Why Going To Get My Registered Nursing Degree Was A HUGE Mistake!

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  • @Mech537
    @Mech537 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I got my BSN while being pregnant and working full time. I also went to school full time. Knocked it out in 2 years. Many sleepless nights but I don't regret it. My 6 figure salary has given me a good life.

    • @ebonyspice473
      @ebonyspice473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RN in 2 yrs how? What practical did you do?

    • @blackbutterfly233ify
      @blackbutterfly233ify ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ebonyspice473 an associates degree in nursing is 2 years. Bachelors is 4 years

    • @danielj.3257
      @danielj.3257 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@blackbutterfly233ify She most likely did accelerated bsn

    • @ebonyspice473
      @ebonyspice473 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Carrie .Blanding an associate in my country is 3 yrs plus midwifery 4 yrs. Mo wonder our nurses are doing so well overseas.

    • @user-bv4sg1ui3n
      @user-bv4sg1ui3n ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ebonyspice473rude

  • @queentinadoire6931
    @queentinadoire6931 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I went to RN school while working full time and it was tough. I was so stressed out that I developed high blood pressure and alopecia. On top of all of that, my ex-husband filed for divorce- the man left me while I was in school. Those days were the deepest and darkest days, but it was worth it. Nursing has been good to me. LPN 7 years; RN, BSN 7 years. ❤ I Love Nursing.

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Can we talk about your story? If so send me an email at cjkyles90@gmail.com

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 ปีที่แล้ว

      What an evil mf.

    • @angrycannibal6625
      @angrycannibal6625 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank u! We appreciate u!

    • @jackiekent8720
      @jackiekent8720 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I pray your happy and with your real new special man:}

    • @queentinadoire6931
      @queentinadoire6931 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@jackiekent8720 I'm happy with him. He's a King. His name is Jesus Christ and he's the KING OF THE WORLD.

  • @yvettecruz6038
    @yvettecruz6038 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Man I completely get it. I didn’t work through nursing school. My father practically demanded me not to work so I took him up on his offer. I lived at home for 2 years, used my tax money to pay for things like meals and transportation. I wore the same clothes for 2 years. I had a phone that was about 4 years old. I did not care! I brought only the things that I needed and that was all. I graduated with a bachelor’s in nursing and paid off about $45,000 in student loans in about 3 years. If you are willing to sacrifice momentarily for a better future why not just to it! I did not take advice from no one that wasn’t in nursing school. They will never get it.

    • @yvettecruz6038
      @yvettecruz6038 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh yeah and I probably cried weekly still!! 😂😂😂 that’s just how released stress. I didn’t have good studying skills, or time management skills. I was also not a confident person so nursing school challenged me to my soul! I’m glad I did it and even happier it didn’t break me. Sometimes I think I should have waited until I did some self healing but I decided to do therapy while in nursing school. Now I’m an RN and can take care of myself and my son (had him after nursing school). I feel blessed.

  • @naah3914
    @naah3914 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    And I was crazy enough to do accelerated Nursing😂. When I tell you I clipped EVERYONE, including the kids. I was locked in my room all the time studying. Now I am done, passed the Nclex. It was worth it though.

    • @Pinesol605
      @Pinesol605 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I am thinking of doing the same. However, it cost 39k for a 20 month program. The upside is you are hands on from the very first day.

  • @NursesToRiches
    @NursesToRiches ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Dude! I almost dropped out of nursing school three times! I was in my last semester, taking my last class, when I was ready to give it all up because I had no idea what the hell I was getting myself into. Only 1/3 of the students I started with made it as far as graduation. But after making it, getting my license, and becoming an RN I realized why it was so hard. Getting a job as an RN is eaaaasy. And we have so many options that you don't ever have to provide bedside care if you don't want to and still make a crap load of money.
    You made the right decision by leaving though because you need to put all of your attention and have to be determined to give it your all. Otherwise, you will just end up flunking out anyway. You've got this dude!

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Appreciate it. Definitley on this grind. I want to dedicate my full attention to it.

  • @NurseViv
    @NurseViv ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Listen school ain’t going NOWHERE and timing is everything.. I paid for LPN school in cash and didn’t work and I also plan to do the same for RN school..so I’m the meantime I’m gonna make this paper and when the time is right….it will happen!

  • @TerezGemma
    @TerezGemma ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I graduate next month with my LPN! This program was ALOT! I suffered so much hair loss, anxiety, and lots of sadness here and there. BUT I have a beautiful toddler and an amazing supportive partner. I’ve been working part-time and even that is alot. I do plan on working towards my ADN-RN. I feel like if I can get through LPN school I can get through RN. Stay blessed!!

  • @thementorone8332
    @thementorone8332 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I am a nursing professor and a clinical instructor. I preach this to any and everyone who will listen. Thank you for your honesty and transparency!!!

