Knowing How to Tell a Good Story Is Like Having Mind Control | Alan Alda | Big Think

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  • @PsoriasisChannel
    @PsoriasisChannel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Telling stories changes everything. Thank you Mr. Alda.

    • @mikew1332
      @mikew1332 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wish more of the commenters understood that that was his point. Thank you, Psoriasis.

  • @rickkwitkoski1976
    @rickkwitkoski1976 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Good STORY! From the "Life of Pi", near the end of the movie the narrator asks, "Which story did you like better? The one with the tiger or the one without?" "With the tiger" is the answer. Of course, everyone knew that version wasn't true, but it definitely WAS the better story. Overcoming adversity.

    • @kookiecastro8452
      @kookiecastro8452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *so its just imagination? the one with the tiger?*

    • @poojashree5838
      @poojashree5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Are you sure that was the real story, from what i understood the insurance company didn't believe that he could have sailed and survived all those days alone with a tiger and that the tiger left him in an island. The insurance won't pay the claims if they can't believe the story, that is when he simplifies his story to make it more believable, and narrates a different version of it without a tiger.

    • @kookiecastro8452
      @kookiecastro8452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@poojashree5838 insurance company??? i dont get iit

    • @guiguspi
      @guiguspi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kookiecastro8452 I understood that the animal story was just a way to cope with the horrible real story (each animal was acctually a person). The real story involved two(?) instances of murder and cannibalism, one of them to his own mother.

    • @kookiecastro8452
      @kookiecastro8452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guiguspi whats the horrible story?

  • @Thomasfboyle
    @Thomasfboyle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    This guy just told us a story about telling stories

    • @mikew1332
      @mikew1332 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes he did. And the lesson is worth it.

    • @jonathangibson9098
      @jonathangibson9098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Meta!

    • @HeavyTOVids
      @HeavyTOVids 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jonathan Gibson Metal! Fucking metal! METAAAAAAAL!!!!!!!

    • @cadenrolland5250
      @cadenrolland5250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So you're telling me, that he is telling me, how to tell others a story, by telling me a story? Deep. ;-)

    • @jeffersonsantiago5567
      @jeffersonsantiago5567 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yo Dawg

  • @hermask815
    @hermask815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    A good story doesn’t have to be true, it just have to be told in an interesting way.

    • @Monkey80llx
      @Monkey80llx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Just a shame that a lot of people try to convince people that their bullshit is true!

    • @BucketOfMarbles
      @BucketOfMarbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A good story is always true, but the truth might not be literal.

    • @billielith
      @billielith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ummm, that is not what Mr Alda said, but every lawyer will agree with you, I guess, lol.

    • @HernanHH95
      @HernanHH95 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also it doesn’t have to be interesting

    • @Devil-gamin
      @Devil-gamin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BucketOfMarbles is

  • @oz9213
    @oz9213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    [carries glass of water nonchalantly across the stage, swishing it back and forth, slams cup on the table spilling water everywhere]
    "I've never liked the people in my village"

    • @jackkraken3888
      @jackkraken3888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Villagers:"Well we didn't like you either. "

    • @ristoshikongo7730
      @ristoshikongo7730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jackkraken3888
      20 July 2021
      Great story both of you.

    • @davidottley2739
      @davidottley2739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A big "thank you" to everybody who came out for this performance. Don't forget to tip your waitstaff!

    • @souldissolve
      @souldissolve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Reading this I finally understand why it takes a village to raise a child.
      And if the village fails to do so, the child will eventually burn down the village to feel it's warmth.

    • @Dogen70
      @Dogen70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent

  • @Wolf88888
    @Wolf88888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Beautiful! The glass of water analogy captures it all--a whole course on dramatic narrative in a single, simple metaphor. Perfect!

  • @jolieholliman-douge
    @jolieholliman-douge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love coming back to this video! Sometimes, I unfortunately forget how much of a gift Alan Alda is to us all. His sharing/lessons are always relatable, applicable, and inspiring. Thank you, Big Think.

  • @MotorDetroit
    @MotorDetroit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is great advice! As an engineer I’m compelled and training to speak in dry bullet point facts and charts. That’s valuable information! But you make a very compelling case to speak in narrative to a degree to keep attention. I cannot argue and will try to do so :)

  • @AWildBard
    @AWildBard 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Alan Alda tells a story about how important storytelling is. Brilliant

  • @johns9350
    @johns9350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There's a lot of wisdom here. Life's a journey full of obstacles. We're story tellers. To get people to listen, tell an engaging story. They'll remember.

