channel like 3 days ago and its such a good channel. Oh and btw I stopped listening to muic for like the secound day now. I want music to be meaningful to me. Thank you very much

  • @dominikmullner6616
    @dominikmullner6616 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    10:02 If you happy and you know it clap your hands 😂

  • @likccle
    @likccle ปีที่แล้ว

    It's fun listening to you

  • @djgi7215
    @djgi7215 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMGG BABE WAKE UPPP RUFF JUST UPLOADEEEEEEEEED!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @liaheartfilia3118
    @liaheartfilia3118 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats why sadness in inside out is the main lesson of the movie not always joy

  • @samarthnarang2184
    @samarthnarang2184 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am watching your videos from india and they are still very relatable and helpful

  • @aspirant7445
    @aspirant7445 ปีที่แล้ว

    He'll be on 100k this month, Trust me ! ❤

  • @guitarstuff1342
    @guitarstuff1342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My guy has the wisdom of a 50 year old sage that lives In the forest inside of a cabin he built for himself and eats food he hunted/forgeried for.

  • @nityareddy7554
    @nityareddy7554 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad I found this channel.

  • @balisongandlife
    @balisongandlife ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro is just spitting banger after banger

  • @furrybeater9138
    @furrybeater9138 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RUFF POSTED RUFF POSTED!!! HOLY MOLY SMHOLY BABE RUFF POSTEDDD

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yoooo hes BACK AT IT

  • @R_jenn
    @R_jenn ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Ruff always makes me happy and laugh probably because how relatable this shit is, kinnda sucks knowing that ppl know how u feel 😭. I'm always waiting for a new upload. :)
    But seriously ruff should make a podcast I'll listen to it everyday
    Be happy btches.

    • @33nvyy_
      @33nvyy_ ปีที่แล้ว

      frfr

  • @divyamthacker2498
    @divyamthacker2498 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos make me happy!

  • @ash-lm4ob
    @ash-lm4ob ปีที่แล้ว

    bro u put out the best content no joke , give out the best vibe to fr

  • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
    @The_Jazziest_Coffee ปีที่แล้ว

    that makes so much more sense, you're singaporean
    i used to live in singapore and am a filo myself, but i'm in australia rn so yay
    but in all seirousness, i'm glad you make these videos
    perhaps it's obvious as you learn these things as you develop, but it seriously helps to be given these kinds of videos to have different perspectives

  • @papayerc
    @papayerc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When ruff uploads. I watch.

  • @mahatma14
    @mahatma14 ปีที่แล้ว

    RUFF ALMOST 10K WHAT UR GROWING SO FAST

  • @rcmlit9767
    @rcmlit9767 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro your content is refreshing with being educational i dont know why people dont subscribe to you
    keep up the good work man i just found you like 3 4 days ago and i am addicted to your content idk why
    its like i relate to you like i relate to hamza

  • @arnauadell4824
    @arnauadell4824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happiness is for people who have nothing to do.
    Imagine you're a bee in summertime. You can a) be happy and just enjoy the day, or b) work, collect honey, stock up for the winter. If you choose to be happy instead of performing, boom now winter is here and thousands of your sisters starve to death. Why are you sitting around trying to be happy, when you could be collecting honey? You want to avoid major unhappiness sources: too much stress + inability to rest, people around you who impact you negatively, etc. But, as a baseline, happiness is just your brain telling you "good job" after you've done the work. Seek happiness? Seek the praise of your brain? Work.

  • @sarzawt
    @sarzawt ปีที่แล้ว

    this kid is the most real chad on this platform ong

  • @loleimi
    @loleimi ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT THE HELL UR ALMOST AT 10k ALREADY IM SO PROUD

  • @AshiruTewagari
    @AshiruTewagari ปีที่แล้ว

    Being younger than me and being wiser my man is really something.
    Specially when most ppl think of me as wise😂

  • @MissSOULGaming
    @MissSOULGaming ปีที่แล้ว

    We all want to be happy. It just dumb when people come to me and tell me "Stop being depressed. Be positive. Be happy".

