To any guy reading this, grow your beard the way you like it the most. Girls like confidence and if you like how you look they will be able to tell. This goes for all things regarding your appearance. Be yourself!
I get what you're saying and in principle I agree but the majority of men have horrific style and can't grow a nice beard or atleast know how to groom themselves so this is mostly nonsense
Major kudos to her for speaking positively about us dudes who have grey hair in the beard, it's nice to know even the younger women think it looks good. I for one absolutely hate the greys in my beard, I think rhey make me look way older than I actually feel and as a result I usually don't have a beard.
My wife has always hated my growing a beard so in 28 years of marriage I never have, until now at 51yo..Now she likes it! Lol, lots of grey too, so go figure!
Also for people struggling to grow a beard, derma rolling worked for me! Lockdown is the best time to do it, I just let the hair grow and derma rolled x2 per week. My beard was never full on my cheeks, after two months of derma rolling and using a beard oil its a lot fuller. When I trimmed it back down to a short box beard there was definitely a noticeable difference, it's worth a go!
I grow my beard out in the winter, and keep it at a 5 o'clock shadow during the other seasons. And, the trick to growing a good beard is don't shave anything for a solid 2-3 months. The hair on your neck gives your beard volume and makes it look more full. So, the only thing I do to my neck in the winter is give it some beard oil every day. During the other seasons, I shave it once a week.
@@lawrencebiancardi9363 have you tried it? lol the women i asked for advice would say one thing and then within a few months be dating the complete opposite about 90% of the time
You’ll look best suited if you adhere to your genetic traits. For example: if you’re not African, don’t try to grow out an Afro. It just won’t work. (Hopefully I don’t sound racist haha)
Unlike many Asians who usually go for clean-cut, I've been growing a short boxed beard since January, having consistently grown short stubbles in the last few years (shown in my avatar), complemented by a side-parted hairstyle. I find a beard makes my smile a lot more attractive, while a clean-shave just loses something for me!
No, you would want a full beard to cover the patchy areas. Letting it grow out would be the solution, not a shadow. Full to get over the patch stage or clean shave
The 5 o'clock shadow, alternatively called the afternoon shadow, is literally that. It's the appearance of new hair growth about 6-10 hours after your morning shave. It's the point when your new growth is at its sharpest and you can feel it more than see it. More so if you rub against the grain of the hair.
No woman can know since no women can really relate to male grooming. Małe and female grooming routines are different. However Courtney's video is helpfull as always because it provides female point of view.
Just wanted to say how much I appreciate your channel and advice Courtney! I kinda backtracked and let my depression get to me after lockdown and I've had to re-learn some things. I want to work on myself a bit more before I start dating again but you've already helped me get back on my feet and feel confident again, thank you 🙏
5 o'clock shadow always always always for me. Thanks for the vote of confidence! Best part, it's the absolutely easiest sytle to maintain (again, only for those of us with thick enough stubble to pull it off, patchy should just clean shave). But seriously, just get a beard trimmer, keep it on the shortest setting, and shave like once every 4-5 days. :) No thoughful grooming needed. No beard oil. No shaving cream (and cuts). Easy, and as Courtney herself said; timeless look.
@@thecognitiverambler8911 an opinion isn't wrong also the stubble look is definitely the ugliest stage of beard growth that most men want to get out of asap when growing out a beard , But the simps who listen to what women think , get brain washed into thinking the stubble look is something to be proud of..😂
Thanks Courtney! I’m 48 yo and sometimes I feel insecure about my beard... hearing your opinion was a relief... I use a 5 o’clock since last year and thanks for your advice! Keep going! 👍🏻
Haven’t put a razor to my face since 2012. I do use clippers to shape and clean up the lines on my cheeks and trim around my lips. Pro tip: when ordering chili dogs ask them to put the chili/mustard/onions under the dog. You’ll get way less in your beard. 👍🏻 100% agree with the beard oil tip. I use argan oil without added fragrance. I use pine tar soap to wash before bed. I use argan oil shampoo and conditioner in the morning.
Excellent video. I've been watching the men's fashion and style videos over the last couple of years, and just recently started watching your channel in the last few months, and I must say it's nice to get a fresh female perspective on the various topics that interest me. Keep up the good work👍
We grow our beards/moustaches for ourselves. We do it because we're confident in our looks, patient enough to grow it out through the "are-you-sure-about-this?" look. Finally, most of us are conscious of our personal hygiene and appearance. That said, getting beard compliments is a bonus. Truth be told, I appreciate a "nod" from a fellow beardsman more than acknowledgement from ladies because we beardsmen know what it takes to maintain and rock a "purposeful" beard.
