Girl Talk- Answering TMI Questions, Love, Sex, Pregnancy
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I'm not pregnant, not even trying to or interested in having kids atm but I really enjoy this content because I feel connected with you. ❤ TMI VIDS. XOXO all the way from Mexico.
Same! No kiddos for us, but I love watching the process with others.
Same! I find honest and open pregnancy talk so interesting!!! Most of the time it's is just to convince other woman its really worth it without letting the person choose for her/him self. It is often not the whole picture and feels so off for me. Tina really really talks about it! Still don't want kids but I like to know more about the body!
This feels just like talking to your pregnant best friend and asking all the questions you can't ask other people. I love your honesty Tina!
i really admire how honest and transparent you are with your pregnancy journey. i think its really brave, i dont think i could haha. even then its okay to not answer anything your not comfortable with!
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12 year gap with my husband and it's never been an issue until I saw influencers pointing out "problematic" age gaps & issues with "grooming" which I totally get. We knew we were for each other because of our very similar values on honesty, growth, and living simply. We could talk about anything for hours and not notice. We respect each other's views. Even though it was a whirlwind romance (engaged after 3mo & married at 6mo), it just felt right & natural. Didn't have cold feet AT ALL which was shocking as we're both very skeptical & indecisive. Been married for 3 years now & stuck in quarantine together at home 24/7 for 1.5 yrs but still can't get enough of each other. Constantly wondering how we are not sick of each other yet. It's v v cheesy.
Wish you a happy life till eternity!!
I think it's only problematic or grooming if the older person is like"waiting" for their partner to be legal age. That means they've had their eyes on an underage person which is creepy. But if hall are happy and it's healthy then I see no issue as long as you're both legal consenting adults.
I knew my partner was the one when we got pregnant at 19, we were at a tough crossroads deciding to keep the baby or not but he told me no matter what decision I chose, he would support me 100%. We decided to keep the baby, and just like he said he supported me throughout. We got married, bought a home, finished school and now have 2 kids together. So yes, respect is EVERYTHING and overall your partner should make you feel safe and supported. I am so grateful for him, and the little family we created. Couldn't ask for a better life.
Tina you should do Spotify podcasts about your experiences in life… your personality is soo amazing 🤩
Yes tina please😚❤
I really enjoy these sit-downs, Tina. I admire people who talk about the more realistic aspects of being pregnant, I feel like there isn't enough "my nipples and down there......." doesn't get talked about enough lol. These vids always feel like we're catching up over boba or something, it's very calming.
Loved this video.
I've been with my husband since we were 14. We went to different colleges, and then he moved away for university. We were still so young when we fell in love, but I think I knew he was THE one when my dad got diagnosed with cancer. We had the diagnoses the day after my husband left for university, and he came home. He gave up his Freshers week to be with the family. He traveled 8hrs to come to my dad's surgeries... The support he has given me throughout the whole process... Even when we sadly lost my dad back in August, my husband has been my strength and my rock and every day I fall in love with him more and more. He will never stop being my one x
We love TMI Tina. I can just see Alfred blushing lol
I actually love this cause it feels like a mother talk ,but your mother is like your best friend
I love how natural and comfortable you are in talking about these things with us. I've been a subscriber since 2015 and I've always enjoyed watching your videos. Can't wait for the mommy and baby vlogs!
I'm still on my early 20s, but this kind of content interests me and I enjoy watching it. I learn about a lot of things which actually helps me of what I might go through in the future. I've been watching you since 2016/2017 and to me, you're like an older sister who gives me advices. I really enjoy all of your content, Tina! Your channel has always been my safe haven. Love you! ❤
I love how you talk to us,it’s like you are our sister . That was an easy conversation 🤍🧚🏻♀️.
Hello Tina.
I’m in my 36 week of pregnancy and It become more difficult to go back to sleep at night. I have feel more nervous about my labor, and other things.