  • @michelleruffin6903
    @michelleruffin6903 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I don’t know why LPNs feel like they have to become a RN. I made the same mistake. I got my diploma as a LPN and years later attempted to get my RN degree. My grades were great, but I couldn’t pass the then, TEAS test. Now I only do contracts and make just as much or more than RNs. I have less responsibility also, so less stress. The key is to find out what God’s plan is for YOU! Stop following everyone else’s blueprint.❤

    • @siriusjones956
      @siriusjones956 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I know why? More areas to work in. Yes you can stay but years later, you can feel stuck.

    • @michelleruffin6903
      @michelleruffin6903 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@siriusjones956 That’s your story, not mine. Still on adventures, with a most impressive,colorful resume! Working as a traveling vaccination clinician whereas we go to different cities at different events ( community events, libraries, churches, fire stations,etc) to offer vaccines. Great pay, free food and fun. About to start another job whereas I will travel going into homes making assessments on Medicare patients. Fantastic pay and mileage reimbursement. Baby, when God is your pilot and the Holy Spirit is your copilot, NOTHING is impossible! 🥳💃🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾💕

    • @siriusjones956
      @siriusjones956 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michelleruffin6903 You don't know why. I do.

    • @kmk967
      @kmk967 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You don't know why? I do. You had a plan and gave up.

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@kmk967you’re plan isn’t her plan. Nursing isn’t the be all end all. You act like an RN is a medical doctor 🙄🙄🙄
      LPN and RN do basically the same thing and she’s right if you work Agency an LPN can make just as much as a staff RN

  • @jhada143
    @jhada143 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Your video was dope. We all have different situations for instance: I was initially going for PA school but right before I started my husband was murdered and I was left with 4 kids. I stopped everything bc many days I could barely breathe. Last year I started an RN program at a CC, and work full time while having my children. I graduate next December; God willing. If I can do it, anyone can. Believe, pray and don’t listen to anyone else who isn’t on your team. You can do anything you put your mind to. ❤

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am very sorry about your husband. I am so happy that you are going to graduate soon. You have perseverance and determination. Welcome to our family

    • @LiahB
      @LiahB ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow your testimony really just moved me. No excuses you still did it! Congratulations wish you and your children many blessings!! Your husband is smiling down on you! 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @jhada143
      @jhada143 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LiahB I love to believe that he is. Every day is a conscious effort to put one foot in front of the other; if not for me than my children. Prayer…..it works. Thank you so much for your kind words. 🫶🏾

  • @bashirauwal5825
    @bashirauwal5825 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    As a RN (registered nurse) I'm not afraid of loosing my job or quitting my job because I learnt how to save to invest putting my money back to work to make more money. I'm not just after the money but the freedom to live on my terms

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@Camila Santos yeah I make 3k as extra income from my investing trying so much to build more side hustle and extra income

    • @albertcharles4415
      @albertcharles4415 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're doing great keep it going @Bashir Auwal

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a lot of investing options real estate, stocks, ETFs, crypto but my best advice get a professional lead you into profitable one and make good financial decisions

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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      She's a great expert and has been influential in my financial journey, I recommend her to everyone

    • @hillaryvasquez9651
      @hillaryvasquez9651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Investing should be everyone's top priority now. You'll be ecstatic with the decision you made today in a few months

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You’re on point. I graduate from nursing school in a few weeks. I saved for 2 years before entering the actual RN program to make sure I could pay for school in cash and I was relatively debt free so that I could work the bare minimum and still survive. That allowed me to focus on school instead of bills. Another tip- stay as far ahead on assignments as possible. That gives me breathing room and time to spend with friends and family. Once you get behind, it’s hard as hell to catch up. Good luck on your journey!!!

    • @jonathanjack1000
      @jonathanjack1000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May 2023! Congrats grad we out here!

    • @berdjinajean9344
      @berdjinajean9344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I need more tips, I'm preparing to go to nursing school this year and I'm nervous. Please give more tips on how to be debt free.

    • @zainmatt4839
      @zainmatt4839 ปีที่แล้ว

      7

    • @wizardofahhhhhhz
      @wizardofahhhhhhz ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@berdjinajean9344 while I was doing my prerequisites I stopped shopping and stopped traveling for the most part. I ate breakfast at home every morning and I always packed a lunch for work. By just doing those things, I had over $10K in the bank going into nursing school. Also, adjust your lifestyle so that overtime isn’t necessary. It takes a lot of discipline, but it can be done.

    • @wizardofahhhhhhz
      @wizardofahhhhhhz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jonathanjack1000 yessir!!!! Let’s geauuuuxxx!!!

  • @Justcurious987
    @Justcurious987 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    LPN to ADN. ADN to BSN. BSN to MSN dual track (Health Care Administration and Executive Leadership). All while raising kids and working 2 jobs.
    All I’m saying is:
    1. Be ready to put in the work!!
    2. We need MORE Black male nurses!! Nursing has nothing to do with gender or sexual orientation.
    3. Men are “nurtures” too and we are STILL hell a masculine!!
    4. Why consider nursing?
    It’s an economy proof career (there are others…). But this is why I got in; it’s been 17 years!!
    Thank you for your video. Well done!!

