*STORY 1:* Mom just made a dumb, insensitive comment in the moment. Fran, however, is down bad for the husband. All Fran has done her whole life is use people. Husband wasn't good enough when they were in highschool, but now Fran is divorced, heading into her 30's and stagnating. Husband is now dependable, good looking, and has a good income. She's looking at the possibility of poaching what her sister has.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino I agree. Even if your husband is faithful and won't stray, that doesn't negate the fact you actively have a snake (sister) in your garden looking to bite you. They'd be wise to limit contact with the sister.
Story 1: I think that insensitive joke was the wake up called that op needed about Fran's motives. Fran is divorced selfish woman that used people and didn't like it when she got used. Then she realized what an amazing man James turned to be and got jealous that Op got him and not her (All the ranting she did was just projecting her situation right now). She never changed, she is just the same selfish woman. Story 2: Cheating ex wasn't mature enough to be in a relationship, her ""friends"" knew about this and decided to put ideas in her head to destroy the relationship ASAP. She belongs to the streets. Op is mature enough to move on knowing he dodged a bullet.
The end of story one got me mad. Husband finally expresses that he is uncomfortable around the sister. Op uncomfortable with her sister around. Husband doesn’t want to be the bad guy in YOUR family drama. The boundary you come up with after all of this is, “she can come whenever she wants. Just make sure to call first 😊”… When the husband said he didn’t want to bring up his loathing of the sister, because op would eventually go right back to them, I didn’t believe him at first. Now, I’m 1000% confident that there’s another (more truthful) story here, and op is the doormat of that story.
Heard the first story on another channel. I honestly can't fathom telling your daughter that she should have ended up with your other daughter's husband. Even if that wasn't the true implication, it was completely out of pocket and shouldn't have been said in the first place.
@@stan817 So the woman your husband had a crush on for several years coming over at random times, spending the night in just her underwear and wearing nothing but a towel is not suspicious behaviour? Oh because he said he didn't do anything and doesn't like her now that solves the case? You do know people do this thing called umm what's the word for it... oh that's it, lying?
Even I agree that OP in story 1 needs to get cameras secretly to see what her husband and sis are doing when she’s away, I kind of hope she did that, the way the husband handled the whole situation is suspicious to say the least, he’s a high suspect he’s doing something shady to me, we already know that for sis but husband is in gray area
Story 2: I said it before and I'll say it again... "I want to open up the relationship" is code for "I'm already cheating on you and I want to do it without consequences... BUT DON'T YOU DARE DO THE SAME TO ME!!!"
S1- something about the way he said "I'll be the bad guy if you want me to" bothers me, but i also get it. Her sister sucks though and OP really should distance herself. S2- good for him!
Right???? I’ll be the bad guy my ass. If they were such best friends, it would have been easy to say “hey, wear clothes when you’re here”. Also, why are they always sat close together on that couch? I don’t trust the husband one bit
S1 him saying if you want me to be the “bad guy“ it makes me feel like he’s trying to make her feel guilty and OPs sister blaming everything on her own hormones what is she a 30 year old teenager
I don’t think so sometimes ppl don’t like being thrusted into others drama and want it to end o feel like im gonna support you and make sure to remedy your insecurities but if you’re gonna keep trying to drag me into something I don’t wanna be a part of why are you here
OP must not have read a lot of stories because the whole “oh I don’t actually like that person who’s been flirting around me, I’m just trying to be nice” usually results in OP finding them in bed together.
Story 1, I remember this one. The parasite sister was furious with op's husband for defending op and kicking her out of the house. She knew right then and there that he was loyal to op and had no chance in seducing him, therefore she's now upset and bitter.
Story #2 take: if your partner opens up the idea of having an open relationship and you refused the idea, what makes you think they're not cheating on you beforehand or have been having "experiments" with others? Open Relationship is just "Mutual Cheating".
Story 2 : Classic selfish cheater : "I don't care what you want and what you feel, I'm going to open the relationship and you're going to accept it." Good riddance, I'm 99% sure that if OP had accepted and started seeing other women she would get jealous and want to close the relationship again also even more classic "It was a small mistake." nah was a choice.