Watching your video at 4 am is so enjoyable, it’s feel like i can talk to my sis to relax and it really helps me to reduce the stress.
Many thanks, Tina. Stay well
You’re almost there! Good luck with everything! Try looking into hypnobirthing meditations on TH-cam, that might help calm the nerves
@@tina_yong it’s very kind of you. Thank for your video, i went to bed and had another sleep for about 3 hours. Lol .
Congratulations 🥰
Love this girl talk Tina especially the TMI segments lol ✨One of my colleagues in 2019 has advised me during my pregnancy with my first baby, she said I shouldn’t be scared of the birth, labour and stuff that I should prepare the most challenging aspect which is the 4th trimester taking care of the baby because that’s the hardest part. Then she was true it just never ends once you have a kid and now expecting a 2nd one on the way and life would definitely more busy but still fun at the same time. ✨
I'm 22 weeks pregnant and last week I had such pain in my stomach. Turns out it was appendicitis. Had an operation I was so scared to lose my baby girl. Lucky it went well. 2 days after I got hellish pain again my intestines would'nt start again so my insides blew up like a balloon.. again I had to go to the hospital... I was so scared for my baby girl.. i wanted to share my story. I love your content and your open way to explain everything🥰 big kiss from The Netherlands
Glad to hear it went well! ❤️
So sorry you had to go through that, happy both you and baby are ok 😌🙏🏽
So excited to welcome your baby! Hopefully everything goes well and she grows up to be a healthy, strong and smart girl!
Tina, your answer on “the one” really really helped me! I just went through a breakup and I have been ruminating on whether I made the right decision to call it quits. But yes, like what you mentioned, our personalities clashed quite a lot and it feels difficult, and it does seem like I have to “sacrifice” quite abit to get along with him. If he’s the one, it should feel easy and natural, at least in terms of connecting with each other. Thank you! I will be open minded and keep searching for the one that makes me feel comfortable being myself 🥰
Honestly, Tina is like a mom to me. She is so supportive, kind, and warm. I can't wait to see you experience your next stage in life. 💜
Your TMI topics are so refreshing because not a lot of people talk about those things
Just a random thing !
My big sis is 4months pregnant and she's having pubic tumours, those are multiple and tiny in size, like small acne size. I just wanna say anyone pregnant here who have been watching tina to learn pregnancy things, if you are having such tumour, relax, it's normal. Ofcourse don't ignore them and consult your doctor. But don't panic. And all the best to tina and all mums to be out there. ♥️
My husbands aunt, my aunt, both my sisters my self included all had their breasts augmented and could not feed. We were all told we could feed happily 10 years later. It was a no go. Theirs were all under the muscle same with mine, but it depends on the scar tissue development. All Breast implants cause scar tissue, not encapsulation scar tissue that’s different, it causes inflammation around the entire breast implant from armpit to the actual muscle that attaches to your shoulder which can cause milk ducts to be closed, or not open fully because of the inflammation cuase from scar tissue stretching or where the scar tissue resides (it can form in milk glands even under the muscle cosmetic surgeon dont tell patients this so they can get money) . The milk supply that can forum, does have enough capillaries to stretch out so you may get some milk, but might always have a hard time building a supply up. Not everyone has a problem, but some wet nurses will advise not to push breast feeding if its a hard start because of mastitis (clogged milk ducts) because inflammation is alot easier even with it being under the muscle. Also when the milk comes in, because the breast is inflamed (something you don’t realize because you deal with it on a daily basis from implants) when the milk comes in it hurts much more then it normally would. i got my implants out after breast feeding same with my sister and My second baby was after removal and it wasnt painful like the first time. I really think breast implants no matter where they are affect breast feeding.
