Tus me niam tsev aws koj zaj neej neeg hais tau meem txom kawg nkaus li tab si kav liam maj ua siab ntev uv kom tag tiam no es lwm tiam mam mus thov daim ntawv zoo los ua neej thiaj tsi txom nyem os mog
Our Hmong sisters needs to get that “no place to die” out of their heads. This is America. Tuag lawm tsis paub tsis pom tsis hnov lawm, pheej txhawj txog qhov chaws tuag es ho tsis txhawj txog yus txoj kev mob es Hlub yus tus kheej. Teb chaws no leej twg los kawg tuag rau lub hospital xwb os.
I rather be by myself than be with a jerk. Why do you need a place to die, go to church. Please my Hmong sisters love yourself. Leave why torment yourself, be strong. What kind of examples are you giving your daughters. Hmong women need to change!
Ua cas yuav ntshaw lub niag chaw tuag ua luaj na tus viv ncaus ruam aw. Tuag ces twb tsis hnov lawm. Txawm lawv yuav muab pov rau dej tshoob, los muab txiav ua tej ua tej ya faus xwb los koj twb tsis hnov lawm. Cas tsis hlub koj tus kheej li os
Peb hmoob tseem ruam heev !!!!! Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, sawv daws tseem ntshaw lub ntees tuag kawg li, tsiq nco qab tias luag cov neeg vam meej li mes kas, fab kis luag tsuas yog xav tau ib lub chaw zoo( faus kom muaj ntxa xwb) luag tsis yuav ua kab ke 3 hnub ,3 hmos li hmoob .
Uacas peb cov vivncaus Hmoob pheej yuav tau los theej cov txivneej no lub txhoj? why are men so selfish? Does this world has anyone have true love like our God?
You hear a lot of people say "leave him. Have self love." And then when you actually divorce its like.. "omg she's been divorced 2 times! There's probably something wrong with her" you know just the usual hmong people gossip. This is such a sad story. I wish she was able to leave him but going through a divorce the 2nd time alone again with more kids, it would be difficult to find someone who is willing to truly love you and the children you have from 2 different baby daddies. Txoj hmoov phem tiag tiag.
The legend been said, if you divorced, want a good life, find the one who is matching you. Remember hmong is not white and black or other yellow skin. I support you thought.
Viv ncaus aws koj twb nrauj tsi tau koj tus txiv es cas koj pheej ho tias koj tsi to nws mas kon dag koj tus kheej xwb ho yog tsi to ces koj yeej kiav nws lawm tsi txob musb dag tias tsuav me nyuam ho
A relationship between a single person and once divorced person is very hard. We all say as long as they love each other or as long as we love each other but......... there are things that will hunt you just like it's hunting this guy. It goes for both sex, not just male or female. It really takes a person with a BIG HEART to accept their past.
It took you a while to see that he wasn't worth it. The wait is not worth it for someone who doesn't love you. Life's too short to waste on someone who can't reciprocate your love in return. People do not change easily, unless they want to help themselves for the better. I've seen a lot of Hmong women in your position, staying in abusive and/or cheating relationships (with Hmong men and non-Hmong man alike). To these type of Hmong women out there, please love yourself, take care of your health, pick up hobbies, and make new friends. Most importantly, you HAVE to keep an open mind when it comes to your dating pool. Just because someone is good looking, ugly with money, or you meet someone who wants to worship the soil you walked on, it doesn't mean that you need to settle with them bc they want something with you. Go on a lot of dates and get to know the person better before committing with them in the long run
niam ntsuab teev leej twg tseem yuav xav mloog cov neej neeg qub thiab naj es koj tseem niaj zaum hai kom mu mloog hauv saib lom zem tej ntawd ce mloog 1 zaug xwb ce txau lawm os .
You loved him to the point where you can’t divorced him and blames that your kids are the reason. Open the door for him when he have no ways to go. Of course he’ll treats you the way he treated you. Can’t help you sister if you do what you not supposed to do.
