I am having issues with my spouse in a similar way. His thing is work. He is wonderful giving himself to others, but he doesn't leave any part of him at the end of the day, day after day. i am trying to be always occupied but at some point of the day i need to see him, hear him, be touched and feel i have a support even if it is standing there next to me and watching what im doing.
I am thankful this popped up on my newsfeed. My husband has been complaining about his place in my life, but this helped me to understand. Thank you for what you do 😊
1. Sacrifices. 2. Time consistent. God first, spouse, then work, and last leisure 3. Meeting needs in accordance to his/her love language 4. Attitude. I want to be with him/her.
We also give God the first/the best of all what comes to our hands by Tithing, so this is a great priority also, for the 90% we stay with will totally be blessed and we won't use it on what Is not of blessing for us, because the remainder is already blessed, meaning then that God is indeed in first place for us, for He who gave us the breath of life, the strength, wisdom and blessing to recieve what already belongs to Him anyways but, it's not about money or seeing it as money it's about - fidelity and gratitude to our God the Creator of ALL things. Happy day to you all! ✨
When you left me to go out with them. They more important as a couple and we a broken couple. You invited me to be with you all. I was left behind. I had not done or earned you respect it love.
If my wife tells me she loves me and wants to be with me, but she sleeps with her dogs when I told her before marriage neither dogs nor children sleep on the marriage bed, and tells me to sleep on the couch if I don't want to sleep with the dogs, then she doesn't care about me, and is prioritizing her dogs over her husband. Sin.
He didn't totally give it up. He put them down because realized what she'd was missing and I think its partially the point. He realized what he was missing and set them down because he wanted to show her. He didn't have to, he wanted to. She didnt say he had to either. But he had to make up all three time he took too! But he started golfing again since.
Karen sounds pretty unreasonable and over demanding...she needs to repent and Jimmie Evans needs to stop teaching men to be weak. Go golf bro and invite her with you. Make it a date. Win win. Or find something she likes and do the same. But men being subject to a woman’s fleshly demands is not Godly. Nor is golfing when you are a pastor to the point it causes problems in your marriage.
Yes, Evans teaches men to be subject to the feelings of women, just for the sake of marriage. He once said that to avoid problems, since he trusts his wife, he gives her the TV controller. And that's neither trust, nor avoiding problems. That's called "appeasing", and that's B.S. Sad.
I love how he teaches from a personal perspective. Makes it more relatable.
I am having issues with my spouse in a similar way. His thing is work. He is wonderful giving himself to others, but he doesn't leave any part of him at the end of the day, day after day. i am trying to be always occupied but at some point of the day i need to see him, hear him, be touched and feel i have a support even if it is standing there next to me and watching what im doing.
Not spouse. Husband.
Not spouse. Wife.
I am thankful this popped up on my newsfeed. My husband has been complaining about his place in my life, but this helped me to understand. Thank you for what you do 😊
1. Sacrifices.
2. Time consistent. God first, spouse, then work, and last leisure
3. Meeting needs in accordance to his/her love language
4. Attitude. I want to be with him/her.
EXACTLY!
In what place are the dogs?
This is SO spot on!
👏👍 oh my gosh! Nothin like stating "mean what you say, say what you mean" actions show louder than words. Nice!
Helped me. Made me feel understood as a husband
Communication is important alot of people don't and actions speak louder than just saying your first
Great message, hope it helps others too.
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We also give God the first/the best of all what comes to our hands by Tithing, so this is a great priority also, for the 90% we stay with will totally be blessed and we won't use it on what Is not of blessing for us, because the remainder is already blessed, meaning then that God is indeed in first place for us, for He who gave us the breath of life, the strength, wisdom and blessing to recieve what already belongs to Him anyways but, it's not about money or seeing it as money it's about - fidelity and gratitude to our God the Creator of ALL things. Happy day to you all! ✨
I totally love and agreewith this video, Thank You!
Thank you
This is very true!
Good Word 🙌🏾💋
Wow....🔑🔓⏰🎯!! Yes 💓👏
Sacrifice, time, energy, and attitude.
I understand
Wow very helpful.im blessed
I agree with what he's teaching except the Bible says the Sabbath is the seventh day of the week not the first day of the week.
When you left me to go out with them. They more important as a couple and we a broken couple. You invited me to be with you all. I was left behind. I had not done or earned you respect it love.
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The Sabbath is the 7th day ..
I’m guilty ! I spend all time on at work.
Don't be a work alcoholic
I agree with this, but the first day of the week is not the Sabbath…the Bible clearly says it’s the Seventh day of the week☺️🙏🏼
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If my wife tells me she loves me and wants to be with me, but she sleeps with her dogs when I told her before marriage neither dogs nor children sleep on the marriage bed, and tells me to sleep on the couch if I don't want to sleep with the dogs, then she doesn't care about me, and is prioritizing her dogs over her husband. Sin.
God, spouse then children? Or what are your priorities. I need something to ENJOY. Adam enjoyed Eve until the FALL.
I agree what he said but I don't believe he had to stop to play golf because that's something he loves all he needs to do if make up that time
stephanie Perez - he once told he eventually play golf again after the “repairing “ period of some years. But always keeping in mind the priorities
But when it becomes more important than your wife it's a problem . Hecould compromise and go every other week
He didn't totally give it up. He put them down because realized what she'd was missing and I think its partially the point. He realized what he was missing and set them down because he wanted to show her. He didn't have to, he wanted to. She didnt say he had to either. But he had to make up all three time he took too! But he started golfing again since.
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Karen sounds pretty unreasonable and over demanding...she needs to repent and Jimmie Evans needs to stop teaching men to be weak. Go golf bro and invite her with you. Make it a date. Win win. Or find something she likes and do the same. But men being subject to a woman’s fleshly demands is not Godly. Nor is golfing when you are a pastor to the point it causes problems in your marriage.
Yes, Evans teaches men to be subject to the feelings of women, just for the sake of marriage. He once said that to avoid problems, since he trusts his wife, he gives her the TV controller. And that's neither trust, nor avoiding problems. That's called "appeasing", and that's B.S. Sad.