Your father here. I just love you Noah. You come from such beautiful,tender,soft place. That itself is such great teaching. Thank you for teaching us to love ourself no matter what. I am so moved by your Beauty I love you.
I grew up being told how inadequate I was, so that is what I believe. Thank you so much for this! I will listen and work through it until I can believe my own voice.
I don't know what it is but for years I can't cry when I feel sad or access much of my feeling inside myself, today I cried like a baby, I believe something in me has opened up a flow of river in me, I'll keep working on it till I can find my own voice and begin the journey of healing! Thank you Noah !
Cant stop crying as it hits... was kindof burying these thoughts away for some time now as to what if I fail...in achieving my goals and it was troubling me without me knowing it... this was much needed today.. thank you so so much Noah..
I've noticed I stop myself from getting a new job/ going out to places. Because I don't like being around people. Due to feeling shame of actions in my past. The very very few I do open up to about it, I feel very close to and like the I can be the "real" me and encourage them to do the same. I don't judge, I don't care. But feel like a phony when meeting new people. It's like job interviews, I hate you have to basically act and give answers they want to hea rather than giving your own honest answer. Authenticity.
Thanks Noah, you always seem to come along with just what I need to hear when I need to hear it. You have amazing quality’s of connection and insight. Keep up the fantastic work!
Hi Noah, thank you for your genuine care for everyone. So many of your videos I find to be relatable to my journey especially those that focus on anxiety. Fear of failure is something that has caused me trouble for a long time. This video helped me have a better understanding why my brain sometimes freezes when trying a new task. Reflecting on my own experiences, I see clearly how there was nothing wrong with my intellect. My mind and body were just in survival mode and needed comfort. Your videos are so transformative and reminds me that there are so many people out there who truly love unconditionally. You have helped me heal in so many different ways. Thank you and look forward to seeing future videos!
You're so welcome Grant. I often see people perform poorly on tasks believing it's their intellect, when it's really their anxiety hindering the capabilities.
Me too, I freeze and just want to do anything to flee the situation because I feel I will not be able to produce something good enough..though I’m learning to overcome this, awareness brings about change
I'm not looking for recognition from others when I fail I want to remove the vibrations that I carry within myself when I do. I want to be able to not judge or beat myself up or feel stupid when I get things wrong.
i noticed that a lot of my childhood unworthinesses like this one you have talked about are also very closely associated with fear, having grown up with a physically abusive father. but your video on coronavirus anxiety you made awhile back has been really useful for me when it comes to letting go of fear as a general issue
But life is about failing and succeeding I have learned so much from you the creator of this channel, I hope a lot of people have learn from you they might not tell you on your channel at the moment but a lot of us have learnt so much from you. It just happened i have a day off from work today as a nurse you work 24 seven and when you get the time you’re able to put comments on setting videos it doesn’t mean you’re not recognise or people don’t care we live in a world if you don’t work you don’t pay your bills but the peace in life is go go go until one day it stop! be proud of yourself you’ve reached so many people and we’ve learnt a lot from you thank you.
I already know all of this but hearing it come from another person made me tear up man. I think because you are much more comforting with your words than I am, thanks man
I can't stop thinking why I am harsh to myself while if somebody would be in my situation, I'd support the person, cheer them up, encourage, give them my love and help. But to myself? Only hate. I'm so tired of it. Thanks for your video!
I imagine alot of the things we want for ourselves or compulsively seek as life goals are actually someone else's and not inherently ours. Things such as getting married, having children, being of a certain religious belief or sexual orientation or the desire to buy things we don't actually need. These things are not all easily obtained and societal values or parental values are keeping us on a never ending hedonic treadmill and a void that can never be filled. We need to question these urges and as to whether they're ours or someone else's. I believe there's a collective societal and or familial baggage that is weighing us down and it's our job to identify and remove it before it breaks our spiritual back.
