@@bastalamif he did ignore them it could’ve gotten worse cause people like don’t go away by just ignoring so really your the doormat because you would rather stay quiet while people disrespect you is crazy
@justinwatts4476 I don't know why my replies get deleted but my issue is with the communication after cutting them off not that of cheating completely. as to the validity of this story for sure it is fake but in real life I go scorched earth and cut contact forever. No matter how much they regret afterwards.
Linda is a family too. Why don’t she help her brother if he wants to retire and struggling financially? Somehow is only working on one end. Twisted logic
Because she knows that her brother was wrong and don't want to be apart of that hot mess. Plus, it sounds like her husband would divorce her if she helps her trash family. That's why she's guilting OP into paying for the problem family.
Op should sue the brother, ex wife for the affair, emotional distress and harassment, and whatever he can……then get a restraining orders against them and the parents who only care about themselves…….
They'll just give excuses as to why they won't help as OP asked Linda why doesn't she help & she sputters her own excuse it's clear she doesn't want their mess spilling into her so-called perfect life. Linda has more money & her husband owns properties that could help the golden child glad OP is moving out of town. I'll bet OP's brother & ex wife will end up splitting, with his parents spending their golden years in the poor house.
How absurd...I'm brazilian, and here if someone can prove that was betrayed by his spouse there is no chance for alimony in the divorce and they still wants more? This is ridiculous...
Linda’s husband needs a call about how she’s supporting cheaters and doesn’t condemn their actions, thinks the betrayed partner is obligated to continue to support the cheaters, and how he should consider that carefully.
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Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
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OP that child is not your responsibility and if I were you I would invite you to get a restraining order on all of them and if they keep on causing trouble get a lawyer and try to sue it for damage control I bet that will back them away from you from causing trouble
great video, really appreciate the honesty you brought to such a tough situation. i personally think that forgiveness is important, but it shouldn't come at the cost of your own mental health. sometimes letting go means cutting toxic people out of your life, even if they’re family.
this video was really thought-provoking and I appreciate how you shared your story so openly. but honestly, I don’t think forgiving your brother is the right move here. some things just feel too deep to overlook, especially when it involves trust and betrayal. it might be healthier to set boundaries instead.
OP you put it the one who calls that meth that child is not your responsibility and if they keep on calling your trouble I will invite you to get it with straining order and tell them to contact you again and if they continue causing trouble then just get a lawyer involved and tell them that you will sue them for her wife
I am always surprised how often the golden child is obviously the bigger loser. Not that parents should ever favor one child over another, but if you were going to back one horse shouldn't it be the more successful one?
this video brings up such an important and complex issue, and i really appreciate how thoughtfully it’s been approached. honestly though, I think forgiveness can be taken too far sometimes. i mean, sure, it’s great to be forgiving, but some things feel like they just cross a line, you know? a brother should know better than to betray family like that, and honestly, i’m not sure i could ever fully forgive him. what do you all think?
If i was OP i would have moved countries and not told anyone. They wouldnt get a single cent out of me. With the experience and diplomas of OP he could move anywhere and get a extremely well paying job.
How long was this woman pregnant? Sounds like a bad divorce so that’s 9months -1 year long process.. and then a 2nd court proceeding? So even though it felt good this ones so fake
If 1/2 of this is true, this guy needs to apply for a job on the other side of the country and hit the road. If he changes his mind in 20 years he can come back to visit.
Wow, this video was really insightful and I appreciate the depth of the discussion. But honestly, I can’t help but think that forgiving someone for such a betrayal might not always be the best choice. While family is important, some lines just shouldn’t be crossed, right?
God bless may you have your happy ever after. Stay in therapy. Keep that shiny spine strong. Remember that old saying you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family.
It is, the court system takes FOREVER to do stuff ( 3-9 with mutual divorce this one sounded contested witch on average is 9 months to 1 year+) .. this women had to be pregnant for like 2 years with the same baby at LEAST.
@@zeinqyn Truth is stranger than fiction while You might think this is fake. I think it had some truth to it but I think it's AI generated like most of the stories on Reddit nowadays, no original content whatsoever.
what a god-awful family... i would wouldn't even show up to their funerals and they would never know where i am or see or talk to me in this life or the next
This guy brought this crap on himself by his desperate need for approval...his " Family should of been blocked and cut off his first day of collage and then for having blind trust...i see him as 50-50 to blame for EVERYTHING that happened and he actually deserves to be mocked
great video, really well presented! i found it interesting how you navigated such a tough topic. but honestly, i think forgiveness should be earned, not just given because family pressure says so. it’s okay to set boundaries, even with family. what do you all think?