Thanks for the advice! I was never able to grow a full beard in my 20s/30s until I started taking a collagen supplement recently at age 38. My cheeks really filled in and I have a solid beard now for the first time in my life! 🥳👍🏽
Team clean shaven for the win! Story time - I used to watch my grand dad shave as a boy in his backyard. He had the whole set up: the mirror, the hot water, the soap, the brush, the strop, and the straight razor. And every morning, first thing, he’d walk right out there and do his thing. I asked him years later (before his passing) why he never let his beard grow, that women love that masculine lumber Jack look. His response: what’s more masculine than having cold, sharp steel graze your neck from ear to ear each and every morning and live to tell the tale? So yeah. I clean shave. It’s very meditative, too.
Ironically I’ve had more success with dating since I started rocking a longer beard. For a long time I went with stubble or a short beard, occasionally even going clean shaven. Given my recent luck I plan to stick with the longer facial hair permanently.
Enough that I don’t really have to take care of things myself anymore…most notably the quality of women who show interest in me has improved. I’ll be the first to admit that I probably look better with shorter facial hair, but I enjoy having it long…and who am I to argue with success? For whatever reason I’ve had my best results with my current look. I even told a chick there was no way I would trim it or shave it for her, or anyone (besides myself) and my night still ended well!
I have full beard and recently had a buzz cut #2 on top and #1 on the sides. Last time i had a buzz cut my beard was short but now it complements each other. Great content courtney
Started growing my mustache out while keeping beard at 16-20mm. I trained stache by splitting in the middle and combing laterally using wax, I did this at night to train stache. After stache longer I combed(dry) laterally using a good 4-5in comb, next I combed each side straight down. Combing sideways then straight down feathers the ends of my stache making the stache stay split in the middle and interlocked towards ends.
First of all, I LOVE your voice! Anyway... Most of my life (I'll be 50 in a few days! 😳) I've been either clean shaven, or had a 5 o'clock shadow. I had no idea I could grow anything worth growing. Well, my fiancé hates it when I'm clean shaven. So, I decided to grow everything out for a while to see what I've got. Well, lo and behold, I can grow a wicked mustache! There's no way she'd be seen in public with me if I'm sporting just a mustache and besides, I don't like the look on me either. So I tried a few different options, as I just don't have the density on the sides to grow a full beard (😢), the beardstache seems to be the perfect compromise. The fiancé loves it. I would've been pretty devistated if you didn't approve! 😉
Beard oil at night and a quality beard butter or balm in the morning to help moisturize and shape the beard. Definitely have to make sure to work it through the entire beard and into the skin and then use a quality brush and comb to distribute evenly. Nothing plastic.
Courtney, you have changed the TH-cam game of Men's Fashion & Lifestyle! I've been a sub for some time and have noticed your videos are REALLY improving month by month. Keep up the amazing work! You're extremely talented in what you do. PS - I'll stick with the 5 o'clock shadow as that's all I can really grow lol
I can't grow facial hair. It doesn't look good. So I keep it cleanly shaved the entire time. Is that okay? Do women find men who can't grow beard as less masculine or manly?
Spent a lot of my adult life in the military so I had to shave and when I retired I didn't shave for a year, the only thing I trimmed was my stach so I don't get food all on it. Now I either do a goatee or something akin to it. I also shave my head so it's one of those things but when I do clean shave, people think something is wrong with me.
I don't grow hair very well on my cheeks and my mustache stops growing after a certain length. Derma rolling and oils have helped. But I keep a short beard now with a fade on the side burns and cheeks.
I clicked LIKE 9 seconds into the video because , YOUR TRYING, your trying to give content to single men that has value. HAS VALUE...I bought a new pair of jeans today for $160 based on a previous video you made. If I want to have a nice conversation on a first date , and not regret the whole thing....any little tips to help make her notice me. Looks etc....is good
if i get rid of my neck beard...how will i be a sweaty gaming nerd...(looks at hair trimmer *cries internally*) but for reals thank you for the advice you posted, the timing of this video was great...ill leave the "chin strap style" back in 2000's
i got tired of trimming that week beard, making messes on my patio and on me for years. so, i stopped. 2 months later I had a woman stop me at the store, "you look like a SoCal Santa Claus!" i replied, everybody has to look like something! i dress age appropriate, jeans, t-shirt, sketchers. i have never had so many people look at me as now. Men AND women. ! I resemble Brosnan with a snow white beard..at 68. i'm a happy man.! Great video, btw!