  • @ninarhymes
    @ninarhymes หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m finishing up my Pre Requisite now and applied to start the program in January. And I plan on not working. Thankfully my kids dad is a big supporter for this and will support us fully financially. This will be a blessing

  • @authenticme7351
    @authenticme7351 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Been a RN for 13 years..Been a traveler 3 years...no complaints here...still love my job❤

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I like to hear this! I hear so many people say they hate it and are stressed. Your comment is refreshing.

  • @reginaverno4223
    @reginaverno4223 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I totally agree with you , I am currently in Nursing school and this is the story of my life , I sacrificed so much for this program. I graduated May 5, 2023 and I can't wait to have a normal life again.

  • @nathanweaver6743
    @nathanweaver6743 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Guy I worked for years ago owned a multi million dollar BBQ chain, dropped out of 10th grade to get a job to support his family, and once told me, "Before I start this.... how much am I willing to lose? Money that i will never see again.. $30K."
    Ever since I heard that, I put that into everything I do. Especially nursing school.
    Keep up the videos man! I listen to them multiple times a week, still on my nursing school grind!

  • @behealthymindbodyspirit9016
    @behealthymindbodyspirit9016 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    35 years later post my BSN RN, I feel you… The BSN program was a BEAST!!! Keep striving and don’t stop until you WIN!!! Sending you prayers and positive vibes… 💯👍🏾💯

    • @jinsu0504
      @jinsu0504 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CRNA school was a boss of all beasts...BSN was like the door that opens to the mini boss.

  • @jualondamccollum123
    @jualondamccollum123 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    FIRST THANK YOU FOR SHARING! I finished my LPN program July 25, 2022. Passed my NCLEX August 9, 2022. Started The ADN program August 15, 2022. Had mental break down and dropped out after two weeks. I no longer wanted to be there or study! My Husband held me and our Son down while I went to school. I was so BLESSED that I didn't have to worry about bills or work, all I had to do was focus on school! I never thought that I would be a nurse. I was working as a dialysis Technician for 8 years and I also had got my associate degree in criminal justice in 2012 (which I never was able to get a job with). I had all the odds against me: I have dyslexia (VERY SLOW READER, TOTAL DEAF IN MY RIGHT EAR, AND DIABETES). My Husband had overcome cancer and a hip replacement two years before I got into nursing school. My Husband was sooooo supportive and wanted me to stay in the ADN program! Even though he was saying stay in school, I knew he was drowning, but was going to do any and everything for me to stay in school! I was so stressed out I begin to have noise bleeds in class, my AC1 was 11, and my hearing was getting worse which meant that I needed to invest in more expensive hearing aids. Right now, in my life I want to work on my health and find a job that will allow me to have a work and family life. Thank you for this video!

    • @user-dg5zf4it8c
      @user-dg5zf4it8c 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It would have been easy to get a nursing job in a jail or prison in California.

  • @kekelah7857
    @kekelah7857 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Im glad you said this. Im an LPN and worked with a fellow LPN and did the RN program while working 32 hours. She had a nervous breakdown and failed the 1st semester.

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm sorry to hear that. I will never put myself through that much unnecessary stress if I don't have to while already living a great life.

  • @ROLLNWITHREG
    @ROLLNWITHREG ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video is reassurance that I’m doing the right thing. I’m 26 been a trucker for 5 years and have decided to enroll in school to get my RN. I am so serious about this tha I gave up my apartment and motorcycle and moved with my uncle. With the hopes of saving 30k to live off of, and go part time when I get into a nursing program. I was gonna try working 40 hours a week while doing nursing school. But I wanted to do this with the least amount of stress so I cut some expenses and made some sacrifices.I don’t want to be overwhelmed I want this career transition to be smooth and I wanna be as focused as possible.

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was a cdl truck driver for awhile. It wasnt for me. I appreciate you being out there and happy youre going back to nursing school.

    • @valeriewilliams4941
      @valeriewilliams4941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm happy for you

    • @adrian3747_
      @adrian3747_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Wishing u the best of luck man 👏🏼🙏🏼

    • @mattyicevisions5569
      @mattyicevisions5569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s crazy to see this comment as I’m 26 and also drove trucks for 3 years. Currently waiting on my admission into a ADN program for the Fall. Moved back in with my parents and only working a part time job at Kroger so I can get tuition reimbursement & have enough money to not ask my parents for help

    • @ROLLNWITHREG
      @ROLLNWITHREG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mattyicevisions5569 yes bro. Missed a semester because of some life changes but I’m back on it. I have 4 classes left of general Ed’s and pre reqs them I’m ready to start applying to programs. I am keeping the faith because I know the road ahead is going be tough

  • @josephgarcia9054
    @josephgarcia9054 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He said my lady aint no trouble lol! 🤣 I did a 16 month BSN program. I also saved up and quit my job 1 week before nursing school started. Lived on a tight budget, but I got it done. It was a huge motivation to not repeat any semester. I had to make sure my sacrifice wasn't in vain.

