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- Welcome to our Weekly Porch Coffee. I spent the last week resting and recovering from illness, and I am so happy to report I am feeling a lot better. So not a lot happened things week but I was able to get out and run errands and pick up some of the sale yarn I was waiting for - so a good week overall. All the time I have spent resting has me ready and excited to get back to work. Thanks for coming and having coffee with me this week!
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She called me a good friend😍 That was absolutely the best part. Thank you for celebrating me friend. It is hard work and I know you know that better than anyone.
Having this family to be a part of and to celebrate my milestones with has been the best benefit I never expected to come out of all of this.
I'm glad you're feeling better and that you were able to make it to the yarn sale. ALSO, the suggestion of playing a video then leaving the house 😂😂😂
Dead. I'm dead.
Said it cause it’s true! Congratulations Jenn! Also yes everyone is encouraged to play my videos to an empty room 😅😂
Congrats Jenn, you have worked hard, well done 👍
Jenn, once again congrats on hitting that milestone and congrats to Claire for hitting 13k!
Congrats Jenn!!!!!! Amazing!!!! 😍😍😍
Congratulations on your milestone
Jenn🎉🎉🎉 I watch and love your channel as well. Thank you for your content!
I love how amazingly kind this community is: it always makes me so happy.
Celebrating each other's successes, helping build each other up, having understanding for each other it's just so great :-)
i agree - i love our community
My daughter started kindercamp last week, and she crushed it! Unfortunately, my son is jealous, I think, and has been lashing out and having meltdowns. It was stressful last week, so I'm hoping this week is better. Congrats, Jenn! Hope you have a good week, Claire and friends! 💞
Hoping for a better week for you and your son 🤞🏼💙. Kindercamp sounds awesome, though. 😎. It’s difficult sometimes having two kids at two different ages and stages of life.
@@ghill8587 thank you, friend, it is!
I hope things go better this week whitney
This has been a headache-y week for me, too. Hope yours go away soon!
thanks i'm not used to this waking up with a headache thing so i'm ready for it to pass
Glad your feeling better 💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💞👊 Take Care
Thanks so much
Good morning. Glad to see you bouncing back! Wrote a massive comment as only a longwinded writer can but appears to have been swallowed. Suffice to say, my week has been emotional. Full of reflection and weepiness today. I know it will get better but right now...not in the best head space. Wanting to shrink away but know I cannot because beautiful little people rely on me. Anyway, enough. Again, glad you are getting better and yay for Jen! Blessings on your week, friend. ❤
Sorry about the swallowed comment, not sure why it does that sometimes!
@@WoodshedTheory No worries. It happens. 😊
It seems like TH-cam especially enjoys swallowing my first comment of the morning! 🤷
I SOOO MUCH ❤ how You support each others channels! That is why it feels being part of this wonderful comunity! (Too emotional guys? Sorry, it´s that time of the month and I AM emotional af. In a way I could cry out of joy if I see something good happening to someone here on YT. It is like it is.)
And Jenn is so funny, one will definitly miss a lot if missing out her channel.
My week: My laptop died, I then nearly too due to nervous breakdown (yep, no actual backup was done...), but now have a very good new one (the keyboard has colourful lights that I can adjust! I so much love this! It is now blue-green seacolours and pink-lilac on the end, makes me happy every time typing like now🤩). Stress and hormons plus weatherchange with hot temperatures and lightnings caused then three days migrane, but now everything is better, I used the energy I got back to clean, to wash clothes (and putting the fan in front of the hanging wet clothes cool temperature down very well 😉) and ordered groceries for the week. Have a lot of unpleasant things to do, but talking about is so annoying I don´t want to. Cat is on lap purring, that´s nice.
Have a wonderful week, Claire and porchies🤗
I have totally been there with the stress over electronics that were not backed up - glad you were able to secure a replacement
@@WoodshedTheory thanks Claire. And I swear to computer-god (aka my programmer-friend who was helping me a lot) to now back-up regulary ✌🏽
Wohooo! Monday, Porch-coffee-time! I sing my own jingle now😂 Tea is here.
i love that you have your own jingle for porch coffee that is amazing
@@WoodshedTheory thanks, it's a thing I like to do. Connected to the ecolalia-thing? Also do this a lot for stimming since ever.