Wow, what an intriguing video! The storytelling really pulled me in. I have to say, though, I’m not sure I agree with the idea that forgiving someone for a betrayal like that is necessary. I think sometimes it's okay to put your own feelings first, especially when trust is broken in such a significant way. What do you all think?
Jake wanting to have a man to man conversation is hilarious because no “man” would sleep with a married woman Edit: Welcome to Seattle! Keep away from Capitol Hill though, it’s a homeless druggie empire with prostitutes everywhere.
i really appreciated your perspective in this video, it was thought-provoking and well-presented. but honestly, i wonder if forgiving him is truly the best path forward. sometimes holding on to those feelings can actually help us establish boundaries and learn from the situation. what do you all think?
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Forgiveness isn’t always the best path for everyone, and sometimes holding onto those feelings does help set boundaries. It’s such a personal journey. What do you all think?
great video, really appreciate the insights shared! but honestly, i feel like sometimes, forgiveness can be overrated. i mean, some things are hard to overlook, especially when it involves trust and betrayal. what do you guys think?
Good video enjoyable and interesting. He did the right thing in the end. He certainly better off though without that wife of his she hadn’t gone off with his brother. Chances are she had to go on with anyone else that always like that the brother is just a lazy little so he can’t be bothered to do anything and the parents said about the better. Let’s just face it they’re a waste of time. 19:44
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It's VERY generous for the judge to call this a "well planned out scheme." They were blindly grasping for any straws they could reach.
Imagine being so bold as to ask the brother YOU BETRAYED to give you money
Imagine being so pathetic that you can't just ignore them and go on with your life
@@bastalamif he did ignore them it could’ve gotten worse cause people like don’t go away by just ignoring so really your the doormat because you would rather stay quiet while people disrespect you is crazy
@@bastalamcan’t really ignore it I know this is likely fake but I know family’s that are crazy like this fr
Entitlement
@justinwatts4476 I don't know why my replies get deleted but my issue is with the communication after cutting them off not that of cheating completely. as to the validity of this story for sure it is fake but in real life I go scorched earth and cut contact forever. No matter how much they regret afterwards.
Linda is a family too. Why don’t she help her brother if he wants to retire and struggling financially? Somehow is only working on one end. Twisted logic
Exactly. It’s her brother who might lose his house due to retirement and stress
Because she knows that her brother was wrong and don't want to be apart of that hot mess.
Plus, it sounds like her husband would divorce her if she helps her trash family. That's why she's guilting OP into paying for the problem family.
Op should sue the brother, ex wife for the affair, emotional distress and harassment, and whatever he can……then get a restraining orders against them and the parents who only care about themselves…….
All the relatives shaming OP saying that family should forgive and help family should walk the walk and help themselves.
They'll just give excuses as to why they won't help as OP asked Linda why doesn't she help & she sputters her own excuse it's clear she doesn't want their mess spilling into her so-called perfect life. Linda has more money & her husband owns properties that could help the golden child glad OP is moving out of town. I'll bet OP's brother & ex wife will end up splitting, with his parents spending their golden years in the poor house.
How absurd...I'm brazilian, and here if someone can prove that was betrayed by his spouse there is no chance for alimony in the divorce and they still wants more? This is ridiculous...
I like that, maybe I will move to Brazil for that and the beautiful woman.
In Sweden, you generally don't pay anything to your spouse, except when dividing up the household. You only pay maintenance for the children.
Hell I seen the videos from Brazil, the spouse better not cheat or steal or they’ll likely end up tortured and shot on video.
Western judges HATE men
Linda’s husband needs a call about how she’s supporting cheaters and doesn’t condemn their actions, thinks the betrayed partner is obligated to continue to support the cheaters, and how he should consider that carefully.
I hope he finds someone who truly cares for him and they build an actual happy family together.
Facing difficulties in relationships is normal, but there’s always a path to resolution. My marriage went through tough times, but with the right assistance, my wife and I resolved our issues and enhanced our connection. Solutions exist if you’re willing to work together and persevere. Don’t lose faith-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm grateful for your guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
you will not regret it.
@@SERIKAmrabat...advice...find a spine and grow a pair...best places to start
OP that child is not your responsibility and if I were you I would invite you to get a restraining order on all of them and if they keep on causing trouble get a lawyer and try to sue it for damage control I bet that will back them away from you from causing trouble
Can't they say STFU to these extended family members. Not his child not his problem.
