BECOMING A SOFTER WOMAN!10 FEMININE HABITS TO START YOUR FEMININITY JOURNEY l LUCY BENSON

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  • BECOMING A SOFTER WOMAN!10 FEMININE HABITS TO START YOUR FEMININITY JOURNEY l LUCY BENSON
    Hey My Loves, Todays video is 10 feminine habits to start your femininity journey, how to be become a softer woman, i hope you enjoy the video ❤️
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  • @MyLucyBenson
    @MyLucyBenson  ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hey My loves❤ I am aware there is a Telegram scam going on using my name and pictures, IT IS NOT ME!! ITS A SCAM please be careful and stay safe❤ Thank you ❤️

    • @Wedede
      @Wedede ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi off topic pls
      Can u share ur hair plug?

  • @osajitovia8586
    @osajitovia8586 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    1: self care please pamper yourself you need it
    2:learning emotional control
    3:learn softness and that act of being calm ( especially where you are expected to react to things)
    4:learn to accept and receive
    5:surround yourself with good female best friend
    6:Be Confident
    7:Don’t allow your tough time take the best of you please
    8:always have something going on
    9:less is always enough
    10:alway been observant

    • @edidiongjeremiah1902
      @edidiongjeremiah1902 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you, I learned a lot from your video

    • @ritahnyangoma285
      @ritahnyangoma285 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for the List

    • @nenepink1
      @nenepink1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good qualities for BOTH men and women to attain.

    • @supriyaraajput8178
      @supriyaraajput8178 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for saving my time. ❤️

    • @PlusVK22
      @PlusVK22 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aka how to live in a man's world and know your place? Lol...

  • @lobidemma9213
    @lobidemma9213 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Learning softness and being observant are vital keys to living. Your updates are always lit, enjoyable and gratifying. 🥰

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I felt that, "relax. Calm down."😅 I'm down for a girl convention 🙋🏽‍♀️ "Move as your highest self unapologetically." "Less is always enough." Amen 🙌🏽 Very useful tips.

  • @SuperMyeva
    @SuperMyeva ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t have friends and that’s what I wanna pray for (for good friends) because it’s lonely

    • @Ang-s8f
      @Ang-s8f ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same sis same....2023 will be different by God's grace.

  • @Fey.D.A
    @Fey.D.A ปีที่แล้ว +12

    OMG, you're so right about your partner influencing what side you lean towards. I used to be with a feminine man, one that wouldn't do anything for me or try to take the lead and I had to carry the relationship and I leaned heavily to my masculine side, but now I'm with an Alpha male and I really struggle to find my feminine energy. It almost felt like two men in a relationship and I struggled for the longest time until I consciously decided to constantly stay in my feminine energy

  • @thebariatricbeauty
    @thebariatricbeauty ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is such an eye opening concept. I’ve always been told I am “hard,” and it took me years to understand a balance. I was so used to “having” to be masculine in relationships and at work. It’s how I get things done so I’m definitely a work in progress girl. Whew! 😅

    • @jacks4009
      @jacks4009 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sis honestly. I've learned my masculine side comes out if I'm around a weak man. When I'm around an Alpha I can rest in my femininity a lot more.

  • @JENNYUK
    @JENNYUK ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This video is soooo timely!!! I’ve been thinking about activating my feminine side for a while now because i naturally lean towards my masculine side alot. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

    • @nyanguthii5535
      @nyanguthii5535 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @fl33khidsha
      @fl33khidsha ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same . And I’m starting to feel like something is wrong with me because idk how to tap into my more feminine side especially In order to truly manifest the right man for me

  • @iamhb-aima465
    @iamhb-aima465 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is what I need I’m working on this because I want to be able to be more comfortable in my feminine side ❤

  • @juice7158
    @juice7158 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can watch this video over and over again because my previous relationship made me tap into my masculinity and now in my current relationship, I can’t even get one of the 10 points right. I just hope to get it right this time

  • @Luchisam
    @Luchisam ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My bestie in my imagination......
    I must confess, your videos really are always hitting deep.
    Why do I relate with each of them especially the self-development ones?
    Ever since I found your channel, I just stuck...like now this is my tribe...
    Much Love namesake🤗

  • @IAmTerra-Mazibuko
    @IAmTerra-Mazibuko ปีที่แล้ว +7

    my favourite woman in the world. you are just fantastically perfect for my afternoon after work evening routine. I love you love you love you sis listen. I'm obsessed with you Lucy Benson. Im just waiting for you to write a book that's all my love❤️

  • @plamedi893
    @plamedi893 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    loving the consistency! you're always putting out such great videos.