Good morning! Last week felt long to me due to the heat. I think I may buy a window ac unit, even though it doesn't get that hot very often here. I work from home and it was hard to concentrate while melting from the heat. Glad to hear you're feeling better. Congratulations to Jenn!
I bought one of those rolling units for heat waves this Spring. I am too Middle Aged, menopausal, and heat sensitive to survive without something this year!
I was gifted our unit by a friend moving out of town. We usually only use it in August but it does help when it's so hot. I understand it is impossible think during the heat
Glad you're feeling a bit better. And congrats to Jen, that was a fast 10k
thank you! and yes way to go Jenn!
Morning Claire. So glad that you’re feeling better ❤
good morning katie!
I've been walking first thing in the morning every morning and it's helping my energy and mentally so much!!
exercise is so helpful!
Happy to see you fitter
thanks! me too
Hurrah for feeling better! There’s something so great about realizing that you don’t ache anymore. It’s like a new lease on life. At least it is for me! 🎉❤🎉
yes i get what you are saying
I’m so glad that you’re feeling better ,Claire! Being sick sucks! Also, Congrats on 13 k…..that’s great🎉🎉🎉. I went to yet another concert last night( 5 total this month😮)…SO enjoyed it. Hope everyone has a good week!
5 concerts in a month! that sounds like a lot of fun
@@WoodshedTheory it really has been!…still have one more this coming Sunday.
Oh man, I *hate* heatwaves. The advice is often to have cold showers, but I hate cold showers too! 🤪 Hope you're feeling much better soon! 🧡
I go to the library! No house AC!
My No1 hack: washing clothes, hang them on a dryer in my room and place a fan in front of it. It´s like a self-build AC but uses less energy and the air is much better then. If there are no clothes to wash You can also wet a big towel and hang it there (I then place a basket under it to cover the floor). I did because my senior cats showed it was even too hot for them and they loved it. Now I do in summer every time I have to wash anyways. It´s like a chill breaze at a fountain or coast.
thanks for sharing - i also hate cold showers lol
Good morning!
It's been hot but I have a working ac thankfully.
I think Jenn's channel has been up for over a year at least since she has a 1 yr anniversary video somewhere - I found her channel through podcast ep1 actually.
I remember that now that you have pointed it out, thanks!
so glad you're feeling better
thank you i am glad too
Good morning, Clare & company! It’s great to check in today, as I don’t have as much time or energy as I used to (thanks to working). Because I’ve been so out of the loop, how are your kittycats? I remember that you lost one. 😢
I got a mug way back when the count was almost 20, I think. 🤗 I’m thinking of getting more. Glad you’re much better! 🎉
the kitties are doing well! they live a life of leisure sleeping during the day and hunting mice at night
Good morning beautiful!
Good morning!
Good morning! Glad you're feeling better. It is quite the relief when we can get back to routines. I'm in Florida so I've lived through quite a few. Lots of water is how I survive. I'm not sure if my tomato plants are going to survive the summer though. Claire, are you still gardening?
Hi Iris, thank you for asking - I decided to skip gardening this year and focus on other things for the time being.
Oh and I did my first TH-cam live yesterday!
oh fun i hope it went well
@@WoodshedTheory It did!!! Thankyou!
So good to hear you're on the mend. Not much going on here. It's 23C today - that counts as hot for us. Our buildings are designed to trap heat. Other than the largest businesses, air con is unusual. With the cost of electricity what it is, I doubt most ordinary people could afford to run it. Having the blinds drawn is helping keep the house a bit cooler.
that is a great way to keep the house cooler in the summer heat
So glad you’re feeling better! I’ve got one son in camp this week, so my other son and I will have to figure out what to do with ourselves 😅😆. It could be a busy week.
i spent A LOT of time at camp growing up. I hope he has a nice time!
Hope you are feeling better ❤
thank you i am
@@WoodshedTheory And i tested negative today too woohoo!!
Morning, Claire and fellow peeps! 13k! Heck yeah!
HECK YAHHHHH
Hi Claire and crew, have a great week everyone! 💚
Good morning!