Idk 🤷🏻♀️ but I thought when we all die, we all go to the same place lol 😂 on a real note, why do people got to to be bury by their husband to feel better! Come on, you’re dead, you ain’t know shit anymore.
You said u don't wait for his love anymore, but yet u are still married to him, treat him like a king, refused to divorce him, and still opens the door for him. So....what's the point???
She still does. She just doesn’t want to admit it because it makes her feel better in her position. There’s no point to stories like this. It’s either you leave or stay... she chose to stay and endure his bs.
Omg!! Why are some women so desperate for a man??? Stop wasting your time on these cheaters/losers. With or without him, you're still a mother to your children and lady of your castle. Why are you promting/permitting cheating to your children? Know your worth and move on your life. I don't understand why some ladies would waste their time tolerating these cheaters. Stop wasting time living your life for your day to died.
Wow...so many excuses. For me...the minute when he cheated. He's gone for good. This is the reason why so many men are a cheater. Us women need to take a control of our lives and stop blaming on the kids or our parents. Take control of your own life. It's not for you to please anyone else's life, but your life. Do what make you happy and is best for you and not for anyone else, but you?
Sister cas koj yuav muaj siab zov tej neeg siab phem ntawm ko naj Tsi tas kk tus neeg zoo li ntawm tu nws rau yav laus naj koj ruam los ntse, niag txiv siab phem li ko thiaj Tsi muaj kab ntes qi txog ntag lauj
Ntuj aws koj mam raum thiaj luag twb tsis hlub yus es tseem pheej nyob tsis yuav txiv los yus nyob yus lod mas. Ces koj nim yuav tshaw nws ua luag li o koj mam thiab yog tseem tseem npam no tsis hlub yus tus kheev li o.
I don't understand these women. You said you can do everything on your own yet you can't let him go. What's the point of keep someone like this around? She said lub neej yog nws lub and it's not her husband's neej? Why do these women like keeping losers around? Who is going to be the lady that's going to be brave enough to elevate and live on her own and for her kids 😞😞. So frustrated!!
KOJ TUS QUB TXIV KO LUB SIAB KUJ TXAWJ DUB KAWG LAIV YOM, HOS KOJ TUS TXIV TSHIAB KO LOS KUJ TXAWJ PHEM KAWG THIAB KOJ KUJ MADE THE RIGHT DECISION KAWG LI
That’s why I’m saving everyone’s time and telling everyone it’s boring! These stories are always about divorce people, cheating, scandals, etc.. where are the real heart warming ones!
@@ChristyX87 I agree but the heartwarming ones triggers the bitter Hmong women to come out, calling every single loving love story fake bc they couldn’t have it themselves and need to project their own insecurities on others.
Tus viv ncaus koj ruam los ntse koj twb nyob taus ib leeg es koj pheej yuav nws ab TSI. Koj nyob taus tsis toob kam tus txiv neej no. Koj ntshai txoj kev tuag tsis muaj chaw xaus no. Koj puas paub tias peb ua neeg nyob, kawg yuav taug ib txog kev xwb es koj yuav nyob nrog tus txiv neej no ua dab tsi. Tuag los, muab hlawv tsuag 2 xwb. Vim nej cov poj niam hmoob pheej nrhiav txoj kev thaum yuav tuag kom tau chaw xaus es yog vim li cas. Tuag es twb nyob teb chaws vam meej es ntshai dab tsi. Tos nej cov poj niam hmoob pheej nyuaj siab thiab muaj kev lwj siab los zoo li tus viv ncaus no zaj dab neeg. Yog koj nyob rau koj tej me nyuam no tseem pub koj niag txiv ua me cab ntawv los tsev dab tsi. Poj niam hmoob thov kom nej ntse me ntsis thiab txiv neej hmoob thiaj tsis txawj tsim peb cov poj hmoob maj. Cas tus twg los pheej ua txuj hais tias yog nyob kom me nyuam muaj chaw, qhov tiag nej ntshawd kom muaj lub chaw xaus rau thaum nej muaj 100 nees nkauv xyoo xwb, dhuas txiv neej txoj kev thuam