Story 2 : it's not your fault it's your girlfriend's fault because she wanted a open relationship with her boyfriend and she was cheating on him with a guy and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him with a guy and she wanted a open relationship and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
S1: OP should have gone LC with mom and sister. It is a very insensitive comment and of course it is hurtful, you are not even allowed to make such a rhetorical statement in front of a spouse whom she is married to. Also, why fcuking hell is her sister coming to her house, and why is OP allowing this, it is a big NO and not acceptable. And the final statement, OP said she can anytime she wanted to, but she had to call before coming, LMFAO. What is wrong with OP, she asks to maintain distance, but breaks her own code by making that statement. You can't walk around semi naked in front of other men, that is pure BS. I doubt that sister didn't get anything in the divorce because, she might have cheated and not the other way around. How do these not know, what is happening in their sibling's lives, especially such serious like divorce. Sister keeping it hush hush and OP not knowing the other side of the story from her Ex, is plain stupidity. As a SIL, she didn't even talk to her BIL about what happened. I am 100% sure sister is the favorite child for OP's mom.
@@dustinswiney1474 AND I WILL AGAIN AHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA *(DEMONIC LAUGHING)
@@slaior_playz1500 @dustinswiney1474 BUT I HAVE STOLE THE JOB FROM BOTH OF YOU'SE AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA
I don't care how close Fran thinks she is with James. Since he's is uncomfortable with her, the boundary should be that she can't be there if her sister isn't home. The first and second time she slept over and started walking around in her underwear shouldn't happen a third time. James should have been an asshole and said she was not welcome unless they were hosting a dinner or something. OP should take off her rose colored glasses and recognize that her sister is attempting to seduce her husband and have no intention of stopping any time soon. If she's like that with her BIL, what was she like with her ex husband's friends/co workers. Story 2: When OP's ex girlfriend said that she wanted to explore her sexuality did she mean she was in her 'she for the streets stage'. Because if she just developed an interest in a kink or fetish can't she do that with her boyfriend?
Would love to know the alternate universe where OP #2’s girlfriend got him to agree to an open relationship. She immediately regretted sleeping with the other guy, so excuses would she use to close the relationship??
excuse me 2nd story's girlfriend has friends whos "exploring themselves" without their partners knowing????????????? boi expose them????????????????? thats cheating??????????????????????????????????
Man there's a lot of snowflakes in the comments. This is why it's not always a good idea to listen to a bunch of people on reddit because A bunch of hurtful whales are gonna give advice to crucifi somebody Even though that nothing was really wrong. And it tends to ruin some people's relationships. This is about story 1 by the way. People put ideas into this chick's head that her husband was only with her because of her sister. Those people Are often quite sad in reality and have no moral compass. 😂
S2: The moment your partner asks for open relationship, I say "Run, and don't ever look back". This request only comes into picture, when either one of the partner is emotionally or physically cheating on you. If you want a polyamorous lifestyle, then don't get married, because marriage is not for you. Marriage is a sanctity which is bound by rules, promises, and vows for a lifetime, and polyamory doesn't fit in these holy vows.
*STORY 1:* Mom just made a dumb, insensitive comment in the moment. Fran, however, is down bad for the husband. All Fran has done her whole life is use people. Husband wasn't good enough when they were in highschool, but now Fran is divorced, heading into her 30's and stagnating. Husband is now dependable, good looking, and has a good income. She's looking at the possibility of poaching what her sister has.
the sister sees a reality check
@@gotenblack2542 ahhh don't kill me
True.
The husband being faithful does not solve the problem.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino I agree. Even if your husband is faithful and won't stray, that doesn't negate the fact you actively have a snake (sister) in your garden looking to bite you. They'd be wise to limit contact with the sister.
The girlfriend does have a right to explore her sexuality; HOWEVER, she has no excuse for lying and trying to manipulate her boyfriend.
Story 1: I think that insensitive joke was the wake up called that op needed about Fran's motives. Fran is divorced selfish woman that used people and didn't like it when she got used. Then she realized what an amazing man James turned to be and got jealous that Op got him and not her (All the ranting she did was just projecting her situation right now). She never changed, she is just the same selfish woman.
Story 2: Cheating ex wasn't mature enough to be in a relationship, her ""friends"" knew about this and decided to put ideas in her head to destroy the relationship ASAP. She belongs to the streets. Op is mature enough to move on knowing he dodged a bullet.