Morning Claire! I'm so glad you're feeling better and feeling excited about things again. I am the furthest thing from a yarnie (yarny?) but I'm going to watch a few mins of your video just to experience a completely different special interest :)
Thanks for watching my video even though it isn't your jam - thanks for the support
So glad you are feeling well internet friend 🌷
thanks my friend
Hi I live in Ohio! I am wife and my husband caregivers. Love all you videos! Just found your video!
welcome to the channel
Hi!
hello!
7:41 That´s always "US-funny" to me, as in Germany it is absolutly normal to NOT have any AC in private homes. And in most workplaces/offices also. I think I never worked at a place with one. That´s why we often get a cold in airplanes, as we are not used to it. For maybe four, five (?) years now they sell those portable things, but as electricity is so expensive and we were teached to not use to much due to environmental costs it will probably never get a thing here.
I live in the US and we do not have AC in our house. It was built in 1883, though, and we live in a cooler climate as well. Wisconsin, along the Lake Michigan shores.
@@faeriesmak Yeah, I just read Your post. In europe it seems like it is a normal thing for most houses in the US to have one, even in the north like NY. But now I learn it´s not. Hm. Or is this comment section not presenting the average US-household? Even in old TV-serials in every flat was one build in, I never knew as a kid what these "boxes" outside could be😅 I mean, in areas like Florida or Arizona it totally makes sense, as the european people living there are not made for this heat (dad was latin american, mother north german so I grew up dad and me enjoying the few summer days full of energy outside and mother with a camping table and a chair sitting under the wet clothes in the drying cellar to do her office work like correcting tests of her pupils. Now 48 and put on weight I myself cannot deal with heat so well any more and so do senior cats or now just one senior cat)
@@katzenbekloppt_mf I DO think that it is more common in the US to have AC than other places, especially in newer build homes. I also think that it depends on the area of the US because the climate here varies wildly from place to place. It also tends to be hotter in cities, so I think that having a window AC unit is more common there, especially in New York or LA.
@@faeriesmak Ah, I see.
I hear you, I think we've only have central air in one place that i've lived. It is also so expensive to run the ac
*It's Monday!* 🙌
I had to battle an ant invasion all last week 😫 Vacuuming up ant after ant, flying guys and all 😫 Ants are one of the few bugs I can't handle!
Glad you're feeling better! Thanks for the vid!
oh no! it is getting to be ant season here too - they are a real struggle - have you tried diatomaceous earth? i tried that last year and it did help some.
@@WoodshedTheory Oh good call! Thanks! 😃
🎉So happy you’re feeling better, Claire!
Question: what is the music you use and where can I find it to listen?
It’s something I am constantly singing, whistling, humming.
Thanks for the weekly Porch Coffees and this community.
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Hi there - I use music from a service called epidemic sound - i pay a subscription so I can use their music without worrying about copyright
@@WoodshedTheory Thank you!
Best tip to beat the heat is to get a bandanna/head scarf/baseball cap/hat. Get the hat wet and then wear it on your head while out in the sun. This then evapolates and it will help cool your head, which in turn cools your whole self. :) Hugs from Norway. 🥰🥰
i have seen landscapers do this i have yet to try it
Hey Claire, so nice to see you back almost fighting fit again. Where I am in the UK it's started getting much hotter now, we are expecting anything between 26 -27°C (78.8°F - 80.6°F). We have no air con because it's the UK and we only get heat lots of heat for the best part of 2 months at best and it's taken a while to work up to being hotter than about 22°C for a while where I am (SE UK, south of London). Apparently by the end of the week we will be closer to 30°C (86°F) but I don't think it will last long. I've been out re potting my trees and other plants this morning and putting them all onto trays and we have taken lots of junk to the dump that we have been wanting to get rid of for a while now, still lots to do but we made a start at last. Oh and Rango our little Rankin dragon joined us outside for some natural UV, he was enjoying sunbathing. 😊. Time to make some ice-cream in my machine. Was lovely to join you for porch coffee after a busy morning, thanks Claire. 😊
Homemade icecream sounds amazing!
My husband and I built our son a table for his model train layout. Going to working on that this week. Also getting a new bike shipped to my house and I am so excited to get out riding with my family.
So cool to build a table from scratch - i've never done that
@@WoodshedTheory It was cheaper than buying a table because it is 4'x8' to accommodate the track curves
I'm glad you're feeling better and didn't have to deal with the heatwave.