I've had a 12mm beard (1/2 inch), for over a decade, and it's honestly quite nice, very refreshing actually, to see someone, particularly a woman, speak favorably of the style. Edit: A confident man will wear whatever facial hairstyle he wants, which should look good on him; I'm not advocating slovenliness, and if a woman wants to give him crap about it, he cuts his losses, and moves on and find someone who likes it. Women are replaceable. The one thing that really is not replacable is the feeling a man has when he knows who he is, what he stands for, and how he looks, which is a reflection of who he is on the inside.
@@BC___1 - I just want to say that when I made my comment, I was not at all trying to degridate women. As a man, especially if you're in a relationship you should take into consideration your partner's thoughts and feelings on things. However, you also need to be able to express yourself, and be able to be yourself around her. Just like she should be able to do with you, so you should be able to do the same. If you cannot do such, if she doesn't like you for the real you, that's not a woman you should be with. REMEMBER: Without communication, there is no relationship. Without mutual respect, there is no love. Without trust, there's no reason to continue. If you find yourself having to play detective, that's when it's time for you to move on.
I wear a Johny Depp style goatee as my facial hair is kind of weak and this is the only place where it has a little thickness. I gets a little shadowy at the back so I keep it for a few days and then I shave it. I think that it helps with my baby face. I've been complimented before, so I guess it's a style that you either love or hate.
Things a guy should never say to an American girl: "I am Middle Eastern". "I am a virgin". "I have never had a girlfriend". "I am a student". "I live with my parents". "I do not have any tattoos". "I have never been drunk". "I do not smoke weed". "I do not have any criminal records". "I do not like feminists". "I do not have a car". "I do not own any guns".
Neckbeards are quite common, especially hear in the UK, also a LOT of Nigerian men have neck beards along with faded mustache, also MOST muslim men have neck beards along with a faded mustache, its VERY COMMON along with a faded stache
I rock a full beard and curled mustache. I keep it maintained, clean and very well groomed. I oil everyday and condition it. Most people love it I get tons of compliments which is always nice but it's not for everyone. You definitely need to find the style that fits you and then rock it.
Don't listen to this lady about patchy Beards aspect. The fact is that it can take months to fill up patches because hair grows at different speeds and also age groups develop full beards overtime eg 30s or 40s. Also neighbouring hair next to patches can fill it up easily once beards fully grow. She has good advice though about what looks good, but when it comes to beard care, please listen to experts who have beards themselves and know the topic. Only 1 in 100 men have nin patchy beards so dont give up on beard after 30 days. Keep at it and increase beard care. And who determines whether someone has a good jawline lol? Beard on neck above adams apple is sported by models and famous people so she isn't correct on that aspect. Natures beard lines can look good on some.
been having a beard for 5+ years, its either short - classic - long depends how i like it, but for the love i cant get a moustache or side of mouth beard, i do get hair there, but just NOTHING on or around my philtrum + my beard are red, so it can look thin, so guss non is for me :D i got my beard when i removed my hair at age 25 tips is spot on, keep it clean after eating :D
As someone who has patchy cheeks, I was hoping for some forms of goatees on here. I can do clean shaven, but shaving (at least a wet shave) is kind of a hassle.
Didn’t think I’d enjoy this vid however I did. Thai is due to the fact that you actually looked at all possible scenarios. I would just like to add in that yes clean shaven is awesome IF you’ve got a clean face lol it’s sharp lines, if you don’t you might actually look olde. Yeh I know, shave your beard look younger, well no, it depends..
Having the beard in not the annoying part... it's the washes, conditioners, oils, butters, waxes, trims, brushes, combs, etc... if you want a good looking well maintained beard, you need alot of tools.
Personally, I like, and wear, a handlebar mustache, not one of those flamboyant ones, or Snidely Whiplash, just a simple, classic, understated style (think Daniel Day Lewis in "Gangs of New York"). I've received more complements with the handlebar than any other style. That said, it's not one most men can pull off, but if you're more relaxed, casual, but confident, it not only can boost your looks, but your mood and this around you.
Good Friday blessings Courtney. Ironically i naturally have the 5 o clock shadow facial hair style. I feel having a full beard makes me look unkept and older than my age. It also makes my face feel itchy lol. I have sensitive skin which is why i don't have it. So it's either clean shaven or five o clock shadow with a mustache. Anyways thanks for the tips 🌻
Yeah, you're right. All these massive beards, nah. The shadow and a bit of stubble can look super attractive on any guy, and I mean any. But really, that's about as far as you wanna go. I don't mind the faded mustache look either, but not one that begins covering the top lip.
