Words Matter! The Brawl after the Ohio St. & Michigan Football Game

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  • @debbiew.7630
    @debbiew.7630 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    Hey, I’m glad to see you’re posting. My daughter and I watch you every single day every single thing you put out. You’re like a breath of fresh air. Thanks bunches.❤

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Awe. Thanks so much. It’s just lovely knowing there are a few people I can count on talking to. So grateful to have you here. 🤗🤗

  • @SmashPlayz
    @SmashPlayz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So much war and hate in general in this world these days. I hope humanity grows up and evolves past this.

  • @BrownBunnyBaker
    @BrownBunnyBaker 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hi Karen. Love your channel and the content. You’re speaking my language. Yes, WORDS Do matter!! I’ve been practicing mindfulness for decades.

  • @giuliettamiller2797
    @giuliettamiller2797 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Lucy is so happy to have you home!! 🐱 💖 Yes ~ our words manifest actions, both in ourselves and in others. Simply by bringing those thoughts and feelings to the surface in the form of words spotlights them and now you are in that “zone” when maybe you would not have been if the words were never spoken. 🤐

  • @ms.miarenniks4413
    @ms.miarenniks4413 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    It’s not so much my words that betray -
    My tone- speaking makes me anxious. Anxiety raises my voice. Conflict, confrontation causes stress= anxiety.
    I have to work on breathing calmness so that I can communicate without having issues.
    It’s hard 😢

  • @sandybalch
    @sandybalch 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Karen I am new to your channel. Words do matter. They can make or break the moment. I learned this when I was a teacher for 35 years,. Words said in anger or spite hurt. I try my best to use my words carefully. I didn't a year and a half ago and my words were misinterpreted. I lost a 25 year friendship. I have tried to repair it but it is gone. I should have used my teacher advixce but I was pushed to the max. Forgetting that my friend takes everything personally, I lost that friendship. I wish her well. Even at 69 years old, I am still learning. I look forward to my next spiritual journey,. Hugs, Sandy from Florida

  • @lenap.9611
    @lenap.9611 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Love your folksy manner and YES we must be careful with our words. Thank you for your contribution to this community and helping us power through the challenges ahead. 💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏v

  • @alicetelford9027
    @alicetelford9027 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Words do indeed matter. It is very sad that fighting and battling are associated with cancer.
    We are not at war with our bodies!
    Love is the answer! 🤙🏽

  • @SusanBame
    @SusanBame 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My nephew is the new Athletic Director at Ohio State (so, the head coach's boss, I would assume). Pondering on whether to forward this to "that side" of the family. You do realize that in 1835-1836 we had the Ohio-Michigan war...search for The Toledo War...battling over a small chunk of land on the Ohio-Michigan border. I think that's where the "war" references came from.

  • @darlatiesling6224
    @darlatiesling6224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    The Four Agreements, is an excellent book!!!
    I have probably read it 20 times!!!! Highly recommend!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Awesome. So good. It remains on my bookshelf forever and always. 🤗

  • @sheri023
    @sheri023 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I was saying to my friend just the other day about a pro football game she saw on tv and she could hardly see the players for all the snow and slush in the game. I said it must be like war, in that you participate regardless of the weather, or maybe like mail carriers--nor snow nor heat nor dead of night will detour the mail.
    That coach must have been miserable to play for because the players must have felt they failed him. Games in college should be about learning how to lose as well as how to win and how to have character. Nice to see you, Karen.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @sheri023 . . . Well said!

  • @LightsOn128
    @LightsOn128 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Lucy So sweet makes me miss my cats. One lived to be 22 and the other 18

    • @sundog3150
      @sundog3150 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lots of senior cats in the shelters that would love to have a forever home for the rest of their days.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@sundog3150great idea. . .those poor kitties without a home for their remaining years.

  • @DebbieDooo
    @DebbieDooo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Die hard Notre Dame fan here! Irish kicked USCs butt!! O-H whoooo?? Their coach is an instigator. Always has been. Teach your team how to lose with class. I am so glad Michigan has beat them the last 4 games. Very classless of OH!