  • @PhilParleTV
    @PhilParleTV ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This is what my fellow classmates are dealing with now. Stressed out, working full time and being a full time student. No sir! I'm currently doing it part time, one nursing class a time.

    • @NurseViv
      @NurseViv ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Smart!

    • @ReturnJaguar
      @ReturnJaguar ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Many turn to tricking or scheming,too🏀

    • @rayburns4829
      @rayburns4829 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ReturnJaguarliterally selling their bodies to get through nursing school.. wild times

    • @kasarapompey5035
      @kasarapompey5035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Good for you! I hear you. I have bills. Will go pt as well. No race, nursing will never go out of business.

  • @yankeesuperstar
    @yankeesuperstar ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I saved up 20k then went to RN while working part time. In the ER as a tech/emt. Just don’t fall in love during nursing school, that’s another pitfall. I’m on year 16 now-best professional condition I ever made.

  • @scrappinorchid5498
    @scrappinorchid5498 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have been an LVN for 14 years and will be starting the RN bridge program at a community college at the end of May. Even though I have been a nurse this long I wasn’t sure this is what I wanted to do. Last year I took a break from nursing and took a job at an elementary school which I love but started to really miss nursing after 6 months away. I am finishing out the school year with my current job but have been picking up nursing shifts when I can. I have an associates degree in science so I really only need the nursing courses. The school I am attending now has a nursing BSN program so that is my end goal. My husband, who is also and LVN, has started working extra to squirrel away money so that I don’t have to work during nursing school. Honestly I think I wasn’t motivated before because we were comfortable and enjoyed where we were working. Two years ago we moved and have really settled in over the last year. Also, this year my oldest son is graduating high school and my youngest son will be starting kinder next year and I think this life change has motivated me to go back and do something for myself. I am a little nervous going back to school but excited at the same time. I agree with not working during nursing school, if possible, but I know not everyone is able to do that. Thanks for sharing.

  • @tiararn
    @tiararn ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wheww! This is everything! I won’t lie, the LPN program i attended, was so much HARDER to manage than the RN program. I went to a CC for my RN, idk if it would’ve been harder than a BSN program, but I was not able to work much in the LPN program. I worked FT during my RN program, but I had no other choice. It’s doable!

    • @jgarci2020
      @jgarci2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome to hear, thank you! I'm thinking about an associates in Nursing after LPN 🙏

    • @tiararn
      @tiararn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jgarci2020 Good luck on everything!

  • @zarareeves8493
    @zarareeves8493 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes this is big! 20k is a good goal & i already work n the hospital.. unlimited overtime. I needed a lil guidance bc i learned the hard way the first time just like you! This was well needed.

  • @nursereesey2495
    @nursereesey2495 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My goal is to have $15,000 by the time I start my program 💪🏾
    I plan to work only on the weekends.

    • @ayouboubari8328
      @ayouboubari8328 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can apply for financial aid

  • @rrt401
    @rrt401 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You sir are wise beyond your years. Everything you said makes so much sense. RN program ain’t no joke. I did it while working 24 hrs a week and I was a whole RT for 16 hrs prior to and that ish was STILL hard. You’re going places!!!

  • @reginatucker1831
    @reginatucker1831 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I truly appreciate this video. ❤ Ive tried to go to Nursing school 3 times. Im so embarrassed about it and I feel like a failure. The last time I ran out during the first test. It was all gibberish. Through this video Ive learned that I do better starting from the bottom, and that's ok. Idk how Im going to pay for any of this, but Im trusting in the Lord. Because of you CJ, I start CNA classes on Monday. Im going to do this the right way this time.God Bless you, keep it up! You are nevessary 😊

  • @ginaashman8849
    @ginaashman8849 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hear you exactly. U can focus and get the most out of school not worried about money. No loans if u can do it. After 30 years of being RN. I just finished psychiatric nurse practitioner school at 57 working 1.5 jobs by the grace of GOD. I don’t advise it. Nursing school ain’t no joke Thank u for encouragement about keeping trying. I have to sit for certification very soon.

  • @MichealJm3luv
    @MichealJm3luv ปีที่แล้ว +26

    by thebgrace of God I was able to save some money before going back for my RN. I only work one day a week now

    • @dionjoyner6973
      @dionjoyner6973 ปีที่แล้ว

      After using uworld twice and failing, I never knew i could ever pass the NCLEX but today I am very happy, I just passed my NCLEX on my third attempt with a great help from Miss ELISABETH HELEN.❤️❤️

  • @traciaasphall1702
    @traciaasphall1702 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I totally agree with you,. I went to lpn school working night and day because I had those bills to ,it was the most stressful time of my life and I promised myself after I graduate I'm going to be taking it slow and enjoy my life..I would never go back to RN school grinding the way I did in lpn school.