This feels like I'm just sitting down and having the most chill conversation with my sister. So much love for you Tina!💕
About the age gap difference it also depends on maturity levels. When I met my wife I was in my early 20s while she was in her late 30s and our goals were never an issue for us at the time we met I was already ready to settle down and she was too. We met Feb 2019, were engaged July 2019, and married Nov 2019. I knew from the first time I met her she was who I was going to marry. Now 3 years later were still very happy and trying for a baby. We already have 3 kids but none together. I have a 4 yr old from a previous relationship and she has a 14 yr old and a 16 yr old from a previous marriage. It really just depends on maturity and at what part of life your in.
Very impressive, Tina. When I was pregnant for first and only time, I just focused and thought about holding my baby and wondering what she would look like... Schooling didn't cross my mind at all!.It's a shocker, the school run lol!
I used bio oil, but soon as gave birth stretch marks on tummy came. They faded, but it's very hjt as miss. I wish you well you look great x
I absoulutly love how you can cover these "taboo" topics. This was perfect for me to listen to while folding my washing (witch i was dredding) Love you ❤❤❤
Biscuit is SO CUTE when she looks at the camera I CAN’T! ❤🐶 💕
Breast implants causes BII (breast implant illness) and also BIA ALCL cancer in some cases. Yes also sailine implants! BII can cause so many different symptoms so i reccomend everyone with them to look into it. Recent studies also show that silicone was found in the tissue in different part of the body for 98% of women who had dem for a long period of time.
I agree about your answer to how to know the one. To me, I knew my husband was like the one for me when both of us are willing to put in the effort to work things out when there's obstacles. We don't resort to saying I wanna break up, even when we're in a difficult situation. We tried to make it work TOGETHER. It can't just be from one person.
This entire series legitimately is so important. Tina is sharing all that is necessary and I appreciate that. I want the nitty gritty because not everything is sunshine and butterflies. Thanks Tina getting me prepared for when I do get pregnant.
Agreed. I knew my fiance was the one when i met him in college before i was about to perform n he fixed my mike is when we first met.
Im with you on this one. We been together for nine years in october and marrying in october. You get to grow n learn from that person and when you have arguments you sort it through and feel at ease. In my past relationship it was constant n no sorting out.
The love language is important to.
When Tina says "it's your girl Tina here" I always think, "you ARE my girl!" She is like my virtual bff :)
this video was like a warm hug from an older sister ♥ i love how freely you talk about these topics because there's always so much insight or advice that you share that is hard to get from other people!
From girl to girl, I LOVE talking TMI :p Such good information! Been loving your content lately!
I knew my hubs was the one (11 yrs older) because we had fun together, had similarities, learned from each other, and just couldn't see our future without one another. Been together 10 yrs, married 7 yrs. :)
I knew my SO was the one when he sat on my bed and played guitar for me after our first date… naked.
Also he drank water out of a bowl because he didn’t wash any of his cups. Instantly knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.
Overall, he makes me laugh and smile every day of our time together. He makes me feel like a teenager again (we’re both in our 30s). He is the one I want to stay with for the long run ❤️
i feel like there is no "the one" because there are many "ones". its just up to u to choose the guy, choose whether or not to stick with him, decide whether he is worth it worth staying and fighting for and working things out. for me, my "one", i see a future with him not because he's the best fit for me, not because he perfectly understands me or anything like that, but because he loves me enough to listen to me and what i have to say, his willingness to change, and apologise, and appreciate me. obviously we both are imperfect and snap at each other and we fight. and yeah sometimes i might get momentarily swayed by other guys but ultimately i would never act on my impulsive desires for "someone better" because i know theres no such thing. To me, being with "the one", it isnt romantic, it isnt always happy, it will never be perfect, but its what i want because of the security and stability that we have together, and how we always talk things through and compromise for each other❤️ love is complicated lol haha, but yeah i just keep reminding myself that, as long as both parties are loyal and thoughtful and are proactive in communication, and change and improve themselves, then theres no point looking for someone better. Because no matter who you end up with, there will always be clashes, just depends on you how much you are willing to overlook to reach end game with them. Red flags are forgivable when the person acknowledges it, apologise, and actively tries to change, continuosly. (But ultimately, more than 50% of that relationship should bring u comfort and security and joy, if most of the time u will sad or helpless or empty then, maybe its time to find another person)
Love these videos! I knew my husband was "the one" because whenever I face hardships, he would always tell me I can overcome it. It is a great feeling to have someone in your corner always believing you can accomplish anything and give you that support.
biscuit is sooo cute! Also, I've been following you since your were in Australia. I'm so excited to see you becoming a mother. Love this girl talk!