  • @lja20
    @lja20 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Have always told my children that words matter, it's so true. I heard about that brawl today as well, it's really sad. (Also, fellow Badger fan here even though this has been a challenging year for them)

  • @ficfan3484
    @ficfan3484 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It looks like there were more football brawls in Florida and Texas

  • @b.hanson406
    @b.hanson406 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’m a retired police Captain and have had to be very careful about police response in which chemical agents could be deployed if the crowd fails to calm down. Our goal has always been to de-escalate incidents of civil unrest. If we don’t the incident will get worse and people may be hurt. Acting like a bunch of thugs with nightsticks and guns doesn’t bring the emotions down. In fact when we arrive at the scene people are more inclined to fight with us than the other people they are protesting. If I were to use the most forceful rhetoric in my bad-ass mentally I can assure you we would have triggered an angry crowd intent on fighting with us. But communicating in the right tenor and conscious respect for their constitutional rights to free speech they are more likely to disperse when told to do so.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @b.hanson406 . . . . Wow, this is really great to hear this from you. Welcome.
      You were where the rubber hits the road. All sorts of people cast some crummy aspersions at police. I imagine it can be hard to keep your cool when you're under attack.

  • @Brenda-kc1sm
    @Brenda-kc1sm 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Their band did script OHSHIT after the game! (Play on band doing script Ohio, the highlight of the season for my family)

  • @Artcurus
    @Artcurus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have an idea about starting a viral campaign. What if kids start posting messages on Tik Toc, TH-cam, Instagram, etc pleading with Biden and Kamala to do something? Kids aren't stupid, they know something is wrong.

  • @Pippie807
    @Pippie807 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good morning Karen and sweet Lucy. I love hearing her talk.

  • @rebeccaashton5390
    @rebeccaashton5390 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi Karen, Glad you are home safe and sound. I missed you. ❤

  • @Angelena-o1l
    @Angelena-o1l 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I hope you had the best time with your loved ones. I do say that I suffer from tooth in mouth disease. My brain shuts down and my mouth opens up. I am learning to breathe. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💙💙💙💙

  • @brendagonzalez3499
    @brendagonzalez3499 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Glad you’re back home safely and got some much needed rest! Was concerned we hadn’t heard from you today! 😍

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I’m baaacccckkkk. 🤗😁❤️ Yesterday and today was the first time I missed Coffee with Karen in a month. I have a fun topic for tomorrow. See you then.

  • @paulajc88
    @paulajc88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Welcome back! I can’t believe it’s been 10 days since you left to visit your sister. Thanks for bringing us along and for all the great videos. It felt cozy watching you there, and now again ‘back home’. Good food for thought as well re: words matter, as do our thoughts 🤔

  • @skatscat1954
    @skatscat1954 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I try to think before I speak but once in awhile I’m like, did I just say that out loud??😮

  • @Heidwashere
    @Heidwashere 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I live in Buckeye country and my husband went to OSU. Pretty much everyone here are Ohio State fans and the Michigan game is huge every year. I root for Ohio State but it’s not a big deal for me. People live and die by this stuff and I find it silly. I thought the war comment was horrible, and everyone here justifying this fight, ridiculous. Ugh!

  • @CrowCaw22
    @CrowCaw22 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for talking about this, I struggle too✨ I try to tell myself “Don’t Focus on what you Don’t Want”… but that comes after the deed. Seems now, the struggle is greater💕

  • @tedhwilliams
    @tedhwilliams 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is fascinating. I am a university of Michigan alumni over 40 years ago. Back then, Michigan was a superpower house and the biggest rivalry was always with Ohio State. I live in Washington state but I'm visiting family in Michigan right now. I am an atypical male and university of Michigan grad. I have zero interest in football (although it was great fun to attend with 107,000 other people when I was in college). My sister and brother-in-law, however, a big football fans. They are Michigan State graduates but they will root for Michigan against OSU. Anyway, my sister and brother-in-law were telling me all about the brawl. So, I find it fascinating that you're talking about it also. I never watched TV at home but they watch a lot of TV so I'm catching some of it and seeing how much warfare is all over the place. Even the home improvement shows are full of hammers hitting walls (which I must admit, was fun when I renovated my house). I think the Ohio State coach was both being arrogant, since they were predicted to win the game by 20 points, and also acting out the energy of modern civilized warfare. While I find it unappealing I also find it fascinating. We are humans and we have that energy and our collective. One more thing, I recently suggested a friend read the four agreements. She read it about three or four months ago and constantly tells me it has changed her life in incredibly positive ways. I am happy about that. I invoke "be impeccable with my word" pretty much every day is part of my spiritual practice. I think it has helped me a great deal especially as my marriage dissolves. And welcome home to you, Karen. Namaste 🙏