  • @Drizzyeaster123
    @Drizzyeaster123 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this🎉😊 because THIS is what I needed to hear.
    I have been struggling with "which path to take "as of the LPN or RN route but, I can’t afford to just jump into an RN program at the moment. 💯
    When you started talking about saving up, then going for your RN and the benefits that came with it such as being more focused and less stressed, being able to save before RN school to not worry about outside accommodations while in school and the mini vacations… etc.
    My mind instantly clicked into (LPN - RN ) mode.
    Again thank you so much for making this video.
    Keep working hard and being a good inspiration 😇

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for the compliment

    • @samthepoet107
      @samthepoet107 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have to ask yourself was Florence Nightingale a RN? Nursing wasn't always heavy on education. When you work as a LPN you do as much work as the RN. You develop those skills. But there is money into forcing people to go back to school for a degree to do something they can do. When I was younger my mother had a friend in Boston who was a nurse in a hospital. Back in those days she did not have to go to nursing school. The hospital trained her. But she was limited to work for that hospital. But when she retired she was a nurse. Earned well to move from her house in Dorchester down to St. Augustine in Florida in her own house.

  • @paulettebrown2546
    @paulettebrown2546 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Agree with you I had to work so hard during LPN school. I do not have a lot of money for tuition.

  • @jessicarudas4576
    @jessicarudas4576 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hi CJ, thanks for your videos. I know RN school is murder ! I am currently in a state college taking the bridge accelerated program from LPN. My program is 15 months long I graduate in August 2023 God willingly. I had to quit my LPN job at an ALF during second semester, I would’ve never been able to get through the program had I kept working and it was only a part time position!! Fortunately for me, I have a good support system right now and live rent free with my boyfriend and I’m so grateful for that because if I had to work to support myself financially I would’ve never been able to get through RN school. You sound like u have a good plan keep making these videos I love to hear your experiences as an LPN. Much love 🙏🏼

    • @erykah2829
      @erykah2829 ปีที่แล้ว

      im in lpn school right now and it hard i wnt to let go of all my jobs

    • @deglowk3405
      @deglowk3405 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are you going to school? Am LVN With 10 years experience in Acute rehab looking for a bridge program.

  • @2ndchancehypnotherapy
    @2ndchancehypnotherapy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I start my RN program in the fall and won't be working at all. I will be living and breathing nursing school as my only focus.

  • @alpha_2_agonist
    @alpha_2_agonist ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's what's appreciative about degrees that require individuals to sacrifice (not just sacrifice money through loans, but also forcing students not to work due to rigor, postponing life basically, etc). If every other degree had this type of rigor to them then all other non-nursing degrees would be well respected. Best wishes in your endeavors brother!

  • @tiffanymoss3987
    @tiffanymoss3987 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn’t go to RN school but, I went to grad school for counseling in my early 30’s …while being a single mother of two children, buying a home, supervisor working full time and completed a practicum and intern.
    It was HELL and I’m not sure how I got through it then I had to get 3000 hours and pass the counselor exam.
    I did it! But it was redemption for me because, I dropped out of grad school following me getting pregnant. Financial aid did help with refunds for some emergencies but I would have loved the opportunity for free! My educational fees is over $100,000 so I would’ve been studying in my sleep. 😂
    That time will come and go wether you use it or not
    You can do it, even if it’s differently!!

  • @richardrobinson3105
    @richardrobinson3105 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    RN school is something else. Definitely study while your on your break.practice NCLEX questions every day (@least 50). Also apply for scholarships to supplement your savings. Get a job/ volunteer in the field (cook/ STNA/ patient transport). Reach out to ppl the field. & PLEASE stay humble once you make it. Your a very wise man for choosing to save before school. Try looking into other professions in the field like rad tech, respiratory therapist, etc.
    If RN is really your dead set goal it may be cool to climb the ladder ( STNA, LPN, then RN) its slower but you'll get more understanding & get paid $$$ sooner, & some jobs may pay for you to comtinue your education. So many options! Much love & good luck ❤🙏👍

  • @itr0863
    @itr0863 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i graduated rn school in may 2016. i just passed my nclex in jan 2024. life happens. after 4 failed attempts. i gave up after my son was born few months after i graduated to raise him as my wife worked more. i continuted to work as an er tech and ekg tech PRN to help out anyway i can. i fell into a dark place mentally. 1 day became 1 year. 1 year became 7 years. time just flew. i made every excuse to not re take it. i kind of shut everyone out that asked me if i was going to retake it etc. but i knew it wasnt sustainable. i guess it wasnt my time. but november 2023, i met someone who was exactly in my position and we both motivated one another to retake the nclex in a diff state (FL only allows 3 attempts). we both took a diff state test in the same testing center where we continued to fail back in 2016-17. we both ended up passing in january. he moved back to his home town in nc and works as a RN obviously and i got hired in march on a open heart step down unit. i love it there. i'm going to transition to the cvicu in a year or two. im so grateful to have had one more chance to take the boards. you can do it man!!! keep that perspective. we all have our own story.