If they're so concerned they should help them.
Scary how there's no such thing as loyalty and accountability to so many people.
"Amy was on the nightatand charging her phone while she slept peacefully next to me" what sort of witchcraft is this?
Oooohhhh hell 🤬 NO they want room in your coffin too DAMN
great video, really appreciate the honesty you brought to such a tough situation. i personally think that forgiveness is important, but it shouldn't come at the cost of your own mental health. sometimes letting go means cutting toxic people out of your life, even if they’re family.
this video was really thought-provoking and I appreciate how you shared your story so openly. but honestly, I don’t think forgiving your brother is the right move here. some things just feel too deep to overlook, especially when it involves trust and betrayal. it might be healthier to set boundaries instead.
Massachusetts is an at fault state. So if this story was real he wouldn't have to pay for anything.
It's more than likely an AI-generated story. The English is too weird.
Good riddance to bad garbage like my mom would say. His whole family and the ho ex were toxic. Glad he moved away.
They let his success go to their heads.
You did the right thing!
OP you put it the one who calls that meth that child is not your responsibility and if they keep on calling your trouble I will invite you to get it with straining order and tell them to contact you again and if they continue causing trouble then just get a lawyer involved and tell them that you will sue them for her wife
I just started and the parents names being Mine and my Older Brothers DISTURBS me 😭 😭 😭
Automobile, did this happen in the 1950's? Something smells like A.I.
He could be British, they still pronounce it like that and that is the correct word for a "car"
No we don’t, we call it a car
My thoughts exactly
Bruh, there is no question, it is AI
After 2 minutes, I was already thinking fake story.
When he buys a new house, he needs to set up security from end to end..get a dog .
I would have sued them for deformation the moment they go on social media and tell blanky lies.
This family needs a course on values and ethics!
Never do evil but ever let other do evil to you consequences FREE
What 10 year old feels down because of his 18 year old brother's academic excellence?
Wow! Amy was a BARISTA! That's like Italian for.....Coffee Maker.
Just doggone, I am a BARISTA too!!😮
I was really enjoying their relationship, then I remembered the title
Nothing waives alimony for the man
I am always surprised how often the golden child is obviously the bigger loser.
Not that parents should ever favor one child over another, but if you were going to back one horse shouldn't it be the more successful one?
this video brings up such an important and complex issue, and i really appreciate how thoughtfully it’s been approached. honestly though, I think forgiveness can be taken too far sometimes. i mean, sure, it’s great to be forgiving, but some things feel like they just cross a line, you know? a brother should know better than to betray family like that, and honestly, i’m not sure i could ever fully forgive him. what do you all think?
As I remember op moves to Seattle and gives Amy a piece of mind 😅😅😅😅😅
I'd just leave the country and work elsewhere rather than pay alimony to backstabbers.
I love how in the title they say, demanded as opposed to suggested or asked😂😂😂
Invite your parents to take care of them
The treatment from parents sounds like the same from my own life
Tell your parents to pay for match making services and a new wedding or else. After all those are the expenses your brother is costing you.
The funny part is that they were already getting money from him but they got greedy and went too far.
I should get a Participation Ribbon for listening to this… 1:12
LMAO. Parents like that dessert what's they got
Out of all the reddit stories, I despise stories of people cheating with their spouse's siblings the most.
OP let them figure it out, you owe them nothing
Do it for Dan 😂
If i was OP i would have moved countries and not told anyone. They wouldnt get a single cent out of me. With the experience and diplomas of OP he could move anywhere and get a extremely well paying job.
Don't Fing care about them
How long was this woman pregnant? Sounds like a bad divorce so that’s 9months -1 year long process.. and then a 2nd court proceeding? So even though it felt good this ones so fake
If 1/2 of this is true, this guy needs to apply for a job on the other side of the country and hit the road. If he changes his mind in 20 years he can come back to visit.
Wow, this video was really insightful and I appreciate the depth of the discussion. But honestly, I can’t help but think that forgiving someone for such a betrayal might not always be the best choice. While family is important, some lines just shouldn’t be crossed, right?
God bless may you have your happy ever after. Stay in therapy. Keep that shiny spine strong. Remember that old saying you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family.
There’s no way to story is real.
Its not
It is, the court system takes FOREVER to do stuff ( 3-9 with mutual divorce this one sounded contested witch on average is 9 months to 1 year+) .. this women had to be pregnant for like 2 years with the same baby at LEAST.