@@31cify good points, I tend to go for what doesn't make my face itch haha 😆 I always go either clean cut or stubble for facial hair and a light mustache. It's worked for me. So there's something for everyone to try
@@GEORGIOARCADE There is, yes, you're right. For me, personally, clean cut wins out. Sometimes, well on some blokes anyway, the light mustache without any other facial hair at all can be a killer of a look.
To any guy reading this, grow your beard the way you like it the most. Girls like confidence and if you like how you look they will be able to tell. This goes for all things regarding your appearance. Be yourself!
factual
Totally agree
She know what seems good for men. Men cant judge men's looks. In the same way girls beauty can't be explained by girls.
I get what you're saying and in principle I agree but the majority of men have horrific style and can't grow a nice beard or atleast know how to groom themselves so this is mostly nonsense
That's our Jeff Buoncristiano at 4:47. Nice.
Great list Courtney.
Got some of my best advice from a married from friend. Honestly, she taught me to act like a player and value myself
Major kudos to her for speaking positively about us dudes who have grey hair in the beard, it's nice to know even the younger women think it looks good. I for one absolutely hate the greys in my beard, I think rhey make me look way older than I actually feel and as a result I usually don't have a beard.
Grow it bro
@@Christopher-ms5ke when I turn 50 for sure.
Grow it a few days and colour it.
My wife has always hated my growing a beard so in 28 years of marriage I never have, until now at 51yo..Now she likes it! Lol, lots of grey too, so go figure!
Same here I'm 42 and my mustache and beard are going grey I dont like it at all..
Also for people struggling to grow a beard, derma rolling worked for me! Lockdown is the best time to do it, I just let the hair grow and derma rolled x2 per week. My beard was never full on my cheeks, after two months of derma rolling and using a beard oil its a lot fuller. When I trimmed it back down to a short box beard there was definitely a noticeable difference, it's worth a go!
I grow my beard out in the winter, and keep it at a 5 o'clock shadow during the other seasons. And, the trick to growing a good beard is don't shave anything for a solid 2-3 months. The hair on your neck gives your beard volume and makes it look more full. So, the only thing I do to my neck in the winter is give it some beard oil every day. During the other seasons, I shave it once a week.
" You don't ask fish how to catch fish. You ask a fisherman"
fishermen are busy fishing...😉
@@lawrencebiancardi9363 1st, why would a fish tell you how to catch them. 2nd, no fish can speak. So, not a very smart response
@@lawrencebiancardi9363 Read a book or something, might help your understanding of metaphors
Lawrence Biancardi Stop bruh, the irony is too cringe
@@lawrencebiancardi9363 have you tried it? lol the women i asked for advice would say one thing and then within a few months be dating the complete opposite about 90% of the time
I'm Asian. I can't grow any type of facial hair that looks good not even the 5 o'clock shadow. Clean-shaven it is! Happy Easter Courtney!
There’s something on here for everyone! Clean shaven is one of my favorites anyways 🥰 you too!
Same here. Tried a moustache ONCE. My wife hated it; she said I looked like freaking pirate.
You’ll look best suited if you adhere to your genetic traits. For example: if you’re not African, don’t try to grow out an Afro. It just won’t work. (Hopefully I don’t sound racist haha)
Give it a few years 😊
Don’t worry see my comment above
Unlike many Asians who usually go for clean-cut, I've been growing a short boxed beard since January, having consistently grown short stubbles in the last few years (shown in my avatar), complemented by a side-parted hairstyle. I find a beard makes my smile a lot more attractive, while a clean-shave just loses something for me!
The fact youre showing all perfect full beards is just painfull for guys to watch with a patchy beard... like me🥲
Go with a 5 shadow clock
Take some biotin + rogaine
Try micro needling with a 1.5 mm
@@flyinphil42 i did that, even done minoxidil and it worked for me :) still not the best beard tho
No, you would want a full beard to cover the patchy areas. Letting it grow out would be the solution, not a shadow. Full to get over the patch stage or clean shave
The 5 o'clock shadow, alternatively called the afternoon shadow, is literally that. It's the appearance of new hair growth about 6-10 hours after your morning shave. It's the point when your new growth is at its sharpest and you can feel it more than see it. More so if you rub against the grain of the hair.
Honestly, I think Courtney knows way more about men's grooming than we do ourselves lol.
I mean she does, I feel like I’m guessing when it come to facial hair sometimes
No woman can know since no women can really relate to male grooming. Małe and female grooming routines are different. However Courtney's video is helpfull as always because it provides female point of view.
@@hartmanus94 absolutely THIS. Couldn't have said it better
because she has experience with men with beards. Lol.
speak for yourself
I keep my beard short to medium but not the stubble or 5 O'Clock. My wife always complains it scratches her face and inner thighs.
last two words killed me 💀
Yeah she complained to me about this too😏
does balm not fix that, I've never used it on stubble but I'd imagine it'd make it softer as it does mine.