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @tedhwilliams . . . . Kudos to you. To follow your own path which isn't participating with the
      dominant zeitgeist, I would say, takes alot of couarage, especially for a man in our culture. I think that it's slowly but surely changing though. Thank Heavens.

  • @barbarasaefke8323
    @barbarasaefke8323 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hi Karen nice to see you. Good for you to rest after your travels. Hi lucy✨️🐾 new moon blessings 💞 love the 4 agreements✨️💞 you are being you for sure😃

  • @Grateful4lfe
    @Grateful4lfe 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is such an important topic ! Thank you for the reminder … even in our thoughts 💭… it’s all energy . We are human and we will think and say things we don’t mean… beast to stop and think about it before we speak . I’m trying . ❤

  • @theresarivest567
    @theresarivest567 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Your topic of being mindful of your words reminds me of an old Oprah show where she suggested replacing the F word with Freaking. I thought that was kinda dumb because everyone knows how to translate that back to the original meaning. Not once did she focus on changing one's intention. I thought that would have been a better solution. Don't get upset about it in the first place. If it's a situation worthy of the F word, just go for it.
    Words are poetry, an art form, a puzzle and a connecting force. Very powerful, often misunderstood but a gift to those who know how to work their magic.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @theresarivest567 . . . . YES!!! Intention. Thoughts are a powerful as words. . . I would say even more because they carry the original intention.

  • @summerrain7466
    @summerrain7466 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don't think it's interesting that people's chosen words spark violence, but I do find it unfortunate, especially when those people are supposed to be leaders or role models. But it is also a reminder for us, that if aggressive words can influence others to be more aggressive, than kind words can influence others to be kinder.

  • @agijean5383
    @agijean5383 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My significant other calls contact sports “sanitized war.”

  • @alexanderw2972
    @alexanderw2972 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sooooo...interesting you talk about this! I saw it happen and said I hope they don't stake the flag like that at the FSU game tonight (because it's tradition in conjunction with the Florida Seminole tribe before games) and the Gators who played FSU ended up doing the same thing at the FSU game tonight. I said I manifested it...🤪 I would now also add that energy can be amplified and transferred good or bad between teams or people. I would prefer to focus on the good.😊 Great off beat video post!

  • @kimmurden4358
    @kimmurden4358 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Karen yes I've read the 4 agreements. Wonderful book.
    Thank you for your videos ❤

  • @archeanna1425
    @archeanna1425 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You might enjoy the most recent episode of 'Words Unravelled with Robwords and Jess Zafaris "Is corporate jargon a value add?" about how words are regularly misused. Actually, all their videos are wonderful if you like words.
    Language might be the greatest power we have and being too flexible (sounds better than 'lazy') with what we say and what we listen to might be the biggest cause of regret.
    Maybe. I have no proof but agreeing to what is inaccurate must cost us a lot of comfort, security and choice.
    Thanks for again bringing up something worth thinking about and talking about.

  • @PatriciaFloch-q5d
    @PatriciaFloch-q5d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So glad you had a good time at your sisters and a good Thanksgiving. I look forward to your daily visits. Thanks !!