  • @zinqtable1092
    @zinqtable1092 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes! Thank you Alan Alda, I finally have a verbal translation for why quite often the how is more interesting than the what.

  • @englishwithviviana
    @englishwithviviana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Alan Alda, you're one of the most fascinating people on this planet. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us.

  • @akselk12
    @akselk12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Such a clear old mind! His speech is so smooth, relaxing, and his brilliance is shinning. (i used image am i ;)

    • @TommyShlong
      @TommyShlong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He has a great podcast! Also if you never saw MASH you need to, he's great I it

  • @mellow-jello
    @mellow-jello 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks, Alan. It reminds me of the story of the blind man on a blind horse. When challenged by his pals of telling the most scariest story, the main character conjured the tale of a blind man that was riding his blind horse back to his village, only to stray away the path towards a cliff face, and meet a horrible death once falling over. He stop the story as the half step at the edge was told, beating his friends in their contest of storytelling.

  • @julianlorenzon2833
    @julianlorenzon2833 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is positively wonderful, i wish i could like it twice!

  • @LearnThaiRapidMethod
    @LearnThaiRapidMethod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fermat’s Last Theorem
    A book about how Andrew Wiles discovered the theorem as a child and spent the next 40 years solving it! And along the way, we learn fascinating insights about mathematics and how discoveries are made…

  • @thv.taecrew
    @thv.taecrew ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how all of his videos seem and sound like it's a conversation... .and as though he himself is geniunely invested and interested contently in it. not an assertive, ordered talk or smth like that... idk how to explain, it just feels that way..

  • @RealBillP
    @RealBillP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    M.A.S.H. was the greatest story about a true story! Thanks Alan for the laughter and reality!

  • @starpravesh
    @starpravesh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's not the goal that's important, but the journey.

  • @empathylessons2267
    @empathylessons2267 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I could learn a thing or ten from this

  • @CogentConsult
    @CogentConsult 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alan, you are an excellent communicator. I was riveted to every word you said…especially the first three.

  • @robg6965
    @robg6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Alan Alda. You gave me a spark of an idea for my short story I wrote several years ago that lacked something to make it more engaging. It has been languishing for some time until just now!!

  • @DanielBrown-cc4hw
    @DanielBrown-cc4hw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for creating this!!!!

  • @cunningman
    @cunningman 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wise and magnificent, thank you Mr. Alda. And Big Think!

  • @pallaviborkar711
    @pallaviborkar711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I did not know Alan Alda was doing such good work. I remember him clearly form the M.A.S.H, and have been a fan of his comic timing & dialogue delivery since then. What a wonderful artist. 👏😍

  • @85bezzer
    @85bezzer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice! There isn't a story I have ever connected with that did not have an obstacle or a struggle.

  • @abeechr
    @abeechr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alan Alda is an American treasure.

  • @TrickyD
    @TrickyD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stories are the 1st tool to teach aka pass on important information.

  • @KryzMasta
    @KryzMasta 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He's of course totally right. Because a) he's right, and b) he's Alan Alda. So we've concluded he's right. However, now everyone has seen this, everyone is doing this. So American Idol, America's Got Talent, and all those other godforsaken shows have people come in who are not really talented, but have such a tear-jerking story you're guilt-tripped into voting for them. I mean, what kind of human being are you if you don't vote for the kid with the chicken who overcame leukemia? Still, there's no denying his point. I wish we could all weed through the bullshit some more and find the actual valuable stuff (both the hard facts AND the story that makes it great).

    • @ram29jackson
      @ram29jackson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      assuming the tear jerk stories are true to begin with

  • @TheRustyLM
    @TheRustyLM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVED him in Crimes & Misdemeanors!

  • @sp277
    @sp277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great ! Thank you very much.-

  • @95atnoon60
    @95atnoon60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Instantly applicable and powerful!

  • @SaleemRanaAuthor
    @SaleemRanaAuthor 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fascinating. A story about a story, an explanation about the value of a story, a dramatic onstage demonstration of how to set up a story, and a practical example of how to apply a story to achieve a goal.

  • @binkz5987
    @binkz5987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bravissimo ...Mr Alda nailed it 👌

  • @BusinessPicks
    @BusinessPicks ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! ❤

  • @Happydeath1712
    @Happydeath1712 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    But, Wait, How did he get to Toleto?

    • @MarkShaneHansen
      @MarkShaneHansen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Klinger probably gave him directions. After all, *Toledo is Klinger's hometown, so he should be able to help.

    • @mattramsdell3173
      @mattramsdell3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      why would anyone want to go to toledo?