  • @bently629
    @bently629 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can NOT relate. Becoming a registered nurse is one of the best career decisions I ever made. I’ll be a nurse 3 years this year!

  • @orlandogastonchandleraziz9855
    @orlandogastonchandleraziz9855 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You’re right bro! I’m in my last semester of Nursing School (2yr assoc - RN) and it has been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.

  • @YesitsShan
    @YesitsShan ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I graduated with a BSN at the ripe old age of 20 lol. Thank you Lord I also went to school completely free and secured my seat in nursing school through a program I applied to as a high school senior (I was selected based on academic performance and standardized test scores). If you know early on that you want to go into nursing, there are some options out there to get it done before life really hits you. I got pregnant with twins three months into my first nursing job and I have no clue how I would have managed being a new mom of two if I didn’t have the stability, flexibility, and income from nursing. Best of luck to everyone!

    • @joanepierre8160
      @joanepierre8160 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First off congrats to you! Can you elaborate on the program you went through and in what state. I wish I had known of a program like that near me.

    • @YesitsShan
      @YesitsShan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joanepierre8160 I’m in Birmingham, AL and attended the University of AL at Bham. It was called the nursing scholars program. The cost of my education was covered by a combination of several scholarships…I literally applied to everything I thought I even slightly qualified for, and thank you Lord I won so many. My ACT score qualified me for a UAB scholarship that covered the bulk of the expenses so everything else was extra. I’m not for certain but I think standardized test scores are not as important these days. Also my mom worked full time at UAB hospital and they offer full time employees to receive half off tuition for themselves or their dependents.

  • @ajzepp8976
    @ajzepp8976 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are smart to make sure it's the right time for you. Best of luck to you.

  • @blackl1steddrums
    @blackl1steddrums ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My advice would be to do everything you can to get into a nursing program at a community college as opposed to a private school.. at the CC I not only attended for free, but actually made money through grants and financial aid. Versus, going to a private college could cost 50-100 thousand dollars..

    • @itsDjjayyArt
      @itsDjjayyArt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly which I regret with Mildred elley

  • @AdvancedNursesEdConsultant
    @AdvancedNursesEdConsultant ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I respect this transparency. Peace brother.

  • @angelastewart9497
    @angelastewart9497 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is too hard . Working & going to school. You really do need to stay focus just on school . I know I been there

  • @adriennemuhammad2807
    @adriennemuhammad2807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm on a similar plan. 5 figures savings!
    Even before I enter my next serious relationship! Life is hitting different too!

  • @ghertulien
    @ghertulien ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m currently a Cdl driver about to start the LPN program

    • @Cocobutterflydee
      @Cocobutterflydee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Save the money pay ahead of all bills you can cell phone, rent etc. It's a beast

    • @jennn348
      @jennn348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol me too starting my bsn soon

    • @ghertulien
      @ghertulien ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jennn348 congratulations ✊🏾👏🏾💪🏾

    • @liahknowsbest5092
      @liahknowsbest5092 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Cocobutterflydee Facts👏🏽👏🏽 I just finished. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @jasonhenry7987
    @jasonhenry7987 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I totally understand. I in my final semester full time 5 days week and work 40 hrs full time on the weekends. I’m always tired, exhausted and high anxiety

  • @TP-zr3rt
    @TP-zr3rt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said…. Also never work full time on a temp license.Wait until you pass your NCLEX before pulling all that OVERTIME even though it’s very tempting 💵💰

  • @blessedchildari1713
    @blessedchildari1713 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am encouraged by this video I feel like as a young person I rush because I fear it taking too long I've dropped out twice due to personal reasons but all I want is the motivation to focus not be extremely stressed and not worry too much about the future I just wanna finally be a nurse

  • @ReturnJaguar
    @ReturnJaguar ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect your saying, "you don't believe in struggling" ought been met you and appreciate & kept tighter relationships between those who are or were

  • @natural3378
    @natural3378 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m about to graduate may 2 and preparing for nclex. It’s been a long hard journey but it was all worth it in the end. Could not see myself doing anything else. I had no life at all. I’m lucky to have a supportive husband that worked while I focused on nursing school. It’s time consuming amd no u can’t work full time in nursing school. I only worked one day a week

  • @renenugent9827
    @renenugent9827 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am working towards that direction slowly, slow progress is better than no progress. I actually make good money in my current field right now, but I decided to slowly head towards nursing. I enjoyed your video.

  • @cali_love5977
    @cali_love5977 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    School is sooooo expensive. Since I have my BA, I don’t qualify for any financial aid 😢even thought they didn’t pay a dime towards that degree. I’m cash flowing all my classes now and plan to stop working when I get into the RN program. I’m also paying cash and saving up to do it. That’s the best and only way for me to do it!

  • @kanegrey7697
    @kanegrey7697 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    High school drop out, always felt like I couldn’t do it. Made it to lvn/lpn and felt like that was the hardest thing I could do. Didn’t feel smart enough to continue tbh, lvn school hazed me I developed anxiety from the test taking etc. fast forward I worked as an lvn and continued onto rn taking prerequisites and general Ed’s. And I graduated as an RN. Is it worth it? Absolutely I was doing the same work for 10-15 dollars and hour less so yes it was worth it for me.