I just have portable AC units (that sit on the floor and vent through the window)... one for the first floor and one for the 2nd. Not the best, but better than nothing.
😅 Much better than sweating in front of the fan and not sleeping like I did until a couple of years ago.
I hear you, window units can be lifesavers
In the words of Shanice 'I love your smile' in the thumbnail 😊. My week has been fine so far though I've been playing a game called Sekiro and it's been tricky but I'm slowly getting the hang of things.
Cool that you are learning to play a good name!
@@WoodshedTheoryhave you played it before?
Started the day by finally mustering up the will to complete a few autism questionnaires (RAADS-R, Aspie and CAT-Q tests) and every one of them seem to indicate I might be on the spectrum.
Started listening to a few autism youtubers like yourself and I feel like there's so much said on these channels that I can relate to. Going to start investigating what my next steps should be.
Thanks for the chill cozy porch coffee session.
welcome to porch coffee!
Just recently found your channel and Megan's channel and I love the videos! I've had so many Aha! and Oh yeah moments the past week or so you wouldn't believe (ok maybe you might)! Have a beautiful day!
Happy to have you, welcome to the journey
So glad you are feeling better! It is hot here in the UK (well hot for the UK, not by US standards, are 20C) and for an auDHD older lady in her 40s going through the menopause and having autoimmune problems overheating is a huge problem. I have a collection of fans on my bedside table and switching out refridgerated doggie chill mats to sit on or sleep on! Feeling a bit sensory overwhelmed but trying to pack for a lovely 3 days away with my daughter to London on Sun, very excited and slightly panicked!! Have a good week!
have a nice time in London!
We have warmer weather but not super hot. I live in Wisconsin along Lake Michigan, which is a bit of a natural air conditioner if you live near shore, and we do. I have spent a lot of time at the local library when it is very hot. We also do not have central air. Our house was build in 1883, so we are lucky it has heat! 😂 I bought my husband one of those rolling units for Father’s Day this year for those few weeks that we do have that are REALLY miserable. At least we can have a cool bedroom.I am glad to see that you are feeling better. When I had the you know what I was very, very sick for a few months. I think I spent about 2 months in bed and also ended up in the ER at one point. Have a great week everyone!
Oh my goodess😳 I want a fourth vax immeadeatly! Worked at a vaccination center during pandemia and have never had it (yet). And as I am single and very bad dealing with beeing sick I pray I´ll never have.
Happy You survived!
@@katzenbekloppt_mf Thank you! I was not able to be vaccinated due to getting guillain-barré syndrome from a previous Tdap vaccination years back. I am sure that things would have been milder if I HAD been vaccinated. One of the things that they asked on the waivers was if you have ever had guillain-barré syndrome due to vaccines. I had to weigh my risks and the guillain-barré syndrome was several years of extreme pain and weakness. I didn't want to risk having that again. Hopefully now if I get the plague again it will not be as severe.
@@faeriesmak Oh, You don´t have to "proof" to me (or anyone else) that You had a good reason to not be vaccinated, there are some illnesses where it was not known as safe, especially in the beginning. But how bad then get it and suffer so much😣 Even more when people like former president get it after denying science and then get through easily... And I also personally know people who got vax and were very cautious but got it and had to deal with post-c***. Fingers are crossed You never have to go through again or if it will be mild
Yes we also have that kind of AC for the really hot days - I haven't had to roll it out yet but I think the day is coming soon. It only cools the room about 10 degrees but it does take the edge off
@@WoodshedTheory We have a rather small room so hopefully it will help!
Good to see you're feeling better. Feeling a bit better myself but it's so slow. Going to prehab gym sessions is def helping.
Not much to report for the wk. Bought more Daleks. Finally finished Dalek Dave's new eyeball - which is awesome. (how do people send you photo's video clips?)
Cancer meeting at the hospital went ok and much was discussed about what the bowel tumour has been up to - which was pretty much nothing but I did learn to identify it on the scans & they confirmed it wasn't attached to my bladder (& that report was pretty much in error) which is a relief. All my options for where to proceed were gone through. I've not really processed any of that so far as - dissociation cuts in straight away these days. I def picked up a goodly dose of trauma from the liver surgery/hospital stay & I did mention that. Will try &self refer for counselling on that today as that's an option that was discussed but it means a phone call...