  • @tommypaint6734
    @tommypaint6734 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alan Alda is a good dude!

  • @abhattach21
    @abhattach21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Summary: Lead with an engaging story before sharing the technical stuff or instead of giving a short, boring answer with no human value.

    • @kookiecastro8452
      @kookiecastro8452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i dont get it, why the title is like that? so the good story is better if its toxic, than the plain Great Information

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mastering the art of story telling is a beautiful thing!
    And it would boost my TH-cam channel a lot. I wish I'd be better at it!

    • @shinios4487
      @shinios4487 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      great videos but you might wanna turn the volume up.

  • @davidstevenson5830
    @davidstevenson5830 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hawkeye always was quite bright.

    • @MarkShaneHansen
      @MarkShaneHansen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't normally pay much attention to the names of speakers, so thanks for pointing this out. Despite finishing season 11 of M*A*S*H last week, I didn't recognize him. I know it's an old show, but going from that to this in a week messes with my head :).

  • @LorettaBangBang
    @LorettaBangBang ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!

  • @domokato
    @domokato 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A good story has obstacles. A better story shows the character or relationship transformation that results from those obstacles.

  • @astrobros4196
    @astrobros4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Science itself is nested inside a story, the story of alchemy, the story of rebellion, the story of the savior. It would do many scientists a service to recall that.. so much philosophical confusion in the scientific community.

  • @cherilynnfisher5658
    @cherilynnfisher5658 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true! Did I ever tell you my story about "the BIG one that got away. . ."? lol

  • @stevenjbeto
    @stevenjbeto 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all, Mr. Alda, it is a great joy to see your face and to listen to the sound of the voice that brought such pleasure to millions in so many venues.
    Secondly, sir, is not the application of scientific method and the creation of story an act of free will? I take offense to others who marginalize what seems so fundamental to human nature.
    Third, in my working years, I was a terrible employee and suffered for having been outspoken, though privately with a supervisor. A better, less direct story might have been a better approach.
    And finally, I puttz with chisel and wood, and pen and paper. I have mastered neither, but your insights seem applicable to both of my hobbies and heightens my curiosity.
    Your gifts seem unending, Mr. Alada.

  • @maryseeker7590
    @maryseeker7590 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On my way to Toledo my appendix burstand a whole bunch of Northerners from both New York and Michigan helped me because I'm from California true story

  • @tejuswadbudhe7909
    @tejuswadbudhe7909 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @brandonbohr.7301
    @brandonbohr.7301 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    YEAH with your videos I am learning english

  •  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing videos.. content.. knowledge.. thanks Big Think! we need more like u ;)

  • @StrasnusDude
    @StrasnusDude 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy just told me a great story

  • @IfIOnlyKnew2
    @IfIOnlyKnew2 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic!

  • @cjua2803
    @cjua2803 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    its funny how many new break throughs or everyday objects are created by accidents

  • @gorflunk
    @gorflunk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Franz Kafka - An Imperial Message
    There are parallels between what Mr. Alda is telling us and what Kafka described.

  • @TrishTruitt
    @TrishTruitt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great lesson in human psychology and very applicable for any type of marketing. Thanks!

  • @yoursubconscious
    @yoursubconscious 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like the water thing

  • @whatthefunction9140
    @whatthefunction9140 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The obstacle is the way

  • @ad9366
    @ad9366 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting

  • @rayyanghayas1243
    @rayyanghayas1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coool 👍👍

  • @lannguyen-pu1db
    @lannguyen-pu1db 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could this be applied to the stories in books like the bibul and such and the peepul who believe them?

  • @chair6180
    @chair6180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, my live has gotten more advanced just by listening to a famous interesting experienced fellow human being's wise words. Awesome!

  • @DrMOB-kt7tt
    @DrMOB-kt7tt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's true

  • @realityisfake
    @realityisfake 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alan Alda has such a weird fascination with Toledo.

  • @freddymeisner
    @freddymeisner 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounded like Optimus prime was turning back into a truck in the background every time he started talking

  • @BabaYaraMUFC
    @BabaYaraMUFC 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    GrandDad has the coolest hair in the whole world!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @mikew1332
      @mikew1332 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      He earned it.

  • @AnujiAnuj
    @AnujiAnuj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Story-ception.

  • @swaggyp1219
    @swaggyp1219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video: how to tell compelling stories.
    TH-cam: Beard club Ad!!