Congrats on the pregnancy. Not many couples out there are successful on their first try, so you are very lucky to be blessed with a little one on the way. ❤️
On the side note, this can be a sensitive topic for many who has been trying for years. Your tip can be helpful for some but not for the unfortunate ones who has to seek out a more aggressive and invasive part of their infertility journey. Hanging on doesn’t atone to their desperate desire to have a child. It’s another dark side of pregnancy that some couples have to go through.
I hope you take it easy and stay healthy during your pregnancy. Don’t stress too much and don’t have high expectations going into labor. Do it like a champ and trust in your body. Good luck Tina! ❤️
I thought he was the one, was supposed to get married but he just cut me off without any answers and told my parents he had nothing to do with me and started dating someone else in 2 weeks.
Everyone told me that girl might have been always there. He had said yes to cheating but then he said it was a joke. His family especially his father blamed me for everything and his family all just went against me all of a sudden. All my time was wasted including my wedding clothes. Which are not cheap 😆 especially Indian clothes. But I get soooo much positivity from your videos you’re the best @tina ♥️♥️♥️😻😻😻
I like how you are always honest and brave to talk about something very sensitive lol I just had my first baby boy and I have been through it all .. I know my husband that he is the one because I didn’t have to change a thing about myself or my personality.. I’m in my late 20’s .. much love from ksa to you ♥️♥️
it’s so precious to watch a person keep growing for years, she’s settling down i’m not a kid anymore who liked to watch her makeup videos after school
I was around as pregnant as you are now, and visiting the hospital for a doppler recording due to certain complicating factors, when I was surprised to discover that babies do in fact get hiccups in the womb - that, and just how entertaining it can be for an entire Midwifery Unit to hear that tell-tale loud "thump" every 15 seconds or so, for at least 20 minutes...!
i'm turning 21 soon and have been with my partner since I was 17, I knew he was the one early on we just clicked like that and I couldn't live without my man he's the best
I always thought I wanted a partner who would accept my flaws and loves me for me. It was only after I found my current partner that I realized what I actually needed was someone who gave me the strength to look at my weaknesses head on and work on making myself a better person
I love all the TMI!
The part about red flags is so true, all my exes had a few things I considered red flags at the time that turned out not to be such a big deal and green flags that weren't so green after all 😅
We all just need to go through a bit of trial and error to find the right person I guess
most wholesome video! she answered all questions while being so calm, very helpful
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 28 years now. And as far as being intimate with one another Unfortunately that stopped 12 years ago. Because once I got into my 40s I guess my sex drive just went the opposite direction and now that I’m in my 50s because I’m going through the change of life being intimate with my boyfriend just isn’t that important currently. But I’m hoping that once I’m done going through the change of life that things will change
These are some of my fav kinds of videos that you put up💕💕
I love your honesty and openness!
I could hear you go on and on for hours on these girl talks… Love you Tina!! Wishing you & your loved ones good health always!! & of course a smooth delivery in 2.5 months time~ ❤️
Tina is such a real one! I hope you never stop this as a career! Tbh, I’m 37 with no kids and some of these things I didn’t even know happened to a woman! It’s very eye opening! You are ver inspiring and your personality is soothing and calming!
My 9 month old daughter loves watching you, and has loved watching you since she was 6 months old. I'm pretty sure she loves your calm voice and pretty face!