  • @joseylabelle2991
    @joseylabelle2991 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you Lucy for all the work you do for us 😩💚God bless you

  • @HadizaAtta
    @HadizaAtta ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for these tips Lucy, this is my first time on your channel and I really enjoyed this video. I’m in my late 30s and still striving for my best feminine self.. the only thing iv seen modeled from my mom and sisters is either absolute masculinity (doing so much for love) or doormat femininity (taking anything even abuse for love) and both are different sides of the same coin.. I became hardened because of fear of becoming the examples I saw and opening myself up or being vulnerable always confused me.. it’s been years of healing and I’m still working on myself… thank you for your tips and pov.. You’ve definitely earned a new subscriber ❤🎉

  • @marilynwarbis7224
    @marilynwarbis7224 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So helpful, thank you. I can begin to adjust to my feminine self through just a few of these tips - i.e. move confidently and unapologetically; then, have a purpose; then, learn to be receptive; and lastly, less is more - to relax into life rather than cram it full. These alone will keep me focussed and engaged in living more as a woman is designed to live. Thank you again.

  • @fl33khidsha
    @fl33khidsha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad to see there’s more women out here like me who’s more in tune with their masculine side ! I thought I was alone haha cause I’m always surrounded by women more feminine then in their own ways
    Any ladies think they know why they’re more in tune with their masculine side.? Let’s talk

  • @lisemarieake-danho1313
    @lisemarieake-danho1313 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Lucy for your channel ! What you said about knowing when to receive or give resonated with me deeply. As a woman who has always had to count on myself, it's difficult.
    My journey of self discovery and becoming who I want to be has just started. Thank you for adding value to current life's journey 💕
    P.s I tend not to comment on videos, this feels weird

  • @MarieOladipo
    @MarieOladipo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your Intro got me down. 😍
    Where have you been all my life????
    Softness is a MUST.

  • @Me_and_life
    @Me_and_life ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for all your videos,they’re so educating.I can’t stop looking at your closure parting,the foundation shade you used to line the inner part is too bright for your skin tone,in my eyes sha

  • @ajokenoni3239
    @ajokenoni3239 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You don't have to daaaaaaaaasada, all the time. That got me laughing. It's really cool to calm down sometimes. But don't forget most of our African parents brought us up shouting, but living in London for years now, i had to learn to speak softly and not shout. I also learn to be patient, stay in a queue and manage people irrespective of their attitude. Thanks for the video.

  • @jessicauzonwanne
    @jessicauzonwanne ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This channel just popped up at the right time!!! I was almost falling off and needed this talk ! New subscriber here🙏🏻

  • @ThroughBrookesEyes
    @ThroughBrookesEyes ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much. I love how non judgmental you are. You’re indeed a big sis to me. Thank you for always sharing your story too. They help me a lot.

  • @Uwakk-J
    @Uwakk-J ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much Lucy. I enjoy your video all the time.
    Please can you make a video on female friendships

  • @emmanuellanwafor7630
    @emmanuellanwafor7630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found this difficult i mean the allowing some1 take care of me… am happy you spoke about this

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm ambivalent about this being "soft" movement. What's wrong with being assertive or firm?? Lol

  • @naadulartey5162
    @naadulartey5162 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You put a smile on my face today ❤

  • @iyesomiawoni1446
    @iyesomiawoni1446 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you so much Lucy🥰since I discovered your channel,I’ve been glued to it and I’m always looking forward to seeing your next post.I’ve learned a lot from you.💋

  • @ommiequeen9367
    @ommiequeen9367 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🤩Three Gbosa for your Lucy, you are a babe✨

  • @MhzOlami
    @MhzOlami ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmmmm…phases are phases,They’ll pass!!!Thank you very much Lucy for this piece😌

  • @ennythingelegance
    @ennythingelegance ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently learning to just sit back and allow myself be taken care of. I’m tired of being too independent lol 😌

  • @NatureLove_-fy3fk
    @NatureLove_-fy3fk หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucy is the big sis I always wanted😊

  • @somto1289
    @somto1289 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No 3 and 4😂😂😂😂😂
    It took me a wholllllleeee looottttt to get there😂
    This video is soo funny and satisfying.
    Thanks Lucy

  • @4ngel_cc
    @4ngel_cc ปีที่แล้ว

    you’re so healing lucy, thank you🤍

  • @shannafarrare282
    @shannafarrare282 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is awesome. Just found ur channel and it has given me so much inspiration ❤️

  • @FadhiliFamily2222
    @FadhiliFamily2222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These 10 points are so relatable.