    • @liahknowsbest5092
      @liahknowsbest5092 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏽👏🏽Congratulations 🎉🎉

    • @itsDjjayyArt
      @itsDjjayyArt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow 😳🤯

  • @ellestuart5675
    @ellestuart5675 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I went through the worse, was in a fire escaped the fire…. And my school still gave me hell. They don’t want me to win. But I will!

  • @neoreign
    @neoreign ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There's no mistakes in life
    Earth is a school and school has tests
    If you pass one test, there's another one down the road.
    Thanks for sharing your lesson with the rest of us, you gotta love the internet.

  • @Opheliarai
    @Opheliarai ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this transparency

  • @shirnadasmith8667
    @shirnadasmith8667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi came across your channel n loved your video. Interested in going to nursing school again and was interested in the school that you mentioned and the program wanted to look up on it thanks a lot. I appreciate your honesty.

  • @nurselocslife9104
    @nurselocslife9104 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Definitely need to change the title to this video!

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Why?

    • @daniellegibson872
      @daniellegibson872 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheHighValueNurseCJKyles I think because the title insinuates that you have the degree already and you feel like you shouldn’t be a nurse.

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@daniellegibson872 The video is almost at 5k. I am going to leave it. I didnt lie in the title.

  • @suecrn9186
    @suecrn9186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never was an LPN, only an RN. Went back to school in my mid 20’s while having a 10 month old and being pregnant again. Worked part time. My father was also very sick and died during my time in Nursing school. It was very hard, but i worked harder.
    I managed to do very well in school even though I was not always able to read or study everything - especially when i eventually had 2 babies. Studied for “The Boards” for a few weeks only because i wanted to take them ASAP after graduating (everything is still fresh in your head). Passed The Boards easily. Been a nurse almost 30 years.

  • @ShashA-ot7cd
    @ShashA-ot7cd ปีที่แล้ว

    Your judgement is very good. You will be a great RN 👍🏾.

  • @villemartin6595
    @villemartin6595 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to withdraw as well! Thanks for the honesty!

  • @qmtcop
    @qmtcop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is what I may need to do obtain my LPN. I’m not that smart to grind at work and do such a challenging program. If I’m not working and use my savings for bills for a year then I can take a loan to pay for college itself. That’s the only downside because right now my job will pay for school but I know I’m not going to be able to manage both and being a mom.

  • @fitnessbabe7958
    @fitnessbabe7958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same. I saved now i can go to Nursing school and not work for 3 years. I also moved back home.

  • @dineomocoach
    @dineomocoach ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing, been seriously and excitedly considering to do this, my hubby been telling me it’s not gonna be easy, he is not a nurse but has some nursing experience. Thank you for the video, helps me to put my thoughts together and make a decision.

  • @captauron4514
    @captauron4514 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good luck my man! We have a few LVN transfer to our cohort (3rd semester) and half of them didn’t make it through. Most of them had full time jobs and thought they can do both. Luckily our program allows for one repeat semester and last I checked up on them, they dropped to per Diem or have quit.

  • @amaliasafaryan4256
    @amaliasafaryan4256 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    hell im in rn school now with zero job and its still hard!!!

  • @user-rp7ux9jm2k
    @user-rp7ux9jm2k ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😮 well I guess this is why we have a shortage of nurses .. Sounds terrible and looking at the comments too .. State of America and its healthcare system is steady going downhill

  • @FitnurseApril
    @FitnurseApril 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    if you have the desire to do it. I lost my granny in my rn program. and my mom was intubated. i have no support, i worked as a lpn. it is by far the hardest sacrifice i had to make but its done. i grad 5/31.

  • @ladythetruck733
    @ladythetruck733 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I start LVN May 12th. You saved me. People act so confused and disappointed when I say I want to be an LVN but it's all I want to do. What it wrong with that? I'm currently a CCMA and love it. The pay is just not enough.

  • @Queen.Serena
    @Queen.Serena ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to hear this thank you ❤

  • @sanadbell
    @sanadbell ปีที่แล้ว

    Love yo story bro. Good spirit that's gonna get you far. U gained a brother in me. Wish u the best. May God be with you on your journey. I believe in you. I'm a last semester RN student, and this was hard. As of now I'm trynna come up with money jist to finish up.

    • @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles
      @TheHighValueNurseCJKyles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you family. I am going to grind this goal out and then get my degree. 😊

  • @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii
    @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought I wanted to be a nurse till I went to get my blood drawn and that was a big nope for me lol. Now I know for sure I want to be a dental hygienist instead plus they pay more and I LOVE doing it!

  • @mrlinklady
    @mrlinklady ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your idea is perfect 👌

  • @zoraidacastro2703
    @zoraidacastro2703 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sounds like you learned the hard way, but now you know! RN programs are like medical schools..... wish you the best!

