My Mom is fake and manipulative. I have no desire to even attempt to set boundaries with her, because I really believe that any "change" I see in her, would just be a mask. She might look and act right, but behind my back she would be saying things to my kids when she thinks I don't hear. She would be playing us against each other and destroying our relationships. I really enjoyed this video though ❤
Came hear to say this. If for some miraculous reason she changed her behavior, it wouldn’t change how she sees me. It wouldn’t be an internalized change and I would be able to”hear”, like I do all day every day, what she really thinks about what I’m saying and doing.
Thank you for this! Imma write a letter and be done with it! We’ve had too many conversations for nothing to really change. At this point I’m repeating myself or what they say “beating a dead horse”. And my spirit just doesn’t feel safe around her at all and I’m over it! Not a relationship I desire to have anymore!
My Mom is fake and manipulative. I have no desire to even attempt to set boundaries with her, because I really believe that any "change" I see in her, would just be a mask. She might look and act right, but behind my back she would be saying things to my kids when she thinks I don't hear. She would be playing us against each other and destroying our relationships. I really enjoyed this video though ❤
That makes total sense, you must protect yourself and your kids. You’re doing what’s necessary.
Came hear to say this. If for some miraculous reason she changed her behavior, it wouldn’t change how she sees me. It wouldn’t be an internalized change and I would be able to”hear”, like I do all day every day, what she really thinks about what I’m saying and doing.
Thank you for this! Imma write a letter and be done with it! We’ve had too many conversations for nothing to really change. At this point I’m repeating myself or what they say “beating a dead horse”. And my spirit just doesn’t feel safe around her at all and I’m over it! Not a relationship I desire to have anymore!
Yes, it will give an end to it, you stood up for you and you can move on and focus on your needs. 🫶🏽
Mine retaliated and found other ways to be abusive after I set boundaries so I decided that no contact was the right choice for my health.
Makes total sense! You’re taking care of YOU.
Agree! I went no contact because of the same reason
She was critical?