Just wanted to say how much I appreciate your channel and advice Courtney! I kinda backtracked and let my depression get to me after lockdown and I've had to re-learn some things. I want to work on myself a bit more before I start dating again but you've already helped me get back on my feet and feel confident again, thank you 🙏
5 o'clock shadow always always always for me. Thanks for the vote of confidence! Best part, it's the absolutely easiest sytle to maintain (again, only for those of us with thick enough stubble to pull it off, patchy should just clean shave). But seriously, just get a beard trimmer, keep it on the shortest setting, and shave like once every 4-5 days. :) No thoughful grooming needed. No beard oil. No shaving cream (and cuts). Easy, and as Courtney herself said; timeless look.
So basically you like being in the ugliest stage of beard growth..🤦
@@Marvel_vs_Capcom84 You're entitled to your wrong opinion.
@@thecognitiverambler8911 an opinion isn't wrong also the stubble look is definitely the ugliest stage of beard growth that most men want to get out of asap when growing out a beard , But the simps who listen to what women think , get brain washed into thinking the stubble look is something to be proud of..😂
I got respect for this girl. The true MVP.
Thanks Courtney! I’m 48 yo and sometimes I feel insecure about my beard... hearing your opinion was a relief... I use a 5 o’clock since last year and thanks for your advice! Keep going! 👍🏻
Haven’t put a razor to my face since 2012. I do use clippers to shape and clean up the lines on my cheeks and trim around my lips.
Pro tip: when ordering chili dogs ask them to put the chili/mustard/onions under the dog. You’ll get way less in your beard. 👍🏻
100% agree with the beard oil tip. I use argan oil without added fragrance. I use pine tar soap to wash before bed. I use argan oil shampoo and conditioner in the morning.
Excellent video. I've been watching the men's fashion and style videos over the last couple of years, and just recently started watching your channel in the last few months, and I must say it's nice to get a fresh female perspective on the various topics that interest me. Keep up the good work👍
Straightforward, analytical, but nonjudgmental and kind. As usual :) Thanks again for the great tips!
Easily one of my favourite TH-camrs. Happy Good Friday Courtney!
🥺 thank you, you too!
1. 0:41 The 5 0' clock shadow.
2. 1:54 Short boxed beard.
3. 2:47 The classic beard.
4. 3:54 Clean shaven.
5. 4:34 The beardstanche.
6. 5:20 The faded beard.
Courtney: I can`t think of his name right now
John Hamm: Stares Hammingly
I have a mustache with some scruff once in awhile and I love it. My two favorite go to facial hair styles are the mustache and full beard
We grow our beards/moustaches for ourselves. We do it because we're confident in our looks, patient enough to grow it out through the "are-you-sure-about-this?" look. Finally, most of us are conscious of our personal hygiene and appearance.
That said, getting beard compliments is a bonus. Truth be told, I appreciate a "nod" from a fellow beardsman more than acknowledgement from ladies because we beardsmen know what it takes to maintain and rock a "purposeful" beard.
Classic beard for the win! I keep mine trimmed, oiled etc. When I get tired of the upkeep, I buzz it down to a 5 o’ clock shadow.
This is great summary. Saved my time looking for styles. I love how women are much better on styling decisions
Thanks for the advice!
I was never able to grow a full beard in my 20s/30s until I started taking a collagen supplement recently at age 38. My cheeks really filled in and I have a solid beard now for the first time in my life! 🥳👍🏽
Hi Abe,
Would love to know which supplement you took?
Thanks and regards, Thom
Team clean shaven for the win! Story time - I used to watch my grand dad shave as a boy in his backyard. He had the whole set up: the mirror, the hot water, the soap, the brush, the strop, and the straight razor. And every morning, first thing, he’d walk right out there and do his thing.
I asked him years later (before his passing) why he never let his beard grow, that women love that masculine lumber Jack look. His response: what’s more masculine than having cold, sharp steel graze your neck from ear to ear each and every morning and live to tell the tale?
So yeah. I clean shave. It’s very meditative, too.
Ironically I’ve had more success with dating since I started rocking a longer beard. For a long time I went with stubble or a short beard, occasionally even going clean shaven. Given my recent luck I plan to stick with the longer facial hair permanently.
How many you slept with?