The end of story one got me mad. Husband finally expresses that he is uncomfortable around the sister. Op uncomfortable with her sister around. Husband doesn’t want to be the bad guy in YOUR family drama. The boundary you come up with after all of this is, “she can come whenever she wants. Just make sure to call first 😊”…
When the husband said he didn’t want to bring up his loathing of the sister, because op would eventually go right back to them, I didn’t believe him at first. Now, I’m 1000% confident that there’s another (more truthful) story here, and op is the doormat of that story.
Heard the first story on another channel. I honestly can't fathom telling your daughter that she should have ended up with your other daughter's husband. Even if that wasn't the true implication, it was completely out of pocket and shouldn't have been said in the first place.
If the mom hadn't said that OP mightn't have noticed that her sister was making a play for her husband
The way to word it is "Find a husband like ." It complements the husband, conveys the meaning and doesn't suggest a threat to the other relationship.
first story op needs to get cameras installed to see what her husband and sister are actually doing when she's not around
there not doing anything did you read the story
@@stan817Naive if you believe that lol
and so are you for thinking that without proof
@@stan817 So the woman your husband had a crush on for several years coming over at random times, spending the night in just her underwear and wearing nothing but a towel is not suspicious behaviour? Oh because he said he didn't do anything and doesn't like her now that solves the case? You do know people do this thing called umm what's the word for it... oh that's it, lying?
Would you say the same thing if if wax other way around
Even I agree that OP in story 1 needs to get cameras secretly to see what her husband and sis are doing when she’s away, I kind of hope she did that, the way the husband handled the whole situation is suspicious to say the least, he’s a high suspect he’s doing something shady to me, we already know that for sis but husband is in gray area
I agree with you. James is having an affair with Fran.
Did you even watch the story? He explained why and agreed for boundaries, you people just want drama.
You people have trust issues and need therapy for it
Story 2: I said it before and I'll say it again... "I want to open up the relationship" is code for "I'm already cheating on you and I want to do it without consequences... BUT DON'T YOU DARE DO THE SAME TO ME!!!"
S1- something about the way he said "I'll be the bad guy if you want me to" bothers me, but i also get it. Her sister sucks though and OP really should distance herself.
S2- good for him!
Right???? I’ll be the bad guy my ass. If they were such best friends, it would have been easy to say “hey, wear clothes when you’re here”. Also, why are they always sat close together on that couch? I don’t trust the husband one bit
S1 him saying if you want me to be the “bad guy“ it makes me feel like he’s trying to make her feel guilty and OPs sister blaming everything on her own hormones what is she a 30 year old teenager
I don’t think so sometimes ppl don’t like being thrusted into others drama and want it to end o feel like im gonna support you and make sure to remedy your insecurities but if you’re gonna keep trying to drag me into something I don’t wanna be a part of why are you here
Story 1: oh they're definitely cheating. Poor OP
OP must not have read a lot of stories because the whole “oh I don’t actually like that person who’s been flirting around me, I’m just trying to be nice” usually results in OP finding them in bed together.
Didn't see the story yet but the audacity to be in front of someone in just a towel.💀🙏
(Parents are a different case though😂)
Story 1: OP needs to put BOUNDARIES in her life
Story 1, I remember this one. The parasite sister was furious with op's husband for defending op and kicking her out of the house. She knew right then and there that he was loyal to op and had no chance in seducing him, therefore she's now upset and bitter.
Story #2 take: if your partner opens up the idea of having an open relationship and you refused the idea, what makes you think they're not cheating on you beforehand or have been having "experiments" with others? Open Relationship is just "Mutual Cheating".
She didn't want to expore she wanted it to be okay to cheat
People mistake having boundaries and a closed mind as the same it isn't
James in story 1 is a bit sus. OP stay vigilant.
Fran shouldn't take a knuckle sandwich so seriously either 🤷🤷🤷
Story 2 : Classic selfish cheater : "I don't care what you want and what you feel, I'm going to open the relationship and you're going to accept it."
Good riddance, I'm 99% sure that if OP had accepted and started seeing other women she would get jealous and want to close the relationship again also even more classic "It was a small mistake." nah was a choice.
