Necessary Attitudes in Recovery - Part 8/9 - Trust

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  • @jackierios2723
    @jackierios2723 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    How is this guy not more popular? He is genuine and has showed me what psychiatrist, psychologist, rehabs , and now this guy WOW what a gift!!

    • @LisaJPlaylist
      @LisaJPlaylist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Its so hard to look at yourself... ❤

    • @robertmyerson8024
      @robertmyerson8024 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think he's pretty awesome too... I'll help get the word out that tim's a hip cat..

    • @robertafierro5592
      @robertafierro5592 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's probably the HARDEST thing you'll ever do. It's hard to step.out of yourself and be unbiased

    • @cosmicsweeper709
      @cosmicsweeper709 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed. Id love to hear his story, how he came to be doing this, I’ve studied trauma with the greats, learned from my own experience and he is so ccherent and structured and practical

    • @Ali76564
      @Ali76564 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not everyone wants to come out of denial

  • @WapBamboo
    @WapBamboo ปีที่แล้ว +44

    These lessons all deserve a much larger audience. So much of what he says is a dead ringer of relatability. Listening makes me feel safe.

    • @Lallyintimeout
      @Lallyintimeout ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well said

    • @RobertaFierro-mc1ub
      @RobertaFierro-mc1ub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe its a good thing for all of us that things are just the way they're supposed to be. In you g to try to enjoy the moment,but you are 100% Correct. Tim Fletcher is the BEST thing on You Tube right now. He is a breath of fresh air and finally acknowledges how painful and burdensome life can be. Complex Trauma is finally out in the open and it is very REAL!

  • @annal.2324
    @annal.2324 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Let's give likes under his lectures!

  • @TheGiantRobot
    @TheGiantRobot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I clicked on this expecting nothing, but the lesson of about not trusting in trust but trusting in God is profound.

  • @deedeelowe7846
    @deedeelowe7846 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Want to extend my gratitude to all your videos. So healing and comforting to have clarity where confusion stayed with me for far too 35:45 long. May God bless your good works hundredth fold. Stay fearless y’all. Much love 💕

  • @yourenough3
    @yourenough3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So relatable. Carrying shame is so exhausting ( mentally ). Thanks for these videos.

  • @CMoore8539
    @CMoore8539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent Teaching Video!!!♥️

  • @youtubedespiser
    @youtubedespiser หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredibly competent man, first of all. Applause again from me. I think I sometimes misunderstand the target audience though, I do not have a drinking problem etc and sometimes it seems like that is who he is talking to? I come from more of the Complex Trauma side of things.

  • @sashaleeds
    @sashaleeds 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thankyou for these teachings ❤ blessings to u brother 🙏

  • @SteveIglesias
    @SteveIglesias 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THESE VIDEOS ARE EXTREMELY GOOD THE BEST

  • @peripherialvision3287
    @peripherialvision3287 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessed to have this validation 🙏

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Trust is earned...

  • @annastone5624
    @annastone5624 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish there was an advisory on videos, that are going to be giving examples of people who have been abusive to others, within the same framework as non-abusive people.
    It messes with my head, I don't want to be involved in their healing journey, I've been dragged into it all my life.. ie this person who has 'lied their face off'. (who is abusive with a chronically poor character..)
    I find it really difficult when I'm listening to videos looking for answers for me, and suddenly the example is of a character-type that has abused me.

  • @Crazydoglady.
    @Crazydoglady. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BRAVO!! 👏👏👏👏👍

  • @lifeisbeautiful7047
    @lifeisbeautiful7047 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Thank you Thank you

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    FOR ONCE!! Someone SAYS how Shame and CPTSD "IS!!" Thank You!

  • @GillianWard-h5r
    @GillianWard-h5r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dr Brene Browns definition of trust
    Boundaries
    Reliability
    Accountability
    Vault
    Integrity
    Non-judgement
    Generosity in assumptions
    I started using this measuring stick to evaluate relationships
    Then decide how close to allow the person
    I dont think its smart to trust blindly
    The other needs to be trustworthy
    We need to be selective who we allow close to us

  • @grandiesgarden175
    @grandiesgarden175 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks❤

  • @baileygregg6567
    @baileygregg6567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Too bad being ahead of the curve I couldn't talk to my younger mate about this.

  • @BipolarMad
    @BipolarMad 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    H I'm not giving up 😢❤

  • @AWalkingHat
    @AWalkingHat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thought this conference would help me find ways to trust again after complex trauma, but instead it teaches the abused how to earn people's trust? Assuming all abused people are now abusers in their own way and are not reliable?

    • @albatroce2324
      @albatroce2324 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah the conference is targeted to addicts

    • @Okeezy-v7g
      @Okeezy-v7g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's part 8 of 9. Maybe you want to watch all 7 before this one.

  • @nealwailing3870
    @nealwailing3870 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God needs to hold back on the sdvice for Israel

  • @ijeajiere537
    @ijeajiere537 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel SEEENNNNNNN

  • @silviaconjar1184
    @silviaconjar1184 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    13 k views 😂 almost none liked of that sick part of society. Perfectly described world... And algorithm... 😂 😂 😂 However amazing lessons great thank you thank you thank you 500K times ❤

  • @RonnySuzy
    @RonnySuzy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @cosmosapiens9
    @cosmosapiens9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is his name, please? TIA!

    • @TimFletcher
      @TimFletcher  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ivy Tim Fletcher
      tim@findingfreedom.ca

    • @cosmosapiens9
      @cosmosapiens9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FindingFreedomMedia thank you! 🥇

  • @Cameron-qm6yp
    @Cameron-qm6yp ปีที่แล้ว

    They check your eyes haha.

  • @staciehulm4595
    @staciehulm4595 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The only one you can really trust is God. If I trust anyone less than that, I do it with reservation.

  • @KourtneyRichardson-s6w
    @KourtneyRichardson-s6w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Johnson Richard Brown Ronald Moore Shirley