@@Talidischaos it is NOT real lmfao
@@zeinqyn Truth is stranger than fiction while You might think this is fake. I think it had some truth to it but I think it's AI generated like most of the stories on Reddit nowadays, no original content whatsoever.
Still entertaining
Forgive and help? My answer no and disownment of family.
OP is better orphan
OP should have gone NC at 18
Good job op!! F EM ALL!!!!!!
I hate puppy dog victim doormat stories
Fr like bro just say stfu the first time if I was treated like that I'd scream silence
Served you right
Wow big brained but pathetic for trying to keep a worthless family.
I have to say, the author doesn’t know much about healthcare in Massachusetts.
You can get it for free if you’re unemployed.
Should we believe this story? It’s .. . Out there.
OP ignored a lot
17:45 “they had been playing porn with their unborn child” holy shit😭
Why did he have to pay alimony when it was his wife who cheated
“No-Fault” states are like that. 😒
That cake looks good
Actually op is the bigger person but he's not financially taking care of x wife and brother 😅😅😅😅
what a god-awful family... i would wouldn't even show up to their funerals and they would never know where i am or see or talk to me in this life or the next
This guy brought this crap on himself by his desperate need for approval...his " Family should of been blocked and cut off his first day of collage and then for having blind trust...i see him as 50-50 to blame for EVERYTHING that happened and he actually deserves to be mocked
What world is this? This guy just sounds clueless. Not to mention the writer of this fantasy.
In case it hasn't been said, what's wrong with a "cease and desist"?
great video, really well presented! i found it interesting how you navigated such a tough topic. but honestly, i think forgiveness should be earned, not just given because family pressure says so. it’s okay to set boundaries, even with family. what do you all think?
Thank you for sharing
Something is wrong with these people like they are really in DELULU land like I don't have the words for this story
Is getting restraining order hard to do in Boston?
I hate when people say bigger person aka i no they wrong but let them walk all over u 😅😅😅 noooo
Wow, what an intriguing video! The storytelling really pulled me in. I have to say, though, I’m not sure I agree with the idea that forgiving someone for a betrayal like that is necessary. I think sometimes it's okay to put your own feelings first, especially when trust is broken in such a significant way. What do you all think?
I hate that this is fake, but I guess not all juicy stories can be real
U don’t owe ur parents or brother anything there all Crappy
*Karma doesn't exist. Like at all. I know this for a fact.*
Jake wanting to have a man to man conversation is hilarious because no “man” would sleep with a married woman
Edit: Welcome to Seattle! Keep away from Capitol Hill though, it’s a homeless druggie empire with prostitutes everywhere.
I knew people could be extremely stupid, but come on!
Ok just started lustening and glad read comments it sounds like OP is a doormat. Nope won't waste my time.
MIT??? DAMN
i really appreciated your perspective in this video, it was thought-provoking and well-presented. but honestly, i wonder if forgiving him is truly the best path forward. sometimes holding on to those feelings can actually help us establish boundaries and learn from the situation. what do you all think?
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Forgiveness isn’t always the best path for everyone, and sometimes holding onto those feelings does help set boundaries. It’s such a personal journey. What do you all think?
@@RedditFamilyTalesI think there is a diffrence between forgiveness and forgive but do not forget.
You married a batista and it all went wrong...🙄
great video, really appreciate the insights shared! but honestly, i feel like sometimes, forgiveness can be overrated. i mean, some things are hard to overlook, especially when it involves trust and betrayal. what do you guys think?
Is your brother Domingo (I'm so sorry SNL has gotten stuck in my head)
Please brother. I want the name of the application you are working with🙏
Baby need both of us ! Monster sice red flag ! Op as suckter to pay for brothers cheating baby ! Lol😅
Nope 🙅♂️ op
He evolve from a intitled baby to ass hole
Good video enjoyable and interesting. He did the right thing in the end. He certainly better off though without that wife of his she hadn’t gone off with his brother. Chances are she had to go on with anyone else that always like that the brother is just a lazy little so he can’t be bothered to do anything and the parents said about the better. Let’s just face it they’re a waste of time. 19:44
Hire women to break up there relationship
Bribe his co workers for sexual harassment
Ruin there lives lol
So brother was at the wedding, but met the wife for first time after they were married. At least fact check before downloading this crap
Is it me or is every job offer on reddit in Seattle .
I dunno Rick, sounds fictional
I get it’s a fake story but if it’s true op is a bit of a dumbass lol
I want cake
5:25 min, weak and pathetic. Not wasting time
These cakes! 😍😍😍