  • @AK-hz4li
    @AK-hz4li 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do we distinguish between fictional obstacle and real obstacle.. I guess there we will need to have expertise of given topic.. it is true that common people are attracted towards good stories but it is also true common people are generally misled into wrong decisions..be it business (share market, consumer market, etc) or political or motivational market..everywhere.. expertise has it's own importance..its like "dont bullshit the bullshitter"🙂

  • @notme5249
    @notme5249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Couse is more sticky? For media of sure. How body can follow mind...screw senses isn't means health?

  • @PeregrineMoss
    @PeregrineMoss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If the glass was two-dimensional, and the water looked like it was floating in air, imagine the gasps then.

  • @alejandrosandoval9915
    @alejandrosandoval9915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A story is like a sandwich, the middle is what gets in between the two ends and which ultimately makes the bite so delicious.

  • @ثغامةعبدالله
    @ثغامةعبدالله 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was funny mister Alan

  • @absw6129
    @absw6129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pour the water out. walk up to the mic. look at audience. "Some men just want to see the world burn"

    • @d0gsurfer
      @d0gsurfer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Drinks the water; sprints to deliver the life saving glass for the village’s new well.

    • @bobstone3386
      @bobstone3386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Adrian Bräysy I like the way you think.

  • @marcelchagnon4960
    @marcelchagnon4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life is great awful great

  • @cxa011500
    @cxa011500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sounds great, but it's hard to tell stories when you have a boring life. My entire life feels like that empty glass. It seems like the essential ingredients you need are a destination and goals that you have reached, but I feel like a lack both. I haven't gotten anywhere that I want and I keep going down paths that lead nowhere. :/

    • @EzeICE
      @EzeICE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      cxa011500 my friend the obstacles IS THE STORY. Not the place you want to go. It's always the process. And everyone has a story.

    • @ArchitectingHappiness
      @ArchitectingHappiness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MrGriff305. What a jackass comment to make. Smh

  • @SamcroNomad
    @SamcroNomad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    in the begining of the video i was like, "mehh", by the end, i was like "Thank you Sir! "

  • @freedo333
    @freedo333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If Alan Alda told me to carry a full glass of water across the stage, before i started id carefully drink some of the water outta the glass- without dribbling a drop- to make it easy to carry

  • @ChristianConstructionWorker
    @ChristianConstructionWorker 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Hawkeye

  • @greenanubis
    @greenanubis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sales basics: make them feel the bullshit.

  • @cerebrumexcrement
    @cerebrumexcrement 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No wonder so many discoveries were by "accident"

  • @flagelus01
    @flagelus01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How he got in Toledo? I need to know!

  • @jasonhatt4295
    @jasonhatt4295 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hawkeye!

  • @MrJDOaktown
    @MrJDOaktown 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I the only one the finds that, no matter how good the story is, people don't know how to listen anymore?

  • @Hypurman1
    @Hypurman1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you *discover* thin glass, or *produce* thin glass?

  • @amanvijayjindal5742
    @amanvijayjindal5742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glass an atom layer thick is takeaway

  • @lazyidealist
    @lazyidealist 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the like button?

  • @dimitrisanchez2438
    @dimitrisanchez2438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "The Life of "Si" "

  • @marcelchagnon4960
    @marcelchagnon4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God story. Our real

  • @randyzeitman1354
    @randyzeitman1354 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Existential before conventional.

  • @karankaran-us9vm
    @karankaran-us9vm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    a simpler verson woulve been intresting...

  • @gregmurray4169
    @gregmurray4169 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People really need to summarize a 4:56 video, lol?

  • @acooldryplace00
    @acooldryplace00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hot lips Houlihan didn't give this man a chance...until he told a story

  • @apepeterpan
    @apepeterpan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Barry Allen.

  • @alirezarezaei8427
    @alirezarezaei8427 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you know what is the problem .
    some pepol thinking knowing too much

  • @viorel1852
    @viorel1852 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why does he sound so much like Richard Feynman?

  • @neld7721
    @neld7721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No wonder there was the virgin birth introduced in the Jesus story, it was not to indicate the birth was supernatural but it was used to indicate the person was extraordinary.

  • @marcelchagnon4960
    @marcelchagnon4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That not fair

  • @nancymohass4891
    @nancymohass4891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today human being have one goal, that goal is to become "human " again and there are many obstacles that has been created by greed ! This is our interesting ! Story ,believe it or not!

  • @Government_Username
    @Government_Username 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So basically "The devil is in the details."

  • @YouKnowMeFromSchool
    @YouKnowMeFromSchool 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I though the FBI and Reddington couldnt disarm the bomb?

  • @professorJorge11
    @professorJorge11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Imagine if my name was George Santos