  • @adekanmiomobolanle7310
    @adekanmiomobolanle7310 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for this… it’s worthwhile, I will learn to receive and try to enjoy the feminine part too. ❤

  • @Lizbethefe
    @Lizbethefe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another time well spent on your channel. Thanks Lucy 😊. Lovely print I must say. ❤️

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you say “relax” I felt that lol I enjoyed this ❤

  • @erykaht7731
    @erykaht7731 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this video. Exactly what I needed to hear, every single word❤️

  • @sincerelyels
    @sincerelyels ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg I loooove you. You’ve basically become the big sister I never had. 🥺💕✨

  • @carolynololade4126
    @carolynololade4126 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your top😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
    Did you post pictures on IG? I wish I was still on IG so I’ll go and see it fully. Then I’ll screenshot and do copy copy🙈🙈🙈. Can’t see it fully but I can tell it’s beautiful ❤❤❤ You looking good as always 🥰

  • @SindyAkpolo
    @SindyAkpolo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is spot on valid tips 😊 Thanks for always sharing gems, so insightful ❤❤

  • @bolanlefadakinte
    @bolanlefadakinte ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time jumping on your page and have been watching your videos
    Thanks for this educative and enjoying class

  • @bigkd5528
    @bigkd5528 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Felt like Facetime with the big sister I dreamed of having 😂 #Subscribed #PostNotificationsON I needed this

  • @girlspower6246
    @girlspower6246 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative! Just felt like I've neglected myself trying to please others till now. That self-care hits me differently. Thanks so much for this video. You've got a new subscriber.

  • @loloemoyo3618
    @loloemoyo3618 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're just amazing! Had me in stitches. No one was created to just come here and mop👌Thank you Lucy ❤️💓💕

  • @hernameisch3rry
    @hernameisch3rry 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucy, I love your message and your voice! I listen to you when on the computer at work 😌 thank you for all the lovely advice!

  • @lesedinkhatho
    @lesedinkhatho ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love what you're wearing. It's so gorgeous😍😍

  • @sholabomidelano
    @sholabomidelano ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved the video thank you so much. Too be fair love all your videos they make a lot of sense, they confirm my thoughts at the time your always on point.

  • @verajude
    @verajude ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always learning a lot from your videos! Thanks Lucy 🤭

  • @Sochimaobim.
    @Sochimaobim. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your jewelries draw my attention ,where are they from?

  • @aaliyahscuisine4930
    @aaliyahscuisine4930 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lucyyyyyy
    Thanks so much for this piece ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nachonite867
    @Nachonite867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Small thing but big difference, I find beong softer in appearance is to ditch lashes all together. It makes the eyes look more pleasant to gaze at.

  • @simphiwetiny5677
    @simphiwetiny5677 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so addicted to your channel 🥺❤️

  • @mwansabesa3597
    @mwansabesa3597 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou Lucy ❤️❤️I've really learnt alot from this 😁

  • @suleracheal3512
    @suleracheal3512 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you so much girll 😂❤❤❤❤
    Giving off so much mommy vibes on the last tip
    Thank you so much for always sharing with us
    Have really learnt a lot from you ❤❤❤❤

  • @Xenihauls
    @Xenihauls ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my God You are a treasure of the you-tube. I adore your videos, your wisdom is helpful and ispiring

  • @wendymuns1930
    @wendymuns1930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Point 10 attacked me😭😂, bad thing is you don’t know when you start talking too much 💔
    Thank you for the tips ❤️

  • @ros3m4ryc13
    @ros3m4ryc13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk what in the spiritual but I needed this. Thank you for helping this find me

  • @bossladyskye
    @bossladyskye ปีที่แล้ว

    Yessss this whole video was a WORD! Thank you so much for posting this

  • @susuilu
    @susuilu ปีที่แล้ว

    Love what you said about the train and people needing to see people

  • @lovelynumeka8702
    @lovelynumeka8702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found you and I love you already 😊
    I like your energy. Thank you for this video.