Since this comment was deleted by the owner ill say it again "he was clam" he became a clam quickly someone get the holy water we have to save him
Story 2 : it's not your fault it's your girlfriend's fault because she wanted a open relationship with her boyfriend and she was cheating on him with a guy and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him with a guy and she wanted a open relationship and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
S1: OP should have gone LC with mom and sister. It is a very insensitive comment and of course it is hurtful, you are not even allowed to make such a rhetorical statement in front of a spouse whom she is married to. Also, why fcuking hell is her sister coming to her house, and why is OP allowing this, it is a big NO and not acceptable. And the final statement, OP said she can anytime she wanted to, but she had to call before coming, LMFAO. What is wrong with OP, she asks to maintain distance, but breaks her own code by making that statement. You can't walk around semi naked in front of other men, that is pure BS. I doubt that sister didn't get anything in the divorce because, she might have cheated and not the other way around. How do these not know, what is happening in their sibling's lives, especially such serious like divorce. Sister keeping it hush hush and OP not knowing the other side of the story from her Ex, is plain stupidity. As a SIL, she didn't even talk to her BIL about what happened. I am 100% sure sister is the favorite child for OP's mom.
I think op need to change locks and get cameras
They were in the same grade with a five year difference?
Fran and James
I feel like OP in story 1 is getting gaslit by everyone in her life
i think you are the goat telltales
you know i always wanted to say this .
NINETY THIRD
there i did it
You stole my job😂😂😂😂
@@dustinswiney1474 AND I WILL AGAIN AHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA
*(DEMONIC LAUGHING)
@@slaior_playz1500 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU MONSTER
@@slaior_playz1500 @dustinswiney1474 BUT I HAVE STOLE THE JOB FROM BOTH OF YOU'SE AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA
I don't care how close Fran thinks she is with James. Since he's is uncomfortable with her, the boundary should be that she can't be there if her sister isn't home. The first and second time she slept over and started walking around in her underwear shouldn't happen a third time. James should have been an asshole and said she was not welcome unless they were hosting a dinner or something. OP should take off her rose colored glasses and recognize that her sister is attempting to seduce her husband and have no intention of stopping any time soon. If she's like that with her BIL, what was she like with her ex husband's friends/co workers.
Story 2: When OP's ex girlfriend said that she wanted to explore her sexuality did she mean she was in her 'she for the streets stage'. Because if she just developed an interest in a kink or fetish can't she do that with her boyfriend?
She had prenoup and still didn't work xd I doubt her sister is so smart.
For real.
Story 2. Ops ex tried it, didn't like it. Now she wants that old thing back. Talk about instant karma. Lol!
You know i always wanted to say this.
ONE THOUSAND
There i did it
Would love to know the alternate universe where OP #2’s girlfriend got him to agree to an open relationship. She immediately regretted sleeping with the other guy, so excuses would she use to close the relationship??
Married after only 3 years of knowing each other? My boyfriend and I met in 2022 but we are dating now, almost 7 months
the husband doesn't like the sister op is unfair to his Fellings
Your right my son
You know i always wanted to say this.
FIRST
there i did it
excuse me 2nd story's girlfriend has friends whos "exploring themselves" without their partners knowing????????????? boi expose them????????????????? thats cheating??????????????????????????????????
Good husband/
Soooooo both OP’s are weak?
Man there's a lot of snowflakes in the comments. This is why it's not always a good idea to listen to a bunch of people on reddit because A bunch of hurtful whales are gonna give advice to crucifi somebody Even though that nothing was really wrong. And it tends to ruin some people's relationships. This is about story 1 by the way. People put ideas into this chick's head that her husband was only with her because of her sister. Those people Are often quite sad in reality and have no moral compass. 😂
exploring are bs things nowadays.
Woo!! made it in two minutes.
S2: The moment your partner asks for open relationship, I say "Run, and don't ever look back". This request only comes into picture, when either one of the partner is emotionally or physically cheating on you. If you want a polyamorous lifestyle, then don't get married, because marriage is not for you. Marriage is a sanctity which is bound by rules, promises, and vows for a lifetime, and polyamory doesn't fit in these holy vows.
182 views in 5 minutes. Bro fell off
the brain rot has taken its course 😭
Unfortunate, dead channel😢
Hot tip, folks: If your partner brings up polyamory…
_[Grabs megaphone]_
*_THEY’RE. ALREADY. F-ING. SOMEONE._*
YTA
Early as shit
2nd story is a straight up CHAD
Bro I got out of the first one of today and say this when it came out at 1 minute🥲