  • @marburg8697
    @marburg8697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its 1 am but gonna watch it anyway

  • @dion9120
    @dion9120 ปีที่แล้ว

    10k this week
    trust

  • @zakoncrack9805
    @zakoncrack9805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    9k let’s go

  • @PenumbraDweller
    @PenumbraDweller ปีที่แล้ว

    ngl choosing to be happy worked for me
    just had to remodel my mind to do so
    took me the better part of year

  • @sukrrx
    @sukrrx ปีที่แล้ว

    The 1st one!!!!! Love ya

  • @squash9189
    @squash9189 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ruff: you have trash posture
    Me: OH WHAT, HOW DID HE KNOW??? *confusion*
    Ruff: you look like a question mark
    dang bro, got me good there

  • @boystarheart9236
    @boystarheart9236 ปีที่แล้ว

    when you start counting i somehow panicked and actually do the push ups whilst cursing you

  • @solrise4045
    @solrise4045 ปีที่แล้ว

    Road to 10k!! love your stuff keep it up 🤝

  • @ligth3977
    @ligth3977 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy pain. Without pain, happiness would be meaningless.

  • @vully1048
    @vully1048 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ruff been him🗣🔥🔥🔥

  • @hailhi-
    @hailhi- ปีที่แล้ว

    You sir gained a subscriber

  • @hiephuynh853
    @hiephuynh853 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:30 i was eating then stop when u count down then do push-ups , almost choking lol

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can u make a video on how to journal

  • @Srv.0
    @Srv.0 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the videos man thank you for this video, in particular, I just lost a lot recently and I’ve been down so this helped me feel better. Keep it up new sub unlocked i’m going to watch all your videos right now muwah good luck:)

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have music exam tomorrow and u know what I'm human 🤧

    • @usha112
      @usha112 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best of luck for your exam!

    • @anvi4811
      @anvi4811 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@usha112 thanks bro but your best of luck didn't worked 😂😂

  • @warmedpop6186
    @warmedpop6186 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey, ruff thank you for the videos you post there truly inspiring. You've inspired me to take a firm step in the direction to improve myself and I was thinking of making a youtube channel. but because i have no experience in improving myself I can't make videos like you but I'd like to start making some sort of content could you give me some tips for finding ideas? and if you don't end up responding to this thank you again for your content I can already see you as a big-time TH-camr in the future!

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      set up ur phone camera and just talk for 30 minutes without distraction. whatever yr brain comes up with thats probably what u actually wanna talk about. u just need ur brain’s raw thoughts to come out. its probably gonna be stutter filled and awkward but u can cut those parts out. do that twice a week for 3 months and post whatever you’ve talked about regardless of what it is and use editing to make it as quality as possible. you’ll find yourself slowly latching onto ideas which u can develop on. but rn u have nothing to develop on so start first. u gotta upload a couple bad videos before u can make a good one

  • @GoofyAhhEngineer
    @GoofyAhhEngineer ปีที่แล้ว

    Take action

  • @eel7157
    @eel7157 ปีที่แล้ว

    The facebook memorial part hit hard-

  • @VedantThaplyal
    @VedantThaplyal ปีที่แล้ว

    Road to 10K LESSSSGOOOOOOOOOO

  • @akua802
    @akua802 ปีที่แล้ว

    The push up at the end made my ribs hurt

  • @colbyfroude2941
    @colbyfroude2941 ปีที่แล้ว

    That push-up request caught me off guard but I did em 💪

  • @Lemon_Lime_2
    @Lemon_Lime_2 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh my god ruff uploaded GATHER AROUND BOYS

  • @utkarshsingh4489
    @utkarshsingh4489 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro from 40 to to 9k this fast ! omg

  • @somi1707
    @somi1707 ปีที่แล้ว

    if ur not happy and waNNA BE HAPPY earn it

  • @sonarikagod
    @sonarikagod ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:14 had me dying 🤣🤣👀

  • @DigitalDetox._.
    @DigitalDetox._. ปีที่แล้ว

    1:10 this is so true you as person really inspire me thanks ruff for such quality content, watching you since 30k like since 2 weeks ago, I love your content keeping it all the very best for your future and also 100k coming soon in like 2 weeks bye

    • @scenetury
      @scenetury ปีที่แล้ว

      he actually did hit 100k in 2weeks lol

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut ปีที่แล้ว +6

    happy homeless or depressed millionaire? is a stupid cope question that people use in order to justify their mediocrity.
    homeless are the MOST depressed, they sleep in horrible places, struggle to get food, often are victims of violent crime.
    and rich people are generally happier because they have the majority of their issues solved fiscally. (house,car,food, holiday, kids)
    If you are rich and unhappy you are fundamentally unhappy with a aspect of your life and no money will solve it. That is within.