  • @monicab.679
    @monicab.679 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "What is going on here?" 🤣 Life is going on here - that's what's going on!! Keeping it real. ❣️🙏 😅
    We've seen the sharp turn in "good sportsmanship".....😮 And the power of the word .. 😮😢

  • @MeidasMJ
    @MeidasMJ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The Michigan players tried to plant the flag at the center field. That’s a little beyond good sportsmanship. It’s poor sportsmanship, and that is what made the Ohio players irate. No.. I’m not a fan of either team. I’m a Nittany Lion through and through! We are… PENN STATE!! 😊

  • @janetblanc7658
    @janetblanc7658 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Karen, I'm like you. I love being with friends but am a tad introvert so need to recharge my batteries alone from time to time. Your cat miaows just like mine - I think mine is a female alley cat, she is very vociferous.😂

  • @Shellbell81012
    @Shellbell81012 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes, love the Four Agreements! My daughter read it in high school, might have been a requirement, should be for everyone! 😊❤️📚

  • @mystery79
    @mystery79 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m a Buckeyes fan, pretty disappointed with their play yesterday. If the Michigan player had waited for the seniors to finish their Carmen Ohio song, I don’t think it would have escalated to that degree. Both coaches should have had better control of their teams at the end of the game.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good point. We didn’t see that they were in the middle of their song. It would have been fun for them and their fans to see them win yesterday for sure. 4 years is too long not to pass the torch. Next year 🙏🏼. 🤗

  • @Danielle-l3y
    @Danielle-l3y 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Karen, you are so beautifully REAL just LOVE you ❤️

  • @carollundgren3750
    @carollundgren3750 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The coach should be fired. This is not the example to set for young teen-age children. It is only a game for goodness sake.

  • @Gramera11
    @Gramera11 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    For some reason, I had heard the Ohio coach’s quote even before the game today and I thought to myself that he must love 45. bc that’s the foolish, aggressive wordplay he loves to use. Yes, words definitely have power and some young men eat it up as an excuse to be violent as happened today. Sad. Thanks for your channel!!!❤ ✌️ Peace!

  • @Zen-Tarot
    @Zen-Tarot 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes - words can absolutely be weaponized - and they have! Words can heal, soothe and build us up so it makes sense that they can wound and tear us down. Every war and every love story begins with a word. That’s why they call it “spelling”. Love you all! Happy Sunday 💕💕💕. Julie

  • @bird.love.creations
    @bird.love.creations 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You consistently make me chuckle with your humor. This is probably not your specific intent, but by being so relaxed and yourself so fully in the "public sphere", it's inspiring to me to fully embrace myself and be my true authentic self. It's really like I'm just watching a friend that is so comfortable with me that she'll put lotion on her legs while talking, and there's something so charming about that. 😊 You be you. I think most of us just love that about your openness and personality. So refreshing!😊

  • @srh3028
    @srh3028 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hope you had a good trip and glad you arrived home safely!!

  • @sundog3150
    @sundog3150 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WIND DOWN with Karen.

  • @amybrinkman1897
    @amybrinkman1897 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I absolutely love watching and listening to your channel!!! You make me laugh...what could be better? 🤣😂 I am a School-based Therapist, and I always have to be careful with my words. I also teach others how to be careful with their words through teaching the Circle of Control to elementary students.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @amybrinkman1897 . . . .you are in a position to affect great change for the future. Intention is most important because it's from there that words emanate.

    • @amybrinkman1897
      @amybrinkman1897 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @janeebarrett2463 truth!

  • @nancilane5069
    @nancilane5069 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for your video. The Four Agreements is one of my favorite books. Being impeccable with your word is so very important. If I hear "gossip" that I don't have a first-hand experience of, I do my best not to repeat it.

  • @janetblanc7658
    @janetblanc7658 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great fun, thanks my dear

  • @NoSelf23
    @NoSelf23 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Night cap sounds cute! Like the one you wear.

  • @JaniceSyndergaard
    @JaniceSyndergaard 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I'm drinking my DrPepper while watching you. In the mornings, I drink a glass of milk with Ovaltine,as I'm saving drinking coffee until I grow up😁,as I'm Only 74.😊. Hope you have a relaxing evening!
    🙏🙏🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟

    • @MeidasMJ
      @MeidasMJ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I refuse to grow up. lol.

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @JaniceSnydergaard
      Ha!!!! Growing up. . .

  • @m0lllypop
    @m0lllypop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    LOL KAREN!!! friendly rivalry?! they are literally mortal enemies!! i thought you were going to get into the political conflict war bit

  • @breann_
    @breann_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Did Urban Meyer say it? If so, makes sense. He's a gross individual.