Not being loving U say is not a failure but from the Soul teachings it is an error inside the soul not being loving. Shouldn't we work on the errors in our Soul ? What if the desire, sincere longing to be loving to self is influenced by (generational) spirits ? ( U using the terminology " voices" here. NB imaginary friends are not imaginary. as children we are born with this capability but due to fear and lack of understanding of "grown ups" it gets suppressed and neglected so the child shuts it down ) What to do if that longing is suppressed by childhood anger? isn't it logical to work on that childhood issue(s) first? otherwise aren't we just using the mind and by doing so we neglect what is still inside our Soul ? The mind is of the spirit body, soul is all about emotions. What if that voice is my hurt self? my hurt child, if so it is authentic hurt, no? unless it is the voice of a spirit .Majority of us has been raised very unloving by parents, teachers, environment .. saying my parents did the best they could, is sugar coating , is not sincere from the Soul teachings . what to do if we can't take that blaming voice towards ourself out? that voice to me is childhood anger and just visualizing it by e.g. throwing it into fire does not work for me, i understand it must be felt, but i am scared (?) to feel that anger, so what to do about this step ? Letting go is an emotional process not an intellectual one, it seems like everyone is neglecting this, and it shows by the mental facades people starts to live by, and by doing so detune themselves from the real self that is the Soul, and for someone like me , a sensitive one, it is felt without using the mind interpretations and that saddens me to see/feel. It seems like U live from the mind that U managed to have under control very well, still I am interested to hear Ur feelings about the questions i posted here. Thank U Greetings
This is the type of self talk I have been looking for: honest and accepting, without magical thinking that only leads to more heartbreak. I have had parental tapes about my not amounting to anything, nor being able to accomplish anything anything for decades and I believed it and it destroyed my self confidence. Other meditations do not ring true to me because they are meant for younger people. I am in the winter of my years, and have just freed myself from toxic enmeshment by my mother and a lifelong "friend" both of whom I allowed to define me I don't believe in myself despite evidence that I Can and Do manage my own affairs and have a relative degree of success in my life -- not as much as others, but that is another trap. I may not have much time going forward as I do looking backwards, but at least I am beginning to see life for what it is and not what I was told it was.
Your guidance in this video was very helpful to me. Although I have already watched many of your fantastic videos, I finally took the step to subscribe today :) thank you!
Thank you so much Noah, you have helped me so much to recognize why I feel the way I feel, to acknowledge my inner child and to understand her. I've been listening and watching your videos for years, and omg perfect timing on every subject you talk about! Gracias, gracias, gracias! Te mando un fuerte abrazo 🤍
It was amazing Noah, thank you for what you are doing, it really worked! Your voice really helps me to go in a deep state of meditation and unconditional love.
Hey noah thank you for your videos i always look up to you to for healing thank you, would you ever consider making a video about porn addiction and body focused behaviors like nail biting ?
I love u bro, ur videos changed my life. I got broken up recently with someone I knew for 10yrs, she told me to leave, is mocking and insulting me, what shud I do bro?
Can I ask what made you change your management consulting career? I am in a similar path but dread doing that path due to the so call prestige factor...it doesn't last.
@@NoahElkrief Thanks a lot Noah. I will check them. I tried to watch most of your videos. I have also read your book which is a must read for people seeking happiness. Thank you once again for reaching out to me 😍😍
Your father here.
I just love you Noah.
You come from such beautiful,tender,soft place.
That itself is such great teaching.
Thank you for teaching us to love ourself no matter what.
I am so moved by your Beauty
I love you.
:) I love you too
Wow ❤️
Beautiful words to hear from a father. Like father, like Son. 🙏🏼 Blessings to both of you beautiful souls ❤️
Aww :)
I grew up being told how inadequate I was, so that is what I believe. Thank you so much for this! I will listen and work through it until I can believe my own voice.
You're welcome Mareta. Good luck!
I don't know what it is but for years I can't cry when I feel sad or access much of my feeling inside myself, today I cried like a baby, I believe something in me has opened up a flow of river in me, I'll keep working on it till I can find my own voice and begin the journey of healing! Thank you Noah !
Cant stop crying as it hits... was kindof burying these thoughts away for some time now as to what if I fail...in achieving my goals and it was troubling me without me knowing it... this was much needed today.. thank you so so much Noah..
You're so welcome Kinjal
I was crying through this and it hit really deep. Thank you so much for this Noah 🙏
That's nice Kaori. Happy to hear it.
I am crying too
Beautiful and timely. Thank you dear, beautiful soul 🙏🏼❤️
You are the best for me right now. Helpful video
My man Noah with the mindfulness as alwayz
I've noticed I stop myself from getting a new job/ going out to places. Because I don't like being around people. Due to feeling shame of actions in my past.
The very very few I do open up to about it, I feel very close to and like the I can be the "real" me and encourage them to do the same. I don't judge, I don't care.
But feel like a phony when meeting new people. It's like job interviews, I hate you have to basically act and give answers they want to hea rather than giving your own honest answer.
Authenticity.
Thanks Noah, you always seem to come along with just what I need to hear when I need to hear it. You have amazing quality’s of connection and insight. Keep up the fantastic work!