Enough that I don’t really have to take care of things myself anymore…most notably the quality of women who show interest in me has improved. I’ll be the first to admit that I probably look better with shorter facial hair, but I enjoy having it long…and who am I to argue with success? For whatever reason I’ve had my best results with my current look. I even told a chick there was no way I would trim it or shave it for her, or anyone (besides myself) and my night still ended well!
Coming from a guy that only started growing facial hair this year 😂, really needed this! Appreciate this Courtney!!
The 'Soul Patch' looks like a Hitler 'stache that slipped down.
Lmaooo
I have full beard and recently had a buzz cut #2 on top and #1 on the sides. Last time i had a buzz cut my beard was short but now it complements each other. Great content courtney
Started growing my mustache out while keeping beard at 16-20mm. I trained stache by splitting in the middle and combing laterally using wax, I did this at night to train stache. After stache longer I combed(dry) laterally using a good 4-5in comb, next I combed each side straight down. Combing sideways then straight down feathers the ends of my stache making the stache stay split in the middle and interlocked towards ends.
First of all, I LOVE your voice! Anyway...
Most of my life (I'll be 50 in a few days! 😳) I've been either clean shaven, or had a 5 o'clock shadow. I had no idea I could grow anything worth growing. Well, my fiancé hates it when I'm clean shaven. So, I decided to grow everything out for a while to see what I've got. Well, lo and behold, I can grow a wicked mustache! There's no way she'd be seen in public with me if I'm sporting just a mustache and besides, I don't like the look on me either. So I tried a few different options, as I just don't have the density on the sides to grow a full beard (😢), the beardstache seems to be the perfect compromise. The fiancé loves it. I would've been pretty devistated if you didn't approve! 😉
I'm a 5 o'clock shadow since 2018 and nothing else. Absolutely love my stubble.
Beard oil at night and a quality beard butter or balm in the morning to help moisturize and shape the beard. Definitely have to make sure to work it through the entire beard and into the skin and then use a quality brush and comb to distribute evenly. Nothing plastic.
Great video as always! Thanks for all the content. Excited for your next wardrobe makeover video. This channel is going to popular quick
Honestly, when I'm with a pretty bold beard, women who know me, they love it. But those who don't know me, i feel they are scared of me:/
Cmndr Roy Fokker Your right and it’s annoying
Courtney, you have changed the TH-cam game of Men's Fashion & Lifestyle! I've been a sub for some time and have noticed your videos are REALLY improving month by month. Keep up the amazing work! You're extremely talented in what you do.
PS - I'll stick with the 5 o'clock shadow as that's all I can really grow lol
Thank you so much! 🥰 I appreciate it!
I'm a 15 year old blonde guy but my facial hair is white. It tends to grow quite long, do you think I should keep it or shave it?
I have a neck beard at the moment and it’s coming off after watching this, thanks Courtney ❤️
Careful...watch out for the TURKEY-NECK reveal...if you happen to be an old fart.
@@BLITZY261 that was funny, I’m 36, not sure if that is too old but thanks 😀
@@calummitchell-miller257 ..wayyyyyý too young for the turkey neck.
She knows what she's talking about. I subscribed
I grow a pretty good beard. To those wanting some advice let it grow! Trim it of course but the key is leave it growing!
I can't grow facial hair. It doesn't look good. So I keep it cleanly shaved the entire time. Is that okay? Do women find men who can't grow beard as less masculine or manly?
No, women only find men who are short non-masculine or manly. It’s not fair, but it is what it is, sadly.
Ooh I’m intrigued about this because I usually don’t let my facial hair grow much! Hope you have a great weekend Courtney
Enjoy! Thank you and you too 😊
@@CourtneyRyan great videos.
@@CourtneyRyan You’re welcome, and thanks so much!! 😊
courtney nice, it's funny cause today i have an appointment with my barber. just in time.😊
Woohoo! 🥳 love when that happens lol
Spent a lot of my adult life in the military so I had to shave and when I retired I didn't shave for a year, the only thing I trimmed was my stach so I don't get food all on it. Now I either do a goatee or something akin to it. I also shave my head so it's one of those things but when I do clean shave, people think something is wrong with me.
Does anybody else notice how attractive this woman is? Wow!
I can't grow facial hair but interacting with the channel anyway to help out with the algorithm.
Hey that’s alright one of my favs is clean shaven 👏🏼👏🏼
It depends on the region. For example, in the Philippines, most filipinas prefer clean-shaven men.
You just gave me a confidence boost thank you
Full beards all day long! (Like King Leonidas)🔥
I don't grow hair very well on my cheeks and my mustache stops growing after a certain length. Derma rolling and oils have helped. But I keep a short beard now with a fade on the side burns and cheeks.
Good video I enjoyed! I honestly don't even care about dating advice I just enjoy listening to you haha you seem genuine. Keep it up!