poj nrauj dhau. Txawm yog zoo li no txiv neej thiaj saib tsis tau peb poj niam hmoob. Coj li neeg nyob teb chaws vam meej txoj kev sib hlub ua niam txiv thiab es tej txiv neej hmoob no thiaj yuav hwm poj niam hmoob me ntsis thiab. Nyias lub neej, nyias thiaj paub txiav txim xwb seb yus xum yuav qhov twg thiaj yog qhov zoo. Tus viv ncaus nrog koj tu siab tab sis koj tsis toob kam koj tus txiv lawm, nws ua tsis tau koj lub kua muag poob, qhov no zoo kawg koj ua tau lub siab los thaiv koj lawm tab sis koj xum ua tus swb. Khuv xim tias koj ua tsis taus ib tug niam tsev khov sim tshaj qhov no. Koj yog tus tsis kam tawm ntawm koj tus txiv lub neej, koj cov me nyuam twb tsis toob kam koj niag txiv xuab ntawm kod, tsuas yog koj xav ua nws dab qhuas xwb koj thiaj nyob tau qhov chaw no. Neeg zoo tsis thooj neeg
Your husband is the perfect example of a txiv dev thawj thiab!!! Lol. What a sore loser and useless person. He can blame you for everything bc it's easier to point the finger at you. Good for you for not taking his crap and doing your own thing. Continue taking care of yourself and just let him rot however he wants .
Haub yau! Nej tej neej os! Koj twb tos tos tos TOS txog 50 lub xyoo TABSIS thaum nws qwv qau rov Los no ces koj hos hias tias koj tsis tos nws lawm thiab no? WTF? Koj nyob rau menyuam li cas no? Koj nyob rau chaw tuag no? Ntuj os ntuj! Tsis muaj niag txiv dev lawm los koj yeej tseem tuag tau, Koj yeej tseem tus menyuam li niaj hnub los sav? Smfh.
What's the purpose of your story? It's horrible, but you allowed this to happen. If you really don't need or want him, then divorce him. So you will not end up taking care of him in his old age.
Pog no ntshe boring heev es 2 niag txiv thiaj puav leej khiav pog mus caum maum tshiab tib si lawm. One downfall of hmoob women, as soon as they caught a man and married, they switched mode to be this boring woman, not the one that man dated. Second downfall is, they never communicate, plan, and agreed together on a marriage lifestyle and family style before marrying. They ran head over heels to marry him then wing it. Not every man wants to be committed to a woman, and then add a bunch of kids. Some men just eant girls for the fun and excitement the moment the girls are still not themselves and do everything to please him; no responsibility; just mooches and sex. But girls don’t n the other hand get married without knowing the dudes and then assume they are committed to family and responsibilities, which’s why many men run after a few years. Because all that are not what they signed up for.
Tus sister koj hais tias koj twb tsis tos los lawm ntev tab sis koj zaj neej neeg no kuv mloog koj yeej tseem nyob ntsoov tos. Koj hais tias koj lam nyob rau cov me nyuam tab sis me nyuam los nws twb tsis pab koj. Koj quas koj me nyuam choob. Es yog li ntawv koj nyob ua dab tsi? Vaj tsev koj twb txawj kho koj, ua cas neej koj ho tsis mus ua. Koj hais tias koj xav kom koj lub neej tom ntej zoo es yog ua li cas nws thiaj li yuav zoo tau yog koj nyob koj qhov chaw qub. To get something better you have to move from where you are. The change begin with you. You can’t expect things to change when you’re standing still in the same place. You said koj ntsaw txoj kev tuag...why? You have your children; your husband doesn’t want anything to do with you, what makes you think that he will be there to bury you when you die? I want to encourage our Hmong sisters, if you know your worth; please don’t settle for less and don’t waste your time. You said “no good Men left” That’s not true. There are plenty good men but you can’t see them because you chose to keep your eyes closed. You’re not being a good role model to your kids. I’m sorry that they have to witness and experienced this unhealthy relationship with you.