Omg I was watching another video but then I saw your notification 😅😂 I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS 💗🥰
Fluffy dogs are the perfect co-hosts! ♡
i’m earlyyy hi tina! currently really sad and i’m glad u have a new vid 🥺💓
I really enjoy these videos - I always feel like we are actual friends in real life ❤️ it makes me appreciate how similarly we see a lot of things in life.
The way I knew my husband was The One was right in the first date (although I didn’t realise it until later). No one had ever made me feel so good about myself and my past experiences and feel so strongly that I have really had an amazing life. From the very first moment he made me feel really good about myself and who I really was - it was easy to be truly myself around him. I didn’t feel like I had to change anything about me to impress him and could do that just by being myself - that alone was enough to impress him. And similarly I was impressed and intrigued by the way he was, the way he thought and how he did things.
that was soooo nice and therapeutic. I love how you sharing your experience and talk free about things a lot of people don´t talk about. Please more of these videos🥰🥰🥰
Me sitting here with my very visible and dark tiger strips at 17.🥴
Anyways, hoping Tina has a healthy journey and we get to see the little bundle of joy very soon!!
she is such a beautiful soul...i feel like a family to her
I hope you have a really good time as a mother ❤❤ be safee........ Love you Tina! 😘♥
I absolutely loved this video ❤ I really relate to dating an alpha male and then leaving the relationship and realizing it was extremely controlling. Now I'm with the love of my life. I knew he was the one when I could be my goofy self and him reciprocating the goofiness back instead of judging me. It's constant laughter all the time but we respect each other's serious talk. I'm so grateful for him in my life.
I think for me age gap is fine if it’s 10 years and both partners are old enough. But when people date people who are young enough to be their child (especially in their 20s) or their grandchild, it does throw me off. Sometimes it happens for the better and works but there are also a lot of creeps out there who search for these weird relationships with people so much younger than them.
I JUST LOVE YOUUUU THE WAY U ARE SO FREE WITH US LIKE A BESTIE
Omg who else loves tina???
I was waiting for a girl talk for sooooo...... long.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm definelty in for some momy and baby content yes!!!!!! ❤️😍 Looking forward to meet the baby 😍
Loved the video and yessss Tina's TMI would be a great segment to have ♥︎♡♡
My question is: how did you know your 1st husband was NOT the one???
Ahhh! I LOVE you so MUCH! You are going to be the best mum!!!
It's been so long since you did a girl talk!
Hey Tina,so happy for you..you could try cold pressed almond oil for stretch marks as it's a good source of vitamin e which is supposedly helpful in preventing stretch marks, also it gives a good amount of moisture to the skin . It helped me in my pregnancy immensely and I was left with two very faint marks on my lower belly. Hope this helps.
Tina is such a big sis energy! I didn't skip a single second istg!! Always here for you sis ❣️
I new my partner was "the one" because it felt so natural to be with him and I could just be myself. Everything has always been so easy, never felt like I had to be something that I'm not. We love the same things but are really different too. Something I am good at, he is not and the same the other way around, so we are such a good team 😄
The book I wish I knew about at the beginning of my pregnancy was one written by Kaz Cooke. She also has a newborn one and a toddler one. All those things that surprised us (yes, us) she talks about. Of course she is Australian
Outgoing cost after a baby is born are so hard to predict. I think it's wise that you're saving as much money as possible. As a second time mother I will definitely say I never anticipated my child needing bilateral tubes in his ears, the cost of diapers, the cost of formula if you don't breastfeed, and so on.
Very smart to think about your finances. We were very suprised just how expensive the baby ended up being. Especially when she no longer breastfed. It was shocking how much such a little person needs.
I hope you have a really good time as a mother ❤️❤️❤️😘
Every female has a different pregnancy. I wish you a safe delivery and quick healing afterward. A lot of women recommend a angled bottle to get yourself clean after birth and other items.