  • @mickiewarren9296
    @mickiewarren9296 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I keep The Four Agreements book by my bed side. ☺️

  • @daylconstance7772
    @daylconstance7772 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes. As Maya Angelou said, “Words are things.” What happened to sportsmanship? It seems to have gone the way of statesmanship, not just in the USA, but throughout the world. We need to bring kindness back into the conversation and stop the bullying. We are all connected at the most fundamental level and could co-create a kind, loving world in which everyone is valued and supported. Gentle kidding used to be a sign of affection, but it seems to have turned ugly and become a toxic mix of profanity and vitriol which erupts at the slightest provocation. My challenge to myself is to pause before I speak and make sure I am speaking from my heart, especially when I feel anger or fear. Nobody wins the kind of fight that prompted this discussion. Our society seems to have lost the ability to coexist peacefully in public and that affects how our children learn to behave. Sad. Thanks for the prompt, Karen. And glad you’re home safe. ❤😊

  • @allie1lilly2
    @allie1lilly2 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I Watched the Gophers play. We won. This was not something that the coach should’ve said. It’s a game. Both teams should play their best. That’s how I see it. I always feel if the teams play their best. That’s all we can ask for. I still love my team. And I don’t go for the fighting anytime. That’s not good sportsmanship. We need more people to be good Stewart’s. We need to come together and do something about what happened after the game. So it doesn’t happen again. 😢

  • @Patrish-gd3ht
    @Patrish-gd3ht 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm sort of a religious fanatic when it comes to words. Especially words spoken to children. I/we must keep our word with children, else how will they trust us?

  • @trishnace2253
    @trishnace2253 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Call it "Saying Goodnight to Karen" or with or change it up lol

  • @jennykid2086
    @jennykid2086 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Goalpost

  • @WandaMyles-Authentiq
    @WandaMyles-Authentiq 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    it's good to go to bed with thoughts of what we want.

  • @chriswinter1874
    @chriswinter1874 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, words matter. An alcoholic in my life went on a thanksgiving bender. After 22 years in Al Anon and as spiritual person, I have SLOWLY learned how much words matter and will be as nice as I am able when I see them next. It’s not about me. It’s the addiction that was talking.

  • @Danielle-l3y
    @Danielle-l3y 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Words really do matter. Like the bully in school, that doesn't remember how they bullied you in school, BUT IT AFFECTED YOU YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. That has happened to so many people.!!!
    My favorite person in the world, my aunt ( she 16 me 11 ) riding in the car singing with the radio. Said YOU HAVE THE WORST VOICE I HAVE EVER HEARD!!!!
    Fast forward,,,,, riding with my son on a field trip on the bus couldn't sing The Wheels on the Bus ect, my voice would crack and NOTHING would come out. Hence I have spent my life making sure I only say POSITIVE things to people.
    The world 🌎 would be a Much better place if we could all do that..🙏❤️💙🌎😘🙏❤️💙🌎😘🙏❤️

  • @RossanaSnee-MFT
    @RossanaSnee-MFT 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I read that book. And yes, very hard to do! Hey Karen💙

  • @cindywhitmore1631
    @cindywhitmore1631 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Missed you!!❤

  • @alicetelford9027
    @alicetelford9027 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have never met anyone from Wyoming! 🤷‍♀️

  • @LyndaFishyMom
    @LyndaFishyMom 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I never wish anybody serious ill out load. I can call them all the names under the sun but never say that. Karma! Started learning that from when I was a teen in high school and I told my friend that I hoped the teacher I did not like would fall on the stairs. Seconds later my friend fell on those same stairs. Oops!

  • @tamseasalts
    @tamseasalts 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

  • @janeebarrett2463
    @janeebarrett2463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Does this make you think about djt's rhetoric at all times and specifically January 6th?

  • @FranceneShed
    @FranceneShed 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Goal posts?

  • @mariapaglialungo293
    @mariapaglialungo293 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The 4 Agreements are just a guide not supposed to get it exact all the time.

  • @lindaaragon5477
    @lindaaragon5477 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I am NOT a football fan -but I like your channel just not this one lol - look forward to future ones ❤

  • @mariapaglialungo293
    @mariapaglialungo293 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Try water😂