Courtney give us your opinion on bald dudes. I'm bald, have a normal shaped head and love it personally. Not by choice but I have embraced it.
I used to have a long, full beard. Now I'm clean-shaven, and loving it.
Im #2 here. Im happy that in general women (and courtney) loves that style, because I dont pretend to shave in quite a long time, lol.
Mine only grows 1/4 inch wide by my chin and up to 1 inch wide under the sideburns, is it worth keeping or shave it off?
I only got mustache and a chin beard. so what can i do? I will appreciate even more if you help me with this.❤
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Agreed, neck-beard not a good look on anybody.
Especially women.
Thanks for the tips. Looks like I'm not too far off just gotta do a few touch ups and ittl look even better.
I clicked LIKE 9 seconds into the video because , YOUR TRYING, your trying to give content to single men that has value. HAS VALUE...I bought a new pair of jeans today for $160 based on a previous video you made. If I want to have a nice conversation on a first date , and not regret the whole thing....any little tips to help make her notice me. Looks etc....is good
I don't grow hair. So this video was really important... Thank you CCR
if i get rid of my neck beard...how will i be a sweaty gaming nerd...(looks at hair trimmer *cries internally*) but for reals thank you for the advice you posted, the timing of this video was great...ill leave the "chin strap style" back in 2000's
i got tired of trimming that week beard, making messes on my patio and on me for years. so, i stopped. 2 months later I had a woman stop me at the store, "you look like a SoCal Santa Claus!" i replied, everybody has to look like something! i dress age appropriate, jeans, t-shirt, sketchers. i have never had so many people look at me as now. Men AND women. ! I resemble Brosnan with a snow white beard..at 68. i'm a happy man.! Great video, btw!
I've had a 12mm beard (1/2 inch), for over a decade, and it's honestly quite nice, very refreshing actually, to see someone, particularly a woman, speak favorably of the style.
Edit: A confident man will wear whatever facial hairstyle he wants, which should look good on him; I'm not advocating slovenliness, and if a woman wants to give him crap about it, he cuts his losses, and moves on and find someone who likes it.
Women are replaceable. The one thing that really is not replacable is the feeling a man has when he knows who he is, what he stands for, and how he looks, which is a reflection of who he is on the inside.
Fuckin preach. Some of these beards take more work to maintain than their bodies, well the ones left that are real
@@BC___1 - I just want to say that when I made my comment, I was not at all trying to degridate women. As a man, especially if you're in a relationship you should take into consideration your partner's thoughts and feelings on things.
However, you also need to be able to express yourself, and be able to be yourself around her. Just like she should be able to do with you, so you should be able to do the same.
If you cannot do such, if she doesn't like you for the real you, that's not a woman you should be with.
REMEMBER: Without communication, there is no relationship. Without mutual respect, there is no love. Without trust, there's no reason to continue. If you find yourself having to play detective, that's when it's time for you to move on.
I wear a Johny Depp style goatee as my facial hair is kind of weak and this is the only place where it has a little thickness. I gets a little shadowy at the back so I keep it for a few days and then I shave it. I think that it helps with my baby face.
I've been complimented before, so I guess it's a style that you either love or hate.
I was shocked at starting, ur voice...😍❤️
How do you feel about grey hair in beards? I have a noticeable amount and am only 29
I love it!
@@CourtneyRyan thats nice to hear, makes me feel self conscious.
Things a guy should never say to an American girl:
"I am Middle Eastern".
"I am a virgin".
"I have never had a girlfriend".
"I am a student".
"I live with my parents".
"I do not have any tattoos".
"I have never been drunk".
"I do not smoke weed".
"I do not have any criminal records".
"I do not like feminists".
"I do not have a car".
"I do not own any guns".
What man doesn't own a guns
I've got guns on my bulging arms. Does that count?
@@ronnieroy485 If they make a loud noise yes
It's not about the hair, it's about the confidence in our survival
Neckbeards are quite common, especially hear in the UK, also a LOT of Nigerian men have neck beards along with faded mustache, also MOST muslim men have neck beards along with a faded mustache, its VERY COMMON along with a faded stache
I have the Black and White beard of the bad guys in science fiction movies, with 2 white vertical well defined stripes. Proud of it 😁
Another comment for the algorithm. Probably collab a if you ever have time with the others. Great work Courtney!
Happy Good Friday Courtney 🥚🐰
🥰🤍 you too!
@@CourtneyRyan Thank you so much! 🌹
Your voice is so soothing.