Zaj no xeeb txob dhau. Just tell us what happened. We don't want to know why you do this or that. We don't want to hear your excuses for why you can't leave your husband. You have too many excuses. It's as if you're trying to justify your actions to get sympathy. You won't get any sympathy from me cuz you made your own choices. Tsi nrauj thaum hluas. Tamsim no laus lawm ces kawg ua niam loj. Tabsis xyov puas tau ua niam loj thiab. Thaum koj tug txiv yuav niam yau ces niam yau yuav kom koj tug txiv muab koj nrauj niam yau mam li yuav koj tug txiv ces koj tsi xav nrauj los koj tug txiv yuav muab koj nrauj.
SO PROUD OF YOU! YOU ARE A WONDERFUL WOMAN AND MOTHER. YOU ARE SO BRAVE. HE IS NOTHING WITHOUT YOU ❤
Tuaj saib koj lawm o
Yim poob nthab yim paub tab. Yim poob tsev yim txawj ntse. Koj thiaj yuav yeej txhua yam mog tus niam tsev.
Hmoob aw peb tsim peb cov niam tsev dhau lawm nawb thov pab hlub peb voc poj niam hmoob thiab mog nej leej twg pom lwm yam poj niam es uv thiab nyob tos tus txiv tshaj li 1 xyoo ? Tsis muaj li nawb tsuas pom poj niam hmoob thiaj li ua tau rau txiv neej hmoob xwb thov tso tej no tseg es yuav tau lawm yuav tsum hlub hais lus kom zoo rau ua kom poj niam muaj kev zoo siab vim nws Los yuav yus lawm nws yeej tso nws tsij sia rau yus lawm yus lis tib yam yeej nyiam nws lawm thiaj li yuav yuav tau thov hlub mog kuv saib mas peb txiv neej hmoob coj tsis tau zoo li nawb txoj kev cim suab mob siab tu siab ntshaw lub neej zoo feem coob tej yam no raug rau peb cov poj niam hmoob xwb xav kom peb hloov hlub oeb cov poj niam hmoob thiab vim poj niam hmoob yeej yog cov thib 1 nawb
Ntuj os lawv....lub neej thaum laus mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os....cov tseem hluas ces tsis nkag siab...
Niam ntsuab teev zoo li txoj no twb hai tag lawm na
God bless us Hmong women! We need it more than ever! Learn to love yourself more and don’t settle for less.
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koj tham tau zoo kawg thov pab Kuv thiab os phooj
You are great mother
Mi niam tsev txiv neej ces yeej tsis muaj tus Zoo li, 50 Xyoo lawm CES Hlub koj tus kheej xwb yus txoj sia thiaj muaj nuj nqi xwb os mog🙅
Yog mas yom
Tsis yog na kuv paub hais tias yog nws xaiv tus zoo nraug heev li ne
Tus me niam tsev aws koj zaj neej neeg hais tau meem txom kawg nkaus li tab si kav liam maj ua siab ntev uv kom tag tiam no es lwm tiam mam mus thov daim ntawv zoo los ua neej thiaj tsi txom nyem os mog
Great story, you are right sister 👍🏼👍🏼
May, you are so pretty!
Woman don’t need men these days!! Only some of us still love n respect and grateful for our wife
Our Hmong sisters needs to get that “no place to die” out of their heads. This is America. Tuag lawm tsis paub tsis pom tsis hnov lawm, pheej txhawj txog qhov chaws tuag es ho tsis txhawj txog yus txoj kev mob es Hlub yus tus kheej. Teb chaws no leej twg los kawg tuag rau lub hospital xwb os.