Hi friend I think you can send me video clips on instagram :) glad to hear that dalek dave is not sighted lol / thank you for the update on our health, i know it is a heavy burden for you, please continue to update us if you feel comfortable.
It was great video!
First time I had coffee while watching this (usually its tea, red bull, or monster)
More specifically it was a homemade mocha (or at least my version): hot chocolate/coffee mix, both made from scratch
OH yum! Any beverage is good for porch coffee.
Good that you are feeling better Claire🙂. me week was bad. I had my biggest burnout yet. Think it came from post diagnose backlash and a lott of unwanted tings happening the last two weeks🤔. I am feeling a little bit better this week. Doe someone have any tips on how they deal with there burnouts?
The most important thing for me was and still is to accept I just cannot do "more" or "what I used to do" again and learn to listen to my body and brain as part of it when it it is getting too much. Otherwhise it just gets worse. I must confess I still struggle to accept, but am pretty sure there is no other solution. And I started telling people, even if it feels unsecure. For me it is a relief. Or that after the big meltdown I had in april after the death of my beloved feline compagnion when I was not able to talk for some days I just went on not talking to paket delivery people or others. It felt "betraying" for me at first, but I guess it might be also good for them not have to do small talk. Just a smile/friendly nod with the head and just take the things and close the door again. I don´t know if that is a thing for You as well, but I am always afraid when someone delivers something and opening the door to strangers and have to talk to them stresses me out. So now again another spoon saved. Just tiny things.
One "luxury" I also did with very low money that is a big help on saving a lot of spoons is ordering grocery. It was always worth it for me as I really hate shopping in crowded supermarkets and then carry it all home (no car).
Or it could help to cut long hair if washing it is exhausting. Getting new comfy clothes for at home. It depends on what bothers You the most and then try to eliminate everything possible and find ways to make adjustments to those that can´t be eliminated (like having kids for example, which I know is hard, I was a single-mum or moving out of a cheap but loud flat. Then maybe try out different noise cancelling things like earplugs or others. If possible isolate walls.)
If there is a "special thing" bothering You and You are looking for a solution: ask - very precize- the comunity. Maybe someone had found a good one yet and is happy to share own experience. (If there is someone from Germany: where do I find a good assistant for doing phone calls, body doubling at stressful paper work, etc. some hours a month? Are there good contracts to download? That´s more complicated then I thought...)
@@katzenbekloppt_mf Thank you for a long and reflected response:). The ting about listening yo mye body helped a lott, I have a tendency to struggle with that and just push on as I did before. You made me realize that I can't do that and have less energy than before. I will be more specific with my questions forward. So sorry about the loss ofr your animal companion!
@@Pjolter365 Thank You! His sister is still living with me, so I am not totally alone now.
And I am happy to hear my answer was helpful for You. Yeah, I think to accept own limits is the hardest part and I am still learning 🙂Best wishes for Your recovery!
Sorry to hear about your burnout - I think it is pretty normal to experience this after a dx because you are carrying a lot of weight before then and after the dx you feel like you can just let go of a lot but that is exhausting
@@WoodshedTheory That made much sense Claire, thank you. When I have the courage to engage with the this community it helps a lott to get other Autistic peoples opinions and experiences :)
I needed to get out of the heat and went to Panera to get out of the heat. What sucked was my computer did not connect to the wifi. Heat waves and making blankets don't mix well.
Panera sounds like a good place to hang out - esp. if the internet is working. I totally agree that making blankets in the heat is the worst :/
Happy to see you are doing better this week and getting back your routines. Jenn is such a lovely person, and I am not saying she is undeserving of her gains, but she owes some of her success to those who came before her. But isn't that our purpose? Making things easier for the next generation? Making things better for those that follow? This is why I so enjoy spending my time watching vids from you, Orion, Taylor, Jenn, and more. Everyone helps out, wants to see everyone succeed, and just make things better.
Anywho, this last week was rough. I don't deal well with heat and two different transformers blew out in my area leaving us without power for half the day two times. One of them, from what I was told, sent shrapnel flying and deleted the top of the power pole it was on. Thankfully there were no injuries. Took the kiddos to Goodwill and Walmart to get out of the heat, but that had us surrounded by bright lights, noise, and people. But we got through it. Whelp, (slaps knees and slowly stands up) time to get back to business. Guess we will see you next Monday if not sooner.