    • @sparcuhms
      @sparcuhms ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% true fr

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bars.

    • @TyrellJr
      @TyrellJr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True I would not be happy if I was homeless

  • @mrgibson04
    @mrgibson04 ปีที่แล้ว

    YEEEEESSSSS SIIRRRR!

  • @shiewwws
    @shiewwws ปีที่แล้ว +2

    top notch editing ruff, also how's your eye haha

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      functioning :) the doctor was like “theres a 50% chance it will leave something permanent and 50% chance nothing will happen” like bro dis isnt infinity war ain’t no “perfectly balanced as all things should be” but im fine now

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ItsMeRuff glad your fine hope they dont dysfunction again [:

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks ruff

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ItsMeRuff mm right back at ya ruff mwah

  • @panshul520
    @panshul520 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't do the fifth pushup cuz of that hap-piness joke bro 😅

  • @TheFlopster
    @TheFlopster ปีที่แล้ว

    this man just made 100s of people do 5 pushups

  • @grimkid-
    @grimkid- ปีที่แล้ว

    best yter

  • @funnelrat2640
    @funnelrat2640 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you do a video on procrastination

  • @jwt77
    @jwt77 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just writing this to say i was here before he got bigger lol

  • @jordain4440
    @jordain4440 ปีที่แล้ว

    W vid as usual

  • @spitefulbun
    @spitefulbun 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    fun fact : those 3 steps might add up to a mile in only 2 years of doing that every day!!!!

  • @obido8971
    @obido8971 ปีที่แล้ว

    w thumbnail

  • @jeffyloh4712
    @jeffyloh4712 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:23, I’m Sorry!

  • @yannecc
    @yannecc ปีที่แล้ว

    bars

  • @blackshadow3508
    @blackshadow3508 ปีที่แล้ว

    This consistency? How? Share that secret

  • @P_money10
    @P_money10 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥

  • @SamuBraw
    @SamuBraw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruh. I like your videos but you should let the text on screen for a bit longer. I couldn't read it without pausing and i got to a point where i just gave up 😭😭. Anyways, keep it up

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its actually a tactic in youtube lol, since you pause and rewind you add watch time by rewatching a part again. and the more watch time a video gets the more i get paid. a lil sneaky but i think it also adds to the chaotic fast paced nature of the videos. ill tell my editors this so it'll stay on screen a lil longer :))

  • @lennart3815
    @lennart3815 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why you can't just "choose" to be happy; lie self limeting belive bro just be happy ez dont understand how people cant be happy its so esay

  • @TehHolySpudBoi
    @TehHolySpudBoi ปีที่แล้ว

    I DID THE PUSHUPS RAAAAH

  • @SorcererKiller_68
    @SorcererKiller_68 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why don't you have 100k Subs bro :/

  • @Marimarya373
    @Marimarya373 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should watch noman ali khan video about happiness in islam

  • @vintrion
    @vintrion ปีที่แล้ว

    ur vids remind me of old sneako

  • @nepredumalima1003
    @nepredumalima1003 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo

  • @dariusjackson6681
    @dariusjackson6681 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question why do you wear a mask in your vid’s is it just preference or what?

  • @daved2756
    @daved2756 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo, this account is...interesting

  • @itwasme4149
    @itwasme4149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can you make a video on how you cured your acne as a teenager? I know sleeping early is one of the most obvious answer but.... nah nvm I doubt you'll even read this silly comment anyway..

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i went to the dermatologist and they gave me some pills and cream and it was all good after a month. literally worked like magic. expensive but hey, gotta oPTimIZe mY sExUAl mARkeT vAlue (edit: ur comment is fine u can ask me anything and ill just tell u upfront even if its unfortunately not very practical like with this advice. if u can afford to then sure, if u cant then dont care and itll pass)

    • @itwasme4149
      @itwasme4149 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ItsMeRuff just opened youtube after 4 days of being occupied by the school. Thanks for your reply. I really appreciate it.

  • @Arvanq
    @Arvanq ปีที่แล้ว

    there u are, 10k. 490k more to go.