I rather be by myself than be with a jerk. Why do you need a place to die, go to church. Please my Hmong sisters love yourself. Leave why torment yourself, be strong. What kind of examples are you giving your daughters. Hmong women need to change!
Love this picture May!!
Tsam no laus ces yuav los rau koj nqa quav nqa zis xwb mas yeej meem tsim thaum laus ntag nawb!!
Tsis txob nyob rau me nyuam thiab o. Lub teb chaws mekas no, me nyuam loj tag lawd mus lawd lawm. Thaum kawg ces yus muaj yus xwb.
Txiv Neej hmoob ntshe tsis muaj tus zoo li lawm o lawv e
Niam lau aw koj niag txiv dev ntawv ce nw tseem tshuav ib qho nyuag hmoov zoo thiab es thiaj tau koj os lo ca tseem tsi hlub koj thiab
Roux ep IC epic work 👌
Koj yeej hais yog thiab mas. Yog tseem yuav mus Tom ntej ces ub taus ces uv tsis yog uv rau nws uv rau minyuam los yeej yog thiab os
You making a good decision you would do the same brave woman
No drama no neej neeg keep it up people.
Ua cas yuav ntshaw lub niag chaw tuag ua luaj na tus viv ncaus ruam aw. Tuag ces twb tsis hnov lawm. Txawm lawv yuav muab pov rau dej tshoob, los muab txiav ua tej ua tej ya faus xwb los koj twb tsis hnov lawm. Cas tsis hlub koj tus kheej li os
Peb hmoob tseem ruam heev !!!!! Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, sawv daws tseem ntshaw lub ntees tuag kawg li, tsiq nco qab tias luag cov neeg vam meej li mes kas, fab kis luag tsuas yog xav tau ib lub chaw zoo( faus kom muaj ntxa xwb) luag tsis yuav ua kab ke 3 hnub ,3 hmos li hmoob .
Hais yog tshaj li os 👍❤️
Yus kav tsij nrhiav kev kaj siab rau yus tus kheej xwb. Txhob tu siab thiab rau txim rau leej twg. Zoo siab tias koj twb tau nws thaum hluas lawm. Over 50 years, tsis txog twg lawm.
Uacas peb cov vivncaus Hmoob pheej yuav tau los theej cov txivneej no lub txhoj? why are men so selfish? Does this world has anyone have true love like our God?
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Very good decision sister..congrats for being enough
Strong to not waiting for a man...
You hear a lot of people say "leave him. Have self love." And then when you actually divorce its like.. "omg she's been divorced 2 times! There's probably something wrong with her" you know just the usual hmong people gossip. This is such a sad story. I wish she was able to leave him but going through a divorce the 2nd time alone again with more kids, it would be difficult to find someone who is willing to truly love you and the children you have from 2 different baby daddies. Txoj hmoov phem tiag tiag.
The legend been said, if you divorced, want a good life, find the one who is matching you. Remember hmong is not white and black or other yellow skin. I support you thought.
Cas koj tsis tso zaj music thaum koj pib hais koj cov neej neeg lawm os. I love the music from the beginning ❤
What a depressing story.
I would leave, I rather be alone and not have that bastard come and go as he please.
Why not stay the first time lol
@@ChewyVangPYSH because she was hoping to find a better husband then the 1st one but unfortunately she didn't and feels hopeless so now she's settled.
Viv ncaus aws koj twb nrauj tsi tau koj tus txiv es cas koj pheej ho tias koj tsi to nws mas kon dag koj tus kheej xwb ho yog tsi to ces koj yeej kiav nws lawm tsi txob musb dag tias tsuav me nyuam ho
I love 💗 your picture 📷 😍. This outfit suits you well . Beautiful!
A relationship between a single person and once divorced person is very hard. We all say as long as they love each other or as long as we love each other but......... there are things that will hunt you just like it's hunting this guy.
It goes for both sex, not just male or female. It really takes a person with a BIG HEART to accept their past.
Life changes around cycle...releationship. ..let him cheap...