  • @markJones38133
    @markJones38133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a lpn, been one since 1998. I retired from the Army reserve as a LPN (E7). 22 yrs total with 2 tours and 4 yrs AD. I got excepted into Jonesboro AR RN program while in Iraq. The nursing instructors knew I was in Iraq and not working as a nurses. I was shooting at the enemy or them shooting at me and kicking doors looking for the bombers. Anyway after I got back from Iraq and left active duty early to go to RN school, yes I had a bad back and knee, but I wanted to go to RN school, I couldn’t easy hit a medical retirement, but no RN license was my goal. Anyway them racist instructor alway give me a 78 % on everything, I even use other white women homework that had a 100% and put my name on it. Again 78%, so anyway I fail a test and made a 68 on the test, while my overall score was 78%, pasting was 75%, them bitc… told me to go get a job at the hospital and retake that coarse after a yr. I went a hospital job waited the yr and went to retake that class,but that same racist ass instructor was my instructor again. I just drop the coarse, I didn’t won’t to deal with that lady again after serving 18 month in Iraq and now I am back in the USA free again. That racist instructor would have made me curse her out because my PTSD was serious, I went to the VA doctor for a checkup, my doctor there said you need to see a mental health doctor bad and referred me to one. Anyway I lose money not get the medical retirement.

  • @hindibobo
    @hindibobo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an RN now it was not a smooth part. Safe like 10000$ be4 started my program and in between breaks from school was working double at the end it worth it.

  • @alphaomega1351
    @alphaomega1351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not a nurse but I play one on TV and I approve this message. 😶

  • @KarenPerez-lu4lm
    @KarenPerez-lu4lm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s the thing you have to be willing to sacrifice your lifestyle

  • @KingMazia
    @KingMazia ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love these videos bro very motivating

  • @healthfitness9055
    @healthfitness9055 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you get on that nurse floor you can’t give up and quick the next day remember that it isn’t what it seems till you get there!!

  • @justliving4465
    @justliving4465 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think changing the title to “can you work and go to nursing school” or making another video with that title or similar would bang

  • @robinson2589
    @robinson2589 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss nursing school is rigorous .. not that I know from experience lol

  • @Rose2gard
    @Rose2gard ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get yourself groomed and take your women out.... live your best life now

  • @kimmichaud7741
    @kimmichaud7741 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm just a medical.assistant who wanted to be a nurse but after seeing the back stabbing bullying and harassment in the medical field I changed my mind

  • @Rashawdbenjamin9i3
    @Rashawdbenjamin9i3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finishing up Med surge 1 and Mental health next week and going into Medsurge 2 and OB’a and pediatric. I did the bare minimum for work, only to focus on school.

  • @amnesh
    @amnesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LPN school should of taught you how hard it was going to be. Either you hit the books or the street you can't do both. I worked full time and went to school, find a job that has alot of down time and work at night.

  • @communitysolutionspro1520
    @communitysolutionspro1520 ปีที่แล้ว

    You got time. Most important stack the money and that way it's your only focus. I know lpn that are millionaires just off that alone. It's so many ways.

  • @godsaveyourpeope
    @godsaveyourpeope ปีที่แล้ว

    My friend hates nursing now because she is being forced to poke herself with the rushed juice. Too many people collapsing. God help us!!

  • @chandleysroom
    @chandleysroom ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It just depends on what type of job you have

  • @Sabrinasways
    @Sabrinasways ปีที่แล้ว

    I just made a study plan and realized that I would need to study everyday for 3 hours at the minimum to be successful in class.. I have a full time job and a newborn idk if I’m ready but this is my last stop I don’t have an option to start over my job is chill I did take a small pay cut and my bills are high but I don’t mind struggling for two years and cutting out stuff like getting my hair and nails done so I can get this done I have a job where if I don’t have a baby sitter I can bring my kids to work I bring my newborn every night and I spend. My first 4 hours of the shift doing my job the studying then. I take a nap until an hour before I get off soo I’m kind of ok but it’s still hard

  • @Lobi10879
    @Lobi10879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Basically proper planning and research on the institution you will be attending will save you so much more time on the back end.

  • @peppaminttea
    @peppaminttea ปีที่แล้ว

    Very smart plan‼️

  • @donaldstratford6773
    @donaldstratford6773 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do what works for you. If you really want it you will find a way.

  • @AnaLucia-wy2ii
    @AnaLucia-wy2ii ปีที่แล้ว

    Good luck!

  • @hersheykisses3892
    @hersheykisses3892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello can anyone tell me could I go straight into Rn school without being a Lpn in Michigan ? I went to lpn school and graduated during the pandemic so I wasn’t in a physical classroom and have never done clinicals . When I was in lpn school i was going through alot and wasn’t focusing in my studies because of certain situations that was going on in my life.I’ve took my nclex twice and failed both times but for some reason in my gut i feel like i can really be focused for the rn program. Any advice I could really use it.