Thank you for being so honest and genuine!! Love all your videos ❤️🥰
Watching this while I’m making food & you have no idea how calming it is listening to someone talk about these topics so casually, like it’s really nice & I appreciate it a lot, especially today so just wanted to say thank you very much ❤️ I hope to see more girl talk vids in the future if you’re comfortable with it 💕
Tina's content just makes your day better... love you... these contents brightens my day .... please do keep up
Everyone has left profound, emotional, and thankful answers so here’s my less mature reply -
This made me want a boyfriend so bad!! 😭
You should do a maternity clothing try on haul!! Like from a maternity specific brand or just a maternity line from any brand!
I can't wait for the MUMMY AND BABY content... hope she is healthy and safe and best wishes....🌸🌸
Do these girls talk more often Tina soooooo loving your videos 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
As a sex neutral ace I always prepare myself for the worst when it comes to talks about sex and relationships and it was so nice to hear you not veer even in the slightest to aphobic territory. thank you so much.
I absolutely love these videos! Im very thankful you dont mind mentioning tmi stuff and how you feel/experience things. Ive always had a strong fear of pregnancy and childbirth and somehow it seems to be more horror stories and negative experiences that pop up (or at least stand out to me a lot more than the positive ones but negative stuff is always like that sadly) but that discouraged me from even being curious and wanted to learn/hear more or other sides. BUT because of that im so glad youre making these videos and talking about everything like this because it really does alleviate that fear and anxiety of the unknown that people dont WANT to talk about. Humans and their bodies are all very interesting and can be fascinating but its a shame so many find it to be taboo almost to talk about their experiences and "nasty" stuff like pregnancy related things. Like yea some stuff may not be normal compared to when you arent pregnant but that shouldnt be treated or spoken about in shame, cause chances are you arent alone with that experience 😊
Sorry for the small rant so heres my summary: THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING PREGNANCY RELATED CONTENT AND TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING. I guess if i do have a question itd be what are your favorite pros and cons (or even unexpected ones) about being pregnant so far. Be it for general stuff or specific things like traveling, getting up and about, eating, body changes, honestly anything that pops into your mind
I just love your honesty and how down to earth you are
Tina's baby would be like aww mama is a talented beautiful girl while looking at her✨I myself feel like Tina's baby is my own niece or something idk I feel excited and connected for your baby♥️😌
I love girl talk, this feels like chatting with a lifelong friend 😊
I can see your advices helping me in the future 🥺💖
Yesss I agree with others! Love more TMI videos 😂
omg, that's exactly how I feel about my boyfriend, and we are getting married next weekend. he is the only one that I never feel I just wanna walk away.
Congratulations 🥰🙏🏽
I just love how you like teasing Alfred about being intimate and extremely hormonal 🤣
Its soo cuteee
Waiting to see the angel soon ♥️
I luv it when Tina does these videos. Although I luv all her other vids, the girl talks always help me not feel alone lol 😂💖!!
Edit: ps I love ur outfit Tina!
TOXIC GAS!!! Lmfao gross but HILARIOUS!
I love no filter Tina!
Labor will be fine, just allow your body to go with the flow and have a good support system
Looooved this video and the no shame down to earth big sista honest talk Tina!! You’re glowiiiing and I love your extra sassy pregnant personality ✨
You're literally one of my favorite people on TH-cam, Tina 💖 I enjoyed this video so much though I can't relate with the other parts yet 😅 hope there would be more girl talk and TMI videos soon. Hehe. Stay safe 💗
Listening to you talking felt like listening to/getting advice from your favorite aunt 😅😂
Nice
I love you Tina! And I do feel compelled to tell you that I really enjoyed this video. It was like talking to you in person and having a chitty chatty time! So lovely
Thank you Tina for sharing your experiences and all the advice! Wishing you all the best for your delivery of your baby! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I can’t wait for the mommy and baby content + more regular content! Praying for a healthy and safe pregnancy, Tina 💗