You're so welcome G Taylor :)
Hi Noah, thank you for your genuine care for everyone. So many of your videos I find to be relatable to my journey especially those that focus on anxiety. Fear of failure is something that has caused me trouble for a long time. This video helped me have a better understanding why my brain sometimes freezes when trying a new task. Reflecting on my own experiences, I see clearly how there was nothing wrong with my intellect. My mind and body were just in survival mode and needed comfort. Your videos are so transformative and reminds me that there are so many people out there who truly love unconditionally. You have helped me heal in so many different ways. Thank you and look forward to seeing future videos!
You're so welcome Grant. I often see people perform poorly on tasks believing it's their intellect, when it's really their anxiety hindering the capabilities.
Me too, I freeze and just want to do anything to flee the situation because I feel I will not be able to produce something good enough..though I’m learning to overcome this, awareness brings about change
Thank you for the message. And of course, for existing.. you are a light for people that need it. I appreciate you, Noah.
:) You're so welcome FirstTenor
I needed this right now, the timing could not have been better.. thank you very much!
You're welcome Suraksha
Thank you, Noah. I felt more open to love with this.
:) you're welcome bzr
Great nice voice
thank you for this... i will need to practice and practice this... This was very moving for me to hear.
:) You're welcome Celine
You made this in the perfect time. Thank you.
You're so welcome
I'm not looking for recognition from others when I fail I want to remove the vibrations that I carry within myself when I do. I want to be able to not judge or beat myself up or feel stupid when I get things wrong.
How do I love myself completely no matter what ?
Got fired from my job a few days ago. I needed this.
You'll do good
i noticed that a lot of my childhood unworthinesses like this one you have talked about are also very closely associated with fear, having grown up with a physically abusive father. but your video on coronavirus anxiety you made awhile back has been really useful for me when it comes to letting go of fear as a general issue
I'm glad the corona video was useful for you
All we do is hide away..all we do is chase the day,
All we do is live inside a cage.
Thanks for posting this video. Sincerely.
You're welcome
But life is about failing and succeeding I have learned so much from you the creator of this channel, I hope a lot of people have learn from you they might not tell you on your channel at the moment but a lot of us have learnt so much from you.
It just happened i have a day off from work today as a nurse you work 24 seven and when you get the time you’re able to put comments on setting videos it doesn’t mean you’re not recognise or people don’t care we live in a world if you don’t work you don’t pay your bills but the peace in life is go go go until one day it stop! be proud of yourself you’ve reached so many people and we’ve learnt a lot from you thank you.
I love you Noah.
Thank you for this Video Noah, this helped a lot 🙏
I love your content, keep it up ❤️
I already know all of this but hearing it come from another person made me tear up man. I think because you are much more comforting with your words than I am, thanks man
Here because I made a stupid mistake. Thank you for being there when I need you.
This energizes and inspires me. Thank you🥰🙏
Noah I tried to give it back but I just couldn’t, it’s just apart of who I am.
I can't stop thinking why I am harsh to myself while if somebody would be in my situation, I'd support the person, cheer them up, encourage, give them my love and help. But to myself? Only hate. I'm so tired of it. Thanks for your video!
I imagine alot of the things we want for ourselves or compulsively seek as life goals are actually someone else's and not inherently ours. Things such as getting married, having children, being of a certain religious belief or sexual orientation or the desire to buy things we don't actually need. These things are not all easily obtained and societal values or parental values are keeping us on a never ending hedonic treadmill and a void that can never be filled. We need to question these urges and as to whether they're ours or someone else's. I believe there's a collective societal and or familial baggage that is weighing us down and it's our job to identify and remove it before it breaks our spiritual back.
Definitely
Feel the weight too
So true
This is a difficult message to embrace. But it is a great one.
How do I stop being misanthropic?
tell us that how to make friend bro 🙏🙏🙏
Not being loving U say is not a failure but from the Soul teachings it is an error inside the soul not being loving. Shouldn't we work on the errors in our Soul ?
What if the desire, sincere longing to be loving to self is influenced by (generational) spirits ? ( U using the terminology " voices" here. NB imaginary friends are not imaginary. as children we are born with this capability but due to fear and lack of understanding of "grown ups" it gets suppressed and neglected so the child shuts it down )
What to do if that longing is suppressed by childhood anger? isn't it logical to work on that childhood issue(s) first? otherwise aren't we just using the mind and by doing so we neglect what is still inside our Soul ? The mind is of the spirit body, soul is all about emotions.