P.S. Don't forget to hydrate!
sorry to hear about your power - it does happen a lot this time of year. i think that is why i like going to the movies because it is dark and the noise doesn't bother me as much when it is a movie.
@@WoodshedTheory Thanks, we seem to be having more and more weather related issues with the power these days. That movie theater idea isn't bad. Just wish there was one closer than a 30 minute drive for us.
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hello!
So glad you're feeling better!!
I had a sort of strange week. Hard to explain a bit. But because of my social anxiety, I have let my outgoing husband take my daughter to a lot of her events. Last week some women (who do not know I'm autistic) asked him why I never interact with them much. They are nice and I usually wave or say hi but never have gotten to know them. I think they want to be friends but it's overwhelming for me right now.
But I feel a little odd they actually mentioned it as its a being perceived thing. I'm just sort of sitting on this in thought and just taking my time feeling my way in the situation.
Otherwise I'm so busy in other things, I am not worrying too much which is good.
thanks for checking in :)
morning!
Glad you're feeling better Claire! My week has been mostly painting the house & stressing over my autism assessment - have I got enough evidence? Is it the right evidence? Will they give me a diagnosis or not?! 🤯
It is normal to feel the nerves - I felt them too - you got this!
@@WoodshedTheory I hope so, I really do!!
Good afternoon. This week, I will ask for forgiveness and not permission for my door getting replaced and hung properly. I just want a door that I don't fight with to lock all year long. I am so excited for a door that it seems silly, but I have fought with it for 5 years
way to go!
Thanks, Claire. 💖
I've been laid up with a chronic illness for two years (probably POTS... my sister is a nurse, says she thinks we both have EDS, which often includes POTS).
I've been enjoying your content except the yarn 🥸 especially enjoying your podcasts.
I'm a comedian & not being able to work on my videos for 2 years is driving me fucking crazy... like imagine you were unable to TOUCH yarn for two solid years... 🤬
Anyway, there are some comedy videos on my channel already if you're curious. The last one actually was about autism directly and quickly became my most popular work. 😊
thanks for sharing! i am sorry about your illness, it seems like a lot of people from the community deal with POTS and EDS, I hope there is something that we can figure out to support these people better
@@WoodshedTheory there's been a massive spike in POTS caused by covid... I wouldn't be surprised if I had undiagnosed EDS & the covid infection triggered a change in my EDS symptoms that caused POTS.
@WoodshedTheory thank you btw 🫂
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Heat is only a minor irritant, i have means to deal with it and ac is not one of them. Originally from ohio, lived in florida for a while and now in georgia. It is warm a bit right now but as long as i have a decent breeze and water i am good to go when it comes to heat. I work outside as well so it can be said i have gotten used to it. It is summer now, it is supposed to be warm anyway.
Oh man. I am envious of your ability to tolerate heat. If it is hot I get physically ill, not just uncomfortable.
@@faeriesmak well, let me put it like this: often the only way i know it is hot is the fact i start sweating. I mean i can tell when the humidity is up more than normal by the way the air feels but it is like feeling the difference two pillows in how soft they are. I can feel heat, like when sunlight hits me i can feel the warmth in it. As long as i have water and a decent air flow, i can tolerate the effects of heat, just not sure of the upper limit. Things like this are the only reasons i have to question whether or not i truely am austistic, either way i have yet to find a crew of people that i can truely interface with on any realistic means, i differ in the fact i do not seem to have the over sensitivities that seem to be very common, unless you count the hearing shifts i get after things like when my phone rings and such. It is not a problem for me, just seems so bizzarre and i have yet to find any description anywhere that is similar to it.
@@patryn36 All autistic people are different. Sensory differences are very common but some autistic people don't have them. Also you can be oversensitive OR under sensitive
@@Catlily5 i get that but it still seems so odd since all i have is my own perspective and the fact it is so mindnumbingly difficult to get a decent conversation. I deliberately test myself to see if what others say is anywhere close to what it is like for me, rarely is it ever. As a result i constantly find new things that sets me apart more than i find that i have in common with anyone, makes it hard to relate to much of anyone with that trend.
@@patryn36 Are you diagnosed with autism? Or researching it?