  • @PheNature
    @PheNature ปีที่แล้ว

    It's easy to have confident when ur already pretty u have somewhat of a body versus having neither looks or body that's something u have to build this is a cold hearted world in this day and expensive but I'm all for this video encouragement but we have to be realistic and common here the world does take its toll on ppl confidence

    • @LifeofEterea
      @LifeofEterea ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not easy even when you're pretty. Matter of fact, you might not see the beauty in you if you're not confident.

  • @jesusisable7052
    @jesusisable7052 ปีที่แล้ว

    Desiring to to walk in the spirit of gentleness ❤

  • @est_herlife
    @est_herlife ปีที่แล้ว

    In keeping friends that just make you happy or keeping friends that are "goal getters" but not having that happy vibes most times which is better pls

  • @ashleypugh9032
    @ashleypugh9032 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely love these tips!

  • @chiomaokpala1867
    @chiomaokpala1867 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video. Please can you leave the handle to your hair plug? Always on fleek❤

  • @Tamera-love
    @Tamera-love 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a low key comedian. Lol. Great advice.

  • @ronishiet
    @ronishiet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we take a moment to complement her beautiful top? It is really beautiful, I love the print.

  • @mccnbinnie9840
    @mccnbinnie9840 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tip#10 is a powerful skill to have

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look gorgeous 🤩🤎 I love your content.

  • @ekeminiekpe745
    @ekeminiekpe745 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am not even half this video but I'm loving this video

  • @tamikabarney7589
    @tamikabarney7589 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so appreciate your videos. I have new confidence watching.❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @clublava3214
    @clublava3214 ปีที่แล้ว

    The video I didn’t know I needed until I watched it

  • @PreciousIyeke
    @PreciousIyeke ปีที่แล้ว

    Felt like you were reading my mind! When this notification popped up!

  • @_Blvck_coffee
    @_Blvck_coffee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh how I love her 👉🥺❤️👈, she's looking cute on that top tho😍😍

  • @fakhrazarin6986
    @fakhrazarin6986 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank GOD someone talks about emotional intelligence 😊

  • @Tholaadeloye
    @Tholaadeloye ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video. You just gained a new subscriber 😊

  • @omowunmiolufayo2994
    @omowunmiolufayo2994 ปีที่แล้ว

    how did i just discover you. thank you for this timely content

  • @DrShonTV
    @DrShonTV ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very useful jewels 💎 Thanks beautiful Queen. 🙏🏾

  • @knightryderk8539
    @knightryderk8539 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hair looks cute just go a little darker with concealer

  • @ibukunakanni6420
    @ibukunakanni6420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved and learnt more things, short and simple talk but mighty, that was a good one , Thank you for always trying to make a Queens .

  • @elizabethsellu3758
    @elizabethsellu3758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this❤ your videos have helped me a lot..

  • @mimiray
    @mimiray ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing Lucy
    I love Ur dress and jewelry.

  • @mercyadoda4683
    @mercyadoda4683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful content, learnt alot from it so thank you and yes I am subscribing.
    Please May I ask if you dont mind, where did you get your wig from?

  • @vnosike
    @vnosike ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video very gratifying and wise ❤️🙏🏾

  • @Jennifermiracle7
    @Jennifermiracle7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart Lucy you just Gain a new subscriber today👋🧡I enjoyed every bit

  • @delmagomes5015
    @delmagomes5015 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahaha the intro got me lol . Thanks my good big virtual sis 😍😍

  • @Vivianemenike
    @Vivianemenike ปีที่แล้ว

    I always look out for your videos Lucy!❤️❤️

  • @amarachianih1784
    @amarachianih1784 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asides the rich content, I love your hair gurl!!!!!!!🥰

  • @dorathyemenike1746
    @dorathyemenike1746 ปีที่แล้ว

    You TH-cam videos inspire me a lot ❤

  • @beautifullybenny
    @beautifullybenny ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed to watch this video ❤️❤️
    Your video has really helped me a lot
    Thank you so much❤

  • @Lolymais
    @Lolymais ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so beautiful, love the outfit and thank you for such helpful videos. ❤️

  • @nooro.s1803
    @nooro.s1803 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re like an older sis to me i love this and you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jemimahosayi6594
    @jemimahosayi6594 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😊😊 I’ve really learnt a-lot, god bless you

  • @carineakebeawah5330
    @carineakebeawah5330 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Lucy

  • @mrsbee4230
    @mrsbee4230 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Lucy💯.
    Lovely prints and overall look🥰

  • @2eyeluvmac2
    @2eyeluvmac2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video. Thank you.

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another amazing video thank you 🎉