There are financial, daycare and etc resources for single parents so stop making excuses to stay in a unhealthy marriage.
It took you a while to see that he wasn't worth it. The wait is not worth it for someone who doesn't love you. Life's too short to waste on someone who can't reciprocate your love in return. People do not change easily, unless they want to help themselves for the better. I've seen a lot of Hmong women in your position, staying in abusive and/or cheating relationships (with Hmong men and non-Hmong man alike). To these type of Hmong women out there, please love yourself, take care of your health, pick up hobbies, and make new friends. Most importantly, you HAVE to keep an open mind when it comes to your dating pool. Just because someone is good looking, ugly with money, or you meet someone who wants to worship the soil you walked on, it doesn't mean that you need to settle with them bc they want something with you. Go on a lot of dates and get to know the person better before committing with them in the long run
Thats my ways of thinking too. We need to keep the pool of men wider n not exclusively to Hmong men.
There are plenty of bad non-Hmong men out there like bad Hmong men. Ppl just got to consider the red flags vs. ignoring it.
You strong woman good for you 👍 let him go call the cop 👮♂️
niam ntsuab teev leej twg tseem yuav xav mloog cov neej neeg qub thiab naj es koj tseem niaj zaum hai kom mu mloog hauv saib lom zem tej ntawd ce mloog 1 zaug xwb ce txau lawm os .
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This woman is so indecisive, I can’t with her. Smh.
You loved him to the point where you can’t divorced him and blames that your kids are the reason. Open the door for him when he have no ways to go. Of course he’ll treats you the way he treated you. Can’t help you sister if you do what you not supposed to do.
Ahhh always the needing a place to die excuse because that's all it really is an excuse 🙄.
I say the same. Excuses excuses.
I agree...place to die omg! When u die, u die. There are so many funeral homes in America.
Idk 🤷🏻♀️ but I thought when we all die, we all go to the same place lol 😂 on a real note, why do people got to to be bury by their husband to feel better! Come on, you’re dead, you ain’t know shit anymore.
Tus txiv neej ntawv nws lam yuav koj kom tau chaw nyob thiab chaw tso pa xwb os
Something is really wrong with our hmoob women...I’m one too.
Don't wait, still have someone, who is around you, needs to offer you more powerful and you will forget that small junk 😉!
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
You said u don't wait for his love anymore, but yet u are still married to him, treat him like a king, refused to divorce him, and still opens the door for him. So....what's the point???
She still does. She just doesn’t want to admit it because it makes her feel better in her position. There’s no point to stories like this. It’s either you leave or stay... she chose to stay and endure his bs.
She's indenial about what's really going on...lol
Please
Omg!! Why are some women so desperate for a man??? Stop wasting your time on these cheaters/losers. With or without him, you're still a mother to your children and lady of your castle. Why are you promting/permitting cheating to your children? Know your worth and move on your life. I don't understand why some ladies would waste their time tolerating these cheaters. Stop wasting time living your life for your day to died.
Wow...so many excuses. For me...the minute when he cheated. He's gone for good. This is the reason why so many men are a cheater. Us women need to take a control of our lives and stop blaming on the kids or our parents. Take control of your own life. It's not for you to please anyone else's life, but your life. Do what make you happy and is best for you and not for anyone else, but you?
It happens because you allow it to happen.
Tsis muaj txiv ces mus church thiaj muaj lub chaw tuag yog ntshai qhov no. Save money for your funeral.
Sister cas koj yuav muaj siab zov tej neeg siab phem ntawm ko naj Tsi tas kk tus neeg zoo li ntawm tu nws rau yav laus naj koj ruam los ntse, niag txiv siab phem li ko thiaj Tsi muaj kab ntes qi txog ntag lauj
Ntuj aws koj mam raum thiaj luag twb tsis hlub yus es tseem pheej nyob tsis yuav txiv los yus nyob yus lod mas. Ces koj nim yuav tshaw nws ua luag li o koj mam thiab yog tseem tseem npam no tsis hlub yus tus kheev li o.