What if that voice is my hurt self? my hurt child, if so it is authentic hurt, no? unless it is the voice of a spirit .Majority of us has been raised very unloving by parents, teachers, environment .. saying my parents did the best they could, is sugar coating , is not sincere from the Soul teachings .
what to do if we can't take that blaming voice towards ourself out? that voice to me is childhood anger and just visualizing it by e.g. throwing it into fire does not work for me, i understand it must be felt, but i am scared (?) to feel that anger, so what to do about this step ?
Letting go is an emotional process not an intellectual one, it seems like everyone is neglecting this, and it shows by the mental facades people starts to live by, and by doing so detune themselves from the real self that is the Soul, and for someone like me , a sensitive one, it is felt without using the mind interpretations and that saddens me to see/feel.
It seems like U live from the mind that U managed to have under control very well, still I am interested to hear Ur feelings about the questions i posted here. Thank U
Greetings
Noah Elkrief: LOVING YOURSELF WHEN FAILED is SOO IMPORTANT! THANK YOU, Noah, SO MUCH for this video!
This is the type of self talk I have been looking for: honest and accepting, without magical thinking that only leads to more heartbreak. I have had parental tapes about my not amounting to anything, nor being able to accomplish anything anything for decades and I believed it and it destroyed my self confidence.
Other meditations do not ring true to me because they are meant for younger people.
I am in the winter of my years, and have just freed myself from toxic enmeshment by my mother and a lifelong "friend" both of whom I allowed to define me
I don't believe in myself despite evidence that I Can and Do manage my own affairs and have a relative degree of success in my life -- not as much as others, but that is another trap.
I may not have much time going forward as I do looking backwards, but at least I am beginning to see life for what it is and not what I was told it was.
I am so appreciative that you do these videos. Thank you Noah!
:) You're welcome Willow
this video is everything!!
When we Communicat, we (always) want to be right. Do we ever listening ... ?
🌈
I'm crying so hard watching this and I hope I can be more supportive to myself like I do to others
Thank you, you have the best channel on TH-cam.
You're welcome Meyssoune
I failed in every aspect of my life..and I don't even how I am feeling..just going with flow..
I hear you Madhuri
this is beautiful
Noah, how do I find the moments that started my negative emotions? They seem mostly forgotten.
To tears. Thank you very much, Noah🖤
You're welcome MirkaSli
Wow! I needed to hear this. Thank you so much Noah 🤗
You're so welcome Salma!
Hello Noah
thank you .this video came at the correct time.
Your guidance in this video was very helpful to me. Although I have already watched many of your fantastic videos, I finally took the step to subscribe today :) thank you!
So glad it helped you Rosa!
Thank you very much.can I have your email id
Thank you so much Noah, you have helped me so much to recognize why I feel the way I feel, to acknowledge my inner child and to understand her. I've been listening and watching your videos for years, and omg perfect timing on every subject you talk about! Gracias, gracias, gracias! Te mando un fuerte abrazo 🤍
You're so welcome Edna! That is really nice for me to hear. De nada :)
It was amazing Noah, thank you for what you are doing, it really worked! Your voice really helps me to go in a deep state of meditation and unconditional love.
You're so welcome!
Hey noah thank you for your videos i always look up to you to for healing thank you, would you ever consider making a video about porn addiction and body focused behaviors like nail biting ?
You're welcome Arian. Possibly. I will keep it in mind. Thanks
You speak Truth! Thank You!
You look good Noah.Thanks for the loving words, may God bless you
You're welcome Lulu
Thank You Noah! 🤗❤️I definitely needed to hear this! You look great too!
You're welcome Travis!
thank you for sharing
This is my mom and bullies
I love u bro, ur videos changed my life. I got broken up recently with someone I knew for 10yrs, she told me to leave, is mocking and insulting me, what shud I do bro?
I'm sorry man. I can't say what to do. I wish you well with your situation.
Ok sure, will focus on self love. I don't anyone for my happiness, that's the truth. Keep your videos going bro, appreciate it.
Can I ask what made you change your management consulting career? I am in a similar path but dread doing that path due to the so call prestige factor...it doesn't last.
A lesson to learn ...thank u
You are AMAZING!!
You're great❤️❤️
Is there any way to talk to you? I really feel like dying. From India 🇮🇳
I'm so sorry you feel that way Surya. I only support people 1-on-1 through my sessions. You can find the link on the video.
@@NoahElkrief Thanks a lot Noah. I will check them. I tried to watch most of your videos. I have also read your book which is a must read for people seeking happiness. Thank you once again for reaching out to me 😍😍
Thank you!
Thank you Noah. You've helped me a lot.
You're welcome Jason
Excellent as always, thanks Noah!
You're welcome Jake!
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