There were times i had a very short beard, but honestly there nothing like a clean, silk smooth face 😊
Only for people whose faces can't bear the weight of Masculinity
I'm gonna grow out my neck hair for the next few years and shave everywhere else. :) Girls love my confidence more than facial hair.
I'm a Mailman and my facial hair gets rough at times because I get so busy lol. My mustache starts looking very luigi 😂🇮🇹
I rock a full beard and curled mustache. I keep it maintained, clean and very well groomed. I oil everyday and condition it. Most people love it I get tons of compliments which is always nice but it's not for everyone. You definitely need to find the style that fits you and then rock it.
Didn’t even know this many styles of beard existed 😂
I have a long Viking beard! And I’m fearless! Oh yeah I’m 1/2 Swedish quarter Irish and quarter Native American!
Don't listen to this lady about patchy Beards aspect. The fact is that it can take months to fill up patches because hair grows at different speeds and also age groups develop full beards overtime eg 30s or 40s. Also neighbouring hair next to patches can fill it up easily once beards fully grow. She has good advice though about what looks good, but when it comes to beard care, please listen to experts who have beards themselves and know the topic. Only 1 in 100 men have nin patchy beards so dont give up on beard after 30 days. Keep at it and increase beard care. And who determines whether someone has a good jawline lol? Beard on neck above adams apple is sported by models and famous people so she isn't correct on that aspect. Natures beard lines can look good on some.
I totally agree
been having a beard for 5+ years, its either short - classic - long depends how i like it, but for the love i cant get a moustache or side of mouth beard, i do get hair there, but just NOTHING on or around my philtrum + my beard are red, so it can look thin, so guss non is for me :D i got my beard when i removed my hair at age 25
tips is spot on, keep it clean after eating :D
I grow a decent beard but it doesn’t grow up my cheeks at all lol so it’s hard to not have a neck beard. Any tips?
As someone who has patchy cheeks, I was hoping for some forms of goatees on here. I can do clean shaven, but shaving (at least a wet shave) is kind of a hassle.
Me with 5 o’clock shadow.
My wife’s sensitive face: “So you have chosen…death”.
O yeaaahhh that's the vedio I was wanting from courtney... Thanks ✍️💥
Didn’t think I’d enjoy this vid however I did. Thai is due to the fact that you actually looked at all possible scenarios. I would just like to add in that yes clean shaven is awesome IF you’ve got a clean face lol it’s sharp lines, if you don’t you might actually look olde. Yeh I know, shave your beard look younger, well no, it depends..
Having the beard in not the annoying part... it's the washes, conditioners, oils, butters, waxes, trims, brushes, combs, etc... if you want a good looking well maintained beard, you need alot of tools.
No u can rock a short boxed beard and never have all these just avtrimmer amd a clipper guard lmao
I rock a modern mullet and a goatee and lots of ppl seem to like it and i feel confident
Hey Courtney do you think you could go over Black hairstyles next or something cause I have dreads and don't know where I stand.
Personally, I like, and wear, a handlebar mustache, not one of those flamboyant ones, or Snidely Whiplash, just a simple, classic, understated style (think Daniel Day Lewis in "Gangs of New York"). I've received more complements with the handlebar than any other style. That said, it's not one most men can pull off, but if you're more relaxed, casual, but confident, it not only can boost your looks, but your mood and this around you.
Thank you Courtney!! Loved your input.
Aye! Bearded men for the win.
Is it okay to apply Gel in hair?? If it's not style hair?
Lol no neck beard at the end
Also shows celebrities with five o’clock shadow her favorite most have neck beards
With girl like courtney who needs stylist 💝
Good Friday blessings Courtney. Ironically i naturally have the 5 o clock shadow facial hair style. I feel having a full beard makes me look unkept and older than my age. It also makes my face feel itchy lol. I have sensitive skin which is why i don't have it. So it's either clean shaven or five o clock shadow with a mustache. Anyways thanks for the tips 🌻
Yeah, you're right. All these massive beards, nah. The shadow and a bit of stubble can look super attractive on any guy, and I mean any. But really, that's about as far as you wanna go. I don't mind the faded mustache look either, but not one that begins covering the top lip.
@@31cify good points, I tend to go for what doesn't make my face itch haha 😆 I always go either clean cut or stubble for facial hair and a light mustache. It's worked for me. So there's something for everyone to try
@@GEORGIOARCADE There is, yes, you're right. For me, personally, clean cut wins out. Sometimes, well on some blokes anyway, the light mustache without any other facial hair at all can be a killer of a look.
@@31cify that's very true! It does depend on who it's on for sure. I appreciate you taking time to comment. I wish you a great day ✨️
Your subtle expressions are beautiful