I don't understand these women. You said you can do everything on your own yet you can't let him go. What's the point of keep someone like this around? She said lub neej yog nws lub and it's not her husband's neej? Why do these women like keeping losers around? Who is going to be the lady that's going to be brave enough to elevate and live on her own and for her kids 😞😞. So frustrated!!
KOJ TUS QUB TXIV KO LUB SIAB KUJ TXAWJ DUB KAWG LAIV YOM, HOS KOJ TUS TXIV TSHIAB KO LOS KUJ TXAWJ PHEM KAWG THIAB KOJ KUJ MADE THE RIGHT DECISION KAWG LI
Must b an aldutery desease among hmong husband
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Not all men are the same. There are many better out there. Tus txiv kos ces khib nyiab xwb os
There’s so many of these stories. Can someone send May other stories that’s different?
Can’t u send urs?
I would if I had a good one. My life is boring as heck. Why do you think I come here to listen. lol
That’s why I’m saving everyone’s time and telling everyone it’s boring! These stories are always about divorce people, cheating, scandals, etc.. where are the real heart warming ones!
@@ChristyX87 I agree but the heartwarming ones triggers the bitter Hmong women to come out, calling every single loving love story fake bc they couldn’t have it themselves and need to project their own insecurities on others.
Tus viv ncaus koj ruam los ntse koj twb nyob taus ib leeg es koj pheej yuav nws ab TSI. Koj nyob taus tsis toob kam tus txiv neej no. Koj ntshai txoj kev tuag tsis muaj chaw xaus no. Koj puas paub tias peb ua neeg nyob, kawg yuav taug ib txog kev xwb es koj yuav nyob nrog tus txiv neej no ua dab tsi. Tuag los, muab hlawv tsuag 2 xwb. Vim nej cov poj niam hmoob pheej nrhiav txoj kev thaum yuav tuag kom tau chaw xaus es yog vim li cas. Tuag es twb nyob teb chaws vam meej es ntshai dab tsi. Tos nej cov poj niam hmoob pheej nyuaj siab thiab muaj kev lwj siab los zoo li tus viv ncaus no zaj dab neeg. Yog koj nyob rau koj tej me nyuam no tseem pub koj niag txiv ua me cab ntawv los tsev dab tsi. Poj niam hmoob thov kom nej ntse me ntsis thiab txiv neej hmoob thiaj tsis txawj tsim peb cov poj hmoob maj. Cas tus twg los pheej ua txuj hais tias yog nyob kom me nyuam muaj chaw, qhov tiag nej ntshawd kom muaj lub chaw xaus rau thaum nej muaj 100 nees nkauv xyoo xwb, dhuas txiv neej txoj kev thuam poj nrauj dhau. Txawm yog zoo li no txiv neej thiaj saib tsis tau peb poj niam hmoob. Coj li neeg nyob teb chaws vam meej txoj kev sib hlub ua niam txiv thiab es tej txiv neej hmoob no thiaj yuav hwm poj niam hmoob me ntsis thiab. Nyias lub neej, nyias thiaj paub txiav txim xwb seb yus xum yuav qhov twg thiaj yog qhov zoo. Tus viv ncaus nrog koj tu siab tab sis koj tsis toob kam koj tus txiv lawm, nws ua tsis tau koj lub kua muag poob, qhov no zoo kawg koj ua tau lub siab los thaiv koj lawm tab sis koj xum ua tus swb. Khuv xim tias koj ua tsis taus ib tug niam tsev khov sim tshaj qhov no. Koj yog tus tsis kam tawm ntawm koj tus txiv lub neej, koj cov me nyuam twb tsis toob kam koj niag txiv xuab ntawm kod, tsuas yog koj xav ua nws dab qhuas xwb koj thiaj nyob tau qhov chaw no. Neeg zoo tsis thooj neeg
Your husband is the perfect example of a txiv dev thawj thiab!!! Lol. What a sore loser and useless person. He can blame you for everything bc it's easier to point the finger at you. Good for you for not taking his crap and doing your own thing. Continue taking care of yourself and just let him rot however he wants .
