Realistic Recovery - Part 4/13 - Warning Signs

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ธ.ค. 2018
  • *****
    GET STARTED With a FREE Preview to our 12 Basic Needs Course: bit.ly/3UQcWeq
    Website: bit.ly/3ybk8Jf
    Do You Have Complex Trauma? Take the QUIZ: bit.ly/3QGbzMV
    *****
    Tim speaks about 20 common relapse warning signs.
    Try a FREE Preview of One of Our Online Courses: bit.ly/3UQcWeq
    *****
    Become a Member!
    Access ALL our Courses, Webinars, 1:1 Coaching, Group Coaching & Online Communities: bit.ly/3QIpDWf
    Understand the Development of Complex Trauma in Your Life
    Online Course: 12 Basic Needs
    bit.ly/3UQcWeq
    Discover how Addictions are Formed and Find Healthy Ways to Cope
    Online Course: Addictions + Complex Trauma
    bit.ly/4bbUYsL
    Learn How to Parent Yourself and a Child with Complex Trauma
    Online Course: Parent Bootcamp
    bit.ly/44RpLJ7
    Are You Ready to Begin YOUR Healing Journey? Inquire TODAY: bit.ly/3wE68at
    Ready to Dig Deep and Learn Tools to Recover From the Negative Effects of Complex Trauma?
    Online Course: LIFT Online Learning
    bit.ly/4bwZ26I

ความคิดเห็น • 19

  • @danacairns8559
    @danacairns8559 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tim’s interpretation of the Bible is the most powerful I have experienced. It has really helped open my heart to a higher power in this healing journey. Thank you Tim for the true God’s work you are doing in a world that so desperately needs it.

  • @joelthomastr
    @joelthomastr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    00:00 Intro
    03:29 Triggers
    04:00 1 Sudden
    04:44 2 Stress buildup
    05:33 3 Wrong recipe for happiness
    07:08 From trigger to relapse
    09:48 Warning Signs
    09:55 1 Listlessness
    11:57 2 Restlessness
    14:31 3 Emotions take control
    16:08 4 Avoidance
    18:20 5 Losing discipline
    20:16 6 Obsessions
    20:48 7 Overwhelm
    21:29 8 Irritability
    22:10 9 Critical attitude
    23:06 10 What's the point
    23:25 11 Negative thoughts about self
    24:14 12 Trying to control others
    25:05 13 Self pity
    25:13 14 Dissociation
    26:34 15 Isolation
    27:22 16 Entitlement
    27:50 17 Old behaviors
    29:15 18 Getting away with old behaviors
    29:28 19 Image conscious
    30:53 20 Ideas of controlled relapse
    32:00 Conclusion
    I might have missed it but I don't think we ever saw the slides, so I might not have them exactly right. Still I hope this helps

  • @jessm8631
    @jessm8631 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    These series have been life changing and an awaking I am so thankful for finding it.

  • @davidrochon5873
    @davidrochon5873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have had everyone of those in my life except controlled addiction until I came to Canada and started drinking . Since I was never a drinker before and since I would only drink once a month I thought I had a handle on drinking, then once a week, then just a few after work, and then I would be drunk before I got off the bus on my way home from work. This made a big dent in my pocket, beer and double to 3 times the amount in Ontario compared to Oklahoma. Destroy my family emotionally and financially. Great Dad!

  • @elinorehansson-boe7282
    @elinorehansson-boe7282 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Tim! 🙏You're helping me understand myself more deeply. Iam in trauma treatment for Cptsd .. My therapist isn't as open or well educated as you are so Iam so blessed to have found you're TH-cam channel. 🙏💗

  • @dinelia1881
    @dinelia1881 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a good explanation of triggers. The types of triggers. The rest of the video are warning signs. I need to go over them to see which are my patterns.

  • @amruthasrisale4330
    @amruthasrisale4330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am doing most of the things.

  • @yourenough3
    @yourenough3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Complacency is a BIG issue for me!

  • @bevsofroniuk1193
    @bevsofroniuk1193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankful for 'unique' messengers

  • @legginglovers966
    @legginglovers966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Godsend!

  • @ScoutGrey
    @ScoutGrey ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Tim

  • @wolfkai82
    @wolfkai82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What would a relapse look like for someone who is codependent but not addicted to any actual substances

    • @timmywitty1432
      @timmywitty1432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Control.

    • @Raminakai
      @Raminakai ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Getting depressed
      Anxiety- fear
      Anger
      Resentment
      Isolation
      Being argumentative
      Hostility
      Powerlessness
      Neglecting self care
      Ruminating
      Over -shopping for what fills an emotional void.

  • @mauricasalino
    @mauricasalino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i would like to help you subtitle all these videos in spanish, let me know if you interested

    • @TimFletcher
      @TimFletcher  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We would love to have that done. Send me your email at tim@findingfreedom.ca and we'll discuss it further

    • @jeannieneuser5316
      @jeannieneuser5316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maurizio, you are amazing!! 💖

  • @MasterNinjaXz
    @MasterNinjaXz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Recovery from what? CPTSD? Or addiction?

    • @debrakarr996
      @debrakarr996 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The addiction is from the CPTSD. Treat the CPTSD then the addiction thing should leave as well. Easier then it sounds I know. Addiction is never easy. Maybe the addiction is the CPTSD who knows. I'm working on the insides of me that is my problem. Prayers to us all.