Nothing interesting here. Just a lot of rambling. Such a waste of time listening almost to the end.
NEXT!
Haub yau! Nej tej neej os! Koj twb tos tos tos TOS txog 50 lub xyoo TABSIS thaum nws qwv qau rov Los no ces koj hos hias tias koj tsis tos nws lawm thiab no? WTF? Koj nyob rau menyuam li cas no? Koj nyob rau chaw tuag no? Ntuj os ntuj! Tsis muaj niag txiv dev lawm los koj yeej tseem tuag tau, Koj yeej tseem tus menyuam li niaj hnub los sav? Smfh.
What's the purpose of your story? It's horrible, but you allowed this to happen. If you really don't need or want him, then divorce him. So you will not end up taking care of him in his old age.
Pog no ntshe boring heev es 2 niag txiv thiaj puav leej khiav pog mus caum maum tshiab tib si lawm.
One downfall of hmoob women, as soon as they caught a man and married, they switched mode to be this boring woman, not the one that man dated.
Second downfall is, they never communicate, plan, and agreed together on a marriage lifestyle and family style before marrying. They ran head over heels to marry him then wing it. Not every man wants to be committed to a woman, and then add a bunch of kids. Some men just eant girls for the fun and excitement the moment the girls are still not themselves and do everything to please him; no responsibility; just mooches and sex. But girls don’t n the other hand get married without knowing the dudes and then assume they are committed to family and responsibilities, which’s why many men run after a few years. Because all that are not what they signed up for.
you're a strong single mom. get a divorce
This one is so boring!!!! Saving everyone time.. if you are reading, don’t listen..
SMH
Pheej yuav ntshaw txiv ua dab tsi na tej niag txiv no co tsis ntshaw li os.
Tus sister koj hais tias koj twb tsis tos los lawm ntev tab sis koj zaj neej neeg no kuv mloog koj yeej tseem nyob ntsoov tos. Koj hais tias koj lam nyob rau cov me nyuam tab sis me nyuam los nws twb tsis pab koj. Koj quas koj me nyuam choob. Es yog li ntawv koj nyob ua dab tsi? Vaj tsev koj twb txawj kho koj, ua cas neej koj ho tsis mus ua. Koj hais tias koj xav kom koj lub neej tom ntej zoo es yog ua li cas nws thiaj li yuav zoo tau yog koj nyob koj qhov chaw qub. To get something better you have to move from where you are. The change begin with you. You can’t expect things to change when you’re standing still in the same place. You said koj ntsaw txoj kev tuag...why? You have your children; your husband doesn’t want anything to do with you, what makes you think that he will be there to bury you when you die? I want to encourage our Hmong sisters, if you know your worth; please don’t settle for less and don’t waste your time. You said “no good Men left” That’s not true. There are plenty good men but you can’t see them because you chose to keep your eyes closed. You’re not being a good role model to your kids. I’m sorry that they have to witness and experienced this unhealthy relationship with you.
Why all the og hmong always said uv do they have brain
May this story is boring
Another hmong man liar who little head got the best of him. Another hmong woman got played and broken heart!
Zaj no xeeb txob dhau. Just tell us what happened. We don't want to know why you do this or that. We don't want to hear your excuses for why you can't leave your husband. You have too many excuses. It's as if you're trying to justify your actions to get sympathy. You won't get any sympathy from me cuz you made your own choices. Tsi nrauj thaum hluas. Tamsim no laus lawm ces kawg ua niam loj. Tabsis xyov puas tau ua niam loj thiab. Thaum koj tug txiv yuav niam yau ces niam yau yuav kom koj tug txiv muab koj nrauj niam yau mam li yuav koj tug txiv ces koj tsi xav nrauj los koj tug txiv yuav muab koj nrauj.